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GlansInYourHands/r/askTRP20/10/15 03:37 PM
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GlansInYourHands/r/askTRP02/12/15 05:41 PM
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If your idea of a functional family is two people who hate and cheat on one another but stay together for the kid(s), you clearly lack the experience to offer any advice on the subject.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/16 07:24 PM
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Good advice, thanks. Just read your post on the topic.
/r/askTRP02/12/15 06:27 PM
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Oh yeah. Rollo is my favorite manosphere blogger.
/r/askTRP02/12/15 06:00 PM
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Precisely, which is why I didn't say we were exclusive (that and I didn't want to lie). Just looking for other gems to throw their way when this questions pops back up.
/r/askTRP02/12/15 05:57 PM
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it sounds like you may have been trying too hard to be vague. I agree. There's a difference between being mysterious by deflecting questions and flat out refusing to answer them. Going by your account of the conversation, it seems like you may have come across as hiding something and came off as socially autistic rather than piecemealing information to keep an air of mystery.
/r/askTRP02/12/15 05:54 PM
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You asked for a source assuming there was no empirical data to back the statement up. I can't force you to believe something you obviously don't want to and you can always argue statistical data. I don't expect you to relent but I bet you had those points holstered before I even responded.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 06:57 PM
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...women who have more than one intimate premarital relationship have an increased risk of marital dissolution Also, women with higher n counts are the ones who seem to love easiest and hardest. Then why are they unable to keep those men around whom they love so easily and burn so passionately for? Why do they love easily and fiercely repeatedly? Seems your proving my point rather than discounting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 06:49 PM
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It's the SAME FUCKING THING No, it isn't. You are comparing the lock to the key. Why would you hate someone who desires a relationship after being a slut? A RP man doesn't "hate" this type of woman, just wouldn't consider for a wife. A woman's ability to pair bond decreases as her N-count rises, making her promiscuous past a bad bet for an LTR or marriage. Conversely, women are attracted to men who are pre-selected, ie has successfully seduced many women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 05:51 PM
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Challenge accepted.
/r/askTRP18/11/15 03:07 PM
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"Had a feeling we'd match" is a good generic one I like to use on Tinder. Primes the hamster and they immediately want to know what you meant.
/r/askTRP18/11/15 02:59 PM
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The best quote I ever read regarding Crossfit: "Crossfit is for hot chicks. If you want to be a hot chick, do Crossfit." If you're looking for something competitive and physical, join a martial arts or boxing gym. Like a man.
/r/askTRP09/11/15 08:32 PM
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because she has disabilities and is unable to work and thereby needs a man to support her She failed to realize she was further proving your point.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/15 06:29 PM
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Men without Trap muscles are interpreted as shorter in blind tests. Do your shoulder shrugs, Gents.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/15 03:08 PM
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Some women are attracted to kindness, loving gestures, honesty and sensitivity. Only from men they are already biologically attracted to (read: Alphas) and only in measured doses. If a man displays too many of the traits you listed and not enough masculinity, attraction wains and that man is then viewed as a Beta and useful only for provisioning.
/r/askTRP05/11/15 08:37 PM
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to be dependent on one person has never boded well on both genders. Historically, neither sex has trusted the other very much. Thanks to third-wave feminism, they have never trusted each other less.
/r/askTRP05/11/15 08:33 PM
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1) she was exactly what my poor battered ego needed right now Wrong. TRP and the gym is what you need right now.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 05:04 PM
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I am trying to look for an LTR right now too. You should never be looking for an LTR, simply open to the idea of one. If you put the relationship before the girl, you run the risk of not properly vetting a prospective LTR and/or ignoring red flags.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 06:17 PM
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That's why it's called spinning plates. Eventually they fall, break, and have to be replaced. Never stop approaching and always be closing in order to keep an ever changing soft harem. Read Rollo's Plate Theories: http://therationalmale.com/2011/08/19/plate-theory-2/
/r/askTRP04/11/15 06:13 PM
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I second what is said above. It sounds like you were dating a low SMV guy, and quite a loser at that. My advice is to lurk on the RPW sub as they can offer insight from the female perspective. One of their main tenants is to provide guidelines on the Captain/First Mate dynamic, which will come in handy once you find a more masculine man. Good luck.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 05:27 PM
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Neither. If you hard nexted her like you say did in the OP (but are contradicting here), then you don't respond at all. Delete her contact from your phone, block on all social media, forget her forever and go to the gym.
/r/askTRP03/11/15 10:07 PM
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You're young enough to wait until Vasalgel is approved/commonplace. https://www.parsemusfoundation.org/projects/vasalgel/
/r/askTRP03/11/15 05:29 PM
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I agree. There's a difference between "what do you have on tap?" and "what IPA's do you have on tap?"
/r/TheRedPill03/11/15 01:37 PM
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There's a big difference between a RPW who rejects feminism and a lazy girlfriend who has always had daddy and/or a BB pay her way. Not saying you are, but be careful not to conflate the two.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/15 06:42 PM
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even Chad Another reason why it's better to be a RP man versus a natural alpha IMO.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/15 03:47 PM
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Probably because it's all Eat-Pray-Love-esque fan-fiction. I've read enough of these "I've sampled all these different types of men... you should too!" articles to know that they are all completely made up, each one less imaginative than the last.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 06:45 PM
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No, only true for females. Very minimal risk to a man's long-term reproductive health.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 05:21 PM
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Jesus. That is a broken person. As is the father.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 04:08 PM
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I think the biggest takeaway is how there are still thirsty betas in the comments saying "where have you been all my life?" and "thank you for existing." The lesson is to have some self respect and never allow yourself to be this fucking desperate, especially for a girl who would fuck any guy with pants on.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 03:54 PM
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Like she was always somewhere else during it. Probably reminiscing how that racist father of hers used to finger blast her before dropping her off at school. Chicks like this are poster-children for sexually abused adolescents.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 03:48 PM
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Off topic as well, but I remember reading somewhere that the grain they grew in Salem/New England was particularly susceptible to a fungus that when consumed, had hallucinogenic properties. The theory is that some of the women who had eaten the tainted wheat experienced "visions" and mistakenly thought they had become possessed and were subsequently labeled as witches. EDIT: Found a link. Apparently it was ergot that infected the rye: http://www.neatorama.com/2012/10/15/Salem-Witch-Trials-The-Fu…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 12:05 PM
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In my experience "we need to talk" is never followed by a casual chat with a woman, but some melodramatic argument over an non-issue they've been mulling over all day. They are attempting to pull you into their frame. The first time any girl says this to me, I immediately let them know it's a pet-peeve of mine and to never preface a conversation with that statement. I find it anxiety-inducing and disrespectful, so I squash it and set that boundary at the very first instance.
/r/askTRP27/10/15 08:30 PM
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Go the fuck back to r/hamsters
/r/askTRP27/10/15 03:06 PM
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The only way to get laid more is if women start hitting on you in front of your wife. Not necessarily. There are ways, some subtle and some not-so-subtle, to instill dread game in a marriage. For instance: "forgetting" your wedding band at home when you leave, befriending or talking about an attractive woman at work, leave the house without offering an explanation of where you're going/who you're meeting... Even improving your SMV is often enough to kickstart a dead bedroom, and that's where lif…
/r/askTRP27/10/15 03:01 PM
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Russell Brand points this out in his auto-biography, My Booky Wook: “A personality for the incredibly beautiful can be a pointless cargo.” If you read the book you can easily tell he's referring to incredibly beautiful women, especially considering he's a self-titled sex addict. I assume his editor/publisher made him change the wording to avoid a feminist uproar.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 11:44 AM
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"You know, there's a million fine looking women in the world, dude. But they don't all bring you lasagna at work. Most of 'em just cheat on you." Clerks is a pretty RP movie.
/r/askTRP26/10/15 07:26 PM
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Just remind yourself that no man exclusively owns a pussy no matter what she has promised. You are borrowing a used item. Enjoy what you've got while you've got it, and as long as she's not trying to take all your money, cause drama with your family, or fuck up your career, then you have some potential to work with. Perfect interpretation of "She's not yours, it's just your turn."
/r/askTRP26/10/15 07:21 PM
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Good example of how holding frame and remaining stoic applies to situations in life other than interpersonal relationships.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/15 12:24 AM
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Not to mention it sets a legal precedent.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/15 12:18 AM
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That sounds awesome. Do you have a link or any other details that could help me dig it up on the interwebs?
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 06:10 PM
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I will take half of what you own, and 3/4's of your income for the next X years until they turn 18 That's where the phrase "cheaper to keep her" came from.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 12:57 PM
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If she was giving you "fuck me" eyes say something like "You can't look at me like that and not expect me to come over here and talk to you"
/r/askTRP22/10/15 07:50 PM
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Exactly. A girl can have a low N-count but all it takes is one Chad to make her an alpha widow and that baggage follows them around the rest of their lives.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/15 06:58 PM
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Something to keep in mind when day-game approaching is that women want to be approached by high SMV men. They want some good looking, well-spoken, charming Chad to open them up and sweep them off their feet. Her telling her friends and family "We met while both shopping for a Mother's Day card" is much more romantic than "We met on OKCupid."
/r/askTRP22/10/15 02:12 PM
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If I can't find anything specific to comment on in her pics or bio, I'll go with something generic. "I had a feeling we'd match" has worked well in these situations. Gets the hamster primed. Then take the convo whichever direction you want to from there.
/r/askTRP20/10/15 09:25 PM
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This is why I posted. Thank you for taking the time to dissect and evaluate the dialogue. Frame control is something I am very actively working on and your comments shed light on the areas that need improvement.
/r/askTRP20/10/15 09:00 PM
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I'd be happy to PM you screenshots. Just ask politely.
/r/askTRP20/10/15 06:14 PM
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Good advice and a good example. Thank you.
/r/askTRP20/10/15 06:13 PM
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I think this is partly because showing that you are looking for a date tonight comes off as overly eager/desperate. Second, women have fickle minds, and the whole game is basically getting them to not find any good reason to not get a drink with you. If you are going for a date in the same night, chances are she already has some plans, even if it's just laundry night, and it will be much easier for her to say no. If it's a day or two out, it's much more likely she doesn't have any plans worth tu…
/r/askTRP20/10/15 03:50 PM
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Strippers enjoy sex as well and she must've seen something in you that gave her the ol' gina tingles. I've dated/plated more than one when I lived in Vegas and my ex-wife danced at the Rhino for about 3 years of our relationship. Enjoy the ride but don't move beyond a physical relationship.
/r/askTRP20/09/15 10:01 PM
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