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| 1 | To a woman there’s such thing as a man that’s too short but there’s no such thing as a man that’s too tallHmm, well again, you can find it if you look for it and as someone who has experienced it I know it to happen. Though, I’m sure if I wanted to degrade myself some I could have slept with those men if I pushed it. Are you including that in the concept of men not having genetic preferences and deal breakers? If you’re saying that then we would agree. I think most of those men would have slept with me to get their rocks off if I was an easy, available option. In fact, there was a men who told me he… | /r/MensRights | 26/06/24 01:10 AM |
| 1 | To a woman there’s such thing as a man that’s too short but there’s no such thing as a man that’s too tallI’m a black woman who has been told to my face that the men in question prefer white/other. I’ve also experienced in the opposite direction being called smart/pretty/well spoken ‘for a black woman’ from the other race men who would date me. I was very uncomfortable but in the end 🤷🏽♀️ I don’t want anyone who doesn’t want me. However, I do have to ask where you’re from? Race loyalty or whatever we’re calling it now is very normal at least in the United States especially the further south you go.… | /r/MensRights | 25/06/24 07:23 PM |
| 1 | To a woman there’s such thing as a man that’s too short but there’s no such thing as a man that’s too tallAny above 6”3 is pushing it for me, meaning too much. My preferred range is 5”8 to 6”3 with some variance allowed. Most women don’t NEED taller men but it is a preference. We tend to WANT taller men which means we will be more interested in them. Such is life. Everyone is allowed their preferences, only the undesirable seem to struggle with this. I’m a black woman which in my experience limits the dating pool for me. I don’t really care nor do I care to ask why or convince men who don’t prefer b… | /r/MensRights | 26/08/23 11:51 PM |
| 2 | Reminder that if you need to get a paternity test for a child of a woman you are still in a relationship with, do it privately.I respect your point of view. As I said, going forward I hope that you and others present this as a deal breaker while dating. Will cut the bs further down the line. My opinion might be different depending on the man, and if I knew this was such a source of stress from him before he knew me to mark me with a scarlet letter. Then it’s presented as a values thing and not a potential pointed finger. Some women will walk away, but you should want that. | /r/MensRights | 04/04/23 09:50 PM |
| 23 | Dear women reading this: you're not competing against other women.Personally, I don’t find this bad at all. I think people have to bring value in order to…bring value into our lives. People come with baggage, in some way it has to be worth it. That’s down to each of us as an individual to decide. I think solitude is a valid choice. Currently, I am choosing solitude. Haven’t met anyone awesome enough to me, to shake that up. | /r/MensRights | 01/04/23 06:50 PM |
| 2 | Reminder that if you need to get a paternity test for a child of a woman you are still in a relationship with, do it privately.Read the entire comment. I said no more than yours does. I think yours doesn’t either. Do you have a wife? Is she pregnant? If no, we’re both speaking on hypotheticals. | /r/MensRights | 31/03/23 11:54 PM |
| 2 | Reminder that if you need to get a paternity test for a child of a woman you are still in a relationship with, do it privately.No more than yours does. There are a lot of things we don’t do/plan to do but we still have an opinion on. For example, a lot of people these days talk about how university is terrible. However, they never went not plan to go. An opinion. They are like ass holes, everyone has them and all of them can be called into question. | /r/MensRights | 31/03/23 11:31 PM |
| 2 | Reminder that if you need to get a paternity test for a child of a woman you are still in a relationship with, do it privately.Yeah I don’t plan to marry and I don’t want kids, these sorts of posts just add to my “nope” list lol. Too much drama. | /r/MensRights | 31/03/23 11:15 PM |
| 1 | The word "Incel" should never be used as an insultThat actually is my ideal? How is that an issue? I think it’s better to put yourself in the best space and if the right person comes along, great, if not you’re not just sitting still and crying about it. He was talking about how men are conditioned to make women and being a provider their only aspiration. I think it should be different because women are not biologically nor socially inclined to do the same. I don’t care what men do with themselves, I just hope they’re fulfilled doing it. I’d ra… | /r/MensRights | 29/03/23 02:57 AM |
| 1 | The word "Incel" should never be used as an insultWhat are you talking about? I’m talking about being happy for and with yourself. I’m not talking about relationships at all. My comment was about self fulfillment, but thank you twisting my words to fit whatever narrative you have about women. | /r/MensRights | 29/03/23 02:53 AM |
| 2 | The word "Incel" should never be used as an insultNo, I was dead ass serious lol. Single mothers are the least of you guys’ issue in my opinion. Let’s say male birth control becomes a thing in the very near future (fingers crossed) I would expect the single mother rate to drop exponentially, however that still wouldn’t scratch the surface of issues men face in the real world. In my community, most fathers don’t pay child support so they live like single men…from where I stand it’s not an issue to them. But, then again my community is not all of… | /r/MensRights | 28/03/23 04:36 PM |
| 3 | The word "Incel" should never be used as an insultThe birth rate is plummeting, meaning less single mothers. Who will you guys blame for your issues then? | /r/MensRights | 28/03/23 02:31 PM |
| 1 | The word "Incel" should never be used as an insultThey don’t get sex because for whatever reason they’re not attractive to women. They’re not attractive and have bad attitudes. Two strikes you’re out. | /r/MensRights | 28/03/23 02:27 PM |
| 1 | The word "Incel" should never be used as an insultWhy can’t men live for themselves? I suggest all try it, men and women. Do what makes you happy. I couldn’t imagine tying my entire life value to another human being. | /r/MensRights | 28/03/23 02:26 PM |
| 2 | The word "Incel" should never be used as an insultThey’re really trying to make this SINK thing happen, when most people are “SINKS” up to a certain age or considered losers. It’s not equivocal to incel where most ppl at least in America, lose their virginities as teenagers. If you’re not a SINK by mid twenties your dating value is lower than those who are. | /r/MensRights | 28/03/23 02:24 PM |
| 1 | Men using artificial intelligence to simulate "dating" is actually very sad and it's a symptom of a social disease.I feel like this is the case more and more for people in general. Yeah we hear about men struggling to date, they’re their own group, but there is also a very large group of men who don’t bother dating or with relationships at all. Same for women. Most of my girlfriends/female family members and such who are single aren’t looking. Everyone’s tied up in life and don’t seem as interested, especially since relationships, no matter what kind, usually bring more issues. They can be great, but the emo… | /r/MensRights | 28/03/23 02:10 PM |
| 1 | Men using artificial intelligence to simulate "dating" is actually very sad and it's a symptom of a social disease.True on the snuggling thing. I don’t think I’ve ever in my life felt “touch starved.” I live alone and away from family now, so hugs are less and even now…. I couldn’t imagine paying someone to snuggle me. Men and women truly are very different | /r/MensRights | 28/03/23 02:06 PM |
| 2 | It seems to me that the ONLY thing we can control as men is our own behavior. How difficult would it be to implement societal changes that would discourage all of the white knights and simps from enabling and empowering the rampant misandry and anti-male attitude currently dominating our culture?They didn’t say most people are coupled in America, they said most couples are regular…meaning that of the people who are coupled they are average. | /r/MensRights | 28/03/23 01:58 PM |
| 2 | Boyfriend/Girlfriend/Chris BrownFrom what I’ve seen, men like hoes…until they realize that hoes won’t stop being hoes for them. | /r/MensRights | 28/03/23 01:48 PM |
| 1 | Boyfriend/Girlfriend/Chris BrownMaybe she just doesn’t like YOUR music lol. I love Edgar Allen Poe, but hated the poetry of a guy I started seeing. I appreciate the gesture when he’d write something for me, but overall the poems were mid af. | /r/MensRights | 28/03/23 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Boyfriend/Girlfriend/Chris BrownHe was dating a woman who went to a Fistopher Brown concert…seems to me like water found its own level. Both are most likely not people decent individuals would like to be around. | /r/MensRights | 28/03/23 01:45 PM |
| 1 | A 'Feminist spring' - "dump your boyfriend".Seems like a play on the joke that fall is when you search for a partner to be with for the holiday season, and spring is where you somehow end up single again to party it up for the summer. It’s called “cuffing season.” Not sure how seriously this should be taken. | /r/MensRights | 27/03/23 01:29 PM |
| 1 | We need a word…I think this wouldn’t work. it’s a play on DINK (dual income no kids) and is something some couples aspire to. Same with SINK, this is something a lot of women aspire to…like me. Well, have. I take care of myself and don’t have kids, where’s the negative? | /r/MensRights | 27/03/23 01:26 PM |
| 3 | Men have become worthless largely at no fault of their ownSo, worry about the women who actually swipe right on you. I couldn’t imagine caring about random people’s personal choices. If they don’t want you, they don’t want you. You have value outside of money, and if not, better get some. The real world doesn’t care about your 1950s fantasy | /r/MensRights | 24/03/23 02:29 AM |
| -2 | Freezing their eggs, highly paid highly educated women victims of men's bad behavior once againProbably by the prime who believe in sex shares. They’ll be ok lol | /r/MensRights | 23/03/23 08:00 PM |
| -10 | Freezing their eggs, highly paid highly educated women victims of men's bad behavior once againI think the “deserving sex” thing comes up when they start talking about sexual distribution lol. I actually had to laugh while typing it because it sounds crazy, like there’s a certain amount of shares of sex that are available that should also be spread fairly among the population. | /r/MensRights | 23/03/23 02:37 PM |
| 8 | Resentment over superior male strength drives female grievance politicsI’ve never felt this. I was just talking to someone about the differences between men and women, and tbh (just my opinion) I am relieved to have been born a woman. Strength is cool and all, but there are other cons that don’t outweigh it for me. Plus, as a woman I have had men in my life that were willing to lend their strength to me so I get the best of both worlds. | /r/MensRights | 22/03/23 03:23 PM |
| 1 | Showing interest is an affront?…I do have a pet? I don’t think men are pets | /r/MensRights | 21/03/23 08:43 PM |
| 2 | Showing interest is an affront?I don’t appreciate men offering me dick? Not in the vast majority of cases. I much prefer familiar dick I actually like. A cold approach is an offer of dick no matter how you cut it lol. These men don’t know me, they just know I have a vagina…and they wouldn’t mind being inside it. Could it develop? Are they also open to a relationship? Maybe by the initial thought is giving the “gift” of dick | /r/MensRights | 21/03/23 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Showing interest is an affront?But I said I don’t like cold approaches. I don’t want any of the advances. I much prefer organically getting to know a person and letting it develop. I don’t think I’ve ever given my real number to a man who cold approached me lol. | /r/MensRights | 21/03/23 06:24 PM |
| -7 | All men should have a PASAA file in their phone if they are actively dating (Protection against sexual assault allegations)Videos of what exactly? | /r/MensRights | 21/03/23 06:05 PM |
| 0 | Showing interest is an affront?Right. I don’t think it’s entitlement to not want someone’s dick lol. The demonization of asking someone out is unwarranted, though I am I woman who does not like being approached. | /r/MensRights | 21/03/23 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Showing interest is an affront?I don’t think it’s an assumption to say that cold approaches are sexual in nature. You don’t know her, but she’s fuckable. Her personality is unknown to you. Yeah you might, if you like her and are in the space for a relationship want more, but most men also would consider it a “good ending” if they just got the sex. Let’s be all the way real here. And I agree approaching shouldn’t be demonized. I don’t like it, but it shouldn’t be demonized. It’s a minor annoyance most times. | /r/MensRights | 21/03/23 04:51 PM |
| 2 | Showing interest is an affront?I didn’t look at his post history. Nor did I respond to any praise. I didn’t say thank you, I didn’t throw a compliment back…. Yo lol, this sub is wild. Why are you all so combative? The black and white, all or nothing thinking here is out of pocket. Yikes is right | /r/MensRights | 21/03/23 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Showing interest is an affront?It’s not about pretending to be friends. It’s about building a bond. What I’m saying is “cold approaches” don’t work with ME. Why should I like/enjoy/be flattered by some random man approaching me because he wants to put his penis in me? That’s all he wants honestly because he doesn’t know me. Tbh I think this is something men and women won’t agree on. Women’s attraction/sexuality is different from men’s. We don’t usually see anyone and say “I want to bone them.” We could think he’s doable, but … | /r/MensRights | 21/03/23 04:36 PM |
| 15 | Showing interest is an affront?Totally agree. I think that IMMATURE women though tend be doing a bit of social fluffing when they complain in the way that they do. I had a guy literally lean on me on a mall escalator at 6 am (before the stores opened, I worked there) and I froze, BUT I don’t think I’ve ever told the story before because I was actually scared. Traumatized? No, but it’s not something I’d want to experience again. Some of the women described in the Op are actually saying “omg guys want me because I’m so hot. Wha… | /r/MensRights | 21/03/23 03:29 PM |
| 0 | Showing interest is an affront?True. And I kinda wanted to imply that but I try to be careful. I don’t want to speak for all women per se, but it’s true that most women are not visually moved enough by most men to feel attracted to them. Men and women are different 🤷🏽♀️ Most men I’ve grown to like and been in relationships with came from settings like school. University was great for this because I usually got to be around the men enough to stop feeling meh about their looks and to see their personalities. I’m not saying tha… | /r/MensRights | 21/03/23 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Showing interest is an affront?Are you a bot lol? Why would I read such a book, I’m not into women. | /r/MensRights | 21/03/23 03:19 PM |
| 0 | Showing interest is an affront?Well, I was trying to be fair there. But, tbh please don’t approach me at Wendy’s. I’m saying if you MUST approach a woman, at least have something to go on. But that’s my personal opinion, some women like cold approaches, I do not. I’m not attracted to most men and so it’s probably safer not to approach me. I’m speaking for myself right now and not “womankind.” | /r/MensRights | 21/03/23 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Showing interest is an affront?Some of “you”? OK I get it lol, have a good one. | /r/MensRights | 21/03/23 03:13 PM |
| -4 | Showing interest is an affront?Traumatized lol…you sound sane for even taking it there. I’m calling the bs out and will continue to do so. Cry about it. | /r/MensRights | 21/03/23 03:13 PM |
| -1 | Showing interest is an affront?Lol this is what I meant by men being here and being silly for allowing the madness. Get some pride. Being used as a trope isn’t a flex. | /r/MensRights | 21/03/23 03:11 PM |
| -5 | Showing interest is an affront?I described it in another comment I made. Lack of eye contact, no push to continue conversation, distancing. I’ve had men throw themselves at me despite my NEVER responding to flirty comments or anything like it. Take the hint. As far as I could see in my comment as well, I never TOLD men to do anything. I was talking about my experience as a woman. | /r/MensRights | 21/03/23 03:10 PM |
| -10 | Showing interest is an affront?You’re responding to me by asking a question to an assertion I never made? Silly but I’ll play. I know there are black men here, but I think even they are foolish for not calling out the fact that they are being used as a uno reverse whenever some here feel they can get a cheap win. The stereotype of the criminal black man, or the big scary black person is harmful to our community in real ways. The crime rates are real, they aren’t just spicy numbers in our community. Overall, it’s disrespectful… | /r/MensRights | 21/03/23 03:05 PM |
| -3 | Showing interest is an affront?Right. Like sir this is a Wendy’s, I’m trying to grab my 4 for 4 and get back to my business. I don’t blame men completely for it though, they are the ones socially (and somewhat biologically) set up to be pursuers. I wish more people were socially aware now, as in being able to tell when someone CLEARLY is not interested, but it is what it is. And before any man responds with “well why don’t women approach!?” We do, the men we really like. Women and men are different in that women are less move… | /r/MensRights | 21/03/23 02:18 PM |
| -16 | Showing interest is an affront?Omg you guys love scapegoating black people in this sub. Leave us alone omg. We are people with a very unique relationship with the society we live in, not an uno reverse card. | /r/MensRights | 21/03/23 02:13 PM |
| 31 | Showing interest is an affront?I think people these days are just dramatic af. Everybody’s traumatized by something. I work in psych, I understand that partially trauma is up to the perception of the person, but it’s gotten out of hand a bit. Everybody is a victim. It’s a weird sort of narcissism that’s just spilling out of the seems of society. As for whether it not showing interest is an affront, for me it only is when I’m CLEARY not interested. Like sir, you smiled at me, I gave the faintest 1 second smize and turned away.… | /r/MensRights | 21/03/23 02:10 PM |
| -5 | Showing interest is an affront?Trying to make her happy? A random man offering me penis isn’t trying to make me happy. He’s trying to convince me to give him time because he saw something HE liked and took a chance. Almost 90% of the time the attention is unwanted. | /r/MensRights | 21/03/23 02:05 PM |
| 1 | Reminder that if you need to get a paternity test for a child of a woman you are still in a relationship with, do it privately.I’m commenting back to people, so it is important to read what they say as well. I think asking for a paternity test and an std test in a committed relationship is an assertion of possible cheating. The people I was talking to compared it to standard testing. Read it all before responding | /r/MensRights | 20/03/23 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Reminder that if you need to get a paternity test for a child of a woman you are still in a relationship with, do it privately.They keep claiming that it’s not an issue of cheating. Trust but verify they keep saying. You need to read more. Me whole point has been it’s insulting because of a lack of trust. They keep telling me it’s not. | /r/MensRights | 20/03/23 06:55 PM |
| 1 | Reminder that if you need to get a paternity test for a child of a woman you are still in a relationship with, do it privately.Yes? I’m confused by your response. That was my point. The other person compared it to standard testing, but it’s not. It’s texting with the intention of figuring out if there’s been cheating | /r/MensRights | 20/03/23 06:07 PM |
| 2 | Reminder that if you need to get a paternity test for a child of a woman you are still in a relationship with, do it privately.I understand that, but I also am not currently pregnant or dating. I’m speaking from where I stand now. I would like a man to tell me this before commitment is even a thing, that way we can both make informed decisions before my body is ravaged by a baby lol. From where I stand now, I would want a man to tell me “I will only have children with a woman who is willing to do a paternity test.” I can respect that and make a decision from there. Some people are promoting actively knowing they will wa… | /r/MensRights | 20/03/23 04:11 PM |
| 2 | Reminder that if you need to get a paternity test for a child of a woman you are still in a relationship with, do it privately.Like I keep saying, I think this is something to discuss before even committing. Make it a deal breaker. Everyone should go in informed, the man and the woman. I just don’t like the “babies on the way” aspect. Like a whole human is about to claw its way out of me and you’re sneaking around getting DNA tests. Let’s go in openly and honestly, or not. | /r/MensRights | 20/03/23 04:04 PM |
| 3 | Feminism’s number one complaint about men is how supposedly dangerous and violent we all are, and how they constantly fear for their safety around us. Yet they openly fawn over abusers like Chris Brown and continually return to their abusive exes (most of whom aren’t even attractive.) What gives?Only stupid hoes fawn over Fist Brown, none of the women in my circle like him. In fact, he’s kinda controversial. Whenever he’s featured there’s a controversy about it. I’d say people, at least in the black community are spilt on him. | /r/MensRights | 20/03/23 03:01 PM |
| 7 | Reminder that if you need to get a paternity test for a child of a woman you are still in a relationship with, do it privately.I kinda agree with you, but I don’t think a phone and a baby are equivalent. If a man I’m dating asked to checked my phone it would affect the overall health of the relationship. That would be a critical hit lol, because who has time to be wasting with people who don’t trust them? I wouldn’t break up immediately but beyond a point it’s a sign of extreme insecurity and a control issue. I MIGHT continue dating him, but I don’t think I’d ever take him seriously. I’ve never asked a man I was dating … | /r/MensRights | 20/03/23 02:55 PM |
| 4 | Imagine not understanding that the word “Incel” as an insult can be upsetting to people who are insecure about being singleSINK is a play on DINK (double income no kids). I think WGTOW was a bit of a thing, but never took off as most women aren’t interested romantically in most men so we don’t tend to need a movement or reminder to go our ways. | /r/MensRights | 20/03/23 06:02 AM |
| 2 | Imagine not understanding that the word “Incel” as an insult can be upsetting to people who are insecure about being singleI was gonna say this but didn’t want the smoke lol. Femcel means nothing to most women, but call a young insecure woman a slut and you might get more of a reaction. | /r/MensRights | 20/03/23 05:59 AM |
| 1 | Imagine not understanding that the word “Incel” as an insult can be upsetting to people who are insecure about being singleI’m assuming that the sort of people who don’t like the idea that a woman can be happy without marriage or kids came through. And also the people who don’t like when women acknowledge the dating culture by saying most women are single by choice. It was my assumed stuck up attitude and perhaps my AGAIN assumed feminist beliefs. That’s my guess anyway | /r/MensRights | 20/03/23 05:56 AM |
| 0 | Reminder that if you need to get a paternity test for a child of a woman you are still in a relationship with, do it privately.I wouldn’t try to hide it, but I would be insulted that he questioned it. It’s scary to me that people can think their wants and needs outweigh the needs of the group. Let her go before getting her pregnant if you feel she won’t agree, anything else is selfish. Let her know what she’s getting into, you already know ahead of time. A child is a big freaking deal. Ugh I couldn’t imagine being stuck with a man and a damn baby lol, who doesn’t trust me. It’s good to know that this is a thing though, … | /r/MensRights | 20/03/23 05:32 AM |
| 4 | Reminder that if you need to get a paternity test for a child of a woman you are still in a relationship with, do it privately.OK, so in this scenario you keep her around, impregnate her and then sneak a paternity test to protect other men from her….? That sounds crazy. Let her go, find another woman who is compatible. You guys simply aren’t compatible. | /r/MensRights | 20/03/23 05:29 AM |
| 1 | Reminder that if you need to get a paternity test for a child of a woman you are still in a relationship with, do it privately.But why not bring it up before pregnancy, before an innocent life is added to our dysfunctional grown-up shithole of a world. I think we owe that to the kids. If you guys are opposed on such a view, you shouldn't even want to raise a kid with her is my opinion. Let her leave and you find the woman for you. I see nothing wrong with paternity tests, but I think after a baby is a weird time to become staunch about it and making it into a deal breaker. It should come up in the "do you want kids" con… | /r/MensRights | 20/03/23 05:15 AM |
| 19 | Reminder that if you need to get a paternity test for a child of a woman you are still in a relationship with, do it privately.I agree with this. Don't be afraid to lose anyone, no one is more important than your self worth. | /r/MensRights | 20/03/23 05:13 AM |
| 5 | Reminder that if you need to get a paternity test for a child of a woman you are still in a relationship with, do it privately.Got you, I'm just one woman sharing my opinion. As I said in my other comment, another commenter made an awesome suggestion: make it a deal breaker in the dating stage. Don't spring a new one up on me after marriage and me being stuck with a baby sitting on my bladder lol. Let's all make informed decisions. Even the sneaking around to get a paternity test gives me the ick. Being called a possible slut in secrecy--not by my husbando. Yikes, throw the whole marriage in the garbage at that point. I… | /r/MensRights | 20/03/23 05:07 AM |
| 5 | Reminder that if you need to get a paternity test for a child of a woman you are still in a relationship with, do it privately.There is no problem besides being subjected to a hoe check lol. I personally would like to know his thoughts on it prior to a baby, prior to marriage and in the dating stage preferably. Not every man (or woman) is worth the stress of bringing a whole human into the world and then battling/sneaking about paternity. Just my opinion. Just let me know before I'm stuck with you baby, please lol. I need to do extra vetting in that case, just like you would if you felt uneasy about a woman's past sexua… | /r/MensRights | 20/03/23 05:03 AM |
| 1 | Reminder that if you need to get a paternity test for a child of a woman you are still in a relationship with, do it privately.Yikes, well...I won't be able to connect with you on this one. It scares me on a visceral level to think of giving birth to a human with someone who will never really trust me. I understand the stats, I understand your feelings, but giving birth is a life-altering, mind/body-altering experience that I wouldn't embark upon with just anyone. I don't even want kids, so the impact that my husband asking for/or having secret paternity tests would have on me would be extreme. I get your point, but I t… | /r/MensRights | 20/03/23 05:01 AM |
| 2 | Reminder that if you need to get a paternity test for a child of a woman you are still in a relationship with, do it privately.But a paternity test isn’t a part of standard testing…. A partner going out of their way to ask for an std test or paternity test is what makes the difference. Standard testing is one thing. You’re changing the goal posts to try to be right, but stick to the facts please. If I asked my partner for the results of a standard test they took the result would be the same. What would be my interest unless I suspected infidelity in some way? But beyond that, I already said that a way to cut the bs is t… | /r/MensRights | 20/03/23 04:45 AM |
| 7 | Reminder that if you need to get a paternity test for a child of a woman you are still in a relationship with, do it privately.How can it go wrong? If you bring it up in the dating stage and she leaves, you lose nothing but a person you wouldn’t want anyway. | /r/MensRights | 20/03/23 04:28 AM |
| 3 | Reminder that if you need to get a paternity test for a child of a woman you are still in a relationship with, do it privately.Huh?! Standard testing is one thing, but a partner coming to you and saying “I think we need this (insert paternity/std test) done,” is a red flag. For some reason they suspect that paternity can be questioned, or that something has happened in the way of infidelity. Standard testing is normal and right. | /r/MensRights | 20/03/23 04:28 AM |
| 7 | Reminder that if you need to get a paternity test for a child of a woman you are still in a relationship with, do it privately.So you think getting new partners tested is the same as asking for an std test from a wife/husband in a monogamous marriage? I would say that an std test and paternity test in a MONOGAMOUS MARRIAGE is the same. Both imply sexual infidelity. | /r/MensRights | 20/03/23 04:20 AM |
| 3 | Reminder that if you need to get a paternity test for a child of a woman you are still in a relationship with, do it privately.Nope. The std test I have taken with every NEW sex partner, but I wouldn’t expect to take one with a husband. It’s not equivocal in my world, unless you constantly test in committed relationships…which if you do, more power to you. Somebody else in this thread made a great suggestion. I think men should bring this up as a deal breaker prior to marriage and pregnancy, that’ll stop this madness. Transparency is best on both sides. | /r/MensRights | 20/03/23 04:12 AM |
| 9 | Reminder that if you need to get a paternity test for a child of a woman you are still in a relationship with, do it privately.I say talk about this before marriage. Like in the dating stages where you’re learning each others deal breakers, wants, likes and the such. I don’t see how a woman could be insulted at that. She’ll either leave (which you want) or stick around for the ride. If a man told me before he knew me he had a paternity test rule I wouldn’t be as insulted. He doesn’t know me at that point to be implying something about me, it’s just a rule of his. Would I stick around…depends on his other qualities. A de… | /r/MensRights | 20/03/23 04:04 AM |
| 6 | Reminder that if you need to get a paternity test for a child of a woman you are still in a relationship with, do it privately.I like this! Yes, let her know it's a dealbreaker ahead of time to control for these issues. This is the way. | /r/MensRights | 20/03/23 03:45 AM |
| 5 | Reminder that if you need to get a paternity test for a child of a woman you are still in a relationship with, do it privately.People you're just messing around with...you'd better not get them pregnant, or get pregnant by them. That's just ducking stupid lol. But, in a marriage...in a marriage and I'm being submitted to a hoe test!? Lmaooooo this is why I don't want to marry now, it's ghetto out here. | /r/MensRights | 20/03/23 03:22 AM |
| 1 | Reminder that if you need to get a paternity test for a child of a woman you are still in a relationship with, do it privately.I’m gonna get down voted to hell for this, but why put a baby in someone you think is untrustworthy? I believe in equal rights, but if I got pregnant and was asked to do that it would send me into anxiety. Always at risk of becoming a single mom lmao. It would feel like he hasn’t bonded to me in the way that is required to raise a family…. It’s just a feeling not based in logic. | /r/MensRights | 20/03/23 03:08 AM |
| -27 | Imagine not understanding that the word “Incel” as an insult can be upsetting to people who are insecure about being singleEhhh I wouldn’t say so because incel is very specific. I’m single, I take care of myself and I don’t have kids…and I don’t feel bad about it at all. My friends are too, and we will laugh about it and celebrate it. Slut is the one like incel that is gender specific and attacks based on social expectations and gender roles. Femcel I guess too, but even then it doesn’t hit the same. Most women are single by choice in most cases. | /r/MensRights | 19/03/23 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Imagine not understanding that the word “Incel” as an insult can be upsetting to people who are insecure about being singleWouldn’t that be slut? It’s like the female equivalent. | /r/MensRights | 19/03/23 08:17 PM |
| 14 | Why is it wrong to refuse to date someone with way too many previous partners but it's ok to refuse to date a virgin?Not this one, can’t stand a hoe man or woman. A man with a high body count implies instability to me. How do I know that someone who can’t keep it in their pants won’t lock me down and continue his single slut live on the side? Also, I care enough about my body not to play with promiscuous people. I’m sure there are other women who feel that way, but in this culture of sexual pOsItIvItY you’re shamed for wanting someone who actually bathes before trying to shove their junk in your face. | /r/MensRights | 18/03/23 04:51 PM |
| 4 | Why are men constantly shamed for their high sex drives or “only wanting sex” as if it is some horrible crime?I see in a lot of spaces that men want casual sex, settle for relationships to get sex, and/or would take steady casual sex when they can or above a relationship most times. There’s men saying these things, so how are women supposed to know better generally? | /r/MensRights | 17/03/23 09:38 PM |
| 3 | Why are men constantly shamed for their high sex drives or “only wanting sex” as if it is some horrible crime?Personally, I don’t mind MGTOW, I think it’s what’s best for a lot of people. If you’re in the west, the social climate demands that people partner up and I don’t feel it’s necessary for all. I hope you find all that you’re looking for on your solo journey. | /r/MensRights | 17/03/23 06:50 PM |
| 5 | Why are men constantly shamed for their high sex drives or “only wanting sex” as if it is some horrible crime?My comment came from the female perspective which is the only one I have, sorry if that offends you. I’m not telling men to be single, but I do think of what you want isn’t on offer, it’s better to be single. You can’t keep putting your hands into the fire and complaining that it’s hot. Either change your method, location, type or continue to get burned. | /r/MensRights | 17/03/23 06:42 PM |
| 2 | Why are men constantly shamed for their high sex drives or “only wanting sex” as if it is some horrible crime?I mean I agree. I don’t believe that wanting my vagina = value for me. I could be color swapped, personality swapped, everything swapped and still get the same offers—that’s not a flex. Raise your standards, I’d be ok with that because then for me I’ll know which men actually like me for me, like all of me. Also, I think you guys might find higher quality (for you) women. Everybody happy. | /r/MensRights | 17/03/23 06:35 PM |
| 6 | Having pro rape rumors spread about ne at schoolGo to a higher up that you trust, tell them about the rumor. Rumors like that can drive people to self delete and we don’t want that…that’s the energy you need to bring. Be the sympathetic character. Don’t argue with her or anyone else, nip it right in the bud with a higher up. Also, I’m not sure what you actually said, but don’t say it again. | /r/MensRights | 17/03/23 06:14 PM |
| -5 | Why are men constantly shamed for their high sex drives or “only wanting sex” as if it is some horrible crime?Yup, it’s the game playing and lying for me. Guys will say “well, if I didn’t do that I wouldn’t get laid,” without realizing that the underhanded attitude and approach is the problem. You’re seeking to use someone else, they didn’t seek you out to use you. It’s a directionality issue. These men aren’t being forced to play with women, they’re choosing to. Most women would ignore most men if the men didn’t approach them with a game plan in mind. This is a part of why people don’t value male sexua… | /r/MensRights | 17/03/23 06:09 PM |
| 6 | Why are men constantly shamed for their high sex drives or “only wanting sex” as if it is some horrible crime?From my standpoint as a woman the only gripe I have with the male sex drive is that is HAS (according to y’all) to be satiated by women. As a woman with a moderate and responsive sexual drive, I get turned on but not spontaneously and not just because I see a good looking guy. So, the men who have approached me with sex/strictly sex on the brain have been annoyances. It’s like get a knock on the door from a door to door door salesman. Like I have a door, my guy, I don’t want/need yours. I think … | /r/MensRights | 17/03/23 05:57 PM |
| 10 | Schools favour mother's over father's.I used to work in a middle school where we would host events for any reason lol. Mother’s Day was a huge success, so many families coming out (mothers I should say). Father’s Day only the mothers came out again, there were very few fathers. Part of this might be a “which parent is more likely to show up if something happens” thing, and stereotyping. The demand just may not be there, you should raise the idea at a PTA meeting. | /r/MensRights | 17/03/23 10:27 AM |
| 2 | I have gay sex because women are toxicEvery path towards towards truth is different. You’re happier most likely because you are acting in accordance with your true self. That’s a great thing. | /r/MensRights | 16/03/23 07:21 PM |
| 3 | Are Men's Rights or feminism different for POC?Which further my point that feminism wasn’t for black women in that we HAD to work. There was no burning of the bra, or rebellion against maleness. Black women have always had to make a way for themselves, for various reasons. The common anti-feminism rhetoric doesn’t fit within our community. | /r/MensRights | 12/03/23 05:07 PM |
| 11 | Are Men's Rights or feminism different for POC?As a black woman, I can answer this question not so directly, but feminism is not the same for black women. Just as an example, black women were never housewives on a large scale. We went from slavery to more labor. | /r/MensRights | 12/03/23 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Japan: Scientists create mice with two biological fathers for the first time - in breakthrough that could pave way for gay men to have children in futureNope lol, if reading the entire statement it’s fitting. Only people with reading comprehension deficits could turn that into something else | /r/MensRights | 10/03/23 03:51 PM |
| -1 | Am I insecure because I am asking to set some boundaries with regards to my wife's upcoming girls' trip to Miami?No I didn’t say he was controlling, I said his reply here was perfectly balanced. The people he’s responding to would be rightfully described as controlling. You CANNOT control another human and to try is futile | /r/MensRights | 09/03/23 10:24 PM |
| 2 | Am I insecure because I am asking to set some boundaries with regards to my wife's upcoming girls' trip to Miami?This is such a balanced response. No matter where she is, if she wants to cheat she will. Some of these guys are weird in their thinking that they can control another human being, and then cry foul when they’re rightfully described as controlling. | /r/MensRights | 09/03/23 09:40 PM |
| 0 | Am I insecure because I am asking to set some boundaries with regards to my wife's upcoming girls' trip to Miami?“Unsupervised” women…yikes. | /r/MensRights | 09/03/23 09:38 PM |
| -5 | Am I insecure because I am asking to set some boundaries with regards to my wife's upcoming girls' trip to Miami?Lol right. I’ve been on vacation with friends and no penis entered our rooms even once. Sometimes people want to see new things, get away from their regular lives to relax. Next year I’m hoping to go to Mardi Gras. Lol if I start dating again in that time, I’m going to mention on the first date to cut out the controlling insecure types. I think it says more about them than women they first thing they think when someone says they’re taking a trip is debauchery. | /r/MensRights | 09/03/23 09:37 PM |
| 1 | Am I insecure because I am asking to set some boundaries with regards to my wife's upcoming girls' trip to Miami?Idk, I’ve never been concerned in this way about a partner with a trust worthy history going on vacation with friends. I would probably be the same as your wife in this case, a bit ehhh because of the insecurity but ok with it overall. I don’t drink anyways lol. | /r/MensRights | 09/03/23 09:27 PM |
| -5 | Japan: Scientists create mice with two biological fathers for the first time - in breakthrough that could pave way for gay men to have children in futureRight. I’ve never really wanted children with the physical/psychological risks being 30% why I’m not interested. Pregnancy and post partum can be extremely vulnerable times, and sorry, but go outside and look around you—can’t trust no hoe lol. This makes children maybe…15% more attractive to me. | /r/MensRights | 09/03/23 09:24 PM |
| 6 | my mother tried to get me to watch "hidden figures"Great movie! I didn’t know what I was walking into, but I loved it. I think if you remove the racial/gender aspect, there are some great lessons in there. Plus, Viola Davis is a bomb ass actress lol. Then again, I could be biased because as a black woman I love seeing POSITIVE representation for a change. | /r/MensRights | 06/03/23 01:48 AM |
| 9 | Dear MRAs, what degree or major should I (or we) try to get when it comes to helping men and boys?I don’t consider myself an MRA, but I would say consider psych. The best way to influence a system is to get on the inside. Your part may be as small as helping get that suicidal, somewhat violent, male patient into a facility that would have declined him for his sporadic behavior. Or be as big as being the next Freud. Who knows, but the more people you have on the inside the better. I see too many people hating from the outside of the club instead of infiltrating said club and tweaking it from … | /r/MensRights | 06/03/23 01:46 AM |
| -1 | Do you think that it’s a man’s right to question the paternity of their kids and ask for a paternity test?I think he has every right to ask for one. The only thing I would say is that his want/need for a paternity test should be shared prior to pregnancy. It should one of those value conversations that couples SHOULD have, but seem to be skipping in favor of fEeLiNgS. For the men that have it as a deal breaker, they should say so before any baby is made, because once a baby is here there’s no turning back. In the current climate, women should also be asking such questions. It’ll save everyone a lot … | /r/MensRights | 05/03/23 12:53 PM |
| 2 | Another example of why many men dont want to get married todayThat’s what I’m saying. Dating and sex are mentioned so much here. I recommend these men go their own ways. It is what it is, what be will be. | /r/MensRights | 04/03/23 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Men, have you had the conversation about 'your fair share of chores'?Omg lol, everyone’s life is different and what is acceptable to you and different for others. I’m not sure what your point is in wanting to argue with me about what I think running my household is like versus yours. There are many breakfast casseroles, and most if you care enough, are better than sugar swimming in milk. Most homemade things are healthier than something you find packaged on a shelf filled with god knows what. As someone who works with children as a researcher in child psych, I kn… | /r/MensRights | 28/02/23 07:46 PM |
| -2 | Men, have you had the conversation about 'your fair share of chores'?I’m from America, east coast to be exact. Thing is every household is different. Google breakfast casserole, it’s a very American thing. Not every household sits and eats at the same time, and for some households dinner is more social than just the mechanical process of eating. Cereal, toast and pancakes are mostly unhealthy. Don’t like that many carbs in the morning, so I prefer healthier meals for the family overall. But this goes back to my point. I said different variable exist, there is var… | /r/MensRights | 28/02/23 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Men, have you had the conversation about 'your fair share of chores'?Hour and a half because everybody doesn’t always eat at the same time. I’m my household at least, we might all eat at the same time, sit with it a while, go back for more using the same dish. Taking all of this into consideration, in my 4 person household, dinner could last about an hour and a half. I am a big fan of breakfast casseroles, you prep those the night before generally. Which includes more clean up because as you must know, a bit of a mess is made while prepping/cooking. Moving around… | /r/MensRights | 28/02/23 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Men, have you had the conversation about 'your fair share of chores'?As someone who was more responsible for a home than I should have been at a young age, that is not true. In my house, dinner was served (by me) at 6. People eat, let’s say everyone is done after an hour and a half. After they eat dishes need to be done. If you’re making breakfast in the morning that is more than bacon and eggs, you prep that for the next day. If there are kids, you overlook as they clean their messes, or do it yourself. It’s a constant thing that no you just can’t clock out of. … | /r/MensRights | 28/02/23 06:46 PM |
| 8 | Men, have you had the conversation about 'your fair share of chores'?I think this comes up partially because it is hard to quantify housework in hours vs work. When working, you have a set amount of hours typically, whereas house work never ends. You can’t clock in and out. Not everyone is made for it. Perhaps she should start looking to do more outside the home? Typically, issues like these are more internal than external. She’s looking at you as the issue, when the real problem is that perhaps her wants and needs have changed over the many years. Maybe she’s bo… | /r/MensRights | 28/02/23 04:46 PM |
| -1 | Should I even bother seeking mental help, UK (M17)You need to be worried about more than driving. If you’re increasingly agitated and depressed, that’s the biggest issue. You can take the train/bus/taxi/Uber to get places. There are many different methods of transportation, but you only have one life. Again, reach out if you want some direction in looking for mental health services. Sorry for lecturing, but there’s more at stake here than I believe you realize. | /r/MensRights | 27/02/23 08:39 PM |
| 0 | Should I even bother seeking mental help, UK (M17)As someone in psych and who has worked in psychiatrics, yes please go. Go knowing that the first therapist you find might not be a match. Go knowing the different approaches and treatment types if you can, because not all are great for everything. My recommendation is go to a psychologist, not a social worker. At least here in America, most therapists are actually social workers and they have less of an education in psychological issues. Be skeptical of any provider that tries to get you on meds… | /r/MensRights | 27/02/23 08:26 PM |
| 1 | I'm chatting right now with a cis man who's being actively and violently abused by his wife. He's in the US. What are some resources I can refer him to? Barring that, how can I best support him as a woman talking to him?Did he say why his mother is homeless? There sounds to be a lot more going on here than meets the eye, please be careful. Verify as much as you can before giving “him” anything. | /r/MensRights | 27/02/23 08:20 PM |
| 1 | WHY MEN ARE WALKING AWAY FROM WOMENNo Pissy, I said the men are I dated were and I blamed it on the media and added my own conspiracy. I said the women could be too but I don’t date women, but if what I see is anything to go by they are too. Calm down (I really don’t want that, I like you spicy) and actually read what I write. I didn’t blame anyone directly. I think society as a whole is in the gutter | /r/MensRights | 25/02/23 08:21 PM |
| 2 | Nowadays it's women who keeps alive the ideia of "Men can't cry"My grandmother, bless her southern soul would mock men who cried. Funnily enough, my father, her son, cries like a baby whenever he gets worked up and for good reason usually. By that I mean in expected circumstances, deaths, times of extreme struggle. I grew up seeing this and so, I don’t think it’s wrong/unattractive for a man to cry I guess. I thought my grandma’s attitude was just an old school southern thing until I came to spaces like these | /r/MensRights | 25/02/23 08:02 PM |
| 1 | WHY MEN ARE WALKING AWAY FROM WOMENI never said women and men are equally burned. I said that ppl are socially inept nowadays, super angry and combative and typically for no reason. But, those are all the things I like about you Pissy darling 😘 | /r/MensRights | 25/02/23 07:46 PM |
| 2 | WHY MEN ARE WALKING AWAY FROM WOMEN😘 how’s your day been Pissy? | /r/MensRights | 25/02/23 07:39 PM |
| 1 | WHY MEN ARE WALKING AWAY FROM WOMENIf what were true? Firstly, there are waayyyy more men on dating apps than women. And the women who are on the apps tend to dabble and then delete, wash and repeat. It’s a sausage party. But, I will say that women swipe right way less. Women are stricter on likes/dislikes than men. Feminism may have a hand in them acting that way, but being the conspiracist that I am, I believe that the media is being made the way it is on purpose. Again, I’m not saying that without the media men would get more … | /r/MensRights | 25/02/23 07:38 PM |
| 2 | WHY MEN ARE WALKING AWAY FROM WOMENI like you! Usually I’d block, but you’re so spicy it’s infectious. I’m just gonna call you Pissy from now on. Hopefully this is the start of a wonderful symbiotic relationship where we can both feed on each others energies. | /r/MensRights | 25/02/23 07:29 PM |
| -2 | WHY MEN ARE WALKING AWAY FROM WOMENLol omg…what is wrong with you? Admittedly, I called you a stalker because I didn’t realize whose comment I was replying to initially but then there you were saying the same thing from yesterday. And sure I lied about the Kevin Samuels story because that would totally do…what I don’t know. If you want someone to talk to I’m open to it, but no need to get all pissy with me every chance you get just for a little attention. | /r/MensRights | 25/02/23 07:23 PM |
| -1 | WHY MEN ARE WALKING AWAY FROM WOMENOoooh a stalker 🤩 My post history is pretty tame, and some people here have liked my direct way of communicating, if you don’t just block me lol Also, do you speak to women? I was hit on for the first time at 12 by a grown ass man. Sex is always available to women willing to dive low enough to get it. Men too to an extent. | /r/MensRights | 25/02/23 07:12 PM |
| 13 | To a woman there’s such thing as a man that’s too short but there’s no such thing as a man that’s too tallAnything above 6’3 is pushing it for me, and I’m 5’8. There is a such thing as freakishly tall just like there is short. Anything too outside of the normal will be jarring for most humans | /r/MensRights | 25/02/23 06:55 PM |
| 0 | WHY MEN ARE WALKING AWAY FROM WOMENI don’t date women, so I won’t say you’re wrong, but I sincerely think that the strife between women and men is manufactured and people are drinking the kool aid so much so that they’re acting things out that they shouldn’t. This is not to say that women and men would be more attracted to one another without the kool aid, but the disdain would be less. I say this because in the past 4-5 years every man I’ve dated came into the situation very negatively. I’ve had a guy give me the third degree fo… | /r/MensRights | 25/02/23 01:13 PM |
| 1 | Women need to be called out on their hypocritical use of sexuality in the workplaceThank you so much! Writing has always been my strength/hobby—always glad when it’s noticed. | /r/MensRights | 25/02/23 12:01 AM |
| 1 | Modern day feminism got men thinking they’re way uglier than they actually areYou’re projecting now. But that’s ok, have a great day. I’m sorry my post offended you. | /r/MensRights | 24/02/23 05:57 PM |
| 0 | Modern day feminism got men thinking they’re way uglier than they actually areOk, have a good one | /r/MensRights | 24/02/23 05:54 PM |
| 0 | Modern day feminism got men thinking they’re way uglier than they actually areYou can look at his post history yourself. I empathize with his issues, but I think he’s going about handling the wrong way. I’m not sure how that’s projection btw. | /r/MensRights | 24/02/23 05:31 PM |
| 9 | Women need to be called out on their hypocritical use of sexuality in the workplaceThat’s a certain kind of woman, the kind I don’t hang with and the type you should stay away from. The average woman is not flattered by men she considers unattractive flirting with her. They usually take it personally, and not in a good way. I thought men knew this…women will be flattered if an attractive man flirts but not a man they consider unattractive. Also, those TikTok girls are appealing to the toxic women and low self esteem men in order to racket up views because they know people feed… | /r/MensRights | 24/02/23 05:26 PM |
| 6 | Women need to be called out on their hypocritical use of sexuality in the workplaceHuh? I agreed with you? Lol are you trying to start an argument? Some of y’all are just as emotional and irrational as the women you complain about. I agreed with you, genius. | /r/MensRights | 24/02/23 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Women need to be called out on their hypocritical use of sexuality in the workplaceYou’re right there | /r/MensRights | 24/02/23 05:08 PM |
| 0 | Modern day feminism got men thinking they’re way uglier than they actually areI’m going to say this gently…but your post history betrays you. You have personal issues to work on, and women should be the last on your list because not many, man or woman is gonna go for a person with your mindset or attributes. I’m a black woman, so I understand how race can affect dating options and outlook—that I completely understand. As far as women being called fat or whatever, that’s not your business. Let the unattractive (to you) women fall by the wayside, and focus on who and what y… | /r/MensRights | 24/02/23 05:04 PM |
| -2 | Modern day feminism got men thinking they’re way uglier than they actually areI think men are more forgiving about looks due to biology/socialization. Wasn’t there a trans man who said they suddenly felt more attracted to people when they started hormone therapy or something like that? Women are literally built to be picky. Combine that with a lack of needing resources as much from men and you have the world of today. Reminder we have 17 female ancestors for every 1 male. Women aren’t as attracted to men as men seem to be to women. Don’t see that changing unless women as … | /r/MensRights | 24/02/23 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Advice - at work interactionAsking them to check cameras is too much. A subtle approach is better for now. An aggressive bombastic approach will just escalate this and not in his favor. Same with the video recordings and things like that, might work against him. HR might begin to feel concerned about HIS behaviors. Recording people at work and then admitting to it is going to get him the side eye. Wouldn’t be surprised if they start finding reasons to pick on him after that because they would deem him untrustworthy. All wo… | /r/MensRights | 24/02/23 03:41 PM |
| 2 | Women need to be called out on their hypocritical use of sexuality in the workplaceSigh…you’re missing my point. I used aggression as an example, but I also said leading/guiding his coworkers to success in a positive way. Masculinity isn’t all about whooping ass and being jacked. And I keep saying that, to be masculine and perceived as such doesn’t mean “throwing temper tantrums.” A solid, grounded, stable man who presents as having an interest in the general well being of the group is very very masculine. The reason a squeaky tantrum would get the man in more trouble is becau… | /r/MensRights | 24/02/23 03:30 PM |
| -1 | Women need to be called out on their hypocritical use of sexuality in the workplaceLol I was just trying to speak to the guy in a way I know how to connect men. I like video games, men tend to like them, so they’ll understand what I mean by that. I also know that a lot of men can look up to characters like Kratos as being aspirational…younger ones admittedly. I don’t watch a lot of male centered media, but I’m sure there’s a lot of positive male figures. I know in the black community we have Malcolm X for example. I wasn’t being spicy but it seems you think I was lol. And when… | /r/MensRights | 24/02/23 03:21 PM |
| -6 | Women need to be called out on their hypocritical use of sexuality in the workplaceOffering to help her with lifting things will be seen as a good thing typically. Most women love love love the POSITIVE version of masculinity, just like men love love love POSITIVE femininity. For example, I’m smart lol so communicating comes easily. Furthermore, I like men and recognize that generally men don’t communicate the way women do. For this reason, I don’t try to out-word the men I deal with, I try to appeal to them in ways they understand. Being friendly, inviting, warm—-positive fem… | /r/MensRights | 24/02/23 03:05 PM |
| -15 | Women need to be called out on their hypocritical use of sexuality in the workplaceNo, you’re missing the point. All I’ve been talking about is using these qualities for an advantage, read again please and actually comprehend. And no, masculine qualities can be toxic just like feminine ones can, but I have never seen a true masculine man get called toxic at work. Less masculine men tend to fall below them and follow their lead, and the women either swoon over them or like having them in their space. The issue is today toxic femininity and masculinity are deemed as true version… | /r/MensRights | 24/02/23 02:58 PM |
| 6 | Women need to be called out on their hypocritical use of sexuality in the workplaceMen and women are different. Women aren’t typically flattered by random men outside of their strict attraction parameters flirting with them. I wouldn’t recommend men flirt at work for any reason, because it’s like printing $5 bills when he could be spending the same time printing $100 bills. It won’t work out, men and women are attracted to different things. Men should lean into more stereotypical male qualities at work to get similar results. eQUaLiTy is important, but we are not the same. | /r/MensRights | 24/02/23 02:54 PM |
| -25 | Women need to be called out on their hypocritical use of sexuality in the workplaceAs I said men and woman have different strengths and weaknesses, men have to lean onto different qualities just like a woman being super aggressive (perceived as masculine) doesn’t get her many fans. I’m gonna be kinda sexist here, but I think the issue is men actually expect something out of those workplace exchanges…or I should say the less socially aware ones do. Super socially aware people who are built for workplace politics don’t run into these issues because they recognize the artificiali… | /r/MensRights | 24/02/23 02:46 PM |
| -30 | Women need to be called out on their hypocritical use of sexuality in the workplaceDamn, you got me lol. I’m friendly to everyone at work, but usually carry an air of friendliness to the point where they might wonder if I’m flirting and it’s worked well for me. I think men and women have different strengths and weaknesses, so it makes sense in a way for a woman to use her sexuality (if she’s attractive) and for men to use their stereotypical masculine traits (if they have them) to make waves. I think the key here is for everyone to realize that workplace dealings, especially t… | /r/MensRights | 24/02/23 02:30 PM |
| 2 | Advice - at work interactionLol thanks. You catch more flies with honey than vinegar in my experience, even if the honey is actually simple syrup laced with arsenic 😈 lol | /r/MensRights | 24/02/23 02:19 PM |
| 4 | Advice - at work interactionUnless you can prove that she touched you, I would avoid using this as a gotcha. At that point it’s he said she said, she could just say you touched her too | /r/MensRights | 24/02/23 02:15 PM |
| 4 | Advice - at work interactionYikes…she’s weird. I’m a woman, I avoid touching men generally who I don’t know, let alone telling them I love them. The women I knew who did those sorts of things were crazy af. As for advice, I would go to HR first if I were you to get ahead of a possible situation. Tell them you feel uncomfortable with her attention and her constant visits to your office/cubicle are distracting you from your work. Matter of a fact, going to a supervisor first might be helpful here. Being a master of manipulat… | /r/MensRights | 24/02/23 02:10 PM |
| 5 | I’m racist for supporting men’s rights.No, thank you! I’m always worried about my attempts at rationality being offensive. I’m happy that my comment was in some way useful. | /r/MensRights | 23/02/23 02:24 PM |
| 9 | I’m racist for supporting men’s rights.Lol that’s crazy. I’ll try to make sense of it though, maybe they meant you have a higher chance of having certain social leanings? For example, I’m a black woman who’s not against dating Republican men…but, I would be cautious at first. Like I would want to make sure they don’t have views that fall in line with the stereotypical idea of said group. I’ve had men call me a feminist for not wanting kids or to get married, despite the fact that I tend to take some pretty centrist positions in most … | /r/MensRights | 23/02/23 02:13 PM |
| 1 | Sexual loneliness: a 2023 study that reads like a black-pill promoI’m not sure where I said men are useless as a whole? I said that men are less sexually valuable because it takes less of them to continue the species. A lack of men would change population numbers, but nowhere near as much as a lack of women to carry the babies. I never said anything about single mothers or the rights and wrongs of that. I was speaking from a strictly utilitarian perspective. Rights and wrongs never entered the chat for me. Also, sprinklings of research does nothing to DEBUNK a… | /r/MensRights | 23/02/23 02:00 PM |
| 2 | Sexual loneliness: a 2023 study that reads like a black-pill promoIt’s not that women don’t care, it’s just that we honestly don’t think that deeply into it honestly. Whenever I have said no to dating/sleeping with a man, I assume that because he came to me easily, he’ll do it with someone else and find success with them. Most women aren’t thinking about sexlessness or loneliness of men, just like men don’t worry deeply about periods and pms, because it’s outside of our realm of reality. Imagine my surprise at finding spaces like these…. I had no idea that so … | /r/MensRights | 23/02/23 01:54 PM |
| 6 | Most young men are single. Most young women are not.But isn’t this what men say all the time. That women’s expectations/standards are too high and unrealistic. The wording is different, but it means the same thing: women want things most men on average don’t have. | /r/MensRights | 23/02/23 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Most young men are single. Most young women are not.I’m not trying to pick a fight, but I see this argument a lot. The only people I ever heard talking about dying alone and romantic loneliness are men, even in older groups. Most single aunties say to stay single and travel the world, hell even mothers tell little girls this. Women initiate most divorce too, so I would say the evidence shows that women are more likely to be ok without romantic relationships. This could be because we tend to have wider, stronger social networks though | /r/MensRights | 23/02/23 01:43 PM |
| 2 | What's up with all the posts about dating?I’m not sure if it’s just a social norm that to women man needs utility to have value, and for men women have inherent value. It’s biological as well. I’ve been getting hit on by men since I was 11/12, a lot of women, dare I say most, have similar experiences. With that said, men are pretty forward and search out sex…meaning I’ll probably never have an issue getting sex, so it’s not a big deal to me. Women and men also have different hormonal characteristics. Men have waaaaaaaaay more testostero… | /r/MensRights | 23/02/23 01:25 PM |
| 1 | Sexual loneliness: a 2023 study that reads like a black-pill promoI meant “the one” in a romantic relationship context. Most of society at this time is a bit weird, so I don’t count on finding anyone. I like very masculine leader types, I think for various reasons finding men like that is hard, similar to finding women who don’t ascribe to the beliefs that men in this sub dislike. I was telling a friend last night that Tate fans are the male equivalent of blue haired women for most women. Combine that with personality quirks, physical attraction, values and th… | /r/MensRights | 22/02/23 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Sexual loneliness: a 2023 study that reads like a black-pill promoI’m not sure what to say to most of this. Especially the last paragraph, but I can speak on women vs men on children. It cannot be ignored that women work harder when it comes to kids. I worked in a psychiatric facility and the things I’ve seen happen to women post partum i wouldn’t wish on anyone. The vagina is literally ripped, hormones coursing causing emotional distress. Baby is stuck to mom all day. Men get the gentler parts of parenting. They watch her body grow and get in where they fit i… | /r/MensRights | 22/02/23 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Sexual loneliness: a 2023 study that reads like a black-pill promoSo, you’re saying that unless men have sexual value and they benefit from it, they will not see themselves as valuable at all? Interesting. We can agree to disagree here, I can’t understand digging your heels in the sand and saying “I refuse to value my body and mind until those people who have nothing to do with me do it first.” That’s wayyyyy outside of my understanding. I’m a black woman and the media eats our asses alive, but I’ll be damned if I do what you’re saying men will. If you think m… | /r/MensRights | 22/02/23 03:59 PM |
| 0 | Sexual loneliness: a 2023 study that reads like a black-pill promoSo you’re saying that in order for men to value themselves, women have to value them first? I don’t agree. I’ll use neglectful parents as an example. Do you think a child who never received love from their parents, the first people who you meet, the ones who are supposed to be there for you no matter what, shouldn’t love themselves? You don’t think they should create their own self concept, not the one placed on them by their parents or the society that ignores neglectful parents overall? That’s… | /r/MensRights | 22/02/23 03:38 PM |
| 2 | Sexual loneliness: a 2023 study that reads like a black-pill promoAnd each other, find companionship in other men (friends), your families too. I’m probably talking for nothing, because again we can’t overcome innate drives so easily, so the male drive to search for all-encompassing partnership through romantic/sexual relationships is a tough one. I just wish it were different. I think men and women should love themselves, their families and their friends, and if they meet someone along the way who wants to share life with them, awesome. However, in life there… | /r/MensRights | 22/02/23 02:50 PM |
| 2 | Sexual loneliness: a 2023 study that reads like a black-pill promoI took a psych of men course in university, then started seeing articles about the war on boys, somehow ended up finding this space, and now I can’t get out because if provocative topics like these where I feel a woman’s perspective might help. | /r/MensRights | 22/02/23 01:37 PM |
| 4 | Sexual loneliness: a 2023 study that reads like a black-pill promoI think on some level women do get it. But, between the genders it plays out differently, and men and women also deal with issues differently. Women don’t have as high a sex drive, so we don’t feel that frustration. I don’t know what it would be like if men suddenly weren’t attracted to us enlarge, but I still think that due to biology and socialization it still wouldn’t play out the same. As a woman, I know I can get sex easily. Being cared for as a person though…nope. Men don’t have as high st… | /r/MensRights | 22/02/23 01:35 PM |
| 6 | Sexual loneliness: a 2023 study that reads like a black-pill promoThing is though, and this is where I take issue with some men, who says that dumb/short/talk women get a pass—men. I had a man ask me what women do to become interesting to men, since men work to be interesting to women. I answered him honestly and said “put on a nice dress.” I fully and completely agree with men raising their standards. I want men to be discerning, because then some things could change. I want men to value their bodies/efforts/minds as much as women do. I’ve had men get really … | /r/MensRights | 22/02/23 01:29 PM |
| 7 | Sexual loneliness: a 2023 study that reads like a black-pill promoLong comment incoming 🚀 My understanding is that we have 1 male ancestor for every 17 females. Even outside of factors like illness (men’s immune systems don’t tend to be as strong as women’s) and war, I think competition has always been stiff we just have the free time to actually think about this stuff now. As far as a hive mind, idk about that. All of my friends have different types. One is pansexual and seems to care more about sexual prowess/features than anything, she often picks on me for… | /r/MensRights | 22/02/23 12:39 PM |
| 8 | Sexual loneliness: a 2023 study that reads like a black-pill promoI’m a woman, wouldn’t call myself a feminist though. I think most women know that men don’t have the same options, but we tend to take on more of a 🤷🏽♀️ attitude. Attraction can’t be negotiated. For every man I’ve been disinterested in (meaning ones I noticed and we had contact but it didn’t work out) I never consider that he might have a hard time finding someone else, I just hope that he finds someone more his speed and move on with my life. | /r/MensRights | 22/02/23 02:09 AM |
| 8 | If you possessed one wish, and the wish could only be used for anything related to Men's Rights, what would it be?Exactly. They don’t like or respect them, but certain types don’t have an issue with taking advantage of others. People we like we try to treat well and fairly | /r/MensRights | 20/02/23 05:57 PM |
| 9 | If you possessed one wish, and the wish could only be used for anything related to Men's Rights, what would it be?Do they like them? Or do they like using them? | /r/MensRights | 20/02/23 05:56 PM |
| 7 | If you possessed one wish, and the wish could only be used for anything related to Men's Rights, what would it be?I would agree that people would think longer about divorce, but most people when led by hormones and fEeLiNGs make terrible decisions. I don’t think it’d change much tbh. Changing the alimony laws would allow those divorces with as little damage as possible. I’m not trying to tweak your wish lol, because it’s yours, just trying to get some understanding of men in these spaces. Thanks | /r/MensRights | 20/02/23 05:56 PM |
| 6 | If you possessed one wish, and the wish could only be used for anything related to Men's Rights, what would it be?Facts. Even women dislike simps | /r/MensRights | 20/02/23 05:28 PM |
| 18 | If you possessed one wish, and the wish could only be used for anything related to Men's Rights, what would it be?Why not change the alimony laws then? Surely, that’s more likely to be fair since women are now major parts of the workforce. Would separation still be a thing in your scenario? I have so many questions because I don’t see how healthy it is to force anyone, man or women to stay in a marriage. I agree with you about the money part though, just wondering if there’s other ways that don’t infringe upon freedoms. | /r/MensRights | 20/02/23 05:22 PM |
| 6 | If you possessed one wish, and the wish could only be used for anything related to Men's Rights, what would it be?Might be a dumb question, but why do you want that? | /r/MensRights | 20/02/23 05:19 PM |
| 6 | If you possessed one wish, and the wish could only be used for anything related to Men's Rights, what would it be?Do you mean no divorce unless both parties agree? | /r/MensRights | 20/02/23 05:18 PM |
| 3 | We are failing the movementIf it were a Guysentines event ( because this is all hypothetical) I would not be upset about going. I wouldn’t want to be one of the only women at a sausage party one lol, two it’s not my place as a woman to bombard male spaces where I’m not wanted. I wouldn’t feel attacked/discriminated against. But, it could be a cultural/social thing too. My university has a men’s success initiative (among other men’s groups), so maybe I’m used to seeing boy’s clubs. It’s not that I’m not seeing what you’re … | /r/MensRights | 16/02/23 04:22 PM |
| -8 | We are failing the movementOK…I guess it’s hard for me to wrap my mind around the gravity of the situation since I’m not a man. I also wouldn’t care if there was a men’s event that I wasn’t invited to, though I’m sure there are women who would. Thank you for answering my questions, I appreciate it. | /r/MensRights | 16/02/23 03:49 PM |
| -10 | We are failing the movementYeah because as a woman, galentines is supposed to be celebrating non-romantic live for your girlfriends, especially those who are single. So, to me it makes sense that he wouldn’t be able to go. Do you think Guysentines should be a thing? I ask because I can’t see it being something men want, but I’m not a man so I don’t know. | /r/MensRights | 16/02/23 03:42 PM |
| -11 | We are failing the movementExcuse me if this comes off as me being ignorant as hell, but a galentines dance is for gals (girls). On one hand I feel like straight men wouldn’t appreciate boys going to a gals event, and on the other I guess they would be Ok with a…guysentines dance? I have celebrated galentines with cute brunches with girl friends, but it was never to exclude men, men weren’t a thought. Do you believe galentines shouldn’t be a thing, or do you think a male equivalent would be better? | /r/MensRights | 16/02/23 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Rise of weak menPlease please please don’t do this. I am a member of the black community, grew up in a predominantly black city, “the ghetto.” My view comes from the inside, as well as knowing the history. I don’t think it’s your place to try to tell me about a community I have lived in my whole life. I no longer live there because having people shot and killed just outside your window is traumatizing. Don’t speak on what you don’t know, and I say that respectfully. You need to look into that welfare thing a bi… | /r/MensRights | 02/02/23 05:12 PM |
| -1 | do yall think a lot of women on r/inceltears are misandrist and femcels themselves?I just popped over there, because I’ve never actually seen the inside of incel tears. The second post of was of some dude calling Indian women ugly and saying they have crunchy skin, and some other really nasty stuff. So far, I see no victims. ETA: lol correction, they called Indian women ugly curry munchers who should be happy to have sex with them. I’m not sure how some of you expect people to respond to this. Bullying isn’t the way, but a pat on the head and some sympathy 🐱isn’t either | /r/MensRights | 02/02/23 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Rise of weak menI’m a member of the community, I knew everything you said already. But, I’m not one much for continuously calling back to the past while knowing better. Have a good one. | /r/MensRights | 01/02/23 11:39 PM |
| 2 | Rise of weak menI think you can still have what you want. There are traditional women, but they might not be what you imagined growing up. Plenty of people get married later in life. I think it’s a part of becoming more acquainted with the world…learning that our ideals growing up, often aren’t what we end up with. TMI, but my parents sucked. I used to think that once I escaped them I’d meet lots of happy, nice, unproblematic people. Lol lies. Took me a while but I got over it. | /r/MensRights | 01/02/23 09:49 PM |
| 1 | Rise of weak menI wouldn’t say marriage being obsolete is a bad thing. I like anything that gives ppl freedom to come and go as they please. Long term relationships still happen, but marriage is not a necessity in my opinion. Personally, I like the idea of making finances separate. Hell, we don’t even have to live together because I like my space. That’s a to each their own thing though | /r/MensRights | 01/02/23 09:40 PM |
| 0 | Rise of weak menThere tends to be overlap. | /r/MensRights | 01/02/23 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Rise of weak menWouldn’t say so. Our circumstances are quite a bit different. I would say our greatest issue has been cultural. The decline is the same though. | /r/MensRights | 01/02/23 08:12 PM |
| -3 | Rise of weak menEhh it’s not that simple. I’ll be quiet though or I’ll get my race card snatched lol. Thank you for answering my questions. | /r/MensRights | 01/02/23 08:08 PM |
| 2 | Rise of weak menThe video says fatherless nation, but I know there are fathers in some of these homes so I wondered. I read something that said in the next twenty years if things keep up as they are, women will be majority bread winners, so getting female lives financed is already coming to an end unless talking about the extremely wealthy. I’m black, in my community, the women have been the majority when it comes to finances for years, so I expect nothing to change for us lol 🥹 | /r/MensRights | 01/02/23 08:05 PM |
| 0 | Rise of weak menDamn. I guess it’s a good thing marriage is becoming obsolete | /r/MensRights | 01/02/23 07:56 PM |
| -6 | Rise of weak menI have a question 🙋🏽♀️ I have seen even men with fathers fall into the red pill/mgtow/weak men/Andrew Tate loving categories. What’s going on in those households? | /r/MensRights | 01/02/23 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Autistic guy ask feminists why most other people, especially women, don’t empathasize with his social struggles and he gets told he’s “entitled” “not our problem” “no one owes you anything”I guess so. Well, most neurodivergent people have faced the wrath of neurotypicals without the empathy to try to understand them. It’s a sad truth. I’m not exactly sure this is a feminism issue, or even a men vs women issue | /r/MensRights | 01/02/23 07:35 PM |
| -1 | Autistic guy ask feminists why most other people, especially women, don’t empathasize with his social struggles and he gets told he’s “entitled” “not our problem” “no one owes you anything”Yes, I’m responding and I think pretty evenly. I’m not going to ARGUE with you, that’s pointless. I haven’t defended anyone, I’m trying to stay neutral and keep my emotions out of the discussion. That is it, that is all. I’m not sure what you want to achieve with me here. I’m not sure why you’re being so combative. You said you’re concerned about me having my opinion, what about it concerns you? ETA: I’ll say this, women as a whole tend to be apathetic about men’s dating issues. Feminist or not | /r/MensRights | 01/02/23 07:32 PM |
| -1 | Autistic guy ask feminists why most other people, especially women, don’t empathasize with his social struggles and he gets told he’s “entitled” “not our problem” “no one owes you anything”Well, I guess. We can only guess and give hypotheticals at this time | /r/MensRights | 01/02/23 06:53 PM |
| -6 | Autistic guy ask feminists why most other people, especially women, don’t empathasize with his social struggles and he gets told he’s “entitled” “not our problem” “no one owes you anything”I think that women relate to women differently than they do men. I still think he went to the wrong place, and I still sympathize because of his autism. If you’re looking for a back and forth argument, you won’t find one here. I haven’t eaten today yet, don’t have the energy for it lol I don’t identify as a feminist, so your anti-feminism points are kinda going in one ear and out the other. I’m not the enemy here. | /r/MensRights | 01/02/23 06:25 PM |
| -13 | Autistic guy ask feminists why most other people, especially women, don’t empathasize with his social struggles and he gets told he’s “entitled” “not our problem” “no one owes you anything”I think that if she came here, because then it’d be equivalent (right because he went to a feminism sub?), I don’t think she would get a warm welcome either. I think she would probably get a bunch of comments about how male autists have it worse, with a few gentle comments mixed in. If it were a woman in that sub asking the same question, I think she would have been directed to disability support subs as I saw some comments do him. Her tone probably wouldn’t be taken the same because the directi… | /r/MensRights | 01/02/23 06:14 PM |
| -5 | Autistic guy ask feminists why most other people, especially women, don’t empathasize with his social struggles and he gets told he’s “entitled” “not our problem” “no one owes you anything”I think he went to the wrong places to get help. As someone commented, he should have perhaps asked disability support groups and the like. I think his tone too was a bit off putting. It was very “I’m having this issue, now you tell me how to fix it.” This could have been because of his autism, he’s not aware of the tone. Tbh…I’m not sure why he even went to those spaces…and again, I think how it could come off eluded him and for good reason. Go to any autism based sub and you’ll see the people … | /r/MensRights | 01/02/23 05:58 PM |
| 9 | Is birth control pill turning women into lesbians and bisexual.Tried three different kinds of birth control, two were great, one tanked my mental health. The ones that were great were suddenly out of stock in most places…probably due to the pandemic, so I took the third after being told it was the same—it wasn’t. However, there are non-hormonal methods of birth control available. I never felt like a lesbian or bi after taking birth control, just very depressed with the third one. I stocked up on the first once it came back for a short time, but still haven’… | /r/MensRights | 01/02/23 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Building for a future that doesn't existThere are women like the ones you describe, but I think, just like with women with pre-conceived notions about men, you’ll never meet her or women like her with this mindset. I’m gonna be straight with you, in the current world, in developed nations, most of us have not faced true strife. In fact, I would argue that the fact that we haven’t faced real conflict plays a part in everyone’s a mental/emotional unrest at this time. I am a woman who has built myself from the bottom up. My parents were … | /r/MensRights | 31/01/23 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Is MGTOW going mainstream?Please play all day, it’s not my business. I’m not a public figure with thousands of subscribers, so I don’t think I measure up to the level of influence the man you’re cyber slurping has. My opinion doesn’t matter that much, I’m one woman. | /r/MensRights | 30/01/23 01:50 PM |
| 1 | Is MGTOW going mainstream?I’ll answer only one of those statements, because the rest of them are just things you’re plucking out the sky to start an e-argument lol. Most people on dating apps are strangers to one another. You swipe right, exchange some conversation, and then meet for a date. Those men are strangers and because of the way we meet, randoms to me. Have a nice rest of the day. | /r/MensRights | 30/01/23 11:57 AM |
| 1 | Is MGTOW going mainstream?They never said they were bored, but if they were, fine | /r/MensRights | 29/01/23 11:06 PM |
| -2 | Is MGTOW going mainstream?No no. It’s not a normal man who shows women videos over breakfast of Andrew Tate talking about how he enjoyed graping someone. That’s social suicide, and how you don’t recognize that…I don’t know. When dating, you put your best foot forward. I like honest, straight forward men, and as a result the men I’ve been with I can count on one hand without using all my fingers. Most men who love people like Andrew Tate are emotionally/mentally/socially unhealthy. And I despise simps. Someone in the midd… | /r/MensRights | 29/01/23 07:41 PM |
| -13 | Is MGTOW going mainstream?Hell, maybe that’s what they thought if that’s what you mean. Or maybe that’s what you think. Either way, it’s not my job to modulate how others see me. I value myself, and if whoever likes me as well, who I also like, we get on just fine. Some people won’t like me as a person, and I think that’s ok. | /r/MensRights | 29/01/23 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Is MGTOW going mainstream?Yup I’m estranged from both of my parents. Violent drunks so when I got out I never looked back. As for a roster, I think that’s the language being used for some, but what I meant was we tend to believe and in some cases it’s true, we can get attention if we want it. I’m not dating currently, but I have no problem dating when I feel like it. Most women are that way unless they have severely low self esteem, and I don’t think that those are the girls most men want. Most women are first hit on ver… | /r/MensRights | 29/01/23 07:06 PM |
| -1 | Is MGTOW going mainstream?I respect it. I totally agree that dating sucks right now. I don’t want kids/marriage so my pool is even smaller lol. Women tend to have an abundance mindset in dating, and with men it’s the opposite typically. I don’t see women caring all that much even into the future with birth rates and marriage falling out of failure. I don’t think this is a women vs men thing as much as society is changing, and so relationships are changing as well. I read that more children than ever are estranged from th… | /r/MensRights | 29/01/23 05:40 PM |
| -8 | Is MGTOW going mainstream?You weren’t talking to me, but I wanted to give a balanced female opinion. I’m gonna be super honest with you. Most women do not care when men drop out of dating. I’ll tell you why. We’re not pursuers typically. We don’t take stock of men in our spaces unless we’re already attracted to them. Kinda how some men who are bad with women say we only see Chad? Or how we have bad dating outcomes because we only go after certain types? Does society care about men saying they don’t care about living/cont… | /r/MensRights | 29/01/23 05:19 PM |
| -20 | Is MGTOW going mainstream?Because being introduced to the manosphere over breakfast isn’t panty wetting material lol. Just threw it out there as to nod into the right direction for those who for whatever reason want to scream the red pill at random women 😅 | /r/MensRights | 29/01/23 05:16 PM |
| -17 | Is MGTOW going mainstream?I think it is. Most of my dates in the past few years have been some variation of mgtow/manosphere/red pill. They introduced me to all the red pill channels lol. Didn’t end up sleeping with any of them, or second dates, but I learned a lot about what’s going on outside my bubble of simplicity lol | /r/MensRights | 29/01/23 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Suicide - speak up?If it came off that way, then sorry but that’s not how I meant it. I don’t think it’s that amazing. I just reread what I wrote and I realize how it could come off. Again, what I meant was either you guys are such losers that you think a research position is worth lying about, or I represented myself badly. I don’t know what you do, I feel in my heart of hearts the other person is a loser (their post history says so), but you I don’t know anything about so I wouldn’t have made a judgement like th… | /r/MensRights | 29/11/22 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Suicide - speak up?I keep saying the job has excellent work/life balance, I was off today and can choose to be tomorrow too. But, Friday I have to be in for sure 😉. The reason I didn’t give specifics about my specific project is it’s been written about already, my PI is very well-known—one of the biggest in the field, and the world of psych research is small. It’s my right, at least I think lol, to protect myself where I feel I should. I never said I was above anyone, I just didn’t understand why it’s so unbelieva… | /r/MensRights | 29/11/22 10:13 PM |
| 0 | Suicide - speak up?Lol you guys are weird. I don’t know if I should be flattered because my job is so above you that you can’t fathom someone actually having it, or that I’ve represented myself so badly that you don’t believe it. Either way my paystub reads clearly “Research Specialist.” | /r/MensRights | 29/11/22 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Suicide - speak up?Ok then, it’s fine. You don’t have to believe me. I’m just going to back away slowly now if that’s ok with you. ✌️ | /r/MensRights | 29/11/22 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Suicide - speak up?Ok, I did tell you about my work…. Told you what I was working on too. I was kidding as evidenced by the loling and emojis, I’m not sure why I’d lie about that but ok. You’re really out of control right now…yikes. | /r/MensRights | 29/11/22 05:48 PM |
| 0 | Suicide - speak up?Omg why are you so combative, I’m in psych as I said. So psych research with a focus on mental illness and economic disparity. Calm down, we’re good. I was joking about the doxxing thing, I wasn’t trying to personally call you out. If you’re into research I say do it, a great field, allows a lot for a little | /r/MensRights | 29/11/22 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Suicide - speak up?Lmaooo I was kidding as evidenced, I thought, by my casual tone. I don’t think you’re actually trying to dox me but I am serious that going into too much detail can. I have no issues with you, we’re good on my end. | /r/MensRights | 29/11/22 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Suicide - speak up?That other guy caught me when I was feeling spicy, so I recognize that I came off a lot harsher than I meant to. Haven’t had a decent debate in a while so I over did it 😩. But thanks for trying to understand. | /r/MensRights | 29/11/22 05:16 PM |
| 0 | Suicide - speak up?Uh uh lol, you’re not gonna get me doxxed in this sub lmao. I work with a pretty well known PI so if I say somebody’s gonna know 🤣🤣 Men’s rights isn’t the most socially accepted topic at this time, I don’t want anyone knowing I’m not woke. It’s awesome though, highly recommended. I have so much work/life balance and the work is simple. I found that I don’t like being at the end of the stream catching the bodies as they come down, I much rather be at the top figuring out how they got there in the… | /r/MensRights | 29/11/22 05:10 PM |
| 0 | Suicide - speak up?I did get into another field…kinda. I said it a few comments ago, I’m currently in psychological research. Most psych majors aren’t therapists…I said that already. No need to tell me, I’m self aware which why I do research now. However, I saw this thread and it reminded me of the countless numbers of male patients we denied due to the feminized approach to therapy now. In research I’m happy and I have so much flexibility. Psychiatric facilities are dark places, didn’t love it. Thanks for the adv… | /r/MensRights | 29/11/22 05:02 PM |
| 0 | Suicide - speak up?No, I’m not an expert. OK experts exist, sure we’ll go with it. But I keep saying that I am no expert, I don’t feel like I have that sort of authority. I was sharing my experience as someone who has been on the inside from the position of a provider. Do you consider everyone with a life story to tell an expert? As a person, I don’t think I’m an expert in anything…that’s just me. I could go to university for another decade more and I won’t feel like an expert. If you think my experience means I’m… | /r/MensRights | 29/11/22 04:52 PM |
| 0 | Suicide - speak up?Jesus lol, because as I SAID it colored my OPINION. I said based on my background, and I’ve said it to multiple people here, multiple times, based on my background because I worked in a psychiatric hospital I have seen the blind spots when it comes to male mental health, especially when it comes to suicide. I said based on my background, and what I’ve seen at the psychiatric hospital I worked at, MY REAL LIFE experience, there needs to be more male centered types of therapy. Men are not being se… | /r/MensRights | 29/11/22 04:45 PM |
| 0 | Suicide - speak up?Right! But if you actually pay attention and comprehended what I meant we wouldn’t even be arguing. I do call a plumber when I need one, but for the sake of this conversation I will never call myself an expert. I think it’s immature to think that one person’s professed expertise means they should be treated as an almighty authority, which is what you implied I tried to do when I brought up my psych background. I was just saying that as someone in the field I noticed this blind spot, you in a imm… | /r/MensRights | 29/11/22 04:37 PM |
| 0 | Suicide - speak up?No, as I actually SAID it colors my opinion. My psych background colors my opinion, OPINION. Saying I’m expert would mean I’m trying to tout my OPINION, though an educated one, as FACT. Even those who claim to be experts can always learn something, they also have weaknesses. Which is why most ppl who go to therapy don’t stick with it at first, usually that therapist is not a good fit. Even though they have the degree and certification, there are areas they are NOT good on. People go to doctors, … | /r/MensRights | 29/11/22 04:28 PM |
| 0 | Suicide - speak up?There’s no such thing as an expert, which is why I admitted my weakness which is a weak spot in the field overall. If anyone claims to be an expert, run. My psychiatric facility often declined men for expressing themselves in non-feminine ways. There NEEDS to be more male community and male centered treatment. I can say that, it’s an educated opinion. But, go off. It’s 10 am and you’ve tired me out lol, please…go argue with someone who cares about your opinion. Btw the way, I am now in research … | /r/MensRights | 29/11/22 04:18 PM |
| 0 | Suicide - speak up?But THAT is what I was saying, that was the base idea of my comment. It’s not my fault you didn’t comprehend that, some people did and that’s what matters. We’re not the important ones here, sis lol. I agree they should go to who they trust, but op and a lot of men here don’t trust women. They are looking for help from people they don’t trust, and who they have had terrible experiences with. Why do you think Jordan Peterson is so popular with so many men, or any of the e-dudes who give advice to… | /r/MensRights | 29/11/22 04:06 PM |
| 0 | Suicide - speak up?OK, men themselves are saying that the women in their lives haven’t been helpful. I think creating male community is just as important, if not more important at this time, than female (which is very much thriving). It’s crazy how many ways people can interpret a message. Somebody said I was a misandrist, a few people understood, and you are saying I’m discouraging men from getting help for suicidal ideation. People truly do project their preconceived notions onto others, oh well. Have a great on… | /r/MensRights | 29/11/22 03:56 PM |
| 0 | Suicide - speak up?Wonderful! I’m happy that you feel equipped to deal with suicidal people period. Great on you! That’s what’s great about life and people, we’re all different even if we share genders. | /r/MensRights | 29/11/22 03:47 PM |
| 2 | Suicide - speak up?I get you lol. I would say 60% of the male referrals we received were “high risk.” There were women who made threats and things like that, but it would take a word or two, or even a nurse or two to settle them. Thing is, we got the referrals from the ER before they came to us. So, in those referrals they would share the histories of such patients. If during their current ER visit they needed physical/chemical restraint, showed extreme sexual deviance, or slapped someone up, we would either decli… | /r/MensRights | 29/11/22 01:44 PM |
| -1 | Suicide - speak up?I spoke for myself for the most part, and a big part of my conclusion was being in spaces with emotionally volatile men. Usually I just shut down until they stop raging, and then they look at me as if they were expecting me to say some magic word, or to engage similarly. That’s been MY experience. It would be silly to think I speak for all women, but at the same time, I’ve seen so many men say that they don’t want to/can’t talk to their women counterparts due to women fumbling the bag so to spea… | /r/MensRights | 29/11/22 12:11 PM |
| 1 | Suicide - speak up?Thing is, I never said anything about women not helping AT ALL. I think some people here see a woman saying yeah I think men are better at that typically, and it’s been taken as “f all you guys!” Another user mentioned that women should become more empathic towards men and I think that’s a very doable and fair ask, everything else CAN follow. I hear men say that women dismiss their issues, or twist them into something nefarious, if that were to change I’m sure it’ll be helpful, but that still wo… | /r/MensRights | 29/11/22 12:02 PM |
| 2 | Suicide - speak up?My thinking is the result of my background. I worked in a psychiatric facility, most of my suicidal male patients were aggressive, it was a on a spectrum, but it was typically there. | /r/MensRights | 29/11/22 11:41 AM |
| 1 | Suicide - speak up?As for men in the "rage states" unfortunately, most men do not come out and speak about their mental duress. If they do, it's in echo chamber message boards, or they'll kinda sorta hint at it, but are less likely to cry the way a woman would--so it goes unnoticed until it gets really bad. Unfortunately, that may be why a good...60% of the male referrals we received were high-risk. They were more likely to slap nurses, some would whip out their penises and say "suck it, I'm God." With women, I ca… | /r/MensRights | 29/11/22 04:09 AM |
| 1 | Suicide - speak up?Ok sure. Empathy is one thing, but men and women are different. I took the op as men need to support each other more because once they do, they find it more helpful than what most women offer. You guys are reading waaaaaay more into my statement than I intended. I have empathy for men, but there are some spaces that I cannot occupy as well as I do others. That was my point. I personally don’t believe in the “we’re all the same, men and women are exactly the same” stuff some espouse. There are di… | /r/MensRights | 29/11/22 03:47 AM |
| -1 | Suicide - speak up?Thanks for understanding. It’s not even a “I’m not gonna bend over backwards” thing, it’s literally a “I don’t know if I have what it takes thing.” I think men and women are very different, we are socialized differently. Women are CLEARLY not socialized to deal with men’s issues, and so men building community is a very good thing. We could argue circles about what should be, but that’s not how the world works. People here laugh about feminists saying they should be able to walk the street naked … | /r/MensRights | 29/11/22 02:08 AM |
| 0 | Suicide - speak up?Haha I win rubs hands together evilly 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 | /r/MensRights | 29/11/22 12:23 AM |
| 0 | Suicide - speak up?Lol but they really don’t. I have some of their usernames and they post once every 7 months or so, some not at all. They really have lives. Those men associate themselves with me because one, my job means I’m kinda important in my area, and two I’m attractive. All men like pretty women lol | /r/MensRights | 29/11/22 12:21 AM |
| 0 | Suicide - speak up?I think we’re both being quite bitchy, I’m just not pretending to be a victim about it lol. It’s also poisonous to be so bitter, it leaks into all aspects of your life. I’m sure there’s a “guru” you follow who espouses similar. | /r/MensRights | 29/11/22 12:16 AM |
| 0 | Suicide - speak up?Them? Are they supposed to make Reddit accounts to come and vouch for me against a rando. Either way, the types of men I deal with don’t spend time on Reddit this way. They’re busy. | /r/MensRights | 29/11/22 12:16 AM |
| -1 | Suicide - speak up?You brought up the men in my life looool. Keep going, anyone who follows what you say deserves what they get. Can’t be a bitter Betty and expect a good life | /r/MensRights | 29/11/22 12:09 AM |
| 0 | Suicide - speak up?Yes I could, I’m the same person online that I am in real life. People like me because I’m honest and I don’t sugar coat. No pussy cat energy survives around me, from men or women. And it was you who mentioned women being bad because they didn’t want to be involved, or was it? Me saying I didn’t want to get involved is why we’re here, Junior. It upset you I actually had a conversation about this with a male friend the other day. We agreed that men are best equipped to handle male issues. He’s ve… | /r/MensRights | 29/11/22 12:06 AM |
| 0 | Suicide - speak up?You’re a bad emotional terrorist. You seem to have wanted to rile me up so you can get some more struggle porn. Luckily for you, I’m just the person to give it to you. Anybody who doesn’t see that you have deep deep issues, they’re lost anyway. I’m not here for a popularity contest, I’m popular in real life with me a sub women. | /r/MensRights | 29/11/22 12:04 AM |
| 0 | Suicide - speak up?I’m not in any feminist subs so sorry, the gender flip missed me. Are men being called sick puppies now? | /r/MensRights | 29/11/22 12:03 AM |
| 1 | Suicide - speak up?You made it about me loooooool. In your words, I wanted to take my ball and go home, but you’re fighting to keep me on the playground. I don’t want to play with you! Keep going, try to get some gotchas, I’m fine! Got a dude coming over to cook for me this weekend, Junior. Me and the men and my life are just fine. | /r/MensRights | 29/11/22 12:01 AM |
| 1 | Suicide - speak up?Yes, please use it. I’ll live, again at home with my feet up lol while you’re bitterly trying to fight for strangers to heal your mommy issues | /r/MensRights | 28/11/22 11:59 PM |
| 0 | Suicide - speak up?I don’t care about the difference. Stand up and you will get put down, like the sick puppy you are | /r/MensRights | 28/11/22 11:57 PM |
| -1 | Suicide - speak up?So virtuous 😍😍😍😍 “hey guys guys, look! She hates men, though she was agreeing with a man! A man hater riiiiiight?” Helping other readers…clown shit | /r/MensRights | 28/11/22 11:54 PM |
| 0 | Suicide - speak up?They do open up to me. I love action oriented advice and they tend to take it. I’m healthy enough too, and that’s usual repugnant to the sick puppies as evidenced by your attitude towards me. | /r/MensRights | 28/11/22 11:52 PM |
| 1 | Suicide - speak up?Oh ok lol, I said implied to give some room in case I read it wrong because it’s been tough keeping up with all the wind-milling you’re doing right now. Guess we both name called, but only one of us tried to play innocent. Such a man 😍😍😍😍 | /r/MensRights | 28/11/22 11:49 PM |
| 0 | Suicide - speak up?I love men, the healthy ones. Sick puppies like you don’t last long with me | /r/MensRights | 28/11/22 11:48 PM |
| 0 | Suicide - speak up?I’m not a doctor so your health will never be in my hands, you’ll be fine. I’ll be not caring at home with my feet up like I am now. | /r/MensRights | 28/11/22 11:42 PM |
| -1 | Suicide - speak up?I’m happy you understand. Btw, you implied I was a sexist asshole first. | /r/MensRights | 28/11/22 11:42 PM |
| 0 | Suicide - speak up?I only go to female gynos, my sexism goes both ways. I truly do believe another woman is best equipped to empathize with me as a woman with a menstrual cycle. The male doctor can tell me textbook stuff, but the woman will get me on a deeper level. Every woman feels different, but that’s my opinion. I’m more comfortable with women in that space, I think men should become more comfortable with each other when it comes to talking to one another. Women and men are different on a fundamental level | /r/MensRights | 28/11/22 11:40 PM |
| 0 | Suicide - speak up?Lol ok thread police. I owe you nothing, not even a helpful word. Sad that you expect that on an anonymous message board. You really wasted your time crawling out of the dump of dry cum and empty hot cheetoh bags to address me. Shame doesn’t work on me, I’m an adult. | /r/MensRights | 28/11/22 11:38 PM |
| 0 | Suicide - speak up?I didn’t comb the thread looking for things to bitch about. I guess it’s the same for any thread that doesn’t say “those evil bitches!” Lol again, pussy cat doll energy. Feels like I’m arguing with one of my younger sisters. Cry some more, I’m telling you I don’t care | /r/MensRights | 28/11/22 11:34 PM |
| -1 | Suicide - speak up?Didn’t op say the same? Men should lend an ear to one another? Very telling you’re all over me, but I don’t see you disagreeing with him. Giving lots of pussy cat doll energy | /r/MensRights | 28/11/22 11:30 PM |
| 0 | Suicide - speak up?Ok lol, I say men are best equipped to handle male mental help, something op said too and you’re hurt. Go cry some more. And resources? I pay taxes, probably more than your sensitive ass, every day. I don’t want to lend my shoulder and I’m Hitler. Got to bed, Junior, you’re drunk. | /r/MensRights | 28/11/22 11:28 PM |
| 0 | Suicide - speak up?Ok fine! I’m a sexist asshole. I’m gonna go cry about it now. Not everybody is a cotton candy assed bitch individual who’s scared of name calling. Get it off your chest, I don’t care. Men are best equipped to deal with male mental health issues. I’ve worked in psychiatrics, I’ve seen it play out. Again, take this out on whatever female figure in your life who hurt you | /r/MensRights | 28/11/22 11:25 PM |
| 1 | Suicide - speak up?I don’t owe random men ANYTHING. I also don’t give out free therapy to women, but I am a woman who was raised in a predominantly female household, so like I said I deal with women’s issues easier. Sorry I won’t put on my cape and save you , Junior. There are thousands, hundreds of thousands of men here who are better equipped than me to deal with your little pissy fit. Talk to them. Saying I’m a coward, who the hell are you to tell me I NEED to be brave for strangers? Again, clown | /r/MensRights | 28/11/22 11:22 PM |
| -2 | Suicide - speak up?It’s not my fault you are so flimsy in character that you feel peer pressured to handle stuff that’s not your business. There men’s arenas, and women’s arenas. We ARE NOT the same, despite what radical feminists and some of you less mentally stable men like to tout. It is not a woman’s place, no a humans place, to HAVE to do anything for you. I think men help men mentally/emotionally the best, period. Help each other! Why are you fighting to make women an important part of the equation | /r/MensRights | 28/11/22 11:20 PM |
| -3 | Suicide - speak up?Take up your issues with your mom, bro. “This sounds like a mother throwing her hands in the air…” lol I’m nobodies mother and will never be. I’m not your mom, I’m not the female figures in your life who failed you. Get help, preferably from a man…unless you’re too scared to take all this vitriol to someone who can actually put you firmly in your place | /r/MensRights | 28/11/22 11:17 PM |
| -5 | Suicide - speak up?Lol so op says that men should go to men for emotional support because most women don’t handle it well, and I agree, and I have to get over myself? The definition of insanity is doing the same thing multiple times and expecting a different result. Keep crying to women who could never fully understand the male experience, and then come here to hate on women since it works, clown. Nobody, no matter the gender should be, or is forced to be ANYBODY’S emotional support animal. I’m a woman and I’m adm… | /r/MensRights | 28/11/22 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Mass shooters are not a "toxic masculinity" problem. They're a product of men's inability to get help for mental health or suicidality. Here's proof:I guess I am, my sex life is thriving. Sad for those whose isn’t. | /r/MensRights | 28/11/22 08:52 PM |
| 1 | Mass shooters are not a "toxic masculinity" problem. They're a product of men's inability to get help for mental health or suicidality. Here's proof:I read it, but unlike in the times you spoke about, most ppl aren’t religious. That’s why I asked, in the modern world how do you actually make that happen? Casual sex is out of the bag, does the President get tv and say “no sex showed outside of marriage or firing squad?” It’s a simple question. Either you have an answer or this is all just incel fantasy | /r/MensRights | 28/11/22 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Mass shooters are not a "toxic masculinity" problem. They're a product of men's inability to get help for mental health or suicidality. Here's proof:How? | /r/MensRights | 28/11/22 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Mass shooters are not a "toxic masculinity" problem. They're a product of men's inability to get help for mental health or suicidality. Here's proof:So you control people’s sexual activity. How does one “allow” sex only in marriage? And how do you stop current people from having sex? i assume that will also come with forcing women to be more reliant on men, because barring fleeting fuzzy feelings most women aren’t sexually interested enough in most men to make that happen the scale you want it to. | /r/MensRights | 28/11/22 08:27 PM |
| -9 | Suicide - speak up?As a woman, male anger is less manageable to me than female anger. A woman screaming at me is nothing, I have sisters lol. A man who is stronger, deeper voice and has a lot more of a propensity towards risky behaviors due to testosterone is less of a person I can easily talk down or contain. This is not societal, this is pure biological fact that I refuse to attempt to refute. I think men should express those emotions with other men who are better equipped to handle it. | /r/MensRights | 28/11/22 07:52 PM |
| 1 | Mass shooters are not a "toxic masculinity" problem. They're a product of men's inability to get help for mental health or suicidality. Here's proof:How do you “give” a person to another person? The ones who lack girlfriends are the ones women don’t like, so to give them to anyone would be sex slavery | /r/MensRights | 28/11/22 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Suicide - speak up?Yes, talk to men. As a woman I can say I have been pretty unequipped to deal with how men process emotion. I’m a let’s cry/talk it out, then find a solution kinda girl. Quicker we get to the solution part the better. With men, those emotions often show themselves as rage or potentially harmful(to us both) behaviors. I don’t do well with that. Shouldn’t be demonized for it though. I’m all for men being more emotionally there for one another, please please do, I think it’ll make things better for … | /r/MensRights | 28/11/22 07:08 PM |
| 0 | My apology.Ok! Sorry for hurting your feelings 😔 | /r/MensRights | 28/11/22 05:29 PM |
| 8 | Woman sexually assaults her partner, he gets upset, she is the victim; he is just an idiot.Whew ok, I came with my 🔪 ready because I thought I was gonna have to fight for my life in these comments…again lol. Sorry for being spicy. | /r/MensRights | 28/11/22 05:22 PM |
| 9 | Woman sexually assaults her partner, he gets upset, she is the victim; he is just an idiot.Ok, but if you read my comment and comprehended what I was saying, I said he had every right to be upset. I was more so confused about the “these things” part. Nipple action is pretty tame in the scheme of sex acts…to me lol. I wasn’t questioning his right to bodily autonomy, moreso wondering where are they from that that’s a “omg that was so scandalous” sort of thing. It seemed he was freaked out by her touching him, and touching him THAT way. “Who sucks nipples!?!?” Like that lol. | /r/MensRights | 28/11/22 05:20 PM |
| 1 | My apology.Do you think that maybe YOU feel that way subliminally and subconsciously? History does not corroborate your story, nor does the present. Men will simp for vagina, they will fight for the right to her womb, but overall men don’t seem all that interested in the general female experience. You’ll see it here, lots of men don’t even want to be friends with women who aren’t potential sexual options. But OK, your opinion is valid though I question how factual it is. | /r/MensRights | 28/11/22 05:18 PM |
| 1 | "Men are disgusting"As for mothers throwing their sons and husbands under buses, I think it’s more of a “traitorous person” thing. In my culture sons literally walk on water. He could destroy the city and still be more coddled than the daughters. As for the stress argument, what those women, the really insane ones are experiencing is not just stress. Their bodies are literally attacking them. The hormones, the bleeding, the pain. They are literally plunged into a wild cocktail of hormones and we never know how it’s… | /r/MensRights | 28/11/22 04:56 PM |
| 1 | "Men are disgusting"Well, and again not an excuse, but in the case of infanticide I think the insanity argument CAN be very very valid. My cousin had a baby, she was a bit of ditz prior but after…full blown schizophrenia. I worked in a psychiatric hospital up until recently, and most of the new moms were experiencing post-partum psychosis. One lady was literally seeing stars. Lol that bs is why I’m very comfortable being child free. However, I won’t say that this is most cases, just that it’s valid. Sorry about you… | /r/MensRights | 28/11/22 04:42 PM |
| 1 | "Men are disgusting"Lol I think you’re confusing some of what I said. Firstly, I said “generally women…” most women are not selling or killing their kids. However, being that women are majority caretakers of kids, it makes sense that the rate for infanticide is higher in women. That’s a proximity issue. Not an excuse, but when we have these discussions we have to get to the nitty gritty. Women are generally suspicious of men, this is true. It’s not always logical, but as a woman I’m way way more likely to avoid dar… | /r/MensRights | 28/11/22 04:21 PM |
| 47 | Woman sexually assaults her partner, he gets upset, she is the victim; he is just an idiot.He’s allowed to be annoyed if she’s touching him when he doesn’t want it. I wonder where they’re from because “Where the hell did you learn these things!?” Over some nipple action is a bit off…at least where I’m from | /r/MensRights | 28/11/22 04:09 PM |
| 1 | "Men are disgusting"I think those women get upset because it’s hard to say when a father is being stopped from seeing his kids, and when he just doesn’t want to/try. I grew up in an area where there was predominately single moms, and I remember being a teenager and babysitting while the father was IN the house. Couldn’t be bothered with his kids, but wanted the sex and provision the mother provided. We also see the the stuff saying that if men wanted custody, they get it when they go to court so it becomes “he does… | /r/MensRights | 28/11/22 04:02 PM |
| 2 | "Men are disgusting"You’re welcome. I have a question for you though, and it might seem dumb, but I wonder about this often. Why is it that so many men are angry about female attraction? Logically, it doesn’t make sense for most women to be attracted to most men and I would argue that if we were the world would be in danger. Take a look at gay male relationships, a lot of them are transient and aren’t exactly monogamous. As a result, the community fights for their lives against HIV/AIDS. If women had those same min… | /r/MensRights | 28/11/22 03:36 PM |
| 1 | I give upSwear off relationships, fine. But, nobody is stupid and worthless (stupid is questionable though lol). Please talk to someone, a male figure you trust preferably. | /r/MensRights | 28/11/22 03:24 PM |
| 1 | "Men are disgusting"I wouldn’t be so extreme but there is some truth here. As a woman I can confidently say I’m not attracted to maybe…89% of the men I meet on a daily basis, so yeah if they approach me it’s not exactly a good time for me, just an irritant like a door-to-door door salesman 😅 I say don’t be extreme only because I’m one woman and I’ve known women who would sleep with a trash can. Also, depending on social factors lots of women have different types. Girls from Compton like tattoos on faces. Girls from… | /r/MensRights | 28/11/22 03:22 PM |
| 2 | My apology.I’m not even trying to be combative, but I don’t know about worshiping and loving. Wanting to impregnate/have sex with someone is not worship or love. I see no where in history where women were worshipped or loved. I think men innately know the value of women of birthing age (this is where the wanting to protect and provide thing comes from), but that’s more for the future of humanity, not loving women themselves. | /r/MensRights | 28/11/22 03:16 PM |
| -2 | Tired of this excuse for male murdersI’m skimming and busy, but I think the reason for the bias is in your response in the case of intimate partner homicide. 70 women vs 12 men, not even close. However, in the work place, men are vastly over-represented. I think the place to start at is why? I think a big reason is men are way more likely to take dangerous jobs, jobs I couldn’t even imagine doing (too cute to be smeared in soot). I think a good place to start there is to rally for the importance of such roles. In American society, … | /r/MensRights | 28/11/22 02:53 PM |
| -5 | Tired of this excuse for male murdersDid you mean to send this to me, because I struggle to see how this justifies “but black people lolz”. | /r/MensRights | 28/11/22 02:36 PM |
| 3 | CNN analyst says ban on men under 25 owning firearms ‘will limit the number of mass killings’Gangsters? Most people avoid gangsters as they are callous about human life and break laws, so why bring up gangsters in this particular case? | /r/MensRights | 28/11/22 12:18 PM |
| -10 | Tired of this excuse for male murdersLeave black people alone, damn. Every time something goes wrong, or some of you can’t refute arguments logically, you bring black people up. This “come back” isn’t hitting like you thought it was, it never does. Just makes you look racist. Also, all races are harmed for the most part by the same race. Proximity. Come up with something better. | /r/MensRights | 28/11/22 12:08 PM |
| -2 | Tired of this excuse for male murdersTerrible argument. Women can’t get pregnant without a man’s participation. Unless you’re saying that the mother is way more impactful, and thusly important to a child’s outcomes? I thought this sub believed in the importance of fathers 🤔 | /r/MensRights | 28/11/22 12:05 PM |
| 0 | I wonder why men are less inclined to get married nowadays 🤔It smells good, buttery, sorta sweet, and very homey. I’m gonna make myself a huge bowl, turn on Coraline and continue to pick the bones of whoever decides to enter my alerts uninvited being belligerent. Gonna be a good time ☺️ | /r/MensRights | 04/09/22 08:38 PM |
| 1 | I wonder why men are less inclined to get married nowadays 🤔It is Fall in my home and you WILL deal 😠😂 Seriously though, my soup will change your mind it’s just that good. | /r/MensRights | 04/09/22 08:23 PM |
| 1 | I wonder why men are less inclined to get married nowadays 🤔Good day sir! 😂😂🤣🤣😂🤣 | /r/MensRights | 04/09/22 07:44 PM |
| 1 | I wonder why men are less inclined to get married nowadays 🤔Wait wait wait…so you’re upset because I said a woman can’t get pregnant without male participation? This conversation is over. And on behalf of all women I thank you for going your own way. | /r/MensRights | 04/09/22 07:42 PM |
| -6 | I wonder why men are less inclined to get married nowadays 🤔Absolutely, but you said men are not the key to pregnancy for women…. Yes they are because women can’t get pregnant without a man…. As for carrying it to term that’s the “giving birth” stage, it is her decision…looking for where I contested that 🤔. Couldn’t find it. Anyways, as a member of the more logical sex I’m going to need you to huddle up with the man with the lobster username and come back when you have an argument worth a damn. Until then, I will be cutting the ginger for my soup ☺️ | /r/MensRights | 04/09/22 07:17 PM |
| 3 | I wonder why men are less inclined to get married nowadays 🤔I’m not angry…well a little bit, just broke a nail trying to cut into this butternut squash. I’m making butternut squash soup tonight, in between steps I’m RESPONDING to the messages you guys are SENDING me lol. I didn’t engage you sir. | /r/MensRights | 04/09/22 06:46 PM |
| 3 | I wonder why men are less inclined to get married nowadays 🤔No 😘 | /r/MensRights | 04/09/22 06:38 PM |
| 1 | I wonder why men are less inclined to get married nowadays 🤔What’s the false claim? I see no lies lmao | /r/MensRights | 04/09/22 06:38 PM |
| 2 | I wonder why men are less inclined to get married nowadays 🤔Cool. I didn't say the whole sub though, I think the loudest bunch are pretty toxic though. | /r/MensRights | 04/09/22 06:33 PM |
| -15 | I wonder why men are less inclined to get married nowadays 🤔This is straight up generalization and a very illogical, childish one. So you are telling us that others subs don't suffer from the same? Everyone elsewhere are angels? What sub are we in? Did I mention any other subs? It was pointless to even say this. You're right, it could be very well more complicated. Men don't hold the key to pregnancy...lol sperm is the literal key that unlocks the egg lmao. That's neither here nor there though, I refuse to argue with you about your life (I don't care abo… | /r/MensRights | 04/09/22 06:32 PM |
| 2 | I wonder why men are less inclined to get married nowadays 🤔Sigh I was referring to op’s and the ppl who agree with him using this as a gotcha about women without context. That happens a lot here. | /r/MensRights | 04/09/22 06:26 PM |
| -22 | I wonder why men are less inclined to get married nowadays 🤔Period point blank. This sub suffers from a large amount of actual bad PEOPLE who masquerade as men who care about justice. Most claim to want healthy relationships, but want to be able to enter them and be as selfish as possible. …and then when those divorce papers show up, they become surprised pikachu. At this point, I think most people should just forgo marriage because this ain’t it. | /r/MensRights | 04/09/22 06:05 PM |
| 5 | Some questions I haveI can’t speak to anything else you wrote because I don’t understand it, but as for Drake spiking condoms…lmao it was his right. He put the hot sauce in after use and threw it away, correct? Any woman who gets sauced up because she wants to try to use his sperm when he clearly doesn’t consent to it, deserves it at that point. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. However, in the case of men going without condoms and shooting women’s clubs up indiscriminately…too bad—you literally gave her your lo… | /r/MensRights | 04/09/22 02:29 PM |
| 1 | I don’t think women understand men at all and really bizarre seeing how clueless they areI’m not triggered, I’m amused. I’m not even sure if I should engage lol, but I will lmao. First, I think you should expand your mind a bit. I didn’t emotionally interpret anything, I simply repeated what you said in the op before it got removed. You assume that I’m triggered or feeling emotional because I’m a woman, which is problematic. Do you though, I wouldn’t ask you to change. Tis not my business. I think (English is clearly not your first language)you said something about women wishing the… | /r/MensRights | 04/09/22 02:07 PM |
| 1 | I don’t think women understand men at all and really bizarre seeing how clueless they areSo, men who are muscular and love wild sex aren’t intellectually gifted. And men who are intellectuals are not attractive and aren’t great at sex. My woman brain also might cause me to see intellectual men as gay. Got it. I understand men a lot better now. Sigh what a conundrum. | /r/MensRights | 04/09/22 01:29 PM |
| 2 | disney is on a holly mission TO GROOM YOUR CHILDREN to submit for sex slavery for its entire life and making Men SIMPS my proof:There’s a difference between being a simp and sexually desiring women. If you conflate the two…well, I don’t even know what to say. | /r/MensRights | 01/09/22 09:24 PM |
| 3 | disney is on a holly mission TO GROOM YOUR CHILDREN to submit for sex slavery for its entire life and making Men SIMPS my proof:Oh so this is a kid’s show? Didn’t know, don’t do super heroes. I just think that there’s a lack of boundaries and morals in the media today. Kinda creepy when you think about adults deliberately adding blatant sexual undertones to a children’s show. Now, are they making simps? You lost me there. | /r/MensRights | 01/09/22 09:21 PM |
| 2 | disney is on a holly mission TO GROOM YOUR CHILDREN to submit for sex slavery for its entire life and making Men SIMPS my proof:Just so I’m clear, images like these are making boys into simps? | /r/MensRights | 01/09/22 08:45 PM |
| -1 | don't know if this is a red flag. please enlighten me😅 it’s always a win for me when the op of a thread here and I can reach common ground. I do hope everything works out for you as positively as possible. Even if that means you guys have to separate. Don’t lose sight even if it gets ugly before it gets better, the kid is most important. | /r/MensRights | 29/08/22 07:28 PM |
| -4 | don't know if this is a red flag. please enlighten meSome of y’all are so irritatingly ignorant. There are no facts in the OP, just op’s perception. He even responded to me and said there’s some truth to something that I said. Some of you be so ready for a fight that you throw away logic completely, like what does an alcoholic sound like? I admitted to not having a full scope of the relationship, none of do. Op responded to someone else here and said other stuff has happened, stuff not mentioned here. At no time did I excuse anyone, I’m just not b… | /r/MensRights | 29/08/22 07:15 PM |
| -9 | don't know if this is a red flag. please enlighten meI’ll come at this from a different angle, every single person I’ve known who had no business drinking, didn’t realize they had no business drinking. I’m the child of two alcoholics, who also had parents who were alcoholics, who also had parents who had substance abuse issues—a long line of problems. For that reason, I don’t drink or smoke or do anything lol, but every time I would even suggest that my drunken, neglectful parents should stop, they would say things like “I don’t even drink that mu… | /r/MensRights | 29/08/22 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Do women need men need women?I made it out of a very tough upbringing/environment, and it wasn’t luck. I worked hard and I’m sure you did too. Give yourself some credit. Tbh, I’ve been fighting for my life in this thread so long I forgot what this thread is even about lmao, despite that you made some good points. | /r/MensRights | 29/08/22 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Do women need men need women?I’m on my phone so I’m going to do my best to answer this in a way that makes sense. Good on you for attempting to make something of yourself. Rising in a system against you is a sign of grit, something we all need to varying degrees to make it. Most of your peers (as well as mine, I’m young too) seem to be going off the deep end, men and women. I think this is a social issue, as well as Darwin at play—a good portion of ppl now have not been given the tools to face adversity, they just cry about… | /r/MensRights | 29/08/22 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Do women need men need women?I think life in a highly developed country for everyone is easy mode. A lot of you guys have the option to sit at home and do nothing (which quite a few have taken), or get into something less dangerous (appreciation to the men out there in the trenches). As I said, it can’t be healthy/good to choose a job and then go to it every day while thinking “most of my tax dollars go to women.” Just don’t do them then 😏. Seriously. And more men than ever seem resistant to the tough, dangerous jobs. Isn’t… | /r/MensRights | 29/08/22 01:48 PM |
| 1 | Do women need men need women?So, when I go to work and pay taxes I don’t support men too? I’m not too a cog in the wheel? It’s kinda cute how some of you think women’s are like, reminds me of what I thought being an adult would be like as a kid lol. Utopia, and then I got here 😅 Anyways, you can’t say women don’t care and won’t help, and then follow up with the impossibility of unwiring from your natural programming. If men (nor women) can’t overcome themselves, what exactly do you expect the opposite sex to do? There are p… | /r/MensRights | 29/08/22 11:51 AM |
| -15 | What Women Mean When They Say “I Don’t Need A Man”ETA: never mind, I’m deleting my response.There’s a certain ick to certain individuals that I don’t like engaging with. You sure showed me 😉. I hope things get better for you. | /r/MensRights | 29/08/22 07:09 AM |
| -16 | What Women Mean When They Say “I Don’t Need A Man”Op, you can find love. You can even find a woman who “needs” you. I have a friend like that, I need them. We’ve been friends for years and on a mental/emotional level I do need them. If they were to ghost me one day I would be hurt, would survive but I guess I’m nitpicking now. When women say they don’t need men…who the hell needs a random anybody. I don’t need most men, but I do appreciate the contributions of some. Beyond contribution and utility, I would need to meet a man who is right for me… | /r/MensRights | 29/08/22 06:15 AM |
| 1 | What Dating Issues are More Difficult Now Compared to 20 Years Ago?😅…men and women are competitive when it comes to gaining the attention of certain ppl at different points in time. Are women slimy…ehhh. I just think certain things just are, and if we can agree on that yes, we can be unicorn friends lmao. | /r/MensRights | 29/08/22 01:41 AM |
| 1 | Do women need men need women?I don’t think they should be treated like tools…especially not for other people. Does a lack of meaning harm the others or the self more? This is one of the biggest issues I’ve seen with some ppl here. Stop worrying so much about how women see you. Tbh, women who are doing what they need to for themselves aren’t thinking about you, or applying the same importance onto some of you as you might be doing them. Go your own ways, take one of those colored pills or whatever, but whatever you call it, … | /r/MensRights | 28/08/22 10:56 PM |
| 1 | Do women need men need women?I think there’s some confusion here, you’re kinda assuming what I find amazing. I think men who do “menial” work are needed. The ones who keep the water clean, build the roads/houses. They have important skills that I don’t care to learn or do. They are very important and I do need and appreciate them. When I said menial work fodder, I meant the ones without these types of skills or the drive to get things done which you indicate yourself is a dying breed. Notice what you said, you mentioned men… | /r/MensRights | 28/08/22 05:53 AM |
| 1 | Do women need men need women?This is a tough one…. Do women need men? Yes, if we would like to continue with the life we we born into (the building, technological advancements). However, it’s a hesitant “yes” for me. Advancement has always been headed by a few amazing men, with the rest being fodder for the menial work. Men have more extreme variation than women. Meaning that while most women fall into average levels of intelligence on the bell curve, men have a higher chance of being genius as well as really unintelligent.… | /r/MensRights | 28/08/22 01:02 AM |
| 1 | What Dating Issues are More Difficult Now Compared to 20 Years Ago?I agree. No one should be valued for just gender. There are waste people on both sides. | /r/MensRights | 27/08/22 12:55 PM |
| 1 | What Dating Issues are More Difficult Now Compared to 20 Years Ago?I’m not sure what you mean. I guess the type of man I’m thinking about could go his own way, but he would still be able to value others, especially a woman of a similar caliber. Strong people, and that means mentally/emotionally, can sus out other strong ppl and respect them. Most men and women are not strong in these ways though. I don’t know, but I think a lot of ppl these days just pair up and don’t think about stuff like I mentioned and for good reason. If everyone pulled people apart like I… | /r/MensRights | 27/08/22 12:41 PM |
| 3 | What Dating Issues are More Difficult Now Compared to 20 Years Ago?In my opinion, the greatest quality a person can have is integrity. I don’t know if you’ve ever heard the saying “the road to hell is wide; and the road to heaven is narrow.” I would put on the highest pedestal someone who is more likely to take the narrow road. It’s easy to follow any hedonistic whim you might have, but takes foresight, strength and some serious morals to try to be in control of oneself. This means being more likely to tell the truth than lie. It means being charitable, freely … | /r/MensRights | 27/08/22 12:28 PM |
| 1 | What Dating Issues are More Difficult Now Compared to 20 Years Ago?However, my point is that despite having above average achievments, I don't attract the average woman. Meanwhile, the average woman has men queuing for her, all she has to do is download Tinder and go on a shopping spree. The point is that men might make poor choices or compromises but they are picking 1 out of say 10 while women pick 1 out of hundreds and still manage to fuck up and blame men for it. I think it might seem like women have hundreds, but I think you overestimate the qualities of H… | /r/MensRights | 27/08/22 03:15 AM |
| 1 | What Dating Issues are More Difficult Now Compared to 20 Years Ago?Got it, I agree on that as well. Great discussion 🤝 | /r/MensRights | 27/08/22 02:17 AM |
| 1 | What Dating Issues are More Difficult Now Compared to 20 Years Ago?Lol K, I know what logic is and why it's important. Anyways, my point still remains. It seems that men and women have very similar patterns when it comes to choosing a mate. It might be presented differently, and both sexes might feel their way is superior or fairer, but the results tend to be the same. To me, the results matter the most. | /r/MensRights | 27/08/22 02:08 AM |
| 1 | What Dating Issues are More Difficult Now Compared to 20 Years Ago?Wait a second. I might just be having a brain fart, it’s getting a bit late, but you’re saying that women might choose a short aggressive man for his aggression while ignoring his shortness? If that were true, then the “napoleon complex” thing wouldn’t exist. I think the man still has to be passably attractive to her. There are plenty of angry (and aggressive) short kings who get no play. And again, I’m not sure if I’m missing something, but if both genders choose badly as a result of socializat… | /r/MensRights | 27/08/22 01:54 AM |
| 3 | What Dating Issues are More Difficult Now Compared to 20 Years Ago?OFC I would choose Man B. I prefer stability over sexual attraction, and I find for me that stability kinda leads to sexual attraction. I can count on one hand the times I ever saw a man and wanted to sleep with him without getting to know him first. Even the guys I've been with I probably wasn't physically attracted to, but they had something to them that got me going (usually, it's intelligence). I'm 27 and have never given my time to men with drug habits, unemployed, bums, or trashy deadbeat … | /r/MensRights | 27/08/22 01:42 AM |
| 1 | What Dating Issues are More Difficult Now Compared to 20 Years Ago?I'm not sure what point you mean to make here. Men don't choose crazy women...but they overlook crazy for attraction, is that not still choosing a crazy woman? How we said it might be different, but the result is the same, is it not? Also, of course, no one is choosing crazy and unattractive, that was never a question. | /r/MensRights | 27/08/22 01:29 AM |
| 6 | What Dating Issues are More Difficult Now Compared to 20 Years Ago?I guess they want children and have been taught that they need to find “their person.” This is completely normal, and under healthy circumstances a good thing. In my ideal relationship, we put each other on a pedestal. To the point though, no human should be pedestalized (not a real word I think) for no reason. Bring substance or stay away I say. | /r/MensRights | 27/08/22 12:56 AM |
| 2 | What Dating Issues are More Difficult Now Compared to 20 Years Ago?The couples I see? Usually younger people, but I guess because the venues I frequent. I’m 27 so I’m not gonna hang with a bunch of 40/50s, so I see people in their 20s and 30s mostly. The amount of couples I see is a bit surprising tbh lol, everyone seems to have woken up last Monday and decided to pair off. Again, average ppl. A lot of the men are short and the women facially challenged, and I say that respectfully lol. | /r/MensRights | 27/08/22 12:46 AM |
| 2 | What Dating Issues are More Difficult Now Compared to 20 Years Ago?I do agree with this take. I don’t think that human mating practices lead to success in today’s world because today’s is not natural. Natural instinct for both men and women is proving to be more harmful than not at this time. Women choose dangerous men who lead to destruction, men choose emotionally/mentally volatile women who go forward to further the brokenness of the system. Mom is the one most kids spend the first years around mostly, making her job quite important as certain traits are bui… | /r/MensRights | 27/08/22 12:24 AM |
| 12 | What Dating Issues are More Difficult Now Compared to 20 Years Ago?Oh sure! Usually the sign becomes more apparent with time. If she seemed disgusted/disinterested with you at first, but then suddenlychanges her mind, control your excitement and vet the hell out of her. Was she dating someone else before she had this epiphany? I personally wouldn’t take her seriously, I know that when I’m into someone and it doesn’t work out what usually works is flirting with someone else, takes the edge off the pain lol. Ask her questions. Ask why she changed her mind, casual… | /r/MensRights | 27/08/22 12:14 AM |
| 1 | Marriage & DivorceI don’t think you should get married, just date casually. Something about the way you mentioned a wandering eye/cheating seems off—there’s a comfort with the idea there that I don’t think will serve you well in a marriage. Just casually date. | /r/MensRights | 27/08/22 12:05 AM |
| 4 | What Dating Issues are More Difficult Now Compared to 20 Years Ago?Honestly, and this is just theory, but I think “dangerous men” can seem safer than…not dangerous men lol? It’s not logical (sex rarely is). A dangerous man is usually one of the ones at the top. He’s stronger (physically, mentally, emotionally) in some ways than the rest. He’s a taker, conquers the world. However, like men who fantasize about the hot slut having only eyes for him, it’s all fantasy and not likely to happen. Women want that strong dangerous man to be able to conquer other men/the … | /r/MensRights | 26/08/22 11:45 PM |
| 23 | What Dating Issues are More Difficult Now Compared to 20 Years Ago?As a woman, I can say that women who play these types of games are the ones who have a good 45% of you guys in here crying once a week. Stay away from women who do this. A normal, healthy, rational person says yes and means it, and says no and means it. Starting to like you more can happen over time, but beyond that, just no. | /r/MensRights | 26/08/22 11:00 PM |
| 3 | What Dating Issues are More Difficult Now Compared to 20 Years Ago?I do agree with a lot of what you said, but you wrote something that tripped up my spidey senses. You mentioned beautiful women making the same decisions as women who are not. Beauty is not a personality trait, and so of course if women are raised with the same socialization in the same environment, they will often have similar ideas about what is attractive. Add biological factors, and yes, women no matter what they look like might have some similarities. I find that ppl tend to do this—assume … | /r/MensRights | 26/08/22 10:19 PM |
| 17 | What Dating Issues are More Difficult Now Compared to 20 Years Ago?I’m torn on this. I see a lot of couples and tbh, most people are pretty average. Though, I will say women do tend to flock to the same types of men a lot of the time. What I’ve noticed though, in order to be a “prize” as man in an any arena, you have to be the top guy in that specific arena. So, there is some variation, but it depends on where you are and the competition. I’ve been in work places where “the hot guy” was a known abuser/cheater/loser, but he SEEMED for whatever reason to be the b… | /r/MensRights | 26/08/22 08:37 PM |
| 2 | happiness one directionYour feelings are valid. I don’t blame anyone for not wanting to take the dive in relationships, often times the juice isn’t worth the squeeze. When I mentioned kids, I meant break ups/divorces happen, and if someone isn’t happy they should be free to go. However, I think they should think twice when there are kids involved. If female neuroticism or things like that make men less likely to want relationships, more power to them 🤷🏽♀️ You’re not responsible for anyone but yourself and potential d… | /r/MensRights | 25/08/22 05:44 PM |
| -10 | My (18f) boyfriend (18m) wants to record a video of me consenting before we have sexI wouldn’t sleep with the guy, but it’s his right. Everybody just has to understand that your actions/likes/dislikes will bring about responses from others. He’ll just be looking longer for partners, not a big deal I guess. | /r/MensRights | 25/08/22 05:31 PM |
| 0 | happiness one directionI thought we already knew this. Women are more likely to leave when the situation no longer suits them. I don’t think this is a good or bad thing depending on the circumstances (children being involved and things like that). | /r/MensRights | 25/08/22 05:30 PM |
| 13 | Women are more likely to cheat than menYes, I tend to be a girl’s girl despite some male leaning hobbies (gaming, anime.) I just don’t respect illogical thinking/behaviors. Keeps my circles small. | /r/MensRights | 25/08/22 03:47 AM |
| -3 | What is really an incel?It is. Did I say it wasn’t. In fact, did I mention anything about killing men? 😒 | /r/MensRights | 24/08/22 10:53 PM |
| 50 | Women are more likely to cheat than menLmao it went downhill quick too. We were laughing and as she started saying things like “yeah, I agree! That’s why I’m the way I am! If he’s not doing it right find someone who will.” Comments like those and my laughter went from roaring, to a chuckle, to a look of wtf? The moment when I stopped and said, “you know I’m joking right,” you could have heard a pin drop. It was then she started spewing the details of what she had been doing for months. None of us had any idea. Her bf, the one we knew… | /r/MensRights | 24/08/22 05:48 PM |
| 46 | Women are more likely to cheat than menI don’t think it’s bad at all. I believe that immorality leaks into all aspects of a person’s life and I don’t like the ick that comes from people like that. I had always questioned her as a friend based off things she would tell me about her past, but I ignored it for the sake of the friend group and trying to be more “open minded.” One thing I do pretty well is read people, so when it all came out all I could do was shrug and tell our other friends “I knew it!” Lmao | /r/MensRights | 24/08/22 05:31 PM |
| 72 | Women are more likely to cheat than menHe brought the tickets and she drove HIS mother’s car over an hour to get to the guy she cheated with while the family (she would visit his family too when he was out of town) was away for a camping trip once, pretended to be sick in order to do so. Nasty stuff. | /r/MensRights | 24/08/22 05:28 PM |
| -15 | What is really an incel?Incel has become a word to describe men who seem irrationally angry/jealous of women, and I think for good reason (not saying I agree, just that I think it’s clear why). What I’ve found is all lot of dudes who threaten terroristic acts or show extreme hate for women tend to overlap with incel or incel-lite communities. For example, on Reddit I’ve seen more than once male users say extremist things like “women should be removed from the workplace, or down with birth control and abortions.” At fir… | /r/MensRights | 24/08/22 05:05 PM |
| 46 | Whenever the gender disparity in suicide death rates is brought up, one of the most common explanations given is that men refuse to seek help for their mental health issuesI think there to be more male focused therapy, and more male therapist. There needs to be more “masculine approaches,” because it’s true, a lot of men need help but can’t find it in the more feminized field of psych. I previously worked in a psychiatric hospital and we would frequently decline male clients/patients due to their (and I say this gently) higher propensity towards aggression and sometimes violence. Women tend to lean manipulative and emotionally volatile while in the ER before they … | /r/MensRights | 24/08/22 04:33 PM |
| 281 | Women are more likely to cheat than menI’m not surprised. Had a friend who was cheating on her bf. Randomly on vacation she starts talking about bad relationships and things like that, jokingly I said “the answer is to cheat!” She started nodding and cheering me on, at the point I knew I something was off. I say to her “I’m joking though….” Long story short, once I found out she was actually cheating, I told her not cool bro and ended up losing a friend. However, if one were to go browse her social media pages, her other friends are … | /r/MensRights | 24/08/22 04:16 PM |
| 1 | 9 years ago I had a long distance gf who left me to sleep with other people because I was too broke to pay for the tickets to go and see her. I haven’t met anyone that I have loved ever since we broke up. Is there something wrong with me?I don’t have much to add to this conversation, but I will ask that you keep your head up and take the time you need to heal. Make love to yourself (eat well, learn a skill, get a new hobby) and know that nothing she did was a reflection of you. She was most likely young (no excuse, i hate that as an excuse but it factors in) and overall a terrible partner. Word of warning though, try not to get into long distance relationships if you can. I’ve dabbled and overall they tend to suck lol. I guess I… | /r/MensRights | 24/08/22 02:21 PM |
| 3 | Why can't you report Onlyfans bait as sexual harassment?You know, I never thought about this. It is sexual harassment. Just a heads up for the parents here who let their kids play online video games (fortnight, fall guys) sometimes ppl online send random messages inviting kids to porn sites and to watch them on cam for pay. I’ve gotten more than a few and I’m a single player kinda girl who peeks into the online lobbies of games before noping out. However, somehow Horny_Jessica234 still ends up in my inbox. | /r/MensRights | 24/08/22 01:55 PM |
| 1 | Why is it selfish to want sex?Being touched out is real. I say this as someone who worked in a school. I don’t know what these kids where on, but whenever I was in reach there was a head against my arm. Girls playing with my hair when all they were supposed to do was get the pass from behind me to go to the bathroom. One time, I was leaving early and ended up with a kid on each leg to hold me in place. I will say I loved those kids and as evidenced by their actions, they liked me too (even stayed two extra hours on the last … | /r/MensRights | 07/08/22 10:02 PM |
| 2 | Daughter drew a picture of her family..I’ve always resented that unbreakable mother/child bong thing. It ignores that most healthy people will judge you by how you treat them, not just a title. I sincerely think that that sort of thinking leads a lot of mothers into careless reckless behaviors. They think their child will just forget and move on. | /r/MensRights | 26/07/22 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Advice on dealing with female neighbour?I see this situation going South. You’re way too fixated on how “hot” she is, and what she may or may not think of you. Almost sounds like you have a crush lmao. However, you know she is a drug dealer, you know she has issues…yet you seem to be on some level, maybe even unconsciously entertaining the “what ifs?” If you’re smart and can control yourself, you’d know it’s best to just be cordial but no more than that. Plenty of sexually forward/aggressive people are pretty unsavory and tend to have… | /r/MensRights | 09/07/22 10:35 AM |
| 25 | The way that women treat short men is horribleL M F A O I could read and tell it wasn’t a woman, but thanks for the confirmation | /r/MensRights | 26/06/22 03:01 PM |
| 0 | Roe V. Wade OverturnedInstead of fighting against a woman’s right to get abortion, you guys need to organize and take paper abortion to the streets. March, picket, boycot, go on a sex strike lol. You know…fight for men’s rights. Sitting at home and beating your dick to Roe vs. Wade isn’t going to help you guys, in fact, it’ll just make things worse. | /r/MensRights | 24/06/22 04:18 PM |
| 3 | Roe overturned, a win for father's rightsOh my goodness, I didn’t know that. Lol this is terrible in a funny sort of way. America wants/needs babies and they don’t care how they get them. | /r/MensRights | 24/06/22 04:03 PM |
| -2 | Roe V. Wade OverturnedSome of these weirdos long for a world where women are chained to a stove and pregnant because she can’t work for herself. They want women to not have many options, because options means not having to deal with them. I don’t want children and I don’t believe in using abortion as birth control, but come on the celebration here is weird. | /r/MensRights | 24/06/22 04:01 PM |
| -1 | Roe V. Wade OverturnedAll facts! Good luck convincing some of the men here if that though, they sound like ghosts of extremist religions past with their feminine wiles boogie stories. “We can’t be more discerning about women, then we’ll….” not have to deal with false accusations? No more being baby trapped? No more paying child support for the kids you do not want? It’s like they don’t want to take responsibility for the crazy they put their dicks in. They will argue in favor of taking anyone no matter how crazy, bec… | /r/MensRights | 24/06/22 03:59 PM |
| 5 | Roe overturned, a win for father's rightsAs someone who has dealt with uterine cysts this is so scary to me, I almost feel like crying. It’s so weird to celebrate something like this. This is disgusting. | /r/MensRights | 24/06/22 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Why her history mattersI’m not a fan of drama and emotional friction, I don’t like what I can’t trust. Why would I like someone I can’t trust with my emotions and body? Honestly, I would question the mental health of someone who would like someone but know they cannot trust. I’ve seen it happen with people. Dating and sleeping with people they wouldn’t trust with their pet turtle. These were usually needy people with underlying mental/emotional issues. The natural response to unease is distance, not humping lmao As fa… | /r/MensRights | 24/06/22 09:40 AM |
| 2 | To the feminists here that are constantly trying to shit on men having equal rights… why?It’s not so much about typos, I make them too. It’s about not being able to communicate due to a lack of comprehension while being filled with belligerent, “righteous” anger. There have been so many times that I’ve asked completely normal questions and received a nonsensical tirade in return. “Why do you think so many men make women and sex a focal point in their lives? How do we change that, because it’s not healthy?” Response: “I’m am stud of 6’9, you women can’t hurt me with your bullshit any… | /r/MensRights | 24/06/22 09:05 AM |
| 2 | Genuinely curious as to why a lot of y’all think this about womenLol I can assure you I don’t look like a lesbian, I see that /s but yeah no lmaooooo. For the sake of political correctness: what does a lesbian look like anyways? I think women are just more comfortable flirting with me. | /r/MensRights | 23/06/22 11:35 PM |
| 1 | Why her history mattersYes, but not everyone woman likes the same things, just like not every man. I actively avoid the popular guys, I don’t have the time, patience, ego or emotional capacity to do battle with other women for a man | /r/MensRights | 23/06/22 11:29 PM |
| 1 | Genuinely curious as to why a lot of y’all think this about womenEhhh I don’t like limiting of specific race dating sites and I don’t have a racial preference. I just get annoyed at stereotypes. | /r/MensRights | 23/06/22 07:40 PM |
| 2 | Genuinely curious as to why a lot of y’all think this about womenWell, I’m not a “Stacey” lol. I’m a minority woman in a predominately white country. You’ve probably seen the online dating stats, women of color don’t tend to get the same attention say white women get. I think that plays a part. I have no social media so I’m not sliding or having anyone slide into my dms. There’s a lot of factors. Overall, I think I probably would have made a killing pre-tinder before approaching in person became taboo lmao | /r/MensRights | 23/06/22 07:24 PM |
| 8 | Why her history mattersOk, but I’m not attracted to studs. I don’t like promiscuous people and that’s my right. | /r/MensRights | 23/06/22 07:21 PM |
| 3 | Why her history mattersWhile I despise the 18-25 vs 28-40 thing lol, I’m 27 why am I being lumped in with middle aged women 🤣, I guess I could see the merit of what you’re saying. I would say pay attention to how she speaks. Does she say things about liking different types of guys before, is she not forthcoming about her sexual history? I say this because all the friends I had that cheated on or somehow hurt pretty good guys mentioned how boring and “safe” the guys for months before we found out they were already ment… | /r/MensRights | 23/06/22 07:20 PM |
| 2 | Genuinely curious as to why a lot of y’all think this about womenCould be!? Lmao no, I’m not into women. | /r/MensRights | 23/06/22 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Genuinely curious as to why a lot of y’all think this about womenIn your comment you mentioned attention from the opposite sex. I know for a fact I have more to offer than looks lol, my point though was men aren’t rolling out a red carpet for me. In fact, I more often see frumpy and/or average girls getting attention. But then again, I’m introverted and about my business, so maybe I don’t come off as available…which I’m mostly not lol. | /r/MensRights | 23/06/22 07:09 PM |
| 3 | Genuinely curious as to why a lot of y’all think this about womenI don’t know if this is true. I do think pretty privilege has gotten me better treatment at work and things like that, but my phone is drier than the Sahara. I’m regularly told I should model, I can see peoples eyes light up upon seeing me, but men don’t really compliment me or bother me much. Dating has been a dud honestly. Eta: the lesbians though lmao, they love me. | /r/MensRights | 23/06/22 06:59 PM |
| 3 | Why her history mattersTo be fair though, I think men should be empathetic in these situations as well. I only feel the need to say this because some readers here are immature and don’t understand nuance. Not every wife who slows down on the sex after a child is the girl we’re talking about here. Hormones are a helluva drug. I was on hormonal birth control for two years before I called it quits. I was depressed, getting fat (stopped taking it 4 months ago, have since lost 30 lbs), and sex just was not appealing on it,… | /r/MensRights | 23/06/22 06:53 PM |
| 4 | Why her history mattersThat’s is true! I guess I’m not a fan of the externally slutty lol | /r/MensRights | 23/06/22 06:47 PM |
| 4 | Why her history mattersSome people are never happy, they actually are addicted to struggling. It’s like people who get off on adrenaline. The work ethic thing….I couldn’t date anyone without it. Laziness is just a turn off for me, or even…luke warm-ness, so I don’t know if it was a red flag. But, yeah, some ppl like to create turmoil because it makes them feel alive. They’re dead inside without. | /r/MensRights | 23/06/22 06:41 PM |
| 3 | Why her history mattersYeah, I don’t have time for skirt chasers and I’m not one of those women who think they can change a man with my gold lined vagene lol. I disqualify early on so I don’t have to worry about that madness. | /r/MensRights | 23/06/22 05:56 PM |
| 7 | Why her history mattersI say this all the time, but men should be mindful because there are women who will be with you for just trustworthy sperm. They’re not particularly into the man, but he’ll do to satisfy her baby-making urges. Once a home is settled and the babies are had, he’s a somewhat beneficial inconvenience at best. I don’t think they do it on purpose. Baby goggles are the closest thing to beer goggles that you can get naturally. They truly think they want the man, but when you listen to them talk about hi… | /r/MensRights | 23/06/22 05:50 PM |
| 8 | Why her history mattersI feel the same about men. Don’t trust ones with extensive sexual history—however, the red pill told me I like men who are slutty? To his own, but this topic is particularly funny to me because of how angry people get when it’s discussed. | /r/MensRights | 23/06/22 05:36 PM |
| 2 | HeightismI agree, but as a woman of color I can say that plenty of people have a racial preference. I don’t mind it as I wouldn’t want someone who doesn’t want me. I wouldn’t want society to shame them into wanting me either lol | /r/MensRights | 23/06/22 02:57 PM |
| 1 | HeightismDo people just go for people based on height though? I would think it’s factored in with other parts. Attraction is expected within a relationship. I’m a woman of color, so I know there’s people who wouldn’t be into me, but I don’t fault them and I wouldn’t want them shamed into dating me. Now, that’s a risky situation lol | /r/MensRights | 23/06/22 12:42 PM |
| 32 | Female rapists faces additional charges| people in comments are saying that getting raped is a teenage boys dream.I’ve always been disgusted by that. I remember being a teen and reading this sort of thing in the yahoo comment section, disgusting. Who do you think causes/promotes this sort of thing? I commented once about it, about how disturbing thinking a teenaged boy liking being raped by their teacher is, and someone replied, “well, you’ve never been a teenaged boy.” | /r/MensRights | 23/06/22 12:19 PM |
| -11 | To the feminists here that are constantly trying to shit on men having equal rights… why?Same. A good portion of the posts are men demonizing women, badly I might add, because the stories don’t often add up. The OPs are often times school kids. Who honestly trusts children to be unbiased and rational? A lot of the OPs lack the ability to speak/write proper English and/or express proper thoughts. It’s strange sometimes what’s flung back and forth here, HOWEVER, there are some people who post who seem smart, rational and mature enough to engage with. I hope they get their needs met—pa… | /r/MensRights | 23/06/22 10:45 AM |
| 1 | Proposal: all men after the age of 18 should carry a pocket recording device and record their goings on to prevent/strike back against False AccusersPart me wishes that all your hard work pans out to something, so you can activate your UNO reverse card (the recordings). But then, the other side doesn’t wish a false allegation on anyone. Be safe out there. | /r/MensRights | 23/06/22 12:25 AM |
| -2 | Proposal: all men after the age of 18 should carry a pocket recording device and record their goings on to prevent/strike back against False AccusersHmmm ok. Wow though, I could never be that organized and meticulous. Good on you for that. As for the recordings…thank God we don’t know each other, I couldn’t imagine someone keeping record of all the dumb things I say 😅 | /r/MensRights | 23/06/22 12:18 AM |
| -6 | Proposal: all men after the age of 18 should carry a pocket recording device and record their goings on to prevent/strike back against False AccusersThere will be those who take it to the extreme. Hell, even recorded conversations is a bit much…time consuming and I think, eventually emotionally tiresome. Things have a way of snowballing out of control lol. Yeah…a girl might have to be celibate because life is getting too wild for me lmao. | /r/MensRights | 23/06/22 12:14 AM |
| 1 | HeightismFor me yes! Anything below is a no go, but I’m 5’8 lol. I guess my feminity is fragile. I think 5’10 is perfect for any woman who isn’t a fem-bot ruled by arbitrary numbers given to her by memes on the internet. | /r/MensRights | 23/06/22 12:12 AM |
| 6 | Proposal: all men after the age of 18 should carry a pocket recording device and record their goings on to prevent/strike back against False AccusersLife is so scary now. With the way things are going and the extreme responses, I wouldn’t even dare have sex with a man anywhere but my own home…and even then. Pretty soon people will be full on secretly filming sex to prove/disprove consent. Dark times a’comin. | /r/MensRights | 23/06/22 12:09 AM |
| 2 | Nationwide sperm shortage means 75% of donated swimmers come from abroadPeople say they don’t need the opposite sex for procreation? Maybe far into the future, unfortunately for now, we’re all stuck with each other. | /r/MensRights | 23/06/22 12:06 AM |
| 2 | Men have the right to have boundaries in a relationship without being labeled as “controlling”I didn’t see it as negative. There are plenty of things people don’t care about until they’re in relationships, it doesn’t make it their business to try to change the other person though. Many things can be true at once. Personally, as I said in my comment, the way to control for this is going for the modest girls from the start. Humor me though, do you think these women who call men controlling for wanting them to be modest, were in indeed modest and then somehow discovered booty shorts and low… | /r/MensRights | 22/06/22 10:54 PM |
| 1 | Men have the right to have boundaries in a relationship without being labeled as “controlling”I totally agree, but people force relationships so power struggles begin. It is controlling to want to change a person, but also not want to leave. Like just break up if your previously modest gf discovers booty shorts all of a sudden. | /r/MensRights | 22/06/22 10:34 PM |
| -2 | Men have the right to have boundaries in a relationship without being labeled as “controlling”Lol maybe, ok. But isn’t that true? If she was wearing stuff like that before you started dating, and THEN have a problem with it…isn’t that the usual story. They usually meet these women and continue to date them with the booty shorts present. If this happened with modest women, it wouldn’t even be a stereotype. I wasn’t exactly being negative, more so speaking in a general truth. Kinda like how women typically go for the “best” guy in any space they occupy. Most of the women in any given space… | /r/MensRights | 22/06/22 10:15 PM |
| -5 | Men have the right to have boundaries in a relationship without being labeled as “controlling”I said same thing and got voted down lol, oh to be a woman in this sub | /r/MensRights | 22/06/22 09:08 PM |
| 3 | I wonder if feminism is about making ugly women equal to beautiful women?People will have their opinions, just like you have yours, I think that’s the best way to chalk it up. Your mistress for example, could never be me, but it’s good for her. Difference of values and opinions m. | /r/MensRights | 22/06/22 07:45 PM |
| 3 | I wonder if feminism is about making ugly women equal to beautiful women?I guess so, I’m a woman with the same hormones as feminists. I think prostitution should be legal. I actually like the idea that a bunch of men I most likely don’t want to be occupied elsewhere. I think feminists see men as monsters taking advantage of those women. | /r/MensRights | 22/06/22 07:39 PM |
| 3 | Men have the right to have boundaries in a relationship without being labeled as “controlling”Totally, but yeah, in general people don’t like people trying to change things about them. Just say away from girls who have the tendency to wear revealing clothes. You can see that when spending time with them, as well as their social media | /r/MensRights | 22/06/22 06:58 PM |
| 2 | I wonder if feminism is about making ugly women equal to beautiful women?Porn stars are beautiful? Ehhh maybe if you’re used to be surrounded by people who look like trailer park meth heads. But then again, I’ve been told I’m picky. Anyways, I don’t think feminists think that way at all. | /r/MensRights | 22/06/22 06:51 PM |
| 1 | Men have the right to have boundaries in a relationship without being labeled as “controlling”I think that people will feel how they want. However, usually men only usually start caring about their partners wearing their coochie cutters (booty shorts lmao) after they start dating, that’s why it’s called controlling. You met her wearing that, why do you think her wardrobe should change? Why not go for girls who present modestly from the get go? Imagine if you met a girl playing GTA online, you guys get together and suddenly she doesn’t like you playing video games—weird huh? | /r/MensRights | 22/06/22 06:47 PM |
| -8 | 'Pussy Power' is merely the Male Sex DriveI know I for damn sure don’t want kids, and I worked for my own security. This post is just stroking Op’s hurt, makes him feel better. There a small portion of men who live with the fantasy that one day, these women will succumb to their need to be filled with fetus and toss aside their morals and standards and start chasing them. However, as we’re seeing, women are more likely to just get cats, surround themselves with female friends and die that way than do that. And even the few who do do tha… | /r/MensRights | 22/06/22 02:06 PM |
| 1 | Single father surrogacy is an option!!Having your actual mom and just something in stands in place doesn’t seem to be the same as having an actual mother. To be fair, most of these women’s mothers had passed, which I guess adds an extra layer of pain. These were girls whose moms died when they were young, 2-4. Unfortunately, the became the type of girls who couldn’t relate easily to other women, and were usually in terrible relationships. They all were teenage moms, barring the one who kept having abortions. | /r/MensRights | 22/06/22 12:47 PM |
| -1 | indifference can hurtI’m not sure what you’re talking about. I was asking what op meant by “indifference hurts.” Who does it hurt? My goodness some of you have reading/comprehension problems, it makes this place painful to participate in sometimes | /r/MensRights | 22/06/22 03:12 AM |
| 12 | Absolutely Terrified……. I want to spank you like you’re my child lmao. And I don’t have kids, let alone one that could be as old as you 🤣 Hopefully this can just be a lesson learned. No more playing with crazy. Find nice women, as well ones who also would rather die than give birth in their early 20s when they’re most likely broke and dumb. Don’t forget that the point of bringing your own condom is for safety, don’t just leave them around psychos. Don’t sleep with women who have nothing to lose but everything to gai… | /r/MensRights | 21/06/22 09:54 PM |
| 4 | Absolutely Terrified…If you had your own how did she poke holes? | /r/MensRights | 21/06/22 09:50 PM |
| 19 | Absolutely Terrified…Why marry her? Why keep crazy? You can be a great dad from afar. You’ll regret it. Be careful, be safe and be vigilant—find a nicer girl. Today it’s maybe poking holes in condoms, tomorrow it’s putting arsenic in you food for the insurance money lol | /r/MensRights | 21/06/22 09:26 PM |
| 6 | Absolutely Terrified…Yeah, watch where you stick your John. If you see a system set up not in your favor, why fall willingly into traps? I feel the same way about people in poverty who also decide to have a litter of babies and snort coke. There’s still a chance you won’t be the father. Get a paternity test. If you are the father though, I would hope that you can be there in some way—being without a father can break a child. I know it’s sucks but please think about the greater good. Even if it’s just child support. | /r/MensRights | 21/06/22 09:11 PM |
| 15 | Absolutely Terrified…So…you stuck your dick in crazy? Why did you sleep with her if she seemed like that? I only ask because it’s important that recognize a potential harmful pattern before it begins. | /r/MensRights | 21/06/22 09:06 PM |
| 50 | Absolutely Terrified…Sigh…did you use protection? If not, buckle up. It’s gonna be a rough few months if not years. | /r/MensRights | 21/06/22 09:05 PM |
| -1 | indifference can hurtI think it’s normal. People decide they don’t want to date every day. I think it’s fine, and I’m sure other women would too as long as long as you guys can be civil | /r/MensRights | 21/06/22 08:52 PM |
| -1 | indifference can hurtNo women can deal with your indifference, that’s my point lmao! I’m a woman, and I don’t care about a strangers indifference. The main point though, is that weaponized indifference is energy you could be putting towards something that will actually help you that’s all. I don’t believe English is your first language, so you’re taking the things I’m saying and not understanding them fully, which is fine. But, believe when I say I have no insulted you. | /r/MensRights | 21/06/22 08:42 PM |
| -1 | indifference can hurtNo, I mentioned my profession to say I know a little about how the mind works. No one in this world cares about a faceless somebody saying they don’t care about them, and if they do, they have emotional issues. I wasn’t insulting you, it isn’t an insult to be indifferent to a person’s feelings. I’m not emotionally affected, but I did want to share what I thought might be helpful. If it wasn’t, fine, but nowhere did I insult you. I think the women who are getting annoyed with your indifference ar… | /r/MensRights | 21/06/22 08:21 PM |
| 0 | indifference can hurtI’m not sure what you’re saying. 35% of virgins can swear of women, but I highly doubt they’d stay that way should they get some attention. It’s not feasible. | /r/MensRights | 21/06/22 08:17 PM |
| -2 | indifference can hurtWell, I’m gonna be straight with you. Unless everyone decides tomorrow or in the near future to end humanity, women will never go uncared for, not as a whole. For every man who thinks like you, there are five who have made women their main reason for living, 6 that have good bonds with women and so won’t want that, and 3 who don’t care enough to care to make people feel uncared for. My unsolicited advice (I work in med psych, I’m a professional) is go on, don’t care about women. Tbh, you shouldn… | /r/MensRights | 21/06/22 07:52 PM |
| 0 | indifference can hurtNot something like this? I haven’t insulted you, in fact, I asked a question for my interests and to perhaps start a discussion. | /r/MensRights | 21/06/22 07:44 PM |
| -6 | indifference can hurtIndifference has hurt you, or can hurt women/society? | /r/MensRights | 21/06/22 07:38 PM |
| 41 | You can become homeless as a homeowner thanks to this act. Stay safe out there.Oh I feel the same, and I’m a woman. I grew up seeing my parents hating each other while sharing a home. However, both were too broke to leave. Shacking up doesn’t seem to be the way to go. The perfect relationship to me is one where we’re together, but not in one space. I’ll keep my place, you keep yours. | /r/MensRights | 21/06/22 04:26 PM |
| 2 | Women on r/PurplePillDebate smhLol people talk about the male ego, but the female ego can be quite the beast. “I can change him!” “No one has ever loved him like I do!” “I’m prettier than her!” “I cook for him, she didn’t that’s why I can change him!” Is no different, as you said, from the stories of the nerd who gets the hot girl just for being nice. Smart people learn pretty quickly that that’s not the way the world works, unfortunately, most people aren’t that smart. And even when they learn it, they choose to victimize th… | /r/MensRights | 21/06/22 03:45 PM |
| 2 | Women on r/PurplePillDebate smhBdsm doesn’t have to be rough. I more so like to be lead, no very into pain, but I am into be directed. I love lace too lol, more than a quarter of my wardrobe is lace. I own one leather pencil skirt and I say that to say—bdsm isn’t all about getting your ass beat lmao. I don’t like bondage, but I do like serving a bit. Nothing like the stuff I heard was in fifty shades. | /r/MensRights | 21/06/22 02:51 PM |
| 2 | Women on r/PurplePillDebate smhI’ve never seen nor read it lmao. I’ve never been into what most women squeee about. That means no fifty shades, no twilight…none of that nonsense. I just like a strong leading man lol. Always have, it’s natural to me | /r/MensRights | 21/06/22 02:37 PM |
| 3 | Women on r/PurplePillDebate smhYeah I didn’t think you were downvoting me, I think some here downvote women no matter how civil I’m being. Anyways, I do get it, but I guess I hoped you wouldn’t take that as a “women are like this” sorta thing. People are like that about unique, for the lack of a better word, relationships. For example, I’m kinda into being dominated. I’ve done it in the past with white guys, my brothers and sisters (racial peers) have told me how they could NEVER, just based on race relations in America. If a… | /r/MensRights | 21/06/22 02:11 PM |
| 2 | Women on r/PurplePillDebate smhI get it. But, everyone has their own values and their own opinions. That was my original point. We open ourselves up to the judgement based upon the values of others when we share stories, especially ones like those. Especially in a society where people are finding it harder and harder to find something “real,” no one’s gonna identify with your whirlwind sugar baby romance lol. Besides others who have been in the situation. | /r/MensRights | 21/06/22 02:00 PM |
| 0 | Women on r/PurplePillDebate smhWell, men typically provide for the women they’re with, but there is also the expectation that those two will fall or are in love. You guys went in with the intention of commodifying one another. I think the biggest difference is the intention and the expected outcome. Most men aren’t looking to be used for their wallets, and most women for their bodies. To deny that is to ignore the very real complaints in this very sub about not having the resources to even get through the door with a woman. M… | /r/MensRights | 21/06/22 01:49 PM |
| 5 | Women on r/PurplePillDebate smhThing is though, and excuse me if I’m wrong, you said that girl was young and looking for some extra cash, correct? I just looked up the official term for sugar baby, it says nothing about being a professional worker in “the field.” So, technically she was a sugar baby. Were you dating? I think sugaring does fall under the umbrella of dating. It’s called sugar dating lmaooo. But still, as a dude into words you should know this. It’s not that deep, she was a sugar baby technically. However, sugar… | /r/MensRights | 21/06/22 01:39 PM |
| 4 | Women on r/PurplePillDebate smhHonestly, when we share our stories online we open ourselves up to the opinions of others. I don’t think it’s that deep. | /r/MensRights | 21/06/22 01:33 PM |
| 1 | I down a YouTube channel rabbit hole and amazed by the talent of YTers like Zach King, Dude Perfect, The slo mo guys and it occurred to me incredibly creative and intelligent creators are mostly men. YT is democratic, with no systemic advantages for women so why are popular YTers mostly male?Feminist yeah, but I think society is more prepared to see super successful, super intelligent men. Think about it, a few years back people were saying they’d never vote for a woman just because she was a woman. Men (the super competent ones) are seen as natural leaders and both men and women are more likely to follow them. Eta: no I’m not talking about Hillary as President, I can’t stand her, I just mean in general. Men who can and will be exceptional are better received. Sadly, most men cannot… | /r/MensRights | 21/06/22 12:03 PM |
| 2 | What does feminism want men to do about creepy men?Hmm ok. I’d hate to think that you believe, or anyone else believes that they are a lost cause. I would love to know more about the steps you’re taking towards achieving the things you want though, and if you ever just want someone to bounce ideas off, I’m available. | /r/MensRights | 21/06/22 12:03 AM |
| 1 | What does feminism want men to do about creepy men?So, why does the conversation so often only turn to women. Even the title incel implies sex. I’m not being accusatory, I’m really wondering | /r/MensRights | 20/06/22 11:42 PM |
| 1 | What does feminism want men to do about creepy men?But you do have use! I’m gonna speak plainly here, but even if you don’t it haven’t had sexual use yet, I’m sure there are things you’re great at that you probably just say “ah but who cares, society doesn’t!” I have a friend similar to you it seems. He’s so shy, the sweetest thing. So smart, very…unique but in the most exciting of ways. I tell him all the time, but he’s so caught up in the idea that he’s dumb, ugly, no one loves him. I love him, maybe not romantically, hell maybe romantically i… | /r/MensRights | 20/06/22 11:30 PM |
| -1 | What does feminism want men to do about creepy men?Good enough? Hm, I think we won’t agree on that. Personally, I think being used like a napkin is worse than never being used at all. Being used brings about similar thoughts. Like what’s wrong with me? Was I too this, or too that? Only to find it was never about you at all, you were just there and receptive. On top of that, society tells you you’re sullied for having believed your could be more than a tissue. Honestly, I’m not trying to start the oppression Olympics, it’s just interesting to me … | /r/MensRights | 20/06/22 11:11 PM |
| 1 | What does feminism want men to do about creepy men?Hmmm what kind of deficiencies do you feel you have? | /r/MensRights | 20/06/22 11:06 PM |
| -1 | What does feminism want men to do about creepy men?I get it, but it’s just as invalidating. Men don’t like to be seen for their wallets, I don’t like to be seen for my bobs and vagene hehe. Think of it that way, at least try. Most men aren’t genuinely into a lot of the women they want to pump and dump. It’s horribly dehumanizing. | /r/MensRights | 20/06/22 10:53 PM |
| -1 | What does feminism want men to do about creepy men?You had no one? Not even your parents? Did they love you at least? Friends? I’m just saying, as a woman lol, they we’re not all that. Lots of men regularly complain that women over value ourselves, here I am saying you guys are right about that. As a woman, there is only so little any of us could do to heal or erase your past pains. So, how do we move forward healthily? | /r/MensRights | 20/06/22 10:50 PM |
| -3 | What does feminism want men to do about creepy men?I wasn’t saying it in the way that you understood it. I was saying you guys think you’re victims and for some reason believe others, especially women, can’t be as well. There have a been a few in here that have literally told me my experiences can’t be similar if not worse. It’s starting to feel like I’m screaming into the abyss, because there’s a lot being put on me that I’m not even saying. I was responding to someone saying that because I’m a woman I can’t have ever experienced his same level… | /r/MensRights | 20/06/22 10:38 PM |
| 1 | What does feminism want men to do about creepy men?Well I was bullied by girls and sexually assaulted by boys. I find that when a kid is a target they are rarely picked on by a specific gender. Yes, girls can be quite vicious. | /r/MensRights | 20/06/22 08:42 PM |
| -5 | What does feminism want men to do about creepy men?When did I say all men are jerks and bullies? Where did I even imply that? Seems like your mind is made up. Fine. | /r/MensRights | 20/06/22 08:25 PM |
| 6 | Media/Feminist Hypocrisy on Brian Laundrie/Gabby PetitoYea, if the police had taken this seriously in the first place, the whole thing maybe could have been avoided. Gabbie was the aggressor in the beginning, as far as we know. They should have been separated and her arrested at that time. Those two had no business being together though, and that’s the part that I get stuck on. Like how do people get stuck in these violent relationships? I’m scared of pain, if a man so much as plucks me we’d have to break up. | /r/MensRights | 20/06/22 08:01 PM |
| 22 | Banning transexual males from competing equally against women is simply admitting women are NOT as strong as men. So why is it still taboo to say this fact for men? People have had careers ruined for saying men stronger than women.An exception, the rule is on average men are stronger. A woman would have to train to get to the strength of the weakest man, which is what you’re talking about. Naturally, men have way more muscle mass and more potential. Train, barring any bio disorders, you’ll squash the female wrestler. | /r/MensRights | 20/06/22 07:59 PM |
| -3 | What does feminism want men to do about creepy men?I get all of that. I only responded that way because that person was telling me that I don’t know trauma, and another told me I don’t know what real bullying is like because I’m a woman. All of what you wrote is true, I just don’t appreciate people telling me what my life was/is. Men can have it harder statistically, but that person had no right telling, just because I’m a woman mind you, that I don’t know struggle. | /r/MensRights | 20/06/22 07:48 PM |
| 0 | What does feminism want men to do about creepy men?Well I’ve heard those as well, how are they specific to men? I was taught that if I can cook, clean and be nice I’d be married by 25 lol, nope. I’m not angry about it Eta: you know what, disregard the above statement. It’s not rational to think that way, but people in emotional turmoil are rarely rational. I’m sorry to anyone I offended | /r/MensRights | 20/06/22 07:36 PM |
| -1 | What does feminism want men to do about creepy men?Can you tell me what lies their parents/school told them? | /r/MensRights | 20/06/22 07:18 PM |
| 42 | Banning transexual males from competing equally against women is simply admitting women are NOT as strong as men. So why is it still taboo to say this fact for men? People have had careers ruined for saying men stronger than women.Women are not as physically strong as men, who says otherwise? I think the key word is physically. If you’re dealing with women who say otherwise, don’t. They’re anti science and anti…smart lol | /r/MensRights | 20/06/22 07:14 PM |
| 1 | What does feminism want men to do about creepy men?Eh, they’ve gotten better. I’m in a lucrative career, just got a nice place. My social life is good, good friends. Things are good. I don’t think about my parents and I find that I’m not all that interested in dating. In the past, I wondered why some men think/care about dating/sex so much, but I think I understand a bit better now | /r/MensRights | 20/06/22 07:12 PM |
| 2 | What does feminism want men to do about creepy men?In my experience, I’ve only been approached by men wanting sex. Usually men who are married or have girlfriends, true story. To me, validation from the opposite sex has been low effort and selfish. Last guy I tried to get to know…yikes, I just wanted to go out, he spent every conversation telling me how he’d never simp for a woman in various ways lol. The last time before I cut him off, he said he was playing games with friends and I said “well I guess I’ll just have to be more interesting than … | /r/MensRights | 20/06/22 06:35 PM |
| -6 | What does feminism want men to do about creepy men?I guess this is where we reach the point of recognizing we’ll not be seeing eye to eye. Facing rejection from your peers and family in my opinion is total rejection. Yes, can I get copious amounts of penis from men who wouldn’t spit on me if I were on fire, sure. I guess I don’t see it as validating as you might. No man can fix emotional trauma that comes from all areas of life, not just romantic. To think that is silly and honestly would set any relationship you’re in up to fail. No one person … | /r/MensRights | 20/06/22 06:24 PM |
| -7 | What does feminism want men to do about creepy men?I had glue put in my hair, people regularly stepped on my feet on purpose. One girl cut my hair. I was hit many many times. Boys touched me inappropriately. My parents were drunks and bums and everyone knew. They used that to tear me down, and because my parents didn’t care, I went without the stuff normal kids had. Old clothes, hair knotty and unkempt, I didn’t even get my first bra until I was old enough to purchase them myself. Imagine being a growing girl in a school like that? So no, I went… | /r/MensRights | 20/06/22 06:02 PM |
| -8 | What does feminism want men to do about creepy men?I never said they don’t have good points. Can you at least answer my question? Why the fixation with high school out of grown people? How are they invisible but targeted at the same time? Why do they behave as though bullying is specific to them? My questions might come off rough, but I truly would like them answered. | /r/MensRights | 20/06/22 05:57 PM |
| -15 | What does feminism want men to do about creepy men?I was bullied in high school too as a woman, and this was by both genders as it usually is—so why do incels seem to treat it as a rare happening reserve only for them? Plus, high school freaking sucks, why is it that grown people will call back to that short period of time for the reason their entire lives suck? It’s kinda strange to me. Incels seem to only talk about high school. What about grade school, college, what about the huge majority of years you spend out of school? Sometimes this fixa… | /r/MensRights | 20/06/22 05:36 PM |
| 4 | I down a YouTube channel rabbit hole and amazed by the talent of YTers like Zach King, Dude Perfect, The slo mo guys and it occurred to me incredibly creative and intelligent creators are mostly men. YT is democratic, with no systemic advantages for women so why are popular YTers mostly male?Yay! I’m happy we could discuss civilly and even come to a mutual understanding. | /r/MensRights | 20/06/22 04:27 PM |
| 6 | I down a YouTube channel rabbit hole and amazed by the talent of YTers like Zach King, Dude Perfect, The slo mo guys and it occurred to me incredibly creative and intelligent creators are mostly men. YT is democratic, with no systemic advantages for women so why are popular YTers mostly male?All content is purpose driven technically. To be entertained is a purpose. I love to cook, so I watch cooking videos with the purpose better meals for myself and my family when they’re over. With that said, you seem to be implying that certain purposes are more…purposeful than others lol? Which is opinion. Correct me if I’m wrong | /r/MensRights | 20/06/22 04:19 PM |
| 2 | I down a YouTube channel rabbit hole and amazed by the talent of YTers like Zach King, Dude Perfect, The slo mo guys and it occurred to me incredibly creative and intelligent creators are mostly men. YT is democratic, with no systemic advantages for women so why are popular YTers mostly male?Look at what you just said, “incredible content.” That’s an opinion. Maybe men are more likely to think it’s incredible than women do usually. It’s not a lack of ability, it’s a lack of interest. I see often men asking why women don’t do the jobs they do—we’re not all that interested a lot of the time. For example, my new landlady asked if I would clean the property to get $20 taken off my rent. I was ok with it until she said something about bringing trash to the curb. At that, I noped out. I’m… | /r/MensRights | 20/06/22 04:09 PM |
| -1 | I down a YouTube channel rabbit hole and amazed by the talent of YTers like Zach King, Dude Perfect, The slo mo guys and it occurred to me incredibly creative and intelligent creators are mostly men. YT is democratic, with no systemic advantages for women so why are popular YTers mostly male?That’s exactly what I just said. Women don’t drive female viewership in certain spaces, just like men don’t drive male in others. Women overall don’t like sports that much, men do. Male models on average seem to have less viewership than female ones. Why? Women aren’t as into ogling men on a screen as men are to women. However, in spaces where ideas, intelligent and creative ones are shared, men seem to be overall more respected and trusted so they get more viewership. Just what I’ve noticed. I … | /r/MensRights | 20/06/22 03:54 PM |
| -6 | I down a YouTube channel rabbit hole and amazed by the talent of YTers like Zach King, Dude Perfect, The slo mo guys and it occurred to me incredibly creative and intelligent creators are mostly men. YT is democratic, with no systemic advantages for women so why are popular YTers mostly male?Believe it or not, there are some advantages of being a man. Might not seem like it, but when you guys are doing well society sees you as more competent and rational than even a woman in your same position. Plus, men look up to and emulate smart, successful men and women want them romantically/sexually, so it drives the viewer base up. While it seems smart woman, who are also creative don’t get the same attention from the male demographic. Men are more likely to follow sexy Instagram models, and… | /r/MensRights | 20/06/22 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Could you imagineI see it at work too. I work in a psychiatric hospital. Mother’s Day was wild! There were no more visitors passes in the whole building. I had to open areas for visitors the whole day, because without a visitors keycard you can’t get anywhere in there. Father’s Day however, ehhh. There weren’t many people at all. I saw some cute little dad pts, geriatrics, but only maybe…5-10. Why do you think this might be the case? Even when I worked in a middle school, we had a Father’s Day BBQ. Only two dads… | /r/MensRights | 20/06/22 02:08 PM |
| 1 | Be picky. Very picky. And remember you don’t owe anyone a relationship.Hmm acknowledge your existence…that’s what I find so hard to understand. Why do men rely on women to do that? There are plenty of days that I go without male attention. In fact, I spent years not dating and really not missing it. Though, I do regularly say I’m a bit of a weirdo lol so my opinion is a bit biased. I have some friends, family…but I don’t think I ever had a conscious need for acknowledgement. That sounds a bit sad and makes me view men a bit differently. That’s the thing with this s… | /r/MensRights | 20/06/22 01:27 AM |
| 9 | my single mother (who chose to be single) just asked me where her father's day gift was and then proceeded to yell at me for not getting her oneFacts! I grew up the oldest of three. My father is a bum and my mom a toxic alcoholic. Been cooking whole dinners since 11/12. As an adult I’m pretty frickin solid. Of course, I get upset that I’ve never been supported sometimes. But then, I look at my peers who can barely boil a pot of water and I’m a bit happy I came out this way. Listen to this man OP, he speaks the truth | /r/MensRights | 20/06/22 01:14 AM |
| 1 | Be picky. Very picky. And remember you don’t owe anyone a relationship.lol I’ll start by saying most men don’t write anything in their bios either. Automatic swipe left for me, as they’re not typically looking for anything more than sex…at least in my experience. How many likes would you say you get a day? I don’t get that many and I’m told I’m beautiful regularly. Like I’m actually attractive. Though, I’m not the stereotypical woman maybe most men look for in America? Anyways, the dating game is shameful. Neither of us can get what we want, especially someone like… | /r/MensRights | 20/06/22 01:04 AM |
| 3 | men "hate" foreplay because they get nothing out of it.Yup in kink communities, but that’s so rare I don’t think it’s relevant. It’s like men who like to be cuckolded lol. Yeah there are some, but most women would be facing some consequences if their boyfriends/husbands found them with someone else’s penis inside them lol | /r/MensRights | 19/06/22 10:06 PM |
| 9 | Why do many men hate other men?My opinion? Too many men have been fed that they NEED women, and so they can become ruthless in the pursuit of one…or many lol. Though, I’ve been told my opinion is biased and irrelevant, I think that I much prefer a world where men were promoted to pour love into themselves and each other, not just women. Us women will be fine, and for the most part, we’re taken care of. Take care of yourselves, your brothers, uncles, nephews. Women aren’t all that, no human is. | /r/MensRights | 19/06/22 10:02 PM |
| 3 | men "hate" foreplay because they get nothing out of it.I get it. Lol I’ve never fought so much in my life. I’m only stalking this sub because I was interested in discussion. I don’t agree on some things here, but I’m willing to have my mind changed always. However, if it’s true that most men come here to vent, I’m not sure if this is a learning environment. I’m covered in bruises, have patches of hair missing, a bloody nose lmaooo (a joke of course)…I’ve been fighting so much. I always see men posting here that they want to have tough (tough, not li… | /r/MensRights | 19/06/22 09:35 PM |
| 0 | men "hate" foreplay because they get nothing out of it.No no no, I’m not saying dudes who talk about mens rights are whiners. I’m saying to be mindful about when/where/how these discussions are had, because if you’re not careful it can come off that way. There’s a reason certain movements start to turn people off: BLM (I’m black don’t come for me lol) Me too Feminism After a while of screaming about how oppressed you are, even if it’s true, people start to tune it out and label it whining. I’m talking about playing chess not checkers. I don’t think … | /r/MensRights | 19/06/22 09:18 PM |
| 5 | men "hate" foreplay because they get nothing out of it.I understand why the comment may be seen that way, but I’m responding pretty quickly on my phone, so my responses are not as thorough as some might like. Also, I totally understand men wanting foreplay too. I never said you guys couldn’t. I was just responding in a “well women have a point there,” kinda way, but that in no way means that you guys shouldn’t get foreplay. I think two things can be true at once. If you read my responses in the thread, I’d like to believe I was pretty open to OPs id… | /r/MensRights | 19/06/22 09:01 PM |
| 11 | Is it just me or is much of the transgender movement actually misandrist?I think it’s misandry and misogyny. Maybe I’m biased, but I almost never see trans men fighting to get into you guys’ bathrooms lol. Trans woman can be very…pushy, and I’m quite honestly tired of the whole damn thing. All humans deserve respect, you don’t get to stomp on people because you’re a minority. | /r/MensRights | 19/06/22 08:43 PM |
| 3 | men "hate" foreplay because they get nothing out of it.Ok, thank you for answering my question | /r/MensRights | 19/06/22 08:37 PM |
| 2 | men "hate" foreplay because they get nothing out of it.I piggy backed on them saying that women don’t get much out of intercourse, that’s it. I keep saying that. I’m not here to battle the incel word, it’s not that deep to me. Fight them about it, not me. I never said men couldn’t ask for foreplay. I never said I agreed that it’s “incel talk,” in fact, I’ve said multiple times that I wasn’t even responding to that aspect of the comment. Lol I get so much heat for the most innocuous of comments here. I don’t believe anything I’ve said is offensive. I… | /r/MensRights | 19/06/22 08:24 PM |
| 2 | men "hate" foreplay because they get nothing out of it.It doesn’t, but didn’t anyone ever teach you sticks and stones. People will always have mean things to say. I’m just confused as to why the incel word is so…powerful? Explain that to me like I’m 5 please. To me, it’s an insult…sometimes used as a descriptor, like bitch. Why does it have certain people in a chokehold? The way ppl respond to it…you’d think it was in the level of like the N word lol | /r/MensRights | 19/06/22 08:21 PM |
| -17 | men "hate" foreplay because they get nothing out of it.Who cares? I don’t know, maybe I’m too much of a weirdo to care lol. I have a lot of strong opinions, some people hated it, but some people still love me. | /r/MensRights | 19/06/22 08:16 PM |
| 4 | men "hate" foreplay because they get nothing out of it.Slut is saying you get laid too much, it’s the same concept just in the reverse. I’m not understanding. | /r/MensRights | 19/06/22 08:12 PM |
| 2 | men "hate" foreplay because they get nothing out of it.Hmm I guess I see it a bit differently. I think an incel still has value, just maybe not romantically/sexually. But, they might be great friends, great colleagues, good with kids, an animal whisperer lol. Maybe we shouldn’t be the ones having this conversation, because I think we’re at two different understandings of the situation. Might get me downvoted to hell, but I also don’t think that incel is that bad of a word. It’s no worse than bitch, slut, mother fucker. It’s just a word. I’ve been ca… | /r/MensRights | 19/06/22 08:05 PM |
| 4 | men "hate" foreplay because they get nothing out of it.I never said women shouldn’t? I’m confused, are you confusing me for someone else? I feel like I’m a pretty balanced person, I didn’t demonize anything in this thread. I was just agreeing that penetrative sex is kinda boring overall lol. That’s it, that’s all. The incel thing…that’s between you guys. I will say though, that most pleasure for women does not come from penetrative sex. I think that’s where men and women run into the issue. If I have sex with a man who just wants to stick it in, I m… | /r/MensRights | 19/06/22 07:59 PM |
| -3 | men "hate" foreplay because they get nothing out of it.How does the word incel perpetuate that a woman’s value is only in sex? Honestly wondering. | /r/MensRights | 19/06/22 07:58 PM |
| -5 | men "hate" foreplay because they get nothing out of it.Well, I wasn’t responding to the incel part. But, I do agree as to why so many women complain about foreplay. I wasn’t so much speaking to men talking about what they might want more of, just sharing my experience as a woman | /r/MensRights | 19/06/22 07:45 PM |
| -26 | men "hate" foreplay because they get nothing out of it.All words, huh? If you’re playing a game you feel you lose either way, why worry? You’re allowed preferences and to criticize. Unless you’re being an ass lol, then people just won’t like you very much, which is their choice and prerogative. Also, it depends on where/when/ how you’re doing it. No one likes a constant whiner—about anything lol | /r/MensRights | 19/06/22 07:40 PM |
| -14 | men "hate" foreplay because they get nothing out of it.But why can’t men do it the other way around? I think you guys can. Who’s gonna beat your ass for saying what you like? Surely, it can’t be just because you might attract some internet trolls, because everyone is allowed preference and to criticize. Nobody has to agree with you, but that par for the course. Really, who’s making it that you can’t speak on these things? Especially since you’re doing it right now. | /r/MensRights | 19/06/22 07:35 PM |
| 9 | men "hate" foreplay because they get nothing out of it.Do you think this might also be the result of how prevalent casual sex/relationships are? I think kissing, caressing and things like that usually come from a place of real liking. Who’s taking all that time with ppl they probably met two to four weeks ago, if that lol | /r/MensRights | 19/06/22 07:32 PM |
| 1 | men "hate" foreplay because they get nothing out of it.This too. Intercourse isn’t all that, so yeah women need more. Thank God for sex toys, my fingers and my imagination, because most of my past partners weren’t into giving. Even when I would tell them how, “I know what I’m doing!” Kept none of them. | /r/MensRights | 19/06/22 07:23 PM |
| 17 | men "hate" foreplay because they get nothing out of it.Hmm I’ve never thought about that. True, when faced with foreplay on a man, I think I’ve kinda been flooded with the idea that men don’t need it? That men are looking to get to the part they really like. I remember when I was a teenager, I saw a clip of a comedian talking about how some women would focus on his nipples. He said “men don’t like to feel all tingly!” I think I kinda internalized that, so I always approach caressing and going there with a man cautiously. Oral sex is a given, and I d… | /r/MensRights | 19/06/22 07:15 PM |
| 2 | Happy Father's DayI’m not a man lol, and I don’t want children. Though, I do have siblings so I hope they do. | /r/MensRights | 19/06/22 01:16 PM |
| 13 | Happy Father's DayHappy Father’s Day! My father sucked but I’m sure most of you guys had good ones, treat them well today! | /r/MensRights | 19/06/22 11:31 AM |
| 3 | Be picky. Very picky. And remember you don’t owe anyone a relationship.So can you tell me what is needed when it comes to this topic in particular? | /r/MensRights | 19/06/22 02:58 AM |
| 3 | Be picky. Very picky. And remember you don’t owe anyone a relationship.I guess. I don’t expect men to wait around for me, but I was thinking men should be more intentional. More discerning, less take whatever they can get. I thought it might lead to better connections overall, but I guess not | /r/MensRights | 19/06/22 02:47 AM |
| -4 | Be picky. Very picky. And remember you don’t owe anyone a relationship.I totally agree! Women’s pickiness or a lack of sex is far from a men’s rights issue. Sex and romantic relationships have nothing to do with rights. | /r/MensRights | 19/06/22 01:45 AM |
| 6 | Be picky. Very picky. And remember you don’t owe anyone a relationship.I kinda agree with this, but as a woman, I really wish men were more picky. Men tend to think that attention, any attention is desirable. But, I, and I think a lot of women would prefer a man CHOOSE them. I don’t want to be anyone’s something or someone lol to do just because that other random chick didn’t respond. I don’t know…I find the numbers game mindset kinda off-putting. It seems to become more about having any female person, than trying to actually build connections. I also think men sho… | /r/MensRights | 19/06/22 12:57 AM |
| 4 | Be picky. Very picky. And remember you don’t owe anyone a relationship.Why not? | /r/MensRights | 18/06/22 11:34 PM |
| 27 | Be picky. Very picky. And remember you don’t owe anyone a relationship.I think that men should be as picky as they want. I’m a woman of color, so I know a good portion of men might not be interested in me. I only focus on those who are. Too many men are focused on what doesn’t want them. Be picky guys, love yourselves! | /r/MensRights | 18/06/22 10:52 PM |
| 4 | Do you think vasectomies will become mandatory for boys at puberty in the future?I would agree with you, but op was speaking about teenaged boys as if they were gonna hunted down lol. It’s a big problem, grown men going after teenagers. I worry that it’s gonna get worse since it seems the age for “the wall” gets younger every few months. | /r/MensRights | 18/06/22 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Single father surrogacy is an option!!Lol what? I’m not twisting anything…. I only responded to what you said. Also, even if I forgot what I said, I could just refer to it again to jog my memory. Which I did, because I was trying to see where I making any argument. I had no points lol, I was literally posting to invite discussion. How old are you? I’m genuinely asking. And free myself from my past? Lol I’m the one working in med/psych, maybe I should be the one helping you. The way you’re communicating actually reminds me of some of… | /r/MensRights | 18/06/22 07:53 PM |
| -1 | Single father surrogacy is an option!!I wasn’t arguing lol. You seem to have a lack of understanding when it comes to comprehending communication. I was thinking aloud of the what ifs. We know that a lack of fathers seems to bring about aggression in kids, mainly boys. Now, what about a lack of mothers, surely it will have some type of effect as well. There’s no argument, it’s literally thinking aloud. Honestly, I was hoping someone would comment intelligently for a good discussion. Hasn’t happened yet. A healthy one parent househol… | /r/MensRights | 18/06/22 07:43 PM |
| 0 | Single father surrogacy is an option!!Lol so you’re seriously arguing divorce, fighting parents etc vs surrogacy as if the former is a fact of two parent households? And then you say that because a person would spend money they are bound to be a good parent? I’m not doing this, this is nonsensical nonsense. Nothing about my post attacked single parent surrogacy, I was thinking about the what-ifs aloud. This sub sometimes I swear, the majority of you nimrods make the very valid minority look bad. At least come at me intelligently | /r/MensRights | 18/06/22 07:35 PM |
| 7 | Woman blames "the patriarchy" for getting drunk.Let anyone drink, but they should drink responsibly and not point fingers. | /r/MensRights | 18/06/22 02:32 PM |
| 16 | Woman blames "the patriarchy" for getting drunk.Nothing more off-putting to me than a woman who can’t handle her alcohol. I don’t drink, so maybe I’m biased, but gross. Even grosser to blame men for it. There’s a pandemic of blamelessness going around that is leading to the stupidity rates to rise. No accountability whatsoever. Just endless finger pointing and whataboutism. | /r/MensRights | 18/06/22 01:55 PM |
| 4 | Feminists don’t make senseYes, that too! I was only listing the things that came to mind quickly. | /r/MensRights | 18/06/22 01:48 PM |
| 1 | Single father surrogacy is an option!!Sorry, but my comment was about women without mothers. I already addressed how a lack of fathers can affect children, mainly boys. Why do so many of you guys here aim to subjugate and over speak so much that completely ignore when people are allies? Like what did I say that was offensive that needed changing? The women I knew without mothers were terrible humans, they were failures at connecting with others in healthy ways. Similar to the kids who grow up without fathers. Problem? | /r/MensRights | 18/06/22 01:48 PM |
| 2 | (Need help) a large city dominated with a bad ratio..what would you doMilitary men? 10 to 1? Where is this mythical place might I ask, I’ll book a flight today lmao | /r/MensRights | 18/06/22 01:37 PM |
| 1 | You're getting a partner, not a credit card co-signer. Money is a requirement for love now? This is hilarious.You probably don’t care anymore, but I went to work yesterday and pulled up the file of that pt. Her baby was five months old. That’s outside of the 90 days you say women are guaranteed to get. In fact, I have a cousin who developed schizophrenia due to traumatic birth. She cannot take care of herself, that was maybe 4-5 years ago. Unfortunately for both of these women, they procreated with men who were non-committal and who were bums | /r/MensRights | 18/06/22 12:08 PM |
| 0 | Single father surrogacy is an option!!I can’t wait to see the long term outcomes of this if it becomes a widespread thing. We know that the lack of father can lead to aggression and school-shooterism in boys. What could just having a father lead to in children? I’ll say this, the women I know without mothers were some of the most toxic people I ever knew. Usually they had mother figures, but there was something missing. But, I could have had just really bad luck. | /r/MensRights | 18/06/22 12:01 PM |
| -1 | Feminists don’t make senseThis is a question that can be best answered with: people are people and can only be people. In the sub, there are some really smart, really good ideas. That’s like 30% of the time. Men who made me interested as a woman in men’s rights. The other 70% is pure dumpster juice. Did anyone see the thread where the op was upset that some woman said she wants a man with a decent job, a necessity for living in a capitalist society? Most feminist see those post, in fact, because as humans we tend to look… | /r/MensRights | 18/06/22 11:50 AM |
| 13 | Do you think vasectomies will become mandatory for boys at puberty in the future?How silly. First of all, teenage pregnancy is more of a teen girl problem. These girls are usually pregnant by adult men. | /r/MensRights | 18/06/22 11:40 AM |
| 2 | You're getting a partner, not a credit card co-signer. Money is a requirement for love now? This is hilarious.Then don’t! Have your standards, stick to them. I know I will lol | /r/MensRights | 18/06/22 11:36 AM |
| 1 | You're getting a partner, not a credit card co-signer. Money is a requirement for love now? This is hilarious.That’s a great standard to have! Just don’t deal with women who don’t fit it. | /r/MensRights | 18/06/22 11:36 AM |
| 2 | You're getting a partner, not a credit card co-signer. Money is a requirement for love now? This is hilarious.You guys don’t have to date broke women though, some of you choose to. I don’t know any woman who is going to destroy her life to go live in a hovel with a man who plays fortnight all day and works at McDonald’s. Why would ANYONE do that? Most ppl don’t like leeches. Please you guys get some self respect. Date women who fit your standards please! This doesn’t even need to be an argument. You can’t argue your ways into people’s beds. | /r/MensRights | 18/06/22 11:35 AM |
| 3 | You're getting a partner, not a credit card co-signer. Money is a requirement for love now? This is hilarious.Sure, but standards are standards. You’ll drive yourself crazy wondering why. Just find a woman who wants you, who also fits your standards/values Eta: technically working is an act. Most people want people to act like they have goals lol. | /r/MensRights | 18/06/22 02:04 AM |
| 3 | You're getting a partner, not a credit card co-signer. Money is a requirement for love now? This is hilarious.Why do so many get mad at people’s standards? You guys can create your own standards as well, go crazy. | /r/MensRights | 18/06/22 01:16 AM |
| 1 | Just sick of itWorking to live the life I want is liberating. If I could live the life I wanted without work I’d do that. I said no one loves work, but I’d rather that than lose autonomy…lol what’s your agenda? If I could sit on my ass and play Genshin Impact all day like you AND get paid I probably would. | /r/MensRights | 18/06/22 01:00 AM |
| 1 | Just sick of itI don’t work three jobs? I got the education and experience to work one and live very comfortably. Maybe try someone else. | /r/MensRights | 18/06/22 12:50 AM |
| 1 | Confession: I'm terrified of womenI agree | /r/MensRights | 17/06/22 09:30 PM |
| 3 | You're getting a partner, not a credit card co-signer. Money is a requirement for love now? This is hilarious.I’m pro abortion and paper abortion! I’m a woman btw | /r/MensRights | 17/06/22 08:56 PM |
| 2 | You're getting a partner, not a credit card co-signer. Money is a requirement for love now? This is hilarious.Ok, I’m sorry. I get a little defensive. I’m used to getting down voted here even when being as gentle as possible lmao | /r/MensRights | 17/06/22 08:43 PM |
| 1 | You're getting a partner, not a credit card co-signer. Money is a requirement for love now? This is hilarious.Ok…? Sorry for mis-gendering you. | /r/MensRights | 17/06/22 08:38 PM |
| 6 | Confession: I'm terrified of womenUnfortunately, op doesn’t seem to want help they just wanted a place to vent maybe? I see a bad experience in their future at this job, it’ll bite him in the ass unless he starts choosing healthier ways to use that energy. No one is allowed to think/behave the way he does at work without some push back. Good luck to him though 🫣 | /r/MensRights | 17/06/22 06:50 PM |
| 0 | You're getting a partner, not a credit card co-signer. Money is a requirement for love now? This is hilarious.I think they would, but the above post made it seem as though it’s a burden to work versus having options. Men don’t often have the option or working or not, I’m also not a man, so I didn’t speak for you guys. | /r/MensRights | 17/06/22 06:46 PM |
| 1 | You're getting a partner, not a credit card co-signer. Money is a requirement for love now? This is hilarious.I don’t think ANYONE wants to work per se, but I think I’d faced with the option of being with a person I don’t want to survive, or working towards what I want, I think the majority would chose work. But then again, I’m one woman, maybe the majority don’t think that way. | /r/MensRights | 17/06/22 06:37 PM |
| 4 | You're getting a partner, not a credit card co-signer. Money is a requirement for love now? This is hilarious.Who is she? Eta: no woman told me this, I grew up seeing it. In fact, I say go for Gen X women if they’re not too old for you. I’m telling you. Now, these women aren’t the most beautiful, and yes, while they will literally build an arc to get a man, they are usually very emotionally volatile. Might throw a punch or two but they will be with a man who has nothing. | /r/MensRights | 17/06/22 05:58 PM |
| 2 | You're getting a partner, not a credit card co-signer. Money is a requirement for love now? This is hilarious.I totally agree these people shouldn’t be having children! Alas, that’s not the way the world works. Lol I grew up in the inner city, home of the single moms chasing after men who’ll never want them. They will dress these men, give them homes, give them play money and let them cheat. These women aren’t the ones usually getting child support because they tend to go for men who don’t have jobs lol. I’m giving you real tips, I wish I were a man in an inner city—paradise. I know this because I grew … | /r/MensRights | 17/06/22 05:54 PM |
| 2 | You're getting a partner, not a credit card co-signer. Money is a requirement for love now? This is hilarious.If you say so, I speaking from life experience. Maybe these women didn’t know they had those opportunities. Even still, like with birth control and condoms, the lizard brain doesn’t care about maternity leave. I hate to say, but it won’t change so I’ll suggest something. Head to the inner cities, find women there. I swear to you there are plenty of women willing to be bread winners. They are the originators of the “I don’t need a man to take care of me” mantra and I’ve seen them part seas to tak… | /r/MensRights | 17/06/22 05:50 PM |
| 0 | You're getting a partner, not a credit card co-signer. Money is a requirement for love now? This is hilarious.Not everyone is that privileged. Not everyone gets maternity leave depending on where they work. I knew women who worked up until they couldn’t anymore, and some who came to work with their little donuts to sit on because they hadn’t healed yet…ouch lol. These were usually women who chose men who weren’t working or didn’t make enough for whatever reason | /r/MensRights | 17/06/22 05:45 PM |
| 1 | You're getting a partner, not a credit card co-signer. Money is a requirement for love now? This is hilarious.Women can…for the most part. I think that it stems from the lizard brain. It kinda makes sense when you think about it. I don’t want kids, but say I did. I would want to have children with a man who makes more than me, why you ask? How in the hell are we supposed to survive with the bread winner down and out? Pregnancy isn’t often a one and done thing. Just had a patient yesterday who came in because of post partum PSYCHOSIS. She was hearing voices and seeing stars. In no condition to work. You … | /r/MensRights | 17/06/22 05:36 PM |
| 3 | You're getting a partner, not a credit card co-signer. Money is a requirement for love now? This is hilarious.I didn’t realize that that’s what this post was about? It seems op is mad that a job is expected AT ALL. Lol and I know a lot of female bread winners, but they aren’t the type of women most men want. Usually, they come from questionable backgrounds—maybe daddy wasn’t there. However, I will say that women tend to like men who are “better” than them. Personally, I don’t expect to ever be taken care of by a man, but I do love when a guy is smarter, stronger—makes me melt lol. Other women, it’s mone… | /r/MensRights | 17/06/22 05:27 PM |
| 14 | Confession: I'm terrified of womenPeople are assholes. At work, I say hello to everyone, and receive dirty looks from some and hellos from others. I think the issue here might be two sided. Those women at work might very well be terrible, but you’re also terribly insecure and in this dog eat dog world thats like cat nip to unsavory people. I say find another job and get some sort of counseling. No one can mess with you when your foundation is strong. Love yourself, see women as what they are, people. Don’t talk to us if you don’… | /r/MensRights | 17/06/22 05:05 PM |
| 5 | You're getting a partner, not a credit card co-signer. Money is a requirement for love now? This is hilarious.I guess you can eat love, live in love too? When it gets cold out, I guess you’re supposed to tell your kids that if they can just love enough, they won’t freeze to death because mommy and daddy thought that they could make it in a capitalist society with nothing but sex and liking one another. Refrigerator’s empty, just go to Shoprite and tell the sales clerk that you love them, they’ll give you enough not to starve right there. That cough…pneumonia? Well sorry, we don’t have money to pay the c… | /r/MensRights | 17/06/22 04:56 PM |
| 6 | You Gotta Have Something in the Bank, Frank.Honestly though, why would anyone get involved with anyone who brings absolutely nothing to the table…but themselves 😐 Only babies and animals are allowed to just exist without contributing or gaining skills/resources. And even animals have to contribute to their groups in order to mate most times. If you guys are getting with women who bring nothing to your life but bobs and vagene…stop doing that lol | /r/MensRights | 17/06/22 04:01 PM |
| 2 | Just sick of itThis makes life sound like “work or no work.” Our jobs are a part of our lives, not the whole thing, so whether a person works or not isn’t a great indicator of their overall happiness. I praise Bible God, Allah and hell Buddha that I was born in a time where I could work to create my own path forward. Autonomy is one of the greatest deciders of happiness, people like to feel like they have options. Being a stay at home bang maid or starving in the streets aren’t very fairly balanced options lma… | /r/MensRights | 17/06/22 10:24 AM |
| 0 | Just sick of itI’m sorry you feel this way. Both genders have stereotypes which are pretty gross, but it seems only men suffer romantically because of theirs. Admittedly, I’m a bit conflicted on that, as I wish more men would stop placing so much importance in sex/relationships. No one is technically forcing anyone to do anything. You don’t have to prove your worth to anyone. I don’t know, it’s just a game I wouldn’t play. | /r/MensRights | 17/06/22 10:20 AM |
| 1 | Has online dating ruined relationships?I’m a bit of an weirdo lol, so maybe I can’t speak for most women, but I don’t want kids nor am I especially interested in marriage/companionship. If it happens, it happens, if not…welp. With that being said, I don’t have the same drive procreate at a certain time so I’m not very driven to settle. I don’t have the “I’m 27, oh no the wall!! Oh no my eggs” thing going lol. Plus, I’ve seen what happens when people settle—it ain’t pretty. It becomes a situation of convenience most times which seems … | /r/MensRights | 17/06/22 09:50 AM |
| 0 | Has online dating ruined relationships?Yeah I guess, which ends up being terrible for everyone because they don’t want the man. They want the children and the security. Usually ends in divorce. | /r/MensRights | 16/06/22 07:46 PM |
| 0 | Has online dating ruined relationships?I’m a woman, in the various friend groups I’ve had, we typically just don’t date if we can’t find what we want. I think that’s why the numbers are so skewed. Women are way less likely to settle, and if she does, good luck fellas because that dead bedroom is gonna be fierce. | /r/MensRights | 16/06/22 06:46 PM |
| 1 | This would not have happened the other way aroundActually, this happened to me this weekend. Said they thought I was smuggling a bomb in my bits. Round trip, happened both ways. Second time they did it, “I said sure, since I’m being treated like a criminal.” I’m a woman btw. I will say, it was pretty embarrassing and put me off flying. They didn’t even take me somewhere private. I had people staring as they put their hands everywhere. | /r/MensRights | 16/06/22 06:41 PM |
| 6 | Proud parent moment! But I have a question!Whew! Thank goodness you’re not offended. I hope for every young person that they are living as happily and peacefully as possible. It’s nice to care for others and all, but discernment and a clear head is so so important. She’d probably do great in social work or something similar, that way she can help within certain parameters and safety. Maybe raise the idea to her, we need more empathic people like her in the field. | /r/MensRights | 16/06/22 01:38 AM |
| 6 | Proud parent moment! But I have a question!I’m gonna get down voted to hell, but this was potentially dangerous for her and yourself. No need in entering confrontations in this day in age where people are busting caps in each other’s asses for just existing. She could have asked if he was OK, but getting in the face of an abusive person is literally asking for trouble. Life is hard enough. | /r/MensRights | 16/06/22 01:25 AM |
| 3 | GoFundMe for MRAs, members of this sub, and help for men in general?Lol I’m child free so kids are a drain regardless. I think the conversation surrounding children and marriage needs to change overall. I’m a woman, I don’t want the pain/emotional labor that comes with children and hell even marriage, but society sells these things to us as the end all be all, despite the real world showing us very different. If men are getting taken to the cleaners left and right, something needs to change. Women aren’t, the laws are gonna be very slow to change. So, I believe … | /r/MensRights | 15/06/22 06:01 PM |
| 3 | GoFundMe for MRAs, members of this sub, and help for men in general?Also, to avoid having children if they don’t want to take the risk of paying cs one day. Nothing is guaranteed in this life. He would have to pay child support whether they were married or not. | /r/MensRights | 15/06/22 05:41 PM |
| 41 | UK: Mother, 40, is jailed for nine-and-a-half years for making boy, 15, her 'sexual play thing' after plying him with cocaine and cannabis in sordid plot before later giving birth to his babyAnd a predator. Women are very rarely given that title. | /r/MensRights | 15/06/22 12:51 PM |
| -6 | A female co-worker threatened me and is trying to get me firedOut of curiosity, how do you know which coworkers don’t get a lot of female attention? Is this something you guys talk about at work? | /r/MensRights | 15/06/22 11:29 AM |
| 2 | What would the right course of action be in addressing the requests of the involuntary celibate community?Yeah this is where most people are stumped. There’s no morally correct way to fix this issue, because freedom of choice. What normal woman is gonna volunteer as a sacrifice for the “greater good” besides one’s who incentivized to do so? I feel bad for incels but that doesn’t mean I want to sleep with them, nor do I want to be forced/coerced into doing so. | /r/MensRights | 14/06/22 04:30 PM |
| 1 | Men and happiness. The outlook is better than you think.I’m happy for you. However, I’ll say this, we never know how the other party in the marriage truly feels. Not to call your experience into question, but just saying. Beyond that, I’m happy that your marriage is solid. Seems to be the exception these days. | /r/MensRights | 14/06/22 02:43 PM |
| -5 | My personal wake up call to men's rights...and my continuing nightmare.People are people, yup! | /r/MensRights | 14/06/22 01:58 PM |
| 1 | Men and happiness. The outlook is better than you think.My point was, as I said, marriage doesn’t to seem to be great overall. Remove “raw deal” it seems to suck the life out of both parties which was my point. | /r/MensRights | 14/06/22 01:58 PM |
| 10 | My personal wake up call to men's rights...and my continuing nightmare.So many stories like these and you got men thinking Russian mail order brides are the answer. Hoping the for the best outcome for you and your family. | /r/MensRights | 14/06/22 12:47 PM |
| 1 | Men and happiness. The outlook is better than you think.I look at the outcomes. With women initiating so many divorces, as well as so many being more reluctant to date after divorce, AND less likely to want to cohabit after divorce as well, the answer is pretty clear to me. That’s on the stats/study side of things. Anecdotally, I work in a geriatric facility and most of the little old ladies are divorced and express disdain about marriage. I will say that overall, these are sweet women and seem to have robust support systems—family and friends consta… | /r/MensRights | 14/06/22 11:05 AM |
| 2 | What would the right course of action be in addressing the requests of the involuntary celibate community?How would we do that? | /r/MensRights | 13/06/22 11:51 PM |
| 0 | What would the right course of action be in addressing the requests of the involuntary celibate community?Absolutely, but women overall are less impressed with men sexually than vice versa, which was my point. Thanks for the info though. | /r/MensRights | 13/06/22 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Soft power is much more relevant than hard power, and women are the ones who have the most power in society under this metric, not menNot so much female manages nest, but there is a special importance given to females in most species. The Queen ant, hyenas are female led I could have sworn, and sea horse males carry the babies true. However, there are many more cases of male animals tearing each other apart to be with a female. Plus, we’re more related to apes than ants, and apes will fight and try to prove themselves. | /r/MensRights | 13/06/22 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Soft power is much more relevant than hard power, and women are the ones who have the most power in society under this metric, not menAh yeah, I guess I speak from a place of privilege. I’m not a man, nor do I have the urge for procreation. And I don’t feel the need for sex unless I meet pretty exceptional men. Of course, I feel the urge for release, but I can take care of that myself if there’s no one around who fits my fancy. If only you could turn that stuff off with a switch lol. Still, I think it’s important that men be as discerning with women as possible. I speak on this a bit selfishly as well. Couldn’t imagine someone… | /r/MensRights | 13/06/22 07:10 PM |
| 1 | What would the right course of action be in addressing the requests of the involuntary celibate community?I’m gonna be honest, what you’re asking for is a tall ask, especially in a world where most of us are just trying to survive ourselves. I was abused growing up by alcoholic parents, bullied and sexually assaulted regularly by older male students so I don’t think most incels have super exceptional circumstances. Unfortunately though, they as we would say in psych, were low on resilience for whatever reason. This is not to blame them. This is why this situation is so tough to remedy. We can trace … | /r/MensRights | 13/06/22 06:51 PM |
| 2 | What would the right course of action be in addressing the requests of the involuntary celibate community?Also, I didn’t say they’re toxic so WHY listen to them. I’m saying they’re toxic NO WONDER people don’t listen to them. It’s not realistic to think that any random person, man or woman, is going to respond gently to anger and violence. Most of us are gonna nope for fuck out those situations. Also I was bullied as well, and sexually assaulted all through school. Drunken parents didn’t care. I’m not an incel lol. That’s a petty dig, but watch those assumptions mister. | /r/MensRights | 13/06/22 06:26 PM |
| 0 | What would the right course of action be in addressing the requests of the involuntary celibate community?Who shames men for being there for each other emotionally? Can you give me some examples, maybe real life ones? | /r/MensRights | 13/06/22 06:24 PM |
| 1 | What would the right course of action be in addressing the requests of the involuntary celibate community?Ok, so I’m listening. I think most people have read and comprehend what they say. Now, what? Is that enough? Btw, I was bullied and sexually assaulted all through school. Parents didn’t care because they were abusive drunks themselves. Watch those assumptions. | /r/MensRights | 13/06/22 06:22 PM |
| 3 | Soft power is much more relevant than hard power, and women are the ones who have the most power in society under this metric, not menAs a woman, I approve of this message. I think a lot of us would love a guy like you. It’s true, I’m a go getter in my every day life, but in the presence on a self confident man who naturally leads I turn into ooze lol. | /r/MensRights | 13/06/22 05:30 PM |
| -2 | What would the right course of action be in addressing the requests of the involuntary celibate community?There’s a lot to unpack here, but I’ll try. Firstly, I guess for my own good I’m happy to have seen these conversations the incels have amongst themselves. For my peace of mind, and safety, I think it’s important. I couldn’t imagine that PEOPLE not just men who engage in such hateful conversation are viable for relationships. Same for women on fds I’m sure you’d agree. But then again, I’m not a man so I’m not familiar with how you guys express angst. Also, its doubtful that anyone, even men are … | /r/MensRights | 13/06/22 05:00 PM |
| 1 | Soft power is much more relevant than hard power, and women are the ones who have the most power in society under this metric, not menI brought up the soft power thing to say that maybe some of that is biological. Even in the wild, males constantly prove worthiness and provide resources. It’s the way things have been forever, but it seems that unluckily for us humans, our brains have gotten too big/advanced. We’re beginning to question that programming and it’s not pretty. | /r/MensRights | 13/06/22 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Soft power is much more relevant than hard power, and women are the ones who have the most power in society under this metric, not menI wasn’t trying to be offensive when I used the word thirst, sorry if it came off that way. But, I totally agree with you! I wish men would form stronger friendships with one another. Would help relationships overall if men had more people to lean on. | /r/MensRights | 13/06/22 03:05 PM |
| 2 | Soft power is much more relevant than hard power, and women are the ones who have the most power in society under this metric, not menAgain, I don’t know. Was it feminism that caused this, or is it a reality of heterosexual relationships? Women have always been the leaders of the home. Even in the olden days, men would come home and give the wife the check to handle all household matters. This wasn’t/isn’t just in America, but in various countries. However, with that being said, when you know better, you can do better. If men could get their thirst in order, almost none of these issues would be relevant. I say that not as a di… | /r/MensRights | 13/06/22 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Soft power is much more relevant than hard power, and women are the ones who have the most power in society under this metric, not menI’m not sure about all of this, but because I’m not a man, I haven’t seen that side of a relationship. Anyways, I say don’t be with any woman who behaves that way, for damn sure don’t marry her or have children with her. Simple. However, humans don’t often like taking the easy way out 😔 | /r/MensRights | 13/06/22 02:43 PM |
| 4 | Men and happiness. The outlook is better than you think.Mayhaps, marriage seems to be a raw deal for both parties at this point, because nobody seems happy. Especially considering most marriages end in divorce. | /r/MensRights | 13/06/22 02:37 PM |
| 0 | What would the right course of action be in addressing the requests of the involuntary celibate community?Hmm ok, typically though, when I see them on the internet sharing their struggles they’re angry about wanting casual sex. They also don’t respect or like women typically, so I couldn’t see most of them entering healthy relationships with healthy women. As a woman, I’ve been utterly repulsed by what seemed to be a call for me and other women to ignore or wants to service some angry man. However, if they would approach it this way, I feel most women and most of society would be more willing to hea… | /r/MensRights | 13/06/22 02:28 PM |
| 7 | Soft power is much more relevant than hard power, and women are the ones who have the most power in society under this metric, not menHmmm I guess I have trouble understanding this as a person who doesn’t want kids, and am not exactly stressed about sexual relationships. I personally wouldn’t play a losing game, I also believe it’s possible to overcome our evolutionary drug—hormones. Such a simple issue, but so complicated at the same time. Thank you for responding to me civilly, hasn’t been the case here for the most part. | /r/MensRights | 13/06/22 02:23 PM |
| 1 | Soft power is much more relevant than hard power, and women are the ones who have the most power in society under this metric, not menGood read. Now, how do we go about “fixing” this? This isn’t something women can change if it’s biological. Reading this post, it seems a lot of men are in situations with women they’d rather not be in. What would you say is a remedy to this issue? | /r/MensRights | 13/06/22 02:14 PM |
| 2 | Soft power is much more relevant than hard power, and women are the ones who have the most power in society under this metric, not menBut both can break off the relationship. Perhaps the conversation needs to change? Instead of being angry that women have soft power, maybe there can be channels created through which men can become more self confident and self reliant? Women can’t exercise power if you take away their weapon of choice, and I say this as a woman. Maybe it’s also a societal issue? Men are told that they have no worth if they aren’t in some sexual relationship. I don’t know who started that lol, I don’t know who p… | /r/MensRights | 13/06/22 02:11 PM |
| 2 | What would the right course of action be in addressing the requests of the involuntary celibate community?Short term? Maybe some sort of legalized prostitution? Long term? Mental health intervention. These are typically people when underlying mental illness, help them with that, and you’ve won 75% of the battle. As far as their lack of sex…honestly, some people are just gonna have bad luck in sex and dating. There is only so much self improvement will help. As a woman, I can say that I already don’t find most men sexually attractive. Attractive in general, sometimes, but just outright lusting over a… | /r/MensRights | 13/06/22 01:57 PM |
| 1 | Soft power is much more relevant than hard power, and women are the ones who have the most power in society under this metric, not menHmm why would you say women have more power in relationships? I only ask because in most cases, both parties are free to go when they want. No one can exercise power in that dynamic unless allowed to. Unless, we’re talking about situations where children are involved, then it gets sticky. | /r/MensRights | 13/06/22 01:49 PM |
| 0 | If you’re talking to a feminist or feminist apologist and they essentially say “it’s okay that men are suffering now because women suffered for hundreds of years”…they just don’t get it. THEY DON’T GET IT.Lol not once did I say anything about defending feminism. My point was people, actually read this time, PEOPLE no matter what “ideology” they ascribe to have variances in belief. You think all republicans don’t believe in strengthening gun laws, or all democrats believe in mixed gender bathrooms? My comment was made due to the very black and white tone in the original post. I guess I was defending common sense, but I haven’t attacked anyone here. I just don’t agree with your and the other guys “… | /r/MensRights | 13/06/22 12:34 PM |
| 0 | If you’re talking to a feminist or feminist apologist and they essentially say “it’s okay that men are suffering now because women suffered for hundreds of years”…they just don’t get it. THEY DON’T GET IT.I don’t know about any “ideology” existing to put anything on anyone. I’m not sure about what obligations you’re thinking of, and even still, I don’t know if in this country we have any obligations besides paying taxes lol. I have no dog in this feminism/anti feminism fight. I think your stance is a bit extreme, while you might find mine way too casual. In the game of life, feminism is low on my list of evils that needs changing. | /r/MensRights | 13/06/22 04:04 AM |
| 0 | If you’re talking to a feminist or feminist apologist and they essentially say “it’s okay that men are suffering now because women suffered for hundreds of years”…they just don’t get it. THEY DON’T GET IT.I don’t offer examples because not once did I say I was a feminist, and even if I were, why would I respond honestly to somebody picking a fight on the internet? I don’t think feminism is misandry, just like I don’t think MRAs are lonely incels. However, I do know that some feminists are misandrists and I know some MRAs are mad they can’t get their dick wet. That’s my view. I’m not extremist, and I’m no victim, I have no reason to enter this emotionally driven tussle with you, especially since y… | /r/MensRights | 13/06/22 02:10 AM |
| -1 | If you’re talking to a feminist or feminist apologist and they essentially say “it’s okay that men are suffering now because women suffered for hundreds of years”…they just don’t get it. THEY DON’T GET IT.Again…ok? I’m not a dancing monkey, you don’t get to demand I do anything, just like I’m not demanding you to explain why you’re creating an argument where one does not exist. I allowed you your views, didn’t even try to trample on them with mine. Live your best life dude. | /r/MensRights | 13/06/22 02:05 AM |
| -2 | If you’re talking to a feminist or feminist apologist and they essentially say “it’s okay that men are suffering now because women suffered for hundreds of years”…they just don’t get it. THEY DON’T GET IT.Ok! I forgot I was talking to literal gods, what you guys say is fact, point blank period! With that being said, I’m not sure what either of you expect in telling me this 😅 | /r/MensRights | 13/06/22 01:49 AM |
| -5 | If you’re talking to a feminist or feminist apologist and they essentially say “it’s okay that men are suffering now because women suffered for hundreds of years”…they just don’t get it. THEY DON’T GET IT.Ohhh now this makes sense, I misread. Ok, you believe all feminists are misandrist. Cool, that’s a pretty common belief. | /r/MensRights | 13/06/22 12:00 AM |
| -9 | If you’re talking to a feminist or feminist apologist and they essentially say “it’s okay that men are suffering now because women suffered for hundreds of years”…they just don’t get it. THEY DON’T GET IT.Yes…it is? Did I imply otherwise? | /r/MensRights | 12/06/22 11:53 PM |
| 3 | Men and happiness. The outlook is better than you think.That’s why men are happier I guess? As a woman though, I find it kinda interesting that women are less happy. Reaffirms my child free-ness lmao. Hopefully, some day we get to a point where happiness balances and men don’t have to live half their lives to achieve a sense of accomplishment. | /r/MensRights | 12/06/22 11:03 PM |
| -11 | If you’re talking to a feminist or feminist apologist and they essentially say “it’s okay that men are suffering now because women suffered for hundreds of years”…they just don’t get it. THEY DON’T GET IT.Or…not every feminist has the same beliefs. Just like MRAs are quite different. Some are super pro-life, others pro-choice as an example. | /r/MensRights | 12/06/22 10:27 PM |
| 3 | Men and happiness. The outlook is better than you think.It’s interesting. The idea that we should all be striving for marriage and children is challenged by these studies. Women in their 40s are more likely to have both of these qualities—being mothers and wives, yet they’re unhappy. Could be that men and women seem to value different things too. | /r/MensRights | 12/06/22 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Chinese man seeks divorce from wife of 16 years after learning his 3 daughters are not his biological children.I keep responding in hopes that I can understand you. I never said anything about you “besmirching”women by the way. Besmirch away! I thought maybe I could learn something. But, then you started talking about not giving a fuck about something, not sure what. Maybe you’re not the person to have this discussion with, because you seem genuinely angry if not delusional. I haven’t insulted you, I haven’t told you what you can and cannot say. Either your first language isn’t English, you’re super youn… | /r/MensRights | 12/06/22 07:28 PM |
| 0 | Chinese man seeks divorce from wife of 16 years after learning his 3 daughters are not his biological children.You can say what you want. I just asked why you felt polyamory was something established by women for women. Your responses haven’t been conducive to conversation, and honestly, they’ve been a bit disjointed and nonsensical. Are you drunk lol? Anyways, you can say what you want about women, I truly don’t care what what any random man says. I just wanted to know the thought process behind your statement. No harm, no foul. Have a good one. | /r/MensRights | 12/06/22 07:21 PM |
| 0 | Chinese man seeks divorce from wife of 16 years after learning his 3 daughters are not his biological children.Lol I’m just gonna back away slowly. Have a good one. | /r/MensRights | 12/06/22 07:14 PM |
| 0 | Chinese man seeks divorce from wife of 16 years after learning his 3 daughters are not his biological children.You don’t give a shit about what? | /r/MensRights | 12/06/22 07:03 PM |
| -2 | Chinese man seeks divorce from wife of 16 years after learning his 3 daughters are not his biological children.Respectfully, how does polyamory just serve women? Why do women get the bad rep because men have a harder time securing sex partners? | /r/MensRights | 12/06/22 05:24 PM |
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