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Seriously you can tell something is wrong just by looking at him, something about him is so off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 04:39 PM
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Even if he has a change of heart, which maybe he will because you are so upset and he will be afraid of losing the relationship, it doesn't change the fact that his instinct was to be a coward, to not defend you. I know that you have feelings for him and are trying to Scrabble or salvage or find some reason to not have to in the relationship, but think about the advice you would give your girlfriend. Even if he had a change of heart and beg to you and still tell her to block him and delete him. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 10:41 PM
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She says that she left ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 02:52 AM
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"crazy". This is so inarticulate. Does he mean clingy? Poor communication? Actual mental illness? The irony is, guys who throw the term "crazy" around are a red flag for misogyny, and immediately get tossed into the trash box
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 09:38 PM
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Would you consider Rihanna one of those examples?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 03:51 AM
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I'm sorry, that is awful 😞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 02:26 AM
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Low effort right from the start. If this guy was high value he would be pursuing in you in a way that left no doubt in your mind. If you are feeling the need to ask a bunch of Internet strangers, then that in and of itself is your gut telling you that he is not right. Just block and delete and move on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 03:43 PM
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In the article that says she did it without her family's knowledge and they oppose the marriage
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 01:42 PM
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I honestly would not say this is a controversial take at all. It's proven stress affects the body and I think everybody has antidotal evidence of our bodies letting us know in one form or another when we were in bad relationships. It doesn't mean every woman who is chronically ill had an abusive husband, but it's definitely something to take into account
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 04:51 PM
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Story time: when I was in my mid teens I was living with a man in his mid 20's. He was VERY abusive (surprise) but the home that I came from was so chaotic, the fact that he offered structure, consistent food and shelter, really did look like love at that age. When I first met him he was very thin, and I was very attracted to him. But everyday with him was a nightmare. I had crippling depression and anxiety. And although I had found him so attractive at the beginning he no longer looked attracti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 01:58 PM
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Good for you! Do not forget to block him though. Not only to prevent temptation to answer, but also because if he doesn't call it will bother you, the silence will hurt, and if he calls you will be tempted to answer so remember to block
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 09:42 PM
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YES my vote goes o him for HVM. He is actively going out of his way to call out bad behavior which is honestly all we've ever asked of guys, in addition to stopping the bad behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 02:59 PM
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I had an actual friend who is male, but he was asexual so I think that had a lot to do with it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 07:07 PM
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I'm glad you made that boundary and kept it. I've noticed that people will put up with things from their female friends, that they would never put up with from a man, because they are giving her the benefit of the doubt. But it is not always deserved
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 07:18 PM
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Even if it really was harmless as far as romantic intent or flirtation, it was still harmful to the poster because he wasn't paying attention to her, being attentive or noticing how she felt. He was just self-absorbed. What I mean is even if he were talking to a guy friend from high school the way he treated her was still unacceptable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 04:42 PM
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You just have to trust your good. The fact that you are worried enough to post say something in and of itself. If I were to do a point by point:. as far as compliments go, does he compliment everyone? If he is throwing lots of compliments to men (that is a great shirt!) or children (nice Pokemon sneakers!) Then it's not really a thing. But I think if he were doing that it wouldn't be making you feel uncomfortable like it is. problematic friends are a problem. It does bode well that he listened t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 05:16 AM
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At the end of the date, when they see you off, or if you are giving a goodbye hug or handshake or what have you, look them in the eye and say thank you for a lovely evening, or thank you I had a good time or something along those lines. Do not mention doing it again, and don't text them afterwards. Just a sincere thank you at the end of the date is enough. The ball is now in their court.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 04:00 PM
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Loser tries to convince himself that he is somewhat attractive just because women give him attention and sex. They are probably taking society's advice and lowering their standards and giving a chance to unattractive guys so they won't appear "shallow" or because they have been told they can't do any better because they themselves are a little chubby etc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 05:14 PM
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Even the sticking around is not impressive. In my experience, low value men I like fucking ticks they will stick to you forever. With a good possibility of infection. They're impossible to get rid of. High value and respect your boundaries and leave you alone when you tell them to
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 05:04 PM
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I always felt like the "seemingly HV" distinction was redundant. It goes without saying that you think he may have the potential to be high value or you would have already blocked and deleted him. After years of being together, then maybe the word seemingly high value can be said in place of high value. Because I think high value can only safely be said at someone's eulogy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 06:43 PM
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You are right about something being up mentally. The first time I was messing around with this guy I had been seeing, and he would get an erection for a little bit, but then lose it but then it would come back. I could tell he was very into what we were doing, he was very good at what he was doing, and I knew pretty definitively he wasn't porn sick. Turns out later he had ADD. He didn't like the medication, so he controlled it with behavior therapy, but the first time he was with somebody this w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 12:57 PM
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It's odd, some of the kindest most decent and least misogynist men I have ever met were plastic surgeons. And some of the scummiest most disgusting creeps I have ever met were plastic surgeons. There doesn't seem to be a lot of Middle ground with that career
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 02:33 PM
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A really good one to note: often times when people lie they will flash a quick smug smile. And I mean quick like it lasts only a fraction of a second. But it's absolutely there and I see it all the time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 04:48 PM
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Going to add, that learning to recognize micro expressions and the pantomimes people tell when they lie, will absolutely help you figure out when someone is gaslighting you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 04:47 PM
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I am a big fan of Paul Ekman (the show lie to me was loosely based on his work). Studying micro expressions in the pantomimes people show when they lie is absolutely crucial. Not just to dating, really to most things in life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 04:47 PM
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