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I didn't either. I was raised in multiple very abusive and dysfunctional homes with addicts, but I was determined to stop that cycle with my own relationships. I saw how much pain everyone was in and how much pain was continuously caused by not learning how to be better, so I learned how to be better. I've read 30+ books on relationships, applied them to myself to be better, applied them to my relationships, dropped what didn't work genuinely for me, and more. It's not easy to do that 180, but i…
/r/ExRedPill11/06/23 03:03 PM
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May I ask your age range? I feel like most people are selfish and dumb still in their teens to early 20's. A lot of people don't start really growing up until late 20's to mid 30's in my experience. It's mostly the reason why I'm personally against getting married before 30. People need time to grow up and mature.
/r/ExRedPill11/06/23 02:51 PM
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I'm a woman and I love this so hard. Now THIS is growth. This is maturity. This is that realization that carrying around that hurt does nobody any good, and most certainly does not do your relationship any favours by continuing to mask. We are who we are. We're fallible. We're broken, but we can be mended. We're all flawed creatures because we're born with a blank slate and we all have to learn how to adult through trial and error. Until we can actually download a perfect encyclopedia of things …
/r/ExRedPill11/06/23 01:04 PM
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The key is understanding that it's not with every woman. I personally looove vulnerability and honesty. I don't think it should be cruel/neggy or anything, but being open is the only way you're going up be able to communicate effectively. Good, high-quality relationships need communication to get beyond the rough patches and into a good routine of knowing what your partner wants because you know them so well. This in turn helps them feel loved and cared about. If a woman can't handle that, it's …
/r/ExRedPill11/06/23 12:53 PM
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I'm so sorry all of that happened to you. My many years with a couple really jacked with me as well. I understand you and believe you. I hope you get whatever you need to fully heal. If you need some book resources, please let me know. I've had many help me through the healing process well. #4 really hit me hard. I understand they, too, know the feelings of being disposable, so it's a mystery why they would make others feel the same. "Misery loves company", I guess. I wish we would all just calm…
/r/ExRedPill11/06/23 01:04 AM
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Having been around these guys for wwaayy too long and having actual professionals walk me through the recovery treatment of healing from their abusive bullshit, here are the things I've been told that may be going on in their minds: 1 - Dissonance of believing they're not abusive but 'being forced' to be like this to even get pussy 'because there are not other options available' (which is bullshit). To calm the dissonance, they have to make a decision on where they stand, so hamstering over how …
/r/ExRedPill10/06/23 02:29 PM
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I'm a woman, so it's a little more acceptable. I appreciate your candor though. 💕 I just wish I was taller.
/r/ExRedPill09/06/23 06:18 PM
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-cries in 5'4"-
/r/ExRedPill09/06/23 04:01 PM
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How can you complain? Do you expect every job application to give you a job? WTF. Do you know how many death threats we get too? How many full blown misogynists we get that quite literally describe in detail how they want to end our lives? How many dick pics? How many hate-filled messages we get that frame us as their distorted view of all women? I mean really, the list goes on. You're not here in good faith and it's obvious. my fake profile You're the problem. Stop doing this shit, along with t…
/r/ExRedPill09/06/23 01:52 PM
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I think you're circling back around to the whole point of this sub. Red Pill and the like talk about all men as if they're done sort of monolith, but just like women, they're not. There are variables to this "game" and there always will be. Forever. It takes hundreds of years to remove bad qualities from human 'nature'. I don't mind men who indulge in hookups. That can help them gain confidence to inevitably get with women like myself who don't do hookups, but provide a better 'home' for them un…
/r/ExRedPill09/06/23 12:12 PM
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Thank you so much for defending abuse survivors like this! I am one and you are absolutely spot on. 🙏🏼 I like to describe it from a perspective is the gazelle doesn't care how noble the lion's heart is once it's been bitten by one and escaped.
/r/ExRedPill09/06/23 11:57 AM
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why is the dating market so unbalanced for men? It would behoove you to spend several hours or even days looking at the messages we get from guys on dating apps. It's grotesque in many forms. I for one do mind absolutely filthy dirty talk, but I'm not going to do it right out of the gate. Believe it or not, many actually try to start the relationship that way from the first few messages on dating apps. Once that happens 20 out of 30 potentials, you get over apps pretty fast as a woman. There's a…
/r/ExRedPill09/06/23 11:28 AM
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Some men. You seem to be forgetting that men aren't a monolith either. Not all men can "indulge" in hookups. Believe it or not, a lot of men have values that are much different than yours. When you say "men", you imply you speak for all, but you don't. This is exactly where your black and white is keeping you stuck on a truly awakened perspective.
/r/ExRedPill09/06/23 11:13 AM
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Have you read any data on the psychology of cheating for abuse survivors? My therapist actually told me a lot of survivors are 'saved' after these experiences, myself included. I'm not trying to say it would be taken lightly, but there is a lot of wild psychology that happens when abuse survivers find new love.
/r/ExRedPill08/06/23 09:43 PM
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Man, it's sad how we've lost our humanness so much that finding mates is too hard for us. This should be a natural process, but instead we're too fucked up from BS societal standards, birth control, deodorants, and a bunch of other crap messing with the process. This is so absurd.
/r/ExRedPill08/06/23 09:09 PM
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I'm a woman and can only speak from my personal experiences. I doubt many would be honest on a questionnaire about it. Regardless, we have differences of opinion I guess. No biggie. I'm a relationship girl, so I don't really mettle with that life. Either way though, there are much better ways to go about getting a relationship than trying to quantify women into stupid boxes, manipulating them, and fucking with their mental health. Red Pill ain't the way man.
/r/ExRedPill08/06/23 08:57 PM
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It's not rare. lol
/r/ExRedPill08/06/23 08:37 PM
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If a woman’s life is threatened in an abusive relationship she can try her best to get away from it. It’s not an excuse to be a shitty person. One partner being shitty is not an excuse for another partner to be shitty. The big bad husband with guns is not a justification for the wife to throw away her values. You absolutely do not understand abusive relationship dynamics. This is all the cliche shit that gets said that doesn't follow those dynamic rules. Sorry to say, it just doesn't work like t…
/r/ExRedPill08/06/23 08:37 PM
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PREACH! The sheer amount of people who do not comprehend abusive relationships is stupid.
/r/ExRedPill08/06/23 07:31 PM
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These numbers are almost meaningless without context. A lot of men absolutely cannot complain about this after spending eons slut-shaming, cheating, being players, pump and dumping, bullying, etc. Relationships are extremely risky for women now and they shouldn't be. Like fuck, no wonder women don't want to be in them anymore. Stop being walking chodes, actually truly work on bettering more than just your body, work on your personalities, integrity, etc. Stop lying to her, work with her to build…
/r/ExRedPill08/06/23 06:50 PM
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First and foremost, ExRedPill ≠ Opposite of Red Pill. ExRedPill is like a melting pot of various beliefs that mostly all think Red Pill is toxic/abusive/too black and white, etc. Some are still very traditional and/or old fashioned and share their beliefs of why Red Pill ain't it, some are various tiers of feminists, some are burnt out PUAs, some are just trolls, some are on the fence, some are MGTOWs that aren't insane, etc. Pretty much everyone here says that attraction and sexuality isn't goi…
/r/ExRedPill08/06/23 03:56 PM
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Decent attempts at gaslighting, but not so good in terms of everything Reddit kicked off its site, the host of pages on archive.org, all the supposed "Red Pill" "coaches", and everything else that was stolen from the original idea created many moons ago. Don't forget the books that were written about it too. "Red Pill" was a collection of dysfunctional beliefs on socialization with women, "strategy" for getting women, etc. It was real in the terms of the pain it caused and the people it tricked.…
/r/ExRedPill08/06/23 11:57 AM
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What does it mean to be "Red Pill aware" to you? Dead serious. None of this is conducive to having a long, happy marriage.
/r/ExRedPill08/06/23 12:12 AM
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Best reply evaar!! 🤣
/r/ExRedPill07/06/23 07:02 PM
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The good ol' "people are only a means to my ends". Ugh.
/r/ExRedPill07/06/23 07:01 PM
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Has age been a factor in these observations? Also are you a trained and degreed sociologist?
/r/ExRedPill07/06/23 01:37 PM
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Part of me feels like most of them have a very poor understanding of most of relationship functioning. It's very monkey see, monkey do type teaching. There is no core understanding of WHAT they're doing, even if it substantially harms the women, they just see that specific things "work" and therefore it's "good", which is a very dysfunctional way to think.
/r/ExRedPill07/06/23 12:51 PM
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There is consentual non-consent role play, but yeah, not many want it for real.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/23 09:02 PM
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I'll share first! While I never actually believed it, I had several guy friends talk to me in confidence and show me that a lot of Red Pill and MGTOW "mentors" were teaching that "women secretly want to be raped". I initially thought this was a joke, but was horrified at how this was being taught to vulnerable dudes looking for help. This was the start of me hopping on the anti-Red Pill wagon to speak out against not only destructive "mentoring", but also to speak out against them teaching abusi…
/r/ExRedPill06/06/23 05:22 PM
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Oh cool, another personality disordered fuckwit spreading his dysfunctional thoughts on non-consenting BDSM too. I hate these chucklefucks so much. Ugh. I wonder if he's in the same group as those "women SECRETLY love to be raped" garbage too. Ughhh.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/23 05:14 PM
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It's not what I want. These communities will thrive regardless of what I want. Obviously I want online abuse to stop simply because of how it can impact people, especially young people, and their mental health, but what I want doesn't matter. The social circles you're in are likely 'clean' circles, morally good, ethically good, etc. Worst your groups probably do is get speeding tickets or mild mischief. These groups are going to be the hardest hit when/if things fall apart socially, like what's …
/r/ExRedPill04/06/23 11:22 AM
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Why does youtube allow this content? 🤑🤑🤑 Follow the money...
/r/ExRedPill04/06/23 11:16 AM
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Red Pill isn't really underground anymore and hasn't been for a couple of years. It's just known within the alt-right leaning communities. Truly "good" and high quality men aren't in these communities for obvious reasons. If they do even try to speak out, they know they can end up prey to online abuse like Kiwi Farms. Online abuse thrives because there is no regulation.
/r/ExRedPill04/06/23 11:15 AM
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And what does success look like to you? Just getting more attention? Actually getting multiple women for a lot of connections to sex? Getting a girlfriend? Getting multiple girlfriends?
/r/ExRedPill03/06/23 05:27 PM
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I think a really fucked up about guys like Fresh and Fit is that by doing this, they're quite literally distracting the core parts of what the Manosphere was supposed to be (let's try to ignore the misogyny for a minute). The men that find Red Pill+ now aren't getting the core parts of what they need to re-learn. Buy doing what they're doing, they're invalidating the men who are getting abused by women, the men who got abused a kids and don't have a healthy place to learn how to change their bad…
/r/ExRedPill03/06/23 05:26 PM
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Oh right, I see what you mean now. Truth be told, I didn't know it until it was too late though. I was oblivious to a lot of it, which I know is a common issue with men too. Sometimes we're just not aware of it. Are you saying you get no interest? What all have you tried? You don't have to answer, I'm just happy to assist with a woman's perspective if you want it.
/r/ExRedPill03/06/23 04:56 PM
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(I'm recovering from a broken attachment and was a "pick me" if that helps you see my frame of reference). I'm a woman and I fell for this a lot and still sorta still do. After some soul searching, I found that this toxic 'idea' stems from not really knowing all the variables to the situation and trying to stich together a conclusion to the behaviours with limited info. In my case it was because I was taught to not push him too hard for sex and attention. If I pushed too hard, then I would lose …
/r/ExRedPill03/06/23 04:54 PM
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I don't have social proof though. I just finally found it from within after treatment. I still get bullied a lot as I'm still quite nerdy and awkward, I just don't care about their criticisms anymore. There is a sort of internalizing that we can get ourselves to where we realize that these people who have these wild desires to tear everyone down are just shitty people and therefore their opinions are garbage like them.
/r/ExRedPill03/06/23 04:39 PM
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I do know of flinches! That was part of my own treatment (still in process of re-training those). Thanks for the good info!
/r/ExRedPill03/06/23 04:37 PM
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I'm a woman in her 30's who struggled with all of this before without reprieve. It always felt like someone was tearing me down about something. If it wasn't my plump booty and lack of thigh gap, it was my nose shape or the fact that I had anxiety and depression. It was always something. It never ended. It really broke me honestly and despite having some really good looking men express lots of interest in me, I still pushed them away because I just couldn't mentally get over those "criticisms". …
/r/ExRedPill03/06/23 03:17 PM
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If an escort will help you learn to be confident, go for it.
/r/ExRedPill02/06/23 05:52 PM
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LOL!! "aLL yOu GoTta dO iS pUt YoUrseLf OuT ThEre". OMFG my sides! LOLOLOLOLOL!! <snort laughs> LOLOLOL!!!
/r/ExRedPill01/06/23 07:53 PM
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Look, I'm not here to debate. There are terrible feminists too. I'm just answering OP's questions. This gets tossed around back and forth here and has been for years. It all gets boring after a while and I'm pretty over the rhetoric volleyball.
/r/ExRedPill01/06/23 05:59 PM
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I think the loudest trolls can make waves with that kind of rhetoric, but there are good men out there that get shit on by abusive and toxic women. I don't want to take their pain and experiences away with the same generalizing that they do. There is a middle ground that's needed certainly, but it's not all misogynistic talking points. :/ Edit: God this broad is obnoxious. I don't want to debate her, said that. Didn't make any claims, said that. She's not replying to anything I actually said. Wh…
/r/ExRedPill01/06/23 05:51 PM
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Red Pill is one part of the Manosphere. Other parts are MGTOW, Men's Rights, PUA, Dad's Rights, Seduction, etc. It's basically a collection of movements and discussions that are male-focused. There are women who are supportive of these movements as well (mostly as humanists or anti-current wave feminists), but they're primarily male-focused.
/r/ExRedPill01/06/23 05:43 PM
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I don't think anyone here or anyone reasonable argues that it doesn't matter. Most people say that it's not THE determining factor. There may be subconscious things at play for people who don't work on their minds and personalities, but a lot of good women can look beyond a man's genetically-determined height, see that it wasn't his choice to be born that way, and see if he's attractive still without that being a MAIN selling point. Come on now, it's not that hard to see the variables and grey i…
/r/ExRedPill01/06/23 05:10 PM
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You can't really do much honestly. There is stuff going on with their brains that's very likely beyond you. Read Steve Hassan's books and try to find something in there, but sadly they've got to want to get out by their own decisions. Trying to convince them otherwise will feel like you're sabotaging their efforts to be better and they can start seeing you as their enemy (learned that lesson the hard way). All you can do is be there for the crash landing and hope your friend is still in there so…
/r/ExRedPill01/06/23 03:49 PM
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I think at the end of the day, just learning about each other's struggles is a good thing. It helps us stay aware and alert so that we (the ones who actually want to be better) can work on getting rid of those toxic behaviours that society drills into us as a 'good' thing. Not everybody is dedicated to that, but a lot are. Without Red Pill, I wouldn't have learned half the stuff I have about men and the men I love. It's a blessing and a curse, but overall has guided me in becoming a better woman…
/r/ExRedPill01/06/23 03:42 PM
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This is all bang on from my relationships with Red Pillers. Thank you for sharing the ins and outs of your thought-processes because THAT is what's most important here, not the coulda, shoulda, woulda of basics of morality and ethics. 🤍 My breaking point was when I started to get paranoid about women in the first place, as I thought all of them had this biological impulse to fuck me over, especially romantic partners, and so Id learn manipulative tricks to keep them from doing so (ashamed to adm…
/r/ExRedPill01/06/23 10:48 AM
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in order to attract all but the most repulsive of women. And basically every woman under, what, an 8 is repulsive, right? 😅
/r/ExRedPill31/05/23 08:40 PM
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You're making far too much sense. Get out. /jk 😅
/r/ExRedPill31/05/23 05:42 PM
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No, the implication is that many people will suffer through mental health issues throughout the course of a relationship and don't know 1) how to properly deal with their loved one going through one 2) know how to detect one and 3) don't know the potential relationship strains mental health issues can cause a relationship. 3 of many.
/r/ExRedPill31/05/23 10:51 AM
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A lot of those are men LARPing a women you know?
/r/ExRedPill30/05/23 09:39 PM
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Nobody is "poisoning the well" with one comment. I can't find any of the indicators I know to look for peer-reviewed papers. By all means, teach me, but don't come at me like I'm some enemy of the world. Damn.
/r/ExRedPill30/05/23 04:52 PM
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So much of our society and behaviors come from the psychosexual. And whether or not that is biological or social I really don't think matters. I think some of us have to remember that when we are socializing we are going to be doing a lot of things that we don't think about in real time. Preach it!
/r/ExRedPill30/05/23 04:30 PM
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That first one isn't peer-reviewed. Part of me wants to keep going... Ohh...the first one uses "The Dark Triad of personality and infidelity intentions" (https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0191886918300904)
/r/ExRedPill30/05/23 04:26 PM
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Stop feeding trolls.
/r/ExRedPill30/05/23 04:24 PM
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I think it's a known fact already, there are some that are just dying slowly because all they know is doubling down. Some don't want to admit how we've been doing things could have been wrong and we could be better if we truly wanted. It'll change if they just admit that it's not the best way to live.
/r/ExRedPill30/05/23 04:23 PM
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I really wish there was some type of forces that schools would teach both young men and young women about the realities of not only sex but the psychology around it 100% agree. We can't keep relying on parents to teach these things. If they want a "Christian" (or "traditional") education, they can pay for that schooling. It's time for people to know these things for the betterment of society.
/r/ExRedPill30/05/23 04:18 PM
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I think both exist. Some will go in one box, others in another. It's dependent on so many factors.
/r/ExRedPill30/05/23 04:16 PM
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I want to give it some deeper thought than this for a long while, but I'm going to link the direction I think they're trying to go with their descriptions. I think they try to say something along the lines of the mental toll with having too many partners, rather than a permanent inability to commit. It's true that there can be a mental health toll, including things like depression and anxiety; both of which can impact a person's ability to be high-quality partners (though it's not usually perman…
/r/ExRedPill30/05/23 02:20 PM
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Oh my bad. Let me see if I can find something for you.
/r/ExRedPill30/05/23 02:08 PM
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Think about it, this info comes from the same men that think we become flappy vagina holes that can eventually consume an entire chair if we have too much sex. What's next? A whole town? /s I mean, really. That whole thing is making correlations to wonky things with questionable "science" that's mostly made up of taking things out of context. Yes, some women (and men) are so ugly on the inside that they can no longer love anyone or have never been able to, but that's not related to their sex cou…
/r/ExRedPill30/05/23 02:02 PM
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I'm sorry that's been your personal experiences with women who treat you like this. I've personally been with virgins and have never minded give them a few tips to make the experiences better, so I know we're not all like that (cliche statement here, I know). If you love the man and this is his situation, I feel like if you bully him over this, you're never going to get the best of him. Truly a shame honestly. :/
/r/ExRedPill30/05/23 01:57 PM
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My generation still got a lot of that too. I'm of the one that started getting online in the 90's where our internet wasn't censored at all, porn ads everywhere, rotton.com, etc. It's always been a really fucked up place, but yeah, having no regulation is getting people hurt big time. Everyone reasonable needs to understand it's only a decent place when these coaches or mentors actually have to prove themselves as someone who is worthy of giving this advice: certifications, designations, degress…
/r/ExRedPill30/05/23 12:22 PM
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It's unlikely the mods would tell you how to get passed the spam filter. If they think it fits here, they'll approve it.
/r/ExRedPill30/05/23 12:08 PM
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There is nothing in this world that would be just you. We're much more alike than we realize. Maybe you've just discovered you're a different sexuality and need to find your tribe.
/r/ExRedPill30/05/23 12:07 PM
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The impression I've always gotten from them is a very dry, Ayn Rand style of "love". It's a brain chemical only that serves more as a nuance to their objectives instead. Their love is rule-based instead of sometimes just being whimsical, random, and fun sometimes. When I was with Red Pillers, it was very brittle, could be easily taken away and given freely to others if I messed up, etc.
/r/ExRedPill29/05/23 11:11 AM
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I'm sorry you went through that too. I got sucked in through exes and friends, but fuck it was all so hard to watch all my guys suffer like this. Like I wanted to help, but how the fuck do we take on a Goliath like this?! Ugh. I'm so happy you found your way out! 💕 Hopefully you're doing better now?
/r/ExRedPill28/05/23 11:26 PM
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I haven't looked too much into this phenomenon with cult-like leaders, but I think there is some sort of Stockholm-y thing that happens with the followers of these guys similar to how abuse victims struggle with coming to terms with loving their abuser. It's like a form of denial of wanting to accept they trusted 'the bad guy'. I dunno. It's sad.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/23 11:18 PM
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Granted I'm a woman who is into seduction, so my opinion might be off base, but I personally looooove seduction stuff, but Reddit is an awful place to get that advice. Seduction on Reddit is abusive. Fun seduction is FUN and intended on being sexy. It's meant to get you going, it's not meant to fuck with your head and give you negative emotions or make you feel bad about yourself. I use seduction to make my men feel GOOD about themselves, make them feel empowered to devour me. I can't stand the …
/r/ExRedPill28/05/23 10:49 PM
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Getting further into biases and cognitive distortions can help you with Black Pill. I've helped a lot of friends get out. The biggest stuff for you to consider is the very people these things appeal to. If women are like this (which not all are), then why do you even want to appeal to them anyways? Great work on getting out of Red Pill though. Massive accomplishment! :)
/r/ExRedPill28/05/23 06:07 PM
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Red Pill makes the problem worse. You did a great job at summing up the current state of Red Pill. 😅 Great work, detective!
/r/ExRedPill28/05/23 05:53 PM
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For real! Like, come on, just heal your shit and move on to better things, guys. It's crazy that this level of trauma is even appealing to pass on to others, let alone women. We're so much more bad ass when we all work together. ☺
/r/ExRedPill28/05/23 03:01 PM
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I'm not really concerned because of the Reverse Uno that was started back in 2021 where instead of being respected, they started being seen as the clowns they are (hence why some of the smarter ones have separated themselves from Red Pill rhetoric). Tate uses a lot of "dark patterns" BS too. They're not as respected as they and many others believe. Even Tate, with 6 million followers (most of which are very likely paid bot accounts) can only manage maybe 1k-5k average retweets/activity. That's a…
/r/ExRedPill28/05/23 01:24 PM
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The Red Pill way would be to reject "societal standards" so I'm not denying reality, right? Taking "pride in their appearance" would be succumbing to that fake reality that someone else has set, no? Who dictates that standard? Why are we adhering to this standard set by an unknown entity? Who sets standards for "femininity"? What chart is there I can look at that determines when I'm "feminine" enough? Asking for a friend... /s
/r/ExRedPill27/05/23 11:43 PM
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🧐 If we're all being "intellectually honest", here are a bunch of fun little biases in this text (feel free to research them so you're not being a "regressive leftist"): -Horns effect -Idiosyncratic rater bias -False Consensus effect -Confirmation bias -Anchoring bias -Overconfidence bias -Illusory correlation -Halo effect -Conformity bias -Affinity bias Welp, that was fun. Next episode we'll discuss the modern day book burning that doesn't happen in the "regressive" left. Until next time! Your …
/r/ExRedPill27/05/23 09:43 PM
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Brother, during the depression they dressed their kids in potato sacks. The companies saw so many kids in them that they started to put designs on them. Money had a greater impact on things back then. Where you could run a family on one income, now you're lucky if you can on two. There are a lot of people that would dress nicer if they could, but the state of the economy in a lot of areas makes it much harder. The other thing to factor in is the expectations of "beauty" have substantially increa…
/r/ExRedPill27/05/23 09:28 PM
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So a woman's sole purpose is to be kept and desirable enough for men and spank bait or do you think their compatible job in history would have been other things? Maybe those women would be farmers, horse keepers, janitorial, bar keep, mechanics, construction, fighters, blacksmiths, etc. Maybe they're focused on other things besides impressing you. I'm sorta a tomboy, but I love making myself pretty and "feminine" for my man in private. 😏 These dynamics exist too. What a men supposed to wear? Do …
/r/ExRedPill27/05/23 08:42 PM
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"Women" don't "lack" femininity. Femininity was forced for many centuries. Women in history have been other things than patriarchal "feminine": shield maidens, diplomats, advisors, war maidens, male-fronting spies and snipers, code breakers, fighters, etc. Women are women even without pretty dresses. Your concept of femininity is not based on what femininity actually is; it's an idealized fantasy for men.
/r/ExRedPill27/05/23 07:13 PM
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Cognitive dissonance is one helleva drug though. 😬
/r/ExRedPill27/05/23 06:56 PM
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This biggest and most notable part of this is that he does not advertise how much damage this does to the woman's brain. I had to go through a very intensive recovery and treatment from all this (years with multiple men who were in this BS, except I was allowed to be polyamorous). This did MASSIVE amounts of damage to my abilities to function in every day life, so much so to the point where my brain damage was literally causing my body to shut down (I'm dead fucking serious). He is a sick man te…
/r/ExRedPill27/05/23 02:55 PM
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It truly is a godsend. When I realized "what I was", I felt less "broken". I was raised ultra-religious, so of course that was looked down on, but then I started to understand that mono people were only looking at it with their lens (non co-existing love) and they truly just believed that my love was exchanging for the other. I'm also a really big lover too, so it helped to sorta disburse my love across multiple people too. Each one didn't get less love, they just got different love. I try not t…
/r/ExRedPill27/05/23 01:32 PM
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They specifically run an MLM/pyramid scheme AND a ponzi scheme occasionally with stock pump and dumps in those rooms. Some of my own family got caught up and I had to part ways because I don't want to be associated with any of that. Anything his followers do at his behest (known as "proxy recruitment") makes them liable for the crime. Don't ever forget that. You want her to be guilty by association or do you want to show her the reality of what he's really in?!
/r/ExRedPill27/05/23 01:20 PM
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Yeah, I've realized the biggest difference with monogamy and polyamory is that my love can co-exist. I don't stop having feelings for the first one in exchange for the second. When I love someone, or both, I love them both for their own reasons. 🤍
/r/ExRedPill27/05/23 01:11 PM
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TL;DR: These things happen. Humans catch feels. It's not always personal. Have that discussion with your partner so everyone is on the same page for IF it happens. Sometimes though the opposite sex can really have that brother/sister friendship. I've been in several of them. We talk about it, try to be adults about it, and move on. × × × I don't know if my side will be received well, but I was the girl who had the friend that I wanted to escalate with while I was in a relationship. My partner kn…
/r/ExRedPill26/05/23 05:05 PM
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The nuance in-between is what A LOT of the Manosphere tends to be the massive upset. I truly believe it's a group of people that have issues with black and white thinking. To them, things either are or they are not. There is very little in-between. This is a known cognitive distortion because we can get quantitative proof of things existing outside of their flawed purview. From what I've read, very little people are upset at him being a webcam pimp. The true problems are him being a webcam pimp …
/r/ExRedPill26/05/23 01:51 PM
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Preposterous! They don't need it! /s
/r/ExRedPill25/05/23 10:51 PM
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Did you actually read my comment?
/r/ExRedPill25/05/23 06:14 PM
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The post is poking fun at someone that has "LMS" but still can't score a good, high-quality woman, thus again proving Red Pill is bullshit. Red Pill tells men to fake having a personality and give women a false sense of security, which it's much, much more than that for actual good relationships. This sub's "standards" are that of normal relationships that billions of people have and succeed at. This sub is a very focused sub, which they're entitled to have. You don't have to stay here, but the …
/r/ExRedPill25/05/23 02:31 PM
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This mindset is what kind of creates the hookup culture that we all hate. The wild thing about this is you don't HAVE to participate in it. Meanwhile there's a healthy fifth of the male population that's not doing well romantically because they're not doing well job-wise or economically. Who probably want to settle down. Sorry to say, but many of them still want models, normal girls without a drop of cellulite (which is very normal), wants her to risk her life by staying at home, etc. A lot of t…
/r/ExRedPill25/05/23 01:42 PM
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I've met guys like that and most often they have the personality of moldy cheese. He was raised broke, but is now rich, and now wants good high-quality women to throw themselves at him because of that. The rub is when high-quality women want more than moldy cheese to date and don't care about money as much as these Red Pill "mentors" say. Another have your cake and eat it too scenario. It's not that hard to understand. lol
/r/ExRedPill25/05/23 11:35 AM
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Same here. I was pulled in without my informed willingness around 29, mostly by heavy coercion. I quietly capitulated for too many years until I finally got to that "fuck it" point at like 33, left all those friends, and went and did my own thing. Most didn't actually want help, they just wanted a constant stream of validation for their issues they refused to actually do anything about. I was wanting to actually fix and change myself. Gotta move on. :/
/r/ExRedPill24/05/23 12:59 PM
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First, I'm sorry for what you have been through and are currently going through. I think one of the biggest harms of Red Pill is teaching men about abusive women in a way that makes them all seem abusive. It's not a true or false situation, it's a spectrum thing. Every woman might get upset at something they do, but not every woman will exploit others so thoroughly as an abusive woman. A woman might raise her voice if she's upset or exhausted, but not every one will go and key your car, rip out …
/r/ExRedPill24/05/23 01:30 AM
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I haven't seen a better video yet and I watched that when it first came out. They did a great job.
/r/ExRedPill24/05/23 01:19 AM
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These can be lots of things. Sometimes they're insecurities we hold within ourselves and project them out because we would do it and we also believe others would (which isn't always the case). Sometimes it's because we've been hurt in the past and because it hurt (and probably not ready to date), we don't want to let ourselves fall that deep again. Sounds like you're finally just growing up though (as lame and cliche as it sounds). These feelings are common for getting through our next 'stage' i…
/r/ExRedPill23/05/23 08:27 PM
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The downvotes are likely because this is a tiny portion of "facts" for bad and unhealthy relationships. If you're the person who refuses to grow and change then yeah, that's how they can be. This isn't really normal though.
/r/ExRedPill23/05/23 07:24 PM
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Ohh yes! That's amazing too!! Or shit, even just staying in and gaming. 😍
/r/ExRedPill22/05/23 08:15 PM
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This, but you get to have sex with each other too, which depending on your libido can be very awesome. 👉🏼👌🏼😬🤭😅
/r/ExRedPill22/05/23 07:54 PM
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Yes, I understand those frustrations very well! I am very introspective and in tune and it is sad to see those who completely lack the ability. Their lives must be so painful to not know how to fix it.
/r/ExRedPill22/05/23 02:19 PM
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I can't imagine having faith in marriage at that point. Like at some point, wouldn't you just not get married? 😅
/r/ExRedPill22/05/23 01:42 PM
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The divorce rate they advertise has vital numbers intentionally withheld. A good chunk of them are 2nd and 3rd divorces, not first ones. Plus the age brackets are grouped together and shouldn't be. The 50% rate is very skewed.
/r/ExRedPill21/05/23 08:16 PM
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It incessantly posts stories where women abuse men, but this is a consequence of selection bias, only highlighting the most extreme cases and neglecting the positive or neutral ones. But the users are misled into thinking that this is the norm for women’s behavior I think this is one of the main hooks. When your feed becomes an overwhelming roll of negativity from anyone specific (whether it be women, a certain race, etc.), then you're bound to start feeling strong biases towards that. It leaks …
/r/ExRedPill21/05/23 02:47 PM
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Losing yourself to abusive relationships is really hard. I know it's easier said than done, but just try to let it roll off. They're just opinions and making you feel bad about yourself isn't going to help. What's done is done and all you can do now is practice more, focus, and try to pass it again.
/r/ExRedPill15/05/23 10:12 PM
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One trick that helped my partners escape it was to help them remember that they're doing a disservice to themselves and others by continuing to follow it knowing it's bad. You're stuck in their intentional dissonance loop. They do it on purpose to keep you stuck. :/
/r/ExRedPill15/05/23 01:10 PM
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This is great. Thank you for sharing.
/r/ExRedPill10/05/23 03:23 PM
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