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| 2 | Dealing with aggressive competition from other men, how would you handle this situation? | Field Report | Glass_Discipline_468 | /r/seduction | 25/05/22 10:21 PM |
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| 1 | She has a boyfriend but still wants meA lot of the comments below are naive. Why should you give a fuck about her relationship status? as long as you know it's likely to just be sex then what's the problem? If she is down and you want to, then go for it. | /r/seduction | 04/06/22 03:24 PM |
| 1 | How do you show interest without looking thirsty after the first date?Yeah because she was inviting you to escalate things emotionally over text. If you miss that then it's game over, it shows in-experience. Play the game and hit back with some flirting, there is always a subtext when interacting with women, it's how women separate guys who are socially skilled from those who aren't. She wants you to pick up on the subtext and lead with it, if you can do that, she will pretty much be yours. When you do this you are communicating that you know her game and you can … | /r/seduction | 04/06/22 10:48 AM |
| 0 | What's the most profound thing you've learned about dating / seduction? Have you ever had a huge moment of awareness?You are missing the point entirely. | /r/seduction | 30/05/22 09:54 PM |
| 5 | What's the most profound thing you've learned about dating / seduction? Have you ever had a huge moment of awareness?Realizing that I am attractive to women, I might not be able to see it but women are attracted to masculine traits I possess. Realizing that I can just do what I want, if I want to ask a girl out, I can just do it. If I want to kiss her, I can just do it. There's nothing/no-one stopping me. Each time I try, I get further, failure (rejection in this case) is a lesson and an opportunity to do better next time. I've learned that rejection is just a woman's way of saying that you are not there yet a… | /r/seduction | 30/05/22 08:51 PM |
| 7 | What do you do to put yourself in the mood for going out and meeting people?The trick is to just always be social, be chatting to people all the time and in every situation. I'm a bartender so my job is very social and there are times where I feel like I don't want to chat up customers but I always just ask a random question. You need to lose this idea that it's a mood based thing that comes and goes, it's not, it's effort based. | /r/seduction | 24/05/22 08:24 AM |
| 1 | I *still* haven’t had the courage to cold approach womenNo. | /r/seduction | 24/05/22 08:12 AM |
| 4 | I *still* haven’t had the courage to cold approach womenI once started an interaction by asking a girl to play where's wally with me in a pub, I randomly found the book and was like, I can put this to use. Make her laugh and have fun, that's literally all you need to do. | /r/seduction | 23/05/22 08:07 PM |
| 1 | I *still* haven’t had the courage to cold approach womenThis is why I hate PUA nonsense, calling it a cold approach is ridiculous. You are talking to a girl you are interested in, that's it. Just say anything, literally whatever comes to mind, say it. What will matter is if you say it with certainty and belief in yourself. | /r/seduction | 23/05/22 07:10 PM |
| 1 | When is the best time to tell a girl that I (24 M) have never been in a relationship/had sex?Don't, it doesn't matter, let her bring it up, if she doesn't you are good. | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 12:55 PM |
| 4 | Finding and vetting a coach, advice?Don't pay a coach. What you want is a normal, natural guy who is good with women to observe. Here is a big secret about this stuff, the goal is to leave the community in the end, to have so much success that you forget you ever needed to learn this shit. Coaches are the weird fringe guys who never get there and stay in the community. Go find a natural and do what he does. | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 12:46 PM |
| 1 | GF posting selfie in bed with cleavageAbsolutely no reason to have that kind of shit posted, any excuse is not acceptable. | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 11:03 AM |
| 1 | How do you take initiative with a girl who already get hit often by tons of men?It comes down to this for me, if I want a sexual relationship with a girl then that's not the same as being her friend. If we are having sex we are not friends, we are lovers. So I'm always orientating my words and actions towards not being friendly, I want to communicate as much as possible that this is not a friendly interaction, I want something more than just friendliness. This is done from a place of sincere interest in the other person, it's saying "I like you so much that I want you as ei… | /r/seduction | 21/05/22 01:24 PM |
| 2 | Can someone give me actual legit advices that really work?A quarter century of being a man, about eight years of actively dating women and a whole lot of common sense. | /r/seduction | 20/05/22 01:03 PM |
| 2 | Can someone give me actual legit advices that really work?Men and women are different what works for women does not work for men. Men need to do more than just be friendly, honest and themselves. | /r/seduction | 20/05/22 10:56 AM |
| 1 | Can someone give me actual legit advices that really work?Truth although I doubt anyone here will listen. Too busy living in fairy-tale land. | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Can someone give me actual legit advices that really work?Awful advice. What is he going to learn? how to entertain women for an evening? No, OP needs to learn how to flirt, touch, kiss and pull women. Lots of very sociable guys can't get laid because seducing a women is a separate skill entirely from talking to her. He needs to focus on pushing his interactions towards the bedroom not having more platonic interactions. | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 09:04 PM |
| 3 | Can someone give me actual legit advices that really work?I agree, It's hilarious to read some of the advice here and how out of touch everyone is. How wet do you think she is getting when you are being a well-behaved little polite nice guy? | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 08:54 PM |
| 3 | Can someone give me actual legit advices that really work?Your advice is great if OP wants to be a passive, feminized man. | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 08:39 PM |
| 2 | I'm kinda nervous to bring girls to my placeIf she is interested enough in you, the location won't matter. | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 01:02 PM |
| 1 | How do you take initiative with a girl who already get hit often by tons of men?When I go out with girls, there are plenty of gentleman who buy them drinks, chat them up all night, even buy me drinks. And I have never seen a single girl go home with any of these guys. I collect them at the end of the night and leave. The issue I am pointing out is that too many women expect things because they are hot and one of quickest ways to get a girl interested in you is to show her you don't value hotness that much. When you first meet her, subtly let her know that you won't just imm… | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 12:53 PM |
| 29 | How do you take initiative with a girl who already get hit often by tons of men?Think about this logically, she is being validated constantly, guys are complimenting her, getting nervous around her, simping for her. How refreshing and interesting would it be for a guy to not offer up that validation immediately but to make her work for it instead. Say something that no other guy would ever say to her, show her that you are not a simp and that the fact she is hot does not have any influence over your behavior. I was dating a girl and met her friend at a bar, when I went up t… | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 02:52 PM |
| 0 | Having a female best friend is undoubtedly one of the reasons I have success with other girls.It speaks volumes to the type of guys in this sub when no one realizes this is a troll. Female bestie. Lmao, nice one. | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 02:37 PM |
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