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| – | Paying for it is so much better than casual sex.Ooh, that’s an interesting sort of checkmate! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/26 04:57 PM |
| 2 | Short men do better with women than tall men most of the timeWeeeelll, I’m a tall man who is divorced, and it’s because I was fucking a much younger woman who was not my wife. Hope this anecdote is edifying to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Women claim to be into personality but judge everythingSorry I wasn’t clear- what I meant that if no one is thinking about an attractive person who is out and about, why on earth would they be scrutinising the existence of unattractive troglodytes? I mean, I can see an attractive person in the street and think “oh heyy” and that’s about it. I don’t even know them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/26 03:03 PM |
| – | Women claim to be into personality but judge everythingWait what? Half of Reddit is men moaning about women’s preferences! And the other half is women moaning about men’s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/26 09:48 AM |
| – | Women claim to be into personality but judge everythingWho is scrutinising you? I’m a tall attractive man with a cool job and literally nobody I don’t already know is thinking about me, let alone “scrutinising” me. And even if they were, why would I give a shit? This idea that you are being scrutinised or attacked by strangers is some crazy solipsistic online zoomer shit. It’s not something I often say, but go outside and touch grass, but for real. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/26 09:39 AM |
| 1 | Ladies, be honest: is a guy wearing apple watch/smart watch a turn off on a first dates?I can tell you for sure that no woman I’ve ever been able to attract has said “you know what you need is a big ass expensive watch”. That said, sometimes when I go phone free for a while I wear an old school plastic Casio watch (literally only tells the time) and it has gotten positive remarks because it’s funny and hokey. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/26 09:28 AM |
| 1 | Ladies, be honest: is a guy wearing apple watch/smart watch a turn off on a first dates?I’m not a woman, but I’m trying to think of any female friend of mine or woman I’ve dated who wouldn’t find such things neutral at best. Depending on how a man interacts with his various gizmos, this could go from neutral to negative to ick in quick succession. That said, the big chunky expensive watches popular amongst certain demographics of men would likely illicit a similar response, BUT, important to note, my female friends and exes are likely of a certain demographic themselves and therefo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/26 09:19 AM |
| – | I've heard people say that men's lack of success on dating apps doesn't occur in real life. I don't believe thatI wasn't clear, I didn't meet anyone off apps. I met people either in real life or on instagram. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 03:28 PM |
| – | I've heard people say that men's lack of success on dating apps doesn't occur in real life. I don't believe thatYes and no. I was trying to date women in their 30s-40s via apps, but women in their 20s is what I got. I'm talking mid to late 20s, definitely not wide eyed virgins. Not my thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 03:02 PM |
| – | I've heard people say that men's lack of success on dating apps doesn't occur in real life. I don't believe thatit isn't necessarily, and in my case wasn't, I was just preempting reddit pearl clutches. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 02:58 PM |
| – | I've heard people say that men's lack of success on dating apps doesn't occur in real life. I don't believe thatNo. I was single for a while a couple of years ago and as an "old person" (40s) I was able to date women in their 20's. Disgusting and reprehensible, yes, fine, but really it highlights the fact that this is a skill issue. In fairness, it is a skill issue born of young people and young men in particular spending too much time indoors playing video games and jerking off to weird cartoon porn. Sorry. And for the record yes I have played video games and yes I have jerked off to weird cartoon porn, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 09:25 AM |
| 4 | I've heard people say that men's lack of success on dating apps doesn't occur in real life. I don't believe thatI can only presume that they reached this conclusion because the last time they observed dating behaviour up close was at high school, ie the dating behaviour of children. Or perhaps they themselves are literally children. Makes sense when you look at it that way, but it's a sad kind of sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 09:16 AM |
| – | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADWell, I think some expectations can be dehumanizing, particularly when you are using them to exclude otherwise suitable people, but this would be at the expense of the person with the expectations. A man who only wants virgins is wildly limiting his own pool of available partners (particularly if they live in Europe or North America) and honestly it's not a mindset I understand. Neither would I understand the mindset of a woman who abstained from sex just to attract that sort of man, unless they… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/26 09:59 AM |
| – | You should have to be sexually active or trying to be sexually active with the opposite sex to post or commentOnce every 100 years, something true and useful is posted on reddit, and this happens to be it. See you in 2126! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/26 09:39 AM |
| 1 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADI think one of the perennial problems of reddit opinions is that they are expressed by people with insufficient life experience who do not realise that human sexuality, expressed by whatever gender, is rarely more than a hairs breadth from turning into a total shitshow of a circus. Sometimes being "the bad decision" can apply to both parties. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/26 09:11 AM |
| 1 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADI agree, but you are talking about pretty extreme views which most people, certainly where I live (UK) would denounce as extreme, stupid, unreasonable and unrealistic. More common are -slightly- unreasonable expectations, from both sexes, which can be dehumanizing, and women certainly do this good & plenty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/26 09:06 AM |
| 3 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADI take your point, but how is this different from women being willing to sleep with a man they find sexy but unsuitable for a long term relationship vs wanting to be serious with a man that they value for reasons aside from his sexiness (but hopefully including sexiness). I mean, it's not exactly parallel but it's not far off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/26 12:50 AM |
| 0 | What are the signs that a man is genuinely desired and not just settled for as the "safe guy"?You asked the above poster- "So spell out how this shit test works, in real life. How does one demonstrate "willing to do something she doesn't want to do" without doing it" And they gave a perfectly reasonable answer, which rings true to me as something I have experienced, but you replied- "I wouldn't even think to make such a request from my partner, and I'd feel downright sociopathic asking". So, tell me, how do you find out if your partner likes anal sex or not, if asking is inherently socio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/26 12:45 AM |
| 0 | What are the signs that a man is genuinely desired and not just settled for as the "safe guy"?Wait, what? If you don't like anal sex as a man, you won't be asking for it, but how is asking if she will do it sociopathic? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/26 12:08 AM |
| 2 | CMV: there's a greater chance of you getting with a woman if you are ok getting rejected by herI'm not sure it's intentional rage bait, as she sort of backpedals from "continue to pursue and be there for her", which is a recipe for friendzone niceguy-hood, to "be okay and continue to hang out". So I think the message is confused. I mean, I know what she means. I have rejected people and they literally never spoke to me again, and I have rejected people and they were cool with it and life went on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/26 11:33 PM |
| 1 | ''Men age like fine wine'' is a real example of a comforting lie men tell themselves, kind of like how they claim the blue pill isThat's it. You don't have to be rich, but you need to not be a fuck-up, though even then, there's plenty of fuck-ups batting out of their league! And, if I had to guess at the core of the attraction younger has for older, it is probably a base level of emotional stability, for want of a better phrase. I know that when I was in my 20s I wasn't a bad dude, but I could definitely be an insufferable asshole. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/26 12:33 AM |
| 1 | ''Men age like fine wine'' is a real example of a comforting lie men tell themselves, kind of like how they claim the blue pill isOh I don't doubt it! Seems like a bit of a free for all with some of these younguns. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/26 12:27 AM |
| – | ''Men age like fine wine'' is a real example of a comforting lie men tell themselves, kind of like how they claim the blue pill isHa ha, this is reddit in 2026. Everybody is bothered. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/26 12:25 AM |
| – | ''Men age like fine wine'' is a real example of a comforting lie men tell themselves, kind of like how they claim the blue pill is"The offense is y would u bring up something so irrelevant to the point, That the hottest women want money" My point is that if a woman is primarily interested in other people's money and resources, this by default, for me and many people like me, makes her not hot. A hot woman who is greedy for the wealth of others is, for me, an oxymoron, if you like. "Unless fucking u and not offending u gave her more $$$ and resources then it's not a relevant point." This is word salad. Please rephrase if yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 11:56 PM |
| – | ''Men age like fine wine'' is a real example of a comforting lie men tell themselves, kind of like how they claim the blue pill isIt's not really an issue though. People say one thing and do another, has always been thus. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 11:37 PM |
| – | ''Men age like fine wine'' is a real example of a comforting lie men tell themselves, kind of like how they claim the blue pill isWell I don't know where you are, and obviously having some spare cash is important for going out and having fun, but "The hottest women ABSOLUTELY care about $$$ and resources" is not something that has ever applied to my life or to those of anyone I know. Perhaps you live in a place where people are particularly materialistic, or perhaps you have and idea of "the hottest women" that is not based in real life inter-personal relationships? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 09:25 PM |
| – | ''Men age like fine wine'' is a real example of a comforting lie men tell themselves, kind of like how they claim the blue pill isIf I understand you correctly, this seems like an adversarial question. What offends you about the idea of people not finding greed heads hot? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 09:17 PM |
| – | ''Men age like fine wine'' is a real example of a comforting lie men tell themselves, kind of like how they claim the blue pill isTwo poor people can be in a happy relationship. One or even both of them could be hot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 09:16 PM |
| – | ''Men age like fine wine'' is a real example of a comforting lie men tell themselves, kind of like how they claim the blue pill isIt can be relevant to the discussion without anything needing to be done about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 09:14 PM |
| – | ''Men age like fine wine'' is a real example of a comforting lie men tell themselves, kind of like how they claim the blue pill isDunno, man. I think it depends on how you play the game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 06:33 PM |
| – | ''Men age like fine wine'' is a real example of a comforting lie men tell themselves, kind of like how they claim the blue pill isSure, but that's why I emphasised the lizard brain part. A 20 year old with a perfect body and cute face is hardly a "catch" to a serious man in his 30s, but even if she was a total moron, I think most men would rather spend one night of disgusting depravity with her than one night with her 40 year old mom. No? I'm talking baseline animal attraction here, but maybe that's not what you're talking about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 06:31 PM |
| 3 | ''Men age like fine wine'' is a real example of a comforting lie men tell themselves, kind of like how they claim the blue pill isTrue, largely, but I think you are missing out an important element- that attractive older men who weren't attractive when they were younger are an even tinier subset of an already small subset, ie attractive older men. As an anecdotal aside, as an (apparently) attractive older man, I seem to get more attention when I'm a bit of a larders, lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 06:26 PM |
| – | ''Men age like fine wine'' is a real example of a comforting lie men tell themselves, kind of like how they claim the blue pill is"The hottest women". What total nonsense. To me, and many men like me, caring about "resources" would make a woman instantly unfuckable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 06:20 PM |
| – | ''Men age like fine wine'' is a real example of a comforting lie men tell themselves, kind of like how they claim the blue pill isPeople will not like it but I think it is very relevant, yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 06:07 PM |
| – | ''Men age like fine wine'' is a real example of a comforting lie men tell themselves, kind of like how they claim the blue pill isI'm not agreeing with everything this guy says, but come on, based on amoral lizard brain level fuckability, a 21 year old woman is going to win out over a 41 year old woman. I don't think you need sources for that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 05:57 PM |
| 1 | ''Men age like fine wine'' is a real example of a comforting lie men tell themselves, kind of like how they claim the blue pill isNo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 05:03 PM |
| 1 | ''Men age like fine wine'' is a real example of a comforting lie men tell themselves, kind of like how they claim the blue pill isI never had a problem with women but I look back at photos of myself in my 20s and I look like such a chubby faced, greasy little boy! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 04:33 PM |
| – | ''Men age like fine wine'' is a real example of a comforting lie men tell themselves, kind of like how they claim the blue pill isDude, that would be spelling, not grammar. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 04:30 PM |
| 5 | ''Men age like fine wine'' is a real example of a comforting lie men tell themselves, kind of like how they claim the blue pill isNo, he's right. If you are even able to sleep with hot young things as an older man, it gets old fast, unless you are a particular type of man, and honestly you don't want to be that type of man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 04:26 PM |
| – | ''Men age like fine wine'' is a real example of a comforting lie men tell themselves, kind of like how they claim the blue pill isTrue. When I was single a few years ago I was astonished how women in their 20s were interested in at least sleeping with me, a man in his 40s. I wasn't exactly cutting a swathe through the young women of my city, but yeah, it was surprising. And I couldn't tell you why this was the case. I'm tall and I guess I must be attractive, because I am definitely not rich. And for the record I was not seeking these women out. For the brief period that I was on dating apps I had my settings at mid 30s- mi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 04:21 PM |
| 1 | Women don't want the end goal of feminism. Bonnie Blue is the living proof.no | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 03:47 PM |
| – | Women don't want the end goal of feminism. Bonnie Blue is the living proof.Because they have a presence in the real world beyond their podcasts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 03:06 PM |
| – | Women don't want the end goal of feminism. Bonnie Blue is the living proof.No, these are definitely real people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 03:04 PM |
| 1 | Women don't want the end goal of feminism. Bonnie Blue is the living proof.I'm just speaking of my own experience. I would have never heard of Bonnie Blue except for the podcasts I listen to. But, to be sure, I would put money on the majority, probably the vast majority of hate and death threats she receives coming from men, but I imagine that is kind of a constant if you are in that industry. What is different in her case is the negativity coming from sex work positive feminists. that's what has me confused. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 03:03 PM |
| – | Women don't want the end goal of feminism. Bonnie Blue is the living proof.What's AI, me or the podcasts? I mean, neither are, but curious what you mean and why. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 02:13 PM |
| – | Women don't want the end goal of feminism. Bonnie Blue is the living proof.I think you're right that internet/social media comments can't be taken very seriously, but I listen to a lot of feminist "womanosphere" podcasts, and wherever Bonnie Blue is mentioned, opprobrium soon follows. I do not subscribe to feminist ideology in its current form, but still am astonished at what appears to be the hypocrisy coming from that particular stream of pop-discourse. It just doesn't make sense. I honestly can't tell you why Bonnie Blue is so hated by women, but the accusation that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 12:45 PM |
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