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| 3 | I'm a teen girl who looks very masculine and unattractive. How can I look a lot more feminine and beautiful?Look up and subscribe to the subreddits r/curlyhair , r/skincareaddiction and r/xxketo for info and help with your hair, skin and potential PCOS. The Keto diet works wonders for PCOS symptoms. Also drinking a cup or two of plain mint tea daily (preferably Spearmint but Peppermint or a blend of mints works too) to help reduce any androgenic symptoms such as excess body hair. If you don't like the tea, a mint supplement is fine. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/05/20 12:05 AM |
| 7 | My hair is falling out and my boyfriend is not supportiveHe is being a jerk in the way he is going about this, no excuse there, but if he cares for you otherwise it could be he fears losing attraction to you. Some people can be oddly sensitive over particular things like feet, teeth and hair when it comes to attraction. He certainly could have handled it with more tact and support. You may want to consider if the lack of support or tact could be a deal breaker down the road. Anyway, how about offering to make cutting your hair fun for him by wearing a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/08/17 10:44 PM |
| 1 | How to stop relying on my mother to make every life decision for me?Also read Codependent No More by Melody Beattie. It's pretty life changing in regards to issues such as yours. Can't recommend it enough. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/10/16 09:08 AM |
| 1 | Why You're Not MarriedHe had some alpha characteristics but also many beta ones too. He was very kind and supportive until we got engaged. I did screen him diligently, but he kept his dark side well hidden. Unless you cross paths with someone like this, you can't understand how well they can hide it. Plus, looking back I wouldn't consider him to be alpha. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/10/15 01:57 AM |
| 9 | Why You're Not MarriedOr sometimes life throws you curve balls you never expected. I found someone amazing in my twenties but he was killed when we were 25. That took me an extremely long time to truly get over, like years. Yet I moved on best I could and was with someone else who is darling but as we started ring shopping he had an epiphany that he never wanted children despite saying the contrary all the time leading up to it. That was a huge deal breaker for me. I knew I couldn't change him, so I had to end it. We… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/10/15 10:33 PM |
| 4 | How can I avoid hitting the wall until much later in life?Spearmint tea has been clinically proven to have fairly strong anti-androgenic affects. If your acne is a result of an androgen imbalance, mint tea will flush out excess androgen hormones from your body thus reducing acne and clarifying your skin. It is also recommended for women with PCOS to drink on the regular to ease symptoms. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/08/15 06:16 AM |
| 23 | "The Husband Store"~A Parable Of Why Female Choosiness Leads to SpinsterhoodI think not being picky enough can also cause the same outcome, i.e. not looking for a good captain. Like settling for a guy who won't ever commit and what have you. Some women can't ever be pleased and others have such low self worth that they have no standards. It's all about balance and finding someone who suits you well and is a good partner. Getting someone far above you is a recipe for constant anxiety and someone far below you a recipe for resentment. Though to be fair, the men's 3rd floo… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/08/15 07:26 PM |
| 1 | May have screwed up by not receiving gracefully, help?Thank you for the tips! | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/06/15 01:14 AM |
| 1 | May have screwed up by not receiving gracefully, help?Maybe I am the one who is sensitive. He hasn't said anything about it since but I feel as though it may have come across to him like maybe I didn't want to owe him anything instead of wanting to contribute. Or that his actions were displeasing to me somehow. But good to know guys don't really upset over things like this. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/06/15 08:17 PM |
| 1 | May have screwed up by not receiving gracefully, help?This is where I am hitting a bit of a wall. He turns down what I offer and looks & acts uncomfortable if I do anything for him. It's a little too soon for the love letter stuff. We're not there yet, been taking things a bit slow for a number of reasons. If I do do anything it is because I insisted or had to reiterate that doing it makes me happy. I feel I am treading the line of being bossy or perhaps overbearing at times as a result. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/06/15 07:22 PM |
| 2 | May have screwed up by not receiving gracefully, help?Yes, same here. My ex used spending money on me as a manipulation tactic too. I have been a bit weary of it ever since. It is taking some getting used to! | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/06/15 07:19 PM |
| 1 | May have screwed up by not receiving gracefully, help?I am always trying to help out or do little things for him, and he is usually telling me to sit down and relax or that there is no need. I do make sure he feels respected to the best of my ability. I think I may just need to make sure I tell him what he does that makes me happy on the regular and thank him too. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/06/15 01:16 AM |
| 2 | May have screwed up by not receiving gracefully, help?You're right, he won't be flattered if I pay for dinner. Just wasn't sure how to show appreciation and what not. I do offer to help with stuff all the time, but he usually declines my help. I am always pleasant around him, do my best to look nice and we laugh a lot. I encourage him all the time, do not criticize and tell him how I trust in his capabilities and judgment, especially when he chooses where to eat. In fact I may be too agreeable...he got a little miffed about my not having an opinion… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/06/15 01:11 AM |
| 2 | May have screwed up by not receiving gracefully, help?Well we both have MBAs and have been involved in startups (and I have been a wealth of information for him as I did the startup thing first). When we met, I was and still am in a period of transition. I had to put my consulting practice aside to care for an ailing elderly parent and am now looking to go back into industry. He did as well but got a very high paying job right away. Due to his industry he will always make at least twice as much as me even though we're both in the six figure range. … | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/06/15 12:49 AM |
| 6 | "...maybe couples that have modest rings and receptions feel that their boundless love is a celebration enough."I think for number 3, it may be a factor of agreement. In other words the couples in question have decided to be fully on the same page about religion. They are either both all for it or against it, or it simply doesn't matter to them, thus making religion a non-issue. However the couples who attended sometimes, that may be showing statistically that there is some discord over what role and to what degree religion plays in their lives. Discord over beliefs and/or religion can lead to a crack in … | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/10/14 11:48 PM |
| 2 | Is he a creep, or is it you who are lacking boundaries?I keep reading about the whole creep thing all over reddit, but I can't recall ever calling a guy a creep/perv or having reason to in my entire life. Nor have my close female friends. Where has this been a thing? | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/09/14 09:40 PM |
| 1 | More on What MEN Think of Short Hair on Women--DON'T DO IT!This subreddit definitely has me re-examining that very thing! The majority of this long hair backlash was back in college...I see less of it now but it still pops up quite often. A good percentage (mind you not all) of the men I cross paths with tend to go gaga over very androgynous looking women. Even better if she has a high powered or prestigious job. Most of the rest claim they don't care either way (long or short). Maybe it's just a NYC thing. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/08/14 10:11 PM |
| 3 | More on What MEN Think of Short Hair on Women--DON'T DO IT!Nope he is definitely straight. He is now living with and engaged to the gal who left him for another woman all those many years ago....though she does have a shoulder length hair do with bangs and is more feminine now, in a cute & nerdy comic book girl kind of way (I don't know why am I telling you this). | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/08/14 09:57 PM |
| 3 | More on What MEN Think of Short Hair on Women--DON'T DO IT!This is mind blowing to me. Like I had a guy I dated when I was younger tell me he was disappointed that I had very long hair. He flat out told me his dream girl was one who resembled a butch lesbian, with pixie short hair, boyish build who dressed like a little boy, such as his ex (who left him for another girl btw). He was not an exception. I still run into this attitude all the time - men who want tough boyish women. I seem not to run into any of these real men in the wild. It would be nice t… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/08/14 03:08 AM |
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