Gleefulpride Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	CMV: The culture around hookups/men having to act a certain way to get laid hurts even those of us who are naturally more successful with women I accepted and respected men for who they are. I loved them for what they meant to me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/23 12:54 AM
1	Why some guys find it so much easier than others (it's not just looks) He is follows his vortex. Abraham hicks. Google it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/23 03:49 AM
29	Commentary by divorce lawyer: reasons for divorce due to women being expected to do it all Did you miss everything else in the post? She had to work, take it herself, her husband and the baby. Instead of having a partner to help her take care of the baby.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/23 10:12 AM
1	"Self-improvement" makes you jaded even if it works for dating. You are making the assumption that the act of self improvement doesn’t feel good, regardless of relationships. It feels good to work out! It feels good to be successful person!	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/23 09:33 AM
2	Would you be okay splitting expenses roughly 50/50 with a male partner that makes significantly more than you. Absolutely, I like him enough, I am okay w this arrangement.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/23 04:23 AM
1	The value of a young "good-looking" woman is overinflated She has followers bc she is closer to 9+ for her niche market. She plays up the anime look. Small mouth. Alabaster skin. Big eyes. And a small heart shaped face. Some men have this fetish and will pay for it. She is a better marketer than anything else. Her total rating for mainstream market is 7.5 I think. You could have rated the facial features a bit too harsh. She is a 6.5 on a scale where a perfect 10 doesn’t exist and comparing her not to the average girl on the street but to a Hollywood c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/23 11:55 PM
1	The value of a young "good-looking" woman is overinflated Which girl? The hyperlink won’t work.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/23 11:30 PM
3	Women don't appreciate male breadwinners https://www.pgpf.org/blog/2023/02/income-and-wealth-in-the-united-states-an-overview-of-recent-data#:~:text=Income%20Levels%20Vary%20Across%20Geography,income%20in%202020%20of%20%2471%2C186.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/23 11:09 PM
7	Women don't appreciate male breadwinners The data I mentioned is census data for cohabitating/married people. The post you are referencing says “high income” households, putting men at 110k and women at 80k. Very little percent of us population is earning over 100k. I think it’s like 15% total (males and females) so possibly only 10% of males earn more than 100k. This is very very niche data, not reflective of overall reality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/23 09:31 PM
2	Women don't appreciate male breadwinners Again, the point is for chores to be done at the house. And for both earners to have same amount of free time. If the lower earner works just as long but must “make up” the lack of earnings through coming home and doing two more hours a day of chores, then the lower earner is actually “working” 10 hours a day while the higher earner is working 8. (Just using the numbers as an example). Then, the lower earner might as well start working part time at their job and do more chores in the house. Such…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/23 09:26 PM
3	Women don't appreciate male breadwinners According to the census average household is two people (male and female). The female earning 35k and the male earning 45k. I am not sure how you figured that the disparity is much larger (perhaps anecdotal cases). $10k difference IS higher earning. The census doesn’t support that there is a large amount of couples with significant differences in earning amounts. Does that happen? Sure it does! But not enough to be a prevalent statistic , much less a generalisation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/23 09:18 PM
15	Women don't appreciate male breadwinners Exactly. Both partners should have equal “free” time from work and chores. Most households require two incomes. Most of those households have some wage disparity. On average men still earn more than women (by about $10k). This isn’t about a “wage gap” theory. It’s that some income disparity is commonplace.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/23 08:39 PM
2	"Working on yourself" is a two-way street where men can only learn and improve if they can, well... actually get to date women first Well many people aim to go after someone somewhat above their league (within a couple of points). But it seems that females can sleep up looks wise more often than males Men seem to marry up looks wise than females. So it evens out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/23 07:46 PM
0	"Working on yourself" is a two-way street where men can only learn and improve if they can, well... actually get to date women first The solution : Date who you can get now. Most of American is overweight/ obese, in debt, anxious, stressed out over finances. That describes probably 70% of the population. If you think you are a 5, but you consider the females who will go on dates with you a 2 or 3, well that’s your current match (objectively speaking, even if you disagree). You can choose to date them WHILE you self improve. Once you self-improve, you’ll be able to notice attention from “higher rated” women. If you choose to p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/23 06:14 PM
2	Men dont actually care about a women being healthy Well, according to your world view, you can : A) hope you ll meet someone who likes you as is. B) listen to the opinions of men you like, and change you rather than trying to change their preferences.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/23 10:23 PM
1	CMV : if you offered this - Stability, kindness, consistency, no drama, aka a steady healthy calm relationship that “ends” your story, most would say no I also cook and clean. And keep my mouth shut. I go for handsome.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/23 03:12 PM
1	CMV : if you offered this - Stability, kindness, consistency, no drama, aka a steady healthy calm relationship that “ends” your story, most would say no I would blow that man every day. Multiple times a day. If I got treated this way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/23 02:45 PM
2	CMV : To be an attractive man physically is rarer than to be an attractive woman because its how rare the traits are that makes them attractive in a man Trust me I am aware. The male population has voted. I NEED to listen and get back to size 2-4.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/23 07:53 PM
1	CMV : To be an attractive man physically is rarer than to be an attractive woman because its how rare the traits are that makes them attractive in a man Not really bragging but it doesn’t help me so nothing to brag about!	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/23 07:49 PM
1	CMV : To be an attractive man physically is rarer than to be an attractive woman because its how rare the traits are that makes them attractive in a man D cup-30-45 Natural. But it hasn’t helped me too much in dating.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/23 07:47 PM
1	CMV : To be an attractive man physically is rarer than to be an attractive woman because its how rare the traits are that makes them attractive in a man I do!	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/23 07:43 PM
14	For a lot of men ages 20-30, their age isn’t perceptible at first glance. There is also a wide range of maturity levels/life experiences during this decade. So what exactly is it that women find “creepy” about a 30-ish yo man interacting with early-20s women? That’s cringe. Go ahead. If you are attractive enough you might get lucky. But most would consider you hella cringe and hella creepy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/23 05:25 PM
21	For a lot of men ages 20-30, their age isn’t perceptible at first glance. There is also a wide range of maturity levels/life experiences during this decade. So what exactly is it that women find “creepy” about a 30-ish yo man interacting with early-20s women? I agree with you! Nothing “creepy” in your scenario. The creepiness comes from older men hanging out at locations where college aged women would be , just to hit on specifically young women. Like bars near colleges.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/23 03:51 PM
1	When a girl says she loves you, what she loves is what you do for her, how you make her feel and the lifestyle she's able to participate in by being with you. You just date the wrong women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/23 03:17 PM
10	If you consider the need for a paternity test to be mandatory for raising a child, you probably shouldn’t be dating in the first place No need to ask. I think the govt should make it mandatory.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/23 11:55 PM
12	If you consider the need for a paternity test to be mandatory for raising a child, you probably shouldn’t be dating in the first place The female has a biological assertion that she is the mother. The man doesn’t have that - unless DNA test. So a man asking for a DNA test is like regaining same footing as a female.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/23 11:52 PM
13	If you consider the need for a paternity test to be mandatory for raising a child, you probably shouldn’t be dating in the first place I am a female and I disagree.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/23 11:46 PM
2	CMV: Men see younger men as other men, where women see younger women as little children. This is at the core of many disagreements on PPD. Can confirm.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/23 06:32 PM
2	CMV: Men see younger men as other men, where women see younger women as little children. This is at the core of many disagreements on PPD. I heard that women don’t learn accountability until they lose their looks. So not just according to women but also according to men the women under 25 are children bc of how society treats their youth and beauty and caters to them allowing them to escape accountability.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/23 04:46 PM
3	Men Desire Romantic Relationships More Than Women Do I disagree.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/23 08:02 PM
16	The people who say “women should settle down in their 20s and doing that in their 30s is a bad idea” are manosphere guys, bible thumpers, and successful conservatives. In general, it’s a bad idea. Also millennials have the lowest divorce rate -25% only. Why? They marry their peers and they marry older around 30. https://www.coresdivorcelawyers.com/wheaton-divorce-lawyer/gen-z-marriage-rates-look-different-than-every-other-generation	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/23 12:03 AM
6	The people who say “women should settle down in their 20s and doing that in their 30s is a bad idea” are manosphere guys, bible thumpers, and successful conservatives. In general, it’s a bad idea. Age gap marriages have a much higher likelihood of divorce if the age difference is more than 5 years. https://purposedrivenlawyers.com/age-gap-and-marriage/ https://www.yahoo.com/lifestyle/age-gap-makes-men-87-201226748.html	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/23 11:58 PM
1	What is a 30-35 year old women’s dating & relationship market value if she has a low N count and doesn’t want children? I agree. If the guy wanted many other would be an issue. Technically women are fertile through their 30s. So a 34 year old could have 6 children, one after another. But a younger woman might have one and just change her mind. You are back to square one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/23 12:02 AM
2	What is a 30-35 year old women’s dating & relationship market value if she has a low N count and doesn’t want children? Fake Id. I don’t think you hung out with very many girls in their mid 20s. So I see your misconception. There is too many hvm for the amount of young, pretty, fit females who want to be wives.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/23 09:18 PM
0	What is a 30-35 year old women’s dating & relationship market value if she has a low N count and doesn’t want children? I got it. Just lie. They won’t know the difference. Women can’t get guess height or crotch size. Men can get weight and age.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/23 09:11 PM
0	What is a 30-35 year old women’s dating & relationship market value if she has a low N count and doesn’t want children? Men can want what they want, but they don’t get it. Unless literally Leo D. In our society there isn’t many early to mid 20 year olds marrying in general. Especially to older men. Why? There isn’t enough thin, good looking, women in their 20s who want to commit. 15% of us population makes 100k or more. Well, a fit pretty young girl is 3%. And she wants to party. Why? Bc she can and she has the time to do it. And got it. I ll just lie about my age and get a fake Id lol. I get that it’s vanity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/23 09:09 PM
2	What is a 30-35 year old women’s dating & relationship market value if she has a low N count and doesn’t want children? There is a delusion calculator for females as well. Unmarried, fit, no kids women, making $0 or more between the age of 18-28 at just 6%. Well, college girls want to be with pretty guys or they want to use men. The average age of marriage and child rearing is between 28-30, depending on the state. The average age difference between spouses is 2 years. The more affluent households also have very similar age ranges. The time when there is a bigger age gap between a couple (8-10 years) is when a ma…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/23 09:04 PM
1	What is a 30-35 year old women’s dating & relationship market value if she has a low N count and doesn’t want children? A girl is her early 20s, will want to do what girls in their early 20s want to do - be college girls, not caring wives. Females in their mid to lates are after such a unicorn with a laundry list, they look at a man and ask him what he has to offer and then assess if he is good enough. I think men over estimate how many females fit their ideal criteria - when 70% if females in USA are overweight to obese, that gives a very slim picking. Now a low body count AND fit creates an even smaller amount.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/23 09:00 PM
0	What is a 30-35 year old women’s dating & relationship market value if she has a low N count and doesn’t want children? Also cooks, cleans. And knows when to keep her mouth shut.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/23 08:09 PM
-1	What is a 30-35 year old women’s dating & relationship market value if she has a low N count and doesn’t want children? What if she does want kids. Healthy enough to produce them. Looks late 20s but actually in early 30s. 8+ on looks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/23 08:08 PM
-2	Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable? I don’t think you would get into a relationship with anyone. You look at woman as cattle. To be honest men go for the top 5% of women. What would make a woman choose you? Other than your cheery and oh so obvious happy nature?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/23 11:48 AM
1	How did the famous Meghan Trainor end up in a happy marriage? The red pill said she would be alone now. Also TRP is a cope. There are more men than women (ages 18-45). Women have an easier time finding men. Men are pissed. The end.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/23 07:56 AM
1	How I imagine life as an attractive woman is like For reference- please post your normal day. I thought everyone lived like what you said above. I need to check my privilege. PS. I do work for my own living. And the ex seems to have too much rent free room in the mind. This “hot” girl doesn’t really have a healthy mindset.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/23 04:04 PM
3	How I imagine life as an attractive woman is like Actually pretty spot on. Not that mean though! And gym. Add gym. And a nightly skin care routine. Seriously. Spot. On. And the ex thing is only for feeling lonely. Not necessarily wanting to reignite.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/23 04:01 PM
1	Many Women Are Still Peak Beauty at 30-35 If Gal Gadot is a common beauty, who do you consider truly beautiful?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/23 02:11 PM
1	Many Women Are Still Peak Beauty at 30-35 Fair enough. I think at 18 or so (when she did a pageant) she had a very common, every college girl look. When Wonder Woman debuted to me she is striking. The box office also shows that. But tastes are tastes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/23 01:56 PM
1	Why is attraction important when selecting a life partner you will spend 50+ years with? Oh yeah? Then why are you resisting so badly to even look into a perspective new to you. You seem to dismiss it. Also you never answered, if looks aren’t important to females then why do dating apps are literally designed to have a picture as the first element of a profile. And allegedly females are pickier than males. It’s highly unlikely that the males who don’t get picked aren’t great guys. There are many great men but they don’t even participate in the running bc some women are looking for v…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/23 01:50 PM
2	Why is attraction important when selecting a life partner you will spend 50+ years with? Bc other views are new perspectives. Other views are a part of research. But maybe you just read research that fits your narrative. 🤷‍♀️	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/23 09:24 PM
-1	Why is attraction important when selecting a life partner you will spend 50+ years with? He goes into a video explaining the studies. But in any case - do an experiment. Have a blank profile photo with a killer bio as a male, see how many women reach out. Then, put a photo of a handsome male and a pretty blank profile. See how many women reach out. Both sexes care about looks. Stop the cap. And if a woman is willing to forego attraction for status, she is your rental. Someone richer will come along and she will leave.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/23 08:55 PM
-1	Why is attraction important when selecting a life partner you will spend 50+ years with? Women care more about looks than men : https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=SZavkRHgQKY	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/23 07:42 PM
1	Many Women Are Still Peak Beauty at 30-35 Gal Gadot got cast for Wonder Woman at 30. No one can say she isn’t beautiful enough for the role. In fact, she was more beautiful at 30 then at 18. Google pics.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/23 07:39 PM
3	Do women understand men? I mean how old are you? Instagram and blue check mark? What? If anything that shows immaturity and hype. LinkedIn is the app to convey work history (and presumed status). Financiers, engineers, doctors all have LinkedIn, not Instagram - and the ones who have Instagram keep it on private with about a couple hundred followers. The appearance of luxurious style is all that is - an appearance. Wealthy people usually keep their private lives private - source financial adviser from largest banks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/23 10:54 PM
8	Do women understand men? Please link banking ( verified*) statements of Instagram users. Celebrities don’t count. Celebrities aren’t dating everyday people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/23 10:12 PM
12	Do women understand men? Isn’t tinder an app based on swiping on a picture ? At least, that’s the set up we see as a females. Are guys thinking that females swipe by looking at a man’s financial statement?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/23 07:52 PM