GlimmeryAminomethane Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
12	The Monogamy Talk	ADVICE	GlimmeryAminomethane	/r/RedPillWomen	27/01/18 03:07 AM

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3	The Monogamy Talk I replied with our ages in another comment. We are older - I’m 30 and hes about a ten years ahead of me.	/r/RedPillWomen	28/01/18 12:49 PM
1	The Monogamy Talk We are older. I’m 30, and he’s about ten years older than me. I was super-focused on my career when I was younger and was also rather plain/frumpy, thinking that being a “girly girl” would just attract a man who was shallow. I’ve really changed my tune the last couple of years. I’ve improved my body composition, I dress nicely and wear makeup now. It’s not uncommon for women in my field to marry and have babies around age 35. After a decade of telling myself men were the problem I realized I was…	/r/RedPillWomen	28/01/18 12:43 PM
1	The Monogamy Talk That seems to be the consensus! :) Any thoughts on specific words or phrases to use? As I mentioned in some of the other comments, I'm feeling anxious and I also tend to be pretty direct, and those two things together might lead me to communicate this topic in a less-than-idea fashion. I think it would help me to have a few talking points in my head, if you have any thoughts...	/r/RedPillWomen	27/01/18 09:02 PM
1	The Monogamy Talk The question is, during this time in which you've been dating and he's been courting you, have you got to really know him? I mean - I think so. But like you said, how can you really be certain? I tend to be a pretty anxious person in situations with uncertainty, and the early-stages of relationships are definitely difficult for me. But the anxiety is somewhat rational - like you said, this is the hardest part. Based on what I've seen so far, we are after the same things. But I don't know, and I'…	/r/RedPillWomen	27/01/18 09:00 PM
1	The Monogamy Talk Be sure you 1000% willing to next him if he doesn't accept monogamy or becoming exclusive before sex. This is where I'm afraid I'm going to lose my self-control. It's only been a few weeks, but I already have strong feelings - I want to have sex. But, I definitely want marriage more than a series of short-term relationships, indefinitely. I like the way you phrased this: I am looking for a serious relationship that will last Is that exactly how you said it? I know what I want to communicate, but…	/r/RedPillWomen	27/01/18 08:55 PM
3	The Monogamy Talk That's a great story. Glad to hear that you have such a solid foundation for your relationship. Thanks for sharing!	/r/RedPillWomen	27/01/18 08:52 PM
1	The Monogamy Talk I will definitely bring it up! Any suggestions for how to phrase it? I tend to be very direct, and sometimes I struggle to find a diplomatic or softer way to communicate, especially on sensitive subjects. Not sure if it matters here.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/01/18 08:51 PM