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| 1 | Seducing a girl you have already established as a friend?Yeah other posters are right. You're going to have to grow some balls here and just be direct. Don't text her, or even call. Just next time you see her describe the whole situation. If she is a good friend and you see yourself being friends with her even if she was a man, then your best bet is to be direct. "Hey always thought you were kinda cute, and I want to ask you out for drinks, on a date. We're good friends, so if you do not want to go I am totally cool with it. We'll be friends eitherway… | /r/seduction | 23/10/17 06:53 PM |
| 1 | “You’re future girlfriend is gonna love you.” Am I basically screwed?I dunno, could have been sarcastic. "WOW your just so caring and amazing". Maybe you were trying to hard to be impressive and nice that she kinda making fun of you. Shit test or Friendzone. Need more context to tell. Either way, if you want to bang/date her you gonna have to barrel past this. Get more physical with her. It will become obvious very quickly what she feels. If She recoils or ignores it theres your answer. Girls loved to be touched by those who they are sexually attracted too. Just … | /r/seduction | 23/10/17 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Fat guy in collegeI can attest to this as well. I am currently 100Kg on the dot. I was over 136Kg Last year. When I was that weight every chick just ignored me. Most would not take the time of day. At this weight I am doing better (spend more one on one time with chicks) and got laid once. However, I still am struggling and constantly losing to better looking more boring dudes. I will entertain them and at the end of the night they usually go home with the more boring better looking dude(Usually just sat there wi… | /r/seduction | 21/01/15 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Got to the point where girls are checking me out, now i'm older and have a kidMan I wish I could hear your whole story. I have a theory that is not accepted well on here, but it seems that losing the weight grealy affected how women reacted to your normally. Can you honestly say it was all confiedence like everyone mentions? Women like confidence but they LOVE in shape men with confidence more then anything, and a lot of poeple on here don't believe that. Wieght matters, looks matter. Around which wieght did you start getting a lot of attention by the way? | /r/seduction | 08/12/14 10:44 PM |
| 1 | From Zero to HeroStarted out great too, best part was the "Looks do matter" and the comments on weight. It has been my own suspicion that things do become greatly easier with weight loss. at 300 pounds everyone ignored me. Now at 220, I still get rejected often but I have female friends that tell me they love hanging around me, but as soon as I try to make a move they get silent fast. I was betting this was because of my weight since they invite me to stuff all the time, but most want to keep things purely plato… | /r/seduction | 04/12/14 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Dating multiple girls...Where to go from here?Still you definatly have an envious problem. I have been at this for 5 months now and made a lot of female friends but havn't had any interested in taking me back to their place at all. They just want to keep it public and casual. | /r/seduction | 03/12/14 08:57 PM |
| 4 | Dancing - a criminally underrated skill for your gameDancing has been the only way I have been able to meet girls in the last couple of months. There has been on campus college dance classes, and while the girl to guy ratio isnt too once sided as others has stated (guys are figuring this out in my town I guess), when you start getting even a bit decent it really is a lot fun and really boosts confidence. In fact I met up with TWO girls just yesterday evening, got a stero, found a open spot at the gym and we practiced for hours. I even tried doing … | /r/seduction | 03/12/14 03:59 PM |
| 3 | No One Wants To Shoot The Puppy - Be A Man!I have a big issue with that myself, worried about what the poeple around us talking will think or say about me hitting on her, and taking up too much of her time. I have cut off conversations while they were going well in the past, because I thought I took up too much of her time. This happen just last night. I stopped this blonde at the library starting talking to her, she was giving off really good vibes. Then I relized she needed to take her books back and felt bad for keeping her from it. I… | /r/seduction | 30/09/14 08:59 PM |
| 2 | You Need to Stop Selling Yourself to WomenMy favorite part was number 3 (This point is what I have slowly been thinking over the last month). Isn't it better to friend hot chicks before you try getting heavily PUA? You need social proof, you need poeple to go to bars with, you need a social circle. Most guys try to bull rush every girl they see and thats what is being taught (espcially if you are going by Mystery Method). Even Mystery himself seem to be sad and friendless half the time. There was no solid social circle sept other PUAs. … | /r/seduction | 19/09/14 05:40 PM |
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