| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 18 | Came here from the jubilee episodeuhhh... look, i agree that theres been some unfortunate and inconsistent messaging from people who claim to represent all of the women everywhere... but, blaming red pill on feminism without addressing both what feminism has been in reaction to, and what feminism has accomplished, is more than a little disingenuous. even still, i dont buy your argument, even removing the moral positioning you took, if we're just talking cause/effect i dont buy that "feminism" is to blame. if you want to roll all… | /r/ExRedPill | 20/07/26 05:45 AM |
| – | Question for men: if you were a woman, would you genuinely be attracted to a man who gets zero attention from women?so none? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 10:21 AM |
| – | Question for men: if you were a woman, would you genuinely be attracted to a man who gets zero attention from women?how many of your rights change when you cross state lines simply because youre a man? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 10:06 AM |
| – | Question for men: if you were a woman, would you genuinely be attracted to a man who gets zero attention from women?you can say whatever you want. i never claimed otherwise. you actually argue with points im not making... this happens every time i reply to these, if i were smarter id mute this group. if you were a woman, you almost certainly wouldn't behave exactly the same. because your brain and biology would be wildly different, and the "you" that makes decisions, its all electrochemical signaling in your brain, there's not a solid "you" in there. your brain is literally changing as you react to this, in r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 10:03 AM |
| – | Question for men: if you were a woman, would you genuinely be attracted to a man who gets zero attention from women?in Alabama, Arizona, Arkansas, Kentucky, Louisiana, Missouri, Oklahoma, South Dakota, Tennessee, and Texas, if a woman is raped, becomes pregnant, the state says she cannot get an abortion. in those states, if a dad rapes his underage daughter, and she becomes pregnant, she cannot get an abortion. those states have total abortion bans with no exceptions for rape or incest. so, do not want to be pregnant, yet cannot end the pregnancy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 09:54 AM |
| – | Question for men: if you were a woman, would you genuinely be attracted to a man who gets zero attention from women?"dont have to become pregnant if you dont want to" well, that depends on where you live. "not afraid of men," when someone says she was afraid of whatever situation shes in, very very very few of those fear all men all the time. but the reality is, if you're a woman, especially younger, going out... you're going to run into some really bad guys. and most women get scared in certain circumstances with guys like that. i like being a woman. i dont think its necessarily better or worse than being a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 09:28 AM |
| 2 | Question for men: if you were a woman, would you genuinely be attracted to a man who gets zero attention from women?thats a wild take...👀 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 08:37 AM |
| 3 | women do not hate objectification, they hate low value objectificationsome women hate all objectification some women hate most objectification some women love lots of objectification | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/26 10:59 PM |
| – | It’s not possible to use a woman for sexdo you think it's also outdated to say "she was just using him for his money?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/26 08:14 PM |
| 0 | Women Aren't a Monolith is Just "Not All Men" for Women.i'm not going to engage in bad faith arguments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 12:59 AM |
| -1 | Women Aren't a Monolith is Just "Not All Men" for Women.nope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/26 11:53 PM |
| 0 | Women Aren't a Monolith is Just "Not All Men" for Women."Your framing point still dodges the actual issue raised in the post." i see it less as dodging and more diet-invalidating? this argument of pointing out double standards isn't raising an issue with the act itself, it even uses this line "So why does one phrase get to be a valid argument and the other doesn't?" which isnt saying they're both wrong, its saying its unfair to call me out for it. its arguing about arguing. so i said what i said, as in, stop leaving the door open for broad generalize… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/26 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Women Aren't a Monolith is Just "Not All Men" for Women.well, im saying everyone should do that, but that includes you, and women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/26 08:42 PM |
| -1 | Women Aren't a Monolith is Just "Not All Men" for Women."So by THAT exact logic when a significant portion of women consistently do or say something toxic, "we aren't a monolith" doesn't make the pattern disappear. It just makes it undiscussable." have you considered that the issue is the framing? like, instead of saying "women are..." just fucking change the framing, dude! just say 'i've encountered behavior in some women that i find problematic' the issue that gets the pushback, first and foremost, is the 'broad brush' used... thats what triggers t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/26 08:32 PM |
| – | Does the female PPD community actually represent mainstream women?“'Women don’t go to sex parties and similar events.' However, about 8% report lifetime participation in group sex, sex parties, sexuality classes/workshops, or BDSM parties." are you implying that 8% of women claiming to have had participation at one point or another, in a 3 some, or a sexuality workshop, invalidates the claim that women by-and-large don't really participate in group sex? i'm not sure that 8% stat is making the compelling argument you think it is... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/26 12:45 AM |
| 6 | Most of the female talking points on this sub are wrong for Genz.do you know any women you arent related to? i feel like you're misinterpreting a cosmo quiz or something... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/26 09:38 AM |
| 7 | Why do women care about men slut-shaming them?why are you even here? seriously? if your personal ideological framework is nobody's opinion on anything matters, why are you sharing yours? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 10:07 PM |
| 7 | Why do women care about men slut-shaming them?"making no sense," really? i understood what they were saying just fine, it makes sense... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 10:02 PM |
| – | Women secretly love the Patriarchy because it benefits them in too many ways that they aren't gonna admit.youre making all sorts of assumptions here, but more importantly, what do you think the patriarchy means? i'm asking, because i think you're looking at this the wrong way. this isn't a team sport, it's not men vs women, the patriarchy isn't about men having power, or being leaders etc. you are almost certainly oppressed by the patriarchy, as am i, just not in all the same ways. really, there's only a few ways to escape the patriarchy (without systemic change), death, seclusion from or exclusion … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/26 10:15 AM |
| 4 | Women want a wedding, not marriage."A woman" singular "literally men every weekend" men, plural you have really weird ideas about really weird nonsense, like i said... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/26 01:45 AM |
| 6 | Women want a wedding, not marriage.see? just proving my point.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/26 01:41 AM |
| 0 | Red Pill men should support feminismyou do understand that there's a whole bunch of people on reddit, who wear "incel" like a badge, right? they're proudly labeling themselves 'incel,' and pushing the narrative of what it all means. if you arent an incel, but are repeatedly being called 'incel' by strangers online, its almost certainly because the things you're saying and/or the way you go about saying them, maps on to the people who are self-identifying as incels, and the things incels say, and how the incels say them... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/26 01:39 AM |
| 3 | Women want a wedding, not marriage.im just pointing out how dumb that comparison was... that's all... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/26 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Red Pill men should support feminismi think its disingenuous to compare "incel" to "feminist/feminism" as though co-opting each is the same. first of all, "feminism" meaning man-hating isnt a change that occurred within feminism. yes, there are branches of feminism and people within feminism, that have been/are hostile to males. that is not how most feminists approach or understand feminism, however. with "incel," though, regardless of what it started as, it has morphed into misogyny. it's gone from describing a circumstance, to a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/26 10:36 PM |
| 2 | Women want a wedding, not marriage."Obviously marriage isn't literally life or death," kinda takes the wind out of the sails for that analogy then, don't you think? The Bride has a 57% rotten tomatoes score! Would you get on a plane if there was a 43% chance of DYING? I mean I know seeing a movie and not liking it isn't literally life or death... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/26 09:53 PM |
| 7 | Women want a wedding, not marriage."from what divorce rates tell us" really... 🤔 and what, pray tell, do you believe "divorce rates tell us?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/26 09:50 PM |
| 2 | Women want a wedding, not marriage.weddings cost money, right? sometimes it's paid for by the parents of both people gettjng married, sometimes one, sometimes its the couple themselves, im sure people have also done fundraisers etc. or the community chips in... either way it's still spending money on a party. there are almost always some expenses to the married couple. its not that hard... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/26 09:46 PM |
| 8 | Women want a wedding, not marriage.you have really weird ideas about really weird nonsense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/26 09:39 PM |
| 9 | Women want a wedding, not marriage.i love how you went from a woman only goes through childbirth twice, a woman, singular... and you compare a woman going through childbirth twice in her life to all the men everywhere getting in fights. i bet you're one of those guys who talks about being "logical" 🫤🙄 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/26 09:37 PM |
| 2 | Women want a wedding, not marriage.so is nicholas freaking cage being a cat a sexy cat... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/26 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Women want a wedding, not marriage.https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZP8bNfQCR/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/26 09:31 PM |
| 20 | Women have more bodily autonomy than men.there are no draft aged males in the us who have been drafted into the us military.... glad to have cleared this up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 07:34 AM |
| – | Ladies, If you’re not attracted to 90-95% of men, that’s not a male problem.. thats a YOU problemare you talking about guys you see in a club? i work in a club, in nyc, and yeah most of the guys who get in, made way more effort on their appearance, but there's often like more guys who were turned away at the door and never make it inside. there are nights when like 80% of the men on line get denied... if you're looking at the guys who are in a club, thats not representative of guys overall... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 11:23 AM |
| 4 | Vague language is necessary for women’s world view"Women have a tendency to obfuscate the factual information as much as possible so no one understands what is being talked about." ive never said this before, but i think you are someone who SHOULD have chatgpt write for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/26 10:30 PM |
| 2 | Do you think you are good at recognizing other women's enjoyment in erotic content?i think i can tell sometimes. i dont really watch porn much though, but i mean i like erotic pictures...🤷🏼♀️ but ive seen amateur stuff, and of type stuff where i thought she was actually enjoying herself. i wouldnt be shocked to see a porn star seem to enjoy herself, but i think that would be less common... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/26 11:40 AM |
| 11 | It's true that straight women arouse by female masturbation?If you watch "straight porn" you're literally being turned on by a man and a woman, so you must be bi, right? every man who watches men and women have sex is bi? i mean it's a REALLY silly stance, not rooted in any established research in sexuality... but you do you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/26 09:35 AM |
| 7 | Do you think a woman can be with a man who earns less, or does his hypergamy prevent it?I don't think a man earning less is an issue. The issues would arise from like... effort. nobody wants to feel taken for granted, you know? | /r/ExRedPill | 03/02/26 11:46 AM |
| 1 | Misandry is bad because sexism is bad. That's it. "But it only hurts feelings"... okay, so?I think calling "conscription" misandry is a bit misleading. Conscription, in nations where it's compulsory for males only, was put in place to exclude women, not because of hatred towards men. It's from the belief women CAN'T do those things.... | /r/MensRights | 28/01/26 01:57 AM |
| 1 | Sick of people with views that men shouldn't have a choice in paternityYou're not very good at this. | /r/MensRights | 25/01/26 09:42 AM |
| 1 | USA: Texas doctor who performs transgender surgeries on children falsely accused her co-worker of rape after he exposed disturbing procedures at hospital."...after he exposed disturbing procedures at hospital, lawsuit alleges" ALLEGES... It's a lawsuit, and it hasn't been decided yet, so everyone in here saying she should go to hell, you're all being super reactionary, and i'm guessing barely (if at all) reading the article? anything to justify that hate, I guess...🤷🏼♀️ | /r/MensRights | 25/01/26 09:41 AM |
| 1 | Sick of people with views that men shouldn't have a choice in paternityFor someone arguing not to be held at all financially responsible for their own offspring, you're taking quite a bit of umbrage at the appropriate terminology... | /r/MensRights | 25/01/26 08:53 AM |
| 1 | Sick of people with views that men shouldn't have a choice in paternityThis tracks, OP is giving major deadbeat dad energy. 👍🤡 | /r/MensRights | 25/01/26 08:32 AM |
| 3 | The "patriarchy" is a boogeyman used to justify hatred and abuse towards men.Either OP doesn't understand 'patriarchy,' is purposely making a bad faith propagandist argument... (or some combination of the two). OP moves between different definitions of 'patriarchy' without acknowledging this. OP begins with Oxford’s definition: “a society, system or country that is ruled or controlled by men” and then immediately claims feminists say “all men being their tyrant overlords.” Academic feminist theory doesn’t claim 'all men are tyrant overlords,' it describes systemic patter… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/26 01:15 AM |
| 0 | Why does society accept negative behavior from women but not menSo, what you're saying is, it's all vibes, no facts? got it. "You then said 'You think society does not accept bad behavior from men' which wasn't said." Really? It wasn't said? Whats the title of OP's post again? Oh, yeah, "Why does society accept negative behavior from women but not men" So it's actually what OP said, and you're full of 💩 | /r/MensRights | 23/01/26 08:27 AM |
| 1 | Men currently have no reproductive rights once a pregnancy happens — and that’s a problemcelibacy is always an option! | /r/MensRights | 23/01/26 08:22 AM |
| -2 | Why does society accept negative behavior from women but not menOk. Let's do this, point by point. First what u/peter_venture wrote: "OP is speaking in generalities, the same way we're all used to in the general media. Stop the attempts at gaslighting." Riight... This is why I wrote that second sentence that confused you. See, you made an effort to carve out exceptions for generalizing men, with your "men aren't a monolith" comment; you didn't say people, you said men, excluding women, so I asked if you believe women are a monolith, and it sure seems like yo… | /r/MensRights | 22/01/26 02:31 AM |
| 2 | Misogynists Falsely Point Out that Women are InferiorI think they're being sarcastic | /r/MensRights | 21/01/26 09:25 AM |
| 2 | Why does society accept negative behavior from women but not menSo, OP's statement should have been "Why does society accept negative behavior from some people and not other people?" Unless your next implication is that while men are not a monolith, you believe women are? | /r/MensRights | 21/01/26 01:00 AM |
| 1 | Why does society accept negative behavior from women but not menYou think society does not accept bad behavior from men, is Trump not a man then? | /r/MensRights | 21/01/26 12:22 AM |
| 0 | Why does society accept negative behavior from women but not menok but half the voters voted for him. How can you rectify OP's claims that "society" accepts negative behavior from women, but not men, when half of voting society says let's elect the man who's confirmed/known negative behavior in context of the norms at their time, eclipses every other president in history, if society DIDNT accept negative behavior from men, he would never have been reelected... | /r/MensRights | 20/01/26 10:41 PM |
| -10 | Why does society accept negative behavior from women but not menIf that's true, how did the US elect a misogynist, who's been accused of sexual assault by dozens of women, who's been implicated in sex crimes against underaged girls, who bought a beauty pageant to be able to walk in their dressing room, if society doesn't accept bad behavior from men, how did Trump get elected to the White house in 2016 AND 2024? | /r/MensRights | 20/01/26 07:46 AM |
| – | Women gaslight men into using sex toys, while shaming male porn usageYou're conflating two seperate things here. Yes, a lot of women have sex toys. Yes, a lot of women have issues with their SO watching porn, or watching a LOT of porn. How are these different? Well, a sex toy doesn't usually come pre-loaded with heaps of misogyny, whereas porn often does. I'm not judging here, I like porn, but I think we can all agree that a lot of heteronormative straight porn is particularly demeaning/degrading/humiliating specifically towards women. You can make your own value… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/26 10:39 PM |
| -1 | The idea that Men have all the power in society just because most politicians in the world are male is so stupid and disingenuous.Oh... I think you might have a very, very vague and basic idea of patriarchy... | /r/MensRights | 12/01/26 10:38 AM |
| 1 | Can't get the milk unless we buy the cowRight... so tell me more about how you went from "there's this proverb that compares women to cows" and "legally own"...? | /r/MensRights | 05/01/26 10:30 AM |
| 1 | Can't get the milk unless we buy the cowYou just keep digging that hole deeper... | /r/MensRights | 05/01/26 10:28 AM |
| 0 | Can't get the milk unless we buy the cowlegally own a cow... 🤦🏼♀️ | /r/MensRights | 04/01/26 10:41 AM |
| 1 | Feminists are calling children “incels”You think comparing "autism" and "incel" as though they have even remotely similar meanings is just bonkers to me. | /r/MensRights | 04/01/26 10:39 AM |
| 1 | Feminists are calling children “incels”No, not being an incel mean not being an incel. I get that incel has a meaning within its culture, but that word has taken on it's own meaning OUTSIDE of "incel culture." To people who have nothing at all to do with incel culture (like me), that word just evokes a caricature of certain misogynistic views and a penchant for bad faith arguments. the celibate part is assumed. | /r/MensRights | 03/01/26 10:52 AM |
| 1 | Feminists are calling children “incels”So you're saying that teachers saying "we need to do more to prevent boys from becoming 'incels,'" (thats quoted from OP), isn't grooming, since it IS NOT "[trying] to make someone become something that [teachers] prefer," right? | /r/MensRights | 03/01/26 01:16 AM |
| 0 | How do I explain to my father why I can't date and get a girlfriend?Have you considered that maybe your dad is telling you the truth? Because... what your dad said? it's the truth... | /r/MensRights | 31/12/25 08:52 AM |
| -10 | The Demonization of Porn is misandryHave you seen the movie F1? Saying "lesbian porn" is made for and by women, is about as correct as saying F1 is a movie made for and by F1 drivers. Yes, there are real drivers in it, yes Formula 1 was involved in it's production. But that movie is made to appeal to me, someone who knows nothing about Formula 1. Lesbian porn is rarely made for women, it's usually made for men. That's why there's such an emphasis on appealing to the male gaze. | /r/MensRights | 29/12/25 10:29 PM |
| -14 | Feminists are calling children “incels”Ok, sure, except, that's not "grooming," you could call it inappropriate, but calling someone 'incel' is not a step a person takes to "groom" a child which implies building a relationship that they could then exploit into a sexual relationship with them... Also, "on the internet" is super vague, are you assuming 'feminists' who call minors 'incel' are aware they are talking to a minor? Should every male who calls any underaged girl "slut," anywhere online, be charged as a groomer for making a re… | /r/MensRights | 21/12/25 12:35 PM |
| -13 | Feminists are calling children “incels”How exactly does anyone calling anyone 'incel' = grooming? | /r/MensRights | 21/12/25 10:28 AM |
| -1 | Men who correct women over any disagreement could face disciplinary action under new Green party rulesThat becomes pretty clear with a close read of that article. It looks they are taking some seriously vague language and taking it to the most extreme interpretation of it. | /r/MensRights | 14/12/25 09:04 AM |
| -7 | You've heard of the "pink tax". I now present to you the "blue hole" - where certain product categories for men have fewer options, less features and are generally neglectedWomen buy more clothes and we spend more on average on clothing purchases. So clothing stores tend to cater to us, since that's where the market is. If you really believe that there is a large, underserved population, who WANTS to buy men's clothing in that area, you should research it, make a business plan, and open a store. This is a link to some stats on clothes shopping by gender. And here is another bunch of stats. | /r/MensRights | 14/12/25 02:33 AM |
| -5 | Don't want to get married? That's offensive!sorry to hear that... 😬🙄 | /r/MensRights | 10/12/25 10:09 AM |
| – | The stats on growing ideological divide between men and women shows men's ideals have relatively remained the same yet women are increasingly becoming radical, yet all the discussion is about "young men being radicalized"... exposes a clear agenda pushed by society'Yeah? Well, you know, that's just like, uh, your opinion, man...' - El Duderino 'liberal' ≠ 'radicalised' women in relationships complaining about "unpaid labour" at home. . . . i.e. women CHOSE to also pursue careers, now they also have to juggle their traditional gender roles (being a wife and mother). They're mad at men for not accommodating them for a choice they themselves made I mean... sure, that's one way to look at things. It's a weird way, but it is a way. So it seems that you think t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 11:13 PM |
| – | Andrew Wilson's Force Doctrine: Men have a monopoly on force. Thus, the patriarchy will always exist, because women must ALWAYS appeal to men for their rights.Well, ok. So first I'll say, AW's Force Doctrine, besides being a SERIOUSLY flawed position, does touch on some truths. BUT, I'd argue that the truths it touches on, aren't as universal, or as cut-and-dry as he implies. The position it takes, that women's very social & political existences, are fundamentally based on men's magnanimity and collective restraint, completely ignores changes in society, economics, science, technology, etc., power isnt just how hard you can punch; plus it runs directl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/25 09:31 AM |
| 3 | Andrew Wilson's Force Doctrine: Men have a monopoly on force. Thus, the patriarchy will always exist, because women must ALWAYS appeal to men for their rights.First there was Schrödinger's Cat, then there was Schrödinger's Biden, and now we have Schrödinger's Red Pill? Where women are simultaneously evil, manipulative puppet masters, with Bond villain skills at being hypergamous ice queens who view men simply as ATM's to drain of all their hard earned funds as we hunt for someone wealthier, taller, with better abs and bigger arms, and a bigger you-know-what... BUT, at the same time, we are also completely at the mercy of men, existing ONLY because men… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 08:57 AM |
| 2 | Slut shamers - would you be happier under strict Sharia Law where casual sex and imodesty are illegal?please, say more… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/25 11:06 AM |
| 0 | The r/pornismisogyny subredditI can't make you understand things, dude. If you can't see why someone making a statement about objective reality, someone else correcting that statement, and then you bursting in with a non sequitur about "but they could" when that literally wasn't what we were saying... It's like if someone said 'The USA has had a female president,' and I said 'actually, the US had a female presidential candidate, and vice president,' and then you jumped in with 'there is absolutely nothing stopping women from… | /r/MensRights | 13/10/25 08:29 PM |
| 0 | The r/pornismisogyny subreddit"So it's irrelevant." Is it? Are you sure? Or is it, maybe, a case of you not actually following a thread...? "u/tiltedtwink I mean women make the majority of the money from porn that’s literally just a fact." That's what I was replying to, when I said what I said. I was talking about something specific. Then you bust into the room like the Kool Aid Man, because, I guess, reading is hard and stuff? | /r/MensRights | 12/10/25 08:26 PM |
| 0 | The r/pornismisogyny subredditCool beans. Did someone say there were stopping women from doing that, or are you just stating things?? | /r/MensRights | 11/10/25 08:02 AM |
| 14 | The r/pornismisogyny subredditWomen get the biggest slice of the porn performer pie. The majority of money, however, is going to people you never see on screen, who own the companies that platform and produce content, and those are mostly men. | /r/MensRights | 10/10/25 11:15 PM |
| 0 | Men are dumb and vote against their economic interest for some perceived macho reasonThe worst part about that, I think, is that if/when they go bankrupt, the asset management firms, and private equity firms, will buy them up. They are trying to get all the farmland they can. So, don’t be totally surprised if the administration “promises” more than it delivers when it comes to helping struggling farmers. I TOTALLY agree that they need to learn a lesson. But I would rather all the food production isn’t controlled by 3 companies at every link in the chain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/25 10:37 AM |
| -2 | "Women make it obvious if they're into you" they don't lolYour methodology is garbage, but at least it’s not as bad as your logic. But ok let’s look at this statement, most relationships are not love/lust at first sight. Trust me bro. So let’s assume it’s true (I don’t know that it is, or isn’t, also, it’s an opinion presented as a fact, so for sake of this, let’s pretend that came with supporting evidence), that alone doesn’t tell you what you then surmise, that, whatever it is you’re trying to say about how women see men. The thing is, women aren’t a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/25 10:09 AM |
| 1 | Reddit women are a minority the basic "normie" girl is pretty darn patriarchalJust throwing this out there. Women, much like men, behave differently in person, than online. It can be little differences, or big differences, and those differences are often amplified, when we are with people who aren’t part of the same “group” whatever that is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 09:47 AM |
| 1 | Are young men failing at dating because they aren't dedicating enough time and effort to it?Ambition, drive, whatever you want to call it, but that self motivation to get up, and do the things you don’t want to do, because you want the RESULT of those things. It’s being able to delay gratification in order to accomplish something. 🤷🏼♀️ not a real definition, but it’s what it means to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/25 09:46 AM |
| 1 | Are young men failing at dating because they aren't dedicating enough time and effort to it?I agree, that financially a lot of younger people are not where our parents were at the same age. It probably has trickle down effects, like on self-esteem, if a guy feels like he isn’t financially successful, independent, or at least working towards a plan. Honestly I think another huge issue, is between COVID, social media, and dating apps, I feel like a LOT of men never developed that ability to handle rejection well. Yes, I get that it isn’t fair that the onus is on men almost exclusively, t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/25 09:44 AM |
| 1 | Are young men failing at dating because they aren't dedicating enough time and effort to it?To be fair, both men and women have preferences and standards. I can’t speak for all women, but I’m social, I have friends, we talk, and the screening for money thing, it’s in my experience, and my friends, less about wanting a guy to foot the bill all the time, and more about wanting to be with someone who doesn’t need me to support him. I don’t mean helping in an emergency. I mean, there are a LOT of men who are smart, attractive, they seem like the full package, and they have no ambition, and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/25 01:29 AM |
| 1 | We should start sexualizing menWhat about this OTHER term that we weren’t talking about?…🤔 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/25 12:15 AM |
| 1 | We should start sexualizing menPlus, you would need real, standardized or agreed upon criteria for being a “gold digger.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/25 06:38 AM |
| 1 | We should start sexualizing menWell, I mean if THAT was your point, why didn’t you say that? I don’t know where you get less than 1% from? It’s not a term that really translates well to statistics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/25 09:14 AM |
| – | What women like can be summarized by three words: tall, dark and handsomeWomen aren’t monolithic in desires, attraction, or most things. Neither are men. There’s women who like tall, attractive, brown haired hotties, and there’s women who don’t care if he has hair at all, and some who don’t like men with overly sculpted muscles, and some women don’t like muscular men at all, some like men who are giants, other women like people regardless of their shapes and sizes. When you generalize like that, you can hurt everyone, but you’ll hurt yourself most of all. Because you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/25 08:56 AM |
| 1 | We should start sexualizing menWomen are more likely to be gold diggers and men are more likely to sexually objectify and prioritize sex appeal over other traits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/25 04:55 AM |
| 10 | We should start sexualizing menI don’t think it’s because “there aren’t that many men attractive enough,” it most likely has way more to do with nuances in power, socialization, customs (especially regarding gender expression), and the differences in what sex even means for men and women, how we’re choose mates etc. Men are seemingly much more visually stimulated than women are. It’s why you will often see attractive women with unattractive or more average looking men, but you don’t often see attractive men with drastically l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/25 01:04 AM |
| 4 | Is it true that the whole “height thing”, especially about men, isn’t really a thing in real life? Or, not as much of a thing as on the internet?Everyone is different. Everyone has different preferences. That’s ok! There ARE women who would never date you because you’re not tall enough. Thats ok. That’s not every woman. And I don’t mean that in a 1 in a 100 way. I mean, if you asked women, completely at random, you’re going to find that it’s around half of them will say they want to date a man taller than she is. That’s ok. There’s a LOT of people. A LOT. What will help you find the person of your dreams? Be confident, be competent, be c… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/07/25 11:33 AM |
| 24 | People who prioritize “standards” before chemistry are delusional/self centered and often treat themselves as trophiesOmg, I’m so confused. So men are allowed to have standards, but if a woman has them, she’s delusional? Like, ok, Clean-Luck, do you ask out every woman you cross paths with, just in case one of them has a ‘deep connection’ with you? Or do you primarily ask women who fit whatever type you have? Because if you have a type, then congratulations! You have standards! And that’s totally fine. . . so why do men act like women shouldn’t? And yes, I saw where you said you didn’t intend that to come off a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/25 01:12 AM |
© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter