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I used to be like this. It was part of the Cool Girl thing. I didn't think they would stay with me otherwise, so I needed to be "cooler" than the rest, so they appreciated what a rare treasure they have found in me. 🤡 (Spoiler alert: they didn't. They just abused and neglected me, because I set the level of expectations underground, so they didn't respect me at all.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 10:19 PM
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Me too! I think financial literacy and independence is so important for women, and we're seriously underrepresented in most investing subs. If you make a discord like that or know of one, or want to chat about this, let me know!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 10:02 PM
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Exactly what I said to myself when I was thinking about trying dating online. My ideal man has lots of interests, hobbies, has a career he's passionate about, attends events and travels and so on. A man like that is constantly surrounded by women who share his interests. He won't look for a girlfriend online because he doesn't need to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 09:57 PM
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Dated a model/bodybuilder once. What he did to me hurt me just as much as what my less attractive exes did. If he's trash, he's trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 06:11 PM
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Me, my daughter and my mother baked a valentine's day cake, decorated it, watched movies and had a wonderful, peaceful day. I can't believe how much time I spent being frustrated on this day every single year. I'm just glad it's over and I love hearing the stories of peace and harmony that come after leaving a LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 06:03 PM
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So true! My ex did that with the chores. Apparently I should've been grateful and happy because he helped cook dinner once every two weeks or so. He was horrible, like an overgrown child, if I didn't throw away his candy wrappers, beer cans, they were right there where he put it weeks later. He just threw his dirty socks and underwear on the floor in the living room/bedroom, wherever. His dirty plates were there literally weeks later if I didn't put them away, he didn't even know how to load the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 05:58 PM
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Yes, and it really fucks with your head and self esteem. By the way, I think that's the ultimate purpose anyway, whether they're doing it consciously or not. I'm just not interested in having sex anymore, because, and maybe I was really unlucky, but all of my exes commented on my "performance" if I didn't (over)act like an animal in heat when having sex, when I didn't do all the pornsick things they had in their mind, and so on. I prefer having intimate, I don't know, normal sex, with lots of ey…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 05:48 PM
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I've been bullied because of my weight, it was really bad. Sex work felt like power because they didn't bully me, they were paying for my time. It felt amazing. Finally, I wasn't some rejected, ugly, fat nobody, I was someone who earned in an hour what others earned in a month, just with my body. It felt like redemption. Of course this wasn't something I did consciously, but I can see my patterns now, looking back. It was a short term redemption. A quick high. I've encountered people I never sho…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 09:24 PM
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I'm proud to be high maintenance. I do it for me, I use my own money for all the unnecessary beauty treatments that make me feel good, for the 100th body lotion, the hair salon for all the ridiculous hair colors and everything. When I was still married, I literally owned two pants, I could never afford to buy anything for myself because he wouldn't work and mostly everything I earned went towards our house. For him I was nothing, and he was annoyed by my "high maintenance" ways so I gave everyth…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 09:06 PM
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Men usually look up to other men. They can't or won't take women seriously. If they like someone who is famous and a woman, she's most likely an oversexualized pop star or a hot model/actress. There are a few men who get past this, but it's really rare.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 08:54 PM
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Wow, this is EXACTLY my ex husband. He also regularly yelled at me for not doing shit, when he was the one not doing shit. As you said, never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 08:49 PM
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It's a long story, but no, I was stupid and naive, and from a legal standpoint I can't prove it that it's my money that's in the house. It's a similar story to the girl's story in the Twitter thread a few comments below.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 08:27 AM
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My ex is living with his new handmaiden, in the house we bought together, my life savings are in it and I'm never going to see a cent of that money. I decided I won't be his victim. My goal for the new year is to have more money in my bank account than the amount he stole from me. I'm going to do it, and he can enjoy his miserable scrote life in that house - I'm just glad I'm free and I learned my lesson.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 11:25 PM
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Have wisdom and life experience = not buying scrote bullshit = they lose their power over us. That's why they are so obsessed with virgins and young women. It's an abusive tactic if you ask me, but unfortunately many young girls end up falling for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 10:32 PM
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Definitely, I just mentioned it because I don't want any young girl going "sure, but she probably was in a brothel or on the streets and that's why she has this opinion." No, men are men everywhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 06:04 PM
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Or control it. They can't go through a single day without trying to control everything around them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 05:08 PM
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I've been a high end escort, fetish content creator, camgirl and chat operator. 100% agree. And fuck the expensive stuff and the luxury life, it's not worth it. I'm earning very little at the moment, and I'm struggling but I can't bring myself to do that again. It makes me sick. I'm writing a book about my experiences and I've been thinking about starting a blog too, I'm going back to college as soon as I have enough money to do it. I want to save young girls from making the same mistakes that I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 04:57 PM
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I've been brainwashed by society, those stupid magazines, music videos and everything that I need to be sexual and that's the best thing that I can be. From the age 12+ I grew up learning how to give the best blowjobs ever, how to please a man, how to be appealing to them, how to make a man stay, and so on. Useless, harmful stuff. Somehow I'm pretty sure I'm not the only one. I grew up reading about Madonna deepthroating the bottle and everyone admiring her for it, thinking she's so cool, read C…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 04:30 PM
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Because it threatens their precious patriarchy. What would happen if every woman on earth would wake up and see how we don't need a man in our life to be happy and fulfilled? They might actually have to make some effort in order to be in a relationship, they wouldn't find easy, free sex, women would stop objectifying and humiliating themselves for male attention and so on. They would lose their power over women and that terrifies them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 04:12 PM
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And yet everything in this society tries to beat you into submission to always do what "men like". If you want to dye your hair an unusual color or buy some clothes you specifically like, or get acrylic nails or anything, you're going to hear "but men don't like that!". As if we care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 07:57 PM
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Of course we don't need men showing basic kindness and generosity towards us, we're too cool for that. We also just loooove violent porn sex and love to serve as a masturbatory aid for men. We're too cool for being respected. We don't need respect, kindness or basic decency, we just want to be objects and we're proud of it. Patriarchy has never been happier. A victim can realize how messed up the situation she's in and she can rebel against it. Someone who's brainwashed to serve the patriarchy a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 07:47 PM
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I had an ex who I thought I was in a relationship with. One day he informed me that we're fuck buddies and not in a relationship (that was surprising after 4 months), and told me he does want to get married, but not to me (thank goodness), because he only wants someone who gives him children and cleans the house. Now, even if not all men are sociopathic enough to just say it like this, most of them definitely think it. Then they have the kids and start to resent their wives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 07:38 PM
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We are taught we only have value if we are at a man's side, not by ourselves. I think most of us used to value being in a relationship above almost everything else, and I'm willing to bet many of us are here for this exact reason, because we did that and we learned the hard way that sacrificing ourselves at the altar of a shitty, abusive man is a very very bad idea. What an amazing thing is that you did learn it! You didn't go through life being a good little victim like they want you to be. You…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 05:47 PM
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Me too! I cringe so hard when I think about my past self. I've been open and genuinely loved sex, I assumed it's the same for men. I was mortified to find out they lose all respect for you once you're sexually available. For me it might've been innocent fun, relationship strengthening stuff, and things like that, but I feel like for them sex is this weird power play and you lose the instant you're seen as available.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 10:58 PM
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I literally woke up with a smile on my face for weeks after we moved out and there were finally only the two of us, my daughter and me, no angry man to ruin our day. My mother visits and we literally dance around the living room, the three of us sometimes, just because. I boil orange peel and cinnamon to have an amazing smell in the house, we decorate our cookies while the cats are purring in our laps. I have some calm music going. We are so happy. I ate once per day for months, so my daughter c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 10:50 PM
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My heart goes out to her. She's probably someone who loves and trusts deeply and loves to put actual effort into her relationships. She needs someone who appreciates her efforts and reciprocates them. Unfortunately it sounds like she's in too deep and it's going to take a lot more for her to cut ties with this absolutely undeserving man. She needs to find her crown and I hope she will. She's wasting her youth, her emotional energy and love on this man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 10:37 PM
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A high value man is inherently loyal. When my ex husband left me for another woman, everyone was so surprised that I wasn't angry or didn't try to take revenge or anything. I just let them go Don Draper style "I don't think about you at all." Precisely because a man worth keeping won't ever leave you for another. If he leaves you for anyone else, they can live happily ever after for all I care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 10:15 PM
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It's called projection. Usually it's the other way around. We give everything to an undeserving man, our physical, emotional energy, finances, we take care of them like they're children but we're also porn stars in the bedroom. Women routinely work 9 hour days, go home, take care of their kids and husband, clean, cook, do the laundry, pay the bills, make sure everything is ready for everyone for the next day, give the kids bath, make sure they brushed their teeth, read them bedtime story and the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 10:33 PM
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Because it's always about the male approval. Always. Everyone's lives should always be about gaining male approval. If you don't seek male approval, you basically challenge the very foundation of patriarchy and misogyny we're living in. Obviously, they can't have that. They ridicule every woman who dares to be different and independent. We're "crazy cat ladies" and "spinsters" and even if we have PhD and a house, we get ridiculed by them if we don't seek their attention and approval (see the pos…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 10:04 PM
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I used to have horrible eczema. I tried everything, doctors, alternative treatments, natural cures, everything. It was horrible, my hands and legs were a raw mess, it was bad. It kept me up at night, prevented me from wearing what I wanted. I got divorced from my abusive husband, and a few weeks later the one spot that appeared last, started to fade. I couldn't believe my eyes, but sure enough, in a few months my eczema was miraculously cured. Completely. You can see where it used to be, the ski…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 07:14 PM
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Okay, but what if there's a friend or acquaintance in the crowd? Then they're going to find out about the rejection anyway later, so I think in a situation like this we should just say yes and marry them, even if they're cheating, abusive or whatever. Right? As long as their pride doesn't get hurt. /s of course
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 11:40 AM
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You can feel the hurt and anger she feels right now. She's drowning and has a baby to look after. This is a major trauma for her and I hope she gets all the support in form of therapy, friends and family she can get. Unfortunately we are taught by society that we should be proud martyrs and financially, emotionally, sexually service a man until we're barely alive anymore. An important thing to remember that there is no "best martyr" medal, and putting up with a man who contributes nothing to you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 05:45 PM
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The fact that most men are horrified at the thought of being on the receiving end of anal, despite having a prostate, while so many women just "loooove" anal should tell you all about the incredible extent of brainwashing women are subjected to 24/7. Men like to do it to us because it's painful, uncomfortable at best, and humiliating. And they successfully convinced most of us that it's the expected standard and something's wrong with you if you don't like it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 11:44 AM
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If it's a kink, suddenly racism(race play), pedophilia(age play), abuse (BDSM) and everything else you can think of is okay! Also worth noting how they all have innocent names now, they're just "play". As if these things could ever be just harmless fun.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 11:03 AM
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I've been in the industry for 16 years. Now I can clearly see that it was my multiple severe traumas that led me down that path. I consented. I "wanted" to do it. It was a "choice" for me. Now that I got therapy and I'm in a much better place mentally, I'm just horrified at what my past self did. So, here we are, I know, anecdotal, but still: even if there is consent, you can bet any kind of money that no healthy woman would choose this kind of life. You know what I would've done had I not been …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 10:54 PM
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