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I think there needs to be an understanding of why he cheats. From your description it seems like he enjoys the secretive nature of it - so making things “above board” would take the appeal away. There’s a lot to unpack here, but I don’t want my comment removed so I’ll stay away from too much philosophizing on infidelity, but it just feels like asking a scammer to be honest about scamming?
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/22 02:49 PM
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I use Natural Cycles. You track your temp & can also order ovulation tests to narrow down the fertility window. You can also log cervical mucus which is another indicator.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/22 08:20 PM
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Actions over words for sure. 😌
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/22 01:49 PM
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Ok, sure. But this is pretty common reason why a lot of men go for younger women. She said she looks good physically - so this is a perfectly plausible explanation. Perhaps you could’ve just asked me to elaborate or added your feedback to my original comment instead of just “removing”?
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/22 06:46 PM
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That guy didn’t dump you for a younger woman bc of looks, he dumped you for a younger woman because they are more naive and easier to control. Think about how you were at 18 - you knew a lot less about men and relationships back then, didn’t you? It’s also an ego thing. Consider it a bullet dodged.
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/22 02:33 PM
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He wants to feel needed & desired by you.
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/22 04:05 AM
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I second asking. Or if there’s something you want to try, ask him to try that.
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/22 02:15 PM
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OP, I just looked at your pics. Please tell this dude to F off ASAP 😂 you’re a hottie.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/22 03:21 PM
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From my experience, no. If it’s not there, it likely won’t grow and you’ll want to end up leaving anyways after wasting both your time and his time.
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/22 03:12 PM
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I got banned from r/dating. I mean fine, I’ll take my good advice elsewhere 😂💀
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/22 11:37 PM
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Yup. Small lies will turn into big ones over time. He is showing you that he is: comfortable with lying to YOU is insecure and not comfortable being his authentic self. That’s not high value imo & can also be a red flag for manipulation later down the road
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/22 01:14 PM
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Yeah I was gonna ask what it was like at first…
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/22 11:26 PM
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Yeah guys have caught on to the fact that we want connection even “just for sex” ( I don’t believe in casual sex, but to each their own) so they will basically go about getting a FWB in a roundabout way.
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/22 03:00 PM
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Sounds like a rebound to me. I wouldn’t invest much in it & definitely do NOT sleep with him.
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/22 01:44 PM
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Hey, we live and we (hopefully) learn. Good luck! Don’t give up hope.
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/22 10:38 PM
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It may not be high on their list of “needs” within a partnership. Each person defines what partnership is as well so I don’t agree that it’s necessarily hypocritical. Personally I wouldn’t be able to be with someone who doesn’t believe in a higher power, but that’s just how I rank that belief in my list of needs for a partner. Some people genuinely might not care.
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/22 05:15 PM
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Take it easy. Ending relationships is hard - especially such a long one. Be kind to yourself right now. Whether you are “attractive” or not - let me tell you that there are plenty of attractive women who are single or in a relationship but miserable. Looks is a factor ofc, but it’s not the end all be all. Be the best version of YOURSELF. Focus on healing your wounds so you don’t push away the right person when he does come. For future reference that’s a really long time to be in a relationship a…
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/22 05:13 PM
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Traditionalism and religion ARE closely related. I could go on about this, but I’m also not in the business of telling people what to believe and prefer to respect people’s choices in that. All I will say is that I had such a long journey with belief in a higher power: starting out Catholic, turned into an atheistic, dabbled in new age-ism, etc etc. All I can say is as you get older and go through life experiences your views on a higher power can and probably will change so don’t throw the baby …
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/22 02:02 PM
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Great way of thinking about it. Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/22 12:10 PM
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Mixed signals = no. Move on
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/22 01:34 AM
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Exactly. She was the choice by proximity. Don’t see her as “better” or worse. I understand your pain, but dwelling on the 3rd party makes the wound fester. I pray for you to heal and move on quickly 💜
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/22 07:09 PM
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It really ain’t about her. He would’ve cheated whether she was “better” than you or not. It’s his character flaw. Focus on yourself & be glad this happened sooner rather than later when you had more to lose.
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/22 07:07 PM
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I don’t know - it’s very tough nowadays. You can still be friends with them and not partake in what you don’t enjoy/agree with. I’m kinda stuck in the same situation and honestly haven’t figured it out either 🥴
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/22 10:48 PM
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I’m sorry & I’m glad you’re feeling better.
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/22 12:35 AM
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I was on BC starting at 19. I’m 31 in a couple of weeks and have been off it for about 2 years now - I noticed the difference in my personality & mood almost immediately.
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/22 08:13 PM
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He did. Did you read the whole post?
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/22 06:39 PM
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No women are NOT told about the emotional & psychological impact that these hormonal bcs can cause. In fact many doctors are dismissive if you do bring it up. At most they will tell you it can increase the risk of depression & anxiety - which by itself is ridiculous - but there is no discussion on the larger scale implications of disrupting the natural hormone production.
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/22 06:39 PM
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Well for example I like being out in nature to decompress. Where I live there’s lots of neat little spots like sanctuaries that people go to. I live by the beach so I also spend a lot of time there as well. Bookstores in nice areas too. They don’t necessarily have to be group activities, but things that you already enjoy & put you out in public around the type of men you would like. I put emphasis on things you enjoy because when you’re happy it sends out a good vibe, makes you seem more approac…
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/22 12:36 AM
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Couldn’t tell through the comment so I figured I’d explain my reasoning 😂
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/22 09:50 PM
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Not sure if you’re being cheeky - but there’s a certain vibe when you meet people at a bar & alcohol influences poor decisions. It’s just a fact. 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/22 06:16 PM
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Social activities or hobbies. You may meet someone at a bar, but keep in mind single men usually go to such venues with a particular intention. There’s a better initial connection when you have something you both enjoy to go off of, rather than being under the influence & making small talk that you can barely hear over the crowd/music. I also find it preferable because the lack of alcohol helps you keep your wits about you.
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/22 04:16 PM
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I wouldn’t let what a community of men are saying make you lose hope. Someone explained it to me this way: a lot of what men say in public is performative to gain the respect of other males. So they’ll say what they think will get them respect from their peers, even if they don’t truly see things that way or even actually behave that way. It’s just unfortunate that what appears to garner them respect today is being shitty towards women. These ppl will never be happy because they will either not …
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/22 06:52 PM
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Approachable in what way? Physically? Socially?
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/22 11:29 PM
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Any human appreciates when someone shows concern for them. That being said only do it if it’s genuine…..
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/22 06:59 PM
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Yeah I think it’s ok to be straight forward here
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/22 06:07 PM
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I feel like your fiancé should be the one setting this boundary, no? He is the one opposed to it - you can piggyback onto him setting the boundary with his family.
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/22 04:46 PM
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Don’t remember the names, this was years ago & I’ve been off Reddit for a long time.
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/22 05:00 PM
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It’s been so long that I honestly can’t remember the names but the ones I followed weren’t necessarily for RPW-minded women, rather I found them to be a good shared space for those with different viewpoints regarding women & relationships incl red pill. Certainly there would be disagreement within those groups, but I did find like-minded women there as well. The variety was refreshing honestly.
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/22 07:27 PM
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You too!!! Please don’t blame yourself, but always use these situations to become a better version of yourself & to learn how to vet people. Often times there are red flags that we ignore because our feelings are so ~yummy~. 😩 I’ve learned a lot using just these resources alone.
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/22 07:24 PM
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Yeah it’s too bad - some really good discussions would happen on those subs. Not everyone agreed but the conversation was civil 99% of the time until a troll came in 😂 ah well!
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/22 05:06 PM
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There used to be some really good ones I followed a couple years ago but they got banned. People would report the subs en masse because they were questioning liberal ideology in regards to women, particularly trans ideology. I’d be shocked to find any because they usually get shut down or the followers get harassed or blocked from other subs just for the sake of following a particular sub. They weren’t even politically conservative subs…🥴 They honestly never posted anything offensive but people …
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/22 04:29 PM
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/r/RedPillWomen20/08/22 12:59 AM
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The way I interpreted the post is that someone rejected OP & she wants to know if it’s ok to stay friends. There must have been feelings involved because if it was a no big deal rejection then there’s no need to pose this question. She also said “stay” friends meaning this is more of a close relationship than just some random guy rejecting her at a bar or on a dating app in which case just being friends is ok imo. If there’s feelings involved and there’s a rejection it’s natural to take some spa…
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/22 11:13 PM
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No. She’s obviously asking for a reason & wants a certain response. If they were good friends before & her intentions were to keep it friendly moving forward then why would she feel the need to ask such a question?
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/22 07:20 PM
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Why?
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/22 05:26 PM
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Men are visual creatures, plus he probably wants to gas you up since you put effort into your appearance - he correctly assumes it’s important to you. Also, he’s young. However, what do you add to the relationship besides looks? Do you have intellectual conversations with him? Do you have hobbies? Are you vulnerable with him? Etc I’m not saying you don’t - I’m asking to gauge how much of an emphasis you put on these things within your relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/22 08:16 PM
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😂 good point.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/22 07:06 PM
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Must be a troll. The original post alone is off-putting, but considering she’s young I thought maybe just ignorant. But the responses to comments are even worse LMAO
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/22 06:18 PM
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Lmao what? 🥴 every man I’ve dated in their 30s has been jacked 😂😂😂 where do you live?
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/22 06:14 PM
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I would also suggest you date older, not younger. At least your age. Most men that age will not take relationship seriously. Even if they say they are religious they typically do not take that to heart until they are older - they have the benefit of time on their side.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/22 06:00 PM
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Just to add some more info - I am 31 next month and have struggled with choosing the right partner. I learned a lot from her “Proper Punani Management Course”. Don’t pay attention to the name 😂😂😂it’s really valuable info to not have your time & energy wasted/ not get used
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/22 05:58 PM
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You might benefit from this woman’s advice/course: https://instagram.com/topgyaldatingacademy?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/22 05:39 PM
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You should be with someone you are attracted to. You will grow resentful of him & he will feel your lack of attraction to him. It’s not sustainable.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/22 11:29 AM
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I agree actually. Orgasms are kinda whatever for me, it’s more of a mental/emotional thing for me
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/22 03:07 AM
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I know! But I wanted to give you some hope lol! I believe in you! I realized porn was a red flag for me a couple of years ago. It makes dating harder because this idea is not so mainstream yet, but I believe the right person for me will not be a porn watcher.
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/22 01:11 PM
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Thank you for sharing. A male friend of mine has been free from porn for 3 years - you are doing well even if you think you’re not just by having the realization and taking steps. I’m sure with some and inner work (therapy isn’t for everyone so I’ll let you decide what that means for you) you will become the man you want to be and find yourself able to connect with women in a relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/22 12:59 PM
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Agreed. OP, you have great features. Try some natural looking makeup styles that accentuate your features. You have nice eyes and lips (like me!). I don’t like wearing much makeup so I just do mascara & a not too loud lipstick that goes well with my skintone. Also congrats on clearing up your skin 👏🏼 Fashion is another way to go - again you dont have to go crazy. Just learn how to accentuate your natural self & wear some feminine styles.
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/22 04:41 PM
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I feel ya! I would want to know too - but I’m a rational person. We can’t assume everyone else is, especially when they are finding out this kind of info. Take care of yourself first always ❤️ this is not the kinda thing you wanna put yourself in the middle of.
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/22 03:17 AM
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I have been in a similar boat. Block him, forget about him, & don’t get involved. You do not know him or this woman or how they will react. Stay out of it for your own peace and safety.
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/22 03:05 AM
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I don’t have any advice for you as I’m new here but I’m 30 going on 31 & single so I feel for you. Hang in there. ❤️
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/22 10:05 PM
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