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It's a societal wide thing that becomes normalized or stigmatized.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 10:58 AM
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Goth kids don't go to sporting events unless forced to, so you're literally seeing them at their most oppressed state of being.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 10:13 AM
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I have no proof of this, but I would wager if you asked straight men and women about which gender they would feel comfortable teaching their young kids, both men and women would only feel comfortable with women teachers. Which leads to a lack of men in that space. It'd depend on if you're asking mature adults or weirdo adults. Most mature adults have zero issues with males in teaching and mentorship roles with kids. Mature adults teach their kids about sexual assault and enforce an open communic…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 10:08 AM
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I babysat a bunch as a teen and young adult, you just didn't know any decent families that didn't think creepy shit about boys. It definitely took a bit more effort but it's still very much possible to babysit as a male in western society. In eastern societies it's very normalized. Truth is most boys are terrible at taking care of younger kids because they don't develop any interest in learning those skills. Boys in ultra religious communities that require those boys to take care of their younge…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 10:06 AM
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Girls be like https://np.reddit.com/media?url=https%3A%2F%2Fi.redd.it%2Fwl59r651qtvd1.png
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 10:04 AM
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Treating everyone as equal in 2024 means ignoring 2000+ years of not treating people equally. If we reset every single family's wealth to zero or some other base line, sure. If we don't, then people that benefited from racism in the past are going to be that guy up on the ledge looking down on the brown masses. The above comic is correct. Also the infamous 'boxes at a baseball game' meme. The most racist people in my family and extended family friend group are all the "colorblind" republicans th…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 09:03 AM
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There's no incels here, they're all sigma males.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 08:45 AM
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For a sixty year old moderately attractive black woman she's practically the Pope.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 12:56 AM
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The fact there's only a tiny amount of threads like this in the 40+ years of people posting on the internet should tell you something about how often this happens. Ugly women do often date ugly men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 12:51 AM
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If you like freckles and that latina/chipmunk look, she's 8/10. If you don't, 2/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 06:39 PM
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They're calculated every single year through various surveys, polls, and meta data collected globally. There is a worldwide very small drop in these partnered numbers. So blue pillers acknowledge that there could be a bigger issue at play that needs to be addressed. What they won't do, and what RP should stop doing, is blaming solely women for these numbers and trying to shame women into fixing it. Utterly absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 06:36 PM
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https://open.substack.com/pub/astralcodexten/p/how-often-do-men-think-about-rome?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android&r=2qmstb Men stop being so weird about Rome and WW2.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 01:16 PM
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Addicted to the ring! ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 03:56 PM
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Exactly. If Eyeore refused to get his shit straight and get a search party together to find his tail, fuck'em.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 03:52 PM
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Were you talking about a factual event or thing or a purely opinion thing? Most people if you actually pay attention discuss 'factual' things as though they're opinions, when they in fact aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 03:44 PM
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Some people abuse all english terms on earth since the english language evolved into what it is. Most people when they talk about mansplaining are referring to men that know less than a woman, trying to explain a concept/idea to a woman in a condescending way.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 03:42 PM
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I dunno arent you living a very happy life? Stable semi-fulfilling job, good partner that contributes, and lots of land + animals to take care of that also in kind nurture your soul?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 03:39 PM
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There's also a divide between liberals and conservatives with regards to deep moral questions and answers, even neurotypical people disagree and have trouble communicating across the spectrum. Truth is, neurodivergent people may have some additional problems with finding others that 'understand them' but the internet has made this so much easier to find those people that support your way of thinking about the world. If you're a redpilled dude, there's probably a red pilled girl out there that'd …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 03:37 PM
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Even still the OP's statistics aren't accurate. By the time a woman with a higher degree dies in her 70s-80s, she'll have on average 2 marriages, and multiple other long term fulfilling relationships. She'll also have a small-to-medium sized family that adores her, and colleagues that value her friendship over the years.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 03:33 PM
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There's no sexual contact at those...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 08:46 PM
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Just like they(women) have dildo parties but a guy has to hide having a fleshlight for fear of mockery Psst, porn scenarios isn't real life, dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 12:32 AM
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Just like they have dildo parties What the hell are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 12:31 AM
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It's the old 80/20 thing, although that's not quite true unless we're going by total money earned. Average woman on onlyfans works a second job or goes to school, and only pulls down a couple hundred a month.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 12:29 AM
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Wait why have 3 of the last 5 girls i've dated been anemic? Is it that common It's more common than in the past, but that's because all eating disorders(even for men) are up.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 12:15 AM
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Wings and steak? Pretty much any awesome wing joint she'll go crazy for.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 12:15 AM
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Democrats as a national party and almost all states are extremely pro-gun rights. Yes there are a minority of democrats that are pushing for that ideal no-gun paradise, but they're very upfront with those beliefs. The majority of democrats aren't that, and are supportive of reasonable gun rights. A gun rights person should support Democrats, assuming they're not a libertarian-type that want to "own a tank or f-15." Democrats support a strong border on both the north and south, as well as patroll…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 10:16 AM
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I mean most of the world and half of america disagree with you. At some point you might want to wake up to "While i don't personally agree, there's plenty of evidence going contrary to my own feelings."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 10:11 AM
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She is going to attempt to make the world a slightly better place with her policies. It may or may not work. She does not appear to be someone that is actively trying to damage it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 11:53 PM
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If someone is within a certain demographic and they have certain goals, we can empirically say yes you're voting for or against your interests if you vote for X party. Millionaire? Vote Republican. Everyone else? Vote Democrat. It really does boil down to that economic standing. Obviously if you're a -ist(racist, homophobic, misogynist, etc) vote republican as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 11:51 PM
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Hahahah no.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 11:44 PM
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Discarting that other gender related studies and statistics can be affected by gender bias without raisons seems excessive. You need to prove the bias, not just assume there is some there. Most articles aren't biased in a negative way. I would love to see your genetic and biochemical sources about men as natural aggressors. https://www.journals.uchicago.edu/doi/10.1086/711705#:~:text=By%20puberty%20there%20is%20a,is%20enhanced%20by%20prenatal%20testosterone. Redpillers post about this all the ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 09:57 PM
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I'm prochoice and I'm for women rights. Doesn't mean I should ignore sociale biases toward men. Then you're illogical at some point that I'm not sure why you don't realize that globally speaking, societies favor males. This does include most if not all western style countries on most things within society. Women in non-western countries are completely fucked. Women in western countries are partially fucked. Western nations are trying to rectify some sins from our past but we've been slow about i…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 09:51 PM
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The majority of men on earth are below 6 foot, and the majority of men on earth with have multiple LTRs with women throughout their lives, as well as at minimum 1 marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 07:11 PM
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At the very least, we should question them and not take them as truth until they've been verified through new studies taking these biases into account. Instead of supporting folks like the Project 2025 sycophants, maybe support someone willing to spend the money on researching these "biases."
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 07:07 PM
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It make sense though to presume that the social effects that underepresented men as victims would also underepresent women as aggressors as the biaises are the same as their core. This is illogical. We know that men are more naturally aggressors when it comes to all different types of societal interactions with each other, and this likely stems from genetic, biochemical, and cultural reasons. Testosterone is a helluva a drug. It does make your impulses and desires to do awful things much easier …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 07:02 PM
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STR is fine if both parties want that going in. STR sucks when one party is wanting LTR and other doesn't. It leads to massive amounts of "buyer's remorse".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 05:39 PM
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She may live in a patriarchal society where she's inundated by the male experience? Perhaps even has male friends and family members that can intimately describe their experiences to her?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 05:38 PM
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Serial sperm donor (actively started, gonna impregnate 100 Women) Imagine having your lawyers explain to a judge what you meant by this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 05:36 PM
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I see the author is a woman. This means nothing in the context of this story.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 05:34 PM
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Then keep being clueless about other people's experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:19 PM
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That pussy has had multiple dicks inside it while cumming. Putting your mouth on that thing is like sucking a penis to completion. #factsbyShapiro #thedailywire
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:15 PM
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Name a single country. Googling this got zero hits. Some individual sperm banks do set height requirements.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:11 PM
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Most people have more experiences of men acting badly than they do women acting badly on the scale that men often act. It's like those charts where the far outliers at the worst percentile and best percentile are men, with women mostly in the middle area. When men break bad, they break real bad. An old Chris Rock joke tells it the best "If a crackhead steals your wallet, you lost what you had that day. When a wall street banker steals your bank account..."
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:07 PM
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China has one of the lowest birth rates globally and has been trying to incentivise young women to have children. Many, however, have been put off by the high cost of childcare, worries over job security and their future outlook as growth in the world's second largest economy slows. Also CCP/conservatives world wide: NO YOU CANNOT HAVE CHANGES IN THESE THINGS.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:05 PM
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What the hell? Are you an ant?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:03 PM
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Because they genuinely don't have an answer that makes sense to their experiences in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:02 PM
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*And if the issue is finding commitment, apps like Bumble and Tinder let you filter for men who are serious about relationships. * So where’s the challenge? I’m really trying to understand what makes dating so hard for women. What am I missing? This is what you're missing, hilariously enough. You don't realize just how impossible it feels for women to find a man that truly wants a serious, long term relationship rather than a fwb or short-term(1-3 years) girlfriend. Women mostly, especially at c…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:01 PM
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RPs are about to lose their fucking minds. Again.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:00 PM
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TwoX and offshoots handles criticism just fine, as long as you agree with basic facts surrounding these gender "war" issues. The problem with the below posters is that they cannot even agree on the basics, which leads to catching a ban because no one should have to argue with a complete mouth breather that cannot meet half way to formulate a counter-argument. It's purely bad faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 12:12 PM
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It's almost as though it's a fake story... But let's take the hypothetical at face value: wife has 9000 photos of you. This doesn't really tell us much other than this person *really, really likes taking photos, and happens to also like taking photos of you. If you find it creepy/weird then you should confront the wife and get answers on why she's done so. Could be for endearing reasons. Could be for reasons that are unsavory. What you don't do is post about it on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 12:10 PM
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Then you def should get off reddit if this is your mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 01:10 AM
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Agreed, but its nice to have all these arguments in one concise video.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 01:10 AM
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Most people are completely ok with passport bros, provided that the person going overseas to meet someone isn't doing it in an exploitive way. Of course many people also have different opinions on 'exploitive'. Passport weeaboos that are going to asia because "asian women are the only last truly feminine demure women in teh world" are creeps.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 01:06 AM
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There are 4ish billion women on earth. Does your brain not click that there are likely tens of millions of women that would love to date you? Do you really think there's literally not a single human being that likes you? You and any other people complaining in this sub almost always have a common denominator: doomerist thinking, catastrophic thinking, extremely low self esteem with grandiose self ego, and complete lack of understanding of their actual problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 09:08 PM
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Fellow leftists and bluepillers and left-center purplepillers, found this evopsych ranty youtube video from a few days ago to be a very good synposis of the arguments we hear from many of the redpillers/conservatives in PPD and elsewhere. Posting for conciseness of their arguments. https://youtu.be/8Waiu1nZakA?si=f16OAfZZp9NRsYoq
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 08:44 PM
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Source: Yes, all of bluepiller philosophy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 06:37 PM
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Reality: 3000 year old dragon-vampire.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 11:59 AM
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Gender swapping in most cases does significantly change the context and outcomes that are expected societally. Same thing when people try to "race swap" two scenarios.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 11:50 AM
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Blue pill is about celebrating life and hope for positive change. What you're posting, partially, isn't really blue pill behavior. If you have a girlfriend and she's happy with your behavior towards her, then all the more credit to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 11:49 AM
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Very few women are staying single, the current stats put it at most around 20% on the high end in some areas of the world. Even South Korean women are still by and large choosing to date and partner up, even with the issues that some women in SK have raised with the current hetero-status game.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 08:27 PM
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Masters and PhD both raise your status with some women. Other women don't care for any of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 07:56 PM
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Fyi that status is only a signifier for some women. Other women prefer the HVAC guy to the masters degree 'nerd'.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 07:55 PM
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Additionally the ones that do specialize often do so and focus on private practice work, that allows them to be flexible enough to raise a family while being a doctor.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 07:54 PM
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Key phrase you're missing is that all genes have the potential to mutate in unpredictable ways, and those mutated genes can be passed on to create new mutated-humans. Blue eyed humans are from a weird ass mutation gene that likely had zero evolutionary advantages. Same with blonde / deep red hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 07:38 PM
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It's a giant stretch even looking at individual countries. China arguably has the biggest male-female hetero imbalance out there and at most they're saying it might lead to 20 million chinese men having to find an alternative or going outside of the country for a mate. I hope I don't have to explain how little 20 million out of 1.1 billion is. Doesn't mean it should be ignored as an issue, but it should be put into reasonable perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 07:32 PM
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From a 400+ comment post... "Women reject 95% of men based on height, then looks, then economics..." How fucking delusional do you have to be to catch a ban for being this dumb? So now we've gone from at max maybe 20% of men having difficulties dating to 95% of men getting rejected?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 07:24 PM
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ABOUT TIME Seriously though congrats.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 07:19 PM
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Because it's an entire generational gap, in theory. Decade can be a very long time and put a ton of distance between two people. People are pointing out that the 45 year old might be at a different life stage and mentality than the younger person.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 08:16 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mje7IL02DFA https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f9GuC4k3t8k https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=90CUieD9B34 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Rp1YoaYx3dI Etc. Refugees in Poland and Germany aren't partying it up. They're looking for decent long term housing, decent jobs, and assistance on living their lives while the war rages on.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 01:21 PM
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Uh huh.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 01:07 PM
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I believe it was the incels.is forum.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 12:33 PM
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Please post a source for "ukrainian wives partying it up in germany and poland"? Yes there are a small amount of ukrainians, both men and women in those countries as refugees, but none of them are "partying it up" in any contextual way that phrase means.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 12:27 PM
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Actually divorce rates stay lower during economic depressions because people literally can't afford to break up, so they put up with bullshit they really shouldn't be putting up with. Check ur stats bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 12:25 PM
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Birds of a feather... Someone tried hooking up femcels with with the more attractive incels and it failed spectacularly. Neither group could step outside of their own emotional and mental psychosis to actually date other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 12:23 PM
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Because the status of being married is worth more than the economic "hardship" of losing some of your millions to your kid's upbringing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 01:48 AM
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I used to love going through those old ass cookbooks my grandma's had. Find some of the weirdest shit in there.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 01:12 AM
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No there shouldn't be a cap because every child's situation is different. Lebron's kid does in fact need more money, security, etc. than some random person's kid. Tyrese has amazing lawyers, if they can't talk the amount down then maybe there's genuinely good reasons why the judge and court staff are pushing for the higher amount.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 01:11 AM
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JD Vance's problems are entirely emotional. He had a traumatic childhood that has put him on this path of hating women. He's doubled down on those irrational feelings instead of seeking therapy and help for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 01:06 AM
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The overwhelming preponderance of evidence suggests that the more partners one has the more likely divorce will occur. Correlation not causation. You can have someone with 1 partner that ends up cheating/divorce and you can have someone with 100 partners that is faithful and never divorces. Having more partners doesn't force someone to believe they need to leave at the sign of a single problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 01:02 AM
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Eat that cunt.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 12:59 AM
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15% of middle age men have no close friends ….in 1990 it was only 3% of middle aged men. This is due to deaths, not lack of friendships in early lifehood.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 03:07 PM
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I still had my best friend in my life (we were like a pea pod, so close for over a decade) but I ended up burning that bridge after I was so uncomfortable with her being friends with the other girls. You may be the toxic one, sorry. A normal well adjusted person is going to maintain your decade long friendship with your friend, regardless of her other friend groups. It only shows that she values your friendship and their friendship differently. Assuming she didn't treat you any differently, you'…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 03:06 PM
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The guys aren't alright. Sexually attracted to a 9 year old? Must be a a RP flaired PPD man.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:37 PM
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Yes, eventually you get tired of being alone, lower your standards for a partner, and find that person that existed but you otherwise ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 11:27 PM
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Because based on surveys of POC women they have stated they're completely OK with dating different types of men, especially with short term dating. The numbers drop a bit when it comes to marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 02:22 PM
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It's expensive to have kids and the other lifestyle desires that modern western-style humans want. Look at families that are still having kids and it's people that are forgoing other pleasures in life for the positives/negatives of kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 10:16 AM
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150mg of semen is a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 09:36 AM
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Eliot Rodger wasn't white, although he was white-passing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 09:30 AM
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Real talk, back when the incel forums were more easily accessed I did notice a significant skewing of "curry-cels" of indian men that grew up in western white-majority societies and adopted white-male perspectives on who they wanted to date(aka white women.) They refuse to date black women, and indian women can spot their inceldom from a mile away and steer far from them. Which goes back to the theory that being too selective when you're at a social disadvantage(minority) is fucking stupid. Date…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 09:28 AM
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Finally I can claim being a racist! Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 09:26 AM
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While there are women that will judge a guy for not having friends, most younger women don't give a shit because they also likely only have a small friend group as well. Obviously it depends on the type of woman you're talking to, but pretty much everyone has much smaller friend groups than in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 09:24 AM
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Lmao yeah, the whole thing about oral sex is that it's one person being completely subserviant to the other person's needs/desires. Cock / Clit worship is fundamentally what someone is desiring when getting oral. If bi/gay guys are more likely to 'worship' the dick, then yeah they're technically better at blowies.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 09:22 AM
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The problem is In your example the pansexual demiqueer is likely mostly right about the things they say and thr gun nut is mostly wrong about the things he says.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 06:41 PM
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Going by both polling and just generally existing around other men for the past 30 years, this is 100% wrong. Men do like making babies and caring for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 06:37 PM
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Properly used they're very effective. Awkwardness is obviously subjective, but considering how 'rare' they are within the conversation on birth and std control, it's not unexpected for them to be viewed that way. No one is taught how to use them outside of queer spaces.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 05:14 PM
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Lazy Bones.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 05:11 PM
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Blue pillers aren't offended by this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 05:09 PM
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I mean she's telling you that you're attractive enough to have babies with and live your entire lives with. She's not saying you're unattractive. Again this is one of those things where some women think fundamentally different than the way you or other guys think. You need to step into her mindset when you evaluate this question.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 05:09 PM
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"Black men in Ohio..." so you're gonna cherrypick one demo for one state and try to claim that's representative something more widespread? The whole point to people calling you out for whatever weird Texas ancedote you have, is that it's a narrow observation that doesn't match the rest of the country. Much like your black men in ohio factoid(and I'm taking you at your word that it's even accurate, even though it sounds a bit weird and doesn't match national stats.)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 12:53 AM
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. I feel like the women Reddit attacts probably aren't doing too well on other social media sites that encourage you to post photos of yourself. Hahahahahaha speaking of assuming a bunch of things based on literally nothing. The majority of reddit women are normie women here for hobby subs and reddit has become an alternative for various discussion boards. Those "anti men" women you talk about are literally saying "I'm dating multiple men, I'm having issues with them because their behaviors are …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 12:45 AM
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That one dude on r/tinder said he had close to a million swipes and everyone pointed out he was shadowbanned. He made a new account, stopped swiping so much, and he started getting dates. It wouldn't shock me if a decent amount of dudes having issues are purely due to not understanding how these apps work on the backend.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 12:37 AM
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Fit short black guys absolutely slay with various types of women, it's definitely your personality that's off putting or you're insanely selective for women that would otherwise like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 12:37 AM
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Is Marty Kemp, wife of gov Kemp, ugly?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 02:51 AM
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Pure insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 10:43 PM
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When you say vote, is that for democrats or republicans?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 06:55 PM
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Her needs aren't a requirement for being able to walk.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 10:53 AM
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Lmao 90% of women are dating 90% of men, not waiting for someone that doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 12:54 PM
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Most women have a handful of hookups and ons in their 16-35 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 11:25 AM
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Almost all polling on sexual health or experiences put the average man at 5 to 8 partners for their life, including 2 to 4 causal Fwb situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 11:09 AM
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Explain what concept you're having trouble with and I'll try to shore up your misunderstanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 11:05 AM
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Because no one wants to have casual sex with you because you lack the qualities that women look for in that type of partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 11:00 AM
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If they're manipulating women by lying to them, of course they should get called out for that behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 09:54 PM
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Hahaha why did they ban it...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 09:51 PM
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Don't look up rape statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 09:42 PM
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Go for it. At the end of the day if that's the only people that want to date you, go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 09:29 PM
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If redpillers were doing great they wouldn't be posting their constant Ls in dating and complaining about women that won't ever date them because they're toxic/ugly/creeps.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 08:39 PM
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Then if you want to date you probably need to learn to enjoy the company of a chubby gal. Or go gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 08:38 PM
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Redpill men still try getting laid, they just have low success rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 08:06 PM
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If you're surrounded by obese people, yes. If you can't get your ideal, yes. Date people that want to date you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 08:03 PM
1

Exactly. If you live on Samoa for example, some 60% of all women are obese there. If you are a man you're probably obese as well. If the majority of women around you are obese, yes asking for a thin woman is legitimately too high of a standard. Which is why basing preferences around superficial qualities will always lead Red Pill men to be vastly more lonely than blue pill and purple pill men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 03:01 PM
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Define regularly. Those guys usually have multiple casual flings throughout their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 02:58 PM
1

The Ron white bit about everyone's a Lil gay is apt.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 07:49 PM
1

Bet you can't go 100 posts without mentioning bmi or 19-21.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 07:48 PM
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That was a man doing it, not a woman doing it. He claims it's a friend of his.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 09:59 AM
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What always makes me laugh is they can't find a single red pill woman to just make this experiment, they have to use a "friends photo".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 08:55 AM
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DEI fuckery.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 12:42 AM
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Everyone needs groceries and if they are still friends it makes sense to grab them together. I go with friends fairly regularly and do errands like grocery shopping. Open relationships are morally neutral, how someone goes about it and the finer details matter more than the blanket statement of open relationships as bad. Having people that are safe to vent emotions and frustrations to is healthy. All humans should do it. Men and women can be platonic friends. If a male friend is nice enough to p…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 08:36 PM
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Clearly they're the real racists! No seriously red pillers believe this junk thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 08:17 PM
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Men can pass it, but they require extra time during boot camp to get into acceptable shape. Something that's been done since the 40s, only the amount of men having to do it has gone up.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 08:16 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/AMA/comments/1dk0qa5/im_31m_and_most_of_my_casual_sexual_partners_are/ Men of PPD, meats back on the menu boys!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 04:40 PM
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I did and that's not my experience. I was in a LCOL large southern city. I'm a progressive. Dating wasn't some unobscurable thing. Yes i had to spend more time messaging women and going on dates that didn't turn into anything long term. Such is life. I also turned a handful into LTRs.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 05:27 PM
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Dating is a global thing and moat of us are talking about it from a genetic and social aspect, which is global. Very rarely does someone approach these topics from a narrow pov on only western English speaking areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 03:22 PM
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Tens of thousands of average men get dates all day long on apps. It requires more work than what you see in the OP. For whatever reason if things are perfectly the same you and posters like you think this invalidates what the rest of us are pointing out.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 03:21 PM
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For the past 10,000 years most tribes across the planet worked the opposite of what you outlined. Women were seen as a negative. Families with daughters had to gift males with families with trinkets, animals, land, tools, etc in order to get the best males to notice them. Women for most of human history weren't put on a pedestal. We can accept there's a new dynamic since the sexual revolution, there's a legit argument that can be made that this may have switched, but historically its clear. Also…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 03:18 PM
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Millions do, but tens of millions fail. Most of the time if it's gotten to that point one party refuses to go along with help being given.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 01:09 PM
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Only in western counties, in eastern countries its reversed. Men and their families have all the power.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 01:08 PM
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Your first exhibit is a LARP. Leftists, especially actual M-L Marxists, are 100% going after and should go after progressive women. We arent going to get along with conservative women, and it's only going to lead to long term friction. Progressives date other progressives or left wing moderates. Marxists especially aren't gonna date a conservative RP woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 12:18 PM
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This is literally wrong just by observing any couples in your area.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 10:55 AM
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Because statistical evidence shows they don't. For every hetero woman in a relationship a hetero man is also in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 10:52 AM
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That latest catfish thing 5 out of the 7 guys were clearly looking for a booty call. The black guy and #2 dude seemed to be into her for something deeper. Even then if they didn't vibe in person they'd just push her to a bootycall.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 10:43 AM
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They have and it's similar. Any normal average American dude in a large metropolitan area can get some dates every month with a hour or two of "work" a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 10:29 AM
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There's not much to adapt to. If you're a tradcon man, date other tradcon women. If you're a normie, date normie girls within your social/economic/ looks circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:58 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/MadeMeSmile/comments/1c67l1c/couple_ends_up_proposing_at_the_same_time/ Short fat kings still exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 02:23 PM
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FYI people do use it in other contexts, that one is just more relevant for this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:43 PM
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Essentially yes. Women tend not to be as lonely because other women will willingly spend time with them. Men tend not to do this in the same way as our grandad or dad may have had a male friend group to support them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 06:19 PM
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Most poly people who aren't ultra religious are chill folks trying to make it in this world. Very nice folks.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 06:58 PM
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People have limited agency. We are mostly peons that have most things done to us, not of our own volition.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 01:37 PM
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Far less than men. There's probably a 90/10 split between man paying for a woman vs woman paying for a woman. Including lesbian relationships and platonic ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 08:59 PM
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If men are enabling bad behavior and women arent, yes it's the male group fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 07:41 PM
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If you want to work food service why not an actual steakhouse or fine dining? They need people too, and it's a much more professional place to start.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 08:14 PM
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So sorry Badger! There are some illnesses and parasites that can cause behavior like that but good luck finding a doctor to diagnose it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 08:12 PM
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So men that go on misogynist shooting or knifing sprees are justified?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 08:09 PM
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It's relative to the woman. A female nurse will admire a welder or car mechanic, a female doctor will not. A female fast food worker will admire the retail or warehouse worker, but the female chef wont.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 08:08 AM
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Unironically a married couple I know are getting a divorce rn because she gained 20 pounds during pregnancy and hasn't lost it. She was rail thin before, so now she's average or slight below average weight. She looks good to my eyes but he lost his lust for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 07:35 AM
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Ewuwu
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 07:29 AM
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Hey free cake, even goths love cake.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:25 PM
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This means you're below mid, if you're opining for mid dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 08:35 AM
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"Wasn't romantically interested." You literally met her for like 10 minutes how the fuck would you know if you're romantically attracted or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 08:28 AM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/pics/comments/1avxn6u/christie_brinkley_at_70/ There's no excuses for letting yourself go , ladies.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 09:22 AM
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Yes. We have written evidence of it from privileged women that could write. You're the one jumping to rape btw. I would use much lesser language.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 06:34 PM
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There is significant evidence in both modern resigned marriages globally and via older women that were privileged enough to br able to write down their thoughts and their female friends thoughts. Looking at any snapshot of marriage thoughts from modern women in oppressive patriarchal societies will answer your questions alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 06:33 PM
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The whole joke of big dick energy is that you can be a small dude and be bigger than life, and it's a positive of who you are. It doesn't mean literally "he must have a big penis."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:33 PM
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Remember the saying, what happens in Thailand stays on the INTERPOL top ten wanted list forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 11:39 AM
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This is because they're extremely autistic and have personality problems / deep emotional issues from childhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 10:51 AM
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Curiously how did you meet him?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 10:50 AM
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Athletic women don't want you. Normie women don't want you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 10:45 AM
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Not a woman but this is my advice for any desperate guy with zero relationship experiences. I would hope by emphasizing this you understand why I suggest it, but by all means prove me wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 10:44 AM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/facepalm/comments/1apkji2/no_laughter_allowed_if_youre_a_man_remember/ New ick just dropped for 2024.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 10:32 AM
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You cant acknowledge something you don't recognize. Many women don't feel privileged. They feel dating is as much of a struggle as guys do. You can call them delusional if you want, but that doesn't change much.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 10:20 AM
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If the end result is the same, in this case it doesn't matter. A woman at a buffet of foods she's grossed out by vs man watching from the window, both are in a world of awful. If anything it's worse for the woman since she has to navigate the awfulness and the guy gets to skip all that bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 10:18 AM
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OP is a 3.45 because of his hyperatrophied upper masculinity and droopy clavical.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 10:04 AM
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Passport bro in one of the new threads literally defending Saudi Arabias patriarchal family style of arranged marriages and dating. Taking the red pill does to your brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 09:45 AM
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If people are lonely by their own actions, that are correctable, then yes it's hard to have much sympathy for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 01:49 PM
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Unless a large percentage of your female friends are lesbians, every woman would be paired with one man in a 1 for 1. A bunch of single dudes means a bunch of single women. Most hetero women want to be in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 01:29 PM
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For kids that have their natural drive and curiosity stroked, they're the luckiest generation ever in history. For kids that don't have that part of the human brain stroked, they're gonna have a fairly rough time comparatively. Western society will wane, as it should, and eastern society will grow and lead humanity until they too succumb to decadence and it reverses again. Maybe next go around the global south leads the global trends.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 07:29 PM
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Fair enough, my understanding of the global statistics could be incorrect. Curiously what state or region are you in?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 02:28 PM
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Agreed, however there is a lot of DV between women who date women. The type of DV is low level stuff, scratches, slaps, hair pulling, weak punches, throwing things, destroying things, emotional manipulation etc. When men use DV it's much more viscerally violent and leads to hospitalizations and mending broken bones, and if not stopped often leads to death or abandonment. All DV is wrong. It should still be put into context.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 12:02 PM
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We constantly shut our immediate appetite down all day. Just as we shut down the need to poop and pee when social situations don't allow for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 11:12 AM
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Look up Indian marriage rates. Look up Indian happiness ratings.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 12:57 AM
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Both, but if you want to focus on men in America go for it. Assuming the Indian dude in question has a decent job, even if it's just helping out his uncle run a convince store or motel, he likely has romantic prospects.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 12:56 AM
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She don't like Mondays. Either a mass shooter in training, Dilbert, or an orange cat...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:42 PM
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You're so transparently disingenuous with these. Psst most 5'3 Indians in the world are married, happily so. Not just the arranged ones neither.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:40 PM
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Weird I got modded for "race baiting" for the same post lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:40 PM
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There's a joke here that I'm not gonna touch, because of a certain protective legal order against it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 12:32 PM
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https://old.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/18rsqz3/15_matches_in_2_years_how_do_i_fix_this/ Average Indian PPD man that takes the "show yourself doing your fav hobby" to heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 12:31 PM
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Dude sounds awful. I'm sure she had her own issues but this dude is definitely not marriage material.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 12:41 AM
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R/illegallysmolcats
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 08:29 PM
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u/tsquaredrecovers confirmed illegally smol girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 03:55 PM
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Back when FDS was a thing, there were a handful of women there trying to travel pill other women, similar concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 11:06 AM
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I mean you can...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 08:51 PM
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I've never competing with my long term male friends. I've competing a little bit, I good fun, with more work friends / long term close acquaintances. So heavy disagree with OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 08:51 PM
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I'm sure he's complaining and drying his tears in the 125 skirts he chased and got.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 08:36 PM
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Like what topics are coming up that she's terrible with talking about. What were the actual things she's annoyed at. People in general don't get angry over innocent questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 07:25 PM
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I remember that, that dude was easily 9/10 and probably 10/10 for 30% of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 07:23 PM
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He's allowed to say he doesn't feel abused. We just all know that's a facade.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 07:00 PM
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You can't ruin it for him if he truly thinks it was ok. Stating facts about thr abuse he suffered from is reasonable thing to do. Yes he 100% was abused.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:59 PM
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Even male models and NBA stars don't fuck that much. Thats Walt Chamberlain numbers and he had a crazy life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:55 PM
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Those stats are super weird with people breaking it down by the math. Had to have lived in multiple different cities. Has to be ridiculously attractive for 125 hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:53 PM
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Lol. It's a cute theory but doesn't work with the real world. Most fences are man made without good reasons behind them. Traditionalism didn't do things based on empirical study of good/bad outcomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:47 PM
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Examples? You're speaking in riddles which makes me take her side.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:05 PM
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Interesting. Maybe it's a left to their own devices thing? Maybe single dads are more likely to be sociopathic and kids pick up those traits( or genetics)? Most single dad raised people i know are just kind of normie MTGOWy, but not as bad as the actual mtgow types.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:02 PM
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Please render the fat and save it in a clean jar, then use that fat to fry things in. You won't regret it!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:00 PM
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Someone should build a fence around you and this Chesterton fellow.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:55 PM
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I'm joking (mostly).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:55 PM
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I mean it's fairly easy to know if someone is into you for you. Do they pay attention to subtle things you say and do, and quirks you have.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 10:51 AM
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It's increasing at the same time feminist or egalitarian men are nearly the majority of men in western nations.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 10:42 AM
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I really wish youd post a photo cuz this sounds so pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 10:39 AM
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This is the more positive version of preferences. She's lived enough to know what she wants and what type of people aren't. She knows she's quirky.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 10:35 AM
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But if you had actual scarring, that tissue may inhibit full recovery of the pain part of back problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 01:12 AM
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A lot of lesbians have foot fetishes as well. It's moderately common. I've read people talking about their early memories of feet arousal and it's often kind of weird benign association with women in their lives that took good care of them or left them with intense feelings. It's possible it's a way our human brains associate objects with feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 01:11 AM
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If the shape of the male penis head is that particular cuckold theory suggests is true, then it's a normal biological desire for most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 01:05 AM
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Roughly a billion kids grow up Vegans, more have limited meat eating occasions during the year. It's healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 12:52 AM
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It's teasing them with something they really want. Also a sneak preview.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 12:45 AM
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https://old.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/16y8h86/aita_for_telling_my_stepdaughter_boys_arent_into/ Whichever one of you posted this, they didn't fall for the bait.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 12:44 AM
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If a 40 year old dude can get quality women of his own age, let him prove it. These guys that get called groomers can't do that. They have massive flaws that older women see that younger naive women cannot see. Any 40+ year old dude that can get quality women of his own age aren't being called groomers. Women and bluepill men respect those guys. Those guys are truly good dudes that happened into a relationship with a younger woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 12:42 PM
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Surplus of men or women someone's gotta pull the poly short stick. That just a fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 08:27 PM
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Then you do you, but to me it's idiotic to be single in your 40s for long periods of time. Lots of weird shit happens in your 40s that it's nice to have someone to lean on for. Obviously if you have a good friend group that'll suffice.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 08:26 PM
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You're autistic. In the English language we sometimes say things that have a deeper meaning. I'm fine when I'm not actually fine is an insanely common thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 03:28 PM
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So drop one or all three of those criteria and I can get you a date by Saturday night. If you build walls don't be shocked when people can't get in. Im sorry it's a high bar that women can't meet. It sucks. But we deal with reality not fantasy. Yes you don't need a partner but you're gonna suffer far more without one post 40 than 30s or 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 03:16 PM
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I think you posted that stat the other day where 65% of 18 year old men are virgins, by 20 this drops to like 20%, by 27 this is down to 1.5% of men. People have a hard time understanding we can't look at these things as hard lines in the sand but instead it's a very gradual positive curve. Now, that 1.5% of virgins we can get help for. That's what this sub should be focused on. What problems do that 1.5% have? Imho short answer seems to be mental disorders and body dymorphia.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 03:15 PM
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They would 100% reject those women. We see in this sub all the time. "No I wouldn't date X woman because I eat well, exercise, make 6 figures. Yeah I'm a virgin at 30 but still, I deserve what Chad is getting." Then they go on a rant about how subhuman X women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 03:10 PM
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The theory is the accessibility of porn allows guys to not get frustrated enough to go out into the real world and try to pick up cute girls. Essentially, if you could force men into other outlets, most would choose "fuck it I'm joining X hobby group and I'm gonna hit up chicks there until one dates me."
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 03:00 PM
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How do you go from "here flowers! I like you!" To McStabby Stabberson that fast? Mental illness pure and simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 02:49 PM
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It doesn't sound dumb for the reasons you're saying it though. Statistics can be misused. In this case we should be both weary of OP and your examples. However, one of these is much more controllable than the other. I'll let you guess which.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 02:48 PM
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If you're getting zero swipes right then yeah you're genuinely an ugly dude. Average guys get a couple hundred swipes right. If you have good first msg game you get 50+ chats. If you're a great conversationalist you get 10+ dates. If you nail the dates you get short term or long term relationships. The main caveat is you do need to live in a area with lots of women online that find you attractive enough to swipe on.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 02:39 PM
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What evidence would you accept that she's telling the truth? I'm a cis het dude but he looks like a douchebag from just the photos alone. If I was female I wouldn't want to be within ten foot of him on the account I might contract an airborne venereal disease. He looks like a fuckboi.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 02:31 PM
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The open line was fine but someone suggested an even better one than that. The deep chat thing comes off Hella awkward. Genuinely surprised she msged back. She's either super bored or waaaaay into you. Work on your follow up game.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 02:25 PM
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+79528766532 This guy fucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 02:24 PM
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Something artsy or involving music. Its always impressed people going back thousands of years. Telling jokes really well.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 01:37 AM
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Im an advanced AI bot sent back from the future to study exactly how things went wrong. And r/ppd is the source.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 01:33 AM
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"Yesterday" holy shit talk about being in your own world. Wow. Unironically I do know I read about a case where a dad was refused partial custody until he could complete a simple questionnaire about his child's doctor, conditions, medications and when to take them, and some other basic but important facts. Which seems kinda reasonable if your kid has serious medical needs. He failed multiple times and I don't think he ever learned it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 01:31 AM
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black pill man hr meeting Oh shit what did you do...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 05:30 PM
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Cis het male. I'd reroll cis lesbian female. I'm friends with quite a few lesbians, and straight ftms and they seem to genuinely have so much fun with everything in life. Admittedly I wouldn't want to be this before 1990s.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:57 PM
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It's a grueling high energy job. Are you into that kind of jobs? Its also extremely rigid on your steps to take to complete a task. Are you ok without flexibility?l to do your job? It's intensive time managed. Are you OK with bring micromanaged literally down to the minute? If you are, Amazon is an awesome place to work. I have a friend that'd a supervisor on graveyard shift and he loooooves it. Best job ever for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:01 PM
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I think you should hang with some trashy people and learn how they pick mates. It's very much convenience based. Some of them would date nerds. Whether they're dating for wholesome reasons or not is a bit different question though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 08:01 PM
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I mean people have always looked for red flags, it's just easier to make a large shared list now with the internet. In the past the "ick" was only shared by your friends, maybe a random relationship book. Definitely agree with the controlling stuff but I also view that as a positive. We are more aware in a good way of when partners are controlling us to a bad degree. Some people may take this too far and are completely hands off in a relationship, but as long as you're both on that vibe, good fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 07:42 PM
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This is a really weird thought experiment but it kinda slaps. Would be interesting to see how men here answer compared to women. I haven't spent too much time thinking about it but it feels intuitively #1 is the best option. You would successfully join the group, have a fun time, might eat super light and binge on meat afterwards in the comfort of your home.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 05:22 PM
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Im in a southern city with large college. We have a game store here(several but one is the "walmart" of gaming stores, huge space...) and its almost 50/50 gender balance on Friday and Saturday nights. Women come out with friends and have fun. Now, is it hard to wedge yourself into a playgroup? Yes. It can be done though and even if that hottie big tiddy goth girl has a bf, trust me she has a single friend that she'd introduce you to if you pass the muster.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 05:15 PM
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so they just find someone they can play video games and watch anime with. This is what blue pillers have been trying to tell everyone desperate here for years. Find someone that's Not Ugly that shares your life goals and interests. That's it. If you find every girl in your hobby/lifestyle to be Ugly then yes your brain is broken and you need therapy to fix it. Most girls are mostly cute, yes even single moms and chubby chicks and 40 year old cougars.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 05:12 PM
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If nerds hung out in places those women find their mates at they'd also be fucking them ghetto women too. I can take any nerd downtown to a certain neighborhood and find them a 18 year old Hottie that would fuck his brains out. But she's also going to have awful habits and morals and will bring that guy down to her level, not the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 03:55 PM
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This is exactly right. When most men msg women it's lame stuff like we see in r/tinder. I'm average as fuck and went on a ton of good dates with other average women using apps, but I also spent tougher 2 hours a day msging different people and following up on conversations. At one point I had a unique "good morning" comment for like 10 different women. And yes more than once I'd confuse two women and say personal shit about them that wasn't correct and they'd call me out on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 03:28 PM
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Most evidence is eye witness. It sucks but it's actually less common to have solid physical evidence of a who did a crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 02:32 PM
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Agreed but the flipside is when this happens 99% of cases the female doesn't go "I was raped." When she does and she had physical evidence of it, then we gotta investigate further.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 02:32 PM
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So my current partner is fair skinned(nordic) and bruises easily. After most times we have sex she had thumb and finger bruises up and down her legs and thighs, sometimes her tits, stomach, shoulders, and upper arms and wrists. Frequent enough she's had coworkers ask if i was hitting her. Now, having said that this type of sex isn't usual in a first time.encounter with someone. You may leave a tiny bit of bruises on her legs or arms, but that should be the extent of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 02:25 PM
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I've only seen it happen when she had 2+ kids and they were very poor or struggling middle class. I've never seen a wealthier couple go through this. Never seen it happen with just 1 kid, unless they kid is a teen.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 02:19 PM
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Half-your-age-plus-seven" rule One rule of thumb to determine whether an age difference is socially acceptable holds that a person should never date someone whose age is less than half their own plus seven years.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 03:13 AM
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Not really, only 8% of women 18 to 30 are in a relationship more than 7 years apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 12:27 AM
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Lol tell me you don't actually read without telling me you dont.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 12:23 AM
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As long as it's within the age gap rule, go for it. If it's outside that, deal with the consequences of your actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 12:21 AM
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Legally this isn't true anymore. Several countries have laws that require things to be removed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 01:54 PM
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If someone posts their pics to r/cakesitting, they're expecting only humans during a small window of time will see their photos. The assumption isn't "some ai program is gonna grab these photos and forever doom my relationships into the future."
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:02 AM
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It's not an actual red flag or "bad". Even criminality might not be "bad" depending on what it is. Most criminals seem to be able to form semi healthy relationships with other people. So it is apparent that criminal actions don't prevent someone from being an acceptable partner.l, especially in the short term.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 02:58 AM
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On Bumble and Hinge. See a ton of profiles that are just chill stay home cozy in kind of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 12:37 PM
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Legally they do. If you can show neglected lifestyle changes in a child that is receiving support, judges will swiftly fuck that parent in the legal ass. Now, can this be hard to prove for Grey area cases? Yes. Should discovery and transparency in fund spending be more applicable? Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 09:42 AM
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Hahahahahhahahahahhaha. Since 2008. Dude you think we're living in a matriarchy since 2008? This is so ridiculous I hope you take a second to realize what you're saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 02:09 AM
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You married a King.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 07:38 PM
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You're just flat out wrong. Culturally and historically. Fat people in some cultures are sexier than skinny folks. This seems to be increasing. Thin guys are specifically going after attractive fat girls. They're not liking the attitudes and demeanor of skinny girls. They also like curves more than no curves.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 02:15 PM
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I wonder if guys that go after fembois tell each other to "just gymmax bro..." lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 02:08 PM
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So immature and laughable. Pussy is a top 10 thing for sure but putting it on a pedestal is like a 12 year olds wet dream. Real men don't do that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 02:08 PM
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Female perpetrator crime is significantly up though, and it's global. You're correct that it is possible all these countries are having 100+ separate causes for those stats. It is also possible there's a small number of explanations for all of the increases. More specifically when criminalogists do surveys of female violent inmates we are noticing patterns in what they say why they committed those crimes. Their reasoning is matching up with male perpetrators.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 01:45 PM
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Again in countries with large populations of fat folks, those fat folks are more often than not married and often happily so. Someone is fucking them. Someone is marrying them. I'm in the south, fat girls clean up around here and have their pick of most men. Most men date them, far more than 51%.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 01:38 PM
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I'd have to know if he accepted the outreach or not. Does he still post?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 01:31 PM
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No the study I'm referring to is post covid. The stats in 2018 are much lower than 30. Covid has changed dating some and casual hookups some. No one has released a comprehensive study on why. Obviously many theories out there. Imho women understanding their mortality a bit better may be the cause of it. We see this happen in war zones too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 01:25 PM
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She's black and likely in an area that is very non black or otherwise hostile to interracial relationships. I've also noticed that some men always assume black women already have a man. I've gotten dates with black girls in the past that were Redbone and way outta my league looks wise, but most guys would ignore them. I'd give her thr same advice I give men here. If you're truly desperate, date ppl that wanna date you. If a dudes hitting on you, flirt back and givem your number.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 01:06 PM
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That is the stat. 30% haven't had sex in a year, 70% have. The increase from 1990s to 2022 is roughly 10%. So more men are sexless, but they're still a large minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 12:59 PM
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You're missing the forest for the trees in front. The whole point is that you can be single and very happy. People used to think this was impossible or so hard to accomplish that it wasn't worth trying. Then a bunch of women tried it and like/love it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 12:41 PM
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More importantly the fact is you can be a single man or woman and also happy, that's the key takeaway from all these surveys. If you have the support system to enable that happiness for long periods of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 12:39 PM
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Actually violent crime with women is way up, both as victims and perpetrators. This is a global increase. No one can explain more violent women perps, other than perhaps it's a need based reason since women are required to be more self sufficient now.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 12:35 PM
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Severe mental illnesses and childhood trauma. Also people keep pointing out some of thr more blackpill accounts admit they grew up in broken homes with broken families.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 12:31 PM
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That dude got a ton of sympathy though... lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 12:30 PM
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No they don't. No one wants to date someone that feels fat people are gross. Same thing with Trans community and transphpbic dipshits. Same thing with POC community and racist whites(or reverse for racist POC.)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 12:28 PM
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Most people in countries where fat is normalized do find fat people attractive. Im sorry you're ignoring this fact but it's kind of hilarious that you do. Fat positivity is way more popular than you think and it's not delusional. Fat people can be sexy, they can be healthy(normal BP, normal BS, normal organ health, normal bone and joints), they can be intelligent, they can get shit done at work, they can be great moms and dads, etc. Fat people are just like you and me. No better no worse than us…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 12:27 PM
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Women are far less likely as a group to think this way towards ugly people. Women are far more likely to find beautiful things about someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 12:24 PM
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To be fair I think most western men aren't this way. Men in this community are sadly that way which partially explains their relationshipless.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 12:23 PM
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And he won't commit to a ltr. He's fine for a brief moment then women wise up. Then they get the guys that they should have all along been dating. Then statistically most have a 20+ year happy marriage or 20+ mixed happiness marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 12:20 PM
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Men. The patriarchy in most countries is dictated by male norms for behavior. Women have only just begun to have a public voice and they use that to encourage libertine behavior and heavily criticize conservative behavior. Feminists are almost all anti conservative, even 2nd wavers. The only group of feminists that support conservativism are TERFs, and their numbers are still small.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 12:18 PM
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70% of men had sex with at least one partner in the past year. Thats still an overwhelming majority. The rates may be higher across the globe.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 12:16 PM
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women..some will outright tell you that approaching women on the streets or at gym or at work is harassmen Very few women, and almost no heterosexual women say this. They may point out scenarios where they personally don't want men approaching them, and they give that as advice because other women share those feelings. Overall though tactful flirting is fine if you're a neurological male that can read body language and verbalize any issues that a woman may have. Also your knowledge of sexual nor…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 12:14 PM
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Their actions show that as well. As a whole women focus far more on not superficial and fleeting characteristics of someone for both friendship and relationships. Men also do this, but we have a greater portion that dint.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 12:07 PM
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Hahaha no. Both genders choose them out of laziness. Queer people and niche fetish people and disabled people are thr only ones using apps because of genuine necessity.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 12:16 PM
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Op sounds like a young kid that has never studied a history book on sexuality pre-20th century. Psst women have been fucking around forever. The virgin obsession is much younger culturally than promiscuity.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 12:15 PM
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Not as much as other qualities. Women know looks fade. They're hyper aware of this due to the way society sends signals to them as young girls. It's why personality is what most women will tell you is the true attractor at the end of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 12:11 PM
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If your mom or dad died, and you still need that fatherly support then finding a fatherly mentor is a positive thing. My father in law provides that for me since my dad passed. It helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 12:00 PM
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No one says this though. Not even Buddhist monks or catholic priests say this for normal folks to do. As a healthy man or woman you should have friends of the opposite gender. That's it. You should pursue romantic relationships with other people and still maintain your friendships. You should work to improve yourself internally and externally.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 11:58 AM
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Niche will.be your best bet. Also matches reality. Most peoplr outside of truly deformed people are someone's Yum. It's about finding someone that Yums you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 11:54 AM
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Both are in the wrong. Where do you see modern people saying only the man is wrong? He'll TwoX had a 500+ comment thread a while back.and the majority said it was both parties harming each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 11:49 AM
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Looks don't matter for a LTR. Looks matter somewhat for short term fun, although even then a horny girl and that funny charming dude do hook up too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 11:48 AM
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I mean they do... just look around when ya go out. I saw the wimpiest dude the other day in red Robin with a cute girl doting on him. It happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 11:43 AM
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Household stress is at all time lows for couples at the 20+ year mark.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 11:40 AM
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Your sample size is so small you can't rely on that. Its just as easily true that thr hotter girls you dated all had sexual insecurities.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 11:38 AM
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We have multiple 1000 plus peoplr surveys on this and above poster is correct. The average couple is having sex several times a month, not just 1 couple having sex all day evey day and throwing off the stats.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 11:35 AM
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Reddit is the 8th largest SM site in the world. Average people do in fact have reddit accounts. They don't post in deadbedrooms though, nor here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 11:33 AM
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I don't think so. Ask most people under age of 40 and they'll tell you there's good parts / aspects in everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 11:28 AM
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True but to a lesser extent. People already accustomed to liberalism usually don't wholesale change, unlike the opposite pipeline. Humans tend to enjoy freedoms that liberalism provide for. So a liberal to conservative still often retains certain things they liked before hand. Conservative to liberals often reject 90%+ of their previous way of thinking because stifling behaviors are less enjoyed bybhumans.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 01:28 PM
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A big thing is getting yourself invited to.hang with him and his family. How he treats you, how they treat youz and how they treat him give off a ton of info. It's one major thing that some women are too shy about now a days that women in the 60s-90s had no problem doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 02:03 AM
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Fundie Christians are having mass exoduses dude, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 02:01 AM
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Lol.even Islam is liberalizing. Even the amish and Mennonite are liberalizing. They're all finding scriptural reasons why it's ok too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 01:56 AM
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All conservative societies are losing record members. Mormons have done the best in one localized area of the world but even their numbers are slowly reversing. Islam grew but it's the more liberal forms that are taking hold outside middle east. Judaism is dying slowly. Christianity is dying. Hinduism cannot grow much more than it is(although ill agree Modi is trying to flex theirnpower right now),, Buddhism is pretty benign. Etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 01:53 AM
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Human civilization is on a perpetual liberalization. It cannot be stopped except by a global fascist organization completely taking over. The odds of that happening are very low. Lower than AI takeover. Because the type of people that get to those kinds of positions are far more liberal than kings and leaders of our past.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 01:51 AM
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You can have zero kids and still grow as a movement. See my post above. Most libs are former conservatives. Just like hetero couples produce 100% of gay kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 01:46 AM
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90% of liberals are created with in conservative households oppressing people as they grow up, and those people rejecting that ideology later on. My family is 99% republican. I'm a former republican that reformed. All my liberal friends are almost exclusively from similar households. It's actually refreshing there exists liberal households out there, and they're having 1 to 3 kids, and adopting more or mentoring more as they get older.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 01:44 AM
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Zero bash men for showing emotions in a healthy way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 01:39 AM
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95% of those ick videos are in with the joke. It's a joke. It even started as a joke. It'll end as a joke. Don't take tik tok so seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 01:37 AM
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Which is why we need to push younger men to have more platonic life long girl friends. Women's culture around men needs to change to "most guys aren't trying to fuck me". Of course the onus is on us guys to not actually be trying to fuck every friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 05:14 PM
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Cargo shorts are absolutely fine. Dudes in the south wear them of all classes and groups. Yes I'll agree that having golf shorts may give you a tiny nod to some women, but 95% of women are used to dudes wear cargo shorts and pants. Gaming is fine, but you need to tailor that to the girl you're dating. Most women grow up with some exposure to gaming now. Boardgames popularity and cross gender groups is huge in every major city. Our local game place has easily 30 women on a Friday night for magic …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 05:09 PM
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You are saying this as you look at whom she is about to marry... a skinny nerdy dorky looking pasty white dude. Girls like her would date you, assuming you have your shit together(decent job, own place, good personality. )
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 10:01 AM
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I'm 100% certain if you find s photo on tinder of a woman taking a piss people will drag that lady hard. Men often take awful photos. This isn't some vast conspiracy. Good photos get you in the door. Good conversation keeps you there or gets you that first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 10:41 PM
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All women lie? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 10:39 PM
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Convince people that their is hope and to reject the gay way. In this case gay way means red pill ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 10:38 PM
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Google graduation rates America 2022 gender
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 09:01 PM
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Again right now with 2022 stats out, men are graduating overall at 55% to 60% over women. Women enrollment is reversed, so 55%+. This may change and women graduating may increase.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 08:29 PM
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That literally came later in SM life. When SM was first released engagement wasn't focused on at all. We see this in both leaked design docs, interviews, and just generally what SM places did functionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 08:22 PM
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Im only looking top 100 because that is where trends form and trickle down. They're also more relevant because the perception of work students have to do is higher. It's also easier to find more data on them as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 08:21 PM
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Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 08:18 PM
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Hard disagree. Perfect place to chat someone up about something they've picked up. Tiny bit awkward if they're reading and you interrupt them though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 04:55 PM
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I've been friends with some sexy ass girls and yes it is platonic if yall vibe that way. It is perfectly possible for attractive people to not want to bone each other. There will be reasons why they don't of course. My best female friend from childhood she's my sister practically. Would never ever want to stick my dick in her.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 04:29 PM
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Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:01 PM
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I definitely like activity dates for first date. You get to see her personality in weird and wild scenarios and that tells you if you want to keep pursuing as ltr or just fwb.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 11:58 AM
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Sucks. They do have binders that look like camis, and depending on cup size doing the layering tight shirts thing can sometimes work. Parents suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 11:43 AM
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Thai people eat mostly veggies for most meals/ 50% of meals. Source: family is Thai, Laotian, and Cambodian.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 11:32 AM
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Social media's only purpose is to allow people to communicate with others while clicking on ads and buying advertisers products . Everything else is additional and shouldn't be associated with the core purpose of SM.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 11:31 AM
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If you are able to say "help me" and they do, then it's a mutual relationship. If you say help me and they refuse, then you know you're being taken advantage of.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 11:29 AM
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I hope more red pill and incelpill bros see your post. Frankly they need to date dudes for a while to really understand a woman perspective(ironic as that is.)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 11:22 AM
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I mean in this context it means you are super charming, funny, and not ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 11:13 AM
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Funny guys do get laid though. Maybe not as much as jocky bro dudes, but certainly enough to not be a "haven't had sex in a year" statistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 11:10 AM
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That you believe women are graduating with a degree more than men. This is currently false. It may change.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 11:04 AM
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Looking at front page very boring mainstream 4th and 5th wavers. I see 2 posts talking about internalized misogyny within themselves(5th wave some 4th idea.) I see some very mainstream discussion around India rape culture, supporting women in Iran fighting the hijab, abortion rights, some 5th waver discussion about stem vs art degree, etc. That's just the front page. I think that's a decent representation of the positives of feminist thought. There's arguably one "man hating" thread that isn't v…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 11:03 AM
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Then it isn't your scene, change to a different scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 10:56 AM
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They both have changed and we absolutely have the mental power to not give into them. Every time you refrain from shitting all over your surroundings, you fought a lower instinct for a higher one. Every time you wait to eat or only eat certain foods, you're giving over to higher brain function. Every time you don't attack someone that made you angry, or fuck/rape someone you intensely wanted to fuck, you're using higher thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 10:50 AM
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No they don't. They cherrypick interesting studies and flawed studies to support their beliefs, but ultimately red pill is very "fuck you I'm gonna do what I want" compared to PP and BP. The egoism of the red pill is self evident.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 10:47 AM
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Reproduction is equally on the man or woman. Vascectomies are at an all time low, insurance will even pay part of it. Condoms are incredibly cheap and available at every store you go to. Pull out method and tracking her period is very inconsistent, but does work to a degree. Having sex only when she's on her period is another option.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 11:33 PM
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Society has changed to allow women i the past that would have settled to a bad guy, to skip that bad guy and wait it out for a good guy. That simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 08:29 PM
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Most men are dating so that means in theory most are naturally good at it. At least sufficient enough at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 08:28 PM
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Do you have any friends to go with? Are you chatting with women and getting numbers?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 08:28 PM
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Nope. I'm giving you info to change your priors.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 08:26 PM
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No they aren't and you clearly aren't hanging with modern 4th and 5th wave feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 08:25 PM
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Just wanna say this is an amazing post and wish you were higher up. I imagine the downvotes are coming from the Usual Suspects. Very true stuff that's ignored a lot. Both you and obviousredflag. I will say that boomer men are some of the most selfish assholes that ever got lucky enough to date and marry. The non takers in today's society are the ones getting happily married. Bluepill and purple pill men mostly aren't complaining about dating outside of very specific annoyances. It's only the red…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 06:22 PM
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Pure false info. Globally every single demographic of men are in long term relationships. Including 16 to 30 year olds. "BUT what about this study/survey that days 30% of men haven't gotten laid in the past year!?" If those surveys are correct, and it's a big if, it seems like this is a post covid issue because the pre covid numbers don't show that. We know many aspects of society have changed in weird ways since 2020. We're likely in the middle of a social global upheaval. Dudes that are having…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 03:37 PM
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Lmao average guys can approach anywhere in society. Gym, church, shopping, grocery, post office. There's no rule saying you cannot. Be smooth with your approach, don't make it awkward or creepy. If you don't know thr difference, then don't approach. Yes neurodivergent guys shouldn't be relying on cold approaches since they often don't understand cute and silly vs creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 03:18 PM
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Do you genuinely not understand that thr women posting that a 25 year old is still a child would be extremely against that woman doing a 80 person gangland? Like dude, the people ok with sex work like that aren't the ones pearl clutching over age dating ranges in the 10+ year range.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 03:11 PM
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It would fundamentally change how we view him. I'm a sam harris guy. Sam has spoken a lot about determinism and how it appears that we don't have any sort of free will. From scientific experiments this seems to be the case. It doesn't mean Dahmer isn't guilty of his crimes. It does however change how we view his behavior and ultimately his sentencing. Women have biological and higher brain needs. Sometimes they do good with these. Sometimes bad. Same with men. Not all women are chasing chad(roug…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 02:46 PM
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No we don't. We try to follow with the latest sociology and psychology studies being done. We change our ideas about things as new data is analyzed. No not perfectly instantly so. And yes everyone had personal exceptions to this rule on certain issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 02:39 PM
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Humans have consistently demonstrated we can go beyond our base instincts and desires. We've done so for every thing that we've figured out how to control. Our dating desires have changed significantly in just 6000 years of the agricultural revolution. Society today looks so much different than our tribal past. Everyone is ultimately an unique person. Yes this means we can still group some behaviors. Yes we can identify trends. These concepts arent mutually exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 02:37 PM
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Not a single pp or bp person is gonna tell you that. You should always put yourself first in the meta sense of that concept. Without your healthy existence there's nothing at all. However, we expect you to put that in perspective and if you're married put your wife second on that list of hierarchy in your life. Arguably it's a toss up if your kids or wife get 2nd priority, and that comes down to personal preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 02:30 PM
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If you want to keep thinking that this stuff is hardwired go for it. It'll just make you have even more issues finding a partner as more women become feminized and reject such ridiculousness.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 11:17 AM
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Lol that's not what those adrenal hyperplasia studies showed at all. This is once again the case of weird red pillers taking a hypothesis and treating it as inconceivable truth that has no other explanation or data going against it. When in fact we do.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 11:00 AM
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This is false. The larger unis have so many more professors and admin that it diversifies the opinions you see within any department. This is true for all top 100 schools.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 10:57 AM
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Google search will get you additional studies that debunk or put a dent in them those studies. Also looking at modern tribal studies of children's play and how child hierarchies work when kids become more free to roam and play. There is no known mechanism that would make girls play with dolls and boys, especially monkeys, want to play with human "male" toys.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 10:50 AM
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If you look at public gender info for graduates(this is the key statistic,.not enrollment) for top 100 academic schools in America you see it's a slight 55% male overall, and most schools are 45/55 rather than 40/60 or greater. Only 10% of schools are lopsided one way or another, and when they are it's because it's a historical all girls school, or HBS.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 10:41 AM
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Doesn't make sense. Also doesn't match up with how resilent sperm are in most vaginas. It is a funny ass but poorly understood hypothesis.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 01:26 AM
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You do realize the studies on this are mixed right? Even the primate studies of young apes was mixed. It is likely cultural though, because we know in some cultures dolls and "bang clank" toys don't exist and all gender kids play the same games. Some tribes don't even associate children with a clear gender role, and others do.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 01:15 AM
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Feminist academics are not that way at all. Especially at the bigger unis.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 01:10 AM
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20% is completely scoffable. Remember since the 1600s uni was 99% male dominated without complaints from men. Feminists push for equality and it takes over 90 years to get to a 40/60 split, and that's only for some unis not all.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 09:50 PM
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Everyone is better off with psychology concept understandings and some form of yhetapy throughout their lives. Its a net gain for society.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 09:48 PM
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Lol @ buys books and gets therapy to solve issues. That's a self own if you think those are negatives.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 07:00 PM
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Work statistically is not a HR gauntlet. It's rare for some thing to develop at work and not lead to a serious relationship. It also rarely ends in conflict, and if your company is big enough you both get moved to New positions and thr problem is solved. This is fear for fear sake. University even skewed ones are still 45% male. Very few are skewed more than that, and when they are it's places that were already very female dominated. She is absolutely there to meet cool people while volunteering…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 05:12 PM
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Not gonna lie, I kinda assumed you were big into cosplay and Renaissance type stuff already. You give off "horse girl" vibes for sure.(which is a good thing imho)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 03:58 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/amiugly/comments/16hckxw/26f_i_just_cant_tell_and_i_receive_very_mixed/ Finally saw a truly average or even below average post over there. I will say a styling, better brows, better hair, and losing weight I sort of can see how she'd improve to solidly cute average to maybe even low above averages. I see girls and women like her all the time with average to below average dudes. They both seem happy at least in public. I doubt she's wishing to fuck Chad. She's genuinely h…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 03:47 PM
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Bumble alone is wrong, most women send 2 sentences to 1 full paragraph on first couple of messages. We know this from simply analyzing the data they've released and that people have posted of their match rates. Bumble isn't perfect but it's way better than just "hi" you do see on tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 03:37 PM
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Most heterosexual men including average dudes are slaying it by the global stats we can look at. Most people, men and women, will have multiple 5+ year relationships by the time they die. Starting in your teens to 40, you're likely to have the bulk of your romantic courtship. After 60 you may meet 1 more long term partner until you die. It's hard to date in that we still have barriers up between the genders that feminists are trying to crumble. It's a slow go on getting societies to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 03:35 PM
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Why do you believe average and below average guys here are having difficulty dating? I'm bluepill so frankly those things you comment on are all true from my pov. Im.an average dude that's had success on dating apps, even tinder pre covid, and I'm definitely nothing special to look at or be around. I just spent 1+ hour a day texting women that I thought were in my league, asking them on a proper exciting date within 3 to 5 days of chatting, and being as personable on that date as I can be. On th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 03:00 PM
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You're so mentally frail you cannot see that yes you have some value to someone in the world if you only took the effort to find them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 05:47 PM
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That cannot be possible. Even down syndrome people date other down syndrome folks. There are women with your issues or would ignore your issues for you to date. 3.5 billion women on earth. You're attractive to someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 04:30 PM
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Use your words how.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 04:25 PM
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You have emotional/ mental issues that any normal BMI woman is going to immediately pick up on, and not want to date you because of it. Fat girls will overlook your issues because they are also desperate for a man to share their lives with. If you want to be alone forever, then don't ever date a abnormal BMI thick girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 04:24 PM
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That's my impression too. "I'm a 40 year old virgin I should date super models".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 04:22 PM
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Right, which is normal in any family if any kid is being particularly crybaby behavior over things that we are trying to steer kids to a better way of acting. It wasn't being targeted over your maleness, and if it was, then you had a shit family.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 04:20 PM
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Then you keep going down the list of groups of women to target for attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 04:19 PM
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Not if you plan it right...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:13 PM
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100% Aussie attitude and accent. Exploit that for as long as you can. How would you compare chubby chicks from Australia compared to American? Attitude wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:07 PM
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Overseas. They're gonna appreciate you so much more than your countrymen.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:05 PM
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100% of average guys that take the necessary steps to find someone that wants to have casual fling with them, do so. Most average guys(51%+) are getting laid by not putting in the full effort. Necessary steps are appearing attractive enough to women in your social circle that find you attractive enough to fuck. Every circle is different, so each criteria is a bit different.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 02:51 PM
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No mom in the history of the shittiest moms that have ever existed have told their sons "you're too old to cry". That just does not happen in the modern Era of parenting. Even shitty as southern traditional moms don't say that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 01:20 PM
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No. Honey. No. Our understanding of evolutionary biology is that mutations can happen randomly with no "reason" other than the physical properties of how cells mutate. Reason is not apart of evolution. Many irrational illogical creatures have existed and then died out or thrived. Many weird things are left to be discovered and some won't ever be but we can theorize them. There is no mechanic ism in the human genome for beautiful people to create more female offspring. None. It is completely rand…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 12:51 PM
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Feminine dudes are absolutely slaying in the dating marketplace right now. Teen and 20 something women are fawning over femme Korean boys, hetero twinks, and whatnot.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 12:47 PM
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They're all obviously joking. Even the "guys who are nice" girl is memeing. She's clearly talking about dudes that simp hard and drool over a girl. Not just general niceness.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 12:42 PM
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Even more hilarious the post below you doesn't get the joke of it either. Men ITT literally can't understand that no, women aren't judging you for using an umbrella in the rain. It's a funny silly meme. It'll grow to 1000+ icks and they're all funny as fuck. Men are also posting icks and they're funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 12:41 PM
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I've even had women pay for the entire date before. Which the last survey that came out put that statistics in low 20, high teens. And I'm Def not a Chad. Women that work hard and appreciate a good man will go the extra mile now a days. And yes OP, we are already moving to a 51/49 kind of a societal dating expectations. More women are planning dates. More women are asking guys out. The numbers arent the majority.. but no change is overwhelming overnight. It's slow growth.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 12:18 PM
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Maybe it's a southern thing but those ugly fat dudes with girlfriends, the gfs are genuinely cute often times.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 10:26 AM
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Most men here have terribly unrealistic standards. If you're a single dude in your mid to late 20s and 30s, the majority of women in your area that want to date you are gonna be chubby to fat to obese women. Single moms. Older women looking for a young stud. Also non white women. That's gonna be your 4 top "groups" of women interested in you because you have very low SMV. Doesn't matter how many hours at the gym you give a week. Doesn't matter your 6 figures. You're a desperate dude without any …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 10:23 AM
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If you're a lonely desperate dude you should be dating single moms, fat chick's, and older chicks. So I disagree with OP. There are some men that should be lowering their threshhold for dating and then getting that relationship experience so they can truly figure out what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 10:19 AM
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Example? In my experience feminists are used to extreme pushback and have great arguments on why thr pushback arguments are wrong. Feminists have won far more meta arguments than they've lost. 3rd, 4th 5th wavers specifically. 1st and 2nd wavers have dated arguments for new problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 08:25 PM
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I wrote more but here is tldr... No, women tell truth roughly same as men on average. No, women stick by people even if they neglect ticking clocks. No women are very supportive. No women's positive traits are beyond just sexual value. Women can be very reasonable, arguably more likely to compromise than men. All things beind equal. Some of human history yes. Most of it No. Most men don't wear masks and are very blunt about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 06:33 PM
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Curiously where did you rank my post to your questions?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 05:42 PM
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They don't in this context. Are you seriously suggesting women riding the train for work purposes are routinely groping men on those trains? We are specifically talking working women, not homeless women or mentally ill women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 04:20 PM
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I completely support hour right to have male only train cars and male only busses. But can we walk though this hypothetical? What would happen if we had male only transportation? You'd get robbed or assaulted by another male. Why? Because for very shitty reasons males tend to be more violent in this context. How can we prevent those males from rising with you, and I, the nonviolent males? Specifically what method can we use that would solely rely on physical appearance?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 04:15 PM
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That's not how biology works and definitely not how humans work dude, lmao. Nature sometimes ends up with animals that don't breed efficiently and die out, or change into a new lifeform to keep going.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 12:57 AM
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There's no guarantee to anything in life except an eventual death. Yes it requires effort to get "bjs from fatties", just like it takes effort for most relationships in life. Btw do you know seriously see how dehumanizing and fucked up your phrasing is?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 12:55 AM
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Which way?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 12:52 AM
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No, the general rule was women fought alongside men. Tribal warfare especially.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 09:04 PM
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I think you mean cucked! Just say it with ya chest out.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 08:13 PM
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General population of men that aren't red pilled. Like if i asked you what are red pill men doing wrong in dating I think most women in this sub would name about a dozen things off immediately. So flipping that around, what are BP dudes doing wrong in the dating scene?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 08:13 PM
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Look up women's roles in ancient warfare. Tribal up until ww2. You'll be shocked to find out women did a lot of thr fighting too, depending on what Era we want to snapshot for discussion. Im talking physical fighting not just behind thr lines supporting. Admittedly the closer to ww2 we get the more behind the lines fighting we see women doing. Read about women's roles in sieges. Any Era. Also if you wanna deep dive this look into childcare responsibilities in tribal communities. Especially South…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 07:58 PM
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Unironicslly yes. Talk to some goldstar lesbians about how their relationships vary with other goldstars vs bisexuality women or non gold star lesbians. It's a world of difference. The trauma and emotional baggage non goldstars have is tremendous. Also to the above poster, yes male DV victim rates are much higher than reported. Not sure how that helps your argument but if it does, then yes it is true. Some DV violence isn't spousal, it's from someone living in the same home. Could be children, c…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 07:49 PM
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Because a significant amount of Trans men are having babies and its easier to include them with birthing persons that calling them something they're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 07:29 PM
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From my limited understanding there's a ton of dating going on with Facebook. Both new relationships and old "we went to hs together... let's reminisce!" Rype situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 07:16 PM
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Heck some of the cheapest most fun dates I've gone on with women has been single moms. They're just happy as fuck to be out of the house with an adult man that wants to wine and dine them, pays attention the stresses in their life, and wants to be a destressor for them. Yes I mean short term and long term dating. They're also insanely understanding of keeping to a budget, with the rare woman that doesn't understand that and is in a ton of debt herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 07:15 PM
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I agree. Unless they were doing the "walk 15000 miles a day European" trip and literally too exhausted to get a hardon thing... which they aren't. They're sitting at a nice beach resort somewhere. Some type of sexual contact every day should be what both people desire in a newly we'd marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 04:35 PM
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Yes. Some small to medium percentage are RP conservative types. The rest are mainstream bluepillers. BP in this context is just normies.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 04:29 PM
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Lmao birthing persons is a more accurate term for the reality of western pregnancies.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 04:28 PM
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They should. Femcels should date guys that aren't "perfect" in their eyes. Which will include short dudes, fat dudes, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 04:27 PM
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Don't be dad. Also why aren't you dating at all? This is literally one of the best times to learn about yourself in a relationship and you seem like a quirky cool person that would probably make some quirky chill dude a happy bf.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 02:52 PM
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Mainstream culture where? In America people are taught to treat people well and not let their gender/sex get in the way of their desires, assuming those desires are somewhat obtainable. Women should offer more to a relationship than just one facet of who they are. Same for men. RP is dumb and doesn't understand basic sociology or biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 02:39 PM
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Nope, at one time my ex was a top 30 smut writer on goodreads(?) And Amazon. She was supplementing a couple thousand extra a year from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 02:36 PM
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I mean you're not wrong but I do flat out tell these dudes to date fat chick's or skinny single moms. They need the experience of being with someone because of how emotionally stunted they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 02:28 PM
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If you're desperate for companionship, male or female, you should date fat dudes or fat girls. It's that simple. You should date single dads or moms. You should date anyone that will date you, so you can get experience of what a relationship is like. You should build upon those relationships in a healthy morally humanistic way. You should eventually find the person you can go long term with, through learning process of dating lots of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 02:26 PM
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Who do you think the 70% of men having sex are? Blue pill men don't have any major issues getting girlfriends or wives. It's why you don't see us posting on incel forums. Also why you don't see lefties posting on these subs often, we don't have issues finding someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 02:18 PM
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You do realize it's hundreds of different people right? I'm gonna blow your mind by of the 7 billion people on earth there are probably 50 billion "ICK" factors that people have.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 02:13 PM
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https://old.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/16cvyd7/its_our_f27m30fourth_day_of_being_married_and_i/ The greatest troll account in thr history of reddit? It's literally amazing to read the updates. Better than any trashy romance novel.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 02:03 PM
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Shhhh. Remember oppressor vs oppressed rhetoric is "wrong and not factual" says PragerU.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 01:42 PM
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I may be able to explain. In a relationship there are daily, weekly, monthly, and yearly things that need to be thought of and implemented. From chores to food to vacations to big life events around kids and deaths in the family. Women tend to do a lot of the planning, worrying, and implementation of these things. Men in my family do very little of the mental load stuff. They work hard and play hard. That's all they do(and keep the grass cut.) Does this make sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 01:40 PM
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Relationships between humans includes far more brain-powered interactions than base instinct or "animalistic" impulses. Im speaking to you right now using higher brain functions. I don't want to bash your brains in or fuck your pussy/ass rn. Even if you were the most attractive person on earth. I'd still be interacting with you in a complicated, non "attraction" based way.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 08:00 PM
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A man... why would I get reported for gender? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 07:53 PM
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No, women seek truth just as men do. Nope, any loving woman sticks by her man through thick and thin. Nope see above. Nope. Nope, wealth in a relationship is mutual aid. Women are likely more reasonable in most conflicts than men's conflict resolution is. I see women compromising positive outcomes more often than Men. Could be cultural though. Nope, while sex is super important humans are the least sexual animal species on earth. We are able to have other more higher desires. We all wear masks t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 01:16 PM
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The problem is contacts do exist to change brown to another color. Pain the ads but it's fixable. They don't truly want to fix it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 12:36 PM
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Another thing is body dysmorphia. I spent some time on the bigger incel forum and thr common trait with posters there was obsession with their physical "deformities."
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 12:34 PM
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It's wrong because it had no significant bearing on a relationship nor the personality of a person. We are brains with complex thoughts, not just "a pretty nose and face", or "big tits and nice ass", or "6'3!"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 12:30 PM
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Then make sound arguments that don't sound misogynistic or bitter. It's simple.
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/23 03:44 PM
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The vast majority of 5 7 brown men in this world have partners. Clearly those two factors don't prevent you from having a partner. You're talking about out of touch when you can't even acknowledge the facts. Before you say "well in thr country I am now..." I guarantee you whatever country you're in most brown men are in a relationship.
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/23 03:41 PM
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"Fat single moms are hot as long as they're not combative."
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 03:22 PM
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If all women become feminists, then they're fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 03:19 PM
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Such bait. If your wife has given you zero reason to suspect, you don't get a test. If the baby comes out looking wildly different, then get a test.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 03:17 PM
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I can't say you're wrong, since that 7% would include 25 year olds, but it also highlights how absolutely rare it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 03:09 PM
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No they don't. They need great photos, catchy profile, and they need great openers and conversation if she takes thr hook.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 01:18 PM
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Yet if you look at ancient civilizations or modern heavily patriarchal ones, yhr opposite is true. Men are the top of the social and empathy food chains in India, China, most of thr middle east, most of Africa, a huge chunk of south america, and most Polynesian cultures.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 01:11 PM
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You can voice train for a deeper normal voice. It'll be about 6 to 8 months of training every day and you'll love thr results. Do you have the commitment to do so?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 12:55 PM
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Only 7% of men don't have at least 1 long term relationship by the time they die. Unless you're horribly disfigured or have thr worst personality ever, you'll meet someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 12:53 PM
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Lmao so you switched from a mainstream leftist pov on issues to a redpiller just because some group of leftists you talked to werent super up to date on problematic things women say? Dude you never were a leftist.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 12:49 PM
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Lmao. It's hard to tell if this is sarcasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 04:25 PM
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Bullshit. People had their own hedonism in the past. My grandfather did any thing he wanted when my uncles and aunts were young. He worked hard, he played hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 02:03 AM
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They would likely find a guy(or multiple) that share their outlook on life, and could settle down happily with their bros and live their lives without "terrible women" messing with them. There's plenty of careers where you're around 95% men as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 02:56 PM
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Why would I get banned for an opinion based on our understanding of human sexuality? Studies show most people are some level of bisexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 02:54 PM
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Am I the beta bux in this scenario? Lol. From what she tells me, she's fantasizing about me most of the time and occasionally another woman/fantasy creature(think vampire/werewolf/gargoyle).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 08:21 PM
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There's nothing wrong with being gay. Even if conversion therapy is 100% possible, it shouldn't be done towards lgbt folks because nothing is wrong with being that way. There's something wrong with hetero men that hate, deeply loathe, women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 08:15 PM
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I mean it literally. This is for thr blackpool or MTGOW types though. The extreme misogynistic guys that hate everything women are, or their idea of what women are. If your hard-core MTGOW, yes you should date other men. Sexuality is fluid. No one is 100% gay or atraight when theyre desperate like these guys are, especially when considering there's 7 billion people out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 08:10 PM
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Well I'm impressed, outside of my wife most women I've been with need a lot more time. My wife's only reason she can orgasm quickly is she's usually been fantasizing for a hour or more before hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 03:55 PM
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Only in a teenagery way. Certain things you post are gonna be on your cringe meter in like 5 years. We all go through that though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 03:43 PM
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Most women actively discourage it. Some red pill women encourage it but they're a minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 02:26 PM
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There are almost no women Cumming in 5 minutes without a fuckton of foreplay.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 01:45 PM
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So because I'm a feminist you can't address any of the points I raised? Lol. You should be praising me for admitting female toxicity definitely exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 01:43 PM
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That is dumb. Im a male feminist and I talk about toxic femininity any time it gets brought up with examples. R/menslib have had threads on it. Some other leftist subs have discussed it. Toxic masculinity and toxic femininity are both real things. Since most societies are still patriarchal or have systems in place constructed when they were patriarchal, we are gonna discuss masculinity more often. As societies become dominated by feminine people and ideas, we will discuss the flaws in those new …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 12:25 PM
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I think anyone picking NK family should have to sign up for 6 months minimum of therapy where the first session is explaining this hypothetical and why you chose it. Guarantee every good therapist in the world would go on to accurately diagnose you with some kind of major psychological issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 12:20 PM
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Hahaha sadly true, but luckily it's just PPD and RP men that are like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 08:13 PM
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I guess I would. If you lived in the same town as Amber, you found her attractive, you're single in a desperate way(it's harming you physiologically to be single), then yeah you should date her and see if her behaviors have changed or not. It is possible, although improbable, that she could be a good partner to you. Of course this is an absurdist premise. In general though desperate lonely men should be dating anyone and everyone that also wants to date them. Even if they don't think they want t…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 08:11 PM
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It's not hard. Some men refuse to follow the advice given, thus they don't get laid. If you live In a conservative area and want to date conservative girls, acting like XYZ will get you laid. If you live in a liberal area and want to date liberal chicks, act like ABC. If you want to date goths, be what goth girls like. If you want to date nerdy girls, be what nerds like. Choose 1 or 2 niches and be the best version of that you can be. You will get laid assuming you're in social groups with girls…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:43 PM
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Women do admit they don't find looks to be the deciding factor in attraction. It helps, more of a "get foot in door easier" kind of deal. However you can be an ugly dude with an amazing personality and career and you can land an average or above average woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:35 PM
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Going purely by global statistics nearer to 100% of all men eventually have multiple 10+ year relationships before they die. It's actually extemely rare for a man or woman without any significant mental or physical disfigurement to not have several relationships before they die. Yes even younger guys will eventually meet someone and settle down.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:31 PM
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Same. My coworker soes local rodeos and we are far from the Midwest. The better analogy would be "I'm looking for a girl that knows how to work on cars" of which there are some cute chick's out there that grow up with a dad that teaches them to love car culture. Yes it's a needle In haystack but some ppl are looking for that. One of my wife's friends is a fairly big female youtuber mechanic and she absolutely slays at finding very handsome dudes within that world of suped up cars.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 06:37 PM
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I mean they made a successful movie about that...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 06:25 PM
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Most businesses have made workers come into work 2 or more days put of the week. I doubt most single guys are ordering Walmart pickup and never going into a single store.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 05:24 PM
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Yes and yes. I have a truck driver friend that cohabitation with 2 different women throughout the year. He still calls himself single. You can imagine both women think they're dating him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 05:23 PM
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If you're in thr south they are. Now, are they marrying super models? NO. They're marrying normal female versions of themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 10:58 AM
1

Your friend group is having zero female contact right now or is having fun just not locked into relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 10:56 AM
2

All functional humans have to leave he house to buy food and go to work. Even single bros.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 10:52 AM
2

Yup, they count people with multiple divorces within the overall divorce stat, which skews the numbers. Adjusting for chronic divorcees, the actual divorce rate is low 20%. Add in early spousal death by misadventure or health problems, and it goes lower.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 10:50 AM
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It should also be noted that we should look at global statistics as well. Which paints a very normal picture in 95% of countries that report on this sort of thing. At worse there might be 5 countries on earth with weirdly skewed dating stats, and 1 of those countries accidentally did it to themselves with a 1 child policy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 10:47 AM
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Actually it's super simple. In the past men would claim they're in a relationship due to social factors pushing them to say that. Now a days men are in situations hips that don't qualify as relationships in their minds. So they report they're single. These surveys also rarely have "I'm currently fucking multiple girls" as an option to pick.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 10:44 AM
1

You think the males here would ever sink so low to go to a yella belly, liberal, feminist blue-hair lezzie commie college?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:25 AM
1

If youre always getting ghosted, bro, it's you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 10:38 PM
1

How did he prove to Hinge she attacked him? What a weird story.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 10:37 PM
1

Plebians that think they know more about the biochemistry within the human brain and how it affects our decision making and thought processes, are truly the worst kinds of people. You're willfully ignorant and happy about it. Academics get this correct. Our needs are far more complex than just "eat, shit, fuck." They've been more complex for tens of, if not hundreds of thousands of years.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 06:44 PM
1

Unfortunately yes, BP to those types of people just mean opposite of red pill content.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 06:42 PM
0

So why aren't single dudes dating older women? Beggers can't be choosers. If your peers are dating older then you have to date older too or be single. If you refuse to date dateable women, and yes older women are dateable, then you can't complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 10:58 AM
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Very few women report being in a known soft harem/poly situation. These things are men lying and dating multiple women at the same time without knowledge of the others.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 10:46 AM
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The 80/20 thing is brought up literally all the time in this sub. Some men here genuinely believe this horseshit. On all long term, comprehensive studies 93% of everyone in the world have multiple long term relationships by the time they die. It is extremely common. Yes there are some weird stats in some countries at some periods of time. Ukraine for example right now, or western Russia are gonna report abnormal stats due to war.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 10:43 AM
1

It's almost like societies for the past 500+ years have been dealing with massive racial problems and conflicts between cultures... Almost like changing context around a particular thing also changes the meaning and nuanced points around that thing...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 04:31 PM
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No we don't think it's a problem. You're literally complaining about 8%. That is an extremely small gap that will fluctuate over the years to various factors. Would you be complaining ad loudly if it was 8% gap the other way? I wouldnt.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 02:26 PM
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Source is his ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 10:46 AM
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Point out the irrationality of that position. OP flat out lying about custody rates, 50/50 divorce, and both the history and current legal practices around custody.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 10:46 AM
1

Because men don't frame it as "this is how I feel", they frame it as "we should change society to make our feelings valid."
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 10:32 AM
1

Homebodies are online. So pick your hobby and talk to ladies doing it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 10:26 AM
1

This goes against every woman I've ever met. Women want solutions, they just don't accept one's given by men that don't match up with what they're looking for in aaln acceptable solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 10:22 AM
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I mean Wiccan and atheism are much more alike than if she was tradcath. Both sides fundamentally believe "live and let live". And most likely you and her would agree on other things like abortion, tax rates, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 10:20 AM
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I think he's basing it off women are cautious of all men, when statistically they should only be cautious of 10 to 20% of men. Except that's a bad argument due to the way we treat rare events in thr human brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 02:29 PM
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Examples? Paranoia in this case doesn't mean extreme paranoia. Just normal moderate paranoia.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 02:28 PM
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To be honest men should be doing this too. But we tend to be prideful and think we can beat up someone if they mess with us. When in reality most men are going to lose a fight to a predator.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 02:27 PM
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Women can vibe a person's attitude through body language and other non physical facial attractiveness ways. Note they don't do this perfectly, they make mistakes with it, but they still attempt to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 02:23 PM
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Most do, at least in Southern America.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 02:20 PM
1

OP I've got good news for you. There are newer programs targeting men to get into certain industries, just like IT for women. Nursing right now has a critical shortage of men. All types of nurses are needed. Male teacher programs pay you extra. We need more male teachers and some districts are paying a premium. There are other industries like this, admittedly less than thr female program ones, but I think it's logical to get women more involved in lumberjacking compared to more men in child care…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:10 PM
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Did you read any of the top comments? They did offer him some great advice and there was a very good discussion about how to make the algorithm work on his behalf. Many people pointed out he likely got flagged as a bot because of his wiping obsession.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:44 PM
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You genuinely don't love your grandma the same as your child? Maybe this is a weird cultural thing, but as a southern American I love my grandmother the same way I love my mom and dady, my uncles, my great grand parents(even ones I never met), and my children. Without my grandmother my children don't exist. I don't exist. I love her exactly the same way, would do anything for my child or grandmother. If you presented a trolley problem with granny on one side and child on other, I would be paraly…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:38 PM
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Women don't work this way. They fundamentally find non physical attributes to be the driving factors in attraction. We see this in every PPD women's thread. Attraction, especially of the "I want a relationship with this person..." level is NOT purely physical in nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:15 PM
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That flies in the face of reality. If a 5/10 guy managed to score a relationship with a 10/10 woman, he would for status and personal gratification reasons want to keep her. He wouldn't pump.and dump her for a 5/10 woman he wants to settle down with. He aint doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 11:31 AM
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Hard disagree. Several of them would be more attractive with more curves. We're talking 150 to 180 range not 200+.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 11:22 AM
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Why would 40+ be a disqualifer if you're in desperate mode.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 02:15 AM
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Because you're looking at group vs individual statistics. Also something something bell curves.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 02:15 AM
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Video games are a turn on for geeky girls, problem being a lot of men for whatever reason don't pursue those types of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 12:41 PM
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One and two both look like fuckbois and 3rd guy gives the creepy white guy vibe from his photos and bio. He's trying too hard in an unnatural way. I would be genuinely shocked if 1 and 2 didn't get ONS or date potential irl dating scene. Both are attractive enough for some types of women to pursue them. I would presume there's something going on why they're failing to connect via text or videochat. Rock climbing dude should be able to pick up a LTR in the female rock climbing community pretty ea…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 12:38 PM
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Also those friendships often lead to those women hooking you up with single girlfriends that they think we'd connect with you, or turn into romance after time and trials of life happen. Worst case scenario you end up a well rounded dude with cool female friends. Best case is lifelong happiness or misery in marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 12:02 PM
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I don't think any red or black pillers have moderated themselves. I'm sure a few BP have just given up or become cynical that red pill minded folks will ever see the light.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 02:18 AM
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You can tell people in a tactful mature way.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 11:55 PM
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Newer lesbians are huge fans of open relationships. Every lesbian I know under the age of 25 is in an open or previously in an open relationship. Queer young folks are exploring the lifestyle of it. Whether they maintain that into their 30s and 40s will have to wait and see. Older lesbians are fairly closed off.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 11:48 PM
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I have never seen a blue piller say people shouldn't work on themselves nor listen to what women say they're looking for in a life mate. Please link some posts suggesting the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 12:55 AM
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It is gross if women are overwhelming saying they don't want men like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 12:45 AM
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Telling men that they need to be more egalitarian in this modern society we've created is not emasculation. If it was, that would highlight incongruity with modern masculinity. Instead modern masculinity is evolving to bring new philosophies into its core foundations, and I think a lot of it has been positive. Also it's not gaslighting when we see things fundamentally different than you do. If I see blue and you see red, and we have no objective way to measure it, then we are having a disagreeme…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 12:39 AM
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Not quite true now a days, lots of relationships are created online but at some point someone has to pull the trigger and ask the other person out.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 01:06 PM
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Complete autistic nerd that grew up with his dad and had very little contact with his mother or other women. Just generally clueless about the world as well, let alone girls. Have tried setting him up with cute chubby nerdy girls in our friend groups and they always bail after the first date. He refuses to change anything about himself. Anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 01:05 PM
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Men always jave options. Become asexual, bisexuality, gay, stop caring about it so obsessively, etc. All are possible if someone truly desires change in their lives. Humans are very malleable when they choose to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 02:45 AM
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Last i checked being a top CS student does get you laid, within the circle of geeky girls that like that sort of a thing. It's really only the poor CS nerd at the bottom of their class that also lacks many other qualities that would attract a woman to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 06:36 PM
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Except as soon as you take those women into the real world they settle down with their looksmatch or lesser looks person that brings something special to the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 06:32 PM
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Honestly too many people are wrapped up in their own shit to heavily date or focus on dating ad top priority. Too many men are complaining about their testosterone levels making them so blindly horny all the time when women are happily single in their 20s, enjoying life with their girlfriends and vibes. Men need to get their own form of vibes and boy friends to hang out with. Stop being obsessed and controlled by your primal biology. We are the only creature on earth that have the ability to rat…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 06:31 PM
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Wtf I'm agreeing with an alphasupremacy post?!?! What a weird 2023!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 11:16 AM
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The exception ti this rule imho, is when a woman sees the same guy over and over, building familiarity with them and some level of comfort with them. Then that guy, if she finds him interesting or attractive, has a shot to take.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 11:05 AM
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Fair enough, but if you talked to your close girlfriends you'll see that most of them don't suffer thru that same issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 10:24 AM
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A fat old high n woman had to be fucking someone to be high N. Who was she fucking?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 12:44 PM
0

Have you been to any redneck or poor black neighborhoods? Some of the ugliest guys have women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 12:36 PM
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Please link these "Dahmer is sexy" tiktoks with millions of likes. You can find some with thousands of likes, and maybe that is more than it should be, but it also demonstrates the extremely small amount of women attracted to that kind of brutality.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 12:33 PM
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Women do not have issues as a whole switching between mom and sexual beings. Some women do, but they're not the majority of women worldwide.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 12:12 PM
1

What political ideology does a "left leaning" person have to you then?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 11:28 PM
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Id need to talk to the 44.70% to know if they are truly leftists. I personally have never encountered a bluepill incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 01:28 PM
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No woman is taking more than a few months off of work for pregnancy, definitely not 9 months lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 12:10 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/gallery/101v8qd Do not go harass this random couple, you maniacs. I live in the south and see quite a lot of couples like this, or reverse thin woman and chunky big guy. They're nerdy in the modern sense of the term. They seem very happy and "meant for each other." They often don't meet until their late 20s or early 30s, where they happen to meet and happily date. Also see a lot of rich couples(by local standards) that are looksmatched. See a lot of trashy rednecks togethe…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 11:40 AM
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Ask the 30% of women also not dating what they need to see in a partner. Oh right, when women do post here what they look for in a mate they get called liars or worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 02:24 PM
0

How big is the city you're in?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 02:15 PM
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That third of sexless guys are the ones that don't try very much self improvement. They have bad opinions on things, they don't dress well, they don't clean up well, and they don't offer women anything atm. Fixable things.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 02:14 PM
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99% of men that use a variety of websites and hobby avenues online will end up with a girlfriend or multiple over the course of their lives. With the caveat that those men have attributes that women in their online sphere are looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 02:06 PM
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She wants you though. You're the man she was looking for that entire time. You win. Those other guys lost her. You are the King in her world.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 01:52 PM
1

Great analogy even if I disagree with your conclusions. When we look at underemployed vs not employed vs employed numbers for most industrial nations we see way more positive numbers than negatives. If you live in France and you want to work, as long as you keep your options open you will find work at a reasonable pay. If you hyper fixate on only one type of job then you may lose out, or have to "take out loans" to get that job you desire. Take out loans in dating context means changing your per…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 01:47 PM
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Do you accept the argument that both groups will be in the high 60% range short term and 99% range long term? That both groups will eventually find a life mate, although one group may do so quicker or easier?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 01:31 PM
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Agreed so why don't we discuss and analyze the type of guy that does poorly nowadays. From this subs posters claiming they are having issues, they seem to be hyper conservative minded men, trad cons essentially, but claim they aren't "religious enough to go to church to meet someone." Well duh, ofc you're gonna have issues dating when the majority of secular women are anti tradition, even the anti feminist type women are very opposed to traditional conservativism. I'm a bigger feminist than my w…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 01:23 PM
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I'd argue most women worldwide are attracted to most men in their locale. We see this factually with marriage and LTR rates around the globe. As long as there is a 1 for 1 possible(and most people are currently heterosexual.) There are some wonky areas around the globe that have more women or men, outnumbered the opposite sex. These are exceptions to the rule. Physical appearance carries some weight, it's just not more than 40% for the majority of women looking for LTR. The baseline for appearan…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 01:15 PM
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The only negative blue pill brings to the market place is if the idea that "social media has fundamentally changed how people interact with one another!" Idea ends up being true or false. I've dated only during the apps Era and, while there are some genuine annoyances with how many women interact with you as an average looking, good personality dude, for the most part you will eventually find someone to settle with. And yes she will be head over heels in love with you for at a minimum the next 2…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:18 PM
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None of these guys are ever getting ignored unless they're a massive douchebag... and even then a small % of women are attracted to douches.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 09:13 PM
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Haha seriously. Indias non arranged marriage rates are still high af.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 09:12 PM
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No the fuck they don't. Just go to the mall or hobby shop or any other place with couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 04:55 PM
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Secular and tradcon are polar opposites of each other. There are no truly secular men that are also RP tradcons.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 12:51 PM
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If you're a moral person and ugly you will find an ugly girl that values your Morality, and then youll have a mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 12:47 PM
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I know multiple women that have had babies post 40. However... all of them had 1 kid in their 20s or 30s as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 10:02 PM
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You're not secular then. I'm not talking atheism. I'm talking secularism as a political philosophy. As a philosophy, secularism seeks to interpret life based on principles derived solely from the material world, without recourse to religion. It shifts the focus from religion towards "temporal" and material concerns You can't derive info from the secular world and not be in favor of equality of the semester. Whether you frame it as feminism or egalitarianism is up to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 09:55 PM
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Secular people defacto feminists or egalitarians. Bring secular comes with certain ideological caveats and those two are part of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 08:37 PM
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Honestly yeah, he looks like he had resting bitch face tbh. He looks mean. He doesn't look friendly and fun, something most women are looking for on that initial spark. "Someone I could go on an adventure with..." Having said that you're a solid 5 to 7 in most of the USA. In some niche communities probably a 8 to 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 12:28 PM
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It is incredibly rare to find a secular humanist feminist/egalitarian tradcon that happens to not like religion. Those people do exist but they aren't the incel / RP / MTGOW movements. They're usually incredibly intellectuals that hold weird traditional views.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 12:19 PM
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So fucking true. All the RPers should get offline and go to church. They'd actually find women that want what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 12:12 PM
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Feminism is your friend not your enemy if your goal is to be with women. Just like having "feminine" hobbies is your friend if you wanna organically meet women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 12:11 PM
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Ok but that also means a higher standard of living and pricing. 80k in NYC is shit compared to 80k in alabama.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 03:54 PM
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Willfully not in relationships. Not "I'd like to be but..." women and men both want to not seriously date in their 20s. It's a generational change, imho a positive one.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 03:38 PM
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Lol I'm sure some of the black pullers in this sub would admit to having fantasized about young teens.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 03:35 PM
2

Where do you live that the median income is 80k?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 03:23 PM
2

Be white? So the other 6.5 billion people on the planet don't date? Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 12:14 PM
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That is the funniest fucking chart I've seen in a while. It almost deserves its own thread. Haha. Elizabeth moss literally one of the most attractive actresses out there today and she's a 4.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 12:10 PM
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Most men are doing fine, you are doing poorly. Likely from your posting style you're a red piller that doesn't make a lot of money, doesn't work out, and hasn't changed their attitude towards women, and you're not religious enough to get involved with a red pill woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 12:02 PM
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Tinder is much more of a casual hookup site. Take stats from actual dating apps like Bumble.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 01:19 PM
-1

Options have never hurt people, where on earth do you get these awful ideas?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 11:07 AM
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Lmao where do you live? I'm in the south eastern major city in USA, short guys do great around here, including porky guys without money and aren't athletes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 06:07 PM
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The problem is any man or woman that think other people's standards are "lunacy." Most women and men get married or LTR throughout their lives. Clearly dating is working for the mass majority of people. We should only be focusing on why the people having issues are continuing to have issues where their peers are having few problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 11:17 AM
0

Classic liberals definitely are stronger on the "protect the weak / majority rule is not perfect and needs minority rule counter balances". Modern leftism is an advancement of liberal philosophy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 06:32 PM
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I don't think most western women separate the two. Especially when it comes to long term dating and marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 06:24 PM
2

Wed have to go over all his advice vs standard red pill shit, which I don't have time for. Just my general impression from watching streams.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 03:13 PM
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I didn't disagree with that, although it should be pointed out a few ape cousins do have active male care takers so it isn't completely unheard of. Just rarer.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 03:06 PM
1

We have major higher brain functions snd culture that override your "simply is."
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 03:05 PM
3

Hasan basically gives a leftist version of red pill to his audience.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 12:15 PM
1

If it is it's own thing then we can judge it by what it is. Good neutral or bad. Ultimately I will be raising my daughters to enjoy sex and sexuality as a whole. I would much rather they had a more "male" mentality towards sex. Specifically a liberal leftist understanding of sexuality. That it is for her pleasure and partners pleasure, it's a normal bodily function, and it's wholesome and positive when done with proper consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 11:40 AM
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You should split the bill because first dates are to feel each other out for a longer term(or short term) relationship. Splitting the bill is an utilitarian fair doctrine move. Only exception to this imho is if there is a large imbalance of income ratios between the two people. A lady making 100k dating a guy making 30k, I would expect her to pick up the tab.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 11:27 AM
1

I've had multiple women pay for a first date.. damn didn't know it was that rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 11:23 AM
1

How long and how many positions are you engaging in? Every long term relationship I've been on, every single day without any breaks was just not practical or reasonable for genitals. I'm talking at least a 30 minutes to hour of foreplay and 15-30 minutes of intercourse.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 11:18 AM
1

Hahaha. Human males have a tremendous amount of active participation in raising children in almost all tribal communities around the world in every bioclimate. There even a few tribes where older men and wet nurses are the primary caretakers for kids and younger women and men are primary farmers and forage hunters.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 11:14 AM
1

How does a woman "enjoy a man's height"?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 10:56 AM
1

We have other evidence that short men are dating world wide at the same rates as tall dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 10:55 AM
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No one claims that short men are especially attractive to women. Only that short men get laid and into ltr as frequently as taller men. Women by and large don't reject a normal sized 5 10 guy based on solely their height.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 10:53 AM
1

No 18 to 30 year old average woman in a western country is going to think you're gay for anything but being gay. Anything less is homophobic and women in that age group generally are pro LGBT. Even conservative women that have pro lgbt ideas won't think that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 10:48 AM
1

Liberal women by definition aren't weirded out by you wearing makeup. They ain't liberal if they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 10:40 AM
1

At the same time the other 50+ women would mate with men that weren't king or tribal leaders. The common woman fucked and mated with thr common man, sometimes even close relatives.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 09:58 AM
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If you lived in tribal times you'd fuck any male warrior or provider in your tribe, even if it was your brother. You would willingly do this because the tribes spiritual and cultural conditioning from your ancestors would say it is the morally correct thing to do. You can actually look up personal accounts from women in these tribes. They love all the men in their tribe, sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 09:55 AM
1

Anthropology and modern tribal studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 09:13 PM
1

Many societies before 6000 years ago did not practice anything like modern marriage, and many tribes we've encountered did not have what we call a traditional marriage. That's mostly an agricultural or in some cases large animal husbandry societies when that became more popular.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 09:07 PM
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If you just look around in modern times 85%+ of men end up having st least 1 kid in their lifetime. Far more than one in 17.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 12:35 PM
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People also neglect the fact the majority of smaller tribes practiced basically a hippie community kind of deal where marriage didn't exist. Multiple males would breed with any fertile females in the tribe, including their cousins and sisters. There was also many tribes that would trade women and men between each other for various usually religious reasons, but also sometime warfare reasons. Basically if we go back 6000 years or so, everyone was fucking everyone. Tribes that could win the fights…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 12:32 PM
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If you're a 3 to 5, go date a 3 to 5 girl. She'll be madly in love with you and if you're not superficial you'll find things you love about her. Have children and give them every piece of advice to stay healthy and attractive to allow them to break out of the 3 to 5 cycle your family is in.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 12:16 PM
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Haha this sums up this subs men way too well. They all want to be the quarterback dating the cheerleader, instead they're just a fan in the bleachers that should be focusing on the ample single moms around him.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 10:42 PM
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Country rural areas have church and festivals/bars/events. Admittedly most people dating in rural areas are all apart of a large meta friend group usually. You might not know Bobby Sue, but your cousin does, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 10:26 PM
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Something is wrong with your friend group if no one has set you up on a successful date with a friend, coworker, or church friend outside the circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 10:24 PM
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Dude this isn't an RPG. You have no stats.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 10:04 PM
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Or stop focusing on looks and date that single mom with an awesome personality that would be into you...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 10:03 PM
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When you are first dating someone it is still extremely formal.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 03:16 PM
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My wife is currently working 65 hour work weeks... many women at lower economic positions are working that much. Most women you meet online are making less than 40k a year. Women also usually have extended family and friend obligations. If she doesn't text back for 3 days but when she does she's engaging with her conversation, she's into you but genuinely busy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 12:09 PM
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