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Apologise, and get yourself into therapy. Let him know that you understand your behaviour was not okay and that you're taking action to rectify it. Words mean very little if they're not accompanied by action.
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/23 10:15 PM
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Church
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/23 05:13 AM
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Are you potentially demisexual?
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/23 05:09 AM
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So you got into a relationship with someone and now you're annoyed that you can't mould them into the person you actually want to be with?
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/23 05:07 AM
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It's natural for me, as an introvert, to curl up on the sofa all day, eat snacks, draw and watch Scandal. But I have self-control, so I don't. Polygamy or multiple partners isn't natural, it's men with zero self-control trying to justify their wants. It just gives 12 year old boy in a man's body vibes. Run Forest, run.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/23 12:56 AM
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I'm sorry, but your husband isn't a sex vending machine. He told you he wasn't really into it, and you pushed the point and then became annoyed when he didn't perform like you wanted. You get that he's an actual human, right? You made yourself feel undesirable by not listening and reaping the consequences of that. You owe him an apology.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/23 03:44 PM
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I treated my Mum in Law as an elder. She'd known my husband from birth, raised 5 children on a busy farm, and so so much more. She had wisdom to share and I was all ears. That made her feel respected, heard and loved. And importantly, still very needed. In turn she was always there for us. She passed away 10 years ago and I still miss her desperately.
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/23 03:10 PM
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So, most women can have sex without being aroused and have it not be painful. Even if things are initially a bit dry, it tends to moisten up fairly quickly. Not enjoying it can stop that happening obviously but so can a hormone imbalance. Potentially something to think about? Also, it is fine to just tell your partner to use lubricant. Every woman will go through phases where they need that, it's normal. But if you're super tight and that's causing pain you could have pelvic floor tightness. I d…
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/23 04:12 PM
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What sort of pain are you experiencing? Is it dryness? Or tension maybe? It shouldn't be painful at all. Unless maybe it's too dry or you're holding tension in your pelvic floor? In which case, there are things you could do that will help. I'm assuming you're speaking about vaginal sex. Anal is super painful for me if I'm not mentally aroused. But I've just placed that as a boundary. If you want that, then you have to put in the effort to help get me to a space where I'm ready for it. Or at leas…
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/23 03:41 PM
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You're using sex as a self-esteem boost, so when you're not getting it, your self-esteem takes a little bump. That's incredibly common and nothing to feel bad about but it's something to be aware of and even being aware of it can help. I do it sometimes too and have to remind myself that my husband is not a self esteem vending machine.
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/23 03:29 AM
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It can be. It's about about getting to know your individual wants, needs, kinks and limits. I told my husband he could send me porn that he's really turned on by so I can see what he's into if he's more comfortable with that than verbalising it. He's done it a few times and then I'll try and add some of those things to my repertoire. It works both ways too. I've shown him things I'm into.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/23 01:41 AM
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You know what men love more than anything else about us? How we make them feel. They need us to make them feel interesting, desired, successful, attractive, in charge etc. In order to do that, you need to have a solid sense of self- worth and good self-esteem. Because if you don't, in your mind everything will always come back to you. For example, ' I went on dates, but it didn't work out. It must be because I'm not attractive or educated enough. ' If you can make a man feel like he is the centr…
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/23 01:36 AM
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Your husband is being a prat, tell him to pull his head in.
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/23 04:03 PM
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Are you 12?
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/23 06:20 PM
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Men's lack of self-control is their own issue. It's not the fault of any woman. Sex workers offer the opportunity for people with disabilities, social anxieties, and many other issues to have sexual intimacy and connection that they may not otherwise have. They reduce the instances of rape. They offer people a chance to explore their sexuality and kinks in a judgement free environment. They can help people work through sex phobias, body image issues, loneliness, bedroom confidence etc. They can …
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/23 06:08 PM
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Be honest about your past. There is no shame in what you did. You made choices, you grew, you made new ones. That's what life is all about. Sex workers make an important contribution to society whether we'd like to believe that or not. If you have to hide a part of who you are from someone, they are not your person.
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/23 04:33 PM
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My take is that it's a pointless issue. If you're marrying someone because they're over 6 ft and earn over a certain amount, your marriage is doomed anyway. Life can and does happen. Your 6 ft guy could end up in a wheelchair and that $100,000 could become a disability pension. And if those things happen and there's not a deep connection between the two of you built from something real, you're both screwed. And I say this as someone who's 6'3 husband ended up on oxygen 24/7 after rapid onset Lup…
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/23 07:01 AM
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