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LifestyleGlitteringPause8/r/seduction19/02/20 05:20 AM
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If you have think like this and be this “strategic” , your days are numbered.
/r/seduction28/10/22 04:27 PM
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Idk, I disagree…an activity like bowling for a first date prevents you from getting to sit down and know the other person. You’d be talking about the activity too often or convo would get interrupted by the activity. Not a fan of activity based first dates
/r/seduction30/09/22 01:22 AM
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99% of single people have a dating app installed
/r/seduction27/09/22 08:16 PM
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Witty banter = playful flirting. It should never come close to intellectual literary or historical etc conversation (unless y’all are making actual jokes about said subject but that’d be an exception) That being said, intelligent conversations are NEVER a turn off. There’s a time and place for everything, women LOVE deeper serious convos but if we’re playfully flirting, read the room and flirt back or keep it light. The deeper convo can come at a different time, but MOST women loooove deeper con…
/r/seduction19/09/22 04:50 PM
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Man you are stupid to believe that but whatever helps you sleep at night 😂
/r/seduction17/09/22 01:14 AM
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LOL have you had sex with men? Cause women will and do know if the guy is a virgin. Cumming was an example, there are PLENTY of tell tale signs a guy is a virgin during sex. God some guys on this app are so dumb
/r/seduction17/09/22 12:53 AM
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Women aren’t dumb, we can tell you’re a virgin when we have sex with you. You can’t act like you’ve done it before. OP is not gonna know what he’s doing or he’s gonna last a minute…then she’s gonna realize and get upset he didn’t tell her. That or she’s gonna think you’re just awful in bed.
/r/seduction17/09/22 12:45 AM
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Lmfao why are you making it about you???? She probably watches everyone’s ig stories and probably has like 20 guys trying to dm her. She’s not posting stories “just to let you know she’s online”, she’s just living her life and posting on her ig. She’s just not interested in you and was never. She’s not doing anything to you and clearly you are just not on her mind..she’s not playing some game with you.
/r/seduction15/09/22 04:22 PM
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💯👆🏼
/r/seduction15/09/22 07:32 AM
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This question is asked here at least once a week and it always gets hundreds of replies. A simple search would get you answers
/r/seduction13/09/22 07:01 PM
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Agree with this 100000%. Read through the dating and sex sub reddits…some posts on there where divorce is clearly the only solution as a result of this exact issue
/r/seduction12/09/22 06:56 PM
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If it’s a turn off for her, she’s not the one for you
/r/seduction12/09/22 06:54 PM
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We talk about those expectations in the beginning. It’s always been mutual
/r/seduction08/09/22 08:35 PM
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It’s usually a lot of different factors. With one, I trusted him completely as a friend but he’s also a fuckboy so I could never trust him as a bf. One loved to party TOO much so just incompatible lifestyle. One was super attractive physically and was fun to be around but he was immature and couldn’t communicate serious things. Etc etc The other side is that I don’t want a serious relationship either rn so it was mutually preferred for both sides to be casual Overall just incompatibility/no desi…
/r/seduction07/09/22 05:03 PM
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Usually They would just start flirting with me and if I was attracted to them, I would flirt back then it would escalate from there. Sometimes we would go out for drinks before hooking up, sometimes dinner, other times it was more of a booty call situation. We always established whether it was casual or not in the beginning though. With all of em it was nice cause we were able to stay friends and keep a level of respect for each other.
/r/seduction07/09/22 05:45 AM
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I’ve only had casual sex with people I know - coworkers, friends, friends of friends. It’s better that way for me because at least I trust them more than a total stranger but I know I don’t want to date them
/r/seduction07/09/22 05:16 AM
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Reddit is not a hobby. It’s social media…if a girl was addicted to Instagram, a lot of guys would say that’s a red flag. Video games I would consider a hobby. But a lot of girls find it unattractive in a partner because it’s something that’s harder for the girl to get involved with or talk to guys about. Also there is a stereotype of the guys who are wayyyy too into video games. Not social, lone wolf, dusty, awkward. Not saying I agree but it’s the stereotype
/r/seduction02/09/22 04:30 PM
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Uh longer than 2 weeks lol. You don’t even know her. I think most couples are around 3 months of dating but for me personally I’m gonna need to know someone a lot longer than that.
/r/seduction18/08/22 11:08 PM
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It’s not really rude (nor is it a test) when it’s a genuine concern for a lot of women. Obviously no guy is going to be like “oh yeah meant to tell you that I’m a murderer” but a woman expressing an actual fear isn’t “rude”. You’re just a dick. Have some empathy.
/r/seduction14/08/22 09:12 PM
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They do lol. If a girl doesn’t want to date you it’s because she just doesn’t like you, it’s not because you’re “nice”. Any guy who is like “oh no she won’t date me because I’m a nice guy and she likes assholes” IS the asshole. She likes nice guys, she just doesn’t like you. Stop with this ignorant take.
/r/seduction11/08/22 06:53 PM
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Duh I’m playing semantics because clearly you had to emphasize your post with your first sentence since some people did not. If you consider yourself soooo Intelligent then learn to speak more clearly 🙄
/r/seduction10/08/22 06:31 PM
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I know you emphasized that you’re not saying most women are dumb, but like maybe just edit your post to remove the word “smart” since smart and nerdy are not the same and the way you wrote it makes it sound like you only associate smart women with the ones who are nerdy and if they aren’t nerdy, they’re dumb. A woman can be the smartest most intelligent person on this planet and going for her PHD and still be hardcore into partying and drinking. They’re not mutually exclusive so you should rewor…
/r/seduction10/08/22 05:51 PM
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You could just put looking for casual on your dating apps to find a few
/r/seduction09/08/22 07:54 PM
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it's not a rule and this isn't an exception lol MOST girls go for personality. if a girl doesn't like you, it's not because of looks, it's because she just doesn't like you. guys need to stop saying it's because they're 'average looking' and chalk it up to physical looks.
/r/seduction06/08/22 12:58 AM
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Omg right same lol they were really nerdy guys who were into comics and I’ve never cared for that before but now if a guy tells me he likes comics I’m like HOTTTT 🤤
/r/seduction05/08/22 11:47 PM
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Yes of course, more wet…hence it being a way more successful relationship. Better sex because I was more in love hence I got wetter A good looking guy with a boring or incompatible personality might be good in bed one time. But I wouldn’t be able to continuously get wet for him. Personality always wins.
/r/seduction05/08/22 10:53 PM
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False…I’ve fallen in love with like two guys now that I thought were physically so ugly at first. Got to know them and fell hard because of personality. My most successful relationships thus far
/r/seduction05/08/22 10:23 PM
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Agree agree agree!!!! I’m a woman in tech and am all for women empowerment and leadership, but those companies with majority female leadership and teams…OOF worst experiences of my life. SO much drama and decisions are based on who they like aka gotta kiss ass and can’t be direct. So catty and soooo many mind games. The tech companies I’ve been at where it’s been majority men, honestly great experiences for personal and career and recognition from actual work.
/r/seduction05/08/22 10:21 PM
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You need to gauge her response and enthusiasm. If I like a guy I want everyday. If I’m so so about him, maybe few times a week til I decide it’s a yes or no. If I don’t like him, he’ll know easily by how I reply.
/r/seduction28/07/22 12:29 AM
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4 years. No it wasn’t difficult, college was super fun
/r/seduction24/07/22 02:43 PM
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Yeah most bigger tech companies require a college degree!
/r/seduction24/07/22 04:09 AM
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Zero lol but it’s def an advantage if you have a more technical degree. A lot of us in tech sales majored in really random things, I majored is sociology and I knew guys who majored in hospitality and events. It’s really all about networking and people skills. The technical aspects can be learned later. It’s the soft skills that are more important in sales
/r/seduction24/07/22 04:08 AM
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Yupppp lol
/r/seduction23/07/22 10:16 PM
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I just applied on LinkedIn after graduation. I’m from SF so everyone there works in tech after graduating college pretty much
/r/seduction23/07/22 09:22 PM
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I’m friends with all of mine too! It was all just casual and fun
/r/seduction23/07/22 08:14 PM
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Nah big tech company
/r/seduction23/07/22 08:13 PM
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Cybersecurity tech company
/r/seduction23/07/22 08:13 PM
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Last four times, at work lol
/r/seduction23/07/22 05:57 PM
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Honestly the wait a few days before texting would be a major turn off. I probably wouldn’t even reply if a guy waited to text like like…what you got my number as backup in case girl #1 and 2 didn’t work out first then you reach out? Or did you just forget? Cause either way…pass
/r/seduction22/07/22 05:07 PM
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You lost? Considering this is posted in seduction, buying drinks would most definitely help instead of talking about her studies 😂
/r/seduction20/07/22 08:32 AM
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Do what you want to do. If you want to travel for pussy, do it. Life is short, have fun and who gives a shit what ppl think.
/r/seduction19/07/22 09:05 PM
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Do you have trust issues? Nothing about this points to it being a test. Did she give you reason to doubt what she’s saying? What would she accomplish from this being a test?
/r/seduction19/07/22 08:33 PM
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If you’re in a nightclub it’s more about your actions and body language. We can’t hear well in clubs…skip the studying and work talk. Compliment, makes stupid jokes, dance, buy drinks, should be casual and fun not real conversation.
/r/seduction19/07/22 06:49 PM
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I mean this is false lol women are learning that the older men who try and go for girls in their 20s are creeps or immature af.
/r/seduction19/07/22 04:59 PM
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LOL what??? Someone saying they can’t meet for a week or two is trolling to you?! Lmfao sounds like you’re trolling. If someone asked me to hang out today, I would say sure, I’m free mid-end of august, more towards end of august. I’m busy. People are busy. You need to chill…we’re not all sitting around waiting for someone to ask us to do something.
/r/seduction19/07/22 02:10 AM
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Stop playing games and following random “rules” (that 80/20 bs you mentioned). That’s so stupid and immature. Hopefully she has moved on
/r/seduction18/07/22 04:48 PM
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It’s weird to slid into someone’s dms if they don’t follow you back. I don’t suggest it, it’s a good way to embarrass yourself. If they do follow you back, you can try and break the ice by replying to a story they post. I do not recommend sliding into DMs out of the blue. Even then, if you guys don’t know each other, I find it weird. I think most girls would feel the same
/r/seduction18/07/22 01:37 AM
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Lol honestly no, that’s creepy. They didn’t follow you back, there is no way around having a convo with them without coming off creepy. Unless you are a celeb or athlete or influencer or something (which I doubt cause you followed someone ransom and they didn’t follow back), then you really shouldn’t be trying to have an actual convo with them.
/r/seduction18/07/22 01:28 AM
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Women go off of intuition, and gut feeling a lot. Sparks, chemistry, etc do play a role in that. There are times when a specific thing a guy does or says is a dealbreaker but the emotional part of it is always there too. Sometimes there’s no reason besides, “it just felt platonic” or “I don’t want to have sex with him”
/r/seduction17/07/22 11:59 PM
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It’s a thing girls say to easy the rejection and fade away more easily
/r/seduction17/07/22 10:55 PM
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You can’t make someone love you, unfortunately. You can’t say she’s someone you’re not willing to lose, when she is not yours in the first place. You need to move on. She rejected you and she sugar coated it to make it not as harsh. Maybe she will be ready for something in the future but you can’t put your life on hold and just wait for her to maybe be ready or maybe like you in a few years. Move on and if it happens later it does, but keep dating and live your life too.
/r/seduction17/07/22 10:54 PM
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It is kinda a turn off and weird to bring a girl home to your parents house to have sex. But 26 is young…I wouldn’t write a 26 year old off for still living at home. If he was 30 and still doing it for no good reason, then that’s different. Maybe suggest her place to go back to?
/r/seduction16/07/22 01:19 AM
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She doesn’t understand why he won’t learn how to hide it better and be sneakier with her. She’s posted this same question a million times in a million diff sub reddits. Crazy behavior
/r/seduction11/07/22 07:41 PM
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Oh so you WANT him to be sneaky/sneakier with you? Jesus Christ I’ve never heard a girl literally beg to be a hidden mistress. Girl….you’re fucked up in the head, please go to therapy and work on having more respect for yourself
/r/seduction11/07/22 07:35 PM
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Omg seriously. What do you mean you don’t understand him. He stopped bc his gf saw and made him stop. She is his priority even if he is a “cheater”, he likes her, NOT YOU. Why are you attracted to a guy who is cheating (for lack of a better word)? You really that starved for male attention?
/r/seduction11/07/22 05:01 PM
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Why do you keep re asking…his gf saw and made him stop. That’s all.
/r/seduction11/07/22 04:59 PM
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His gf got upset with him and now he’s taking a step back. Idk if I’d consider what he was doing as flirting, but she probably saw some messages or DMs from you and other girls and confronted him. I doubt you were the only girl he was liking pics of or DMing.
/r/seduction11/07/22 04:57 PM
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You’re not funny in the slightest. You don’t even make sense. They know you’re not serious, but there’s just no other way to reply because you sound stupid. Joking about terrorists isn’t funny. The lawsuit one…feels forced? It’s just not funny. Not everything has to be a joke dude. Just be normal…some things warrant just normal responses.
/r/seduction08/07/22 08:19 PM
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I’m horny all the time too but if I ever ask a guy “what are we gonna do?” It’s usually because I DONT want to hook up and would prefer he list out “tame” things so we can do those tame things lol. If I wanted to hook up, I would just say yes and go.
/r/seduction08/07/22 07:48 PM
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That’s good! Good luck with it!! It’s been really helpful for me too especially with confidence
/r/seduction08/07/22 05:59 PM
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No…….wtf lol if that’s your mindset, I would suggest therapy before getting into a serious relationship.
/r/seduction08/07/22 05:56 PM
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And you want one of those women who like men that treat them like trash??? Those are the women with bigger issues…if you want something serious, better off finding someone who is more secure
/r/seduction08/07/22 05:50 PM
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Eh not even. Tfti can still come off playful and flirty depending on her perception. Your other response about the buns can come off a few ways: passive aggressive, petty, playful, flirty, or literal seriousness. I know you were joking but it’s hard to convey tone over text and to me it sounds like you’re still entertaining her and she’s able to string you along. I honestly think you should just stop texting (unless you want a pen pal)
/r/seduction05/07/22 05:03 PM
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If you’re just looking to be friends, why do you need them to be “attractive”
/r/seduction25/06/22 06:03 AM
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If she doesn’t want it to be a date, you move on. There’s no point in trying to just be friends with her when you actually want to date her.
/r/seduction24/06/22 04:32 PM
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Friends hanging out
/r/seduction24/06/22 03:06 PM
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We’re confused because we don’t know if it’s a date in the first place or not. So if you ask a woman our, make it clear it is a date
/r/seduction24/06/22 03:48 AM
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Lmfao what? So now you think women should be able to see the future? 🤡
/r/seduction23/06/22 01:18 AM
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I guess we all have our preferences but my opinion is that this is extremely ignorant. You say a girl that has had 5 bfs and therefore 5 sexual partners is too much and potentially a turn off but you're literally not thinking of any other factors. For example - what if she got with each guy thinking he is 'the one' but they all ended up cheating on her. Was she just supposed to stop dating completely after 3 guys? No, she got in those relationships thinking they would work out but they didn't. H…
/r/seduction22/06/22 11:34 PM
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I’ve heard the opposite from my guy friends. That white girls are the easiest to talk to and escalate things with in that sense. And the ones that say that are shorter (under 5’9) POC guys so idk.
/r/seduction21/06/22 10:46 PM
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Men are the same way with women
/r/seduction16/06/22 09:51 PM
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Women think this about men so 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/seduction15/06/22 04:21 AM
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Honesty is always the right move.
/r/seduction13/06/22 01:24 AM
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...she is clearly looking for a deeper connection and a relationship of substance. wtf is a vibe lol you don't build relationships off of a vibe. you saying that means you are very emotionally immature right now.
/r/seduction12/06/22 05:05 AM
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oof and there you go.
/r/seduction12/06/22 04:54 AM
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haha how old are you? That is definitely not true...maybe when you are young and immature but once you're older and more serious about finding a life partner, it is not true at all.
/r/seduction12/06/22 04:51 AM
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why not....she likes you as a friend.
/r/seduction12/06/22 04:50 AM
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uhhh no lmfao wtf. There are plenty of guys I find HOT AF but refuse to date because their lifestyles are incompatible with mine (values, too introverted, etc)
/r/seduction12/06/22 04:46 AM
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bro she gave you a whole list of reasons and they sound like very legitimate reasons as to incompatibility. none of it is ambiguous
/r/seduction12/06/22 04:45 AM
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idk why you're confused. She likes you as a friend so she wants to be friends. Like...what's the confusion
/r/seduction12/06/22 04:44 AM
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It goes both ways, it’s not just women. I (as well as most if my girl friends) have the same experience with men being like that. It’s just the reality of dating apps, everyone just always has multiple options and are talking to a bunch of people.
/r/seduction07/06/22 10:28 PM
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He’s an incel. Needs major therapy
/r/seduction02/06/22 10:58 PM
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It’s not a question, no need to respond. Such an awkward thing to say whether you are black or not. Like ok cool??
/r/seduction26/05/22 08:00 PM
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Omg are you joking? How about don’t play games. Show interest if you are interested and don’t if you aren’t.
/r/seduction22/05/22 05:11 PM
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No you can’t make someone like you. And there is no scenario where the wording of an invitation is the deciding factor. Just shoot your shot and you’ll know whether she is interested
/r/seduction21/05/22 07:47 PM
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The answer is simple - It depends on if she finds you attractive or not.
/r/seduction20/05/22 11:39 PM
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It’s a weird question to ask, obviously she is there to meet guys. How do you expect her to respond to that? If you meant the question to mean what are you looking for on here? It might be too forward to ask as your first question. Try something more casual/conversational
/r/seduction20/05/22 09:12 PM
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lol no wtf. If you get her because she left him for you or she cheats on him with you, what makes you think she won't do the same to you.
/r/seduction20/05/22 03:37 AM
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Right? I say it a lot too
/r/seduction19/05/22 09:13 PM
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Without any other context, her saying that isn’t friend zoning
/r/seduction19/05/22 09:13 PM
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Yeah hurt mine too. I didn’t realize someone could be so dumb but he’s prob an incel which would explain everything 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/seduction18/05/22 09:52 PM
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Yes let’s compare women to an animal that can’t talk back or communicate. Don’t be so dense
/r/seduction18/05/22 07:20 PM
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Well yeah… you’re asking about a woman and you don’t want advice from women?? Lol then you complain you never know what women want
/r/seduction18/05/22 07:01 PM
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This!! Just be yourself and shoot your shot
/r/seduction18/05/22 07:00 PM
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3 years saw each other about twice a month, only stopped once I moved out of state but we still flirt. It worked bc we both just wanted to be friends but the sex was good and fun. We both went on dates with other people and all that during it still. It was also nice cause he would take me out on dates once in a while too but neither of us wanted to be in a relationship with one another lol
/r/seduction18/05/22 05:29 PM
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That might be too forward. Start a normal conversation first like about the cafe she’s at and recommendations then ask her to join or take you to that recommendation
/r/seduction18/05/22 05:23 PM
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Does she post anything else besides selfies, because to be honest, selfies are the toughest to get a reply to because there are probably plenty of guys complimenting her on it and she’s probably just liking the comments. If she posts other stuff like food or a place she’s at, that’s easier to reply to and ask questions about to get a conversation
/r/seduction18/05/22 06:38 AM
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this is why i hate dating lol everyone is playing games to see who cares the least (guilty of it myself). If you want a FWB, then keep doing what you are doing. If you are actually interested in her, then you need to be texting her more to talk to her, get to know her, ask her out on actual dates, and just be yourself. If you want to text all day, do it. If she thinks that's needy or annoying, then she's not the one for you. You'll tell pretty quickly on how she replies if shes into it...is she …
/r/seduction18/05/22 01:35 AM
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Hm I would say set a date and time and ask if she can make that, and confirm with her day off. Putting the ball in her court if she is flaky means she's never gonna make solid plans OR text you super spontaneously to hang out of nowhere and that's kinda annoying if you happen to be busy
/r/seduction18/05/22 01:28 AM
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Haha my problem is I can never tell if he thinks im cute or attractive!
/r/seduction18/05/22 01:14 AM
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But like, then he would think it’s just a friendly convo?
/r/seduction18/05/22 12:33 AM
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Maybe she is just extremely non confrontational and didn’t want to reject you face to face when you held her hand so she just went along with it
/r/seduction17/05/22 05:45 PM
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go out for drinks with her and feel the vibes. Flirt a little and see if she flirts back. You'll know pretty quick after drinks if she's down to hook up or really just be friends.
/r/seduction17/05/22 03:32 AM
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your compliment was probably not as great as you thought. or she's just a girl and wanted attention for a bit and then got over it.
/r/seduction16/05/22 10:59 PM
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I think it’s a great idea. You can still talk and converse and it’s just a fun activity. Even if it gets awk with her, you guys can still just watch and enjoy the game lol
/r/seduction16/05/22 03:01 AM
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Haha not surprised. I feel like men cops would carry their work all the time too. A lot of domestic abuse comes from cops and they just have so much pent up anger and big egos
/r/seduction16/05/22 02:59 AM
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I refuse to date a cop. No thanks
/r/seduction16/05/22 02:13 AM
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She is not interested if she isn't replying.
/r/seduction13/05/22 04:12 AM
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If you are worried about looking like a “simp” then you are more concerned with how guys see you. Guys are the ones judging other guys for being “simps”. A girl is into you or she’s not, doesn’t matter if you are a “simp” or not. So just flirt like how you want and be yourself. If she’s into it, great. If not, move on.
/r/seduction13/05/22 01:00 AM
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It could work if she likes you enough to settle down. You can't pressure her into changing though, so go ahead and tell her how you feel and see if she reciprocates . If she doesn't I wouldn't wait around for her. People do change for the right people but it has to be on their term.
/r/seduction10/05/22 02:43 AM
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You have never met her and you are are sliding in her DMs and with that horrible line no less? I don't open any DMs from guys I don't know, straight to trash it goes. Most of my girl friends do the same. It's creepy....I know athletes and actors and influencers and models probably do it with more success but I don't think you are any of those if you are posting on reddit about it
/r/seduction09/05/22 02:21 AM
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Reading comprehension can be difficult for a lot of people
/r/seduction08/05/22 03:51 PM
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You might think it's random but she brought it up for a reason. Maybe you were giving off creeper vibes or being more insinuating than you thought and she felt the need to let you know. Also how is it controlling or manipulative lmao. A girl saying she just wants to be friends is not manipulative wtf. And yes good thing you don't want to get close to her or try to kiss her after she says that seeing as she was the one to say she doesn't want that in the first place
/r/seduction08/05/22 03:19 AM
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Are you interested in her in a serious way? If so, and she is actually seriously interested in you as well, why does her past matter? If her having guy friends makes you insecure or have trust issues, then you two are not compatible. You want to be with someone you can trust and if for you, that means a girl that doesn't have a ton of guy friends, then you need to find someone else. If you are only looking for casual or just hookup, then who cares
/r/seduction07/05/22 11:33 PM
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Coffee dates aren't that mundane. You guys can walk around and just talk or walk around a downtown with little shops. If there is like a beach, you can walk along there. Idk, coffee dates are great. if it's bad, it can just be a 30 min coffee date and get outta there. If it's going well, take it into lunch, dinner, etc.
/r/seduction02/05/22 01:55 AM
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Well I just wish he wasn’t acting weird. We were friends for a while before so obv I value him that way so I don’t want to lose a friend
/r/seduction19/02/20 07:56 AM
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He told me he was clean and we used protection... if he did have something why be weird with me and no one else. plus he can't really hide from me. doesn't make sense but can't rule out the possibility i guess
/r/seduction19/02/20 05:41 AM
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haha idk..there's no way. he's not like that, he's the epitome of a fuckboy. If it were just a random guy I would've written him off as a guy who wanted to just hit it and quit it. But since we're friends, this behavior is just weird knowing him!
/r/seduction19/02/20 05:35 AM
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lol so you're one of those guys who generalize all women under one umbrella huh. i can promise you, i know what i want and if you don't believe it, that's on you
/r/seduction15/02/20 05:36 AM
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agreed^ just make your intentions clear. Wanting casual sex doesn't make anyone a bad person or less of a person, just be honest.
/r/seduction15/02/20 01:30 AM
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Easiest way imo, you just initiate convo often and start off innocent and simple. Then start flirting subtly and see if she flirts back. If she flirts back, you flirt back and with every back n forth, you kick it up a notch. Try not to make the flirting too cute/romantic, try to lean more sexual. See how she replies....a girl who is down will reciprocate more easily. Make use of the smirking and winky emojis more so for example. The when you ask to hang out, lean towards "drinks and come hangout…
/r/seduction15/02/20 01:29 AM
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For me, it has to be with someone I'm obviously physically attracted to but there's something about them that makes them 'un-dateable' (otherwise you risk getting attached much more easily). My most successful casual sex relationships have always been the guy being more straightforward early on (ie more sexual flirting, asking to hang out as opposed to going on a date, or just "come over", less public activities, less deep convo and questions). Basically you just have to use common sense and loo…
/r/seduction15/02/20 12:31 AM
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