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You could post to r/suggestmeabook they might have some helpful insight.
/r/ExRedPill23/04/20 03:42 AM
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I haven’t won any genetic lottery, I have chronic health issues due to my genetics. I would rather be ugly.
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/20 06:26 PM
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It doesn’t comfort me. I’ve lived unhealthily (Smoking, drinking and eating wrong etc) and I’m the same age as you and I still get told I look 20. I wonder how much is to due to genetics. Edit: Hitting my wall is mostly due to my personality more than looks
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/20 03:19 PM
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You’re not gross, you have normal bodily functions. You are not stupid and that is not a constructive criticism. You made a fairly simple mistake (accidentally spit on him while laughing) that is so common it could be a Seinfeld skit. I’m guessing you probably kiss your bf too so his reaction isn’t reasonable given that you could easily pass it on to each other anyway. You do have a personality (everyone does), again this is not constructive criticism, just belittling and untrue. Saying he deser…
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/20 12:16 AM
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I also do this but I guess I didn’t realise until it was pointed out to me. I found that some people could break down my barrier more easily than others. Such as, the time I started crying suddenly to a psychologist. She prodded a little and asked why I was smiling/laughing while talking about in my childhood being physically and verbally abused, and witnessing worse levels for my siblings. I remember saying through tears “well sometimes you just gotta laugh to get through it”. I don’t think the…
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/20 12:43 AM
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Yes exactly, and so you are discouraged from asking more questions because you don’t want to feel that way. You are afraid to go against his word even if you don’t respect it, even when it no longer makes sense or you disagree with it. You both lose, see? You act based on fear and he acts based on aggression, not on mutual respect or understanding.
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/19 02:47 AM
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Positive reinforcement is actually a much more effective way of teaching your partner, rather than punishing someone. By ignoring you, he is discouraging you from asking clarifying questions about a discussion you had about your behaviour in the relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/19 06:29 AM
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I think a Counselor would be much more suitable for preventing you from spiralling. It isn’t your romantic interests responsibility to manage your emotions and as you said yourself this is likely why he stopped talking to you. I suggest you get off tinder until you are able to better manage your moods without constant validation and reassurance. The fact that your are blaming him for your openness with him is extremely concerning. It is your responsibility to set boundaries and reveal only what …
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/19 02:37 AM
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Audio erotica is interesting as well
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/19 07:14 AM
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Some situations that just isn't practical though, like ex's coparenting or anything involving dependants of the abusive person.
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/19 06:58 AM
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Having my own room and space to collect my thoughts.
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/19 12:38 PM
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I keep forgetting the value of just being kind for the sake of being kind and I tend to go off on short burst angry rants in my head about issues with my origin family.
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/19 09:32 AM
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The female friend is not OP's bfs ex, I think you misunderstood. Which is understandable because it was worded a little confusing.
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/19 01:38 AM
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You are the sum of your thoughts and your actions. If you spend all day thinking how terrible men are, it will be difficult to turn off and engage lightheartedly with your partner. I just realised this could apply to how you think about yourself as well. If you spend all your time thinking you are a not of value or that you are a terrible partner then you will start to do more to devalue yourself and the relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/19 01:07 PM
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I'm glad you wil be avoiding alcohol focused events in future, and I hope things go well with you and your girlfriend. I might suggest planning other social activities so you are not tempted to go to an alcohol event out of boredom and lack of social interaction that is a result of not having this regular social outing.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/19 07:22 AM
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You've presented this as a simple problem of having a dry throat resulting in you accidently getting drunk to remedy that, but self restraint is the issue. You're in denial. You have options other than alcohol and you are still choosing alcohol. If you drink more around people then you might be using it to make socialising easier. You don't need to go to after work drinks and you don't know how to control yourself there so the simple solution is to stop going to bars until you have a method of s…
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/19 03:09 AM
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Mostly to accomodate woman-to-man transitions? I'd have to say it's 100% to accomodate transmen, because 'cis' males and transwomen don't get periods so they don't need feminine hygiene products.
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/19 06:16 PM
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Hook ups aren't worth it, but you know that. Buy a vibrator maybe? There's a lot of ways to enjoy your own sexuality without involving someone else. It will serve you well if you know your body and what feels good for you so you can relay your needs to your future partner. If it's intimacy you are craving, why not express that need with a platonic girl friend and ask for hugs more? Or ask for a night of painting each others nails. Sometimes just massaging someone else can help fill that need for…
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/19 01:17 PM
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I'm grateful for having the money saved to get a pedicure and manicure Also, the help I am getting with study My mothers emotional support Having a roof over my head Healthcare
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/19 06:44 AM
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Talk to a counsellor and start a journal. You already know mostly what you're not doing enough of and what you're doing too much of, but you need constant reminders and alternate perspectives of this or you will avoid making changes. Your parents have too much on their plate to give you the time and wisdom you expected, unlike the parents you saw in all those TV shows. You do not have to explain to them why you want to see a counsellor, simply saying 'I think this will help me' is enough. If the…
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/19 04:38 AM
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It sounds like we've had a similar journey with moving back home, having no friends, destroying things etc., so this may apply to you. Yes things get better so that even when everything isn't the way you would like it to be you can still hope and move forward. I'm of the opinion that you just have to try a bunch of different things to better manage your moods including the obvious (and highly important) tasks like getting counselling, exercising, eating right, having good sleep hygiene, and even…
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/19 07:09 AM
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The opportunity to study The family that I have left My physiotherapy My newfound hairstyle Zelda BOTW and Smash bros
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/19 12:43 AM
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More characters! 👍
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/19 02:49 PM
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I'm grateful for my family's financial and emotional support. I appreciate that they would never let me go hungry or be without shelter. I'm grateful for the people and services available at my school who help keep me focused and get my study plans in order. Even though it makes me sad at times to have ended things, I'm grateful for my ex who gave me the opportunity to feel such passion and love that I never thought possible.
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/19 05:58 AM
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You're most welcome.
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/19 10:55 AM
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I reccommend cetaphil moisturising lotion. It's oil free and fragrance free, which seems to work for sensitive oily skin like mine. ​ It doesn't take long to dry and because it's a lotion if you put it on while your skin is still a bit damp from the shower it will spread evenly.
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/19 12:32 PM
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My goal: get up at 6am everyday and go for a walk/jog for 30 mins
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/19 11:49 PM
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I dunno how you surmised that I was given positive feedback for grumpy behaviour as a kid just based on my morning grumpiness, but it's not far from the truth. Screaming/whining/crying was my way of getting my parents attention and usually getting my siblings punished for whatever they were doing that bothered me at the time. Of course, it stopped working as I got older and less cute.
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/19 02:58 AM
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This makes sense.. ​ I realise it would probably help me stop seeing other people's kindness as masking alterior motives if I valued kindness for the sake of itself. Which is I guess is that solipsistic nature coming out i.e. act like a jerk with the mask of kindness and then project and assume everyone else is a jerk with the kinder they act. I'm gonna learn what valuing kindness means as best I can.. Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/19 02:51 AM
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I like your thinking! Thanks 🙂
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/19 08:27 PM
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I will keep that in mind for my next relationship. I'm still learning to be selfless and just take more joy in life, which I think will help me become a pillar of strength in the moments he needs me to.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/19 06:54 PM
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It's nice to have a reason for my oddly excitable and aggressive behaviour, and to know there are men out there like in your case that do meet or exceed expectations. It makes accepting my behaviour much simpler knowing that he did let me down after I'd submitted. Thank you (and rpw) for helping me identify my needs in a relationship. I have been constantly fed 'women should be in charge' lines from my family, so I find it really difficult to admit to how soft and feminine he could make me feel.…
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/19 06:37 PM
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I believe it is definitely the RP stuff he practised that attracted me, even before he knew what RP was. In saying that, I think this is why it was much more devastating or anxiety inducing when he was unable to hold frame. I did want to submit and the more I did the more responsibility he had to maintain his authority, but he failed to do this for whatever reasons. I don't blame him, I'm kind of a handful and became more aggressive when he caved on silly things.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/19 05:59 PM
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I recognise my RP ex having used deflection and amusedly agree and absurdly amplify. Which I found cute until he allowed me to have authority by caving and explaining or rationalising when I kept pressuring for an answer to something silly. ​ I can remember particular incidents where this happened and when my attraction started wavering and I felt unsure of whether to follow. ​ Amazing insight.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/19 05:17 PM
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Yes, asking for help seems necessary at this point. Not only does it serve you but it serves the relationship in the long term if you are able to express your needs to him, especially with important issues. Depending on your financials, maybe you could even get paid help once a week to catch up on big jobs like laundry etc.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/19 07:17 PM
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I have been up front and said I won't date them, and I thought that was implied. Agreed, sex does screw things up for what could have been a platonic relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/19 01:35 AM
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Your comment history is dispicable and your opinion is not worth my time.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/19 04:47 PM
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I love this idea! I think I may need to invest!
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/19 01:40 PM
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Okay that makes sense. I like women too so I tend to idealise them as sexual candidates as well and it gets confusing where my priorities should be at times with friends or romantic partners.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/19 01:13 PM
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You're right.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/19 11:29 AM
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So, you're saying instead of valuing the activities that benefit me from a (hypothetical) relationship I should value the shared goals/future vision we have because that will be an overarching factor of how satisfied each party is with the relationship? That does seem really wise...
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/19 11:15 AM
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I like learning to skate :) it makes me feel more adventurous!
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/19 07:04 AM
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I agree. I think we are all holding each other back in some way or another. But, sometimes I think we do add value to the otbers lives, whether that is outweighed by the amount of validation seeking we both (me and either guy) display is what I'm not sure about. Honestly, sometimes I think I am just scared to make new friends without having some kind of levarage over them (like their physical attraction to me).
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/19 06:25 AM
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Haha. ​ Just for clarification I did mean sex.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/19 06:10 AM
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I do like them, I just meant I don't like them in a romantic sense so I shouldn't have gotten with either of them. ​ I enjoy the activities I do with them most of the time and we have pretty meaningful conversations. I am struggling with the idea of losing them a friends not only as a form of validation. But I guess I'm having trouble telling the difference between the two. ​ I think you're right that it would be better not to talk to them because I have slept with them and that doesn't fit with…
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/19 06:05 AM
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I'm not the only one getting something out of it so I don't see how that's being selfish. I help them whenever I can as well e.g. drive them places, give advice, lend them money...
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/19 06:03 AM
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Interesting... he told me last week that I'm the type of girl who 'enjoys getting treated like shit by guys ​ If you find yourself repeating his nastily phrased, half arsed, arm-chair psychology analysis then remember this: You are the type of girl who you decide to be in every moment, regardless of what you have (even repeatedly) done in the past. ​ The past is an indicator only and you can always do more to improve. Maybe you have let people talk down to you in the past and maybe it was attrac…
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/19 10:31 AM
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I think you do care, at least enough to ask for advice about how to approach this (sexually oriented) relationship. You may not realise it, but if you are sleeping with someone then you will likely develop feelings for them whether you respect them or not. ​ I agree with all of what unlikelyred said, but this is spot on: The bigger issue here is that you don't seem to feel an issue with this kind of hooking up arrangement You may somewhat enjoy the sex now but it will not beat the feeling of bei…
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/19 08:02 AM
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I feel rude if I don't speak to anyone first thing (and my mother has said she doesn't like me doing this), so I do try to say good morning if I run into anyone before being prepped. ​ Thank you for the tips on morning self-care. I am trying not to be too hard on myself for not being a morning but always trying to improve :)
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/19 07:38 AM
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That helps, definitely! Feeling a bit of accomplishment in the morning could help me get the positive thoughts flowing easier, so I will try this. Thank you for your help!
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/19 07:33 AM
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This will sound silly but I'd never considered that there was a bun to suit the shape of my head! I will look into this. Tinted chapstick sounds like a good idea, but I need to leave my room to do the other things :) thank you
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/19 07:31 AM
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I don't think a ring is valid proof of a commitment to you, but that's up to you to decide what is necessary to show you his commitment based on what you value. The truth is that the safety/security of marriage is a delusion at best these days due to the commonly accepted practice of getting divorced during difficult times. Instead, a more wise approach would be to consider how he 'fits' into your life and what he does to show you that he values you and your input, and equally important: how doe…
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/19 04:09 PM
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This is a great answer and just the sort of response I could not put into words
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/19 03:51 PM
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I'm grateful for my family who support me so much.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/19 03:27 PM
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