TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

Glittering_File_6990 Archive

View 0 posts and 472 comments by Glittering_File_6990 on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Title Category Author Subreddit Date (UTC)
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)

"Age has no bearing on sexual attraction for women." Come on, nobody's that deluded. You really think a woman's going to be a sexually attracted to a 60 year old man's looks? Out of shape, receding hairline, saggy face, gray hair, low sex drive, bad sperm etc. yeah that really turns women on /s. 😂 There are women who are grossed out by the sight of older men, why don't you get out of your bubble and except the truth bro?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 10:12 PM
2

A lot men here actually. You new here?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 03:38 AM
1

"judging people on what they do naturally" Lying is not something people do naturally. Most of us learned in primary school that lying is a bad thing to do. I think it's exhausting and I feel sorry for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 11:01 PM
1

It's fucked up is what it is. You can't justify it. I'd rather be alone than be a fraud. I guess that's where we differ.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 08:17 PM
1

I appreciate your honesty
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 08:15 PM

Because men are easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 01:16 PM

Do you want a woman who's not sexually experienced and can't satisfy you? I guess we both know the answer to that lol. If you're so bothered about women having high body counts why don't you start shaming other men who can't keep it in their pants? It takes two to tango, and as we all know plenty of guys can't help sticking their dicks in anything that moves. Oh wait, it's just easier to complain about women instead of picking on someone your own size.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 01:08 PM
1

I don't even know what you're saying at this point lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 10:46 AM
1

In the real world that's called lying, but whatever makes you feel better
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 10:34 AM
2

"A massive beauty industry exists for women, yet doesn't for men. This fact indicates how piss-poor women are at communicating basic things." How is the beauty industry existing for women their fault??? It's more of a societal thing. Pressure put on women to look a certain way by everyone else. You want to join the club? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 09:06 AM
-1

That's so sad
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 09:03 AM
-1

"But what you've done is taken away the agency of the man to choose who they like. Instead they have to settle for who likes them" The agency of the man to choose who they like...by lying to said person? Uh I guess that works if it's not a long-term relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 09:01 AM
-7

So men are illogical, thanks for reiterating that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 08:10 AM
1

You probably shouldn't get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 07:59 AM
2

If you don't die without it, it's not a need. Food and water on the other hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 07:56 AM

"I think it must be a part of our human nature to not be promiscuous" Then why do men and women cheat so much? We're sexual creatures. Monogamy is heavily influenced by society and religion, it didn't just come from nowhere. Some people practice serial monogamy, some people are polyamorous, some people don't want anyone at all. Our "nature" isn't so black and white.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 07:40 AM
-1

So... males are illogical? Checks out
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 07:28 AM
0

Not so much aggrieved, more incredulous. OP is definitely off his head, if he thinks hot guys treat everyone with kindness. I've seen so many men with beautiful faces do the most evil shit and get away with it because they look good.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 04:25 AM
1

"Women are attracted to handsome men" And most older males are not handsome.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 04:21 AM
1

Look up the stats on marriages. Most couples are only a few years apart. It's unusual to be sexually attracted to someone several years older.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 04:20 AM
1

"there are more older men who do not act creepy and would normally be seen as attractive" Can you give me an example? Your anecdotal experience as a man is not really compelling. Show me as a young woman what kind of older man, you a straight man, consider attractive. I would love to know what you think the opposite sex should like lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 01:05 PM
1

Dude I'm not even interested enough to go through this thread lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 12:51 PM
0

It's not politics. Women are just more outspoken these days. Many older men are creepy, literally predatory. You ever see an older guy at a park with nobody else and not get concerned? No, you don't. you wonder why he's alone, you wonder who he's watching. That's down to older men's bad behavior. And you know older women aren't seen as dangerous the way older men are, come on.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 12:47 PM
0

Maybe they're not as attractive as you think lol. Most women are into guys their own age, despite societal influences that lead them to being paired with older men in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 12:34 PM
1

Of all the married couples I know I've only ever heard of the men complaining about their wives, not the reverse. Your post comes off as biased as fuck. I'll just chalk it down to you not being a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 12:31 PM
0

That's what I said. Then OP has the nerve to ask what could men have done as a whole to deserve this treatment? What an idiot lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 11:22 AM
0

"Generally it goes that the attractive men may give the attractive women more attention than the less attractive women, but they ultimately treat everyone with kindness and respect" Uh no.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 11:18 AM
1

"Is there something that men as a whole have done to earn this treatment?" 😂 what do you think? What could it possibly be... 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 11:09 AM
3

Did you say it's not a man's role to take care of his children? 😂 Man you can't make this stuff up. Wtf is wrong with you? You do realize that's social conditioning talking right? No, of course you don't. Don't breed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 09:41 AM
0

Let it all end
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 09:35 AM
1

Wait wait what? Don't men infamously complain about their wives? Say horrendous stuff about them all the time? Like about how they look when they're pregnant or how annoying they are. Feels like I'm in the Twilight zone
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 09:34 AM
1

No...just no.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 09:31 AM
1

Rich dudes are wanted by a certain subset of women. And even then it's not sexual attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 09:25 AM
2

"From what I can see these days, it is much more a case of 'Eww. Old man. Gross.' And that can even be for the younger profs. That's the politics at work." That's because most young women are not attracted to older men. They often deal with a lot of unwanted attention from older men from a young age. Now that more women are speaking out about harassment, grooming, etc. you're bound to see more young women express their true feelings on social media, something they couldn't do in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 09:17 AM
1

So? They obviously don't mind that much if they're dating them. Or they're into that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 11:26 PM
1

Is that why I see more fat girl, skinny guy couples? Also if that was true the term "butterface" wouldn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 10:22 PM
2

"You won’t see many older woman calling older men cute" that's because they're not cute anymore lol. Plenty of older women fawn over younger men. It's not only teen girls that are into boy bands like BTS.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 11:05 PM
1

Do you mean the girls on tiktok or something? Maybe they're a bit louder then say 50 years ago pre-internet days, but most women are still dating average looking guys. You don't really see the reverse. I mean have you heard the term "butterface?"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 10:17 PM

We are not a monolith. I hope you find peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 11:33 AM

Uh or maybe nobody should be shamed?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 11:32 AM

First of all, condoms are not 100% effective. Any guy who's really worried about this and absolutely never wants to have children should get a vasectomy. But even then, albeit rare, that can fail as well. So what if the guy does everything he supposed to do and she still gets pregnant? he shouldn't have to foot the bill for something he didn't consent to. If a woman wants to keep it, she can have it, but it's not fair to force the guy to be involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 11:27 AM

Better yet get a vasectomy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 11:22 AM

😂 uh I'm sorry about what you experienced, but we're not all assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 11:21 AM
4

One of those guys is definitely Keanu Reeves. everybody else curdled like bad milk. You're more generous than I am. For me their prime is until their 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 11:20 AM

That's funny. I've never bullied a guy for his size and I'm definitely not asexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 11:17 AM
7

Isn't that more what women do? Looking beyond the face towards personality or treatment? Men are less likely to do that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 10:09 AM
9

Don't most guys want a pretty face more than anything? at least that's what I've seen in surveys. Ugly women are either treated like dirt or invisible
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 09:45 AM
4

Oh he was so gorgeous. God damn shame what happened to him
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 09:43 AM

Not everybody's going to bully you over your genitals. Choose better women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 09:38 AM

Why not? Fair is fair. But I feel like most of the dudes here won't have this problem lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 09:35 AM
3

That's a long way to say male oppression of women wasn't that bad, because they didn't know any better. As expected from a red piller.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 10:32 PM
4

Ah here's one right now. It's odd. I wonder why women fought so hard for basic rights if they were happy as property 🤔 I wonder why Grandmas from back in the day often tell their granddaughters to get an education or are even relieved when they hear the girl doesn't want to get married because they don't want them to suffer the way they did being dependent on a male. You're probably one of those people who thinks slaves were happy too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 10:05 AM
7

That's no excuse not to be aware. We have a vast amount of knowledge at our fingertips that we can access instantaneously. A lot of us have a hunger for more knowledge and investigate beyond what we learn in school or well at least I do. So I'm just going to assume these males are lazy or in denial. You don't even have to go that far back honestly, women couldn't even have bank accounts until the 70s.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 07:46 AM
15

It's funny I constantly see women having to remind these guys of this. Like did they skip history class or what? Did they think women were happily subjugated? It's really weird that we have to keep going over this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 06:53 AM

😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 06:51 AM
1

Wow. No shit? Are you a...unicorn? No, seriously that's really rare for a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 12:23 PM
1

What's wrong with fantasizing? You telling me you're going to stop watching porn completely if you get a girlfriend? Cuz that's basically the same thing if not worse according to your logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:56 AM
3

😂 are you like 12 or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:54 AM
1

"This is why marriage is pointless, because the feelings a woman has for man will fizzle out and eventually a "better" guy will come along and the woman will fantasize and/or cheat. Yes, fantasizing is cheating" I mean you could say the same thing about men bro. It's always dudes here talking about leaving an old bird for a younger one. When you consider, that nobody should be getting married and we should all just die alone lol Or we could not make sweeping generalizations about either gender..…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:46 AM
2

?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 02:21 AM
2

I've heard fat men say they do feel invisible, to women anyway, until they lost weight
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 02:08 AM
3

no I've seen some big girls with cute faces. never seen a cute fat guy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 02:07 AM
12

aren't all Americans too fat? male and female. if anything males are supposed to have less body fat and they can't get pregnant. they have no excuses
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 02:05 AM
8

but I don't want to look at fat men either lol. there's a power imbalance at play in Hollywood
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 02:03 AM
2

isn't that more to do with social conditioning? for a long time women weren't allowed to be more than ornaments. that still influences the way society views men and women today
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 02:02 AM
2

of course it's okay. anybody who says otherwise is an idiot. that's no better than some trans people saying it's discrimination for not wanting to date them. it's not like you can control what you're attracted to. just don't be a dick when you reject them
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 02:00 AM

Oh so you're just trying to make it "interesting?" "But it is clear to me that a species that chooses to not replace itself is very sick. Something is very wrong." Again, why? Humans are not animals that reproduce just for the sake of it. Besides, considering what female reproduction entails, along with other factors, it's more logical for women to have less children or none at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 01:11 PM
1

I'm legit concerned for this person and I don't even know him. can you imagine if a guy cut off his wife's clitoris? dude would have been six feet under if her family found out
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 12:52 PM

"each generation does have a duty to replace itself" we really don't though. so what if a nation fades away? if it dies out, it dies out. that's nature for you. humans ain't that special. homie wants women to become incubators and for the male offspring to go into the meat grinder. that's hardly ideal or even sustainable for a society. just look at Romania. you fuck with people's rights they will fuck you up in return. I'm not sure why you're bothering to humor OP
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 12:37 PM
1

what are you looking forward to?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 03:29 AM
1

"overweight, ugly men are treated like crap no matter what their personality." Just get rich then
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 08:02 AM
0

"You know a lot of the guts on this sub are going to do something to get themselves killed to cope with the depression and anxiety" Neither you nor I know anything about these people. I heard some guy said he would kill himself because he's never even been kissed. but the majority? how can either of us know that?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 11:39 PM
-1

ok, but I doubt that's happening to the majority here... specifically.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 10:50 PM
1

I've heard of people dying right after their partner does out of heartbreak. that's a bit different from what the people on this subreddit complain about though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 10:23 PM
0

no I just have trouble believing all the sinister cuddling that apparently went down. how many times did you say this happened to someone you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 10:20 PM
1

"my friends all banded together to raise each other up and expel the sickness from our lives." I'm sorry why does this sound like something out of a sermon? it's kinda hard to believe. were the guys gay by any chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 02:14 PM
1

who said there was no risk? both men and women need to have a kid young or don't have it at all. women generally know this. males on the other hand need a reality check or there will be consequences
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 08:48 AM
2

considering the obesity rates I'd say so. are you okay? lol. old age in men is linked to health issues in children. it is what it is. I'm sorry it bothers you. freeze your sperm I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 08:14 AM
2

I'm going to assume it's an abusive relationship and he has trouble leaving her. otherwise I don't know what to think.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 05:42 AM
4

"coming home to them cuddling with other dudes and having the try to convince you that it’s normal" wtf lol that can't be common
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 05:39 AM
8

"nobody is going to die just because they don't have a partner." And yet according to this subreddit that's a fate worse than death
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 05:34 AM
1

"You didn't prove that being old causes 5 times the risk, you just said being old is correlated with 5 times risk. Not the same thing" Literally doesn't make it any less risky bra. My points still stand
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 05:32 AM
2

The fact that it's five times more likely with an older men, not to mention all the other negatives associated with old sperm, just proves it's not worth the risk. If my dad did this to me knowing the risks, I would hate them. not to mention the fact that they'd be elderly by the time I go to college. Like I said irresponsible
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 04:59 AM
6

dudes over 40 are three times more likely to have autistic children then guys under 30. that's a pretty big difference. it goes up to five times more likely after 50 years of age. males need to do the responsible thing and don't have kids after a certain age. you're only going to make your kids life harder
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 01:03 AM
2

"basically their whole life for men." If you're all right with the kid having health issues, I guess so
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 10:10 PM
3

oh it definitely is.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 10:37 PM

Lord God I was being sarcastic. can you people really not tell?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 05:02 AM
1

oh I thought you meant like one woman getting a million abortions a year lol. it's the way you worded it. also how do you know these are the same women? most women that get abortions already have a family that they can't afford to add to. hence the term family planning.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 01:30 AM
1

whether you see it as empowering or giving up is down to you personally. this person is clearly not happy about it so yeah he says he's giving up. meanwhile a lot women are coming out of bad relationships and they feel a much happier on their own hence empowering. I don't think it's a gender thing, depends on the situation and your perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 01:28 AM
3

dude read the room. a lot of men are opening up here about something serious. people like you only make it harder for them to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 10:29 AM
2

"but then why do these same women go around having sex with a dozen dudes chads a week and get a million abortions a year." that's quite the hyperbole. I feel like a million abortions would probably lead to adverse health conditions.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 10:27 AM
10

"There's talk of pregnancy not being as viable" at 30? I should tell my mom she had me 6 years too late
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 10:12 AM
2

you mean that cylinder thing that goes around the floor vacuuming dirt? whatever floats your boat
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 03:11 AM
2

95%? 😂 damn that's fucked up towards men. considering a lot of guys can't even look after themselves I highly doubt that they'd prefer AI. who's going to cook, clean, and make them feel like a respectable provider?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 12:06 AM
1

"Women want a man with higher status than them, and who can lead them" correction, some women. in the same vein there are some men who will prefer to have a physical relationship with a human being and won't be satisfied by AI.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 11:28 PM
2

hey don't threaten me with a good time, you're getting me excited.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 11:22 PM
-2

"As a 30 year old with no romantic history at all, I deem myself to be better off just giving up." "What can I offer a woman except bitterness and rage? According to them I would be worthless in bed too and they loath having to teach someone like me." Not all women. Might be like trying to find a unicorn but there are women with situations like your's as well. That being said it's a good idea to try and learn how to love yourself though. Women are more attracted to positive vibes than negative o…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 11:16 PM
7

this is the best take I've ever seen on anything from a red piller
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 10:57 PM
6

I saw some guy saying that he wanted to self-delete because he'd never been kissed. it's pretty sad actually
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 10:39 PM
1

that'll be the day
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 10:34 PM
1

uh because it's not the norm. age gap relationships are outliers. most people are attracted to and marry people within the same age range of them. that is natural.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 10:29 PM
2

thank you for proving my point. because your perspective and personal experience is different from mine, you can't even begin to comprehend how similar it actually is. both scenarios are literally oozing self-centeredness.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 10:47 PM
1

oh it's relevant all right. both your claim about women and my claim about men center on the so-called villains in our scenarios being self-centered or unable to consider someone else's perspective. I doubt it's gendered
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 10:18 PM
0

"The connotation is that women are just malignantly self centered which isn’t true of men most women." What? You know the more I read this the more it sounds like something men do as well. Something called mansplaining. The guys who feel like they know it all and have to explain something to women in a condescending way. Yeah this is feeling pretty similar. Men and women really aren't so different in that regard. Still, what really matters is if it's coming from a good place or not. Are the inte…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 09:38 AM
3

would it kill a man not to label women as narcissists lol. maybe they genuinely just want to help. man you're cynical
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 08:33 AM
5

what about the women that don't partake in that arrangement? of course they're going to support it if they're benefiting from it themselves lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 07:48 AM
4

give up the goods for nothing? you do realize women enjoy sex right? with attractive men the same age as them. You think it's better for women to be chasing guys for designer bags ? Jesus Christ
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 07:46 AM
5

or maybe, just maybe the woman giving advice is trying to help? you know cuz it's a nice thing to do
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 07:40 AM
2

whoosh
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 11:12 PM
5

but men have literally said this. this is why it's important not to try and speak for billions of strangers... and Leo is weird man. people go crazy over him because he changes girlfriends when they hit, 25 or 26, like clockwork. and you can't deny those women are still in their prime lol. it's weird and a bit lonely...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 11:39 AM
8

not all women find the same guys attractive though. some have different racial preferences, body/height preferences, age preferences etc
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 10:45 AM
10

uh that's funny, I've seen a lot of guys say they would never date some girl in their twenties because they can't relate and that it would be weird for them. there's also the fact that most married couples are within the same age range. the age gap relationships are outliers.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 10:39 AM
1

"The people victimised the most from porn are 100% men" yeah sure my heart weeps for them /s
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 07:25 PM
-1

it's got to be that. I don't believe that he's got a nice personality BS. personality doesn't get the juices flowing, excuse my French
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 08:56 AM
1

"hot woman with brain damage dating an ugly guy" Oh damn, I always wondered how those situations happened. it makes so much sense now lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 07:57 AM
1

As a kid I was always told along with the other boys in my class that porn was a bad thing. That you shouldn't watch it. Now if you're a grown man you don't know that watching too much porn is not a good thing there's something wrong with YOU. There's no excuse for you to not be aware of how bad it is for yourself with all the information available on its negative effects. A normal person would have sympathy for potentially sex trafficked victims or women who were sexually abused and are trying …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 11:07 PM
4

ikr. after insulting Western women lol. I've got so many questions though. what's the pinnacle of success for him, what country is he going to, what kind of work is he going to get there, what about his visa, can he even speak a foreign language to get with said "woman from a poor place?" the world may never know
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 11:07 AM
10

God this reads like satire but I think you're serious. let us know when you "reach the pinnacle of success" 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 05:58 AM
0

sometimes women find out guys only befriended them to get into their pants when the woman only wanted friendship it's a pretty fucked up ulterior motive. even worse when you reject them and they get mad about it. then it becomes a safety issue. also men don't believe lonely women even exist and they certainly shit on the girls they reject, are you kidding me?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 04:29 AM
1

feminism isn't a one size fits all label. Some people prefer the term egalitarianism as well
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 03:17 AM
2

according to the articles I've read it does have a real impact. one example is I've even heard several stories of women being randomly choked without consent. have you ever actually looked into this?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 03:16 AM
4

and I don't care about the male loneliness epidemic and suicide rates. it is what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 10:52 PM
4

you don't have to be a feminist to care about women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 10:50 PM
4

knowing the nature of the porn industry and how predatory it is, really? the consumers are the victims?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 10:48 PM
5

men do get porn addiction. the particularly violent stuff negatively affects how they view women in the real world, it leads to sexual dysfunction as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 10:47 PM
1

lol I've never heard of a woman screwing a corpse. if it gets to the point where they specifically seek out female morticians to avoid this stuff happening that's a big problem bra. I'm going to go out on a limb and say men have lower standards in general. general okay? not you personally
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 02:01 AM
1

aren't like 70% of Americans overweight? both men and women? what exactly is your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 01:43 AM
1

there are dudes screwing corpses and animals out there bra. glad you're not like that but they do exist
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 11:49 PM
3

"Women don’t assess men on sight and rank their fuckability" Uh we don't? Maybe some of us do
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 11:47 PM
5

are you sure it's not something else? unless they're specifically talking about your face, you can't really know. unless you meet someone for the first time and when you turn around they get this disappointed look in their eye. in that case, it's definitely your looks
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 11:44 PM
0

poor analogy. food is much more enjoyable and safer than male attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 11:41 PM
1

obvs. I could only do two and five, the rest would be a negative
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 09:45 PM
1

For people on this subreddit? Yeah I can see that being common. Everyone else though, that's a different ballpark.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 09:36 PM
2

isn't that like everyone though? you only care about the people who are close to you. or people you're attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 09:04 AM
1

people still write letters? the rest sounds like work to be honest
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 09:01 AM
11

why are you trying to learn about women's dating habits from TikTok of all things?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 08:55 AM
2

I guess I'm the only one who thinks it would be sweet if he was a virgin. I don't think it's automatically a red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 08:48 AM

Well I should hope you don't support pedos, adults that prey on toddlers. That's not what we were talking about though. While I don't know what young women see in guys significantly older than them, cuz ew, it's a bit disingenuous to assume it's always a creepy situation. The ages, personalities, backgrounds, etc. also influence the "power imbalance." Simply being older doesn't automatically mean you're king of the hill.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 08:35 AM

I think they genuinely didn't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 11:31 PM

So you're the ageist lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 10:37 PM
1

I'm well aware. Not a problem for me. I watched The Grinch the other day.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 10:33 PM
3

You know I think I will. Haven't seen a good movie in ages
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 03:09 PM
3

🤔 I am intrigued. Maybe I'll pop over later
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 03:08 PM
3

That sounds kind of sweet. I never saw that movie, but I've heard good things
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 03:05 PM
2

😂 that would be a shame. Where else can I go for my entertainment?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 03:01 PM
2

Funnily enough I've personally never heard a woman say that. I feel like most women want to date someone they're actually attracted to, with good looks and a good personality. Of course no one wants a bum, but it's not all about high status and money. That sounds like gold digger territory.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 02:48 PM
2

I think China tried to like control how long kids play video games. From what I recall, it didn't really pan out how they wanted. It's not really something you can change at this point. Especially in an individualistic society.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 01:39 PM

"Let’s not be irrational and ageist, hey?" You literally just insulted women who are into younger men, you said they have no self-respect. But I'm irrational? Yea right. My condolences for your cousin.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 01:05 PM
1

"Older women with self respect are not interested in young men. Eew." Heeeey if he's normal, unlike OP, there's nothing wrong with going for a younger guy. Youth is attractive. Receding hairlines are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 09:53 AM
1

I think they might mean women who enter casual relationships or friends with benefits, despite not liking it, in the hopes that it will eventually become a real relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 09:50 AM
0

Notice how he didn't deny it, must be true
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 09:48 AM
5

"It is considered lowly and desperate to date a man who can only offer you a pretty face and some dick." By whom? First I've heard of it. I'd argue it's sad and desperate to date guys just for money/status elevation.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 09:33 AM

Oh thank you for sharing, that is just too juicy. I'm sorry you had to go through that. Oh man that is both hilarious and sad. It's sad and insulting because he thought younger women are only interested in money. And it's hilarious because he made an ass out of himself. I also cringe when older guys approach. Like have they not looked in the mirror lately?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 08:57 AM

I noticed women don't make excuses for wanting tall or younger men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 04:06 AM
2

"lot of women's fear that the guy will leave them once they turn 25 around" First I've heard of it. Doesn't make much sense
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 04:03 AM

"they can but a man's fertility window is considerably larger" Older sperm is risky though
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 04:01 AM

It's weird how confident they are. Lack of self awareness I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 03:38 AM

"He was 56 and had recently separated from his first wife" I love how he doesn't acknowledge his own baggage
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 03:37 AM

So based on your other comment you would have ghosted him if he hadn't paid for the date. He's treated you before, but you've never treated him in return? Ever?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:56 PM

I think their issue is with women who don't reciprocate
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 01:08 PM

Unless she returns the favor later on in their relationship, it's unfair.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 10:05 AM

If you are in a relationship with this guy, would you ever treat him in return?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 10:03 AM

What are you even talking about? Quality of the date aside, isn't it easier for women to get dates? What does breastfeeding/birthing have to do with expecting a guy to pay for a date??? Lol just admit you want to be taken care of. Instead of trying to justify it by mentioning something completely unrelated. It's 2023, we got decent jobs and bank accounts, there's literally no reason to expect him to pay for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:57 AM
2

And those are just the ones that are reported. It's likely much higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:47 AM
1

Why would I debate with someone who doesn't even see women as human beings? Not worth my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 01:50 PM
0

"people are assholes and bullies, that is life, get over it." Right back at ya. "Symmetrical faces" and "hitting the wall" incel much lol. Let's me know you're is a waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 11:31 AM

He certainly does seem to be living in another world. It's both sad and funny
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 08:31 AM

The entitlement of this dude is insane. I can't imagine a grown ass man refusing to do housework over sex. But here we are. If he's not really young, yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:34 AM

😂 same here
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:24 AM
0

"How many times have you heard men saying they don't like girls with too much makeup, or girls with plastic surgeries, with lip fillers, with BLLS, with fake boobs, etc" Quite a bit. They don't even realize the "natural" look they like is makeup. Most women are average, hence the pressure to wear makeup from everyone men, women, work aka society. You wouldn't get it. "The whole media is glamorising and praising women of all shapes and sizes, almost never criticising a woman ever no matter how sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 02:26 AM
1

Dude it's not just the beauty industry, that shit does make it worse though. And why are you talking about modeling when we're apparently focusing on society? Society in general is very strict about what women have to do to be conventionally attractive. Guys don't have to worry about shaving everything under the neck(I wish they would though), wearing makeup, surgery, fashion etc. In media, fat guys always have a skinny pretty wife. You can even see it in real life sometimes. Meanwhile if a guy …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 10:14 PM
1

"Women get special priviliges almost all the time no matter their attitude or physical attributes while men get judged based on their looks most of the time." What are you on about? Women get judged for their looks waaay more than men. I mean have you seen the beauty industry? Hell some jobs pressure you to wear makeup and heels. If you're not up to standard you get passed over. Meanwhile men can roll out of bed looking like crap and nobody bats an eye.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:16 AM

I feel you. It's hard to talk about it on Reddit. Simply stating scientific facts will get you banned in certain subreddits. As for public spaces, I think the best solution would be to have more unisex bathrooms. Maybe a transgender Olympics? Lol I doubt they'd get many competitors though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 05:58 AM

You can be left winning and not support delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 05:51 AM
1

"But we all know that in general it is much worse when a man does it" Can you elaborate? Is this because guys always want it or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 05:50 AM
1

That's a sad way of thinking
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 10:38 AM
7

First of all, you shouldn't be taking what men say about women on here seriously lol. Plenty of women have a variety of hobbies outside of shopping or sewing or whatever you think women should be doing. It's not that strange.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 10:34 AM
3

"So women insist on a tradition from they had less rights? Why?" I have heard that some women will treat men that they're dating though from time to time. Perhaps it's just because it's a nice thing to do? It feels good to be treated and some people like treating others. I'm guessing you're not one of them lol. If the women only wants to be treated and never ever pay for their boyfriends, I think that is unfair. "If women had a problem with this, they would question it and stop getting married."…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 12:18 PM
2

Sigh. Oh you don't even know the basics. Did you miss the part where it's a tradition? You know from back when women were forced to be financially dependent on men? Despite modernizing our society, we've still got some leftovers from those times. Such as taking your husband's name. That's still a thing even though we don't need it. Is it prostitution if women didn't have bank accounts and we're forced to rely on their husbands to survive? Despite women not having much of a say in the matter? Why…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 12:09 PM

Studies with volunteers doesn't equal most women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 11:38 AM

"why do men need to have a perfect body just to be allowed to take their shirt off" They don't have to look perfect. That was my point... And yeah dad bods are a thing for some reason. I'm not sure why you don't think it is. If you're wondering why average men aren't as attractive to women as vice versa well it's pretty obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 11:33 AM
2

Uh... She can literally get her own food, you know that right? If she wants to be paid for and you don't, she likely thinks you don't care enough. Because it's seen as a gentlemanly thing to do. Hence a lack of a second date. Again, I don't really get it myself. But to say it's about food for sex is a bit...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 11:27 AM
3

I know 12-year-olds. Whoever wrote this likely didn't. I'm guessing she had some internalized misogyny to boot
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 11:21 AM

Regardless of how awful males look, nothing stops them from taking their shirt off. But obviously guys like Rick Ross are not turning heads for the right reasons. I hope I don't have to explain to you why. As for women that are "average," they're uplifting each other. Perhaps men should do the same? Actually aren't dad bods a things or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 11:17 AM

Most women are bisexual? Any stats on that?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 09:44 AM

Nobody's stopping you from taking your shirt off. Question is, do you have the body for it though?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 09:43 AM

First we need more sexy men though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 09:39 AM

"The more they cheat the better." Who the hell said they like being cheated on? Dude that is not normal. I think you need to expand your social circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 09:29 AM
1

Talk about a hyperbole. I think it's a tradition that needs to go, but wanting a guy to pay for it doesn't make you a prostitute lol. Women are not going to sleep with you in exchange for free food, Jesus Christ.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 09:24 AM
3

"By the age of 12 at the latest, most women have decided to become prostitutes" WTF???
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 09:18 AM
1

And you just compared bisexuals to incels. You're on a roll. Don't let me keep you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 03:51 AM
2

At least you realize your bigotry is irrational.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 03:34 AM
2

"Gay men have on average a slightly bigger penises than straight men" Well you learn something new everyday. Still just because they get around I don't know just seems like discrimination. There are plenty of straight guys who don't use condoms either, despite engaging in casual hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 01:42 AM
1

Lol. Someone forgot to take their happy pills. Good luck arguing with whomever comes along next.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 01:29 AM
1

But not all gay men even have anal sex with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 11:04 PM
4

"People are so quick to demonize it because of pathologization of men and sex." No it's cuz you said something borderline rapey. "Men like sex? Oh that’s socialization. Women like height? Oh it’s biological you can’t do anything about that. It’s hypocritical and is always designed to pathologize and blame men." When did I ever say that? Lol. I honestly don't know what you're on about. Perhaps you should take this up with... Someone who actually believes that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 10:56 PM
5

What are you even talking about? "giving men access to sex is a public health issue" This sounds a bit rapey. Sexual attraction is natural. No one hates men for feeling sexually attracted to women. People hate men for behaving inappropriately and using that as justification for it. Sexual harassment, sexual assault, stalking, AI generated nudes, etc. No one's entitled to sex... I hope you realize that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 06:30 PM
1

You had me until height preferences. That's not controllable. It's just biology. Same as a guy's preference for curvy instead of flat. I agree with everything else. Dominant=superior, submissive=inferior to a lot of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 05:59 AM
2

You ok bro?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 05:09 AM
8

That's like saying bi people are more likely to cheat... simply for being bi. Isn't it more about that person's character?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 04:50 AM
18

Even gay men that bottom get slut shamed though. I think they're onto something
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 04:47 AM
3

Basically they're slutty
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 04:46 AM

Yeah, I mean you could use that argument for misogynistic men. That they're products of their environment, so we should give them pass. That would never fly though. So it shouldn't be okay for women either imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 01:45 AM
1

Misandry is a reaction to misogyny. Once misogyny goes, so will the other. That's not going to happen though, so best get used to it. It's not like misandry can kill you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 10:36 PM
1

I've seen that. The conservative women are either abused or victims of social conditioning. It might also be that most of the politicians making these anti-abortion laws are male. But personally yeah pro-forced birth men AND women need to be held accountable for their bs views.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 10:18 PM
2

"With the vagina however, it feels like it would be a much more emotional experience" Uh...no
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 10:10 PM
2

Ramifications? More old guys with dogs
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 10:06 PM

He's got that look though
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 03:49 AM
6

It's a self-fulfilling prophecy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 11:21 AM
2

I've actually seen some men say it's literally what motivates them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:07 AM
16

Only men would become violent because they can't get a girlfriend. This is the most cringe thing I've ever heard in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:04 AM
1

It's almost like... women aren't a monolith. Some of them like sexual attention, others don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 09:47 AM
5

I've had similar experiences. I certainly won't miss being scared. Although my mom was cat called, so who knows when it'll end. OP is delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 09:03 AM

😂 Ikr? The delulu is strong here. If being single is so much worse than death, I wonder if they wouldn't mind swapping places with those girls. Then at least they wouldn't have to worry about being single.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 02:24 AM
6

This. View women as individuals instead of a formula to figure out in order to get a date. It's not about being nervous around a woman or not. I don't know what OP is talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 09:57 AM
2

It's probably for a short-term relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 09:51 AM
2

And they have the nerve to call those women selfish as well. The lack of self-awareness is astounding. I hope they stay single
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 09:36 AM
1

Not answering a question like that tells me everything I need to know about your morals. Good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 10:07 AM
1

Yeah. Dudes on this subreddit are the same. They don't even care about WHY there's a surplus of men in China. The only issue to them is that males can't get their dicks wet. It's mind-boggling why people like this struggle with dating lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 08:11 AM
0

...Are you really comparing males being single to females being abandoned and murdered simply because of their gender?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 07:42 AM
2

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 07:23 AM
1

"there is literally a surplus of men there due to the one child policy, and millions of Chinese men are doomed to a life of celibacy because they will never find a partner" At least the men are, well you know... alive. You do know the reason why there's a surplus of men in China right?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 07:21 AM
1

"Well, reading or writing all of the above it's just one of the stupid horny things that teenage girls do" Fanfiction is not just for teenage girls. And how is reading erotica any different from watching porn? The fact that you're not objectifying/harming anyone IRL. So yeah, less problematic
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 08:37 AM

Okay. Let's talk about porn that has abuse as a theme. The disturbingly popular videos that feature rape and abuse of women can and do have a negative influence on consumers and the actors, even those that consent. From mental health issues to guys randomly choking women without consent during sex because they saw it in a porn video with 8 million views.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 08:26 AM

They've got a bad reputation... I'm sure you can figure out why.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 09:10 AM
2

Depends on what problems you're talking about. Is it the problems that men are directly responsible for? Then yeah they should care. People being lonely? that's a personal issue
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 11:07 PM
1

Not everyone has the same view of sex as you do. I hope that you realize that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 11:06 PM
3

And it was a horrible way to make a point. Men are perpetrators of high rates of sexual violence against women. They are culpable. People being lonely is a personal issue. It's not something being done to anybody. It's not a crime. What a ridiculous comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 10:40 PM
3

I went through this phase. God I hate that part of my life. Internalized misogyny is a bitch... Now that you mention it I've never heard of internalized misandry lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 10:28 PM
1

And you used sexual violence as an example. How disturbing
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 10:26 PM
1

Comparing people being lonely or upset they can't get laid to sexual violence is abhorrent...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 10:20 PM
2

I understand what you're saying, but I just can't feel much. I can only see the negative aspects of this ideology that sex=validation. I have more respect for people who go against the grain.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 07:21 AM
5

True. And it starts so young too. The way young children view the color pink just because it's a stereotypical feminine color is sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 04:01 AM
3

What about the men watching and supporting the productions that hurt women? I mean there's no supply without the demand. Where's the accountability for both sides?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 04:00 AM
-3

"Men’s problems are women’s problems, and vice versa." How so? This so-called loneliness epidemic does not affect me personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 03:54 AM
5

You're a product of your environment
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 03:52 AM
1

What were you doing when you got called an incel? It's often used against misogynistic men and not always about virgin shaming
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:07 AM
1

"No its actually racist to say that. India has a different way of looking at the sexes completely saying its patriarchal is reductive and racist." Hahahahahahaha. This sub is the gift that keeps on giving
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 11:59 AM
3

Are you saying rich people don't rape? Also India is a highly patriarchal society and very misogynistic. That's a huge factor for the high amounts of sexual assault. What a strange thing to leave out.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 09:28 AM
1

"if a woman asks a guy out politely but he is intentionally avoding her after that, people will say "she meant no harm" "take it as a compliment" Odd, didn't work out that way for me
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 09:46 AM
3

Males are actually more likely to be raped than falsely accused
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 09:43 AM
3

Hmm it's almost as if everybody's different lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 09:31 AM
1

"to do more chores" implies they don't do their fair share. "Those perceptions aren't consistently reliable" Multiple articles say otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 01:48 AM
2

So you're not even going to try to do a fair amount of domestic chores like a normal partner? You know, stress and fatigue can put a damper on the libido, and women often end up doing the brunt of the work. I'm assuming in this scenario the hypothetical husband wasn't even helping much in the first place, which likely led to this predicament. Perhaps it's best not to get married if you're motivation to do chores is sex...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 10:07 AM

Oh you're still here? Dude I forgot about you. What were we talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 09:56 AM
1

I honestly don't care about anything else you've said, but nobody gives a shit about Disney remakes, the classics are where it's at and what most have grown up on.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 05:01 AM
1

I mean... It's Twitter, you found what you wanted I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 01:06 AM
1

Funny how you keep bringing up a claim without any sources.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:19 AM
1

Don't both men and women do that???
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 06:36 AM
1

Some guy said his girlfriend broke up with him after she went off birth control. Sad and hilarious. Kind of crazy what women are putting into their bodies though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 06:17 AM
1

Oh they sure can. Some talented female soldiers come to mind. Just not innocent civilians cuz you know, they're rational
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:23 AM
1

Thank you for proving my point "the number of women owning guns is going up" and most Mass shooters are still male lol. Are you okay???
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:21 AM
1

So It'd be fair to say women that cheat should get a pass, because biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:54 AM
2

If OP is a guy, that's kind of a sad view to have
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:50 AM
3

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 02:32 AM
1

Reality is most mass shooters are men...unless you live on another planet?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 03:57 AM
2

Yea difference in danger as well. I'd rather 10 angry woman than 1 psychopathic male. Even one male shooter can kill loads of unsuspecting people, meanwhile women don't kill like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 03:49 AM
2

So... You're pro-rape?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:50 AM
3

"They don't, they just think that a men saying hey your car is leaking oil as violent flirting." Man you're clueless.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:48 AM
2

Angry women are a little different from males who kill people cuz they can't get laid. Do you mean femcels? I wouldn't worry about them if I were you
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:36 AM
1

Never. Women are too empathetic and level-headed to commit such violent shootings at the same rate as males.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:34 AM
0

Honestly everywhere males are allowed to carry guns is gonna be risky. Supermarkets, schools, churches, movie theaters, parties etc. I'll take my chances with a woman not being a mass shooter
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:31 AM
4

Yep. "One time" lol. Compared to how many male shooters? But if you're so worried about female mass shooters, you could stay at home I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 01:22 AM
8

A schizophrenic and transman...nice try
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 12:40 AM
16

"I think things like the rise of right wing nationalism/abortion restrictions/etc. play a role, honestly" This. Women have a lot to be angry about. Worse comes to worst, they'll just vent about it on the internet. Which you can generally just ignore. It's not like a femcel is going to go on a shooting rampage...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 11:08 PM
6

And despite that not happening at a similar rate as female victims nor does it start from adolescence, that is also terrible. Yet in the same vein you've got men saying that you're lucky or dismissing that type of sexual assault. On this sub the other day a guy was blatantly downplaying sexual assault committed by women against men. So what's going on there?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 01:46 AM
5

"did you sleep through the metoo movement or something?" We don't all live in the West "If you've never experienced TRUE loneliness then you wouldn't understand" And if you've never experienced sexual harassment or worse for basically your whole life starting from puberty(sometimes younger) you'd automatically assume women have it better. If lonely males are being laughed at, it's likely those who come off as entitled incels that blame women for everything and want to go back to the good old day…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 12:50 AM
8

Really? Cuz on this sub all I ever see is jealousy. Most dudes, on this sub in any case, neglect to realize the grass isn't always greener on the other side. I've even seen a guy saying he would want to be a woman despite the near universal experience of being bothered by creepy men. As if that shit is fun
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 11:23 PM
9

Tbf, being the most desired while simultaneously being the smaller and weaker sex is not always so fun. But nobody ever mentions that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 10:34 PM

No, I'm attracted to people who look nothing like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 10:10 PM

Not always, some of them did win the genetic lottery and can pass
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 10:09 PM

"females," "men" something is a bit off here
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 09:08 AM
1

I thought you guys were worried about gold diggers? The poor villager would more of a risk, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 09:00 AM
1

How in 2023 are grown women confused about whether or not they're sexually attracted to a guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 08:55 AM
6

"Because in reality it’s not that big of a deal" To you perhaps, but you can't speak for other male victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 09:10 AM
11

"I have been on lots of dates" Is not a reputable source
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 09:03 AM
1

"women are less visual" Or perhaps the average male isn't that attractive? I literally thought I was asexual up until high school because the males in my environment were so unattractive. Thanks to the internet, I realized I was looking in the wrong places. There are also surveys out there that show women often downplay how much male's looks matter due to socialization.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 01:21 PM
1

There's a difference between wanting to and being able to
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 09:52 PM
1

Yeah same with abusive husbands, might as well not get married
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 09:52 PM
1

It sounds like marriage is not worth the risk, for anybody
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 09:50 PM
1

Why didn't you marry somebody you trusted? That is so weird. I mean if the kid looks nothing like you I guess I'd understand...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 10:29 AM
3

"However, if a woman believes you might kill her, I can't in any way believe the relationship wouldn't be cut off right then and there" You'd be surprised how many women stay with men who abuse them and nearly kill them out of fear or dependency
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 10:28 AM
3

Who the fuck cares as long as it's safe and they're not cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 10:12 AM
3

I'm most attracted to people who look nothing like me, perhaps I'm an outlier
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 10:55 AM

Well when you put it that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 08:23 AM

How is dick pic guy acceptable? Did you have a thing for him?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 09:39 PM
4

Not to mention the one that "accidentally" touched women and bragged about it. And the dick pic guy, ew
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 10:34 AM
11

They sound like bad people to me
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 10:20 AM
1

Idc personally. Just don't be a bum
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 11:32 AM
2

I don't know how common it is, but I will say she's inadvertently taught me what not to do with my love life
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 12:46 PM
2

My sister is married to a guy that doesn't work, but he doesn't clean either so I guess he's not really a house husband. It's not really working out for them
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 05:59 AM
1

It's really weird to care so much about who other people are (or not) sleeping with
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 05:58 AM
1

Oh you're one of...uh never mind
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 10:56 PM
5

Uh huh those dudes following the con artist "alpha males" or getting radicalized online say otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:52 AM
1

It's funny you should mention that because men are more likely to be raped than falsely accused
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:42 AM

So what happened to "the wall?"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 04:14 AM
3

And why do women care "10x more about their appearance than men?" Society...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 12:19 AM
2

So the male actors are what, chopped liver?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 12:12 AM
7

This is a long way to say you like watching porn lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 12:10 AM
2

Lol. If they're actors and models, yes they are more likely to be entitled. I thought you meant regular people because, you know, most people are not in show business, which is a breeding ground for narcissism. Perhaps you should talk to other people
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 11:22 PM
2

Kettle black
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 11:19 PM
1

Women on social media do not speak for all women Jesus Christ. In the same vein, men on this subreddit definitely do not speak for all men
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 11:10 PM
1

No...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 05:46 AM
6

Aren't you judging a book by its cover?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 05:45 AM
-3

I mean, the audacity though lol. Why would she, someone in her twenties with options, go for that? Seems like this guy figured she'd be a sugar baby or something, which is quite offensive
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 05:42 AM
3

But then she's not attracted to him. Is that really satisfying for a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 05:37 AM
2

"You never went without sex probably so you will never understand" Hahahahahahaha Man I love the idiotic assumptions from strangers on the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 10:28 PM

From what I've seen with older women everybody's really warm and nice to them. I'd say that's a lifelong thing. Everybody loves a sweet grandma or auntie.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 09:28 AM
13

Smh. Jesus Christ you won't die without sex. It's not necessary like food and water is. That kind of thinking can lead the rejects to feel hateful or entitled towards the opposite sex
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 09:22 AM
1

Good to know they finally get it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 10:00 PM
1

Yeah I get that, it's just the image I have of it. I think it's because of media influences
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 09:35 PM
1

So... I'm right
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 11:39 AM
1

But cougar doesn't have the negative connotations creep does
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 10:04 AM
3

It could be jealousy or it could be concern from being creeped on by men old enough to be their fathers when they were young themselves. Hell it happens to girls who are 11 or 12. Let's not pretend some of these 40+ men aren't predatory
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 10:02 AM
2

Seems you're on your own. Maybe you shouldn't speak for other people
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 09:53 AM
0

I don't think 30 years old is a cougar lol. I know some 30-year-olds with baby faces so it's a bit of a weird statement. Maybe 40+
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 09:50 AM
2

Ngl when I hear a guy has a fleshlight it makes me think that he can't get sex regularly or is desperate. I don't know why, it's just the image I get. That's clearly not the case with your ex though
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 09:13 AM
2

That's an interesting point
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 09:08 AM
1

Yeah that sucks. I guess I just don't pay that much attention to that kind of thing since I've never met a guy shorter than me
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 01:32 AM
1

That sounds like a personal issue
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 10:17 PM
1

Do you feel like there's a lack of purpose for men these days?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 11:22 AM
2

I'd be worried about the cartel
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 11:19 AM
-8

I didn't even know guys could be 5"4. It can't be that many though surely
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 11:17 AM
2

I'm pretty short so I'm intimidated by guys that are 6 ft tall. That being said short guys are generally still stronger than a woman. So I'm not sure where you're going with this. There are a lot of factors besides height to be considered regarding safety
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 11:14 AM
1

It's kind of weird if they don't find people their own age attractive. Unless they themselves are frozen in time or something
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 11:07 AM

🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 01:45 AM
11

Are you being purposely obtuse?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 10:13 AM
2

Are you sure you don't mean yourself? This sounds awfully personal
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 10:11 AM
1

Uh...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 10:05 AM
10

"Men would be fine, maybe lonely" You're very optimistic. I just saw a post where a bunch of men were talking about deleting themselves because they've never been kissed...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 10:03 AM
1

I guess I am a ghost now
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 07:09 AM
0

"The patriarchy is intrinsically misandrist" 😂 Yeah the system set up to benefit men and only men all right /s "Well, nobody made any conscious decisions about what the culture would be" I meant the laws that were put in place solely by men, you know because women were not allowed to participate in deciding them. "It's basically the same. And it's 100%, not 50%." I find it particularly distasteful that you would write something like that when women were powerless in a patriarchy and considered a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 07:08 AM
1

So you're telling me that men are gunned down by the police specifically because they're short?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 06:55 AM

Lol thank you for admitting it's subjective
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 11:06 PM

I mean this is based on stats of marriages. Most women marry men close to their age. The women who married guys like 10 years older than them are outliers.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 11:06 PM
0

I'm glad you understand that there is no systematic oppression of males. "If it's so inconsequential then why are our youth so addicted to it?" Because kids are dumb, where have you been? It's a trend and maybe a little bit of revenge fantasy. Women have endured centuries of worse. I'm sure you can manage.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 11:04 PM
1

Misandry doesn't result in the "devaluation" of male lives, that is the result of the patriarchy. When our society was founded it was not women who decided that men's lives were less. Some women do play a role in reinforcing gender roles. That being said it is often due out of fear of retribution or ostracization. Furthermore, supporting a system is not quite the same as systematically oppressing the 50% of the population based on gender. Women have never stopped men from voting, from having a b…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 11:02 PM
1

What part of my comment is not true? Please elaborate. Have women systematically oppressed men when I wasn't looking? Or are women killing men because of high rates of misandry?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 10:54 PM

Subjective. It just makes you feel insecure
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 10:40 PM
2

Some people can just be content on their own, not everyone is like you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 10:34 PM
3

Let's have some tact please. Yes it's a problematic way of thinking, but it's not funny
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 10:32 PM
2

Never mind that, how's your face? Your looks can make up for your height
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 10:29 PM
2

"Self care- I used to be that guy who said (jokingly, obviously) self care is for women and gays" Good you dropped that attitude. A lot of guys would benefit from self-care.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 10:26 PM
1

You did not just compare racism to height discrimination, oh brother. Look, I get short guys have it rough, but come the fuck on "BOTH are EQUAL forms of discrimination," You ever been suspended from school because of your height? Ever been followed around in the store because of your height? Ever had your health issues neglected because of your height? Have you ever been hunted by the police because of your height? Racism isn't just bullying, racism can kill you. Now please explain to me how be…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 10:17 PM
7

30%? God damn what are y'all eating over there?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 10:08 PM

Do they? Women hardly ever struggle, not the way men do
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 10:03 PM

It sounds like you're insecure about her having more sexual experience than you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 10:02 PM

Don't most women prefer men closer to their age? Within two or three years?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 10:02 PM

When 80% of males are average or worse, that's not a flex lol. Most women, that look after themselves, look objectively better than men way past 30. Hell some older women can look better than younger women cuz they're more put together.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 10:00 PM
0

"I do think we have now woven misandry into our systems" Please elaborate on this systemic misandry you mentioned. Social media is full of morons and is inconsequential
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 02:15 AM
0

It is what it is. In any case, misandry is hardly comparable to its counterpart when it comes to systemic oppression, past and present. For example, misandry doesn't result in male killings. Women have never systemically oppressed males. Often times misandry, fear or hatred of men, is simply a reaction to misogyny, which needless to say can be deadly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 11:37 PM
1

Lol you don't know what minority means, do you? Google is your friend
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 11:28 PM
1

Actually men are more likely to be raped than falsely accused https://www.independent.co.uk/voices/gang-rape-trial-ayia-napa-false-accusation-sexual-assault-cyprus-israel-a9131796.html You are paranoid about something highly unlikely. It is simply sensationalized by high profile instances, making you believe everyone's out to falsely accuse men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 11:20 PM
2

"Name one country where women are obligated to go fight and lose their life?" That's not misandry, which is the fear of hatred of men, that's down to the patriarchy proclaiming women are too weak to serve. "Name one country where its judicial system does not favor women?" South Korea "Name one country where men live longer than women?" Also not sure what this has to do with misandry. Women typically live longer than men for various reasons including taking less risks.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 09:33 PM
1

In what country are males being systemically oppressed by women?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 09:28 PM
12

As opposed to dying alone in the nursing home your children abandoned you in? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 11:03 AM
1

Last I checked women are a minority...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 10:58 AM
0

Uh might be the history of male oppression and it's lingering ramifications
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 10:37 AM
1

I believe they meant safety from sexual violence which, let's be honest, males don't really have to worry about as much as women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 10:35 AM
3

I've never heard of a convo like this. I have often seen men online advocating for the subjugation of women though
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 12:37 AM
3

If he let's himself go and is bad in bed, I'm going to bounce. Also what? "he demands that you have a paid job at the same time as be a housewife" Not feeling being demanded anything. And what is he going to do around the house? If he's hiring maids anyway why would I be a housewife? Wait, how can you be a housewife and have a job? He sounds shit lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 10:24 AM

Yeah that source is a little sus, it's a conservative think tank
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 10:16 AM

Yeah I guess it depends on where you live as well. In my area that kind of income is enough for two working people to live comfortably
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 04:38 AM
0

I uh think English isn't their first language
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:46 AM
0

For what it's worth, not all women. As long as you contribute something as a partner, whether that be paying bills or doing housework, I don't care about your salary being lower than mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:43 AM
2

My sister is married to a bum. He's average though
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:40 AM
0

Insecurity
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:33 AM
1

Oh so now they don't count. They're still men though lol. Even "regular" guys get persistent, angry, aggressive, or verbally abusive over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 08:27 PM
1

Well this is interesting. Time to go down a new rabbit hole
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 10:30 AM
2

I think they mean that because women are not as, statistically speaking, slaves to their sex drives in the same magnitude as males, they are superior in that regard. Not to say that women don't get horny, but there's a huge gap in what most women will do for sex as opposed to what most men will do for sex. For example, I've yet to hear of a women sexually assaulting male corpses in a morgue.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 10:24 AM
1

Maybe because everybody's different?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 10:13 AM
1

"So a man getting rejected for his sex while it stings, doesn't carry nearly enough of the pain that it does for a woman" And yet men are the ones assaulting/killing women who reject them. I'm a little lost here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 10:11 AM

Thank you for proving my point. Could easily say the same thing about men, but I know not all men are the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 08:52 AM

Uh that just screams insecure. Sounds like you don't trust your partner bro. Even if she gets attention, it does not automatically mean she's going to cheat on you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 07:22 AM
4

You lost me when you said Leonardo DiCaprio was a high value man
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 07:06 AM
2

If you say so
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 03:03 AM
1

Perhaps the saying "beauty is in the eye of the holder" applies here. I'm sorry for my initial reaction, I shouldn't shame what other people are attracted to. You do you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 10:24 PM
1

At least you have more autonomy smh
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:36 PM
1

Uh I do that at home too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:33 PM
1

What? This only applies to women that are gold diggers. Having a fat bank account does not get the juices flowing for your average woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 05:03 PM
5

"He is a top 20% male in terms of sexual attractiveness" 🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 05:01 PM
1

It's more shitty that a certain subset of men force women to take these precautions. Grow up
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 12:35 AM
1

There's nothing they can do. If there's no spark, there's no spark
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 09:15 AM
1

I thought they were already doing that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 08:52 AM
1

Isn't it a bit weird though? They're still practically a kid. Maybe they've only just finished high school. I couldn't do it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 08:51 AM
2

It's so weird. She sounds so femme getting manicures and pedicures. I don't even do that crap
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 11:11 AM
7

It's one thing to imagine someone naked privately, it's another to publish altered images of nude minors for the whole world to see... These are children. Talk about a lack of empathy. Marital rape was legal for a long time does that make it okay? Just remember that teens have killed themselves over less
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 09:47 AM
2

Entertainment
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 09:42 AM
6

You don't know whether men are going to be cool about it or are going to attack you. Come on man, do you really think your feelings are more important than someone's personal safety? When women have literally died for rejecting men? Really? The chances of somebody robbing your house are pretty slim right, but you still lock the door every time you leave the house don't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 09:39 AM
1

Masculine trait?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 09:31 AM
4

She's not trying to date a chef... She means the average guy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 09:31 AM
2

How is it misandry to feel content without a male partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 09:26 AM
1

Oh cabbie then, I don't like sluts
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:03 AM
2

Uh or we could all just chill lol. That was a lot of words
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 12:49 PM
5

People still read magazines?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 09:40 AM
5

You make it sound like women are necessary for men to get motivated to improve their lives, which is kind of sad
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 09:38 AM
4

It's not something you can put a lid back on
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 09:35 AM
1

If he's hot, the cab driver
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 09:19 AM
1

"on a personal level" It's been proven it's best to keep them at arms length. I personally have no need for them in my personal life anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 12:18 AM
1

Think about what? I'm aware that misogyny effects both genders due to the patriarchy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 12:14 AM
1

So would you say Donald Trump was a more viable candidate than Hillary Clinton? My point is in the majority of stages of human existence males have oppressed females and because of this women's opportunities to contribute to society will always be less. Even today as the remnants of a discriminatory society lingers, women are only just now catching up. I'm not sure why you're trying to deny the truth, as it is pointless
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 10:10 AM
1

Wow 1872 and we've still never had a female president, interesting how you totally missed that. I'm not even going to get into the fact that there are men who wouldn't vote for a female candidate just because her gender disqualified her immediately in their minds. Again men holding women back intentionally. Btw how long have humans existed? Hundreds of thousands of years, but yeah we've had equal opportunities to contribute to society for so long /s
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 09:34 AM
1

If it makes you feel better procedures for males are on the rise. If it makes you feel better, why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 08:34 AM
1

Did you forget that women were not allowed to pursue most professions to make use of any education they would have been lucky to have had? Did you forget that men commonly harassed and discriminated against women who tried to enter the public sphere? Or that women's work was commonly stolen by men? It was not too long ago in human history that women were so oppressed that they were not seen fully as a human being in society, and this oppression by men over half the population is still affecting …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 06:09 AM
1

There's enough of the bad ones that it makes you raise your eyebrows at the male sex routinely and question the value of interacting with them on a personal level.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 05:55 AM
6

It is BS, women are just socialized to say that stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 09:16 AM
1

"go somewhere where the women are less picky or more desperate" That's kind of sad
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 09:14 AM
1

To equate abortion, a medical procedure that can save women, with homicide is illogical
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 08:59 AM
0

I thought this was common knowledge
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 02:51 PM
0

Shots fired lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 09:17 AM
1

That sounds like a really nice plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 09:16 AM
0

How is women wanting peace nonsense?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 09:10 AM
1

Can't we all just get along? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 09:01 AM
1

Never heard that before. It's usually just used to insult or shut them down
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 08:53 AM
1

Skinny
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 08:51 AM
3

Psychos like him don't even consider the fact that women could just bow out of society or move on to greener pastures where they're not just viewed as incubators smh
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 01:34 PM
2

Blames women for problems in society, despite the fact that normal men support gender equality, and doubles down on the solution being taking away women's autonomy. Can't say I'm surprised considering the subreddit though. Of course you wouldn't suggest, I don't know, off the top of my head, test tube babies sponsored by the government or artificial wombs. I mean if it's a hypothetical solution why go the evil route? Why is that the first thing that comes to your mind I wonder. We have to make w…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 08:23 AM
3

That sounds like a lovely society. I'm sure women(and men) won't riot in the streets and all women will roll over and accept their place as second class citizens /s
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 03:54 AM
8

Schools and hospitals will likely have to close down, you realize that right? You think men are going to be able to rush and fill those roles? That they'll even want to? The economy would also suffer sustained damage cuz dun dun dun ... women drive more smaller business. Even if the economy did recover. It won't be in the right direction. A massive pool of talent will just completely disappear. It would be a dystopia
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 09:19 AM
7

Reduce women's education? Why would you even say that? How would that even work? Unless you want to go full Taliban on them. Also to ignore the economic factors is very disingenuous. Say we reduce women's education. They can't go to college, so they can't get degrees. In this economy when people are living paycheck to paycheck, where they can barely afford basic amenities, where a lot of young people can't buy houses, you think it's sustainable for only men to be the most educated and to have th…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 12:00 AM
3

Why do you have to justify your existence? Who cares? Also nobody knows what the meaning of life is. We're all just doing the best we can with what we've got
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 11:33 PM
1

Very insightful, thank you for answering my questions
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 11:26 PM
2

You betcha. There's so many reasons not to. I'm happy to say I will not contribute to the decline of the planet by reproducing. I'm sure you're well aware that even one kid means about 58 tonnes of carbon per year.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 03:43 AM
1

Very interesting. Thanks for answering. If a female friend's promiscuity bothers you more than a male friend, is that down to you considering her a as prospective mate?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 03:33 AM
1

https://www.healthline.com/health-news/does-older-sperm-cause-autism#Focus-on-cause-as-autism-cases-rise "The researchers showed that the chance of having a child with autism was 28 percent higher among fathers who were in their 40s, and 66 percent higher for men in their 50s, compared to fathers younger than 30" Men should really not be having kids after 45-50
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 10:06 PM
1

Do you have a high body count? Do you find male promiscuity disgusting as well? How do your male friends view male promiscuity? Good or bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 10:08 AM
1

No I mean like, what if your dick is too small(or too big) for her and she only finds out when it's too late. Like that kind of compatibility. Or do you like just whip it out beforehand to give a preview? And then there's the kinks. What if you guys have completely different kinks? What if she has an awful kink that you just can't accept, but it's too late cuz you already tied the knot and you didn't know it. Too many risks bra
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 09:48 AM
5

Oh yeah sperm quality doesn't ever decline and it certainly never causes birth defects in offspring...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 04:55 AM
4

Lol it's elderly. Same shit
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 04:05 AM
7

https://amp.cnn.com/cnn/2019/09/06/health/india-woman-73-gives-birth-scli-intl/index.html Some lady in India gave birth at 73 to twins with IVF It's not impossible. Personally I think it's very irresponsible & selfish, male or female, to have kids at that age.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 03:34 AM
3

So your average guy is just fucked then right? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 03:26 AM
11

I was kind of excited when I saw the headline lol. We're literally boiling the planet. The less humans, the better
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 03:20 AM
13

"your spouse refusing sex is illegal" so rape basically?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 03:17 AM
5

Having kids is overrated
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 03:09 AM
1

Okay, but there's a lot of guys that don't see it that way. I'm trying to understand where the disconnect is. Why do you find premarital sex "abhorrent?" Wouldn't it be wise to see if you're, you know, compatible in bed before tying the knot?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 02:57 AM
2

Yeah everybody's different. What I'm saying is if you think being promiscuous makes you a "stud," then it's illogical to be insecure about your partner's past. I'm wondering if these are different kinds of males, maybe it's just virgins that are worried about it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 11:57 PM
-1

Grammar Nazi spotted already fixed it They don't give a fuck if it's socially acceptable or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 12:22 PM
2

Men insult women's preferences too
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 12:12 PM
1

It's just weird when men themselves are so promiscuous or praise it amongst themselves. Or are these different men that don't get much action that are concerned with a potential partner's past?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 12:07 PM
4

I think that's just you dude. My mom has better skin than me lol. If you take care of yourself, you're not going to peak at 21. That's just insane. Unfortunately a lot of, for example, Americans do not take care of themselves. They eat horrible crap, they don't watch their weight. Especially all that sugar in the diet is going to really age you fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 11:51 AM
6

Male gold diggers exist. Madonna's boyfriend comes to mind. I also knew a guy that was with an older woman just to have a place to stay.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 11:47 AM
1

No...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 11:44 AM
0

So you're gatekeeping cold approaches now? Lol yeah you take care buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 06:05 AM
0

You think I didn't cold approach as well? Man you make a lot of assumptions. Wrong ones. Keep crying about I don't know women using intimidation or violence when you approach them...oh wait
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 05:51 AM
0

Oh woe as me, you haven't been rejected 100x, so you don't get it wah wah wah lol. This what I'm hearing. I just find it laughable, the things y'all complain about.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 03:56 AM
-1

Zero experience? Haha yea good one. As someone who has been rejected AND dealt with male anger just from showing disinterest, I know which one I prefer. You guys need a damn reality check. Consider yourselves lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 01:42 AM
-2

And women have been killed for ignoring guys. I think you can handle some embarrassment smh
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 12:17 PM
1

No, it's not attractive. I've struggled to lose weight before, but it can be done. So why waste my time with someone that doesn't put in the effort to take care of themselves? Nothing against people with diseases that interfere with weight management
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 04:02 AM
1

I think they meant that when you get used for sex, you're risking getting STDs, pregnancy, physical harm etc. The comparison in this post is apples to oranges. Laughable really
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 11:01 PM
4

This is it. Well said
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:37 PM
2

Ah yes you should go for shorter girls. I don't think it's crazy to have a preference as long as people aren't dicks about it. It sounds like they were dicks about it though lol. If some guy told me he didn't want to date me anymore because of my looks, man that would piss me off. Some things are better left unsaid. A lot of people lack tact.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 11:51 AM
1

I think you're over exaggerating the importance of height. Yes most women want a guy taller than them, but we don't all want like Shaq tall lol. 5"2 is fine for me, but I am puny already. I saw a guy that was exactly my height and he had a really cute face so yeah I'm not buying what you're selling. I'm probably like shorter than the average height though. Come to think of it I don't know what the average height is in my country. I focus more on face and body. And you do have the option to chang…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 11:45 AM
5

https://www.researchgate.net/publication/283057231_Gender_and_Expressions_of_Dissatisfaction_A_Study_of_Complaining_in_Mixed-Gendered_Student_Work_Groups Oh even Steven nevermind
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 11:32 AM
5

Cough cough manosphere cough cough red pill cough cough incels cough
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 11:17 AM
1

Beauty standards are tougher for men? That's news to me. I see a lot of women dolling themselves up, while a lot of guys just looking like they've rolled out of bed. You should see the reactions when a woman decides not to shave, you'd think she was a criminal. Guys are privileged as their default is acceptable, while women are pressured to change a lot about themselves. Women who don't shave are called animals or men. If you don't wear makeup people think you look tired or sick. If you don't dr…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 11:12 AM
1

Is it really that bad? Your way taller than me, so it wouldn't be a problem. Maybe go for shorter girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 11:06 AM
1

Don't what?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:29 PM
1

It's surprising to see men calling it a privilege when so many guys give each other pats on the back for being promiscuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 10:53 AM
1

I'm not sure why you're talking about infants all of a sudden. I can't speak on that, as I hate them lol Please tell me more about why being exposed to testosterone from puberty makes you more likely to, what, crave female attention or something? I'm not really sure what you're arguing. Is it that trans men are less likely to feel lonely? Or less likely to understand what it's like to be a man hormonally? Because according to my friend they felt like they went through a second puberty, more inte…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 04:38 PM
1

They've already been on testosterone for years. There's not that much of a difference between them and cis guys. In any case there are men who can be content on their own, they're just a minority. Our society places too much emphasis on getting the girl and the status associated with it. If males weren't socialized to believe that having a girlfriend is the end all be all, their current outlook on life would be really different.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:31 PM
1

I'm well aware of how testosterone affects you thanks to testimony from a trans friend. They didn't have a relationship and they were happy. They weren't depressed and they weren't lonely because guess what? They had plenty of friends and they went out everyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:13 PM
1

Dude there are plenty women who are not having sex at all and are content. I think you're blowing importance of sex way out of proportion. It's not a need, it's a want
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 08:32 AM
0

That first one is sad, if that's what it takes
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 07:53 AM

Some of them do matter. Off the top of my head, whether or not it's fair for males who transition to female to compete against women in sports. How young children can transition, whether or not it's safe or ethical
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:17 AM

I think you want this one 🏳️‍⚧️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:14 AM

There are older women into the kpop guys
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 09:16 AM
1

Sign language?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 09:14 AM
4

See the thing is you're not really connecting if you "can have it whenever you want on tap." There's no emotional connection with a desperate guy who you know would hook up with any woman. Out of curiosity do you also believe you can connect with a sex worker? I doubt it, as it's transactional. To say that all sex is meaningful is a bit hard to believe
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 11:22 AM
5

The grass is always greener I suppose. I don't agree that having physical intimacy means you're not alone. Not if you're just talking about meaningless sex
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 11:06 AM
4

It's not without its downsides. Particularly for women who generally aren't interested in male attention, it's not a privilege
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 10:59 AM
3

Rounding up incels is a good idea, before they become a danger to society. Everyone knows most mass shooters are misogynistic after all
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 06:45 AM
2

Some people just don't need relationships to be happy. Also you're not really completely alone when you have friends and family to socialize with when the mood strikes. As for relationships it seems to be more risk than reward. More stress and drama. Sometimes it's just more comfortable to be free from all that. Now that society is changing and there's less pressure to be married with kids, more people are realizing that they don't have to if it's not appealing to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 06:37 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter