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| 1 | The average man cannot set healthy boundaries or feel at ease and comfortable in a relationship because he’s so replaceable she’ll just walk awayEh. Some women can do that . I sure can't . The ones I can easily find and get aren't worth getting with. The pool of suitable men is quite small | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/25 05:51 PM |
| 1 | The reason birth rates are declining is men not wanting serious/long-term relationshipsThose men aren't doing much to attract women. Especially the ones with the deadly 4: so so looks, low ambition, low confidence and also spouting the red pill stuff . So no money and always ready to tell us how much they hate women. What part of that would attract a woman? I think if man has at least confidence and also have an interesting , empathetic personality he'd have a chance with a lot of woman. Men underestimate the power of a man who knows how to talk to a woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/25 02:09 AM |
| 1 | The reason birth rates are declining is men not wanting serious/long-term relationshipsLook up the stats. It's the 15-19 years olds with the highest decrease . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/25 02:03 AM |
| 1 | The reason birth rates are declining is men not wanting serious/long-term relationshipsI watched the clip of Anna Navarro . That was an obvious joke and they responding to a poll about women saying they don't need men. This is the thing - almost any woman who were told about that poll would translate to the polls question as being if women need to be IN RELATIONSHIP to a man . I would say the same thing the majority of the women in the poll said: no. Now let me another thing men don't understand: the majority of straight women would answer no actually WANT to be with a guy who mee… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/25 01:57 AM |
| 1 | The reason birth rates are declining is men not wanting serious/long-term relationships99.99% of the time women are talking about bad experiences with being in RELATIONSHIPS with men and men LIE or DONT UNDERSTAND or something and claim women think the country doesn't want men. Hardly any woman think the country doesn't need men (and women). It's so nonsensical | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/25 01:51 AM |
| 0 | The average man cannot set healthy boundaries or feel at ease and comfortable in a relationship because he’s so replaceable she’ll just walk awayNow that's funny when men leave disabled and/or dying wives more than double then wives leaving disabled /dying spouses. And the reason I said what I said is I know men who are NOT blind or disabled claiming women waking up one day and wanting a divorce "out of nowhere" and it's almost always a lie. What I have witnessed is women will explain IN DETAIL what's wrong in the marriage for years , men call it "nagging" and totally ignore them and one day the wife will stop "nagging" (because she fina… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/25 01:11 PM |
| 0 | The average man cannot set healthy boundaries or feel at ease and comfortable in a relationship because he’s so replaceable she’ll just walk awayI still can almost guarantee the ride wasn't the issue. Something else was wrong in the marriage that wasn't being addressed. Maybe he was acting like an asshole since the accident ? Who knows. All I know is it wasn't the ride | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/25 11:34 AM |
| 1 | The average man cannot set healthy boundaries or feel at ease and comfortable in a relationship because he’s so replaceable she’ll just walk awayNo, not what he said. Men don't understand women can leave men they don't want to be SINGLE. It does not mean they already have someone else lined up. Needing someone lined up is a mentality many men have not necessarily what many women have . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/25 12:53 PM |
| 1 | The average man cannot set healthy boundaries or feel at ease and comfortable in a relationship because he’s so replaceable she’ll just walk awayFear of being single isn't sexy. Just letting you know | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/25 12:52 PM |
| 1 | The average man cannot set healthy boundaries or feel at ease and comfortable in a relationship because he’s so replaceable she’ll just walk awayI'm female and I so agree with this. For me and I think most women are attracted to confident men. If I was with a man who I could tell was this nervous about me leaving that he can't set healthy boundaries I would absolutely be thinking about leaving and questioning myself on why I was with him. It's not because I have/had other options, it would be because I would lose attraction to HIM. Contrary to how man think, women do think singlehood is ok while we wait for a better prospect. We don't re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/25 12:49 PM |
| 2 | The average man cannot set healthy boundaries or feel at ease and comfortable in a relationship because he’s so replaceable she’ll just walk awayKind of like how women put up with known cheaters for years ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/25 12:43 PM |
| 4 | The average man cannot set healthy boundaries or feel at ease and comfortable in a relationship because he’s so replaceable she’ll just walk awayI call bullshit on that. Maybe she already thought he was a loser or irresponsible (did he not have his own car?) and that's why she ended it . I doubt any woman would go through marrying a guy and then one day decide to leave over a ride to the doctors office . No, usually it's over a lot of things that pile up over time that cause women to leave | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/25 12:42 PM |
| 1 | The average man cannot set healthy boundaries or feel at ease and comfortable in a relationship because he’s so replaceable she’ll just walk awayTotally disagree . There is nothing sexier than a confident man so a guy shouldn't be this nervous about everything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/25 12:36 PM |
| 1 | The reason birth rates are declining is men not wanting serious/long-term relationshipsWell I read your comment and I'm not in a red pill bro community. Lol. Anyway I have no idea what Anna Navarro really said but I bet it's not what you are saying. I believe this because I have seen red pill men try to skew anything women say and come back with stuff they makes no sense. Example: women say they are ok without a man - meaning mostly they choose to enjoy life even if they aren't in a relationship with a man. When men hear this they get all offended and pretend the woman are saying … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/25 12:28 PM |
| 1 | The reason birth rates are declining is men not wanting serious/long-term relationshipsI guess... The thing is women don't go on social media bitching about men both making 6 figures anymore, blah blah. I don't care what a guy's preferences are if I don't got to hear/read him bash women who aren't their preference. Example : "run through " lol. Seriously? I think a lot y'all are "run through" and dusty on top of that but I don't normally find the need to post stuff like that. The stuff you red pill dudes feel the need to say are almost always misogynistic. Look there is someone fo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/25 07:24 PM |
| 2 | The reason birth rates are declining is men not wanting serious/long-term relationshipsThis. The only way a woman can "win" is being a complete asshole because as soon as you help a little for something dudes will keep pushing to get more out of you. I'd never help a dude financially for anything ever at this point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/25 04:05 PM |
| 1 | The reason birth rates are declining is men not wanting serious/long-term relationshipsWhat is up with men's obsession with virginity? Men have lives and women have lives yet men -especially red men - are obsessed with the idea of tying down women that haven't had a chance to have a life yet. You do realize if you could settle down with a woman-child she will eventually grow up and see you for who you are, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/25 04:03 PM |
| -1 | The issue with promiscuous men wanting non-promiscuous women is about his hypocrisy around pious conservative values"keep a man" lol 😆. I always laugh at those kinds of comments. I especially think it's funny when the couple is married and they talk about if a women can keep a man (though I understand your comment is about single women). In reality, in marriage at least the majority of women can "keep a man" if her tolerance for disrespect and pain is high because most husbands don't what to do divorce cause society lets him do whatever he wants and still have a wife. And that's why wives tend to be the ones … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 11:32 PM |
| 2 | The issue with promiscuous men wanting non-promiscuous women is about his hypocrisy around pious conservative valuesMost of the time even when you "share chores" women tend to do have to do a hell a lot more and don't forget that women today also "share work" because the majority of women actually go to work too lol 😆 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 11:16 PM |
| 1 | The issue with promiscuous men wanting non-promiscuous women is about his hypocrisy around pious conservative valuesForgot to add - what is your definition of promiscuous ? To me promiscuous is willing to have sex with just about anyone. If you want to have sex in monogamous relationships you are not promiscuous. So men who have little or no sex are still promiscuous because they are willing to have sex with any available woman. They are just not being chosen. The number of past partners doesn't necessarily mean one person is more promiscuous then the other. Girl had 3 long term relationships involving sex is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 05:41 PM |
| 0 | The issue with promiscuous men wanting non-promiscuous women is about his hypocrisy around pious conservative valuesFor the majority of the time women are choosing to be in relationships when having sex. Some men are just not chosen for either. Also some men in relationships are just pretending to be in relationship just for the benefits: "sex." What they are really after is just casual sex but will fake relationships with multiple women using lies in deceit to get what he wants which is sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 05:37 PM |
| 8 | The issue with promiscuous men wanting non-promiscuous women is about his hypocrisy around pious conservative valuesSo women in relationships do nothing at all for the men they love?. yeah right. Women do A LOT for men, it's just all disregarded as nothing because there is no monetary value attached to it. Especially if they are married or living together - then women are expected to provide a lot of free labor that everyone pretends is nothing since no money exchanges hands. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 05:33 PM |
| 1 | The issue with promiscuous men wanting non-promiscuous women is about his hypocrisy around pious conservative valuesLOL. What world do you live in?? LOL. On average women are less promiscuous than men as in they prefer relationships over casual sex. Women MAY have higher "body counts" because no women are "involuntarily celibate." When were celibate it is because we want to celibate in general or it's because we haven't found a man that meets our standards for the relationship we want. If we ever want to "just have sex" we always can because men are the ones that are "easy." Like nearly every one of them minu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 04:50 PM |
| 2 | As long as women take criticisms personally we will never achieve equality or happinessWell.. i think it's fine if both parents prefer that the child's mother to be the main caregiver for the child. I think a woman would be smarter to not agree to it without some type of written agreement on what will happen in the case of separation or divorce so she isnt vulnerable if that happens. I think I would have been ok with 6-12 months of support to transition back into the workplace or something like that. Something agreed upon upfront so both partners go in with their eyes opened . And… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 09:01 PM |
| 1 | As long as women take criticisms personally we will never achieve equality or happinessBut he was a provider.. until i said I wanted a divorce which is understandable on one hand, but if a woman stopped working for years, she won't immediately have money to support herself and kids for a while. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 07:37 PM |
| 2 | As long as women take criticisms personally we will never achieve equality or happinessI want to add: I totally feel justified on what I did after I heard about his recent divorce to another woman. She also came from a different state and she had 4 kids - 3 of hers and one together. Also a stay at home mom. When they separated he left the place they rented but she had to take over the bills. Unsurprisingly she couldn't magically afford it and ended up evicted and he thought it was funny. How do I know all of this? He bragged to one of our 20 year old sons. My son told me because h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 04:34 PM |
| 1 | As long as women take criticisms personally we will never achieve equality or happinessTo move close to my family so they could help but that's a long story. Now that I'm older I can understand why the move angered him but honestly I don't see how it could turned out well any other way. It takes time to go from stay at home wife to self supporting mother of 2. It's not like he would have agreed to still fully financially support me after I left right? I got to live with parents rent free for like 2-3 years and then I was totally self supporting and the little child support was lag… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 04:13 PM |
| 1 | As long as women take criticisms personally we will never achieve equality or happinessJust for funny I googled the distance . I moved 917 miles away. I know dudes who live 20 miles away who make excuses not to see their kids. My ex took 13 hour trips to see his kids. I think I lucked out in that way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 03:55 PM |
| 3 | As long as women take criticisms personally we will never achieve equality or happinesslol. I have heard of men paying less but I can tell you an example of the $200 for two kids. That was my own ex husband lol 😂. Never took him to court , just a personal agreement . If I had a daughter (I have now grown sons), I'd tell them to sue for child support to get a more reasonable amount. Before you hit me with the "you picked him" BS I can say he was a better father then a lot I know and kept seeing his kids even though I moved several states away. In many regards I chose well. Was he s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 03:46 PM |
| 3 | As long as women take criticisms personally we will never achieve equality or happinessAbortion rights are slowly going away so let's stop pretending women have the right to an abortion. As far as kids they don't want- divorced men are the same way even if the kids were wanted at the time. The wife left ? They don't want to pay ANYTHING in child support. Sure women have kids with ballers from money but women are not getting rich from having kids with average Joes. Ask your average divorced man how much they think they should pay in child support. In reality they want to pay zero .… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 03:36 PM |
| 3 | As long as women take criticisms personally we will never achieve equality or happinessThey sure try!! And how many men quit jobs every time the government finds them and do garnishments ? I know a lot do. They definitely try to avoid for paying for kids unless they have access to the mother. No access to the mother ? They try hard to avoid supporting the kids . Not all men but a lot of them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 03:31 PM |
| 2 | As long as women take criticisms personally we will never achieve equality or happinessWhich one is more normal? And do men or women care what is normal or do they care that they can get what they want from a relationship?? I think they care about the latter more | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 03:23 PM |
| 3 | As long as women take criticisms personally we will never achieve equality or happinessOr we going to pretend men everywhere is complaining about a thing called child support and court orders ? Lol 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 03:22 PM |
| 2 | As long as women take criticisms personally we will never achieve equality or happinessI think women DO absolutely wish men would open up more but when it exposes them to be selfish jerks, it's natural to be upset. Just like a woman saying a bunch of selfish shit or sexists shit would also be a turn off | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 03:21 PM |
| 3 | As long as women take criticisms personally we will never achieve equality or happinessLol . If given a choice men would prefer to not make children from every time they have sex. And with the advancement in DNA testing they really really don't want unwanted pregnancies from happening. Let's stop playing this game. The pill benefits both genders . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 03:19 PM |
| 2 | As long as women take criticisms personally we will never achieve equality or happinessIt's a two way street. Women can't tell y'all the dirty truth to men either . It's just that men feel entitled to say selfish shit or be selfish on the sly in general. All I can say is I like honesty but just remember when she allows you to say mean but honest stuff she might be rightfully upset but After awhile she might start returning the favor and we will see who needs coddling. Lol. Men don't realize how much coddling they actually get from women until they play this game. Just do it and ac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 03:16 PM |
| 2 | As long as women take criticisms personally we will never achieve equality or happinessYes , common complaint. The issue is men don't like it when women are justifiably mad by what they say. They think honesty cloaks bad behavior and lots of time they will say stuff that if a woman said to them they'd be mad but expect a different reaction when they say it. Example - I feel like spending the weekends with my buddy and I don't want to talk to you . Women: mad. Would men act differently if the woman said: I'm tired. I would be happier if I stick you with the kids all weekend and not… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 02:59 PM |
| 3 | As long as women take criticisms personally we will never achieve equality or happinessWhat do you want women to say? I don't see anyone say : men are depressed - who cares ? You want women to see men as the "real" victims. That part we say bullshit. We actually do care but women caring or not is not the key to solving the issue. Since even in our enlightened generation men hold the most power in law and politics . If men cared they would change the laws. If men cared mental health services would be more available, more promoted and less expensive. Focus on getting MEN to care and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 02:44 PM |
| 2 | As long as women take criticisms personally we will never achieve equality or happinessI admit : there is no way to prove this definitively. I using the reasoning of how women are socialized to care more about feelings and want men to express their feelings . Also can prove women are socialized to care more about other's feelings and needs. That CAN be proven. Given that, I suggest women probably care more about the mental health of others including men more then men do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 02:37 PM |
| 3 | As long as women take criticisms personally we will never achieve equality or happinessAre we going to pretend that men aren't benefiting from the pill or saw no benefit for them when they were creating it ? There is a whole lot of men who want sex without babies | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 02:34 PM |
| 3 | As long as women take criticisms personally we will never achieve equality or happinessIt's a thing on TikTok how cringey some "boy moms" are with their sons | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 02:16 PM |
| 1 | Older women over 30 and revenge fantasyAll I can say I'm single at 47 and the real depressing years was in my late 20s, married with twins. For me, the idea that being married to just anyone doesn't bring happiness and was a false narrative men push. Singlehood is 100% better bad marriage. Would a good marriage be better then both ? Probably. How many good marriages are out there ? Idk. I just know I don't want another bad one . And is dating harder at my age ? YES for two reason 1) the type of men who would like an "older" women and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 02:13 PM |
| 0 | Older women over 30 and revenge fantasyHuh ???? Older men are unhappy in their old age . Women are happier | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 01:21 PM |
| 1 | Older women over 30 and revenge fantasyHuh ? I see it says older women take it more. Where do you these over 60 women are single? At that age and generation if they were single it would probably mean their spouse died then they never married because that's definitely a pre-modern feminist generation. Does taking medication really mean they are more depressed? I see that rate for white people is also higher then black Americans. Do you really think that means white people are more depressed ? Or just more likely to seek services ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 01:20 PM |
| 1 | As long as women take criticisms personally we will never achieve equality or happinessIt has been proven that married men live longer in average and part of the reasoning is because wives tend to force husbands to go to the doctor more. Also women are socialized to be the helper and the one who pays more attention to other's needs including emotional. I found it out to even consider the idea that people socialized like this would not be the one to care more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 12:38 PM |
| 0 | As long as women take criticisms personally we will never achieve equality or happinessAlso it exposed that men refuse to listen to women's reasoning. I have explained why I chose the bear to men and on large they refuse to even consider the logic. For me when I heard the scenario , I didn't think automatically the bear or the man would attack. They are just in the woods too. I chose the bear because it belongs in the woods (so I'm not suspicious on why it's there ) and I know there are methods to avoid having contact with the bear and the bear is unlikely to be actively hunting f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 12:11 PM |
| 1 | As long as women take criticisms personally we will never achieve equality or happinessNo it's a male stranger . The scenario would 100% different if the man in the forest was someone the woman knew personally | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 12:01 PM |
| 3 | As long as women take criticisms personally we will never achieve equality or happinessHere : can I PROVE women care about men's mental health ? No . Also can not disprove this . I will give you this : 1) women spend more time in the actual child we involved with their children. Do you need a study for this? 2)Mothers are more involved or attempt to be more involved in their adult children's life on average then fathers . Do you need a study for this? 3) women are socialized to help others with emotional needs then men and attempt to more attuned to the feelings of other. Do you n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 11:40 AM |
| 3 | As long as women take criticisms personally we will never achieve equality or happinessLol. So... you want me to find a study that asked women or some how proved women care about men's mental health ? So if there is no such study does that prove women DONT care ? I'm talking from my experience as a woman. I would love for you to give me study proving the world or women in general DON'T care . I'll wait. Since there no studies to prove or disprove this I will state what I see in my life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 11:18 AM |
| -1 | As long as women take criticisms personally we will never achieve equality or happinessThat's interesting. I suffered depression most of my young life. I guess I should claim men don't care about my situation. Lol. Taking care of folks mental health is important and women push themselves as well as others about the importance of such much more then men in general. If you asked women what a man - young or old - should do if they they were depressed , a majority would say therapy. I don't think hardly any woman would be happy anyone else is depressed. And looking at the CDC informat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 11:09 AM |
| 2 | As long as women take criticisms personally we will never achieve equality or happinessOmg. It's 5 in the morning . I said already women including myself see men's mental health is an issue. AGREED . The study you quoted didn't prove to me that young men with issues don't need regular therapy. It doesn't . If you have a study of young men in risk with regular therapy vs little or no therapy I would read it. Sentencing should be fair regardless of gender. AGREED. So what steps are advocates taking | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 11:01 AM |
| 0 | As long as women take criticisms personally we will never achieve equality or happinessLet me break it down for you. Women as a whole care about men's mental health and would also support fair sentencing for crimes. That's what I'm saying. Now what actionable steps are you or men's advocates taking to improve those two things ? That's my suspicion- they are just used as a prop for show. If I'm wrong 😑 please show me how advocates are helping solve this. We are for correcting the issue | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 10:58 AM |
| 3 | As long as women take criticisms personally we will never achieve equality or happinessI'm a woman and I never heard a woman say that. You are talking about people on the fridge of society. Most women do not think or say that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 10:55 AM |
| 1 | As long as women take criticisms personally we will never achieve equality or happinessA study of Middle Aged men and therapy proves young suicidal men don't need therapy? Let's see a study that compares how many women seek therapy regularly vs men and their comparative suicide rates | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 10:53 AM |
| 2 | As long as women take criticisms personally we will never achieve equality or happinessNo , I did read it. What I am saying is for the most part WE THE PUBLIC ONLY HEAR men's issues when they are trying to counter women's issues . It's true. Like the male suicide rate - almost every time it's mentioned online or elsewhere - it's always use as a counter to prove that men don't have it better or that feminism is harming men. Almost every time. Again - why not just push men to go to therapy ? I have yet to hear a man's right advocate say that. And if men frown at men for therapy that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 10:50 AM |
| 1 | As long as women take criticisms personally we will never achieve equality or happinessI don't understand why men thought it was a personal attack. It's almost like they thought any women who answered the question was talking about them personally | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 10:40 AM |
| 2 | As long as women take criticisms personally we will never achieve equality or happinessMen created the pill to help men. Let's stop lying here. Men like the joy of sex without condoms without making children they'd abandon anyway. It did end up giving women freedom but I doubt that was the intention of its creator | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 10:39 AM |
| 1 | As long as women take criticisms personally we will never achieve equality or happinessI ate when a woman's right goes away and men keep saying we have that right. Roe v Wade was overturned years ago. Why don't you look at a map and see how few states still have legalized abortion now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 10:37 AM |
| 1 | As long as women take criticisms personally we will never achieve equality or happinessHere is the problem: we only hear about these men's issues when men try to some how blame women for them when they are actually a result of patriarchal systems that more men then women are in charge of them Growing mental health crisis in young men - maybe grown men need to stop shaming men from going to therapy and instead actually encouraging it? Who- in large- is shaming men for having feelings ? Could it be other men who call men displaying emotions "sissys"? No some how it's women's fault f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 10:31 AM |
| -6 | As long as women take criticisms personally we will never achieve equality or happinessFor me personally, it's hard to take men's issue like this seriously because they try to blame them on women when it's obvious the problem is their fellow men. How are women making men commit suicide ? Usually it's because men don't think they are measuring up to other men and men aren't going to therapy.... yet some how they try to make the issue women. How? Explain? The only part that could be kinda women's "fault" is the men on the bottom get rejected by women relationship-wise. Ok so is the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 10:20 AM |
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