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| – | They Know What to Say and Who to Say it To. It Depends on Where You Are on Their Value Hierarchy. Selective Preaching, Pandering and None at all.It's strange to think of indifference as a social filter as you have stated. "And before someone says "men do this too," Unattractive women arent getting preached to about mens mental health, or, how hard is it being a man or anything like that. " All women get lecured about that shit by the mainstream media on behalf of men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/26 06:14 PM |
| 1 | Men and women do not live the same lifeThe average man gets married and dies before his wife though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/26 11:16 AM |
| 1 | Men will never go back to what they used to be for good reasonYour point is ahistorical; much Victorian misogyny was actually about women being much more lustful than men. Be a redpiller if you wish, but please at least understand the fundamentals of a topic before you form an opinion you think others need to be educated with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Where are all the straight women!?In what way is it misrepresenting yourself if you are straight, are only attracted to men as a woman, and so call yourself straight, if you got fingered once at uni by a girl? Seems more like an unease at queerness escaping the border of the section you cede to it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 12:08 AM |
| 1 | Where are all the straight women!?The label is based on what you want and how you feel. This is why healthcare settings also use the term 'men who have sex with men' and 'women who have sex with women' because for whatever reason, there are plenty of straight-identifying people of both genders who do have, or have had, sex with the same sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 03:53 PM |
| 2 | Men need to let go of the need to constantly defend women whenever they are criticised.Well presumably you're not in the room when lots of women are talking like this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 02:36 PM |
| 1 | Approaching random women is a waste of timeThe best method is meeting people irl through friends, clubs etc. it just takes slower which is unacceptable to people when they've fried their brains using apps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 02:32 PM |
| 2 | Artificial wombs will displace female hierarchyYou seem to think all men are with you and all women are against you, and therefore wombs are munitions. You also seem to think this change would have zero impact on men and how they see themselves. Considering red pill men seem to think abortion is an unfair advantage I don't think this is the case at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 02:18 PM |
| 5 | Where are all the straight women!?Not necessarily, OP counts anyone whose had a sexual experience with a woman. Some straight women experiment. But to OP that rules them out from being straight enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 02:14 PM |
| 3 | Men must realise women are not thier partners but competitors.I'm sorry your wife took the punctuation in the divorce. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 02:12 PM |
| 1 | Orgasm gap is not caused by men, its caused by women because they don’t close the gap of effort gapWhilst I agree with the principle of women being sexually empowered, there is something deeply antagonistic about how you've written this. I do think when there are issues in bed it's BOTH people and their shared chemistry. This is the same logic that would have a man with erectile dysfunction be told he needs to try harder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 01:12 PM |
| 7 | Women’s mating strategy (Hard to get) ruining our societal civilization, thus women need to change their tactic from Hard to get to Fair to getWhy should they? Fundamentally I don't want to end up with someone like you. So anything I can do to prevent that is good. Nothing about designer labels is relevant to this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 01:10 PM |
| 1 | The idea that men enjoy the chase is completely made up.How do you define chasing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 01:08 PM |
| 4 | Women need to cookSpecialisation is for insects. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 02:18 AM |
| 1 | Women are scared of not having the power in datingIt doesn't frighten me, but I don't see the appeal in a man who sees himself as a prize. When I date women I also feel like that. Men can decide they are the prize, but doesn't mean people will be desiring that prize. If you want traditional dating and relationships, then you have to be that man. if you want a more egalitarian approach, then don't spend your days ragging on feminists etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/26 11:09 AM |
| 2 | Nice guys should accept being aloneNice isn't really a trait though is it, let alone one to identify as. Someone will. have had a nice time in your company, but why would anyone identify as a nice person? You need to do good things, rather than deciding you're good. If you are struggling with sex, dating or relationships that's OK, but don't fall down the weirdly arrogant self-loathing that comes with the nice guy crowd. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 05:13 PM |
| 0 | I find it EXTREMELY hard to sympathize with most of women's dating woes.So don't? Anyone who would be so transactional about empathy isn't going to be a good partner. You're not obliged to show empathy, but it's not the victory you think it is to be without. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/26 02:12 PM |
| 10 | unselected men should not feel moral guilt/responsibility for women’s dating choicesYou can't hate your way into being loved, and the quicker you realise that the more chance you have of having the life you actually want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/26 02:10 PM |
| 3 | Dating for straight men is entirely TOO MUCH WORKWell genuine question, do you give a shit about women? Or do you expect them to understand you and not vice versa? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/26 12:03 PM |
| – | Women secretly love the Patriarchy because it benefits them in too many ways that they aren't gonna admit.You have extrapolated excessively from a few online comments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/26 06:06 PM |
| 1 | This question is primarily for men, but open to anyone. If you woke up as a straight woman, what kind of partner would you go for?What do you even mean? Bi twinks are getting *chased* around here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 05:49 PM |
| 2 | Would you be fine with not getting the "full Girlfriend treatment"?Either that or anal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 05:48 PM |
| 17 | No one hates independent women, you are just arrogant and obnoxiousAnd then women who aren't like that get called gold diggers. I don't think there's a window of acceptable behaviour for women if this is how you feel. Don't get me wrong, I do not care for boss babe culture, but I think you're wrong when you say no one is intimidated by women who are independent; which seems to be women who aren't emotionally submissive to every man they meet half the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/26 05:45 PM |
| 1 | If women want to see certain changes in men, they should reward the men who embody that idealWhy? Men are entitled to do or be those things. Women affirming it's a problem, women enforcing norms is a problem. Can't win either way really. A man has a right to do lots of things that I wouldnt want to block, doesn't mean I'm obliged to date them as an ally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/26 10:12 PM |
| – | Women's Preferences Are Fine. Fetishes Disguised as Standards Are Not.I think you have assigned various words a level of semantic impact and are moving the definitions around accordingly, and having those meanings do the heavy lifting of your argument. A fetish is not in of itself an issue; to conflate it with societal processes of fetishisation as well as of objectification creates a rather circular argument. A preference for a specific trait to not be present is by definition not a fetish; a fetish is an active process of desire. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/26 03:00 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Entirely depends on the circles you are in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/26 10:59 PM |
| 0 | Would women’s dating problems change if they had fewer suitors?I said nothing of my own dating life, but I think how one defines a 'loser' is rather subjective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/26 05:19 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵This is one of the major benefits of having a slaggy phase as well. Screens out this type. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/26 03:12 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵As an artist, I think it's interesting that the handmade, processual, abstract and impressionistic is in ascendency as a result; because quite frankly that's where my practice is. But I do genuinely think part of the reason generative AI art has taken off so much is because there was already a lot of bottom of barrel digital art online. People making fan art etc. Don't put your art online. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/26 03:10 PM |
| 0 | Would women’s dating problems change if they had fewer suitors?No, I am referring to when you mention less [male] losers. You started a conversation about women's prospects though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/26 03:07 PM |
| 7 | Most men aren't desperate for sex/relationship, their issue is that they want to find someone who accepts the lowest possible effort.If you make a post with only anecdotes, observations and generalisations then I just don't think it's intellectually honest to criticise someone for providing their anecdotal experience in reply. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/26 03:00 PM |
| 0 | Honesty is ruining romanceSaying your wife is 4/10 publicly doesn't seem as bad as telling your boyfriend his dick is perfect and not too big don't seem comparable at all tbh. I can see why the latter may be offensive don't get me wrong, but there's a clear admiration and attraction there. the 4/10 wife is getting none of that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/26 02:59 PM |
| -1 | Would women’s dating problems change if they had fewer suitors?Less losers would also help I suppose | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/26 02:56 PM |
| 5 | Most men aren't desperate for sex/relationship, their issue is that they want to find someone who accepts the lowest possible effort.Ok but your post is also anecdotally based. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/26 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Are woman's lives nowadays more stressful than in the past or in some ways worse than in the past?Most women picked their own husbands in 1926, at least in the UK. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/26 07:22 PM |
| 16 | Women do not understand deductive reasoningThe red pill assumes that everyone who isn't red pill has a unifying ideology, which is demonstrably false. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/26 07:21 PM |
| – | Women’s standards are not high in the leastI agree, whatever your opinions are on gender and relationships, surely we have all seen a vast spectrum of behaviours from either gender over the years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/26 02:54 PM |
| 2 | women on reddit are very much part of the problemThe internet is not the place to get proper help. Additionally, when you offer men advice online, it's considered too generic, or wrong that men should be improving themselves. There is also the 'fish cannot teach you how to fish' mentality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 02:41 PM |
| 12 | "Men should listen to women" yeah and women have radically differentiating opinionsSharing experiences isn't projecting. Perhaps some of the time it is, but it seems that your own comments could be called projecting to use your own contextual definition. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/26 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Woman are actually pretty bad at filtering.'So woman Date filter by bonkers metrics and say then "you see? from my 5 boyfriends only 1 was shit" So 20% of the non "emotion unstable junkies" are Men wo cheat, lie, steal and are just assholes? There are a ton of story's where womans filtering is proven as failed.' You gave made up a statement from an imaginary woman and used this as evidence. Nothing in your post approaches anything resembling a coherent argument. If your point is 'it's good for people to be open minded to who would be a g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/26 02:31 PM |
| 26 | "Men should listen to women" yeah and women have radically differentiating opinionsI find men online in these sorts of spaces, talk about women as a singularity, and when women speak they're reminded that they're not a spokesperson. Men permit themselves to talk with broad strokes, and are either unwilling to accept women doing the same, or unable to recognise this tendency in themselves. You have misrepresented the issues that tend to be mentioned regarding age differences in relationships; whether that is deliberate or simply an issue of comprehension I do not know. I person… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/26 02:28 PM |
| 1 | The days of men cold approaching random women in streets, malls, and grocery stores left and right are long gone and will never come back.Back in the day people met through people. Having someone vouch for you, even if only enough to be invited to drinks or a party is massive. But a lot of men on here specifically seem to think that if a piece of social behaviour doesn't immediately get them what they want then its useless to them; and this attitude is absolutely desperation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 12:13 PM |
| 3 | Regarding Cold Approaches, location doesn’t matter much tbh.The thing is its men with this type of attitude that makes being cold approached unappealing. I get rejection is horrible. Women sharing their own feelings on the matter doesn't mean they are, or are trying, to speak for all women. Uncooperative behaviour is such an unappealing way of describing someone not being interested in you. Cold approaching does vary according to location, there have been times I have been more amenable to it than others and thats absolutely due to the location, which is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/25 10:26 PM |
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