GlitteryDonkey Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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4	Are men capable of raising kids by themselves? How does your biological theory deal with a hetero couple who require either a surrogate egg or sperm to have a child? Is that child going to be subjected to the same issues that same sex couples will theoretically have? Many same sex couples have children who share DNA with one parent. Can you point to actual studies that back up what you’ve stated? I’d be interested in reading them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/22 06:34 AM
3	A man's high body count results in a better sexual experience for women, but a woman's high body count results in a worse sexual experience for men. Because they are speaking for themselves, not most women. You are literally trying to speak for most men based on your personal experiences and conversations you’ve had with others. How is that any different from everyone else on this thread who disagrees with you? Just because you believe what you say doesn’t make it right.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/22 07:06 AM
2	ladies why does it seem so hard to get to know u guys? i was hoping some of u could help explain the behavior of a lot of women i meet irl. How do you approach these women? What is your go to for starting a conversation?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/22 03:22 AM
1	In your experience, what are the signs that someone is unhappy in their relatioship? Have you talked to him about it? Are they having financial issues you’re not aware of? Do they have young children? Could there be any factors outside the marriage, such as a stressful job, contributing to his unhappiness? If you haven’t discussed your concerns with him, then you shouldn’t jump to conclusions. Marriage is a partnership that takes work. There are always going to be highs and lows. The last 2+ years have been stressful for most people because of outside factors. You need to talk t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/22 08:27 AM
3	Women are not inherently more shallow then men that idea is idiotic What are the things women value about men that aren’t part of who/what they are?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/22 07:58 AM
1	Women are not inherently more shallow then men that idea is idiotic My comment was in response to a different comment. I blame whiskey.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/22 07:58 AM
1	Women are not inherently more shallow then men that idea is idiotic What are the things women value about men that aren’t part of who/what they are?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/22 07:12 AM
2	Women of Reddit, how do you want to be approached if you’re single and looking to date? I completely agree with you. Location totally changes how things are done. I feel single women in big cities are more liberal minded when it comes to gender roles and they have to be. They have more competition to find a partner even for a STR. For the most part, conservative women stick to gender norms so they have the expectation of being approached. Neither is wrong just different, and we all need to learn to adapt. It seems you have this skill mastered.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/22 01:20 PM
1	Women of Reddit, how do you want to be approached if you’re single and looking to date? So I am definitely the woman who’s friendliness and kindness gets mistaken for flirting. When I realize someone thinks I’m flirting, I will flat out tell them that my flirting is obvious. I literally tell people that I want to make out with them. I always want consent since it’s something important to me. I don’t want to make someone feel obligated or uncomfortable by just going for it. If they don’t want to make out with me, I’m totally fine. I want to respect people’s boundaries and hope they …	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/22 01:09 PM
2	Giving woman your own age a chance why? It still comes down to being with someone you want or not. Marriage is a partnership. No one should have more power than the other. When people talk about the declining value of women who are in their 30s, it sounds similar to the FDS women. It comes across as completely superficial. It reads Stepford Wives. Wouldn’t you rather have a partner who makes you laugh, challenges you intellectually, who doesn’t rely on you to make every decision? I’m probably too old for this sub. I follow it because …	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/22 12:43 PM
3	Women of Reddit, how do you want to be approached if you’re single and looking to date? I feel like some women are trying to be mysterious with their body language to try and entice someone to hit on them. They also don’t want to approach someone they’re interested in. Maybe the guy making the first move is something they’ve been told to expect their whole lives or they don’t want to be rejected. Whatever the reason, I think it’s time women step up and approach people they’re interested in. I’ve always made the first move, but I grew up during the Riot Grrrl movement which encourag…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/22 10:58 AM
1	So what do men want women to say / do when they face continuous rejection? Okay. My comment was for men and women to understand your point of view better.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/22 03:57 AM
4	So what do men want women to say / do when they face continuous rejection? I wish I knew what comment you were replying to for better context. What won’t women acknowledge? Nearly twice as many women are sexually assaulted compared to men with men being the perpetrators. Women being concerned about their safety is not a bad thing. Rape is a traumatic experience that stays with a person for the rest of their lives. How did you come up with this conclusion that women don’t care or acknowledge the struggle some men have dating? Is it based on your own experiences or from …	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/22 03:37 AM
11	Women of Reddit, how do you want to be approached if you’re single and looking to date? As a woman, I completely agree with this. No one can read minds nor notice all non-verbal cues. I don’t think anyone is deranged for thinking this, but it is definitely asking way too much from anyone. If you don’t want someone to approach you and they’re staring at you, stare back and mouth NO or shake your head disapprovingly at them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/22 02:12 AM
51	Giving woman your own age a chance why? What makes marrying a professional woman around the same age as you feel schadenfreude? What suffering/misfortune are deriving pleasure from? What are you losing from marrying a women in her 30’s who is a professional and is interested in being with you? You either want to be be someone or you don’t. It’s that simple.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/22 11:29 PM
1	Have you ever changed your mind on a man you initially weren’t attracted to? Absolutely. I have also found men physically attractive, which this sub would consider Chads, until I had a conversation with them. For me, personality overrides physical attractiveness. I like men who don’t take themselves too seriously, have a sense of humor similar to mine (think Tom Segura, Ricky Gervais, Andrew Schulz) and can hold an intelligent conversation. These things are way more attractive to me than physical attributes. The biggest physical attribute I’m attracted to is a well kept …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/22 02:50 AM
2	Do feminists consider sexual activity for men a human right, and if not, why is this the case? What do women have more power and control over? It’s disingenuous to say that most women have control over what happens during sex or even if it happens. If a woman wanted to do something sexual that man doesn’t want, is he going to let her? If a man isn’t interested in having sex with a particular woman, should he give into her? If a person doesn’t want to have sex, they shouldn’t have to. That’s not exerting control. It’s about consent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/22 01:09 PM
1	Some men need to accept the fact that if they want to date, they’ll have to BB Are there things you do together that she’s not really into but she does them because it makes you happy? And I completely understand the introvert/extrovert attraction. I’m an extrovert who enjoys being with introverts. Heathy relationships rely on compromises based on boundaries and expectations along with the ability to communicate well. (No one can read minds, thank god.) Kudos to you for loving your person enough to let her talk your ear off. I know it’s something that zaps an introverts en…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/22 03:50 AM
6	If there is a very high chance that a woman will divorce you in marriage is there any reason for men to get married anymore? What financial benefit? Women have a higher risk of slipping into poverty after divorce.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/22 02:21 PM
7	Correlation between intelligence/education and meeting women? They’re highly intelligent but in my experience they suffer from tunnel vision. They only want to talk about the academic subject they studied. They tend to be book smart only.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/22 11:41 AM
10	If there is a very high chance that a woman will divorce you in marriage is there any reason for men to get married anymore? Actually I know all the ex-husbands and can tell you 100% they were not great guys. I’ve known these people for almost a decade. Did the men go to therapy after their divorce? Did you talk to the ex-wives about how they were feeling before the divorces occurred? My girlfriends left because they were depleted, depressed and broken in their marriage. When the divorce was finalized, a weight was lifted off their shoulders. My girlfriends’ ex-husbands were people I tolerated because my girlfriends l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/22 11:08 AM
20	If there is a very high chance that a woman will divorce you in marriage is there any reason for men to get married anymore? Contrary to popular belief on this sub, women lose in the long run monetarily when they divorce, especially if they were SAHM. Many women become impoverished after divorce. So it’s not really in their best interest to do it. Also when did the husbands put in the effort to make things right? How long should a person, man or woman, wait for their spouse to decide to make things right? If your spouse was shitty for x number of years, would you resent them? Would you then question why they were tryi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/22 09:29 AM
28	If there is a very high chance that a woman will divorce you in marriage is there any reason for men to get married anymore? Why do 7 out of 10 women initiate divorce? That is what needs to be investigated further. Is it because the husband cheated but wants to remain married? Is the husband abusive and the wife decided she no longer wants to be in a relationship like that? My female friends that have initiated divorce did so because the relationship was over on both sides and the husband didn’t want to deal with the paperwork, the lawyers, etc. Getting a divorce is a lot of work especially when children are involved.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/22 07:23 AM
17	Why are most divorces initiated by women rather than the man? Men don’t want to do the work. Just a theory. This doesn’t mean that women want a divorce more. A man can cheat and want to stay with his wife. But she can choose to end it. No matter who is at fault for a shitty marriage, a woman will still most likely decide that it’s over and want to move on. There is no reason to stay in a shitty marriage especially if you have kids.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/22 08:31 PM
2	What's your thoughts on the idea of a financial abortion? Also kevin Samuel's is dead, thoughts? This thread is discussing whether or not men should have the right to financial abortion. The safe harbor law provides that. Your comment on the safe harbor law made it seem like only women benefit from it. My response had nothing to do with the man wanting the child, knowing about the child, etc. The person giving birth should have more say in what happens. Pregnancy and birth are not risk-free. It is also expensive especially if one has to have an emergency c-section or the baby has to stay in…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/22 01:28 PM
2	What's your thoughts on the idea of a financial abortion? Also kevin Samuel's is dead, thoughts? And the bio dad benefits from the safe harbor law by not having to be financially responsible for the child. That law benefits both parties, so why does it keep being stated as if only a woman benefits from it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/22 12:32 PM
3	Women can't value self confidence and expect men to be honest about their feelings No SO should be the only person you rely on to shoulder your emotions if you have a mental health issues. Typically they will only be able to listen unlike a therapist who's job it is to give guidance and coping tools. I have never expected my SO to be my therapist. I share my feelings so they know why I'm acting a certain way, but I'd go to a therapist to help me work through whatever problem I'm having. Men are just as emotional as women. They just express them differently. I've typically seen…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/22 11:11 AM
4	Women can't value self confidence and expect men to be honest about their feelings Having self confidence and showing emotions/vulnerability do not cancel each other out. I don't understand why this sub thinks these two things are mutually exclusive. It takes self confidence to allow yourself to be vulnerable and show emotions. I have never thought less of a man with mental health issues unless they use it as an excuse for bad behavior and never try to get better. I feel the same way about women. If you know you have mental health issues, see a therapist, take medication, lear…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/22 09:53 AM
3	Women's inflated self-rating today is mostly due to men's desperation on OLD Plenty. They tend to take themselves too seriously which is a huge turn-off for me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/22 10:01 PM
1	Women's inflated self-rating today is mostly due to men's desperation on OLD A lot more than you think	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/22 09:54 PM
2	Women's inflated self-rating today is mostly due to men's desperation on OLD But some rely on their looks and are socially inept. Seriously looks aren’t everything even if a woman is just looking for a hook-up. Dumb and ignorant are not attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/22 09:32 PM
7	Q4Men: Do you have any positive platonic female friendships? Does it affect how you view women? What do you learn from your female friends? What do you like about those friendships vs male friendships? Those are just bad friends. I have a number of close male friends and if they need me, I make time. One has PTSD and when he would have a bad night coping, I would go over and listen or do whatever he needed me to do platonically. He has a girlfriend now so he rarely calls on me. He was definitely not a fixer. There are good women out there who truly care for their friends. I consider my friends my family. I’m sorry the woman who you considered your best friend acted the way she did. It’s gives …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/22 07:55 PM
1	What do you care for in your partner? A sense of humor. I don’t want to be with a person who can’t laugh at themselves. A person who takes themselves too seriously is a no for me. Life is weird and full of twists and turns. Laughter can help. It’s a known stress reliever. Learning to laugh at yourself is a gift. Someone who takes responsibility for their own life. Life happens. It’s not always fair. Instead of taking the poor-me path, step up and deal with whatever is going on. But know when you need help and take it when it’s offer…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/22 11:10 PM
1	Not sure how I (25M) should spend the next few years If you want to travel the world, then you should do it. You are obviously questioning your relationship and when that starts happening, it’s time to move on. You are so young! I got married at 28 but I didn’t have a child until I was 36. (I’m a woman.) I wasn’t 75% ready until then to commit to being a mom. I love being an older parent. What I’m trying to say is life is short. If you have the funds to travel the world, do it. There’s no guarantee you’ll be able to do it when you’re older. My par…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/22 08:22 PM
1	For all the people who say that modern dating is not hard at all for men Is it? How soon does it have to happen to be a prerequisite for a relationship? Many women will tolerate mediocre sex if a relationship is fulfilling in other ways. Is sex a prerequisite for men to commit to an LTR? If so, then they are also the gatekeepers to LTRs. A woman knows whether or not she wants to have sex with a man after making out. If making out with someone doesn’t turn her on, she’s less likely to take it further. I would hope the same goes for men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/22 09:32 AM
4	For all the people who say that modern dating is not hard at all for men I really wish the men on the sub would post pictures of what they believe are average and below average looking men. Do you not think that below average looking women have a difficult time dating? If you’re on OLD, how many below average women have you engaged with? How many below average women do you hit on in public? This aspect is rarely discussed on this sub too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/22 09:26 AM
1	For all the people who say that modern dating is not hard at all for men Believe it or not many things go through a woman’s mind before hooking up with a man. It doesn’t matter how attractive the guy is; how friendly; how kind. In the back of our minds we wonder is this man going to respect my boundaries. Is he going to stop when I tell him to? If I do tell him to stop, is he going to respect me enough to not get angry? If he does get angry, is he going to yell at me and make me feel unsafe? If he’s okay yelling at me, will he escalate to physical violence? If it esc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/22 09:20 AM
2	If men only care about n count because of social conditioning What do people consider a high n count? Is a person’s age taken into account? I’m genuinely curious.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/22 08:10 AM
3	For all the people who say that modern dating is not hard at all for men Dating is hard for both men and women because they want different things. On this sub, men talk about exclusively wanting sex, and women talk about wanting LTRs. Those two things are very different. Is it easier for women to have a ONS? Yes. Is that what they talk about wanting on this sub? No. If men and women want different things from dating, it makes it hard for everyone. For the men who only want ONS, society has told women to recognize and be wary of you since women were very young. That i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/22 07:58 AM
1	I feel like paternity tests should be done for every child at birth to prove who the father is or isn't. Good to know.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/22 04:49 AM
–	I feel like paternity tests should be done for every child at birth to prove who the father is or isn't. Most genetic testing performed while pregnant do not give you the child’s DNA. The tests that do are invasive, and there are risks involved, such as losing the pregnancy. Those aren’t done unless the non-invasive tests show a high-probability of a genetic defect. I would not risk a pregnancy for a paternity test since they can easily be done right after birth using material from the umbilical cord.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/22 02:07 AM
0	What are some of the expectations of women in dating/sex/relationships that you would like to see changed? Are these women who tell you not to have kinks, that you're too traditional or betraying women your friends? If so, you need new friends. It’s disappointing when women are so judgemental of another woman’s choices since the women before us have fought for our right to decide what’s best us. No one has time for that drama. If it makes you happy, then it’s right for you (unless it involves intentionally hurting other people). This sentiment is for the men too. Tearing each other down just makes a …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/22 11:02 AM
–	The rapid societal decline in sex and relationships is solely due to women's lack of interest I agree with that. No one wants to be used, at least I hope they don't.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/22 04:20 AM
–	The rapid societal decline in sex and relationships is solely due to women's lack of interest Why do men, specifically on the sub, go on dates? Is it just to get laid or are they looking for an LTR? If it's the former, then how is that any different from a woman going on a date for fun, especially if she pays her way?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/22 03:55 AM
1	How would you react if the guy you were seeing told you he was a virgin? I wouldn’t be concerned at all. I know plenty of men and women who chose not to have sex until they were in their 20s.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/22 09:37 PM
3	What are the duties of women? No one said anything about winning. When two men fight, someone is going to lose also. But a man’s fist is going to lose to my gun.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/22 02:59 AM
0	What are the duties of women? A woman doesn’t need to ACT like man to claim equality. Women are capable of protecting themselves and their families. Last night I saw a woman take a guy out for talking trash about her friends. Was she acting like a man? Or was she just doing what she thought was right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/22 02:36 AM
1	What are the duties of women? Expectations and reality are different. Just because society places the expectation for a husband to lay down his life to protect his wife doesn’t mean it will actually happen in reality. Most people, man or woman, have no idea how they’d react in a situation like that. If your family is out on the streets, it’s the responsibility of both spouses to rectify the situation. You should be able to work as a team to get through hardships otherwise what’s the point of being married.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/22 02:26 AM
1	Men should not approach women. Men should wait until women approach them or women show obvious interest in them. Makes sense.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/22 04:32 AM
1	Men should not approach women. Men should wait until women approach them or women show obvious interest in them. I want to know what type of women are specifically like this. Please elaborate	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/22 03:12 AM
5	It is not my "job" to make my partner happy You can’t set yourself on fire to keep others warm.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/22 06:43 AM
1	The biggest dating hurdle for men is accessibility, the biggest dating hurdle for women is safety. I agree with you in the first part. First dates are not hard. You either click or you don't. Relationships require work from both parties. Couples need to have their boundaries and expectations conversations early and also remain open to changes in those things as they move forward. I watch/listen to a lot to of true crime stuff. I also watch airplane disasters. Neither of those things play a role in my everyday worries. My own experiences do. Those negative experiences began when I was a young …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/22 12:15 AM
1	Have you ever been in love before? I’ve been in love multiple times and I’m I love with someone now. I joined this sub out of curiosity. I want to know other people’s views on things. Living in an echo chamber helps no one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/21 04:25 AM
4	Would you rather have casual sex with a guy out of your league who saw you as beneath him, or sleep with a guy slightly less attractive than you who saw you as the hottest woman he's been with? Definitely the second if our personalities clicked. The first option is a hard no. I will never sleep with someone who thinks I’m beneath them. Anyone who thinks that has major personality flaws. Shallow people are not attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/21 02:38 AM
5	Will women really make a guy waits months for sex in order to “develop an emotional connection”? Like all aspects of dating, it depends on the individual. Some women become emotionally attached when they have sex with a person and some don't. The short term flings are like scratching an itch. The itch goes away and you do the think about it anymore. If man feels like they're being used because the woman he's dating won't have sex with him after 3 or 4 dates, he can walk away. It makes me wonder if for that man if dating is just about sex. I think you're right that a woman or man will know i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/21 07:29 PM
2	CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guilt If men IRL don't slut shame women, then why do it anonymously on the internet? If it's truly not a big deal to men, then why do it anywhere? On the internet, I read how men value a woman's virginity because they always want to be the first. Then there are the men on the internet who preach bad women's anatomy by stating that a woman's vagina gets so loose from having sex with a lot of different men but never from a lot of sex with one man. Both sexes judge and slut shame because they're taught t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/21 04:13 AM
6	I feel scared when I think about the future with my fiance. My husband is my best friend and I enjoy having sex with him. We’ve been married 20 years and have sex at least 2-3 times a week. I think your spouse should be your best friend. I also firmly believe that having your own friends and interests/hobbies is extremely important. One person should not be burdened with being everything to you. And once kids are added to the equation, a woman really needs mom friends because your husband will not be able to relate to what you’re going through. If you’re…	/r/RedPillWomen	31/10/21 09:16 AM
3	“Women are NOT a hive mind “, yet in any content where they Interview a group of women, their answers ALWAYS mirror each other’s I agree with you but I also want to be friends with people who think opposite of me. I don’t benefit from being in an echo chamber. And I want to know what the opposing views are and where they come from	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/21 06:51 AM
2	“Women are NOT a hive mind “, yet in any content where they Interview a group of women, their answers ALWAYS mirror each other’s What kind of questions are being asked? This is so vague I don’t know how to answer. But in any situation as a woman, I’m always the first to answer. Mostly because I don’t give a fuck what people think of me anymore. I’d rather be true to myself. I think this might be an age thing	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/21 06:49 AM
1	What's your shallowest turnoff ? Do you have an hour? I feel like this would be off-topic. I’ll DM you	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/21 09:51 PM
6	What's your shallowest turnoff ? People who say they don’t like something, particularly food, when they’ve never tried it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/21 09:42 PM
2	What's your shallowest turnoff ? I love audiobooks but would die without music. It would be hard to date someone who didn’t like music. What kind of audiobooks do you listen to? Do you have favorite readers?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/21 09:33 PM
6	What are the ways in which women enforce Toxic Masculinity? This is infuriating. But I want to throw out there that the “boys will be boys” comment is also used by older women in the work place because they had to deal with men making sexual comments, advances, etc. I believe the thinking behind it comes down to “I had to deal with it and you should to.” I get where these women are coming from but hope that they wouldn’t wish this upon others.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/21 09:28 PM
6	PSA: For the love of God, STOP faking your orgasms ladies! I have never faked an orgasm. It’s reinforcing bad behavior. For me, having an orgasm with a partner is half mental and half my partner listening when I say keep doing that. I can get myself off in 5 minutes. I’ve only had one partner that I was capable of doing that with PIV which is my favorite way to orgasm. He had what I refer to as my Goldie Locks dick. But we would have never made it as a couple. I know all women are different but the whole in and out thing does not work for me. The clitor…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/10/21 09:20 PM
–	Why do a lot of you talk badly about men, even though you have a loving boyfriend/husband at the moment? I hate the fact that grown women use it. I worked with a 65 year old woman who is an engineer. When she worked for a large company in the 80’s and early 90’s, before she started her own company, she would get sexually harassed all the time especially on business trips with her colleagues. She didn’t appreciate it at all but never went to HR because she thought “boys will be boys”. She still feels this way. She has made comments about how women nowadays should just suck it up and take whatever th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/21 06:08 AM
–	Why do a lot of you talk badly about men, even though you have a loving boyfriend/husband at the moment? If I complain about men, it’s specific men. Making generalizations about both sexes is not productive and seems to make both sexes look like assholes. My main complaints about my experiences with men are typically about not respecting my boundaries. Example: hitting on me, me saying I’m married which I have been for a long time, and every time I see this person after that hitting on me again in a pushy way. One guy recently, who worked with my husband, went so far after I told him no to show me …	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/21 12:56 AM
0	As much as feminists say that they’re against traditional gender roles, how much of that is true? Have you ever been a SAHP with a newborn baby? It is far from easy. They require a lot of attention and when they cry, they can't tell you what's wrong. And if the woman is the SAHP and she's nursing which men can't do, that takes a huge toll as well. Caring for a baby on top of taking care of everything else in the household is not easy at least for the first year. It takes its toll mentally and physically. If a family is wealthy enough to have a full-time nanny while both parents work after a …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/21 09:38 AM