Gloamglazer1989 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Do adult men without social circles really have a chance? Oath it’s hippie shit lol . If you’re enjoying yourself and spreading the love it’ll attract people to you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/23 10:02 AM
1	Do adult men without social circles really have a chance? Life is fair in that it is unfair , I think it’s beautiful. It’s fair to think it’s not beautiful, but I know what life I want to live.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/23 10:00 AM
3	Do adult men without social circles really have a chance? This had me laughing lol . If you ever need someone to talk to I’m here. Good luck to you :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/23 05:20 AM
2	Do adult men without social circles really have a chance? I was diagnosed with autism as a child , I was always confused and angry , nothing made sense and the world was wrong. When I was a teenager I had an argument with my mother , I concluded that all humans were selfish and that the act of kindness was a selfish act to make yourself feel superior etc , my mother argued that life is love. Years later my mother and father abandoned me , I was left homeless surrounded by darkness. The darkness is consuming because it is based on what you’ve experience…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/23 05:11 AM
1	Political Beliefs? I’m trying to get a better understanding of blue pill , can you please elaborate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/23 02:38 AM
3	Do adult men without social circles really have a chance? Hey noise , I was outcasted young age due to social disabilities/ poverty , you can grow out of it. It’s very challenging but I promise you there’s love and life out there for you. I’m sorry there’s no social obligation to help the disadvantaged, I’ve seen people outcast a deaf girl simply because it required extra effort to communicate with her , people are not bad we are animals. Walk with love and it will find you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/23 02:30 AM
14	Do adult men without social circles really have a chance? If you’ve been outcasted from a young age it is difficult to grow out of that mindset. Possible “marks” poverty , social disabilities etc	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/23 02:25 AM
2	Approaching = always creepy? Depends on who says it. I’m not sure how to respond to this. I’m not American , and consider my self left wing. Both genders enter the social contract not just women … you have some dark thoughts , I volunteer with disadvantaged young men perhaps there’s a similar program for women that might help you. Live with love not hate, peace to you <3	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/23 01:21 AM
3	Approaching = always creepy? Depends on who says it. The dating game is part of the social game , upon entering public you’re accepting the unspoken rules of the game. Part of this is the idea of communicating with other people , and that other people may want to communicate with you. I don’t necessarily agree with it but it’s life and life is beautiful:)	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/23 01:02 AM
2	Approaching = always creepy? Depends on who says it. Different poster ( not the few positive few negative guy ) ; I’d say that it’s all part of the game. If you’re in public you’re playing( unless you’re a child / animal ).	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/23 12:56 AM
2	Approaching = always creepy? Depends on who says it. I mean , if you have absolutely no choice and your social skills are so low that you need this mindset to continue approaching I’d accept it. Once you level up your social skills I would like the thought of “ I should try not to make people uncomfortable “ to be in your mind.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/23 12:47 AM
3	Approaching = always creepy? Depends on who says it. Sorry girl , my wife had headphones in when I approached her on the train lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/23 12:43 AM
4	Approaching = always creepy? Depends on who says it. Unfortunately for some people shopping centers/ gyms/ general public / etc are the only places available to them to approach people ( they could have no money / sensory issues / disabilities preventing them from attending festivals; also the environment could lack those things ( small town etc)) I think everyone who cold approaches would prefer to use the social circle strategy, but from my experience if you’re cold approaching you don’t have that choice. I’ve been surrounded by male dominated h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/23 12:37 AM
–	what is this notion "society" is supposed to magically "create" spaces for you to socialize if youre an abnormal teetotaller who cant just do what everyone has always done socially? Sorry unsure if this is a joke or not “learned to walk “ talking about people in wheelchairs lol . If not, some people are medically diagnosed with learning disabilities, some people don’t have stable families. I volunteer to assist disadvantaged young men , if you’re disabled , live in poverty , missing a father- learning social skills can be difficult and HS isn’t enough time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/23 12:47 AM
0	Women hate socially awkward and/or quiet males? Stunner , hope you don’t mind I checked out your profile , I am also an autistic man. There is hope and love for you in the world , please don’t give up. If you want someone to chat to spend me a message.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/23 05:20 AM
0	Women hate socially awkward and/or quiet males? Oath. Live with love brother , the world can be loving and it only takes one action at a time <3	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/23 05:04 AM
2	The reason high-functioning autists struggle with attracting women is that they don't conform to the rules of hegemonic masculinity as women generally like bravado men Everyone I have met that has “F” level social skills are disabled , grew up in poverty with deadbeat parents that beat them or do meth. I do agree that it’s unfortunate they blame society etc , I also see other minorities doing the same thing. When a dog is cornered it bites - some of these people never experience healthy relationships / any love ( including platonic ) and develop a rougher outer shell. It’s okay to not always help the disabled , especially if you feel like you’re in danger. Tha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/23 03:34 AM
2	The reason high-functioning autists struggle with attracting women is that they don't conform to the rules of hegemonic masculinity as women generally like bravado men I am not shocked that people who are socially disabled have difficulty developing basic social skills. Please be merciful to those that require help.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/23 02:48 AM
1	The reason high-functioning autists struggle with attracting women is that they don't conform to the rules of hegemonic masculinity as women generally like bravado men Every animal adapts to their environment , it is not dishonorable to “pretend” for others. Developing a social mask as an autistic is very useful. If someone is deaf , it is useful to learn to read lips / develop abilities to make communicating easier , the same for masking.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/23 02:43 AM
1	The reason high-functioning autists struggle with attracting women is that they don't conform to the rules of hegemonic masculinity as women generally like bravado men All the women I was in special education with were pregnant before 20 , I’m the only guy from it that is married. I had to spend many years struggling to develop my social ability. Chin up and keep trying brother , I promise there’s hope for you <3	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/23 02:40 AM
1	Reading the room, knowing when and how it's appropriate to show interest, etc are skills, and like all skills, require making mistakes in order to get better. Social intuition is different from being attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/23 02:32 AM
2	The reason high-functioning autists struggle with attracting women is that they don't conform to the rules of hegemonic masculinity as women generally like bravado men It’s difficult and frustrating to separate the hinderance of autism and being a prick. Please be merciful to the people who need help.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/23 01:54 AM
1	The reason high-functioning autists struggle with attracting women is that they don't conform to the rules of hegemonic masculinity as women generally like bravado men I guess understanding social cues gives you more opportunity and ability to be attractive?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/23 01:50 AM
2	"Neurodivergence" has become a trendy excuse for dating struggles Some people lack social intuition// and lack appropriate role models. I volunteer for disadvantaged young men , one guy I’m assisting right now never had a father , and his only male role mode in high school raped him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/23 01:45 AM
1	Reading the room, knowing when and how it's appropriate to show interest, etc are skills, and like all skills, require making mistakes in order to get better. Social intuition is different to being attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/23 01:39 AM
2	what is this notion "society" is supposed to magically "create" spaces for you to socialize if youre an abnormal teetotaller who cant just do what everyone has always done socially? The same reason we create wheelchair access for physically disabled people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/23 01:20 AM
9	Women hate socially awkward and/or quiet males? There’s no social obligation to assist / help / respect people who are socially incompetent/ disabled.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/23 01:11 AM
0	Do you think people and society expect guys, men, to have natural instinctive innate common sense for knowing what is creepy, weird or uncomfortable, and what is not when approaching or interacting with women? You’re coming from a privileged position of someone who is not socially disabled/ without social intuition. When I was younger height / physical presence did not enter my calculation into social weight as I viewed all human beings as equal// would not discriminate based on height / race etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/23 03:55 PM
1	Do you think people and society expect guys, men, to have natural instinctive innate common sense for knowing what is creepy, weird or uncomfortable, and what is not when approaching or interacting with women? I haven’t referred to sex in my comment chain. Did you know you’re supposed to stay read my replies before responding ?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/23 03:21 PM
1	Do you think people and society expect guys, men, to have natural instinctive innate common sense for knowing what is creepy, weird or uncomfortable, and what is not when approaching or interacting with women? Under this perception what do you expect socially disabled / socially awkward people to do in life ? Never seek human interaction ?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/23 02:53 PM
1	Do you think people and society expect guys, men, to have natural instinctive innate common sense for knowing what is creepy, weird or uncomfortable, and what is not when approaching or interacting with women? As a young man am I suppose to equate myself to a beggar?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/23 01:53 PM
2	Do you think people and society expect guys, men, to have natural instinctive innate common sense for knowing what is creepy, weird or uncomfortable, and what is not when approaching or interacting with women? I prefer people to be blunt / forward towards me and act with agency. Yes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/23 05:27 AM
1	Do you think people and society expect guys, men, to have natural instinctive innate common sense for knowing what is creepy, weird or uncomfortable, and what is not when approaching or interacting with women? For violence that works , but for pushy / social awkward can’t be countered by basic empathy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/23 04:43 AM
5	Do you think people and society expect guys, men, to have natural instinctive innate common sense for knowing what is creepy, weird or uncomfortable, and what is not when approaching or interacting with women? You’re coming from a privileged position , some people can’t make friends through friends , what if you move to a new city etc? I have the same experience as the “dating coach” I had to cold approach / fail many times before getting the experience to succeed. I met my wife on the train , if I used your philosophy I wouldn’t have met my soul mate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/23 02:00 AM
3	Do you think people and society expect guys, men, to have natural instinctive innate common sense for knowing what is creepy, weird or uncomfortable, and what is not when approaching or interacting with women? Some people don’t have social intuition.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/23 01:42 AM