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| 1 | Why do women act as if sex devalues them?Because sometimes it’s not about value but rather desire | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/18 05:16 AM |
| 2 | CMV: The vast majority of crap that men put up with is the fault of more powerful men.e.g. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/17 01:45 AM |
| 1 | Why is talking about vaginal aesthetics considered so deeply offensive while talking about penis aesthetics is considered totally okay?I'm proud of my labia. It's banned in Australia! Fat pussy for life! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/17 12:41 PM |
| -1 | What rights do men have that women do not?I can see that as being a good thing though. If indecisiveness is a negative trait, then we now can see that it exists across the board as a human trait. Not just a female one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/16 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Should deception count as rape?If its in the video-tapers residence it is not illegal. If it is in a place that has a reasonable expectation of privacy (a bathroom for example) it is illegal. This is why home surveillance is not illegal. Adding audio complicates things and I think this varies from state to state. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/16 08:19 PM |
| 2 | Should deception count as rape?It is illegal if it goes beyond reasonable means to attain the footage. As in, if the bay windows are wide open and they are standing in there, that's not really peeping-tom worthy. But if someone is hiding in a closet, animal housing it with a ladder, or other shady means, than it not only is illegal to film them, but also to even spy on them (peeping tomism is a crime). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/16 07:51 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Women with a high N count display poor impulse control that bleeds into other aspect of their life.Casual sex =! Lack of autonomy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/16 12:57 AM |
| 1 | Would the red pill changing its tone change what you think of the content of their posts?Being a fudge packer is a euphemism for a gay man having anal sex. Why is this a problem? I'm not trying to be overly PC, but if you're in a place like TPP, a place for dialogue and discussion, terms like "cock carousel" still don't have concrete definitions. It implies a lot. Like you just said "usually more attractive" but you couldn't possibly know that. And terms like that imply disdain. Can't have discussions if you're already coming to the podium with the idea that RP is 100% infallible. I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/15 08:26 PM |
| 10 | Would the red pill changing its tone change what you think of the content of their posts?Language is a huge deal when discussing things like this. When you hear words like "cock carousel" or "whore" it just sounds like it is coming from a place of hate. Of course no one could argue or explain appropriately if they are full of rage about a scenario. It makes the RP lose credibility. If we could discuss these gender dynamics like adults, I do believe that even I (purple pill) could agree with a lot of RP observations. A lot of RP women make a lot of sense to me, but the male voices on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/15 07:28 AM |
| 1 | Everybody: Does sex (or a lack of it) defile a person? Why?I'm saying that genitalia, in the grand scheme of things, SHOULD be considered equal commodities. Not that they ARE that. And yes, because we have differing ideas of what equal means, in terms of gender and respect, then we can't continue this dialogue (as I've already stated). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/15 01:40 AM |
| 2 | Can BP and greater society disagree with TRP if they don't even know what TRP's tenants really are?I mostly have a problem with the way RP is always arguing with women about women. Like we are lying to strangers on the internet so that women culture of deception and hypergamy can continue to exist. Like we are the police of the dating world. So many of the tenets of RP are based around values and morality that are not universal. Demanding that the rest of world bow to those values and morality is unrealistic. Part of the value system is worshipping or demonizing certain genitalia (something I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/15 10:21 PM |
| 5 | Does Casual Sex Make People Happy?Money does the same thing. It makes me unhappy that I can't have as much as I want while making millionaires feel the standard problems associated with being rich. Guess we should shame anyone with money too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/15 09:59 PM |
| 1 | Everybody: Does sex (or a lack of it) defile a person? Why?I am saying that your definition of equality is flawed. Separate but equal is not equal. My whole point is that genitalia should be considered equal regardless of whether the member protrudes or intrudes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/15 09:37 PM |
| 1 | Everybody: Does sex (or a lack of it) defile a person? Why?Having the definitions of equality is essential to continue this dialogue. What you are proposing is a separate but equal option, which still isn't fundamentally equal. Somehow genitalia holds separate worths. Either the penis is somehow more sacred and overuse of it means ostracizing the woman/gay man. This means that the vagina is less sacred. Or the penis is less sacred and the overuse of it means that the woman/gay man isn't special by obtaining it. This then means that the vagina is more sa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/15 08:32 PM |
| 1 | Everybody: Does sex (or a lack of it) defile a person? Why?Wow. That's all I got. Just wow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/15 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Everybody: Does sex (or a lack of it) defile a person? Why?Um not really. Having a high partner count for men: a-ok. Having a high partner count for women: whore label. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/15 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Everybody: Does sex (or a lack of it) defile a person? Why?Well sure, but the sheer number of people banged doesn't do anything for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/15 06:13 PM |
| 2 | Everybody: Does sex (or a lack of it) defile a person? Why?I guess I don't understand nor speak to anyone who is honest in my own gender. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/15 11:10 PM |
| 2 | Everybody: Does sex (or a lack of it) defile a person? Why?I don't understand this. I don't think a guy who has banged a lot of sluts is more attractive. Its actually the opposite (for me anyway). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/15 11:08 PM |
| 4 | Everybody: Does sex (or a lack of it) defile a person? Why?you are feeding what you essentially loathe | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/15 11:07 PM |
| 6 | Everybody: Does sex (or a lack of it) defile a person? Why?Only the negative traits in women? No negative traits at all for men? I wonder if the negative traits in women have something to do with their circumstances or other outside variables. Do you have any research or reports to view? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/15 05:20 PM |
| 4 | Everybody: Does sex (or a lack of it) defile a person? Why?This makes more sense than any other thing in this thread. Thank you for explaining this rationally without all the buzzwords. While I agree with your overall statement, I do believe that there are phases people go through. "Getting slutty with it" can sometimes help people grow up. As in, you learn that not everyone cares about you. It can also be used to cope with some weird hang ups that after coming to that realization that people either don't care about you or you get your frustrations out … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/15 05:17 PM |
| 4 | Everybody: Does sex (or a lack of it) defile a person? Why?This whole thread is full of double standards and utter bullshit. People fuck. Its nature. We're animals. Animals fuck. People fuck. people fuck. People fuck, ya'll! It shouldn't mean that either gender should be shamed for what everyone does. I just don't understand how you even know. RPers, when you get with a girl who seems LTR worthy, do you ask, "how much of a stupid whore are you exactly?" Also, if its in men's nature to fuck anything that walks, then why can women have that card too? Why … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/15 04:22 PM |
| 4 | Everybody: Does sex (or a lack of it) defile a person? Why?So you're cool with supporting the slut in her sluttiness, "pump and dump" but you're not cool in supporting the slut in her sluttiness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/15 04:21 PM |
| 8 | Everybody: Does sex (or a lack of it) defile a person? Why?See, that's the problem. We don't view fucking hot men as rewarding them for being hot men. We see it as, "I wanna fuck. You're pretty hot." Its not a fucking barter system. MEn become promiscuous because YOU encourage it, you create it, and you perpetuate it. I mean that make sense. If women stop fucking men, men won't have anyone to fuck! Its all our fault. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/15 04:18 PM |
| 0 | Extreme Red Pillers are no better than extreme feminists, they both need to stop.Because "improving yourself" doesn't count if you can't tell anyone about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/15 09:56 AM |
| 4 | Blue pills/feminists verify just how correct Red pill values areAnd it's not like that couldn't apply to social expectations either like he just described. It's just argument for the sake of argument. I rarely post here anymore because they never actually read what is being said. Which, now that I think about it, explains a lot as to why they need sexual strategy advice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/15 08:32 AM |
| 2 | What types of people does bluepill and redpill consist of?26/F working on a BA in tech writing. Anarchist but I understand that it is a utopian ideal. I tend to vote libertarian or whichever candidate is less evil. No kids, in LTR for four years. Waiting tables while in school. I lean towards BP only because I think it's important to understand power dynamics and BP seems to want to level the scale. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/15 07:07 PM |
| 0 | What does BP think about this thread?hear that, /u/17b29a?! PROVES. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/15 02:41 AM |
| 1 | If women are natually hypergamous,manipulative,selfish and uncaring, why even bother dating them?You misquoted me. I said it is possible for men to cum and not orgasm. But anyway I guess that you're not really getting what I'm saying. That RP self help (in theory) is great but treating everything like you have no say in how you choose to feel or whatever else happens in your life is pretty childish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/15 04:46 PM |
| 1 | If women are natually hypergamous,manipulative,selfish and uncaring, why even bother dating them?sigh, ok Anyway, your identity as a woman is relevant to my answer because you don't know what it feels like to be a man. and you don't know what it feels like to be a woman Sure, you're a human being and you understand the urge to curate intimate relationships and to want sex, but you do not know what it feels like to be a man, whose testosterone levels are seven times the amount as yours. Estrogen causes libido too Men are extremely horny. Imho, how much men want to fuck at any given time and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/15 02:57 AM |
| 1 | If women are natually hypergamous,manipulative,selfish and uncaring, why even bother dating them?Man, ya'll have been around some dysfunctional women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/15 02:05 AM |
| 5 | If women are natually hypergamous,manipulative,selfish and uncaring, why even bother dating them?Oh for fucks sake. I'm so tired of this non argument that men are hornier than women while they complain about the cock carousel. What, you're super horny so you feel things more intensely than women? That's bullshit. Women don't get off the way men do because it's not a 50/50 effort. I'm not saying women do more work, I'm saying men often focus on themselves. Take it from someone who has been on the cock carousel and dated a fairly diverse selection. There is too much focus in RP over biologica… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/15 01:04 AM |
| 1 | Study finds the more money a wife earns relative to her husband the higher the risk of divorceThat's actually the opposite of what I am saying. And it has nothing to do with evolution. Gender roles were once based on biological needs and now they are not. Gender roles are not inherent, but biological needs are. Gender roles in society are based on culture, which is learned. Unless you are talking about say, breast feeding, that would be a biological need but not a role. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/15 02:23 PM |
| 1 | Study finds the more money a wife earns relative to her husband the higher the risk of divorceWhy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/15 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Study finds the more money a wife earns relative to her husband the higher the risk of divorceThe Phd was her backup plan if she didn't get the liquor store cashier job? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/15 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Study finds the more money a wife earns relative to her husband the higher the risk of divorceWhoa okay. If that's the way you want to go about it... I'd focus more on her personal merit/contribution to academia, rather than banking on the security net tied her race... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/15 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Study finds the more money a wife earns relative to her husband the higher the risk of divorceHey, that'd be cool. If she really likes school, the best job would probably be in teaching or research. She's still learning (like in school) and contributing a bit more to the household. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/15 03:48 PM |
| 4 | Study finds the more money a wife earns relative to her husband the higher the risk of divorceI, for one, totally want this. I want a SAHD to raise the kids while I go to work. Granted, it's a two way street. You don't get to stay at home and slack off. SAHD is a job too. And gender roles bullshit is just that-- bullshit. Biological needs? Sure-- if we're all cavemen and people need to hunt and gather. Shit changes. Women can do men shit. Men can do women shit. It's cool. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/15 03:11 PM |
| 1 | BP, do you think it's wrong for women to get hymen reconstruction surgery to deceive men into thinking that they are still virgins?Aside from religious persecutions/dire situations that do not apply to 1st world America, anyone who has hymen reconstruction surgery to "be a virgin" again is crazy delusional. Sex isn't just a physical thing, once you've had sex, you've had sex and, mentally, you are different. It would be totally wrong for a woman to identify as a virgin after she had the surgery. There is a lot more involved than the integrity of your stupid hymen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/15 08:04 PM |
| 1 | All Models Are Wrong: On Why We Need the RedpillThis is the best breakdown of TRP that I have seen. Thank you for explaining that objective "truths" are not part of TRP claims. My biggest problem with PPD is that it is not a debate, but rather a shouting match of 100% fact (that isn't at all fact). I'm not RP, but I appreciate this breakdown and explanation of perspective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/15 03:57 AM |
| 1 | Hypothetical Situation for Both PillsAfter all this, I guess I'm just trying to get at the essence, the meat and potatoes, of both pills. What makes something uniquely RP or BP. Is it control? Finances? Who calls the shots? Sexual strategy? You could elaborate infinitely on any of these facets. But what gets to the heart of the theories? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/15 05:58 AM |
| 1 | Hypothetical Situation for Both PillsI'm not arguing anything. I've seen it a lot in others and myself. I just wanted a discussion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/15 01:12 AM |
| 1 | Hypothetical Situation for Both PillsThat's what I wanted the discussion to be about. Thank you. A lot of people are missing the point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/15 01:10 AM |
| 1 | Hypothetical Situation for Both PillsI guess you missed the point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/15 01:08 AM |
| 1 | Hypothetical Situation for Both PillsYeah, I don't find it terribly uncommon. It's not the norm but it's not outrageously rare. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/15 08:09 PM |
| 3 | Hypothetical Situation for Both PillsSuch as? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/15 08:01 PM |
| 6 | Hypothetical Situation for Both PillsOh. It's my situation. This just naturally evolved. We don't subscribe to any philosophy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/15 07:48 PM |
| 2 | Hypothetical Situation for Both PillsSo, would you say that the base of both theories is determined by the negotiation of control, more so than any other factor? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/15 05:32 PM |
| 2 | Hypothetical Situation for Both PillsI tend to disagree with this. This might be a bad example, but The Simpsons, for example, Marge controlled the money and balanced finances. (Granted because Homer was irresponsible and clueless) However, the person kind of running the house (children and chores) would be expected to, well, run the house. And that includes being the accountant. Also: So it depends who is calling the shots on whether it is RP/BP? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/15 05:14 PM |
| 8 | Hypothetical Situation for Both PillsWhat if the man calls the shots? Serious question: why does being in control of the finances matter more than being in control of the children/ home life? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/15 04:57 PM |
| 0 | Bluepill advice focuses on philosophy, rather than results.And I've been rejected and verbally abused by people but I don't assume everyone will do that for salvation of my mental safety. Different perspectives I guess. If I operated so that the outcome would always be in my favor, out of fear of some loss, I would never leave the house or have much of a life at all. Is this just your perspective, or is this RP theory? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/15 06:02 AM |
| 0 | Bluepill advice focuses on philosophy, rather than results.But if you're assessing blame, it would be the woman's fault. Yeah you got punched in the face, but it's not your fault. You weren't being the jackass. I know that doesn't help much, but people suck and it happens. I've been punched before too and I don't avoid any and all respect for fear of getting punched. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/15 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Bluepill advice focuses on philosophy, rather than results.Why did she agree to dance with him if she was taken? That doesn't make any sense. It seems the problem wasn't with asking the woman, but with the woman saying yes when she should have said no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/15 01:50 AM |
| 1 | On BP's real view of women.And yet TBP doesn't find a problem with TRP being attracted to vapid sex dolls. Actually, dating, fucking, and wedding the sex dolls isn't a problem either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/14 04:37 AM |
| 1 | At what age did you swallow the red pill? What triggered it?Ok. I was just wondering. Because that was the whole question of the post. :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/14 03:19 AM |
| 1 | At what age did you swallow the red pill? What triggered it?So how old were you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/14 03:05 AM |
| 1 | Why is there a discussion?uh, OP asked for an example with how feminism is implemented in universities and I answered her based on my experience and then it got irrelevant because the part about feminism from a uni standpoint was applied to everyday life. This is something I don't know because I myself have never been "oppressed" by a feminist IRL. So, Sorry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/14 01:27 PM |
| 1 | Why is there a discussion?I understand what you are trying to say so I won't argue semantics, but I believe this might be a core difference in RP values from other values. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/14 02:23 AM |
| 2 | Why is there a discussion?Damn phone again.... I found the sex to get so much better because I could more easily communicate with my partner and he could with me as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/14 12:36 AM |
| 1 | Why is there a discussion?Ok. Sorry. I just feel like I'm repeating myself a lot. It would eventually turn into both. That is, if coming from a singular person. I've found that as quality increases, quantity increases. Think of a product. The better quality it has the more quantity it will sell. Sex is similar. I've found one night stands to be kind of a bummer as a whole. While I found it important in "finding myself" once I settled down with a single person he | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/14 12:35 AM |
| 1 | Why is there a discussion?You don't see anything wrong with deciding that pussy is a commodity? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/14 12:31 AM |
| 1 | Why is there a discussion?What if the female sluts are just doing what RP sluts are doing? Perhaps in pursuit of a LTR? Personally, when I was getting slutty with it, I learned a lot about myself and eventually was able to correct small personality flaws that I had to better myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/14 11:35 PM |
| 1 | Why is there a discussion?But would you be willing to be molded and change WITH them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/14 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Why is there a discussion?So you'd be okay being labeled a slut, or something similar? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/14 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Why is there a discussion?It wasn't necessarily my advice, but I'm not sure adopting a manifesto that you yourself did not develop and adapt it to your life whole-heartedly is the way to go either. Nobody at TRP is looking for a dialogue between genders. There's no use to such a thing.> This still does not negate my belief that: I believe it's actually stunting dialogue between genders and therefore stunting social development as a whole. is not a reality. If you are not concerned with it, that's fine. But I still think … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/14 07:59 AM |
| 3 | Why is there a discussion?absolutely nothing, just don't call women sluts/teases when they do the same thing. LOL at trp being "stuck in 1910" or whatever. Nothing like this existed in any remote way back then. TRP is about adapting to modern realities, not coercing regressive social change. It does come off that way when rules are made for "handling" women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/14 07:47 AM |
| 0 | Why is there a discussion?have you tried a shock collar? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/14 07:41 AM |
| 6 | Why is there a discussion?Nailed it. It seems like a misguided self help book written by a very angry, very lonely person who was dumped by their girlfriend in high school for the quarterback and since then has lamented the day he joined band, and out of a promise to never let it happen again, he does angry pushups for hours while calling any promiscuous women a slut. I'm kidding, but if I had to personify the whole sub.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/14 07:40 AM |
| 3 | Why is there a discussion?For me, in English we dissected a few stories through different "lenses" or, literary critiques. A few of them were Marxism/Althusser, Psychoanalytical (or Freud), New Historicism, and of course, feminism. The point was that you can read say, "Jane Eyre" and with each of "lenses" take away a different meaning/interpretation of the text. It just teaches you to read into things more to find power dynamics or conflict where you didn't see them before. I assume autoNFA is referring to something simi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/14 07:34 AM |
| 2 | Why is there a discussion?Didn't say offended. Even without personal attacks, the inference is that the "them" != to "us". You generalize that women assume all men are misogynistic. The irony is pretty funny. Relationships are complicated because people are complicated. Not because everyone is playing each other and being rejected for petty reasons. What I don't understand is that instead of working on finding someone who is compatible and understands you as a person, TRP thinks up formulas to dating, rather than just be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/14 07:21 AM |
| 11 | Why is there a discussion?When men who adhere to such strange and stringent social rules like RPers do because of their philosophy, it's easy to assume that at least the RPers are misogynistic. Men in general are not, but there is such a them vs us mentality that is placed between the sexes with TRP, it is almost a requirement to view the "them" side as being inferior. edit: a word | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/14 06:47 AM |
| 1 | Challenge: identify a problem women are actually responsible forIn a way. It's a cycle. Like I explained above. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/14 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Challenge: identify a problem women are actually responsible forShow me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/14 02:41 AM |
| 1 | Challenge: identify a problem women are actually responsible forOn an everyday level, I completely agree. Fitting into niches has a lot to do with one on one interactions and not ideas about stereotypes as a whole. However, eating disorders and model emaciation are extremes and although I may not have worded it well, I meant to it to be a more casual goal of wearing a size 4-6 from a store in the mall, not high fashion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/14 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Challenge: identify a problem women are actually responsible forI see your point. However, the problem isn't that they want to be attractive to men, because men want to be attractive to women as well. The problem is that the general consensus of attractiveness is portrayed to be a specific way through the media. Everyone wants to be attractive to their sexual opposites, but the idea that it is a specific stereotype forwarded by men, is where I see the problem. I don't really feel it as a conspiracy, just something that isn't thought about through everyday li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/14 11:04 PM |
| 2 | Challenge: identify a problem women are actually responsible forI disagree with the thinness bit. The fashion industry coupled with the media industry, such as Cosmo and other bs like that, are also influenced, if not controlled by men. The promotion of attractiveness is for the benefit of the male audience. There was something on here about forever 21 being a Christian company. After telling some friends this fact I was met with "but look at the skanky clothes they sell". Without getting into religion too much, the ideals all point to "clothes made for stra… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/14 07:32 AM |
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