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he showed you he was an utter asshat by his behavior and you stayed w/him and kept taking him back? nice. i'm willing to guess your friend zone is littered with better options who would have treated you better but nope. Toxicity ftw!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 02:11 AM
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you can't manufacture desire with a "nice enough" woman if you have zero interest in sleeping with her. And that's not because your standard is a 10/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 02:08 AM
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women will give a good looking man w/wealth more than enough to hang himself 3x then come sprinting back for a second and third helping. A man she's meh on? he has to be perfect 100% of the time else he's out. NEVER believe what a woman says. Her actions always tell the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 01:57 AM
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or, what if a guy has tried and tried over the years to find relationships with women he is genuinely attracted to and he's been rejected. Yet women red flag him for having little relationship experience. Getting disqualified for having little experience by the same demographic who won't give him a chance. I think guys should, when young, have starter girlfriends they don't really have genuine desire for. Don't knock them up and don't get married to them but just have something to put on your da…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 01:45 AM
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by and large women aren't clearly bright. They should look at a guy w/out much relationship experience (that they happen to be attracted to) as a blank slate, uncorrupted by prior relationships. but nope. that'd be too easy. Which completely erases any guilt of lying to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 01:35 AM
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exactly. why anyone should stagger the rules of this absurd game so that it perpetually benefits women. Lie as often as you can (w/in reason) about relationship history. Fuck intimacy gatekeeping. Dating is a contact sport and all is fair in love and war. Get yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 01:32 AM
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I'm that guy who actually wants to get to know the woman, care about her opinions and be supportive yet I rarely get past the second date. Women don't owe me anything and I'm fine with that. Yet don't say these men are rare because they're more often than not in plain sight but you've rejected them based on some arbitrary "gut instinct" set of standards. I think im a good looking guy w/a warm/curious vibe but here I am. I think women want those criteria from men whom they deem as sexually viable…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 10:49 AM
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well maybe don't go after men who are legally blind?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 08:24 PM
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is the female rejection experience getting slept with and denied a relationship? Cry me a river. Men get rejected sex AND a relationship. Zero sympathy whatsoever. Enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 07:41 PM
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this is the modern age! enough with the provider malarkey! women have jobs now. A whole ton make more than men (and rightly so). When i hear this "provider" nonsense its just reverting back to 1950's dating norms when it benefits them. And women wonder why guys just use them for sex? Its a whole lot cheaper than being a provider.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 07:38 PM
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but you still get sex and some orgasms. boo farkin hoo. zero sympathy. alls fair in love and war
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 07:36 PM
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sure it is. All the guys you've flat out friend zoned. I'm sure most of them fit that bill. But, since you only seem to emotionally respond to the asshats of this word, enjoy your experience and 3000% zero sympathy from everyone else when they run you ragged and extract a pound of flesh from your psyche.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 07:34 PM
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Most men I know could care less what a woman's titles, degrees, etc. as long as she's kind, easy to talk to, and easy enough on the eyes. 90% of divorces are initiated by educated women so that in and of itself is enough reason to not get married. Yet never married men are red flags? FOH
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 07:20 PM
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if women want a man who makes money, even if she makes her own money (because lets face it, she'd rather save hers and spend his) then that isn't a partnership, its a sponsorship and the man is her leading investor and by the nature of that dynamic, she is obligated to perform or get out. The term "modern woman" does not apply to her and she is his property. Hopefully the guy is just treating her like a holding option and will upgrade when something better comes along. Men always pay for sex eit…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 07:17 PM
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i'm for no person lowering their standards. I'm just NOT for folks with beautiful partners telling others their best option is to lower their standards. My response to that advice is "did you lower your standards? No? then why in the actual eph should I ?"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 11:48 PM
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it makes about as much sense as not being married being a red flag. Having a divorce just means that a fella knows how to f*ck up a uberly committed relationship (mariage). Since 90% of all divorces where the woman is college educated are initiated by the woman, he must have done something bad. Whereas a guy with a clean slate is a red flag? No, he just was never given the opportunity to create a slate. Men need to game the system to get what they want. Alls fair in love and war.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 11:37 PM
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trust and believe. these guys who have no dating experience aren't like on the spectrum fellas who can't read non verbal cues and are all socially awkward. Telling a lie about a relationship (basic stuff such as length of) does not make a man bad. It makes him adaptive to get what he seeks. If he has good intentions. I can almost guarantee you've dated one of these undercover fellas and they're so good at it, its like second nature. Something to think about...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 11:33 PM
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not all all. you're intentionally pricing guys out of the market who, through no fault of their own, have just not had much luck at dating. One must then create their own luck. I can almost guarantee you, at least one of these fellas has slipped through your filtering process but you weren't looking for it because no average guy does this, right? hmmm
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 11:29 PM
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oh i do like women. I respect the heck out of them. I just also don't see the need to play the game according to the rules to have the experiences i'm after.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 08:57 PM
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fun fact: you or someone you know probably have dated "him"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 08:21 PM
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no, there's nothing off. some guys just don't have luck. why should a guy who is a kind and considerate guy get the scarlet letter R for the rest of his life as a red flag because women he legit likes for the best reasons, reject him? FOH with that. Guys should lie to level the playing field. Girls will give guys a shot if he's had numerous relationships that just ended badly, and probably his fault, if he atones for it but the guy who's a clean slate for no lack of trying, gets disqualified. Li…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 08:11 PM
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which means if the guy is smart, he'll lie about his dating experience. Just like a woman might never share any of her sexual escapades (and she doesn't have to at all), the man can embellish the truth. Alls fair in love and war.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 08:05 PM
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well, its not like he's going to tell you the truth here LOL. alls fair in love and war. especially when you remove sex from the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 08:03 PM
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the better strategy is just to lie to women. what they don't know won't hurt them. If you show them a photo(s) of relatively attractive female friends and say you dated them. According to this logic, the female should now find you attracted (if all your other attributes are attractive). Push past female screening mechanisms (if you're just a normal guy w/out much luck and not a serial killer). Its like saying if a woman just gets used for sex by men but no one wants to have a relationship with h…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 07:11 PM
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what if the women he likes just don't like him (we're not talking A list standards either)? Does he get credit for trying?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 06:39 PM
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so basically, if he's not attracting women he likes, he should just bite the bullet and go with a nice girl he's not attracted to because...well because women say so. Starter girlfriends are definitely a way to pad your dating resume with experience. Just be nice to them, don't be a jerk, hang out with them, have great conversations with them, gain that experience and then if she doesn't break up with you in a year, that task falls on you. got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 06:36 PM
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and how would you suggest a man manufacture sexual desire to date a woman who he's not physically attracted to just so he can say he had a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 06:28 PM
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what if the women he wants won't date him and thus give him experience? this isn't coming from an entitlement standpoint, its coming from a logical standpoint. You're basically telling him to at least date someone so I can feel better dating you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 06:26 PM
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so you're saying that if you can't attract the people you genuinely like, its better to date just anyone so you can say "yay, i had a gf". Got it. I would feel under NO obligation to tell a woman the truth on this matter. zero. women will straight up date a man who is a cheater, manipulator, and worse "just because he had a gf and shows he has experience" foh. several of my friends lie to women about this and they are none the wiser. Good on them
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 06:16 PM
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because women apparently care a lot about your dating resume. If i had to do it all over again. I would have had several "starter girlfriends" just to point to the "truth". just endure. Just date her, be obviously nice to her. Consider it to be like a person you hang out with to get socialization practice. If she wants sexual intimacy, just punt it down the road and say "i want to wait until it means something" because women respect that. Never follow through on that. She's just like a dinner ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 06:07 PM
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men should just lie about their dating experience. No harm, no foul. If you try, and no one wants you, why should that be a red flag like the mark of cain on you that says "damaged goods" and gets you excluded from something that everyone's doing. Break the rules and rise.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 06:02 PM
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I have two strategies for men over 30 w/out relationship experience. If you've actually tried, and women you were legit attracted to (not hotties or models) didn't want you as a partner you can just lie to future women about your experience. Say "yeah i had a gf for a couple years and it didn't work out, we went our separate ways". or you can just say "we grew apart". You can also just suck it up, and date a girl you're not attracted to for a year. Grin n bear it, log in that experience n time (…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 05:55 PM
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