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Being touched out of the blue by some stranger puts me on edge. Its startling, makes me jump every time. I’d have the same reaction. I don’t have the best social skills but If I was a man and I wanted to hit on someone I would not do this. Another case of men (you) being unable to read the room and blaming it on “Chad.”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 08:29 PM
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Likewise, I actually believe men settle more than women do. A man willing to have sex with you doesn’t mean he wants to be with you or is even attracted to you, men say this themselves all the time. Yet people will use this as a metric to prove men are less “picky” than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 10:22 PM
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I want a relationship but I’m at the point where idc to pursue it. I simply think it’s a lost cause and not worth the trouble. I’m not going to centre my decisions around getting a man, like I used to want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 05:39 PM
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This post is accusing women of upholding the double standard of disregarding male rape when in reality this double standard is mostly being upheld by men themselves. Do they really? I actually don’t believe that. Sure they might logically know it’s technically illegal, but most men when you ask them they express how much they want to swap places with the victim. Most women aren’t attracted to criminals or dangerous men. The women that do find that attractive, are often mentally unstable or crimi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 04:04 AM
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I think most women already do. When men get raped, especially if it’s a young boy being assaulted by an older woman, it’s usually men in the comments making jokes or light of the circumstances. They even actively argue with women/people who are trying to express their horror at the situation. The biggest reason why male rape is treated with such disregard is because men for the most part don’t care and treat it like a sexual fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 03:50 AM
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I don’t like only fans but men are so fucking annoying with how much they obsess over it. No I don’t care that some random chick on my explore page has an OF account. I just wanna laugh at the funny video must you flood the comments with “OF detected opinion rejected,” just shut the fuck up 🙄 or even worse, when the chick doesn’t have an OF just a linktree or something in bio and they all just retardedly assumed it led to an OF account.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 06:09 PM
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No I’m saying, men don’t really care if a woman has these traits. Men care about 2 things. If they find you physically attractive and if they can fuck you (preferably without putting in too much effort).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 02:22 PM
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No man dates a woman because she is “charismatic” or “funny.” They date women that they primarily find attractive. What world are you living in?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 02:13 PM
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People meet outside of dating apps. Men will swipe on more women not because they necessarily find the her attractive but because they find the prospect of potentially fucking her hole attractive. Like I said most men settle. Which makes sense because dating apps naturally have more men than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 02:09 PM
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Tinder is not the only way people meet. And there are more men competing for a smaller group of women. I hate this just be thin nonsense because it doesn’t fucking exist in real life. Just pure delusion. Women can’t compensate for their physical flaws. Men can.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 02:05 PM
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What’s wrong with my last post? This fits in perfectly with my last post. You clearly have the data but want to deny it. Whatever. And eugenics, really? That’s so dramatic I can’t 🫠 Saying you find young, tall pretty boys attractive is not eugenics. Saying you don’t experience attraction often isn’t eugenics either. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 12:21 AM
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This is exactly what I mean when I say that men do not have more varied preferences than women. It’s not out of the ordinary to see an attractive woman with an ugly man but it’s rare to see an unattractive woman with a really attractive man. When women are at the pinnacle of attractiveness they still give ugly men a chance. When men are at the pinnacle of attractiveness they only give the time of day to women of equal attractiveness or even higher. You’ll never hear a man say “oh I’m with her be…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 11:30 PM
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I just dropped one of my best takes in the Looks weekly thread. It’s freeing to finally understand myself, the world, and men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 10:41 PM
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I’ve come to accept that I am a shallow person. I only like attractive men, the type of attractive that I only see once in a blue moon. The idea of sleeping with someone who doesn’t invoke pure animalistic lust in me sounds awful. I think growing into attraction is real but only when you already have some baseline attraction for that person in the first place. I like tall men, I like pretty boys, and I generally don’t like men over the age of 24/5. Nuance exists here but yeah. Yes, I know that I…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 09:45 PM
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Both.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 06:43 PM
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The longer I spend on the internet the more I notice that a certain demographic of men have a legitimate cuck fetish. Every time there’s a weird post fantasizing about getting dominated by another man it’s always them at the scene of the crime, under the guise it being just a joke. It’s now a pattern and it has nuked any attraction I have for towards them 😬 why do they do this?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 06:36 PM
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I literally just looked up the most viewed porn stars on pornhub. LMAO, most of the women were extremely curvy and had larger than average butts, breast or hourglass shaped bodies. Exactly what I said. Why lie? Men's preferences aren't as varied as they like to pretend they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 07:59 PM
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So many of my fav ppl from this sub are gone. How sad. The daily got so boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 06:25 PM
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This is practically the same thing you see in women's height preferences. Bigger is better until a certain size, and they start to tapper off slightly. Not seeing how men are being unjustly judged here? https://www.instagram.com/reel/DGnccnOyr-Q/
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 05:41 PM
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Chest flies aren't going to give you bigger boobs. In fact, the gym might make your breast smaller because boobs are mostly fat. How large your butt gets is based on genetics I said hip to waist ratio. There's no exercise that's going to give you wide hips or a curved waist. That's up to genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 05:32 PM
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Men can wear height lifts.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 05:22 PM
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A woman can't get bigger boobs in the gym. A bigger butt is will always be mostly dependent on genetics. The gym isn't going to give you an attractive hip to waist ratio. That's just genetics. You can lose weight at best. BBL surgery is a high-risk surgery. But beauty is pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 05:17 PM
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Men always point to the abundance of imaginary men who supposedly adore small chested flat women whenever this conversation comes up, no evidence for their existence whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 05:12 PM
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Height surgery exists now.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 05:07 PM
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Don't know why men get so mad when ppl compare men, generally preferring women with larger boobs, butts or curvy bodies with women's general preference for tall men. Men always cry that it's not the same because they claim men will date a variety of different women. So what? The majority of men in relationships are average height. People act like it's only 6 ft+ men in relationships, but the moment I step outside, this is clearly not the case. So obviously, a vast number of women are willing to …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 04:39 PM
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Are you talking about a one night stand? Theoretically, for that to happen I’d probably need to be in a reckless mood. I’m an over thinker and men naturally make me anxious so I’d have to be super carefree in that moment or the man that I’m with would have to be charismatic enough to talk me into letting my guard down. I’d also have to find him extremely attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 09:19 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 09:14 PM
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Oh 💀 did you see my acc
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 09:09 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 07:43 PM
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Is it good now?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 07:37 PM
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Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 06:50 PM
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https://www.instagram.com/reel/DJLmWl3tekO/
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 06:45 PM
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For all the guys obsessed with dick size here. He answers all you questions with data and you can all finally put your minds at ease: https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMBwXx7aT/
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 06:40 PM
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Never understood why women liked Michael b Jordan so much but he was really good as smoke/stack. I kinda get it now.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 04:31 AM
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She’s mentally ill with potential daddy issues and he mainly pays for everything from what I heard.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 06:01 PM
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Nonsensical ramblings. Take meds.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 03:28 AM
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Yes because of back pain. Big boobs hurt from what I’m told. Does having a beautiful head of hair physically pain men?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 02:53 AM
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My former tik tok crush literally walled himself. Total twink death. I have no idea what happened! He cut his hair and went this awful platinum blonde and now he looks like a rodent. He was so beautiful before. He’s not even the only one. Another went emo, dyed his hair and got a bunch of piercings and now he looks like he’s on crack. Why do men literally go out of their way to make themselves look ugly? If I ever get a bf, he’s not allowed to make changes to his appearance without my permission…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 02:28 AM
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There is a girl on tik tok who is trying to do rejection therapy (getting used to rejection) by asking men out. What do you think: https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMBW1Sj6d/
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:19 PM
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Religious reasons? Not really. My feelings concerning men and relationships are complicated. Can’t blame that completely though, I definitely have my own issues. Maybe my mindset and personality might change in the future. Until then I’ll remain a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 05:20 AM
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I’m currently dedicating my life to life long celibacy but back when I did desire a relationship this is what I was taught: What other women do doesn’t concern me. You don’t compete with other women, you go where you’re wanted. Men have free will to do whatever. The goal isn’t just to have a random man but a man of value that desires me. Men who want free sex were never going to commit anyway. Trying to brow beat them into doing so is literally a lost cause. You can’t make a man do anything he d…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 03:37 AM
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Would I be jealous. Yeah, perhaps even devastated if I really liked him. But would I fly into a jealous rage? No. I’ve never experienced that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:55 PM
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Q4A: Is the gross or cute? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 07:01 PM
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I’ve been watching those bull rider tik toks now I want a boyfriend that’s a cowboy 🤠 but I find them scary and I know damn well we’ll have nothing in common. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 04:46 PM
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If I were to post this to r/shortguys on a scale of 1-10 how enraged would they be? lol jk. But idk why get so angry at random couples. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 04:37 PM
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5’8 pretty boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 10:44 PM
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One of the only times I feel jealous is when I see a girls who are kinda similar to me in terms looks and they have an attractive bf, or a partner with certain characteristics I would like in a bf.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 10:40 PM
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Him and his audience are insufferable. Please don’t ever bring his content to my attention ever again.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 10:27 PM
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Just watched mickey 17 and it was pretty good. I wish it was more of a romance movie tbh and focused more on the whole throuple thing. I too want two boyfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 08:50 PM
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Yup I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 02:42 AM
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lol. Hi then.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 11:56 PM
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Pink why?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 10:55 PM
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Guys with braces are kinda cute tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 09:55 PM
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I think it’s because of the masks. I like to imagine that they look like pretty boy twinks underneath those face covers.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 08:15 PM
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I like konig. He’s submissive and shy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 08:14 PM
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I love that call of duty, a heavily male centric combat game, has now become fap material for chicks online <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 08:04 PM
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This is not my reality, lol. People are generally polite to me, but other than that, life is nothing like this for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 05:11 PM
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Wdym?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 05:01 PM
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Real.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 04:56 PM
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Because of what I said? I didn't mean to make you cry. Plz I'm sorry. Your just going through a dry spell. You'll get a gf soon. Edit: be careful before you get modded for woe is me content.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 04:54 PM
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I don’t think most people go around telling others about their kinks, at least I don’t. Most people prefer to keep those themselves and only divulge to a trusted partner. Everyone has different tastes but for me personally, it’s just personal stuff that most people probably wouldn’t want to hear about lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 03:42 AM
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Not a man but as a woman, it would depend on how extreme the fetish is. I don’t want to be dehumanized, I still want someone who likes me for me but if you have a bias towards women who look like me then I don’t mind. Edit: But yeah this is a stupid question men don't give a fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 02:46 AM
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I used one of Tik Tok filters that tells you what year you're gonna get married. I got never <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 10:09 PM
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I’ve never gooned in my life. 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 05:15 AM
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??
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 03:27 AM
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Everything is meh. Just wanna get through this semester.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 03:19 AM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 03:19 AM
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I haven’t thought about men and relationships in so long. No cute tik tok boys. No yearning for male beauty. No crash outs over my lack of a relationship, just Yaoi and vibes. My desire for male attention has been replaced by a desire to be rich. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 02:58 AM
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Yaoi is an art form. Not gooning.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 01:48 AM
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Q4M: Why do men with gooner accounts always message random women? Do they really think that random women (outside of their gooner bubble) will want to associate with them after clicking on their profile and seeing their dick pics and their gross comments in porn subreddits? I remember why I stopped posting on FAW. Gooner men like this stalk that subreddit 🤢 that’s why I can’t take anyone seriously when they regurgitate that “FAW had to shut down because of too much male attention” nonsense. Yeah…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 12:19 AM
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Going to a persons profile and all they post are their nudes is such a jump scare. I feel like I’ve just been flashed. Pro tip: Please stop using the same account you goon on to interact with people and make friends. It’s weird and off putting.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 11:24 PM
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Is that you? I give it a 7/10
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 10:27 PM
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I like sitting at the back of the bus so people don’t see the yaoi that I’m reading. That would be so fucking awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 06:21 PM
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Forever alone women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 04:31 PM
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Inkwells forums and men who proclaim to struggle with dating are free to nitpick women’s looks and have the privilege of not having their experiences and lack of success with women be trivialized. If woman on FAW even so much as mentions breathing the same air as a man that might have even a single slightly attractive feature she gets blasted all over Reddit for being “picky” and having “high standards.” They can shit on fat women all day everyday day and that’s ok but god forbid if a chick ment…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 04:01 PM
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I don’t use dating apps but if I did then 18-24, the most attractive demographic of men. I’d never lie about my age. Why would anyone do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 02:10 AM
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I like the ye-ye type boys but I just know that’s never happening. That’s one red flag I’ll admit I’m attracted to. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 08:31 PM
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<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 08:25 PM
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I can be friendly. I’m very polite irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 08:23 PM
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😐😐😐😐 Please never say that again 🙏🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 08:17 PM
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I need to find twink guy and somehow become long term close friends with him, then somehow finesse my way into becoming his girlfriend. The logic behind my actions: https://www.instagram.com/reel/DHLO85GxoSD/?igsh=MXJkYjM3YTR0Y3p3eg== Would this work? Idk. But I’m open to trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 08:16 PM
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Loolll. Sorry. I often edit my comments multiple times because I type before I think and I write things that don’t really represent what I’m trying to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 08:13 PM
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I mean it’s nothing against you guys, I just dislike the Toronto dating scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 08:06 PM
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😐 I don’t like the Toronto dating scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 08:03 PM
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Fiction
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 07:59 PM
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No thank you. I can’t with Toronto.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 07:58 PM
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I think my city is horrible for dating. Which region in Canada would a girl like me find the most success I wonder? I guess I’ll have to “geomaxx.” I was thinking of using a dating app but switching my location to something else but idk where.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 07:55 PM
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No. I do it the old fashioned way.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 09:53 PM
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Unpopular opinion: Masturbation is boring. It’s like peeing. You don’t necessarily want to do it but your body requires the release it provides.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 09:51 PM
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Feeling starved for male beauty. Like, I really want to feel those butterflies in my stomach. I want to appreciate beauty so magnificent I have to stop and stare for a while. My regular Tik Tok crushes are no longer scratching that itch.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 09:23 PM
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I was in elementary/middle school in the 2010’s so I have no idea. 🤷🏽‍♀️ A lot of those were just trashy reality tv that I would watch when my parents weren’t home from what I can remember.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 09:38 PM
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I don’t consider either of those subs equivalent to incel subs.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 01:52 PM
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I don’t think men want kids all that much either despite there being a subset of them that have a newfound interest in the plummeting birth rate. They only want kids now that women don’t really care to be mothers as much as they used to. Before now it was a running joke that men disliked having children, the old ball and chain. Men kinda just like being contrarian for the sake of being contrarian.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 04:33 AM
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Well I didn’t heavily use Reddit in the past but there were a bunch of incel/red pill/black pill subs before it hit the mainstream and they cracked down on that sort of stuff. Many of the OG rad fem, pink pill and femcel subs got banned too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 03:47 AM
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I have seen that content but in my opinion a lot of it became mainstream in response to the popularity of the manosphere. Some people consider shera7 a “misandrist” and she’s been on YouTube for a long time but she only really gained traction after the rise of Andrew Tate and the red pill. I don’t really think that’s a coincidence. Women fought for feminism because of their lack of rights at the time. Men felt disadvantaged by feminism and created the red pill/manosphere in response. Women in tu…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 03:31 AM
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Depends on what you mean by unfriendly. Some guys are just quiet and mind their business. Not interested in socializing all that much. I don’t have any negative opinions on that. Some guys are passive aggressive/catty. Those men I dislike for obvious reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 12:47 AM
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Ok. I can agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 11:33 PM
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The construction of society is/was a combined effort. I wish men would stop framing it like men collectively just woke up one day and decided to build civilization.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 11:19 PM
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It’s scary meeting strangers off some random app which is why I’ve never tried. But I did make two fake accounts with random girls photos just out of curiosity. One was more conventionally attractive, the other was less so. The second acc got a lot less likes, so I know it’s just gonna be a waste of time for me. But then again I wasn’t really attracted to anyone on there.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 08:14 PM
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I’m like 100% straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 04:51 AM
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There’s this sexy masc lesbian on tik tok that is so supremely attractive and every time I see her it leaves me in shambles over the fact that men don’t look like this. No homo though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 04:46 AM
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I’m so starved for twinkish male beauty I’ve had to result to serfing on the masc lesbian side of tik tok to satisfy my urges. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 03:35 AM
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Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 02:13 AM
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How do I do it? Do I just PM a mod?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 02:10 AM
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Oh. I didn’t vote. I literally forgot because I was super tired from the previous day.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 02:07 AM
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PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 02:06 AM
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I don’t think so. The comment was very targeted.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 02:05 AM
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I’m Canadian. I can’t vote in US elections.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 02:03 AM
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I hate it when people reply to your comment then block you so you can’t respond. What a pussy ass move. Apparently my username on this account has been flagged on extensions for “queerphobia” and I have fallen for “Trump propaganda” you guys. I’m someone who does not like conservatives all that much, especially not MAGA’s, but this is why I generally stay away from people who are too liberal. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 02:00 AM
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I feel like feminism has turned into a confusing mess because of the lack of gatekeeping. I feel like if you don’t do some sort of activism or engage in feminist theory in a critical manner then I don’t see you as a feminist. Many women who claim to be feminists aren’t, just supporters of women’s rights. Now it reads as nonsense to most people because these so called “feminists” don’t understand the context behind what or why women advocated for certain things. If they did, they’d understand the…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 07:25 PM
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If I’m reading a romance novel about aliens then they should have distinct alien features. Throw in some horns, bipedal feet, strange ears, different eye/hair/skin colour, sharp teeth, abnormal height, etc…I hate when they just make the alien love interest look straight up human. Make em look exotic man!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 05:09 AM
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Attractive to you ofc. People find different things attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 04:57 AM
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How so? Do tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 04:47 AM
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*wife
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 04:43 AM
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I want to roll my eyes every time some chick online insults Aaron Taylor Johnson’s marriage. The average male in the entertainment industry does this all the time so why can’t she? The jealousy and misogyny is astounding. You should instead look at this and feel inspired to find your own young attractive husband, when the reverse happens men definitely are, they’re not being bitter and hateful online. Women have such a crabs in a barrel mentality <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 04:39 AM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 04:28 AM
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Why? It’s not affecting me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 04:26 AM
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How’s that supposed to happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 04:22 AM
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Q4M: Do you want women who are honest about their standards and reject you upfront or do you want to be settled for? Men have such conflicting opinions about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 04:17 AM
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Looks scary. I don’t really know if I have the best streets smarts and I don’t want to accidentally land myself in a dangerous situation. I also feel like I wouldn’t get the relationship I want using a dating app anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 04:11 PM
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<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:04 AM
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Azealia Banks had the chance to be apart of Elons gaggle of baby mamas when grimes and Elon tried to get her to have a threesome with them. When she refused they locked her in Elons mansion for like 3 days, she was surviving in that big ass house like she was a barbarian prisoner. How can a girl who sacrifices chickens in her closet be smarter than these women who willingly chose to become apart of Elons harem? At least it was through IVF and they didn’t actually have to sleep with him. Azealia …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 01:37 AM
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I mean men say they prefer “tight” or “small” vagina’s all the time. That’s also something women can’t really change and it has a functional impact.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 11:14 PM
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They are judged the same amount.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 02:36 PM
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Many women feel insecure about the colour of their vagina. What do you think the roast beef insult is about? It’s literally meant to ridicule women with dark coloured vagina’s and large labias. The complication rate for labia surgery is 30%. This includes nerve damage, infection and a permanent loss of sensation. I never said anyone had it “worse” I’m just pointing out that genital standards of beauty are something both men and women have.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 11:46 PM
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You can’t change the colour of your vagina, or the size of your labia without risking a loss of sensation down there. Just give it up. It’s ok to admit that men also have preferences for immutable characteristics and that women aren’t the only ones with “shallow” preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 11:05 PM
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Another thing men claim women unfairly judge them on: dick size. But I feel like both genders have beauty standards for the genitals of the opposite sex. Men aren’t shy about their general preference for bubblegum pink coloured vaginas and small labias, which a lot of women don’t have. I don’t see why penis’ should be exempt from said genital beauty standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 06:38 PM
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I hate combat games but I’m forcing myself to learn because it’s basically a requirement to progress in the otome game I’m playing. Sigh the things we do for love man. This is all for them: <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 06:23 PM
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Being modest hasn’t gotten me anywhere with men. Like I said, no man has ever asked me out because they are charmed by my baggy clothes. The only reason I continue to dress this way is because of personal reasons and insecurities. But I have eyes to see and the women who do best with men my age are the ones who show a little skin, nothing extreme or whore like but stuff like crop tops and form fitting dresses.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 09:14 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/l7oI7NVqpM
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:59 PM
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I don’t know where you got that from. I don’t like showing my skin or my body at all because of personal reasons. I wore baggy sweaters to school all year round for years because I hated exposing my elbows. And let me tell you, no has asked for me out because they found my modesty attractive lmao 😂 this is just becoming gaslighting atp. But trust, the girls who wear crop tops religiously are always in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:48 PM
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There’s no quality over quantity. Every man that approaches you does so because they find you physically attractive and therefore wants to sleep with you, unless they already know you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:33 PM
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Most men are approaching you because they find you physically attractive anyway, especially if they don’t really know you beforehand. The more men that are attracted to you the better. Like I said I’m not telling women to dress super provocative, context matters but a little bit of skin will go a long way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 05:48 PM
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Most women have average faces. Most women have average looking bodies. Not all women are have super good social skills, some are introverts. I don’t see how your sexual fantasy of sleeping with an outgoing attractive Stacy that’s “only slutty for you” is relevant to this conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 04:55 PM
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Men are almost always going to go for the women who dress a little bit more sexy than the girls who cover up, unless they’re highly religious or something. If they say they don’t 9/10 they’re virtue signalling. Men will attempt to counter this argument by saying that the men who approach these women do it because they assume they’ll be more receptive to their sexual advances, but I’d say that half the battle in dating is showing that your open and available. Dating is a numbers game after all, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 01:41 AM
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Men’s preference are not as varied as they all like to lie that they are. Don’t fall victim to gaslighting. They kinda like being contrarian for the sake of it. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 05:00 PM
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lol. The trad space is filled to the brim with some of the most insane ppl
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 04:55 PM
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47% for something that’s literally unhealthy and not maintainable for the average woman. The average woman cannot maintain extremely low levels of weight for an extended period of time without health complications. Which men obviously seem to want. “Just don’t be fat bro” yeah what a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 04:49 PM
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What is ACT? I honestly have no idea what you are talking about. The two ppl in the video are already in an established relationship and probably have known each other long enough for chemistry to build between them. The average man here expects women to get wet looking at him upon first glance and if she doesn’t then she’s deemed to see him as less than and just wants “chad.” That’s what ppl consider unrealistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 04:39 PM
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Men want immediate attraction, that’s the part some ppl think is unrealistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 04:25 PM
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POV: You are feeling bitter about relationships, just in your feels and this is the first thing that pops up on your instagram explore page 😐 it made me a tad jealous I won’t lie. I want a guy to want me that bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 03:11 PM
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I love dark romance, but it’s only sexy because it’s a fantasy. It’s sexy because I can imagine that the man doing all these things is essentially my dream man. A man that can be anything I want him to be. A man I find attractive. A man that finds me attractive. A man I know cares about me and my pleasure. A man I know would never really do any serious harm to me. A man I know loves and is obsessed me. A man I feel safe with. For me, I don’t think a man in real life could embody all of those qua…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 04:05 AM
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I’d say I have a little bit of wiggle room. I generally think of myself as centre left. I wouldn’t date a super liberal guy but left leaning men are a-ok. I don’t mind dating men who are slightly conservative. Absolutely no MAGA’s. I just want a man that knows sex/gender doesn’t change but also doesn’t think feminism is evil and isn’t racist. That’s about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 01:45 AM
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You obviously don’t find the majority of them pretty when most of them are so obviously men are more picky than you all like to pretend to not be. What do mean how do I know? I literally followed her back when she at the height of her popularity. The majority of her fans were female and if they weren’t they were gay men. Yes even her sexy content was supported by the gays and fems. Just go search up any topic about her on any website, those are the only people talking about her. No one thinks se…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 11:38 PM
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The cam girls I see are often quite pretty. And Trisha has a mostly female audience that follow her because they love the chaotic drama she creates and find her funny and entertaining. It’s not because they find her attractive or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 02:38 AM
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No. No they don’t. 9/10 they are attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 05:49 PM
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Half no. More like a small percentage. It’s incredibly hard to gain a substantial following online.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 05:01 PM
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lol. Absolutely not. Most people get ignored on social media, even pretty people. The most attractive individuals are the only ones who ever get any semblance of attention solely for their looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 04:43 PM
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No it’s not what a lie. The women who go viral for their looks online are always supremely attractive. You literally just used Sophie Rain as an example. She’s extremely pretty and very curvy. She would never make as much money as she did or even have gotten popular in the first place if she just looked “half way decent.”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 04:33 PM
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Um no. The only women who get significant attention from the opposite sex online are women who are attractive. They either have pretty faces, nice bodies or both. Men look at the attention attractive women get and think that’s how all women move through life, that’s not how reality works. People are biased towards attractive individuals it is what it is. Men like looking at attractive women, so much so they’ll pay to do it. They’ll pay to get their attention. Welp. There’s nothing anyone can rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 04:25 PM
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Are you talking about me? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 12:46 AM
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I woke up this morning and I laid in bed for 30 minutes just daydreaming about have 2 handsome, strong, 6’9”, werewolf husbands. It was a beautiful experience. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 12:42 AM
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No. No it doesn’t. I don’t think that’s the case at all tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 03:44 PM
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Women tend to like more average-slightly above average penises, so women tend to like average-slightly above average in height men is essentially what you’re saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 02:42 PM
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Everyone is cruel social media. Like I said there are numerous features that are unattractive to the opposite sex that can’t be changed, especially not naturally. Height isn’t any different.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 02:34 PM
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Women are more likely to put attraction aside and give a man a chance. Men aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 02:10 PM
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What did I lie about? There are a bunch of features that many men and women have that aren’t the beauty standard and are deemed unattractive by the opposite sex. What makes height so special?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 02:08 PM
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Believe it or don’t but don’t cherry pick to enhance your narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 02:06 PM
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Tha data has been interpreted wrong by men so much. That data also stated that women were much more likely to give chances to men they found unattractive. Men would not do the same. I'm not just talking about height. I mean any feature. Men are so dishonest with this conversation. Men rarely just state their preferences. They demean women who don't live up to their standards. They always have. You can't talk about how all single moms are stupid sluts and expect a good response. I think women hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 05:52 PM
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Men don’t really have a wide variety of preferences. Ideal standards exist for a reason. Where are these female subs who do what r/shortguys do? Men have been running their mouths about what they do and do not find attractive for centuries. Most women are aware. I think men aren’t used to women voicing their preferences in the same way, so it’s shocking for them to hear and it makes them spiral.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 05:13 PM
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Just look at the height thing. r/shortguys is a suicidal circle jerk of men reposting women’s tik toks of liking tall men or pictures of women with tall bf’s, half the time they’re not even insulting or talking bad about short guys, just stating their preferences or existing. Majority of the comments are men in turn insulting them and being doomers. Like I understand that ppl need a place to vent y’know, but this is beyond just venting. Men don’t handle honesty well. Imagine if a group of women …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 03:51 PM
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For the most part I don't mind. If the guy is trustworthy, loves me, makes good decisions and doesn't act like a tyrant then idc. I still want self expression and some freedoms but I don't mind being in the passenger seat.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 03:44 PM
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no. it feels suffocating.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 03:27 PM
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I hate my life. I wish that trad wife shit was actually legit and attainable, I hate making decisions for myself and I hate thinking. Too bad it's literal propaganda and men are so untrustworthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 03:17 PM
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We aren’t each other’s type. I’m skinny and you like thick women 😕
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 09:26 PM
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I like books, yaoi. I don't know. I'm an introvert and a homebody. I'm willing to go outside to find someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 09:06 PM
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Q4W: On a scale of 1-10 how good is penetrative sex? I heard it's often times shitty and you usually don't orgasm from it alone. I also heard head is better because the clit is getting direct stimulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 09:04 PM
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What I'm into? Like personality?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 09:00 PM
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I need money to looksmaxx. I'm looking for a job. If that answers your question. My looksmatch would have to hit on me for me to ignore them. That's not happening. So no.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 08:57 PM
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No. That's exactly what he meant. He literally said it. I didn't want to outright repeat what my cousin said because ppd hates race related topics.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 08:51 PM
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👩🏾‍🦱 👩🏿‍🦱
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 08:46 PM
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Should I one day ask my cousin to take me to a party to see if I can meet guys? I've thought about it, but he already said his friends don't date girls "like me." Asshole. I guess it would be a waste of time
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 08:42 PM
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Oh, how I wish this was true
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 08:32 PM
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Idk
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 08:27 PM
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I like skinny and jacked but not roided.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 08:24 PM
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Twinks and pretty boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 08:16 PM
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Tell it to me straight what my chances of getting my type?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 08:13 PM
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Idk this is just one picture they could all be super safe and kind irl….but like I said my usual type is twinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 10:52 PM
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I don’t listen to central cee 😭 I typically like twinks though this pic is an exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 10:48 PM
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There’s something about this photo that I find really attractive. I don’t usually like huge bulging muscles but idk, the veins are doing it for me. Ladies plz tell me you agree with me 😩 <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 10:44 PM
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Is that really that bad? 😬 Most people prefer fantasy to reality. Don’t take it personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 10:36 PM
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Hmm. I don’t think it’s that brutal 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 10:35 PM
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LOLLLL. Actually it’s more Slavic/Eastern European core. A lot of the masked men in the most popular photos were either Russian or some type of Slavic/Eastern European.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 10:32 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 10:25 PM
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The idea/fantasy of men is more attractive than men irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 10:23 PM
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What do you think of the masked men craze that went on like a year ago? Do you find this attractive or no? See examples below👇 Someone said they missed my Pintrest boards so I decided to bring them back😋 <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 10:18 PM
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Nah he needs to find a girl who is more similar to him. Anyone with eyes can see that they are not compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 01:09 AM
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Nuh uh. This male hypergamy in full effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 01:06 AM
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This is Uni/college
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 12:10 AM
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Let me tell you a bit of gossip. There’s these two ppl in my class, let’s call them T and Ed. T is legitimately a cool girl. Has a bunch of friends and is a social butterfly, is fairly pretty too. Ed is a short, skinny, red head who’s a little weird looking but he’s super friendly and goofy. T and Ed sorta became friends over the previous semester, they always hang out together, well more like he seems to always follow her around. They end up doing a group project together and at the end of it h…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 12:04 AM
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