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It'll be funny when one of you dies. And I certainly didn't meet my girlfriend by giving a fuck what any "friends" thought of her. That would be pathetic. Imagine basing your opinion of someone on something as stupid as social vetting. Woman moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 02:19 AM
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The mind of a woman at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 11:23 PM
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The red pill has always had the problem of "mostly reasonable points couched in the language of computer programmers who have never learned the benefits of nuance in trying to persuade people to a point of view." It's very obvious that the red pill founding fathers were tech twinks trying to apply an algorithm to their lives to increase the drop rate of pussy. And whether they were successful or not was irrelevant to the point that they were mostly losers who didn't do anything cool with their l…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 08:11 PM
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Mediocrity.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 09:14 PM
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Marriage doesn't give your life purpose, either.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 07:01 PM
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Men don’t “need to be a provider.” That’s peak red pill delusion. Men aren’t flocking to cam girls to simulate a feeling of provided; they’re simulating a feeling of being desired.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 03:21 PM
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Ah, so you can’t show me. And you copied and pasted a conclusion full of survey results and no actual science. I accept your concession.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 01:53 PM
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but yes they're saying that aggression is higher in men with higher natural T levels Are they? Show me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 01:43 PM
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Lil bro doesn’t even read his own “studies” lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 01:35 PM
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You mean the study with this conclusion? It is of interest, however, that the administration of high doses of testosterone in normal men had no effect on the self reported aggression scores of the subjects. Try to use actual science instead of surveys next time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 01:31 PM
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Being “aggressive” has nothing to do with high testosterone. This is phony red pill science. Testosterone isn’t a wonder drug that changes your personality. It mostly affects sex drive and mood stability.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 01:05 PM
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Nothing infuriates a woman like being told she’s not nearly as unique as she thinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 01:01 PM
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Yep, you literally never hear success stories with this shit. It’s always “my female friend set up my dating profile, but nothing improved.”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 12:58 PM
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Found the angry Farrah Fawcett lookalike.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 12:56 PM
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Weird argument. I’m 33 and just got out of a relationship with a 24-year-old, and I absolutely think the pearl clutching from older women over age gaps is tiresome.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 12:53 PM
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iT’s CoRrElAtIoN not CaUsAtIoN proceeds to explain how being smart, faithful, and high-achieving cause involuntary celibacy Phew, that’s quite a brain you’ve got there. I’m glad your own IQ isn’t too high to be a detriment in any way. But sure, let’s run with your argument. Smart, successful people are just too busy being smart and successful to get laid. Doesn’t this necessarily imply that women are selecting for less intelligent, unfaithful, low-achieving men? Or are you going to now try to pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 06:58 PM
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Better to see the world for what it is than to live in blissful ignorance.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 05:49 PM
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I'd say most redditors are average I would strongly disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 05:40 PM
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I think women judge it because they ask themselves why no woman has previously thought of the guy as worth having sex with. Bingo. Women like for men to be “vetted.” A man who had a relationship that ended amicably is a certified pre-owned. A man with no history is a gamble. You have no idea how he’ll adapt to life with another person.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 05:30 PM
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This argument has been thoroughly dismantled. I will have to use virginity statistics as a proxy for the harder-to-measure romancelessness statistics, but these are bad enough. In high school each extra IQ point above average increases chances of male virginity by about 3%. 35% of MIT grad students have never had sex, compared to only 20% of average nineteen year old men. Compared with virgins, men with more sexual experience are likely to drink more alcohol, attend church less, and have a crimi…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 05:18 PM
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Just world fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 05:09 PM
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This is an impressive fiction of how humans mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 05:05 PM
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Lol no. Most people only work hard to minimize the amount of actual work they do. They seek do-nothing WFH jobs that let them coast by on minimal effort for maximum returns. They optimize their life in a way that makes their professional contributions easily replaceable by ChatGPT 5.0.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 01:53 PM
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There is nothing more equal parts repulsive and infuriating than gaming e-celebrities who inevitably hook up with multiple fangirls at conventions pretending they overcame their awkward quirks by just “being themselves.” This shit is like seeing a wealthy kid express confusion that your parents didn’t buy you a car for your 16th birthday. It invokes that primal feeling of hatred that comes with being condescendingly talked down to by someone that’s either never struggled or forgotten what it’s l…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 01:48 PM
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There’s a reason the generic advice is “make the first date cheap and easy, i.e. coffee.” Wasting $5 is a lot less painful than wasting $50.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 01:37 PM
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Unrequited feelings are mental illness. Jesus Christ.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 01:23 PM
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Imagine if the average man was this needlessly judgmental based on virtually no information. “I would’ve gone out with her, but she was at the coffee shop alone. If she can’t even make female friends to get coffee with, that means she’s obviously deficient.”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 01:19 PM
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Jesus fucking Christ. A month in jail because of a false accusation? Enjoy explaining that mugshot to all your future dates, or your family and friends. Canada actually pays damages if you’re wrongfully jailed. One guy got around $50k for being falsely imprisoned for a week or two. I’m positive this guy will get nothing. And the fact that anyone is defending this as “proper procedure” is eye opening.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 01:09 PM
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What a cop-out. “No, we’re not acting consistently and within our principles. But no one does, so you can’t hold any of that against us!” Actually, plenty of people do act within their principles. Be better.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 11:17 AM
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I didn’t make friends in school, either. I barely remember anyone I went to school with. And I don’t mind “gambling” on trying things I might not like. I mind doing things I already know I don’t like.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 10:37 PM
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Sure, I’ll accept that criticism. I don’t like feigning excitement in things I find boring for the sole purpose of deceiving others into liking me, in any context.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 09:20 PM
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My gut reaction is to tell people to fuck off if they become more interested in me over a shallow change. Amazing to see such little self respect in another man.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 09:10 PM
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But you end up a lot better than a teenager by the end. Hopefully Then you die, and it didn’t matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 09:08 PM
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Yep, I know a lot of beautiful men who repeatedly shoot themselves in the foot and remain single. Being true to yourself is often better than being with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 09:07 PM
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If animals could talk, which one would be the rudest? Canada Geese. One of the few species that is impervious to the charming capybara.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 09:05 PM
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I’ve looked at meetup groups near me, in a populated beach area. They’re all really… REALLY lame. The most prominent ones are photography, Bible study, walking… you know, stuff that really gets the blood pumping. No offense if you like these things, but it’s definitely not how I want to spend my precious free time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 09:01 PM
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Preach. I made male friends effortlessly throughout my entire 20s. It led to exactly 0 interactions with women. I think people like to oversell how “organically” they meet women through their friends. More often than not, they’re tryharding just a bit (focusing on going to meetups with single women and deliberately pursuing those women socially over the men around them).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 01:31 PM
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In my experience, friend groups evaporate once people start having families. So if you’re in your 30s and single, you’re going to be left hanging out to dry more often than not. The huge exception is LGBTQ types, who seem to form lasting friend groups for many years. Personally, my girlfriend was surprised when she found out I don’t even make online friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 01:27 PM
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It's not difficult to find the time to go out once or twice a week to meet people. Are you in a densely populated urban area? Are you in your 20s? Because if the answer is yes to either, you’re playing on easy mode.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 01:23 PM
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I’m 33 now, and trying to find people my age to be social with is like looking for an oasis in a desert. It doesn’t help that I’m professional peers with men who are 50+ due to my career taking off at a relatively young age for my field. I joined a gym earlier this year, and met some nice people there, but… meh. And the many times I’ve looked on meetup for group events, it all looks really, really boring. Just photography clubs and dance classes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 01:21 PM
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Does it? 63% of men 18-29 are single. Most people now meet their partners through dating apps. It’s very clear we’ve hit a point socially where dating isn’t really just “happening” to young people like it used to. Well, not young men, anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 01:05 PM
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And when you don’t click with 100 groups in a row? What then? “Surely group 101 will be the one I click with”? Eventually, it’s logical to assume there are no groups with which one clicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 01:03 PM
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she paused to think Oof.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 12:59 PM
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Lol, the one time an older woman tried to set me up with her niece, my mother shot her down with a “he’s too busy with school” excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 12:59 PM
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Yeah, anytime someone goes “actually dating is pretty easy,” it always turns out they’re in NYC, Chicago, San Francisco, etc. Being one of the millions of men in midtown USA can be rough.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 12:54 PM
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The “status” bullshit is definitely an obnoxious obsession, but it’s true that making friends as an adult male with a full time job is extremely difficult. I still got invited out socially a bit in my 20s, but it dried up completely in my 30s. I tried to start a bowling league with men my age from work, but even the guys that love bowling are too busy with family to do it more than once a month. And that’s ignoring doing something much harder, like trying to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 12:53 PM
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“Society” doesn’t care about anyone. It cares about plenty of people. Just not loveless young men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 12:49 PM
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https://www.scrippsnews.com/us-news/study-shows-an-increasing-number-of-young-men-are-single
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 12:37 AM
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Most men are in relationships. Getting laid. 60-70% of men age 18-29 are single.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 07:06 PM
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This. Be rational and realistic. Don’t do things for her that you wouldn’t do for a male friend. Don’t let yourself be used. If you develop feelings, either act on them, or make space so that the feelings can die down. Don’t just sort of hover in her periphery waiting for magic to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 03:26 PM
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There are studies showing promiscuity before marriage is positively correlated with divorce. It is rational for a man OR woman to be hesitant to marry the village bicycle. I do not know of any studies showing virgins or inexperienced lovers coming with higher rates of divorce, or spousal abuse, or infidelity, or whatever. Just lots of social stigma, and it’s all aimed at one gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 02:57 PM
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Again, you keep mentioning guns and bullets and completely ignoring my point that a big strong man is less likely to be targeted for "bullets" in the first place. Objectively false. Most victims of gun violence are men. Men are stronger than women. "Wahhhh I hate that women are sexually attracted to tall men." Shallow shallow shallow shallow shallow shallow. Cry more, not gonna change a damn thing. There it is. Point to where I told you that you’re wrong to like tall men. Go ahead; I’ll wait. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 04:22 PM
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How did "big strong tall guy" become "lanky twig?" We were talking about tall men, not whatever fantasy makes you wet. Tall men are not intimidating to anyone but short women. And the “big and strong man” thing is a joke on its own, but I’m not gonna touch on that. Bullets go through bodybuilders pretty easily. Yes, and a woman with a small man is an easier target than a woman with a large man. A woman carrying an assault rifle on her back is even harder. Do you carry an assault rifle on your ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 04:09 PM
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No man with an ounce of fight in him is intimidated by a lanky twig. Being with an adult male makes you less of a target for malefactors than being alone. But so does being with an adult female. Or anyone else, really. Criminals go for easy targets, and there’s strength in numbers. “My 6’2” boyfriend is really intimidating to a thug with a Glock in his waistband” is literal copium. And fabricating a narrative to justify a shallow preference. Besides, many women will make it clear that there’s su…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 04:01 PM
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There's a very good argument to be made that being taller than other guys has a security component No there isn’t. A short king can shoot your tall boyfriend just as easily. If anything, he’s a bigger target.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 03:42 PM
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It’s kind of a running joke that both ends of the horseshoe see their mortal enemy in Reddit. Back in the heyday of /r/shitredditsays, them and their ilk painted Reddit broadly as a hive of problematic right-wing extremism. Meanwhile, 4chan and the like mocked Reddit as a website for SJWs and other sissies. It’s painfully obvious that the default subreddits have a strong left-wing bias, but the male-female bias is less defined (likely because left-wing men are still as sexually frustrated and “s…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 03:35 PM
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Every scientist on earth is paid by appealing to committees full of their direct superiors, if not by direct donations and grants. Every scientist on Earth is biased. If that’s your position, then we agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 03:29 PM
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The cope is being a Petri dish for HPV. Try to keep up.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 03:25 PM
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Whatever you need to tell yourself, brush boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 03:24 PM
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Whatever helps cancer dick cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 02:24 PM
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Scientists are happy to falsify conclusions when the data doesn’t support their bias. Then they’re given slaps on the wrist or not punished at all. Exhibit A: https://www.npr.org/2023/07/19/1188828810/stanford-university-president-resigns Unless you want to tell me Stanford is full of “community college teachers.”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 02:07 PM
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Presumably the women that are being predisposed to cervical cancer by sleeping with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 01:36 PM
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figure drawing classes Yawn. swing dance groups Gag me with a knife. jogging groups The cringiest fad in recent history. online writing groups Because writing is a team sport, apparently. It’s painfully obvious that the men who seek out these hobby groups are desperately looking for pussy. Men doing things they actually want to do go hunting, shooting, bowling, playing pickup games at the gym, or simply work in the garage.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 01:35 PM
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Hope he enjoys being a Petri dish for HPV.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 01:01 PM
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Sounds like you’ve had a pretty charmed life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 12:54 PM
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Why? I don’t need to.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:25 PM
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Why do you act like a teenager if you’re 30?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 06:39 PM
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Where did I say anything about a couple of losers you apparently emulate, little guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 03:16 PM
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What was I wrong about, little programmer whose feelings were hurt?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 01:20 PM
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I don’t care in the slightest.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 12:10 PM
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Half this post reads like gibberish. Please speak English.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 10:42 PM
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Average people date and marry average people. Shocker. You are an average person, too. You aren’t going to marry Scarlett Johansson. The only reason you would be upset about that is if you’re bitter or delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 09:21 PM
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A good programming job is higher status I love it when programmers tell on themselves like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 09:17 PM
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Something that the petit bourgeois obsess over in their endless pursuit of "standing out." The adult version of wishing you were one of the popular kids at school.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 08:52 PM
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I've always looked and acted older than my age. It helps that I've interacted exclusively with older men for most of my life, so I picked up their habits subconsciously. My girlfriend tells me I talk and act like I'm 70 when I'm 33. When I was in my mid-20s, a guy I work with told me I look like a badly aging man in his late 30s. I also have a job that's sent multiple coworkers of mine into panic attacks and therapy, so it's probably aged me a bit. I have mild contempt for the "i'M 47 bUt pEoPLe…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 08:49 PM
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Most socially anxious men avoid popular and trendy places, because they are too intimidating, They’re not intimidating, they’re fucking lame. When I still drank, I had zero desire to be around a bunch of young, attractive, soft-handed gigglers and IPA suckers. Real fun is a broken down old bar full of cheap beer and veterans missing limbs. Not some well-lit party bar playing pop music.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 05:11 PM
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What in the blue fuck is “dancemaxxing”?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 04:34 PM
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It’s not my universal traits, it’s evolutionary biology It’s not “evolutionary biology,” it’s social conditioning. Women in the olden times fucked guys who smelled like shit all the time because they spent all day sweating and showers weren’t a thing yet. They didn’t evolve to love guys that smell like shit: they were socially conditioned for it. You had a semi-decent, if still flawed point. Then you fucked it up by pretending to be a scientist.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 04:32 PM
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Neither guy sounds interesting. I have never found someone interesting because of their hobbies. It gives you something to do together. That’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 04:19 PM
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Look up the different waves of feminism. Third wave feminism has nothing to do with gender equality. Or rather, the stuff about equality is a motte, with the bailey being heavy centralized planning that explicitly favors women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 07:30 PM
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The ideal relationship is one where you’re both a 5/10, but you hit just enough “turn-ons” in the other person that they see you as an 8/10. Plenty of people will inflate your SMV because they have a particular thing for your hair/voice/eyes/arms/whatever. Leagues are a myth.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 04:23 PM
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Sure thing, little guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 02:38 AM
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I’m fine. Recently dated and got a girlfriend. After making lots and lots of efforts to be tolerant and a “good man,” I realized that I find toxicity and shit tests insufferable. No pussy is worth feeling soulless every day of your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 07:45 PM
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Yeah, man, I’m totally oblivious to their “struggles” as a 33 year old virgin. I went my whole 20s without pussy. For the most part, it was a good time. I certainly wasn’t obsessing over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 07:21 PM
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You can get that from a friend with benefits. Or just regular hookups. Though I knew that would be someone’s excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 07:19 PM
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The sexual revolution and its consequences have been disastrous for the human race.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 07:16 PM
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That’s how women “pursue” men. They make themselves available to them as an object to pursue. Expecting different is naive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 06:55 PM
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I’ve rejected multiple women at bars. Most of them took it gracefully. Others were… less graceful. A woman at work started making passes at me a few years ago. I rejected her for similar reasons (dating at work is a hard no), and she broke down crying. It was awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 06:55 PM
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It’s a coping mechanism. Better to believe you were “stuck in an abusive relationship” than to accept that you weren’t as attractive or appealing as you like to think.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 06:52 PM
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Exactly. I used to laugh reading essays about the social problem of men believing they’re entitled to sex. I said, “have you seen how a woman acts when you turn her down?”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 06:51 PM
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Sounds like you were a bit weak. Plenty of men don’t get pussy and aren’t obsessed with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 06:48 PM
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Leaving your family, home, culture, and career behind for the opportunity of exploiting a weak economy is generally pretty cringe. Doing it for pussy is even more cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 06:46 PM
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In a word, “pathetic.”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 06:45 PM
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Good, as long as it’s within the realm of statistically normal. Nothing is more repulsive than someone that’s different.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 06:35 PM
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Ew, hopefully not too many standard deviations away from the mean. Anything outside of one or two sigma is gross, amirite?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 06:26 PM
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Supposedly zoomers use Instagram as a hookup app now. Don’t ask me how or why.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 06:18 PM
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Yeah, getting laid is largely a result of being in the right place at the right time. It’s always guys in male-dominated career fields that are struggling, because local communities barely exist anymore. A single male who doesn’t interact with women in his day-to-day life will struggle no matter how attractive he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 06:17 PM
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NYC in your 20s is easy mode for a man. I believe women significantly outnumber men in NYC as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 06:14 PM
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This isn’t really true. The apps want you to succeed in finding someone because otherwise, everyone catches on that they’re a waste of time/money and stops participating. There is zero need to reduce your odds of matching, since most people are going to have enough trouble finding a match to begin with that their problems with dating will keep them using the app regardless. I guess it’s convenient and easy to blame your lady problems on an evil business model, but it doesn’t pass the sniff test.…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 06:10 PM
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It failed because women don’t want to make the first move. They want to be passively chased. The kinds of men that women are willing to chase are the kinds who get hundreds of matches on these apps, at which point the premise is irrelevant, since women will say yes to anything the guy proposes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 06:06 PM
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Imagine bragging that you’re attracted to the middle of a bell curve. Do you exclusively date men who make the median income of ~$40k per year?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 06:03 PM
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I fail to understand how a long term relationship lowers stress. Can you give examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 01:36 PM
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5'8"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 01:17 PM
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Men don't tell other men not to be vulnerable. This is something chest-thumping "alphas" in the red pill community think men do. Actual men are supportive of one another, and try to help them deal with mental issues. I have worked and been friends with multiple active service personnel and combat veterans. They were all open with their emotions and quick to express concern if someone seemed "off." Women will encourage a man to be open about his emotions, and to talk to someone when he's sad, but…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 02:13 AM
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+1 from my experience. When I was still in my 20s and deeply misogynistic, a new female coworker asked who I was when she saw me speaking to my team. A guy who didn't like me much said, "Oh, that's Gloomy, he's a known misogynist..." She proceeded to ask almost every man I work with whether I would get along with her. They all said no. She STILL tried to get me to go on a date with her. I was an asshole virgin loser in my 20s, and a bit chubby. But I was confident, had a commanding voice, could …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 01:49 AM
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The eye contact thing always feels like I’m reading about an alien species. I have never looked at someone’s face if I wasn’t talking or listening to them. People are invisible to me in public unless they’re directly in my way. The other one that always confused me was when I would go to the bar as a single man and put in earbuds while drinking. I read online that this tells other people not to talk to you. Yet multiple women would approach me to ask me if “something’s wrong” or I “need to talk …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 07:35 PM
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Oh, I used to get that line all the time. From bartenders, coworkers, her… women constantly told me to smile more. Which is why I was surprised when I found women on the internet complaining about it as a female-exclusive problem. Anyway, I only saw that girl like once after that. She probably assumed I wasn’t interested. Which, to be fair, I was going through some heavy shit at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 06:12 PM
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What do you mean by “hound my ass”? I found women to generally be friendlier and more attentive when I lost weight, but they weren’t asking me out. One woman tried, I think. She worked at a gas station I went to and came up to me, said “hey…um, I see you in here a lot…and just wanted to say, I notice you…and I’d like to see you smile more…” to which I chuckled and said thanks. But she was too awkward for me to get a read.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 05:39 PM
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That is why inviting women/men into it is critical. Invite everyone you are willing to at every opportunity. For example, if there is a gas station clerk you have brief but enjoyable conversations with, invite her/him. It could be as simple as "Hey, I like to get out and bowl on these days at this place. If you're interested, come out and join me and my friends for a couple of games." Point taken. But I have found that men in their late 20s/early 30s (my age range) are very unreceptive to sponta…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 03:44 PM
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You’re just describing a male that’s socially extroverted and charismatic. Women love those men. They display dominance in a way that’s natural and appealing. And they’re fun; women like being with fun guys. They don’t like submissive doormats who sit in the corner waiting for good things to happen to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 02:06 PM
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This is all it is, honestly. Men obsess over which personality traits women are attracted to, when it’s almost entirely physical attraction that matters. If she doesn’t like how you look, you’re wasting your time. Women will rationalize and rationalize all day and all night to excuse shitty behavior from a man that they’re physically attracted to. Men, too, but with even lower standards. The 2 rules of finding love and sex are memetic for a reason. I think less attractive men (myself included) b…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 02:01 PM
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None of that matters to a woman if the man has the social status to back up being cruel and disrespectful. Assholes flourish because they’re usually confident and have the charisma to back it up. A basement dwelling NEET who tries to be an asshole to women is just going to be ridiculed and rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 01:54 PM
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The paradox is that women are attracted to men who are repulsive to other men. Tall men are preferred because they are seen as socially “intimidating” to their short friends. Cocky men who give their friends lots of shit are seen as dominant and capable of repelling other male suitors. And many women are conditioned to be turned on by men who treat them like warm, fuckable meat in bed. Who use and abuse them until they cum. A man who “takes” a woman without worrying about her safety or needs is …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 01:52 PM
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This works if you have a social circle with single women in it. Men who don’t are effectively living in prison, or forced to endure the quiet hell that is online dating. I go bowling with my friends twice a week. I invite people all the time. Many decide to join. I have literally zero women I could invite that wouldn’t make it painfully obvious to them and the guys in the group that I’m trying to force a spark to happen. And trying to flirt in front of a bunch of married guys who just want to bo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 01:47 PM
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