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| 1 | Men on the whole are objectively worth less to date now than ever I believeI work in IT and see this sort of thing all the time. There doesn't seem to be anything gendered or generational about it. People who turn it into a cynical observation about humanity are taking themselves out of the equation too much and forgetting that the nature of their job involves seeing people in their dumbest moments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Attraction isn’t a meritocracyThat's circular. Everything is tautologically a meritocracy if you define merit as whatever is selected for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 11:47 AM |
| 1 | Guys need to ask themselves what value they bring to others.Manosphere groups are all about telling men to treat themselves like a market commodity. You sound just like them right now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Fellas, is it discriminatory for women to experience attraction? DiscussEveryone's free to have whatever preferences they want, but the flipside is that not meeting those preferences shouldn't be treated by society as some kind of moral failing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/26 04:07 PM |
| 1 | Media couldn’t have lied to you if you can’t name the media that you consumed.Not even remotely what I said. There's a world of difference between most social conditioning being implicit and "people lie to themselves and blame the media." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 09:07 PM |
| 4 | Media couldn’t have lied to you if you can’t name the media that you consumed.This seems absurdly reductionist. Most of what people learn about how society works isn't explicitly spelled out to them. It happens through implicit absobtion of unspoken rules over time. The aggregate effect of media can absolutely give people a false impression of the world without anyone turning to the camera and outright lying to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 08:05 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Most complaints about dating stems from not understanding how value worksIt sounds like you're conflating descriptive and prescriptive claims. Being dissatisfied with how something works doesn't mean you don't understand it. Often how the thing works is the complaint. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/22 07:10 PM |
| 3 | The average guy should not be frustrated at the selective nature of average Woman as he would act no differently if the tables where turned.In not saying the behavior is across the board. I'm saying that across the board, meaning in all the various contexts where I hear people say "you'd do the same in my place," it's a line of thought I'm wary of. Primarily it's because the better a person's position is, the stronger the incentive to believe that anyone else would do the same. As a judgment of any individual person they might be right or wrong, but on a macro level, it just leaves people who are better off less empathetic for those… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 08:38 PM |
| 8 | The average guy should not be frustrated at the selective nature of average Woman as he would act no differently if the tables where turned.I'm wary of this line of thought across the board because it's always in the interest of a person in a better off position to believe that anyone in the same position would act the same way. And I think the tax dodging multimillionaire is a perfect example of that. No one is made more empathetic or driven to treat others better by the belief that their critics are just jealous hypocrites who would do the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 07:07 PM |
| 2 | Sex isn’t a marital dutyPeople are allowed to reject sex. That's obvious enough. But "without worrying for their marriages" implies that you're entitled to a relationship regardless of whether you meet your partner's needs. It's not a matter of duties. There are actions that strengthen marriages and actions that weaken them, sometimes to the point of destroying them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/18 04:30 AM |
| 9 | I think the problem is that these days men are out of touch and not being real men.Nothing against the OP, but that sounds like something out of a drunken post-breakup rant. For better or worse, all men are real men, and there's no convenient secret about how to deal with women. | /r/MensRights | 21/03/11 08:41 AM |
| – | Why would someone like Sami Lukis need a sperm donor?If she doesn't want a man right now or ever to have a baby with, what's the big deal? Marrying a man just to help raise the kids is ridiculous. If I were a single father I'd never marry for that reason. That she's attractive and could probably get almost any man she wants is irrelevant. If she's up to the challenge of being a single mother, let her. I'm honestly surprised that this is even newsworthy. | /r/MensRights | 20/03/11 08:12 PM |
| 4 | Are women "entitled" to good men? Should men be allowed to reject women?To put it simply, when it comes to the opposite (or same) sex, no one is entitled to a partner. Any healthy relationship is strictly voluntary. And men are as free as women to seek the relationships they want instead of the ones that opposite sex expects of them. | /r/MensRights | 20/03/11 02:06 AM |
| 2 | Nice Guys and their Optic Problems.I think the issue boils down to points 1 and 4. Most men are inclined to see themselves as nice guys whether or not that's actually the case. Most men are also inclined to see any man who takes "his" woman as a jerk whether or not that's actually the case. Perhaps this is just my experience, but I've never head of a guy admit to losing a girl to a person of far better character than himself. | /r/MensRights | 19/03/11 09:24 AM |
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