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| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadFor the same reason other people agree to be in reality shows like The Bachelor, fame whoring. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/23 02:39 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMost of Asia (close to 3 billion people) such as Japan, China, etc.. are in similar time zones but granted people in those countries probably don't spend much time in English speaking websites. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/23 09:38 AM |
| 0 | Do men like plus size women?Then you would be very wrong as that is exactly why the VAST MAJORITY OF MEN prefer beautiful healthy slim young women for LTRs. Firstly obviously because a beautiful woman arouses strong sexual attraction from men but not far behind it would because on a subconscious level at the very least, a healthy attractive woman offers the best chance of a man siring healthy offspring. Some men, because of a lack of options may occasionally choose to sleep with women they don't find all that attractive; t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/23 09:18 AM |
| 0 | Do men like plus size women?From a genetic standpoint overweight women do not have good genes, or at least while they're fat, and that is very off putting for men who want to have healthy children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: what would you do if your wife/girlfriend can no longer have sex with you?Maybe later as it's 2am where I'm from and need to go to bed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 04:01 PM |
| 6 | When women have bad relationships they are told to “pick better” but when men are, we assign blame to womenNot when it comes to deciding whether you are an adult or not, no there's no middle ground. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 03:35 PM |
| 11 | When women have bad relationships they are told to “pick better” but when men are, we assign blame to womenReally? I thought women had great intuition when it comes to sussing out creeps. So this is what it's all about? About avoiding accountability for failing to vet/screen potential male partners properly and acting as if the woman in this scenario is some sort of under age person that society needs to protect on her behalf. Either women are fully fledged adults capable of making adults decisions or they should relinquish their autonomy and be treated as vulnerable under age persons that in some ci… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 03:33 PM |
| 6 | When women have bad relationships they are told to “pick better” but when men are, we assign blame to womenAgain my main point is that the onus on who picks a suitable partner (as they often have the upper hand and the ones who give the go ahead for the relationship to proceed) is overwhelmingly on the women's side of things, that's all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 03:24 PM |
| 14 | When women have bad relationships they are told to “pick better” but when men are, we assign blame to womenThe alternative for a lot of men who go years and years without having a partner is to remain single. The main point that I'm trying to make is that the onus in choosing an appropriate suitable partner is most definitely on women in the vast majority of cases. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 03:20 PM |
| 17 | When women have bad relationships they are told to “pick better” but when men are, we assign blame to womenWomen are usually the ones who get to pick the partner for both relationships and most flings so.. Most men don't get to choose, they get chosen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 03:16 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: what would you do if your wife/girlfriend can no longer have sex with you?An equivalent to this scenario would be women that have no hesitation in saying that they would have no problems what-so-ever in leaving a man who could not give them children. I've come across sentiments like this online, TV shows, newspaper columns and IRL and women on all instances show no signs of any guilt about having such a resolute stance. On the contrary they become very stroppy and indignant if anyone attempts to make them at least reconsider and re-asses their rigid mindset on this to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 08:44 AM |
| 2 | Is it me, or has toxicity towards men been normalized?Superior in just about every quantifiable measure if choosing not to be politically correct. Men are overwhelmingly responsible for all the grunt hard labour in construction and maintenance of various infrastructure that keeps society going and glued together. Women understandably due to biology just aren't built, pun intended, for that type of physical work. Men are also the main leaders in the political field, armies, etc.. and over represented in discoveries and advancements made in science, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 07:09 AM |
| 3 | Is it me, or has toxicity towards men been normalized?I have a preference for 'alarm bells' myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 06:48 AM |
| 4 | Is it me, or has toxicity towards men been normalized?Penis envy is what Freud called it. I suspect that most straight women on some subconscious level begrudgingly acknowledge that men are the superior sex and that all women have over men is the imbalanced urge for sexual intercourse between the two sexes that favours women. Unfortunately women have been enabled by politically correct leftwing ideology that has taken hold over Western societies since the 60s to externalize that envy by leftwing governments introducing policies that haven't been ju… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 06:46 AM |
| 10 | Is it me, or has toxicity towards men been normalized?Hypocrisy underlines a belief that the group you belong to or identify with is superior those outside of it and that pretty much aptly describes whatever wave feminism is up to today. It's why women's word about anything related to dating or the dynamics between men and women in other areas should be taken with a grain of salt. Women will be self serving at every turn and 'gaslight' any toxic behaviour from women by downplaying it as Not All Women or basically dismissing it as trivial and insign… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 06:17 AM |
| 1 | What would happen if men were as picky as women?Picky as in wanting a partner to have regular (casual) sex with or LTRs? If it's about casual sex then dynamics would probably resemble that of lesbian relationships, may a tad 'hornier' so to speak depending on what is actually meant by 'picky'. If talking about LTRs then I guess the best comparisons would still be lesbian relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 05:48 AM |
| 2 | CMV : A woman can almost ALWAYS find a better option within a couple of months of trying, so why would they settle?I'd hazard to guess that women CAN'T do better, in the context of LTRs, because if they do enter into a serious relationship with a guy that they do think is their equal or at their level applying whatever measure they use to arrive at that conclusion; then that guy would almost certainly think he can do better as well and can usually back it up and won't hesitate to leave that woman somewhere down the line. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/23 02:34 PM |
| – | Which gender feels they settled down more? Is it mean or womenI'd say women as it is women that are generally the ones who have harboured unrealistic delusional expectations at some point in their lives, usually in their 20s, in regards to looking for a partner. Which is in stark contrast to the vast majority of men who have almost from the outset in no uncertain terms given no alternative but to temper any unrealistic standards in terms of looking for a partner from very early on in their dating experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/23 02:20 PM |
| 3 | The average woman is completely delusional about men's income and what they "qualify" for.You may be right depending on where you live I suppose but if this were generally true in the West so many women earning a relatively high income wouldn't be complaining about the lack of suitable 'good' men, with one of the main complaints being a man's income or lack thereof. Time will tell I suppose but something will have to give eventually. These women either adjust their expectations (in regards to the attractiveness and/or income of a potential partner) of the kind of men they think they'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 02:15 PM |
| 6 | The average woman is completely delusional about men's income and what they "qualify" for.$70-80k, especially since they all stated they’d like multiple children, makes such a request seem reasonable since raising multiple kids is kinda expensive (there is also no winning with y’all cause according to this sub, she has to be both the homemaker and be okay with a broke dude at the same time - pick one). I'd say the majority of men making that sort of money would probably attract and choose prettier women than those who participated in this video. Men don't place much weight and impo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 01:58 PM |
| 2 | The average woman is completely delusional about men's income and what they "qualify" for.If this trend of average, being generous here, picky women with unrealistic standards for a partner continues, the birth rate is gonna fall even further and who know what sort of serious repercussions and issues that would cause in society in the future. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 01:52 PM |
| 1 | What's stopping men from posting nudes and thirst traps online?Mya in one of her songs proclaimed 'I can't stand a man who thinks he looks better than me'. Women being narcissistic and obsessed about their looks is expected and accepted by society because that's one of the traits where women derive a lot of their value and status in society. Men not so much and average women kinda get turned off and somewhat intimidated (in regards to LTRs, but irrelevant in terms of short term flings and casual sex ) by men who are borderline Calvin Klein male models and c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 01:35 PM |
| 3 | Men in their 50-60s, what are you guys turned on by?I think it's mostly about domination, the fact that a woman is able to submit herself completely that she'll put a man's reproductive organ in her mouth and ingest said bodily fluids is a display of completely giving herself to that man. An act that stroke's a lot of men's masculine ego, a confirmation of sorts that he's a men's man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/23 11:44 AM |
| – | been on a few dates in the past couple of months and a lot of men praise me for simply not being a Western woman? i wonder what's up with that? I don't mind it but it puzzles me (MEN only pls, but women are also welcome to contribute)My guess is you don't give off vibes that you're entitled, see yourself as superior to the men who are interested in you and therefore lucky to be in your presence and should really kiss and worship the floor you walk on. That down to earth attitude is refreshing and quite frankly shocking and goes a long way in impressing a lot of men who come across Western women who are exactly the opposite, women who unashamedly believe and act as if they are God's gift to all men on Earth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 12:58 PM |
| 6 | Study show that straight women are disproportionaly more likely to search porn with violence against women and where they are being raped abused and endure physical violence, than straight men do.The attraction in that scenario for a lot of men is being the men who the wife is cheating with, not the cuckold. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 11:11 AM |
| 7 | Men's obsession with the sexual purity and virginity of women harms young menI don't know how to double quote but pretty much reiterating what I said in the previous post. Having a high sex drive with the same partner is not an issue, at least to me I can't speak for anyone else. But men or women who seek out multiple sexual partners as a means to feel better about themselves and fill some psychological void created because of some unresolved issue in their formative years, do bring a lot of emotional baggage that can end up with them never being satisfied in a monogamou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 11:05 AM |
| 13 | Men's obsession with the sexual purity and virginity of women harms young men Having a high sex drive with the same partner is not an issue, at least to me I can't speak for anyone else. But men or women who seek out multiple sexual partners as a means to feel better about themselves and fill some psychological void created because of some unresolved issue in their formative years, do bring a lot of emotional baggage that can end up with them never being satisfied in a monogamous relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 11:03 AM |
| 37 | Men's obsession with the sexual purity and virginity of women harms young men In spite of claims to the contrary in my experience very few women are promiscuous purely because they enjoy sex as is the case with the vast majority of men, who can quite easily separate sex from developing romantic feelings with a sexual partner besides a few exceptions of course. Although a lot of women claim to be able to separate sex from falling in love I’ve come across far too many jaded women who inevitably complain about feeling used by men for sex; primarily in their late 20s and ea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 08:45 AM |
| – | the biggest issue with the RP is that it views ‘male nature’ in the best light and ‘female nature’ in the worstThe fundamental Red Pill theorems are about removing the pleasant thinly veiled facade of modern civilised society and clearly stating the basic lizard brain impulses that still exist among men and women in the modern age in respect to finding a partner. It's just that women haven't been expected to ‘grow’ as a group of people and can still get away with demanding 'traditional' roles from men while ignoring an adherence to any traditional roles themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 07:07 AM |
| – | the biggest issue with the RP is that it views ‘male nature’ in the best light and ‘female nature’ in the worstIsn't that what modern mainstream society does but in reverse by portraying women in the best possible light and depicting men as monsters until proven to be civilised? Red Pill movement exists because straight men have been demonised since about the late 60s onwards; patriarchy and all that other baseless rubbish that paints men as supremely privileged when anyone with a modicum of intellect would know is patently false. The Red Pill is basically a movement to counter balance and push back on t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 07:00 AM |
| -1 | Most women don't need a "hoe phase" for the 80/20 argument to holdThis mainly applies to women between their late teens and mid 20s, when they are at their most physically attractive and few have any serious interest in a LTR during that period of their lives; their carefree and experimental stage as some have put it. That's when average women can consistently pull the 20% of attractive men for casual no strings attached sex if they so wish. Once average women start thinking about wanting to find a serious boyfriend that they would consider possibly marrying a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 01:27 PM |
| 4 | Isn't this red pill thinking? Girls will choose attractive jocks over quiet nerds, even if they are equally misogynistic.Then women are not as smart as they think they are because as a straight male it is fairly obvious to me within a few interactions I have with a guy I've never met before whether he's a reasonably stand up person or not. There are a plenty of behavioural give away signs that tell on someone potentially being a decent person or not. But I suspect, like some men that are also guilty of doing the same thing when they are interested in a beautiful woman, women subconsciously put blinkers on and choo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 01:13 PM |
| 3 | Isn't this red pill thinking? Girls will choose attractive jocks over quiet nerds, even if they are equally misogynistic.I would have thought that being in a toxic relationship (read: abusive physically or verbally) with a man would be a big no no regardless of whether the man in question was attractive or not, for any self respecting proud feminist woman. Am I wrong in presuming that any woman being in a relationship with an abusive man is a shallow idiot that deserves everything she gets coming her way? Sort of comparable and analogous to a relatively wealthy man who dates gold diggers because they both enter in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 11:46 AM |
| 1 | I regularly see women say on here that men overrate their own appearance, but women are guilty of this to a significantly higher degree.Those studies are plurals and have been repeatedly replicated and published in incredibly rigorous settings. Alright I'm genuinely intrigued about how these academics went to all the trouble of ascertaining one of life's most important mysteries; which of the sexes is best qualified to accurately judge their own attractiveness. lmao I'll do my best to get my hands on these so-called pertinent 'studies' in whatever field it was that they filed it under to sate my curiosity and see for myself the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 02:10 PM |
| – | I regularly see women say on here that men overrate their own appearance, but women are guilty of this to a significantly higher degree. At least you're honest about thinking that women in general are more attractive than men. There are many here who push back on that claim. My personal opinion is that men’s ‘attractiveness’ approaches Normal Distribution in the same way that men’s judgement on women also approximates Normal Distribution because we are comparing men with men, not with other women. After a while average looking women do become jaded after sleeping with men who pump and dump them. But when it initially happens it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 01:09 PM |
| – | I regularly see women say on here that men overrate their own appearance, but women are guilty of this to a significantly higher degree. Seriously? A peer reviewed study about which sex is more honest and accurate about judging their own physical appearance. hahaha I could barely contain my laughter when I first read it, there's an obvious agenda at play there, no doubt about it. It's not a conspiracy, it's a well known fact that academia in the West leans hard left and goes out of their way to support groups that they consider disadvantaged in society such as women. So it’s no surprise to me that they’ve wasted precious time… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 01:01 PM |
| – | I regularly see women say on here that men overrate their own appearance, but women are guilty of this to a significantly higher degree. The point I was trying to make is that just because women get a lot of sexual attention from men doesn’t necessarily mean that they’re highly attractive. Men are prepared to have sex with women that they don’t consider all that attractive to scratch that itch that’s all I’m saying. My advice to women is that they shouldn’t develop a superiority complex simply because men are prepared to sleep with them as men wanting to have sex with women doesn’t mean much, commitment does. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 12:42 PM |
| – | I regularly see women say on here that men overrate their own appearance, but women are guilty of this to a significantly higher degree.https://www.reddit.com/r/OkCupid/comments/5i6m5y/women_have_unrealistic_views_of_how_men_look/ Well these are informal frivolous discussions about a very subjective topic so I haven’t gone out of my way to collect links of articles about it that I’ve come across and read over the years, it’s not a request I was expecting to be honest. I’ve searched for them on google but several of the discussions are several years old with the links provided no longer working either. I’ll endeavour to do so fro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 12:31 PM |
| 1 | I regularly see women say on here that men overrate their own appearance, but women are guilty of this to a significantly higher degree.Female subjects were significantly accurate positive correlations between predictors and criteria I'm intrigued about who decides or what process the individuals who carried out this 'study' used to decide what is 'accurate'. Predictors and criteria are vague terms that attempt to give some validity to their claims of accurately assessing attractiveness. So I remain unconvinced this was about impartially determining whether women or men are more honest about judging attractiveness and probab… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 09:47 AM |
| 1 | I regularly see women say on here that men overrate their own appearance, but women are guilty of this to a significantly higher degree.As long as you're aware that there're a difference between the women that men consider suitable for casual sex, relationships and marriage. I'd say most men are prepared to have sexual sex with around 50% to 60% of women. Men are not fussy when it comes to getting their sexual needs met and will date down in order to have sex if necessary. Relationships with about 30% or so of women. Some men have no problems being in relationships with certain women because it gives them access to exclusive and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 08:04 AM |
| 1 | I regularly see women say on here that men overrate their own appearance, but women are guilty of this to a significantly higher degree.Heard about testosterone? It's the main reason why men more often than not are the ones willing and prepared to approach women to be able to get an opportunity to have sex with them. This biological evolutionary fact is not an indicator that women in general are more physically attractive than men (a subjective assertion that's impossible to prove) just that men have a greater sexual appetite and willing to pursue different tactics and strategies to satisfy that urge. Women on the other hand are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 07:50 AM |
| 1 | I regularly see women say on here that men overrate their own appearance, but women are guilty of this to a significantly higher degree.I had a skim through all of those pieces and nowhere did I find any text confirming that women rate themselves more accurately than men. If there are paragraphs in those links backing up your claim, can you quote them so I can try to find them again? Another possible explanation is that you have to pay for full access of what's in these articles and you expect everybody to take your word for it that what you claim is actually supported within the full version of those articles, information that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 07:30 AM |
| 0 | I regularly see women say on here that men overrate their own appearance, but women are guilty of this to a significantly higher degree.If that were the case, men overrating themselves more than women, then we'd see evidence of that in real life to back that up such as average looking men having social media accounts with a decent number of followers (patently false, it clearly only applies to women), average looking men having a significant number of women simping for them online or in real life (false again, this is only true about women) , etc... Not to mention that in dating agencies polls and surveys enquiring about physica… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/23 02:12 PM |
| 2 | CMV :Men wouldnt behave much different than women under the same dating conditions. Most behaviors are determined by one's options Well that abortion is like some simple procedure such as getting your teeth cleaned or something because foeti aren't humans blah blah blah …., they're just some biological matter that can easily be discarded when it is inconvenient. When in reality abortion can leave psychological scars that can linger for years. It even effects men, assuming they wanted the baby, who have no say in the matter in most cases and suffer psychologically from that loss. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/23 02:05 PM |
| 1 | CMV :Men wouldnt behave much different than women under the same dating conditions. Most behaviors are determined by one's optionsPregnancy requires a lot of women from both physical and mental standpoints and subsequently having and raising a child are a responsibility, financially and emotionally, that women generally aren't able to get out of. Unless they're prepared to give up their baby up for adoption, a decision which has significant traumatic psychological ramifications that can linger for years after the fact. The other option, abortion, also has serious psychological traumatic ramifications in spite of what many … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/23 01:53 PM |
| 6 | Have you ever tried look at dating from opposite sex's perspective, by making a fake account?If a woman can get LTR commitment from a man she doesn't consider trash then I guess her perception of herself in the dating world is fairly accurate and her dismissive arrogant, albeit still classless and boorish, attitude is somewhat justified. If not, and let's be honest the majority of average women struggle to get commitment from men they think are at their level, then she's probably just as much trash as the men she glibly dismisses as being beneath her. The only difference though is that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/23 01:59 PM |
| 1 | The male 'aesthetics' popular in South Korea are not attractive to western women I'll take your word for it in regards to the income of the various ethnic groups in the US. Assuming it is correct that economic disadvantage could be due to slavery and racial discrimination that black Americans have suffered going back centuries that still linger today. Although not as bad as in previous decades there are many systemic issues that remain and contribute to the disadvantage of black communities. From what I've heard from people I know in the US, third generation Latinos and th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/23 11:53 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThis one of the most BASED comments I've read on this sub but I'm sure most women on here will just conveniently ignore it like this always do when confronted with an ugly inconvenient truth they don't like. A lot of these attractive men do well with women because they're not intimidated by them, the confidence that women say makes them weak at the knees, and more often than not have a low opinion of them and for a good reason. The main reason being how easy they can usually get casual sex from … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/23 12:05 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt depends on the person's POV I guess as seppo accents come across as amusing to Aussies as well, although we're more used to the yank accents, then the other way around, because of the prevalence of Hollywood and the American music industry in our pop culture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/23 11:51 AM |
| 7 | Q4M: I think your rating scale miscalibrated when talking about "average women". Which of these women is average to you?https://akns-images.eonline.com/eol_images/Entire_Site/2019826/rs_634x1024-190926053128-634-Anna-Kendrick-Seth-Meyers-LT-092619-NUP_188407_0659.jpg?fit=around%7C634:1024&output-quality=90&crop=634:1024;center,top Weight is an external factor, meaning that a person can do something about it to change it, that wouldn't have affected a person's appearance several decades ago which can be blamed on the unhealthy modern Western diet. Never-the-less just because there are a lot more overweight people … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/23 11:37 AM |
| -3 | Q4M: I think your rating scale miscalibrated when talking about "average women". Which of these women is average to you?Anna Kendrick is what an average female (between 5 and 6) celebrity looks like to me, an average woman that isn't overweight and takes care of her appearance to some degree. Average women that are overweight and don't take of their appearance are below average, the same standards and criteria would apply to men also. https://akns-images.eonline.com/eol\_images/Entire\_Site/2019826/rs\_634x1024-190926053128-634-Anna-Kendrick-Seth-Meyers-LT-092619-NUP\_188407\_0659.jpg?fit=around%7C634:1024&output… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/23 10:54 AM |
| 7 | Q4M: I think your rating scale miscalibrated when talking about "average women". Which of these women is average to you?https://www.shutterstock.com/image-photo/portrait-middle-aged-woman-on-260nw-1104093656.jpg I can't really comment on black women as I don't often find them attractive. I'd say that I've found 5% of black women that I've seen and come across to be attractive to some extent. Hope that doesn't come off as racist or anything and against the rules in this subreddit. Anyway relatively speaking IMO she appears to have an average face but she's clearly overweight, and not just a tad, and that brings he… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/23 10:45 AM |
| 1 | Women who call all other women 10's/perfect/gorgeous are engaging in intrasex competition Saying women think they're borderline models is hyperbole to get my point across, nothing more nothing less. No one getting compliments even if exaggerated thinks they are as beautiful as a model: I'd like to believe that I really do. But when women think only 20% of men are somewhat decent looking (the remaining 80% of men are ugly apparently) whilst at the same time they believe that 80% of women are somewhat pretty (talk about ego), according to various surveys and polls conducted by da… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/23 11:52 AM |
| 1 | Women who call all other women 10's/perfect/gorgeous are engaging in intrasex competitionIf these guys do compliment each other I doubt it is to the ridiculous degree that many women do it with their female friends, which leads some women to believe they're borderline super models. Again as I've said in some of my other posts, it's because women realise beauty is one of the attributes that society imposes and harshly judges them on and the thought that they're not 'pretty' enough is horrifying to them and overcompensate with the over the top compliments with their own friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/23 11:26 AM |
| 1 | Women who call all other women 10's/perfect/gorgeous are engaging in intrasex competitionI was replying in the context that men convincing themselves of being attractive doesn't seem to have anywhere the same value that it does to women. Thus men flattering their male friends' looks isn't a thing and never will be under the current dating dynamics. UNLESS of course it is consistently supported by female interest like the consistent interest women get from men, then it would be very much appreciated and highly valued. It wasn't my intention to give the impression that most men’s self… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/23 11:17 AM |
| 1 | Women who call all other women 10's/perfect/gorgeous are engaging in intrasex competition This is one of several ways men and women differ because a man who simply convinces himself that he's good looking derives no where near the same level of satisfaction most straight men get from having an actual girlfriend/partner that would confirm it. It's not that men don't care about being good looking, not to the same extent as women do but it's still somewhat important. However that self appraisal is not worth much if it's not substantiated by interest from women which a large of portion… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/23 11:03 AM |
| 1 | Women who call all other women 10's/perfect/gorgeous are engaging in intrasex competitionWhat good would that do if because of testosterone men are usually the ones chasing women hoping to get sex out of that mutual attraction? Women on the other are much less 'desperate' in wanting sex and therefore can generally play it cooler compared to men, leveraging that relatively more relaxed attitude towards wanting sex to angle for better looking men. For that reason it won't matter one iota how good looking the majority of men think they are if women don't hold the same opinion of them. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/23 10:37 AM |
| 1 | Women who call all other women 10's/perfect/gorgeous are engaging in intrasex competitionI don't think you realize how many women even young women are hot for Danny DeVito. I find that hard to believe. Perhaps gold diggers who fancy their chances of landing a wealthy celebrity who may not get as much attention from conventionally attractive women than conventionally attractive celebrities. But if it wasn't for his wealth and celebrity status I think it's fanciful to believe that there would be many women, good looking or not, knocking down his door. My sisters and I will look at t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/23 10:19 AM |
| 1 | Women who call all other women 10's/perfect/gorgeous are engaging in intrasex competitionWhilst I agree with the gist of the post that women compliment themselves to the point of delusion I disagreed entirely with the OP with the motivations behind that behaviour. That's why I directly replied to the thread, or whatever it is called on reddit. I'm not that familiar with the rules of all the subreddits and wasn't aware that you had to completely disagree with everything the OP states to be able post. First and foremost, to self-promote themselves as being kind-hearted and looking p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/23 08:49 AM |
| 1 | Women who call all other women 10's/perfect/gorgeous are engaging in intrasex competitionWomen's primary value and advantage in society, mostly in regards to the dating market and people generally being more pleasant and willing to help attractive women, is their beauty/physical attraction. So unsurprisingly they put a lot of emphasis on their beauty and females friends in their social circle constantly pump up their own tires about how attractive they are. This is backed up by the fact that calling a woman ugly is among the biggest insults you can level at a woman with the other be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/23 08:33 AM |
| 1 | Women who call all other women 10's/perfect/gorgeous are engaging in intrasex competition Whilst I agree with the gist of the post that women compliment themselves to the point of delusion I disagreed entirely with the OP with the motivations behind that behaviour. That's why I replied to the thread, or whatever it is called on reddit. I'm not that familiar with the rules of all the subreddits and wasn't aware that you had to completely disagree with everything the OP states to be able post. First and foremost, to self-promote themselves as being kind-hearted and looking past suc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/23 08:26 AM |
| 1 | Women who call all other women 10's/perfect/gorgeous are engaging in intrasex competitionYeah the goalpost always seems to shift when I point that out. Just giving context and nuance to what red pillers are referring to in those comments as they're clearly not talking about women at the same stage of their dating lives. This belief is not being borne out in reality, however. Granted I don't know every woman in the city that I live but it's not uncommon for many single women in their 30s in various social settings to constantly and incessantly bitch about the lack of quality men that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/23 01:01 PM |
| 1 | Women who call all other women 10's/perfect/gorgeous are engaging in intrasex competitionExcept that is exactly what redpillers are saying is happening. From my own observations not necessarily based on what the red pill has to say on this, this phenomenon occurs mainly when women are in their 20s and primarily interested in having fun via hook ups, casual sex, short term flings, whatever. Young women don't seem to be overly bothered with dating and sharing the same good looking men in this period of fun and experimentation when serious commitment is rarely demanded from the small p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/23 12:35 PM |
| 3 | Women who call all other women 10's/perfect/gorgeous are engaging in intrasex competitionWell 80% of women can't go into 20% so it goes without saying that even though women aren't know for their maths ability, the maths is simple enough for them realise that they either have to share the 20% of 'attractive' men with a much bigger portion of other women that fancy them as well, a soft harem of sorts I guess. Or reluctantly come to a reasonable conclusion, compromise and settle for guys that are not taken, persuaded into LTRs, by women that are usually very attractive (female 8s, 9s … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/23 12:04 PM |
| 1 | Women who call all other women 10's/perfect/gorgeous are engaging in intrasex competitionI wasn't talking specifically about me but the male population in general. Far too many of these Women 4s/5s/6s/7s stick up their nose at men that are of comparable physical attractiveness which I believe is one of the main causes of the dating woes impacting both men and women today. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/23 11:16 AM |
| 5 | Women who call all other women 10's/perfect/gorgeous are engaging in intrasex competitionMaybe in your circle of friends but I've frequently overheard women flattering their friends that would be comparable to Rosie in looks with compliments that would give them the impression that they're a lot better looking than Rosie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/23 11:09 AM |
| -3 | Women who call all other women 10's/perfect/gorgeous are engaging in intrasex competitionI'd argue that beauty is 'objective' for the most part if done honestly. Rating looks isn't an exact science but an honest appraisal of the attractiveness of a person is generally fairly consistent among a group of people with no significant discrepancies contradicting the most common rating. For example some women might consider a hypothetical guy to be a 6, a couple of other women think he's a 5, and maybe a few believe he's a 7 but practically zero or no women would claim he's a 8, 9 or a 10. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/23 11:04 AM |
| -6 | Women who call all other women 10's/perfect/gorgeous are engaging in intrasex competitionNah, it's women's fragile ego and the placing too much importance on their looks as being an accurate reflection on their overall worth as a person, that's really behind this behaviour. Calling a woman ugly is arguably the worse insult you can fling at a woman and understandably women in general do their best to shield themselves and other women in their social circle form the realization that they might be one of the 'ugly' ones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/23 10:48 AM |
| 4 | Women who call all other women 10's/perfect/gorgeous are engaging in intrasex competitionYes, this attitude confirms the surveys from various dating agencies that reveal women generally think 80% of women are somewhat 'pretty'. Whilst at the same time women believe only 20% of men are 'decent' looking with the rest of the men being outright ugly. The delusion is strong in women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/23 10:43 AM |
| 1 | Women who call all other women 10's/perfect/gorgeous are engaging in intrasex competitionTelling someone that looks more like Danny DeVito that they are George Clooney's doppelganger could give the man at the end of that compliment unrealistic expectations of what type of woman they could attract in the dating market. Something similar would apply in reverse I would think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/23 10:40 AM |
| 1 | Women who call all other women 10's/perfect/gorgeous are engaging in intrasex competitionWomen's primary value and advantage in society, mostly in regards to the dating market and people generally being more pleasant and willing to help attractive women, is their beauty/physical attraction. So unsurprisingly they put a lot of emphasis on their beauty and females friends in their social circle constantly pump up their own tires about how attractive they are. This is backed up by the fact that calling a woman ugly is among the biggest insults you can level at a woman with the other be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/23 10:30 AM |
| 1 | SOME men in your league will try to use you. But if you only go for men above your league, ALL OF THEM WILLIt's really not that hard if you're honest with yourself. Assuming you’re young, early 20s, you can observe, watch and/or ask older women (mid to late 20s) of similar attractiveness and assess how they fared with the men (and rank these men in terms of attractiveness and which ones dumped them compared to ones who were obviously keen and eager to start a LTR with them) they dated throughout several years. That would give you a good indication of what your level is, if you’re incapable of doing i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/23 12:06 PM |
| 1 | SOME men in your league will try to use you. But if you only go for men above your league, ALL OF THEM WILLThe moral story is that average women, the majority of them, have a skewed sense of how attractive they really are and this is backed by various polls and survey conducted by dating agencies and websites. No issue with average women shooting their shots for a guy out of their league but if that's the only type of guy they ever aim for and never actually secure a LTR with them in their 20s then they have no reason to complain about feeling 'used' and claiming that there are no 'good' men out ther… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/23 11:32 AM |
| 1 | SOME men in your league will try to use you. But if you only go for men above your league, ALL OF THEM WILLDon't think he's complaining, I think he's just trying to help the average woman (the vast majority of women are undeniably average) with an inflated ego who thinks because they got/get to sleep with attractive men in their 20s that that is the standard of men they deserve for a relationship. There's a big difference between a woman a man is willing to have sex with with no strings attached and one that he sees as a potential wife and mother of his children, that's all it is. Too often average w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/23 11:18 AM |
| 0 | SOME men in your league will try to use you. But if you only go for men above your league, ALL OF THEM WILLUnless he's revealed his personal identiy I don't think this is going to affect his behaviour and life in any way. And in regards to aiming for women of equal or higher 'value', well you could say that about women who ignore the vast majority of men that are out there willing to date as the OP outlined and instead focus on 'Chads' that are clearly out of their league for most of their 20s. This mindset changes when there's a shift in the balance of the dating market that favours men instead of w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/23 10:52 AM |
| 0 | SOME men in your league will try to use you. But if you only go for men above your league, ALL OF THEM WILLAn attractive guy can still do that (look for compatibilty, shared hobbies, life goals, etc.. ) but when he's looking and choosing for a long term partner, it's from a pool of beautiful women (8 - 10) not the less attractive ones. The gist of the OP is that less attractive (below 7) women are strictly for casual sex only, probably going thorugh a dry spell with attractive women, because they're so eager to sleep with him that it requires little effort and convincing for them to do so. Mind you t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/23 10:27 AM |
| 0 | SOME men in your league will try to use you. But if you only go for men above your league, ALL OF THEM WILLHas he revelead his personal details and what he looks like? As far as I know he's anonymous. If that's the case then he's in no danger of of not being able to continue to do what he's doing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/23 10:22 AM |
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