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MisandryGlumManufacturer1557/r/AntiFeminists12/05/22 05:44 PM
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Smoking and doing drugs, many tattoos, eating lots of meat, beards and body hair, buzzcuts, extremely muscular physiques, porn/ polygamic desires, enjoyment of violence, bad temper and anger issues...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 04:50 PM
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I guess youre right, for instante I dont "not care" about a guy being a virgin. I care, very much, for I could not date a non virgin man
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 12:29 AM
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Why do you actually derive happiness from a LTR though? Id imagine someone like you would feel bored. Oh, I didnt know you had a partner, Im sorry for that. Is she aware of all of this? And your redpill beliefs?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 04:40 PM
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Why do you think your wellbeing is maximized in a LTR? Sure, they will also take care of you, but I believe you could do that more efficiently for yourself, as they could for themselves. Also, if you feel sexual pleasure, why would you agree to be exclusive with only one person when you could further maximize your gains by having sex with others? That could be better if you were single and simply cheated and didnt get caught. Actually, who is Miss Moral? Is the use of a person what defines their…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 03:52 PM
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Why would you build that though? I see no use for that at all, if you dont feel love. Why would you valorize so much someone else's well being instead of maximizing yours? Would you be honest about that when looking for a relationship? Do you think neurotypicals would agree with that dynamic? Would you be upset if someone else saw you as an object or a tool?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 01:31 AM
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Are you capable of love though? Or at least like most neurotypicals are? I always thought antisocial people showed no regard to others peoples feelings and emotions, so I really dont see how you could love someone. Im sorry if I come off as rude, I just want to understand how you experience emotions. I am neurodivergent too, and also for something unusual-ish, that generally makes me kind of oblivious to some of this stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 11:42 PM
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Are you diagnosed? If you are a psycopath, why would you want a relationship and also care about them enough to provide loyalty?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 01:49 AM
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Thats great for them. My point is that women dont necessarily take care of themselves for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 01:37 AM
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I do it for myself, thats why I put on makeup and dress nice while at home too. That doesnt mean I have to dress modestly outside
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 02:26 PM
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Its different wanting a relationship and wanting to be with someone specifically. What Im talking about is that when men propose sex, they often want sex in general, not to be with the specific woman, so it often doesnt even mean they find her attractive. While women generally actually want to date the men they are with (even if exceptions exist), who in that case they both think are attractive and consider to be good people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 05:54 PM
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Thats funny, Id say its unwise for any girl to have sex with a guy shes not seriously commited to
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 03:33 AM
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I actually kind of disagree. If you met the perfect woman: shes amazing and just right for you in every way. Would you just want to be fuck buddies with her? I dont think most men would say yes, and would rather pursue a full relationship, that obviously includes sex, but maybe later than "expected". But, in the contrary, if women met the perfect guy, many would still not want to only be friends with benefits and would still try for a relationship instead. I, for example, would not be "okay" wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 03:20 AM
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I mean, dont men?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:09 AM
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Yes, just like men. Or you think you dont treat attractive ladies better? Most men have very high looks standards, they just settle more often than women so that they can manipulate a woman they are not attracted to into giving them easy sex
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 11:42 PM
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I doubt it very much that you are chad and you have already shown to have very high looks standards, just like 80% of men imo
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 09:27 PM
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Attractiveness is definitely not a "simple thing" that most women can achieve. Especially with all the crazy standards men put up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 01:46 PM
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Yes, if you consider that general "attractiveness", "pussy" may mean "generally good at sex", and "pleasant personality" as having the same interests, hobbies and values as you. That is a big list of standards, and reducing it to "4ps" is badly disguised virtue signaling. Some people have chronic ilnesses that make it difficult to lose wheight. Squats take a lot of effort and will only take you until a point. Waist to hip ratio is genetic, and so is breast size and shape. Time comes for every on…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 11:18 PM
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Yeah, I dont think men would want a fat woman. Or an old one. Or flat. But you can keep pretending men only have those standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 11:07 PM
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What do you think men love women for? Unicorn sparkles? most of them dont even love women and stick around just for sex. It is also funny for you to say women's self preservation is more important to them than their partners, when it has been shown time and time again men are far more egotistical and selfish than women. Especially his sexual pleasure, which will always come before his "love" for you. Men are likely to cheat on you as long as any other avaliable sexual mate comes along. They just…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 08:45 PM
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Youre welcome, thank you for being so respectful! What you say may be true in real life. In my original comment, I was mostly referencing the online manosphere, which has a big overlap with this comunity, and many seem to share this line of thinking. Thank you again for being kind, I wish you all the best too :)
/r/MensRights14/12/23 11:55 PM
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I dont know... I really feel your pain and your text touched me very deeply, but its always men that I see saying you do not care about money and only value appearence and the sort. Generally, when I say I seek a partner similar to me in ambition, I am told I should lower my standards because men do not care about that.
/r/MensRights14/12/23 09:05 PM
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Yeah, but theres lots of comments here explaining why it is bad to feel like a second option... Not that I genuinely believe you dont know that. You just avoided the point, that was about peoples feelings when being settled for. Sure, if you just want sex and seek exclusively the fastest way to get it, you wont care if your partner thinks you are attractive or not if youre getting sex. But most people do, and would be upset if their partner saw them as a silver or bronze medal.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 06:23 PM
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Yeah, sure. When we fuck the bad men and marry the good men we are evil and its AFBB. If men do It its only natural. Also, the literal definition of a Madonna is that the Man feels no attraction towards her.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 03:22 AM
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Wow. Innovative. Really, Im sorry for being this rude, this is not your fault, but there is just no way for girls to initially distinguish good men from good liars.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 02:25 AM
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I didnt mention physical attraction at all, but that seems to be the first thing you assume. I really had no filters, I was looking only for a man who really loved me, nothing else mattered. Objetively, the last Guy I was with was not attractive: he was overwheight, average height, had severe acne scars, bad hygiene and was pretty poor. Yet I still fell in love with him, and he still left me because of that same reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 01:54 PM
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Yeah, they all say that lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 01:49 PM
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It was wrong because did not work. There are people who I just loved, and promised they wanted to be with me forever, and then abandoned me just because I did not want do have sex. Maybe they were in the wrong, but it still is soul-wrenching when someone breaks your heart. You may always encourage men who like to hurt women, but know they will never forget what you have done to them over and over. Really, the saddest moment as a girl is when you realize thatit is just masculine nature and there …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 03:26 AM
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You do not get to decide what other people enjoy. Grow up, some people will not like sex very much, thats life. And If they told you they wanted something else, you pretended you would give it to them, but tricked them and did not do what you said, yes, you are an asshole, and it does not matter what else you gave them if it is not what was consensually agreed upon initially.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 02:48 AM
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Yeah, we do that. Ang guys dump us for being prudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 02:41 AM
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No? I'm a virgin. Guys have stopped talking to me because I wanted to wait. How would you justify that? Lots of women have been in my shoes. Its men creating pressure on us to do things we do not want.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 02:39 AM
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Among men my age, Id probably find something like 3/4 attractive in respect to looks. Of those 3/4, only about a third would share my core values and have a compatible lifestyle to mine. So thats 1/4 until now. But I have very high intelligence, ambition and education standards, which would probably only leave maybe 1/1000 single men my age in total who meet my requirements. I do not think low of men who do not meet my standards, I interact with them constantly. They are in my everyday life, I a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 10:00 PM
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Is it? I am asking for nothing I do not provide myself. Most people asking for conservative figures while having high numbers themselves are red pilled men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 12:53 PM
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You just assumed the "highly desirable" part. Also, plenty of men here expect very attractive women to be saving themselves for them, even if they are subpar themselves and would still have slept with the whole city if they had the chance. An average woman would have the same number of sexual opportunities as an attractive man, and yet you still expect her to refuse all of those for her future husband. Why shouldn't an average but chaste woman, who probably refused a lot more suitors than her ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 12:52 PM
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No way, never. The maximum is about 2 or 3, only serious relationships obvs
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 04:00 PM
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Women have a lot less testosterone, which is the main hormone for muscle-building. It is simply false to say women achieve fitness related goals easier. Also, those standards you cited are most men's preferences, even if they would probably settle for less, just like most women.The standard is always high, because it reflects what the "perfect" person would look like, so yes, the beauty standard for men is high, but so is it for women.
/r/AllPillDebate02/11/23 03:01 AM
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I mean, Im both young and skinny and can assure you I dont look good naked... Most in my situation dont either. Just seems like you are using the excuse of your "standard" being something they can control to feel less bad about your attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 10:51 PM
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Mulheres usam isso. Engraçado, achei que você não apoiava generalizações. Misoginia não tem nada a ver com o que você disse. Existem muitas mulheres e muitos homens com aspectos negativos e positivos. Adivinha? Por que pessoas são complexas. Você pode dizer que nunca existiu racismo no movimento nazista, por que são só "pessoas querendo ser felizes". Adivinha, sua felicidade só é certa quando não se alimenta do bem estar dos outros. Claro que pra vocês as previsões "funcionam". Para a maioria do…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 09:22 PM
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Tão perto de sair desse buraco de misoginia
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 01:01 AM
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Então não entendi seu problema com o termo awalt. Como quase não existem "unicórnios", por que não igualar 0.9999- a 1 e dizer que são todas?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 01:03 AM
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Mas vc não acha que todas as mulheres são assim?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 09:46 PM
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Por que?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 12:20 PM
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Uee oq vc tem contra awalt
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 08:14 AM
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Como assim um dos que ajudou a criar a redpill?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 12:21 AM
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Caralho tem brasileiro redpill
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:56 PM
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People are not inherently better than other people because they attract partners more easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 08:18 AM
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And more people liking it doesn't make it "better"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 02:30 PM
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Yeah, so is kinky hair
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 02:30 PM
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Why is being genetically bonde better than brunette though?...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 11:48 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 11:07 AM
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Id be happy with anyone approaching me tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 05:57 PM
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Why are we arguing If we don't even disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 10:53 AM
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Yes, there is, in fact, an attractive man for every attractive woman. Not talking about those who consider themselves attractive, but those who objectively are, doesn't matter what they think of themselves. What I'm saying is those attractive men are "having fun", so those attractive women lack monogamic dating options.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 01:25 AM
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Thats not the point? Attractive women arent wrong to want attractive men. I'm not talking about who has it worst, I'm talking about who has it best.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 04:24 PM
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No? Attractive men are clearly more privileged than attractive women. They can get hookups, relationships, anything they want with almoçar all women. Attractive women can only get hookups with attractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 11:16 AM
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Sure. I'm not comparing them to men. I am arguing against the original comment, which said attractive women are the most privileged in dating, which is simply not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 08:04 PM
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Yes, and I am talking about the 10% of guys?... And the 10% of girls too. Attractive women cannot pair with their equivalents because they are rarely focused on monogamy, and choose instead to have a male "hoe phase" because they, as you said, have so many options. That's why dating as an attractive woman is shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 07:01 PM
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You talking to me? I don't consider myself attractive. In average. Looking for average men. I just have a lot of attractive friends who complain to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 12:15 PM
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Yeah, attractive women have higher standards than average women. Who would have guessed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 08:46 PM
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Most attractive young men are whoring around before they settle down.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 08:45 PM
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Also, I'm not sure what you mean by sociosexuality, so I'll just assume you are using "sociosexuality" intercheangeably with "libido". A woman who does not sleep with her dates early on does not necessarily have a low libido, she may have religious reasons to not do so or she may simply prefer it because of personal values.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 08:45 PM
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You didn't specify you were talking only to men high in sociosexuality in your original comment though
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 08:41 PM
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I'm not making a moral judgement, just saying blue pill/feminist ideas are generally more socially aceptable than redpill ones. I really don't see how that has to do with women dating drug dealers.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 08:39 PM
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If a woman has never has sex so early with anyone, does it mean shes never felt attracted to anyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 03:59 PM
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Except you shouldn't be "allowing" your partner to do anything in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 03:53 PM
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1 is just not true at all. Any attractive young woman is completely screwed if her goal is entering a serious, monogamic relationship with an equally attractive young man.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 03:40 PM
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Yes, what I meant was more abou costumes and what is or isn't socially aceptable
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 11:42 AM
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How is "spinning plates" advice to build a family?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 11:23 AM
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I mean, how many guys you know would be willing to date a feminist vs how many girls would be willing to date an Andrew Tate follower?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 09:33 PM
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Search up Suzane Von Richthofen. Adored until today. Most men are capable of overlooking a lot, and I mean a LOT, for a pretty face.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 09:10 PM
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To be honest some women just never have been asked out or have anyone like them, however "unlikely" that must seem. Society just kind of expects women to be pretty. Even in this subreddit, most behaviours and situations people complain about are only apllicable for highly attractive women. Average women arent really receiving tons of attention from the opposite sex, much less ugly women. While the first are normally just ignored by most men, the latter are frequently bullied and humiliated becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 09:37 PM
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That one only had like 2 girls though lmaoo
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 09:39 PM
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I thought men were saying that they didn't only want sex and that men nowadays don't have any affection or intimacy or they are "touch starved", not only for sex, but normal things like hugs. And anyways, it's not the same because a relationship generally includes sex. So the man is getting what he wants anyways. To be honest, if what you are saying is true, it just seems like men don't really like women as people and only care about sex, which is a pretty dehumanizing view in itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 01:34 PM
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Really? What about women who wouldnt have casual sex with anyone? I mean, tecnically no one falls into my "sex" standard... And when someone says "husband material", at least for me, it means they are really attracted to you and you also have a great personality, so much so they'd be happy to spend their while livros with you. That's the biggest compliment you can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 12:29 PM
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I did that because the first comment was saying women are worse in this aspect than men, and I just stated that, even If it doesn't matter, it's not even true. I'm sorry if it seemed like I was trying to compete, it was really not my intention.
/r/MensRights24/05/23 02:47 PM
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No, I just said that because they were explicitely comparing men and women, and that is not the point.
/r/MensRights24/05/23 02:45 PM
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No, not at all. There is no point in competing because both are serious problems that need to be adressed.
/r/MensRights24/05/23 02:44 PM
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It's really not a competition. Maybe women get sexually assaulted more, maybe men are victims of domestic violence most often. But we should be fighting both.
/r/MensRights24/05/23 08:58 AM
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It's not about the number per se, but the fact that sexual assault is a prevalent and dangerous problem faced by both genders and should be treated as such.
/r/MensRights24/05/23 08:54 AM
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Yes, but I bet most women have been sexually assaulted more than 4 times, too.
/r/MensRights23/05/23 08:58 AM
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No, I really don't. English is not my native language. I am Sorry if I did not convey what I meant well.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:21 PM
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What is "a real G"?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 04:34 PM
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I wouldnt be sure about that. I mean, I am a virgin and I don't think anyone in my circle has noticed that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 12:26 AM
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So if she also "has" him and no one wants something everyone has has, wouldnt that mean women don't like men with high body counts either?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 12:25 AM
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Thinking someone "has" a woman for having sex with her is a pretty narrow view. Women are human beings who get envolved with others, and their worth doesn't change with their number of sexual relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 11:12 PM
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Why do you think so?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 09:04 PM
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13) Incredibly intelligent and has the same academic tastes as me. 3, 4, 8
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 12:52 PM
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Saying it's someone's job to do something just because of their gender is different than saying what you in particular expect from a partner. It is not mysogynystic for you to want a tradicional woman who cooks and clans, but you cannot force that upon other people. It is not mysandric to want or expect chivalry from a potential partner, as long as you don't disrecpect men who don't fit in your standard. Most people would rightfully call out the woman in your example as hypocritical and entitled…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 09:07 AM
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You forgot the high value, protecting, providing and not leaving them part... It makes a lot of difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 01:33 AM
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Social convention. Why are men more attracted to bigger boobs? Contrary to popular belief, they don't produce more milk and the mothers don't have more estrogen than average. So why? No reason at all. Yes, on a lot of matters you can rather safely predict how a group will behave in certain situations, and that holds true for both men and women alike. That is why I said most women will, in fact, prefer a taller man than a short one, although that is normally not a dealbreaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 06:18 PM
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Women aren't a monolith, it matters more or less depending on the individual. For most women, as long as her partner is taller than her, height is not a deal breaker. However, all else equal, most women would pick a taller man rather than a short one.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 05:55 PM
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I hate it when people are like "How do you want a 6ft+ Man If you're not 6ft? That's soooo unfair". Like, bitch, the average woman in America is 5'4 and the average man is 5'9. A 5'7 woman is the equivalent of a 6' man. So if I, a tallish woman (5'6) woke up as a man in that same height, Id be short. You see the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 12:35 PM
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0, 3-4
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 08:36 PM
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Its great to see how some people on here think women aren't even people. You ever thought about how women don't have those things either. They don't have a husband working for them anymore. They don't come home for happy children either. Guess what? They still WORK. Because they need to, because that's how society works. You're only mad women aren't second class citizens anymore. That you aren't "entitled" to one. You lost your privilege, and to you that is the end of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 10:00 PM
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I am, in fact. Like, literally gotten rejected for it. Almost all my male friends have already said they love short women, too. So, yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 09:33 PM
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I mean, I'm 5'7, so what you are describing. I can assure you if I could switch places with any 5'1 woman, I would.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 04:11 PM
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Not true at all, most men prefere shorter women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 12:38 AM
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Doesnt change the facts. Most men are not dating morbidly obese women, and if they are, it is not by choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 02:59 PM
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Overwheight =/= morbidly obese
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 02:31 PM
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Would you say it is male nature to rape women?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 12:27 PM
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By your logic, saying "Men lust after morbidly obese women" is "objectively true" because some men do. You see the problem? Yes, those men exist. But that phrasing implied they are a majority. It's not "male nature" because those men are exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 12:24 PM
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Women can only argue with anecdotes because they are dumb and irrational! How do I know that? Well, anecdotes!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 12:21 PM
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Tell that to all the men crying mysandry and "not all men"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 12:17 PM
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Fair game
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 11:57 PM
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Are you a virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 11:22 PM
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Like, about point 9, I'm not sure if that is what you mean, but it seems to me that most times women complain about male libido is because of the poliamory part. At least for me, it doesn't really make my libido ''work'', and rather makes me feel insecure and kills my desire for him, and I believe it is that way for most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 10:22 PM
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There being beaty standards doesn't mean you'll agree with all of them. They are just a trend about what is more or less attractive.
/r/AllPillDebate01/02/23 08:00 PM
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Not true though, hookup girl gets treated much better
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 12:06 PM
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That's unfortunate (for me lmao) Good luck to you and your girlfriend
/r/AllPillDebate28/01/23 10:50 AM
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What?
/r/AllPillDebate27/01/23 11:41 AM
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Not true tbh, Id kill for an aspie boyfriend
/r/AllPillDebate27/01/23 11:35 AM
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Doesnt the redpill say men value youth all the time? And men judge women much more harshy on their figures than women judge men. And no, a good figure is not only about wheight, but about a tiny frame (genetic), a small WHR (genetic) and large breasts (also genetic)
/r/AllPillDebate27/01/23 02:49 AM
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''When looking for a life partner, my advice to men is date all of them: the sluts, the hoes, the run through girls. But do not marry them. The things that make the bad girls sexy do not make them good wifes. When it comes time to settle down, find someone who wants a family. Someone who respects men and your household. Someone who values marriage and traditional values and wants take care of the home to be a good mother for your children." ​ Seems like something the redpill would say any day of…
/r/MensRights26/01/23 01:34 PM
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Exepct improving your looks is not only about hygiene. That is just basic human skills. What is a khhv?
/r/AllPillDebate26/01/23 12:51 PM
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I feel so basic for vanilla lmao Strawberry is a close second
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 01:14 AM
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I was talking about mens standards for women, but I guess it applies the other way too lmao
/r/AllPillDebate25/01/23 11:54 PM
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What are you talking about?
/r/AllPillDebate25/01/23 08:02 PM
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And their youth, and their wheight, and their facial attractiveness...
/r/AllPillDebate25/01/23 07:38 PM
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I don't have a clue what you're trying to say. The rules are the same in both communities. They exist in the private site because it is not real, only a satire of ''are we dating the same guy'' facebook groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 01:34 PM
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Yes, else they wouldn't be rules? They were created so that facebook admins would just look at the titles so the posts wouldn't get banned. It makes sense why mods established them in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 11:46 AM
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Those are literally the ''are we dating the same guy?'' rules
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 11:37 AM
1

Sure, maybe it won't. Your motivation to better yourself shouldnt come from external approval. And even if it did, you can't know until you try.
/r/AllPillDebate25/01/23 02:07 AM
1

I was talking more generally, like all this "feminism vs men's rights" stuff, but It also applies to more specific situations. If you have this victim mentality, youll never get better. Sure, maybe you have horrible genetics. Maybe you will never be "Chad". But being ugly is better than being abhorent. If you actively decide it is better to smell like shit, dress like shit, eat like shit, and bitch about "females" all day on incels.is than to try and take any minimal action to better yourself, y…
/r/AllPillDebate25/01/23 01:37 AM
3

Sure, but both of those are very common mindsets in the blackpill community, and theres a lot of misogyny going on in there too. To be frank, you seem like an honest person, and I agree with most of your points. But it really seems that most blackpillers do not share your beliefs, and that is why I do not compactuate with it.
/r/AllPillDebate24/01/23 10:45 PM
0

An unattractive woman will have a much easier time dating than an unattractive man, but other areas of her life will be much tougher than that man's. In the end, there are upsides and downsides to being an ugly female and being an ugly male, as there are being a man and being a woman. That said, it is pointless to argue about who has it worse, because even if an imbalance were to exist, we, as a collective, would be much better dedicanting our times to trying to solve the problems rather than de…
/r/AllPillDebate24/01/23 07:25 PM
1

I said not necessarily because, although that may be true for a majority of cases, that statement does not apply to all women or to all men. Although I agree looks are a very determinant factor in one's life, I am against the idea that that principle is only appliable to men's experiences, and I also don't think nothing can be done to improve one's attractiveness, regardless of gender.
/r/AllPillDebate24/01/23 07:19 PM
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True, for all genders. Not necessarily. True, for men and women alike. True, for men and women alike. 1st true mainly for men, 2nd applies to both. True, for men and women alike. Face and body. 1st phrase false, 2nd phrase true Tecnically true, but traps you into a victim mentality. Little is always better than none at all.
/r/AllPillDebate24/01/23 04:17 PM
4

I don't have much to say about this topic, but I just want to throw it out there that, as a woman, I'd absolutely love any of those gestures. Surely, a woman who wants to have casual sex/ fwbs probably won't care as much, but to most women looking for serious, long term relationships, those are some of the best ways to get in their hearts.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 09:01 PM
1

Yeah, I agree they are able to find partners, but being with a guy who settled for you isn't all that fun, to be honest. And about the last point, didn't men not care about women's degrees anyways? Why would they be bothered they can't get a woman with a "higher education level"?
/r/AllPillDebate22/01/23 11:01 AM
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Women - be "feminine", fit, curvy (but not fat, ew), with a snatched waist and huge ass, thighs and boobs. Also, big eyes, big lips, small and dainty nose, long shiny hair, and a lot more.
/r/AllPillDebate22/01/23 12:12 AM
2

I was so exited to post until I saw "to uplift men" 😭😭 Smh everything is gendered nowadays
/r/AllPillDebate20/01/23 12:22 AM
0

I cannot speak for all women, but only about me. In that case, no, they are not, because they are old. I was answering about young, healthy men.
/r/AllPillDebate19/01/23 06:06 PM
2

Probably around 10%. Only my opinion tho
/r/AllPillDebate19/01/23 05:44 PM
4

No, I would not. But I also would not date a man who has been sexually dominated by 10 women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 12:58 PM
2

Yeah, I'm a woman and I totally understand that. I'd also be insecure if I was a man. Tbh, I think it's kind of like porn. Like, your man's just everyday watching all those beautiful women doing the craziest shit ever and you know you'll never be able to compete. Lots of women want to be "cool girls" and pretend they're not insecure because of that, but deep down they feel like they're not enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 12:56 AM
1

Boa tarde! Fui fuçar o seu perfil, procurar uma foto, ver se você era bonitinho né, e se fosse eu poderia gastar uns elogios. Enfim, descobri que você é brasileiro, e inclusive reconheci um post seu q eu já tinha visto em português. Enfim, não tenho nada a dizer sobre o post em si, mas achei muito legal achar outro brasileiro aqui!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 08:39 PM
1

I am talking about an extremely attractive man, who would have been on the same "league" as the supermodel when he was younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 01:26 AM
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There are some privileges and struggles that come with being a woman, as there are privileges and struggles for being a man. So, for example, while the average woman has a much easier time dating than the average man, a severely unattractive woman has it worse in her general life than an unattractive man.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 11:05 PM
2

:)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 09:11 PM
2

Yeah, you're probably right. I doubted myself while reading his comments tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 09:10 PM
2

You're the sanest redpiller I've ever met tbh. Have a nice day
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 08:51 PM
2

I did not get that from your comment, that's the point. I got that from the definition of a madonna whore complex, that states the man does not desire the madonna.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 08:07 PM
7

Wow, must be so nice to in a sexless marriage with a cheating husband who exclusively desires other women. Really, paradise.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 07:36 PM
3

Whore, absolutely whore. Trust me, I've always been the Madonna, and it sucks ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 07:30 PM
5

You're really overanalizing women. Most aren't Disney villains tracing plans to make it seem like there are more men here. To be honest, most people in general, even on this sub, have lives to live and things to do. They can't afford to care about such little things. The results are probably about accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 07:20 PM
8

Aren't the majority of users here men though?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 04:46 PM
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There only being two options in this scenario necessarily makes your take not a layered opinion. Your argument is like saying the only colors that exist are green and orange, and no others. If someone tells you that that is a narrow view, you'd just tell them the nuance is in the fact that they are both made up of other colors. Well, that doesn't anulate the fact that there are only two colors in your system, which makes it inherently not nuanced.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 04:40 PM
2

Why necessarily between a man and a woman? Genuinly curious. Don't you think there may be some good women who love other women, and vice versa with men?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 04:34 PM
2

What makes you think men are more disgusted by fatness than women? For all I know, willpower is more valued in men than vice versa
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 10:21 AM
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Men settle for an older woman they're less sexually attracted to, which results in bad sex and unwilingness to pleasure their partners or make them orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 10:06 AM
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What about those guys who have hoe phases and decide to have a family at 40 with some supermodel? She'll get older each year, and hell stop finding her attractive. Doesnt that mean he "settled" for her?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 09:58 AM
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I'm sorry, but you do not respect a group that you blame for the fall of western civilization. And FYI men are as fat as women in the us
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 09:54 AM
2

And why do you think there are less hvw than hvm? Werent women the ones to "think" 80% of men are ugly or low value?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 09:38 AM
5

But do you respect those "unattractive" women yourself? Bashing them for not being ashamed of existing is not very respectful either
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 09:34 AM
1

B: really loving and gente most of the time tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 11:58 PM
2

Although that may be the case in some situations, in real life, a lot of the time, virgin and low n count women just aren't that interested in promiscuous men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 07:35 PM
1

Not trying to take away your merit, but anyone can claim to be and do anything on the internet. But If that's your real life experience, great for you. I'm just saying its surely not the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 07:33 PM
1

Because I've had a lot of experiences in which promiscuous men pursued me because they valued my "purity" and that was very very weird. I just found this take being on here ironic I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 07:31 PM
3

No problem, you pick your standards. But don't come back whining when none of them wanted you back.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 05:52 PM
3

And yes, I believe filtering your dating pool for virgin women is only moral if you have sexual experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 05:47 PM
4

Not necessarily. But it is immensely hypocritical to actively search for a virgin wife if you have sexual experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 05:45 PM
4

I mean, I'm a virgin. So your "target demographic". I'm just warning you, the HUGE majority of women, virgins and not, think this behaviour is absolutely disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 05:44 PM
3

Why do you want a virgin wife if you're not a virgin anymore? That is absolutely gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 03:30 PM
20

So maybe you shouldnt aim for these attractive women if you're not that attractive yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 07:36 PM
7

Redpill will call 1 a slut, angry feminists will call 2 a pedophile. Absolutely no one else will give a shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 06:31 PM
1

That's great you're happy, really. Maybe I don't owe you an apology, but I just felt like I needed to apologise. You don't need to consider me genuine, but I wanted you to know I wish you the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 01:53 AM
3

Sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:25 PM
1

There aren't statistics because theres no way to prove that. No study is going "you know what? Virgins have less sex than average!! 😱"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 05:38 PM
1

It's logical? Most women have had some man sexually interested in them in some point in their lives. If they still haven't have sex, they've probably denied sex to someone. Actually, for most women, multiple people have been interested in them, multiple times. So low n women/virgins probably aren't having sex with just about anyone, else they wouldnt be virgins/low n. This kind of woman is probably making her partners wait for a bit. Is it possible to find a virgin who will put out on the first …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 04:43 PM
1

I mean, he didn't. But a lot of ppd men say it. Not necessarily virgins either, just low n in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 04:37 PM
2

How can you say that yet not want a woman with a high n count? Surprise, a virgin is going to make you wait to get your dick wet, or else she probably wouldnt be a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 10:27 PM
1

Idk, I don't think that "beta Billy" is so different from the "Alpha". You really think Billy would still be glad to commit If he had as much options as the "Alpha" has?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 08:27 PM
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To be with those guys isn't kind of like being a beta in the relationship? I mean, we all know if those men were desirable they wouldnt settle down and would keep spinning plates for as long as they could, and if they ever entered a commited relationship, it would be with someone way hotter than the person they're currently with. So dating those guys is just living with a man who doesn't actually like you, but thinkes being with you is better than being alone. They'd be "glad" because they thoug…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 10:24 AM
1

Madonna whore compex. A lot of rich men want a thin supermodel to show around and to be their trophy wives, but they find well endowed women the sexiest, just like poor men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 02:16 PM
1

When something is out of your league, you might think it's less attractive. Sometimes objective 7/10s get more attention than 10s and are deemed more attractive because they seem more approachable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 01:28 PM
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I'm a virgin, I'm not assexual, and sex definitlty is not a need. Ive spent years without it, and I could never spend even weeks without good or water.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 10:09 AM
1

Ohh I get it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 12:32 AM
1

Because I thought that was how it worked, since my boobs were small-ish they must've been Bs. Idk, it made sense to me at the time. A= small, B = kind of, ... etc was genuinly the way I thought it worked
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 12:31 AM
1

I'm actually in Brazil, here bra sizes vary from about 38-54, no letters involved
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 12:25 AM
1

On this metric I'm a 28D, but it seems suspicious. My boobs are rather on the smaller side, I don't get it why they'd be Ds.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 12:24 AM
1

In my country, bra numeration is different, so I don't know a lot about the US system.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 11:25 PM
1

I mean, I haven't gotten measured or anything. I'm just going off A = Very small, B = kinda small, C = kinda big and D = Very big
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 11:24 PM
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I'm not, I have a pretty nice ass and around B cups. Yet my friend who wheighs 40 pounds more than me gets a lot more attention. I am talking about averages, average 21 isn't getting as much attention as average 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 11:19 PM
1

I know it's anecdotes, but in my experience that is very far from the truth. I am a thin woman, and although I recognize it gets you some attention from women, men probably couldn't care less. Almost all the men I meet on a daily basis would take a heavier woman with an hourglass shape (ie. Big butt, small waist, big boobs) over a thin woman with a less dramatic hourglass. For example, an average 25 bmi woman would be considered a lot more attractive than an average 21, and so on. It doesnt mean…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 11:01 PM
1

I'm talking about your comment saying thin women with small/average boobs and butts were "highly preferred". I'm just saying that They are not the beauty standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 10:44 PM
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Yeah, not really flat, but thin women with large boobs and butts are considered more attractive than those with medium ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 09:13 PM
1

You said thin women without large boobs and butts are highly preferred, I'm just saying its not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 06:51 PM
1

Thin, flat women aren't really that preferred, no
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 06:42 PM
4

What if their skin is naturally tanned though?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 06:41 PM
1

No to both
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 07:32 PM
1

So what? The average woman has no representation in mainstream porn either. Or do you think most women look like mia Khalifa?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 12:26 AM
1

60kg, 17, low
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 11:52 PM
1

Watching porn. Not a dealbreaker, but certainly icky.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 06:58 PM
1

So is romance?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 02:24 AM
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Sure, but if you think like that, you can't condemn women who seek romance in other places since their husbands don't want to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 02:54 PM
1

Come on, a quick look through my profile would answer that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 04:05 PM
1

Well, in my age range and the environment I live in people (men and women) tend to really take care of themselves. Id say about 60%
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:56 PM
1

Like I wouldnt mind going out with them if they wanted to date me? 90% Obviously the "lower" ones would have to have better personalities to "compensate", but I think all of them would have a good shot. Almost anyone who wanted to talk to me would have a good shot tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:23 PM
1

This is why I identify as purple pill, not entirely blue. Red pill core values are mostly good, but theres so much misogyny and anti left propaganda that it's really hard to ignore. Congratulations, I haven't seen a post that made this much sense in PPD for a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 11:58 AM
1

I believe I told him really clearly. As we were pretty close friends, we were talking about who we liked. He asked me and I told him playfully I didn't feel like telling him. He then started asking things like ''does he study with us'', ''what's his hair color'', basically a ''game'' to narrow down the list. At the end, he realized there was literally no option other than him. He looked at me funny and asked if it was a joke. I said I was serious, and even asked him if he understood what I was s…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 11:01 PM
2

Exactly. That's the point. Much of redpill and feminism are two sides of the same coin.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 10:19 PM
1

Well, it was really simple. I liked him and he did not like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 10:15 PM
1

Not true. We were friends and he rejected me when I confessed my feelings. He is a great person and we haven't lost contact
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 10:15 PM
1

"Behind every radical feminist woman, theres at least a man who made her so". Yeah, so what? It's probably true, there's lots of shitty men and women in the world. But that doesn't give you the right to generalize half the population and turn to some (wo)man hating movement just because you had a couple of bad experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 07:49 PM
0

Last crush was 5'4 tho
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 07:34 PM
1

I don't have either, sadly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 07:34 PM
4

You're exactly my height! Seriously, don't worry about it. It would even make it easier for us to kiss! :D
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 07:11 PM
1

Yeah, I got it now. Sorry for being rude
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 12:08 PM
2

So what? I'm a virgin woman and I care. 2 random particular people's opinions doesn't mean shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 08:32 PM
7

Stop posting about me!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 08:29 PM
9

Well, It was just an example. Happened a lot of times. And it's literally the same as op, I'm making a claim based on personal experiences that I can't prove to anyone. Why is his somehow more valid?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 03:25 PM
1

Guys, do you think this is fat? I mean, I know it's not in America and shit, but in general. P.S: Got called a baloon today and took It personally. Edit: Just realized it links to the site, not the specific modifications. Basically the same thing, only 130 pounds and 34 inch chest.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 05:07 PM
1

I don't think they'd believe it though. And I would lie for not wanting men who care about it, I really couldnt give less of a fuck, but I just wouldnt want to tell It to someone I'm not really close to.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 03:13 PM
2

I mean, I haven't because nobody asked. But if anybody I didn't trust did it, I would definitlty lie upwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 01:19 PM
2

I'm pretty sure I'm a 5-6 and I admit that I do get "chosen" sometimes, but it's not like it's a daily occurence. And it's normally by guys who are in my league phisically. No 5-6 is getting people thtowing themselves at her.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 02:13 PM
1

Jokes on you, never had a partner
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 06:44 PM
1

No, not really. Id get off to a dick pick just fine. Or to something sexual someone said, even If just a joke, a tight hug, even a certain kind of look. Hugging a guy with a hard on must really be heaven, tbh. Just the idea of sex with someone interested in me sounds amazing. Damn man, starting to deviate from the question. Guess this is too much reddit for today.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 05:20 PM
1

I mean, I know what you're saying. I just think that there being worse things out there than mbti, alphas and the like doesn't make them not be trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 04:31 PM
5

Why is this is the exact same cringe shit people use to justify why mbti isn't like zodiac 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 11:26 AM
1

I don't know, I think I really didn't understand what you were saying. Sorry lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 11:21 AM
3

You just proved most men look at a lot of things that aren't in a woman's control though?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 11:15 AM
3

You just said "women" wanted men to look past mutable traits, yet you just mentioned how men judge on ethnicity, height, and age. So much for consistency.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 11:04 AM
5

Id apreciate it so I could break up with him faster
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 05:33 PM
5

I really like how cute men are sometimes Some try to act serious, stoic and everything, but in the end, they are incredibly cute. They're also funny, empathetic and absolutely beautiful. Men are great, really
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 11:41 AM
2

Love yall too 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 09:49 PM
2

Why? :(
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 09:48 PM
1

Q1: sincerely, If any of them wanted to fuck me at all, Id Just go for it. Better If I can do both tbh Q2: a smart guy who is responsable and takes accountability for his mistakes Don't feel like answering 2.1
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 09:48 PM
3

What are you on
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 09:40 PM
4

Oh, sorry then. Didn't mean to bother, hope you have a good day
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 07:07 PM
3

You're straight? Because I think we should have a chat
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 07:04 PM
2

Dont know if I'm attractive, probably average. But I compliment guys on their looks all the time. Not only like ''nice shoes'' or something though. Like really, oh you're cute, oh you're handsome. Idk its just normal
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 09:33 PM
1

Because he doesn't like me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 07:37 PM
1

Person A, ALL the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 01:00 AM
1

But the discussion wasnt about that, it was about blowjobs
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 10:49 PM
1

Blowjobs aren't "extremely kinky sex"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 01:15 AM
5

It 7:12 in Brazil Sad to be living in those times man
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 10:12 AM
1

Sorry if it's confusing, but I don't understand why a virgin/low n girl would be less enthusiastic about blowjobs? Because according to this sub's red pill community, women compare men more with their ancient partners / are more likely to be "alpha widowed" If the were promiscuous. Not that I agree with it, but wouldnt that make her less enthusiastic for blowjobs and everything than a girl who waited for the guy she thought was the best ever and loved?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 10:01 AM
2

Can't you learn that from 1 or 2 LTRs that teached you só? I don't ser this necessary correlation between giving good head and being high n
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 09:52 AM
2

Like you said, Im a woman in here, that's already unlikely. You're still not going to accuse me of not being a woman, despite me not having proof for that either. I can't prove my personality to you. If you don't want to believe, don't. I'm just trying to say there isn't such a general rule. Maybe virgins do tend to be more shy. But you cant just act like it's just "the truth" or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 09:50 AM
1

Virgins =\= religious/shy I go to parties, am generally extroverted, and assertive/ambitious. Yet, I'm a virgin. And so is most of my social circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 12:20 AM
1

Isn't that something you can learn though?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 12:18 AM
1

what do you mean very good at sex
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 10:50 PM
0

Like
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 07:58 PM
1

This just made me feel a bit better. Thank tou for taking a little time off your day to confort a stranger, you seem like a really cool person. Hope you have a good day
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 06:04 PM
2

I don't know, I would just kind of feel wrong. My comment before was kind of a joke, I really just want to share first experiences. But I've always delayed it because I don't want to dissapoint anyone. I mean, if Im thinking about having sex, it's because I want to spend my life with that person. I just don't think it's fair to give them bad sex, they deserve better, you know? I don't know how to express It, but I Hope somebody understood lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 10:35 AM
1

Oh seriously? I'm so sorry, I didn't mean to offend. Good luck with that, hope Charles will be a good king. Sorry for your loss
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 10:05 PM
1

Oh, ok. I understood it now. Thank you for explaining, Hope you have a good day :)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 09:49 PM
1

Sorry, I'm not a native english speaker, but I thought "breaking the bond a woman forms through sex" meant she would become less feminine/sweet each time she had sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 09:43 PM
4

But wouldnt that mean she gets less feminine each time you have sex with her too?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 09:15 PM
16

Because I'm a virgin myself and I don't want them to realize Im bad in bed 💀💀💀
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 07:49 PM
3

80%, 80%, but that's in my country. People in America are fat as fuck, so 50% and 50% in that shithole
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 07:14 PM
17

Omg 😍😍😍 Imagine those legs
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 11:46 PM
3

Ideal boyfriend =\= ideal fuck Ideal boyfriend may be rough in sex and loving in the relathionship
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 11:49 PM
1

Wtf I envy men so damn much
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:11 PM
2

Its because of guys with your mentality feminists say all men are trash lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 10:57 AM
1

What exact article proves women have too high standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 01:05 AM
0

If it's a normal guy with common sense and normal human views, Id consider him just like everyone else. Might even be a plus If hes willing to respectfully debate with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 05:48 PM
0

1 this sub isn't reliable data 2 yall say women dated guys they're not attracted to all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 12:08 PM
0

What "data" proves women have too high standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 12:28 PM
5

One gender says the other's complaints about their misfortune on dating is because of too high standards. The other one says it's the opposite. Both get trapped in an endless "no you" fight. Rinse and repeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 03:46 PM
1

Brazilian auto corrector?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 01:21 PM
0

Same reason most men don't like dildos.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 05:41 PM
0

I just feel like he is indirectly rejecting me. If he wanted to have sex, he should ask. If he wants to try something, he should ask. I'm willing to do anything that isn't disgusting, and I'm pretty lenient in that definition. If he has some kink Im not willing to try out, it's because it's a dealbreaker for me, and the relationship would end right there. Nobody thinks their man will leave them for an IG modelo, not because he doesn't want to, but because she'd never give hum a chance. Its the e…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 05:15 PM
2

CMV: A man being tall is like a woman having big boobs. To normal citizens, neither one matters that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 02:18 PM
2

I'm sorry if it passes that impression, it's not what I meant. I'm just trying to say that guys generally prefer thin women, like girls generally prefer tall guys. There are a lot of exceptions, but it's normally like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 01:19 PM
1

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4892674/ These studies have found that a low waist to hip ratio (WHR) of 0.7 and a low body mass index (BMI; weight scale for height) of approximately 18-19 kg/m² are perceived as most attractive in female bodies
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 08:09 PM
1

Yes, men aren't a monolith and neither are women. Everyone is a different individual with different opinions and preferences. Im just pointing out that there is a trend among those preferences. That doesn't mean every man will like the exact same things or some of these differences won't be slight. A lot of guys may prefer thick women, but they would still be a minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 05:59 PM
1

Sure, but you would probably be more attracted to that woman if she was slimmer, and if you wouldnt, you'd be in the minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 03:03 PM
19

The average woman (and person) in the US is fat, and being fat is a highly unattractive and unhealthy trait. Its logical that women looking to better themselves might start there.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 12:38 AM
0

if she loves you as much Can you read dumbass
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 07:28 PM
1

I'm just saying that it would anulate the part about not being able to lock down "Chad". So if she loves you as much as her past partner, they won't be "Alpha widowed". There are problems in your "rule".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 01:56 AM
6

What about widows?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 01:36 AM
0

I guess it is, I Just took something in the middle of the other ones lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 11:02 PM
0

6ft, 180lbs
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 10:47 PM
1

Do you guys think a woman whithout a hymen is still a virgin? Like, If she's broken it in a medical accident, masturbating or something Because I think most of you would agree that a girl who did oral/anal isn't a virgin, but whats the limit?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 01:59 AM
3

Those tests are ridiculous. I have "promiscuous" female friends, I go to parties, I also have male friends, I am not stereotypically feminine or shy and I'm decently confident in my flirting abilities. And... I'm a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 12:14 PM
36

If men are polyamorous, what really is the point of trying to have a relationship with one? A big gripe I hear men have with women is that they claim men all see them as just stepping stones to climb in the social hierarchy. But if men are naturally polyamorous, don’t women feel essentially the same way? I mean if he’s inevitably going to find other women more attractive than her and lust after everybody else, what's special about being *his* hole to put his penis on, knowing that he would do it…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 07:44 PM
-1

Ok, sure. It contradicts. I'm just pointing out that it's a really common argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 01:55 AM
-3

A lot of guys say that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 01:18 AM
2

What do you think of men who look at sexy pictures on social media while in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 12:13 PM
2

I already don't get any of that. But to answer your question, Id trade that for harassement and attention/compliments in a second.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 01:07 PM
2

Well, men can also manipulate wome to get sex. They're still shitty people if they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 09:43 PM
7

It's ok to ask both actually
/r/AntiFeminists21/05/22 09:06 PM
1

21.7 bmi. Skinny arms, smallish boobs (28D), not a lot of belly and 22 inch waist, wide-ish hips, average ass, really nice tighs. I'm not extremely attractive or anything but I'm pretty happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 10:29 AM
1

Id like to object
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 04:50 PM
0

Traditional women aren't average. They're actually pretty rare. If the man is searching for a housewife, that puts her up in the list.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 09:51 PM
1

Why is the Friendzone bad if the guy and the girl enjoy being friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 04:04 PM
1

Yeah, ret4rded incels # red pillers
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 06:40 PM
1

Doesn't matter, it's someone who has a penis and actually wants to fuck. I dont give a fuck about anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 06:28 PM
2

First time a red piller says something logical
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 06:26 PM
1

Agree to disagree on this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 06:25 PM
1

Context: a post about another post from impopular opinion that said women writing men were not that good either.
/r/AntiFeminists12/05/22 05:45 PM
1

The differemce is my situation is what happens most of the time. He was just acting like if 99% of promiscuous people are like that because of short term relationships and such. I'm just pointing out that in most cases it was just casual sex.
/r/AntiFeminists12/05/22 12:39 PM
1

I'm not the one insulting you instead of your arguments.
/r/AntiFeminists12/05/22 12:37 PM
0

That doesn't have anything to do with what I said. Being promiscuous generally means youve slept with a lot of people, most people who have high n have it because of casual sex. I'm not saying it's ok to lie about it, but the comment above was building their argument on a false premise.
/r/AntiFeminists11/05/22 11:24 PM
3

You said if the guys she sleeps with consider her a whore. Do you seriously think women don't interact with any man in their lives besides the ones they're fucking?
/r/AntiFeminists11/05/22 11:21 PM
-1

Now you are what some people think of you? Are all men trash then?
/r/AntiFeminists11/05/22 09:18 PM
-13

What do you mean "easier to have"? Women are not some kind of object for you to use.
/r/AntiFeminists11/05/22 09:03 PM
-7

Why?
/r/AntiFeminists11/05/22 09:00 PM
-9

Being promiscuous can also mean lots of casual sex.
/r/AntiFeminists11/05/22 07:45 PM
6

Exactly. It is crazy how some people here have lost the purpose of debating feminism and started shitting on women who make their own life choices.
/r/AntiFeminists04/05/22 08:36 PM
-2

If 90% of victims don't report the abuse, then 90% assaulters roam free. Edit: changed the "at least"
/r/MensRights04/05/22 07:14 PM
1

1 forever
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 06:18 PM
-4

''The Silence According to the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, there are over 60 million survivors of childhood sexual abuse in America today-that’s approximately 20% of our population. *As many as 90% of those survivors never report their abuse to law enforcement*, and more than 30% will never report their abuse to anyone (National Association to Prevent Sexual Abuse of Children).''
/r/MensRights04/05/22 05:24 PM
1

I'm pretty sure that's satire
/r/AntiFeminists04/05/22 01:24 PM
-3

They were literally reversing abortion to try and make you triggered. Apparently it worked lol
/r/MensRights04/05/22 11:48 AM
-3

cmsac.org/facts-and-statistics
/r/MensRights04/05/22 11:42 AM
2

Yes, in general lines people will see some people from the other gender as rather innocent and some people as more sexual, that's not a "woman thing". That kind of category isn't just determined by being feminine/masculine either. Just go on wattpad or spirit fanfic and search for BTS erotica.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 09:28 PM
-3

Yes, they're opposites. That's kind of the point lol
/r/AntiFeminists03/05/22 07:57 PM
0

Not an exclusively male thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 09:45 AM
1

It is very unlikely for any woman to date a guy obsessed with this caracteristic. Yes, virgin women go for non-virgin guys, but no woman pursues some creep that fethisizes virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 05:21 PM
3

Having a preference for something you dont have yourself, expecting your partner to not have an experience you were allowed to, is desilusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 01:10 PM
3

Because they're desilusuonal.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 12:15 PM
2

Obviously you can, and I can call you a hypocrite and laugh when you don't get your perfect untouched virgin wife and end up alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 12:09 PM
2

If I had slept with sex workers, Id have no business rejecting him for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 11:52 AM
3

Reducing someone to their sexuality, even when you don't even fit your own criteria, is gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 11:44 AM
2

If you say you want a virgin wife, you're not gonna trigger virgin women. Disagree entirely. I'm a virgin and wanting a "virgin bride" is gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 11:30 AM
21

Never lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 08:41 PM
1

Yes and yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 10:34 PM
2

It depends If the person agrees to me having sex with other people or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 02:41 PM
1

Isn't that supposed to be good? What are yall whining about?
/r/MensRights29/04/22 11:40 PM
1

Yall had to literally come up with an imaginary scenario for that statement to be true so that you could fulfill your dumb fantasies lol
/r/AntiFeminists28/04/22 08:36 PM
2

I'm answering the comment saying they'd mistreat any person who makes an accusation. Staying neutral is perfectly fine.
/r/AntiFeminists28/04/22 01:49 PM
-1

Most of their beliefs are rooted in misogyny. Also, they're hypocrites who think their pseudo science only applies to women (yes, "pairbonding", I'm talking about you).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 10:19 AM
0

I didn't say I'm not. Its gross to believe every accusation AND to disbeleve all of them.
/r/AntiFeminists28/04/22 09:50 AM
-3

I'm sorry, but that's plainly gross. Imagine being traumatized from rape, getting the courage to speak about it, and you get people acting like you're a liar and making fun of you. That's really fucked up man.
/r/AntiFeminists28/04/22 12:57 AM
2

Women clean more because they're conditioned to do so from a young age. Its not their job. They shouldn't have to do it alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 10:00 PM
3

Why do men need to "help" around the house to help the woman? It's their fucking job too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 09:36 PM
1

Personality<money<looks/status
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 02:15 PM
1

You just showed it isn't only about that. Even if It was, it's still women trying to level up. And redpillers do the same shit, they become more attractive to manipulate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 03:47 PM
1

Why? They're women focusing on becoming more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 01:40 PM
1

As if It didn't work the other way around? Lol If a girl said that, people would call her a FDS femcel
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 01:32 PM
2

They don't orgasm, their partners expect them to do all household chores while working full time, they loose attraction to their partners, their partners watch porn and constantly lustt after other women, their partners don't put in as much effort as they did in the courting phase, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 07:33 PM
2

As if ugly women trying to level up don't get it too. Go to Vindicta and search for the posts about women complaining no one likes when they start to looksmax.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 05:36 PM
1

Do you think the radfems care about what you're doing? No, it's just more reasons for them to hate all men. The people you're actually harming by condoning misogyny are regular women .
/r/MensRights21/04/22 01:16 PM
0

If someone wants to do something shitty, you don't do something worse in return just because
/r/MensRights21/04/22 10:25 AM
0

Healthy mindset :) If radfems kill, we should kill too!
/r/MensRights21/04/22 10:22 AM
1

Answering. With a feminist perspective.
/r/MensRights21/04/22 12:50 AM
3

Yes, it's healthy for a 24 yo to be with a 30 yo. No one ever said that was predatory. The thing is that this situation also applies to a 30 year old woman with a 24 year old man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 12:50 AM
5

You all act as if any sane young woman wants some fat old guy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 11:38 PM
3

I agree with you, I just found it funny
/r/MensRights20/04/22 09:50 PM
4

15-28, both
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 09:21 PM
-1

I'll have to disagree, sorry. I've been on a lot of feminist subs and a lot of MRA ones and the both are really bad, just in a different way, feminists being more ''I'll ban you for disagreeing with any little thing'' and MRAs being more ''I won't ban incels, freedom of expression!''.
/r/MensRights20/04/22 09:01 PM
2

You just created a loophole lol If all feminists hate men they can't hate other feminists for wanting to talk about male issues, because then the 2 feminists aren't feminist anymore bc they don't hate men
/r/MensRights20/04/22 08:58 PM
2

I was banned from commenting on askfeminists because the mod said I wasn't a feminist 💀
/r/MensRights20/04/22 08:57 PM
1

''I'm sad because I don't have a relashionship'' - said no man ever
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 08:37 PM
2

I guess I would pick 4 depending on the ''Low value man''. Are all men who aren't HVM considered low value? If it's too bad, I'd look in the second scenario, depending if I am allowed to have side pieces. If I'm not, I'm going 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 10:20 PM
2

Sorry, I won't take advice from some random internet misogynyst who can't even spell correctly. Have a nice day too
/r/AntiFeminists19/04/22 10:11 PM
0

women get pregnant And they normally work while pregnant Women breastfeed There's something called formula Women are more nursery Fake. They may be, but it isn't "biology". It's how society told them to behave.
/r/AntiFeminists19/04/22 09:27 PM
0

Ok. Would you tell a man "if you don't want to be a stay at home parent, don't have kids."?
/r/AntiFeminists19/04/22 09:02 PM
0

You don't want or can afford being a stay home mom? Then don't be a mother. It's that easy. Why doesn't that apply to men? Why it's only the woman's duty to quit her entire life to be a mother, when both parents made the choice?
/r/AntiFeminists19/04/22 06:07 PM
2

Now say this to a man and suddently ''it's not the same thing''...
/r/AntiFeminists19/04/22 11:41 AM
-3

Not remotely the same thing. One is an experience that literally no biological male will ever understand, the other is something that much less than half women do, so not even a majority.
/r/AntiFeminists19/04/22 11:40 AM
2

Lol r/selfawarewolves
/r/MensRights18/04/22 09:00 PM
3

No woman would feel offended if some random old dude said she had nice skin.
/r/MensRights10/04/22 05:41 PM
2

A tall man, in a healthy weight, not socially awkard or too introverted, not extremely bad looking. Seems fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 02:56 PM
0

Why are you comparing having sex and having a criminal history?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 12:44 PM
1

apparently having sex = commiting crimes?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 12:54 AM
1

Guys who care about n-count aren't the type of guys I want in my life. That's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 09:34 PM
2

Krl tem brasileiro no r/mensrights? kk
/r/MensRights03/04/22 09:28 PM
5

Virgin here, Id be offended too. So whats your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 09:24 PM
-1

Search "feminism" in any serious dictionary and you'll see what I mean.
/r/AntiFeminists28/03/22 10:16 AM
3

That's what I was trying to say about feminism lol It's the same thing. Valid movements with good premises that have some sick members from time to time.
/r/AntiFeminists28/03/22 12:08 AM
3

Yes, men's rights has valid battles. Most of them are. But you can't deny that there are way too many men who use the excuse of being "antifeminist" to hate women in general.
/r/AntiFeminists28/03/22 12:04 AM
0

Not necessarily you. Its just made to show you can't generalize a whole movement like that. Yes, they might say I'm wrong, but the point is there's a reason feminism was invented in the first place, for equality. I am not the only one who thinks this way. If you know real life feminists, there's almost a 100% chance that they'll agree. There are published books and college professors who advocate for equality, it's just that they don't catch attention since they say things that all rational bein…
/r/AntiFeminists28/03/22 12:00 AM
-2

So you, only you, are the true antifeminist? Not all the misogynists in the movement? Besides that, I'm not saying that only my opinion matters. I'm only saying the definition of feminism. Yes, a a lot of, if not most, feminists use it as an excuse to be misandrists, but that doesn't change that meaning of the movement.
/r/AntiFeminists27/03/22 10:38 PM
-5

There isn't a thing as a "feminist ideal". The only actual feminist ideal is equality. Just because some feminists say Dumb shit that doesn't mean it's a "feminist ideal".
/r/AntiFeminists27/03/22 09:53 PM
-1

Just because someone of a movement says something it doesn't mean the movement believes it.
/r/AntiFeminists27/03/22 05:20 PM
-7

What does this have to do with antifeminism?
/r/AntiFeminists27/03/22 04:52 PM
7

Religion Thinking sex is meant to be something special Lack of options
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 10:31 AM
1

I've never slept with anyone, so can't say it's the second lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 10:49 PM
1

Bro 3 inches isn't even that bad. Before seeing research and shit I thought the average was 3.5-4. About being bad in bed, if he's willing to learn, there's no problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 05:57 PM
-1

The "right" body type doesn't exist. Women aren't all an uniform mass.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 08:46 PM
12

I've got plenty of relationship offers, but no one wants to fuck right away. Life sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 07:25 PM
1

Teenagers = kids? People fuck in high school, you know? And saying I was hiding something is a stupid argument. If I was, I would be dumb to mention the thing I'm "hiding".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 01:31 AM
1

Ok then, if you say so. It's not something I'm willing to debate on. It's just a fact. In my whole life, no one has ever wanted to fuck me. I'll just try to wait for college and see what happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 01:26 AM
0

I'm not lying, and I dont know how you came to that conclusion. It's just my life. I know It sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 01:21 AM
1

Idk if I'm average. Maybe I am. Never did any drugs, not even alcohol. As I said, I dont have a job yet. And yes, I'd easily fuck someone I have no attraction to. And yet here am I, still haven't found anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 01:17 AM
1

I didn't say I'm average. I said Im the average desesperate girl. Not on drugs though
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 01:09 AM
1

I don't even have a job lol Just your average desesperate girl
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 01:03 AM
0

That's not even true, I'd easily fuck a guy Im 0% attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 12:55 AM
1

Jokes on you I have none of those and I'm still ruined
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 07:05 PM
6

Like if women can't harass women?
/r/AntiFeminists07/03/22 08:52 PM
-1

If a man posted ''i love women and how much they do for men and im very grateful'' yall would call him a simp in no time lol
/r/AntiFeminists06/03/22 11:13 PM
1

No one should be forced to, but if they want to they can. That would naturally lead to less people using it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 06:08 PM
1

"The question was about rights, so women don't have the right to randomly beat men because legally noone has the right to do so."
/r/AntiFeminists06/03/22 03:13 PM
2

MEN ARENT ENTITLED TO ANYTHING. Even if they're handsome.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 10:17 PM
1

>Like you saying women get killed for being women When did I say that? >Instead of admitting that women can be as evil and guilty as men and can be as perpetrators as any other criminal Yes, women can be as evil and guilty as men. What I was saying is that they kill *more* children because they're in contact in them. In a equal word, this difference would almost disappear, but that doesn't mean there wouldn't be any women killing kids. Women can be fucking evil, but so can men.
/r/AntiFeminists04/03/22 09:25 PM
–

Cup size without band doesn't matter. I'm a D and I'm flat as fuck. That data means nothing without band size.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 03:49 PM
-1

I joined the anti feminists subreddit because I was seriously trying to get new perspectives and I was more interested in egalitarianism and men's rights after I had seen some serious bullshit by some feminists. The only thing this sub has done is to push me farther to the feminist side, with it's hatred of women and equal rights. You're just as bad as the radfems, you just don't want to admit it.
/r/AntiFeminists04/03/22 03:47 PM
1

>Most men prefer medium So why does porn and hentai always feature big? It wouldn't exist if there wasn't a demand. >Most women have a decent chance of finding a guy who prefers her size unless she's really outside the normal range. They only have a decent chance of finding a guy who tolerates her size, not prefers. Same thing with dicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 12:31 AM
-1

No, you just ignored my point and wrote about some shit you made up in your head
/r/AntiFeminists04/03/22 12:26 AM
-6

I was talking about why men are killed more. Just about the difference in numbers that is in fact caused because men involve themselves in violence more, and more women are raped but they don't do anything more than men do to be raped, but are still just because they're women. The way you posted seemed like I was talking about all male deaths.
/r/AntiFeminists04/03/22 12:22 AM
-7

Really fair move to post this without any of the context.
/r/AntiFeminists03/03/22 11:47 PM
1

Most guys prefer bigger boobs and most girls prefer bigger dicks. The difference is that the latter is a dealbreaker for many women, while for guys it's mostly a preference. But being in a relationship where your boyfriend wish you had a bigger chest isn't really nice either, so it doesn't make that much of a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 11:44 PM
1

Sometimes, women choose the best looking men too, you know? Men aren't the only ones wanting to be attracted to their partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 07:51 PM
1

There are men who prefer medium or small boobs while women rarely prefer medium or small dicks. Both of these preferences are about the same percentage lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 07:22 PM
0

Men kill more and are killed more because they're involved in violence. This isn't victim blaming. The main things that make men more violent are testosterone levels and the way society is built. About the 1 one, its a matter of controling their urges, and the second one, makes sense too because of the way the world is built today. If we were in a more equal world, less men would be killed and less kids would be killed too.
/r/AntiFeminists03/03/22 06:10 PM
0

You didn't even try to answer my comment lol
/r/AntiFeminists03/03/22 06:04 PM
2

Woman marries chad = AWALT!!! Woman doesn't marry chad = AWALT!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 05:56 PM
0

Sooo Men get killed more because of something they did Women get killed more for being born women Kids are killed more by women because the ''traditional'' setting is for women to stay home and take care of them, it makes sense
/r/AntiFeminists03/03/22 05:53 PM
4

So you want them to lie? These women probably aren't the most attractive partner that their boyfriend/ husband had either anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 05:43 PM
0

Love it when guys like you say that ''feminism propaganda'' is demonizing men and women are afraid because they chose to, then blame assault victims.
/r/AntiFeminists03/03/22 05:41 PM
1

Men get killed more because they're more involved in violence. Women are raped more for existing.
/r/AntiFeminists03/03/22 05:39 PM
1

And on the fear point, it's not only walking alone at night. Women are afraid to get drunk in parties, be alone with men...
/r/AntiFeminists03/03/22 05:29 PM
0

I said women fear being raped. What you said didn't refute that.
/r/AntiFeminists03/03/22 05:28 PM
0

Don't pretend you didn't get it. Constant fear of being raped.
/r/AntiFeminists03/03/22 05:01 PM
6

Correct me if I'm wrongs, but I thought men were the ones being lustful after other women and telling their wifes that they're not attracted to them anymore when they age? And If you're going to say some shit about biology, then it's biology too that makes women not attracted to their partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 12:36 PM
6

So they expect men to put makeup on and shave?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 12:32 PM
-3

Being afraid of walking alone at night.
/r/AntiFeminists02/03/22 08:23 PM
-3

That's a social right women have, that doesn't mean that men don't have any.
/r/AntiFeminists02/03/22 07:20 PM
6

Calling all antifeminists mysoginists is just like calling all feminists misandrists. Ready for the downvotes
/r/AntiFeminists02/03/22 04:59 PM
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The only thing that they'll fail to answer is ''What LEGAL rights do men have that women don't?''. If you count in social rights, every feminist will show you a ton of them, the same way that you know a lot of social rights that men don't have but there's probably a lot less legal ones.
/r/AntiFeminists02/03/22 04:58 PM
-1

No there's not lol But I really don't want to enter this discussion, I know you won't change your mind and I won't change mine either. Goodnight.
/r/AntiFeminists01/03/22 11:18 PM
-1

I'm not necessarily talking about you, I'm just saying I think it's weird how some people think it's ok for men but not for women, that doesn't mean you necessarily said that, sorry if it came out that way.
/r/AntiFeminists01/03/22 11:10 PM
-2

Is getting lap dances considered failing too or does the "failing" only exist for women?
/r/AntiFeminists01/03/22 11:01 PM
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What about the huge culture of going to strip clubs in bachelor parties then? The double standard lol
/r/AntiFeminists01/03/22 08:05 PM
1

Might have something to do with the fact that in my country people tend to be shorter than in the US, so here I'm considered tall and there I'm just average lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 02:34 PM
1

First guy was when I was a little younger, I was 5'5 and he was probably 5'2 or something. Second was only an inch shorter than me (he was 5'6) but still said he couldn't date me because his friends would make fun of him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 12:48 PM
2

I don't really give much of a fuck, normally they're the ones to reject me saying I'm too tall
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 11:05 PM
3

You can smell the autism
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 12:13 PM
3

Until the wedding if that's the problem. Or even never if he's asexual (assuming he'll let me be with other people on this scenario).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 10:52 AM
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Women do it and men complain about it. But when a woman shares her experience about a guy doing it, it's absolutely necessary that you say women do it all the time to invalidate her experience, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 10:23 AM
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You just saw a post about a problem and started talking about another one, not a really nice thing to do
/r/AntiFeminists26/02/22 12:35 AM
0

It'll be ok If you disallow things like "ppd men, would you date high n women?" too
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 12:22 AM
0

Why wouldn't a woman be pissed that her husband is settling for her and would chose any pornstar they see over her?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 06:08 PM
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Why was I born so dumb :(
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 01:32 PM
23

People perceive attractive persons better, that's just natural
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 01:29 PM
5

Exactly lol I didn't include that because it's just an opinion (just like saying watching porn is better) and I didn't want to create yet another double standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:17 PM
1

When I'm doing OF, I'm not wanting to fuck someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:14 PM
1

I'd prefer he went on the webcam site, because he isn't wanting to fuck other people, it's just other people wanting to fuck him, something that already happened before.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:11 PM
1

I just think it's weird that you impose something in your partner that you yourself aren't willing to do. Anyways, it's late in Brazil and I'm tired of this discussion. Wish u luck in your finding-the-perfect-girlfriend mission. Bye
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:51 AM
3

95% of the people in the word are decent people. You're just being mysoginistic. You think a man doesn't have to shave, but a woman does, just because... Well, no reason at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:42 AM
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It we can have a choice between doing something bad ir hot doing it, decent people aren't going to do it. That's it. Would you consider It "controlling" If your girlfriend, who shaves, asked you to shave your legs and armpits?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:36 AM
2

Yes, and it's fucked up. Two wrongs don't make a right. Why do you expect her to shave her legs and armpits when you don't?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:31 AM
2

That's like saying "If you don't want her to cheat, do this and this things that she doesn't have to do." So you'd be fine with a woman that only shaves her face and her vag, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:27 AM
2

So you expect women to have to do extra effort to keep their man from porn? Women will shave during winter when you shave ANYTHING once in your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:23 AM
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Ok then, I guess you're not hypocritical about this. The thing is most people are and it's a really shitty double standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:16 AM
2

You're changing the subject. Most women will never be as "sexually satisfying" as a pornstar, simply because they're not hot enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:15 AM
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Discounsidering that. Wouldn't you be bothered that hundreds of men were jerking off to her? Is "someone finding out" the real reason here?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:06 AM
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More sexually appealing doesn't mean as appealing as a porn star.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:00 AM
2

"hotter" is always about looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 11:59 PM
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I'm talking like solo porn, since the problem is fucking someone else. How do you think it's fair to dump a woman who has an onlyfans/ does solo porn but "controlling" for dumping a guy who watches porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 11:59 PM
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What I said was the husband wanting someone hotter than his wife and finding her "not sexually gratifying" to him. I just worded it neutrally because the opposite happens, but it's normally like this. No, not every woman can look better than pornstars.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 11:53 PM
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You not dating only fans girl = completely logical and rational Woman not dating you because you watch porn = omg so controlling
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 11:49 PM
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I only took onlyfans as an exemple. Think a woman doing solo free porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 11:38 PM
4

Wait You're talking about the girl, the guy or both?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 11:37 PM
2

So if someone isn't hotter than a pornstar, they should leave your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 11:36 PM
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"Porn isn't cheating, I'll just dump tou if you watch it." Better?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 11:35 PM
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Everything you do, maybe your partner just wants someone hotter. You can't change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 11:22 PM
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Porn addiction has a ton of negative effects, everyone knows that, so I'll consider you're talking about a healthy consumption. The thing is a lot of women don't feel confortable with their partners fantasizing about fucking other chicks. Like, imagine if your girlfriend had an only fans. Most ppl would consider that cheating. So the girl producing that content is cheating on her boyfriend but the guys watching it aren't? That doesn't make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 11:21 PM
1

You can think that, but an abusive partner is way worse than a "whore" or a "fuckboy".
/r/AntiFeminists18/02/22 09:37 PM
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Just because some people did it it doesn't mean you can assume all them do. I too can link examples of antifeminists being mysoginistic. But that doesn't mean ALL of them are.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 03:25 PM
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you have no evidennce for yours
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 12:45 AM
1

Ok then, so it's the same as me saying all anti-feminists hate women. And did you just compare feminism to KKK?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 11:51 PM
1

What you called a ''feminist lobby group'' is literally a sexual assault support group. If you think fighting against sexaul assault is a feminist thing, there's something seriously wrong with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 11:10 PM
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Why do people like you always complain about feminists generalizing men without seeing that you are generalizing feminists?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 11:07 PM
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The only time I've seen women doing this is when he had beaten her and cheated on her multiples. I don't think it was misandry lol
/r/AntiFeminists17/02/22 11:01 PM
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(Just my opinion) Normally women warn each other about abusive men. When I see men warning each other about women it's things like ''signs she's a hoe''
/r/AntiFeminists17/02/22 08:51 PM
1

Bro idk why people say this shit when it's the same, if not worse, for men
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 08:30 PM
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According to rainn (couldn't link It), 90% of rape victims are women. Reputational damage "Doing that is bad, you're a * if you do that." "Why?" "Because you'll get insulted, and that's bad for you, so don't do that." Literally wtf Impaired ability to sustain a monogamous, long-term relationship Since when Men's total lack of reproductive rights That doesn't have anything to do with what I said. I said women shouldn't be forced to be pregnant (in my country they are), and it's the same for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 08:17 PM
1

I think I've desired about 80% of the guys I talk to lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 07:42 PM
1

I'm a feminist. I don't want to go around without tops either This doesn't mean that I'll take out the right of other people to do it. It's like me being on a diet and declaring everyone can't eat donuts. It doesn't work like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 10:56 PM
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''There are more men being raped.'' I won't discuss this until you provide a source. ''It has a negative outcome.'' Which part of being a slut has a negative outcome that doesn't exist for men? ''Women are not forced to be pregnant either.'' Yes. And that's the right thing. I only pointed it out because you complained about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 10:52 PM
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I have a 22 bmi and I'd say my face is average. Fuck, a lot of people still say I'm pretty. But still, I'm a virgin. And still, it's not by choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 10:45 PM
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Women already do a lot of effort for that. That's why.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 08:17 PM
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If you go out tonight and lead a guy home with you, you will/can have sex. You don't even know me, I am a virgin and it isn't by choice, it isn't that simple. You're just seeing pretty girls getting a lot of options and thinking it is like that for all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 07:49 PM
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Just because most people don't want to do something it doesn't mean they shouldn't have the right.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 07:38 PM
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It is much less common for men to be raped in general, much less by women. First, it isn't hard for most men who do it. Being born handsome didn't make them put in any work. Second, just because something is hard doesn't mean the person should be praised for it. Third, just because something is easy, it doesn't mean the person has to be shamed for it. Third, it is hard for some girls (ugly/fat ones), but they're still judged. Here you're forgeting that women are the ones who birth the kid. A man…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 07:36 PM
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For men it is most of the time just about sex. You got the point. For men. Even if a girl could get sex easily (most can't), this doesn't mean she'll want it, she can have it with her boyfriend after all. They'll probably cheat for other reasons. No need to be stunning. Just look cute-ish I wasn't talking about the side girl, I was saying for women who cheat on their partners. If a woman isn't gorgeous/ perfect body it isn't that easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 10:28 AM
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Rape Hoe vs player Divorce Being expected to have kids Etc
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 01:16 AM
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Op also cited culture
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 12:59 AM
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I mean, not a lot legally. Basically just the shirt and the name thing. But in society... Don't even get me started ( btw, I'm not saying men dont have problems, just that women have it too).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 12:48 AM
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Look pretty And you think all women are born naturally stuning? A lot of women have trouble with that. And cheating isn't just having sex with other people, it's proved that most people don't cheat because of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 12:39 AM
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Almost everything you said has to be done by women who cheat too. And I thought saying men are all cheaters was a radfem thing
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 07:28 PM
1

Ok then. So you're saying men don't cheat because it's too hard lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 12:50 PM
1

That's the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 08:46 PM
1

So you're basically saying men don't cheat because they don't have the chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 08:08 PM
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There's statistics showing the contrary. You can't have an opinion on facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 11:27 PM
0

Why do you think most women aren't loyal? Do you think the same of most men?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 05:09 PM
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You disagree?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 01:59 PM
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If she doesn't like the relationship, she will probably get out. It's not because there's a better person that she'll leave, it's because she would leave anyways. Most women in a happy, healthy relathionship won't leave their partner for someone better.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 01:58 PM
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With the hypergamy example, it's just not the same thing. The first said she would leave for a better option, the second say they want the best partner, that doesn't mean she would leave her current. It's just that if you present 2 potential partners for single women, one ''better'' and the other ''worse'', obviously they'll pick the better one. Same with men. But if you go to women in relashionships and present them with someone ''better'' than their current partner, most won't cheat/ leave, si…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 06:47 PM
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Men don't date down.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 02:10 PM
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Looks are by far the biggest factor in attracting a guy too
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 09:49 PM
1

I have a 30 inch rib cage and I have a D cup, but I'm still completely flat lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 07:39 PM
2

Same thing with porn lol
/r/AntiFeminists29/01/22 11:46 PM
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Idk, just saying what is conventionally attractive to most people. Sure, everybody has preferences, but most people presented with someone with that traits and someone without them would tend to say the second is more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 11:03 PM
2

So, if you had/have a girlfriend, you genuinely think she is the most attractive woman on the world? Not taking personality in account. Just physical.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 02:35 PM
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If I somehow find out she finds other men more sexually attractive, whether her exes or strangers, that's also a deal breaker. Now watch a woman say that and suddently she's "crazy".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 12:57 PM
21

Acne, Having a long midface, long philtrum, asymetry, having a negative canthal tilt, bad jaw, unkept beard/hair, baldness...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 09:51 AM
-1

The friend zone may be you wanting a friend. Love-bombing is purposefuly manipulative.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 09:34 PM
0

Said the man
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 03:21 PM
2

It depends. If you don't have a lot of people who like you, then making you feel wanted/validated is probably what you're going to like the most. If you have hundreds of guys throwing themselves at you, one more won't make a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 10:40 PM
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Bro just search it up on google
/r/AntiFeminists27/01/22 08:11 PM
1

16 and 20 is worse. While I disagree with the other one, they're both adults and they can do what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 06:22 PM
1

Congrats you did It qgain
/r/MensRights27/01/22 06:20 PM
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You just proved my point lol
/r/MensRights27/01/22 04:00 PM
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At least for me, I try to think ''If you're not dating for marriage, you're dating for a break-up'', so thats literally what I mean. But most women I know just say it to make it clear they don't want hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 01:13 AM
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Most of them say that MRA is anti-woman, that they are for true equality, and not anti-male, just against MRAs. Thats what most MRAs say too but movements and genders swapped. Both are bullshit.
/r/MensRights27/01/22 12:57 AM
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That's the same thing feminists say
/r/MensRights26/01/22 11:59 PM
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And I appreciate it that you were respectful of my opinion even if it isn't exactly on point with yours, all debates should be like this
/r/MensRights24/01/22 12:43 AM
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Having a high sex drive isn't the same thing as being sexually agressive. But I think I can see your point since generally more sexual drive would make the "opportunity" for some men to be agressive since with no sex drive = no "reason" to be agressive. What I was confused about was that you said "sexual assault" when refering to men's and "men acting on their sexual desires" to women's. Was just kind of offputting.
/r/MensRights24/01/22 12:08 AM
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Pretend to be shocked when men act on their sexual desires What are you trying to say by that?
/r/MensRights23/01/22 11:49 PM
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Women don't owe men sex in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 11:29 PM
2

It's just that most virgin guys aren't virgins because they chose to, they are because they can't do anything about It since women won't pick them, normally because they're undesirable. If they are undesirable, no wonder why most virgin/ low n count women don't pick them. Most women who say that mean that if they could choose from a guy with a 3 digit n count or the same guy, but a virgin, they'd pick the second one. But it isn't like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 11:04 PM
1

Bro you haven't said anything logic until now... I mean, sorry for questioning your superior and rational male brain, so since I have to go make a sandwich, I can't continue this discussion. Bye
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:52 PM
1

Ah yes, a man talking about what all women do when taking a test.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:23 PM
1

Yeah like, they don't fucking believe literal PROOF, they contradict themselves constantly... I've just given up finding one that have logical arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 08:34 PM
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You're contradicting yourself. If women don't get held accountable for anything, they wouldn't care about saying their true body count. There was also studies where they were anonymous, so what you're saying doesn't even make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 08:31 PM
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There are tons of studies about what I said. But in your mind, women must all be liars and none of this statistics are real. If you believe that, there's literally no way of changing your mind, so good luck with that mindset lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 12:49 AM
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the whole reason why women on average have so much higher body counts No they don't lol Average for men is around 6 in life, for women it's 4
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 11:45 PM
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The sub started excusing pedos, I'm out
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 09:26 PM
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If you are saying most women aren't virgins, sure, I agree with that. But most women WILL reject "Chad". He can't go talk to the average woman and get laid instantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 09:25 PM
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Yes I reject them, there's a reason I'm a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 09:13 PM
1

Women don't care about how many sexual partners a guy had Yes they do
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 09:05 PM
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The amount of men ONLY wanting sex is disproportionate to the amount who want a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 12:19 AM
0

No it isn't lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 10:04 PM
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They think she must have a bad self esteem and want to ''help her out''.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 10:04 PM
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women: men are more visualalso women: omg becky like what the fuck is she wearing It's almost 100% who say men are more visual lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 01:35 AM
1

​ About me trying to see someone, I just kind of accepted I would be single forever. This may sound kind of pessimistic coming from a teenager, but I really don't want to try with the cheating and divorce stats. Now I'm trying to focus on other things that make me happy. I empathize with you, really. This world is awful and I truly hope you meet someone that you can be comfortable with.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 12:21 AM
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Then men can have jaw surgery and leg implants too. My point is that for women it is impossible without surgery. Also, if a woman has surgery, a lot of times men will call her "fake".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 09:09 PM
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Women have to filter for men that are only interested in sex but many guys have the opposite problem: no options. Obviously they have less options for sex, that was literally my point A lot of men are struggling to find a LTR. A lot of women too. There was a time where I would literally date ANYONE who wanted to date me. But guess what, no one wanted to. And it is not the case that all of them want to fuck hot women. Yes it is lol, the term is "involuntary celibate" for a reason, the majority ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 09:05 PM
1

never said it wasnt hard, just able to be improved.And the only thing that matter is if them without msuvle tone<with muscle tone.whether they can beat out a pretty face is irrelevant. Speak for yourself, most men don't think like that
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 05:18 PM
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For some ppl it's really hard to gain muscle. Also, a fit chick who made a lot of effort with small tits and an ugly face will never be picked over one with a naturally good body, big tits and pretty face.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 04:47 PM
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You are right of course but not everyone is looking for that.Some women just like casual sex. They are living the dream life because this is super easy to obtain via the apps nowadays.This is what has men envious because, 1. Men are on average more inclined to be open for casual sex, 2. It is way, way harder to obtain this for them, next to impossible for most.From their point of view women have huge privilege because they can live the life they can only fantasize about.But if you want commitmen…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 03:29 PM
1

Maybe for casual hookups, but he was talking about dating, where personality is what matters the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 12:49 PM
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''sucess in the dating world'' is not the same thing as ''having men wanting to fuck you''. I know that in your mind sex is the ultimate goal and women must be bragging by saying they can get it, but what you don't undestand is that most women want commitement and that's not something they can get easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 12:08 PM
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for women its just luck lol men value looks women value a balance of looks/personality/resources men can improve that, women can't
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 12:06 PM
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Idk, I mean, as long as it's not hurting anyone. What is kind of dangerous is the mentality that comes with it ("hunting" for a wife, as if you were searching for an animal/object. This can encourage the whole seeing-your-spouse-as-a-prize thing).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 05:00 PM
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It's just that I had the impression your first comment was saying it was fine for men to want a boy, but since it wasn't that, my bad
/r/MensRights16/01/22 10:44 PM
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It depends what you call trouble. There are multiple studies showing boys are more violent during teenage years. Also, I'd like to see your source about families putting less effort in raising boys, doesn't seem really accurate lol
/r/MensRights16/01/22 10:13 PM
2

Two wrongs don't make a right.
/r/MensRights16/01/22 10:05 PM
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That's weird since normally women want to have boys and men want to have girls. And the conforting thing was not necessarily a gendered issue, some ppl are sad when they don't get boys
/r/MensRights16/01/22 10:04 PM
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In today's episode of "how to make people's sexual orientation about you":
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 08:13 PM
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I'm a feminist and I believe men have just as much problems as women and they should be taken WAY more seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 11:15 PM
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Even if there's not a lot, there still is
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 10:09 PM
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There are lots of desesperate women who would date anyone who doesn't cheat
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 07:45 PM
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"females" lol
/r/MensRights05/01/22 11:47 AM
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Sometimes it's kind of a peer pressure thing. And there's still a decent amount of women that openly prefer others (for example, the "dad bod" thing)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 01:18 AM
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Normally women don't like overly muscular dudes and all that shit. It doesn't mean they have to like the other example you gave
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 01:15 AM
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The body type commonly portrayed as attractive by the media normally isn't the body most women find attractive. I mean, every woman is different, and maybe there's someone who likes it, but in general it isn't like that. And it's really sad to know that this influences some men's self esteem. Feminism promotes (female) body posivity, but men's is kind of left behind. That said, know you are beautiful and I hope you have a great day!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 01:15 PM
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If you're saying phisically, longish hair, taller than me (I'm 5'5), no beard, not a lot of muscle, not fat. None of these are absolute requirements, just some things I particularly find attractive. About personality, smart, can hold a conversation, good sense of humour. Also, wanting a long term relationship and willing to have kids. Basically that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 02:59 AM
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O was just saying most women don't Care abt height nearly as much as ppl think they do
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:15 AM
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Wtf lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:14 AM
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"Ideal" is different than your standard. For example, men and women would probably say their ideal partner is attractive. This doesn't mean they won't date someone who isn't. Same with height.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:17 AM
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Most women's is just being taller than them (I'd say 60%), then 30% don't care
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 08:36 PM
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But normally men are screwed. Just bc the court is sexist it doesnt mean she is
/r/MensRights31/12/21 03:49 PM
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I highly doubt that there are more women who refuse to date bisexual men than men who sexually harass lesbians. And the second thing depends on what you think is "stigmatize". If you mean more "tradicional" homophobia, it's true, but it only proves the lesbian fetishization point, since this only happens since more ppl see lesbians in porn, so it's"normal". Also, where did you get the asian women statistic? It seems like you haven't ever met one in real life. And have you ever heard of kpop? BTS…
/r/MensRights31/12/21 02:49 PM
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I never said most men do it, I just said some of them do. And It wasn't even men I dated, sometimes it was just random "friends of friends" who I didn't even know that well. There are downsides to being a bisexual man and to being a bisexual woman, that's it. About watching lesbian porn, I don't think it is inherently a problem. I mean, as long as you're not hurting anyone, it's fine. The problem is when they start acting like this with irl lesbians/bisexuals, witch is actually damaging. "You ca…
/r/MensRights28/12/21 05:18 PM
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The thing most people where saying in the comments is that women "thinked more long-term" and men "thinked more short-term" (idk if this makes sense in english). I don't think it is the case, but for the sake of this discussion I'll pretend it is. They were just making a statement that didn't mean necessarily "men bad woman good", it was just an observation. If you think one is better than the other, that's your opinion. I could say that that's why women never discover anything, and men are smar…
/r/MensRights25/12/21 05:20 PM
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Actually, a lot of men fetishize lesbians in real life too (multiple men wanted to "watch" me and my gf at the time, also a bunch of them assumed I'd be down for a threesome just because I am bissexual), so it isnt just something like in porn and "dont actually act on It". About the porn demographics, the fact that women search it up means nothing. It may even show that theres a lot of closeted lesbians, but we all know that this isnt the reason. I'm not really sure but id say it is because a lo…
/r/MensRights24/12/21 04:44 PM
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You're just so close to the point
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