Gmar10 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
352	An Introduction: How I got out of my depression/rut (Must Read)		Gmar10	/r/seduction	30/03/14 04:54 PM
10	You and me baby ain't nothing but mammals: Unleash your DNA.		Gmar10	/r/seduction	19/05/14 04:32 AM

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4	How to get numbers at retail job? "Hey, I'm working right now but I think you're cute. If you'd like I can take your number and we can talk more when I'm off". I think you'll find that's pretty safe for being on the clock. If she says no, simply say "ok, thanks for shopping at ____, have a great day". Source: Worked retail for a year after college. Employers generally frown upon hitting on customers so be careful and be prepared to explain yourself to your superiors. -G	/r/seduction	12/05/14 05:11 AM
1	College: Talking with a random girl? "Excuse me. Hi, I thought you look cute so I wanted to introduce myself, I'm _____". Conversation started. Talk about yourself, the school, people nearby, anything at all. Ask her open ended questions, refuse to accept short answers, ask "Why?". Keep it short, get her number, go on a date. -G	/r/seduction	12/05/14 05:05 AM
1	High Energy Night Game - Is what I'm doing wrong? The biggest error I see here is that you didn't mention getting the digits. Not everyone responds well to confident, dominant men. Those who do, get the digits!! -G	/r/seduction	12/05/14 03:55 AM
1	What does it mean when a girl struggles to maintain eye-contact with you. Most people avoid eye contact because they feel intimidated. With men, if someone avoids eye contact they are intimidated by your confidence, usually. With women: intimidation with confidence, which isn't a bad thing btw, could be it or low self esteem. A lot of women struggle with eye contact in my experience. Prolonged eye contact is always an IOI, but lack of eye contact isn't a sign of disinterest, unless other signs accompany it. -G	/r/seduction	12/05/14 03:51 AM
1	Receptionists Ask her where the best place to get dinner for 2 is. If she doesn't know, tell her she's not a very good receptionist (playfully, of course) If she recommends somewhere, tell her "great I'll pick you up at 8, and you might want to wear something sexier" It works, not always, but it does. -G	/r/seduction	12/05/14 03:45 AM
1	Billy's Guide to Assuming Attraction -- The Johnny Drama Rule Great post! Guys, why wouldn't she be attracted to you? You're awesome, smart, charming, and funny. Unless she's explicitly saying NO (Always stop immediately when she says no) it's safe to assume she's saying yes.	/r/seduction	12/05/14 03:42 AM
2	There are No Levels in the Game The only people above me are God and Leonardo DiCaprio. Everyone else is on a level playing field. Very good post.	/r/seduction	12/05/14 03:38 AM
2	Girls afraid(?) of eye contact Good! Make them uncomfortable! I stare at everyone in the eyes, always, especially people who are "uncomfortable" with eye contact. If they are uncomfortable, that's their issue. This separates you from other people in their mind. You don't live life by what makes other people comfortable, you live life doing whatever the hell you wanna do.	/r/seduction	12/05/14 03:35 AM
1	How to shake the feeling of losing The easiest way to "shake the feeling of losing" is to win. Life isn't a sport, there are no teams, no scoreboard, but there is a time clock. You decide whether you're winning or losing, nobody else. So congrats, welcome to the winning team.	/r/seduction	12/05/14 03:30 AM
2	We always talk about how to keep great conversations. But what are some of the mistakes that beginners at this always make? The easiest and most common mistake for all of us, not just beginners, is silence. Don't talk just for the sake of it, talk when YOU want to. Embrace silence, welcome it and make it your friend. Allowing silence to linger too long is bad, but allowing the silence until you're ready to talk again shows you are in control, and you have advanced social skills. -G	/r/seduction	23/04/14 12:04 AM
2	[FR] Sent the same text to 4 different women, and got 4 different responses You need to be more agressive. You had them right where you wanted them and you didn't go in for the kill. Let your DNA do it's job. The lion never spares the gazelle	/r/seduction	07/04/14 10:32 PM
4	After you've constructed a fulfilling life for yourself, and have attained a confident, comfortable mindset, here are some concepts that I've learned through trial and error over the years. You sir are a genius. -G	/r/seduction	07/04/14 02:21 AM
23	The number one excuse keeping you from success with women (In my humble opinion) Truer words have never been said. If you stop thinking and start doing your entire life changes. You stop being a guy who talks about things, into a guy who gets things done. Powerful. Once you get out of your head, you notice your DNA already knows what to do.	/r/seduction	07/04/14 02:14 AM
1	How do i become a more dominating, aggressive male Natural good looks	/r/seduction	01/04/14 08:55 PM
1	It finally happened after 21 years, a girl said yes to a date. I want to print this comment out, frame it, and hang it in my house it's so perfect. You sir, are a god damn genius. -G	/r/seduction	01/04/14 05:03 AM
0	How to cure oneitis? I didn't realize that you're making an active minute by minute choice to give yourself away to someone who doesn't want you rather than needing to focus on improving yourself. I'm glad you totally have it under control and could stop at any moment because you value yourself and your time so much. You can lie to us... don't lie to yourself. If you were focusing on yourself more and on this woman less you would value yourself enough to not let someone else have control over your self-worth. Best o…	/r/seduction	01/04/14 04:59 AM
1	I can't convince myself that it's ok to talk to strange women I would generally trust whatever Matthew Mcconaughey says about womem. Something tells me he's had a few of them.	/r/seduction	01/04/14 04:53 AM
1	How do i become a more dominating, aggressive male You need to give yourself more value. You have a gift that most of the men in the world would kill for. You're letting it go to waste because you aren't the man you want to be. Stop trying to attract women and start trying to attract yourself. Be the man you want to be. Do the things you've always wanted to. Learn about the world and whatever in it interests you. If you are interesting to yourself, you will be interesting to others. Always be helping others. Helping others puts you in a positive…	/r/seduction	01/04/14 04:48 AM
1	Playing the romantic catch up.game. Invest in yourself. I used to be socially awkward and nervous. I was depressed and felt I couldn't talk to anyone because nobody liked me. I didn't like me, how could anyone else? I started learning things I was interested in and doing things I had always wanted to do. I learned a new language, I painted, I read classic novels, I sat on a hill and stared at the clouds. Anything I had always wanted to do, I did. I became interesting to myself. I started valuing myself and my free time. I was pass…	/r/seduction	01/04/14 04:28 AM
1	How do you do something when every baby step feels like mount everest? Click my name, read my story and then DM me. It's time to make a change, today, and I'm going to push you to do it. The time has come to start chasing your dreams and being the man you want to be. -G	/r/seduction	01/04/14 04:21 AM
2	How much does appearance matter? Just wash yourself daily, comb your hair and clean your fingernails. If you're clean and you look like you give some effort towards your looks that is usually good enough to make a good first impression. You don't need to be "get her wet just by looking at you" good looking. Average looking guys like us can make a good impression with effort and cleanliness, and then let our personalities be our true asset. If being clean and put together doesn't cut it for a woman. That's really too bad for her…	/r/seduction	01/04/14 04:16 AM
8	When I'm around certain girls, I feel like Superman. Why? You aren't trying to have sex with them. That is literally the answer. You LJBF'd them and you aren't worried what you say or do around them because you aren't trying to impress them. You are being yourself. Be honest with yourself and you know that you don't act the same around a woman you want to sleep with and one you don't. Stop trying to impress those women with how cool you can act and start impressing them with how cool you ARE! -G	/r/seduction	01/04/14 04:06 AM
-1	How to cure oneitis? Improve your self worth. You're becoming a man, it's time to start acting like one. Put a higher value on yourself. You aren't a $2 sack of potatoes, you're a god damn $150 steak dinner. They don't just give away those dinners, you gotta earn them. You gotta go to work, save up money, make a reservation, dress fancy and still after that you need to pay to get a $150 steak dinner. Go to work on yourself. Stop watching so much tv. Get off the xbox and youtube and all that valueless time filler and…	/r/seduction	01/04/14 03:53 AM
1	[FR] How refraining from beating off has increased my game exponentially. Confidence and knowing yourself are far more important than a shiny white smile.	/r/seduction	01/04/14 01:24 AM
9	Dat smile Go to the mirror, close your eyes. Imagine you are James fucking Bond, you just saved the world and now miss Pussy Galore wants to ride your mustache. Open eyes and look at the smirk on your face. Voila! New smile.	/r/seduction	31/03/14 02:06 AM
13	An Introduction: How I got out of my depression/rut (Must Read) Pretty much this. The post was long enough without including full texts of conversations. The truth is I spoke with passion about helping people with something most can't do on their own. No matter how much or how little it matters in the big picture, you were helping someone. Even if they only wanted a new light fixture in their closet, it was something they wanted and I could do that for them. Even if they forgot about it in a day or two... in that moment I had made somebody else happy by givi…	/r/seduction	30/03/14 06:55 PM
2	[FR] How refraining from beating off has increased my game exponentially. I couldn't agree more about nofap. Nothing will give you the courage to talk to every single woman you come across like not busting one for a while. Your natural instincts kick in, your eyes light up, you get a testosterone boost and you are filled with energy. Masturbating is a natural, evolutionary action but like most good things in life it can become an addictive self-gratification, like drugs or alcohol. Many guys substitute sex and meeting women with porn and jerking off. That is unhealthy…	/r/seduction	30/03/14 06:45 PM
17	An Introduction: How I got out of my depression/rut (Must Read) Thank you for sharing your struggles. It's important to remember that we aren't the only ones to fail in a marriage. Half of all marriages end in divorce, that's a lot of men who have felt the same way. I loved my wife and I tried my hardest. That really is the most anyone can ask of you in a marriage, and accepting that sometimes it just doesn't work is liberating. As for focusing on your kids, it gives you motivation to work on yourself. Your children will never stop loving you, they look at y…	/r/seduction	30/03/14 05:42 PM
7	No clear results after 4 years. Maybe some advice? Stop trying to become a pickup guy. Start becoming a real man. The most effective way of attracting a woman is to make yourself happy. Find something you want to learn and learn it. Learn a new language and learn to paint. Read classic novels and watch classic movies. Make yourself interesting and your confidence will soar. I was very socially awkward, depressed, and lonely. Once I started to do things that I liked and learned about things I was interested in I found my awkwardness was gone. I w…	/r/seduction	30/03/14 05:26 PM