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Gnosiis_/r/TheRedPill07/11/19 08:35 PM
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Gnosiis_/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 06:56 AM
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Gnosiis_/r/TheRedPill15/02/18 09:56 PM
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Unblock the other women that she blocked and tell them, "sry, crazy girl went through my phone and sent you a fuck off msg". This is why you should never apologize for being greedy. Women do what they want and have as many sexual partners as they want. Out of all the double standards this might be the worse one; the fact that women demand sexual freedom while also trying to limit yours, especially with underhanded means like this.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/21 03:34 AM
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I think he's right on the money as usual. It is an extensive problem that is only getting worse. The decline is getting so bad that I'm not sure how you push the snowball back up the hill. Worst of all the men that may have the ability to do anything don't want to. Women want to feel like their man is superior from an attraction standpoint but their conflicting need to feel superior themselves may be the stronger motivation right now imo. The feminist movement to "empower" women has really blown…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/20 06:59 AM
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I think nature does select for groups with moral leaders. It's just a much slower process. It's far more beneficial in the long run for groups that are moral because it is stability. not very good leaders and would betray their groups, peers for their own benefit. They're not leaders then. They're not the "real ones". That attitude causes infighting and distrust.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/20 03:19 PM
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I am also using the Soul Camera to combat censorship. We will get the message out despite any opposition.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/20 07:15 PM
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Inevitable moral hazard. Hazard being a very good word to describe it because it means "risk" or "chance". It means that measures must be taken in order to REDUCE the risk. Women have more options and are more likely to cheat especially when they have security already. There's also the risk of her cheating for no other reason than her having a momentary lapse in judgment or running into a guy at the right place at the right time, even if she is still attracted to her man. Then there's the societ…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/20 05:24 PM
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Both. Make observations to form theories to fit the evidence. Then look for more evidence to support that theory until it is cemented as truth.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/20 04:52 PM
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Shout out to Gamelova. I got you my friend, and I agree wholeheartedly. People will see this.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/20 04:45 PM
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Who are THEY to say that expressing negative emotion is a weakness? I agree with your post from a philosophical standpoint. Especially this line. It's not fair at all for women to judge men based on their emotions. Men are human and experience feelings and things that could affect them negatively. Women, as blue-pilled as they are, have very unrealistic expectations for men in general but especially when it comes to how men should handle their emotions. That being said women are biological and n…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/20 06:22 PM
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There is no matriarchy. Women lack the demeanour to rule. No one follows women. What you are actually seeing is women's complaints being legally and socially upheld by either weak men, or by self-interested men who have political careers. This I disagree with. It's contradictory. Beta males and especially women who seek to maintain the status quo absolutely follow women. Women are devaluing masculinity in an attempt to "close the gap" with men. Women don't "rule" per say but team up and use whit…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/20 04:14 AM
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I had to think hard on this comment thread. everything is men's fault. I agree. I would say that women need to be more responsible and accountable, but only men can make them more responsible and accountable.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/20 03:49 AM
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It kills me when people call bs on stories like this. All it shows is that you lack the capacity to do the same thing. It also shows that you still don't understand women or only skimmed the post.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/20 12:39 AM
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Agreed I broke Jezebel by first showing her I was far stronger than her, then, when she was at my mercy, being unexpectedly protective. I tend to dominate them to the point of submission. Then they have no choice but listen while being in my frame. They might be angry at first, but if you keep cool and explain your point they'll get attracted because you're beating them, i.e. displaying higher value. You automatically put them in a submissive position where you can then build them up, i.e protec…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/20 12:25 AM
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You're only half right here. The ugly women like "real" feminism because they mostly focus on their beta bucks resource acquisition strategy because they can't get alphas as well as the hot girls can. They focus on government issues that help in that regard and also cultural issues like body shaming. The hot girls use "fake" feminism to try to take down barriers that impede their ability to get alpha fucks such as slut shaming. That is what their sexual liberation movement is about: slutting it …
/r/TheRedPill23/01/20 04:38 AM
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Very well said. I'll be sure to have many people see this post. In fact I already have.
/r/MGTOW23/01/20 12:32 AM
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in a group setting, the ego drive of the woman to be the one to win your attention would be the permanent magnet you can use to your benefit. There needs to be a post on ego drive alone. Might stew on this one
/r/TheRedPill17/01/20 07:28 PM
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This. And then they don't even realize that they're making points for the liberal side. Stupid.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/20 01:26 AM
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We live in a world where mediocrity, complacency, and whining are not only accepted but encouraged. It's pathetic. One of the hardest truths for me to come to terms with was realizing that focusing on my mission and grinding and sacrificing doesn't yield any respect. It is only until you see any actual results and fruits of your labor that people will start to take notice. How can people truly respect your efforts if they're not willing to put in that effort themselves? If they valued it, they w…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/20 07:54 AM
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Women are never accountable. I wonder what would happen if all women WERE accountable.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/19 03:00 AM
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Don't think that having a widow is somehow desirable. If you have any sort of experience with women, then you know how much of a pain they can be when you want them around, never mind when you don't. Tread carefully. Yes, I do. Which is why I NEVER want them around. These types of girls can't handle rejection, and even if you did want to try again with her it'll only lower your value in her eyes because you broke frame and took her back... hmm, then again that might be the only way to get her of…
/r/TheRedPill24/11/19 06:52 PM
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I like the fact that you were willing to let her go. However I think that she wouldn't have broken so easily if you applied just a little more comfort. You could've finessed that a little better. Tell her that you have sex with other girls but still give her the hope that she still can have your commitment, especially if she's trying to be loyal. When she felt deflated and you kissed her that was your opportunity to reel her back in with some sweet talk. Perfect push pull. But like you said life…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 07:12 AM
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Not when you're generally unattracted to the woman. I can see going down a few points, but men who say that "pussy is pussy" are ones who get more out of the validation of the act, rather then the enjoyment of the sex itself.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/19 02:19 AM
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I agree, which is why I said hopefully she never tells you this because it IS a red flag regarding her attraction towards you.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/19 01:53 AM
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Men don't have leverage to do that anymore. Correct. That's why the redpill suggests LTRs are the redpill on hard mode and why you should just spin plates. The risks are just too great.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/19 11:38 PM
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In this situation cuffing literally means "dont let me go anywhere". In other words KEEPING her locked down. What she's saying is if you take the cuffs of my wrists I'll be free to do what I want. Therefore if she commits a "crime" it was your fault for taking the cuffs off in the first place. That's the point. With plates it's a little different because you can't really control what she does, but a plate will still use this line anyway to try to gain committment via dread. "If you don't lock me…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/19 10:59 PM
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This nonsense of a post tries to literally make up a new stage of redpill awareness. I think the point you're trying to make is that once you take the pill you should realize that things aren't as bad as you thought. What it shows is that you haven't fully taken the pill. Your entire post is trying to find exceptions to core redpill principles. There are many subjective tenets of the redpill that we can debate but AWALT, hypergamy, avoiding relationships and more make up the skeleton of redpill …
/r/TheRedPill24/09/19 09:28 PM
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I was glad you made a post addressing this because from a redpill standpoint your opinion seems to be the general one. However, I think this issue is just more conservatard tradcon nonsense. Women who are more open are likely to get tattooed while more conservative girls are not. That is where your analysis should begin. I'm 28 years old and yet tattoos almost never affect my judgment on whether or not a woman is attractive or not. The only time I kinda double-take is if there's a bunch of indiv…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/19 09:28 PM
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This. Hypergamy is an issue that you have to work around and accept. That doesn't mean you have to like it or find optimism in it for the purpose of comfort. I believe men would still look to improve upon themselves because our strategy is based on getting many women. My main gripe about hypergamy is the 80/20 rule and the fact that even when you win you can still lose. Also don't sell men short. Many of us men have missions irregardless of our pursuit of sex.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/19 07:23 PM
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This brings me to my next point. Intersexual communication is at an all time low in the Western world. Women have become autistic phone-tards who malfunction the minute a conversation becomes the slightest bit uncomfortable. Women no longer possess the social skills to break up with men, they just block his contact information and ghost. This needs it's own post.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/19 06:47 PM
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In general almost never compliment women. The only time I find it acceptable is when it is: 1. A woman you are not attracted to 2. (AND/OR) Said woman won't get the feeling you are complimenting her for a sex opportunity. (Neediness) Even then only compliment in a way that is as indirect as possible, e.g. You see that her hair was done recently and it looks nice. "Just hit the salon?" Or tell her "Flip your hair back and forth". That way she gets the feel good of the compliment from a charming a…
/r/askTRP18/09/19 10:54 PM
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Obviously increase your SMV and based on where you're at it shouldn't be too hard to gain a few points. But my main advice to you is to stop giving a fuck. You have an advantageous situation where you can learn from these hot women. The best way to get good with women is to talk to them. Take advantage of the fact that they (you) think you have no chance at them, their guards will be down. Read the sidebar keep making small talk and gain real experience. The Ls are gonna come, deal with it and s…
/r/askTRP18/09/19 10:09 PM
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This is actually a pretty good question and should be answered with more than just "wrap it up". Look you know what's going on, just keep frame and never, ever let her believe that it bothers you. Just keep things casual and don't do anything that could lead her to believe that she could be promoted or else she will think you want more from her. That could scare off a girl who has other fuck buddies unless she wants you to commit. As far as you are concerned those other guys don't exist or matte…
/r/askTRP16/09/19 10:27 PM
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When I was still bluepilled I had this one girl come over with a friend. My girl left to get drinks and her friend was literally trying to undo my pants the moment she left. I didn't want to fuck things up and her friend is all like "just forget about her!" When my girl got back I told her nothing happened. But her friend told her that we fucked when we didn't. I swear man hypergamy doesn't care.
/r/askTRP16/09/19 09:53 PM
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Man, I've met a lot of girls like this. Typically it's best not to judge them for their pasts. I've heard some pretty haunting stories. These girls have been through a lot. It comes down to holding frame, not being judgmental, while showing leadership and a small amount of comfort. These have been some of the most submissive and down to Earth girls I've met. Their emotional baggage isn't that big of deterrent to me, however these girls almost always have kids, bfs, exes who come around, are very…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 04:52 PM
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There's a lot of things a man can bear in a relationship. However, dealing with a woman who is clearly alpha widowed is one of the worst situations you can be in. You will be hard-pressed to command the same respect as the last guy. You will always be compared to him in even the tiniest of details. Even the areas where you best him she will overlook. I can't stress it enough, unless you clearly outclass that guy in most areas then don't deal with Alpha Widows unless it's short term.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/19 09:20 PM
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I like this post because you point out a truth that we all inherently know - that these girls get around. It's just one of those things that you just have to accept whether you like it or not. Most girls are gonna go have sex when the opportunity arises regardless of what "barriers" (like an LTR) are in their way. The only way to deal with it is to not limit yourself to one woman.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/19 05:17 PM
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All of those things are true but we know how women are, men are better at policing their own behavior. I am firmly in the camp that believes that pussy ain't shit. I know this sub is about getting sex but once you have enough abundance you can pick and choose your spots. I'm sure you've been in a position where you got a booty call but didn't go JUST because you didn't feel like it. I'm not really disputing any of the points made here. The only thing that bothers me is the thirstiness.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/19 10:50 PM
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I read through that pathetic ass post earlier and had the same opinion as most. I have no problem fucking a girl whose married or has a bf. However I did not like his reasoning for doing so. Also "bros before hoes" help you and your bro both maintain your SMV in situations where one or the other could lose. Instead of one guy taking the L and the other a W you both just don't go there and demonstrate high value by being indifferent to the pussy. But that only applies if he is a bro. That poster …
/r/TheRedPill01/09/19 09:57 PM
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Don't worry about it bro, most of my family has no clue at all just how far I've come. They don't understand how people make an effort for themselves to become better people. Most people do not have the will to be something more. My advice is to stay the course. You don't have to prove anything as long as YOU know. The ladies will know as well and that's all that matters.
/r/askTRP01/09/19 03:39 AM
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I see a common theme in this sub, guys not escalating when they should. Always try to be too bold rather than do nothing at all. A lot of you guys want to hangout with her a dozen different times and wait for a date or getting to her place etc. Just take the next step, if she responds well continue, if not, game some more until she either does or you see that she's not interested. When she placed her head on your shoulder I would've kissed her or at least grabbed her hand or something. Your goal…
/r/askTRP01/09/19 03:07 AM
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Lol. You know what? I really want to warn you on this one because you sound a lot like I did. Your SMV is higher, she is inexperienced and young, and you don't know her as well as you think you do. A word of caution: Make sure you know exactly what you're getting yourself into. Before being so quick to decide to promote her have sex with her first and see how she handles being a plate. That should go without saying but I'm saying it anyway. If she's inexperienced like you say then she could want…
/r/askTRP01/09/19 02:42 AM
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The more and more power given to these women, the more and more they abuse it. You've hit the nail on the head. Women won't refrain from behavior like this on their own. They only respect severe consequences. Also one of the guys commenting pointed out that the girls are just getting it from the adult women. They've taught their daughters by example that it's a viable tactic.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/19 11:36 PM
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I did think the movie was kinda wacky, especially Neil Patrick Harris and the rest of the "Nazis" but I'm specifically talking about the interactions between the main character and his girls, Denise Richards switching up on him, him not having oneitis with her but getting the other girl, being a leader, him becoming a Lt.etc. It seemed to me like he was pretty redpill. You can still find insight in a movie that was intended as a joke.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/19 10:56 PM
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I actually watched Starship Troopers for the first time just the other day on Sci-fi and coincidentally was thinking how redpilled the movie was compared to more recent ones. There's also a show on Netflix called Money Heist that proves a lot of redpill concepts as well.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/19 08:47 PM
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Try getting them to qualify themselves to you by asking them qualifying questions both directly and indirectly. Then when they do qualify reward them with positive reinforcement. Show them that they have qualities you appreciate. Slowly provide more evidence that they are "winning points" with you. That way you remain the power player while showing that you are attainable. Also don't judge any percieved weaknesses they may feel they have but reassure them instead.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 11:19 PM
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This is kinda one of those "mission first" posts I guess. Your goals are most important. If you're successful then the benefits of women and everything else are more easily available. I like your example of Newton because most just don't set their goals high enough. And many of these same men who do have high ambition give up after a while or fold after the slightest setback. The bigger the mission the greater the planning and sacrifice. I know this from experience. But beyond that, the key and …
/r/TheRedPill27/08/19 05:14 PM
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I see what you're saying but I don't believe in casual texting. I hate texting and calling anyway, just don't have the energy for it. You don't need to do all that. You shouldn't be trying to game her this way it's just not effective. It's much better to show your dominance and frame in person rather than entertain her with texts. My advice would be to drop the texting game altogether. If you need to tell her something tell her, but besides that, don't talk to her.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/19 04:58 PM
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I 100% agree. Less is always more. I tend to be extremely low investment and very low energy. And the little effort I do put in is to get her in my frame and make small plays here and there to get to the escalation part. Make her do the work. That way she is chasing you rather than the other way around. They have to be made to feel that they chose you.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/19 12:48 AM
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Personally I think the "don't shit where you eat" advice can be hit or miss. I usually don't care. However Radkin is right. She made out with you while she has a bf. And then, she made out with you again (at her place) and you still didn't try to have sex with her. You messed up by not escalating. You disappointed her.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/19 06:04 PM
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It just goes to show how weak and solipsistic they are. They believe shaming is a viable tactic towards men. Men aren't easily overcome by sticks and stones or at the very least, as emotionally susceptible as women. You can see their efforts to label men virgins, gamers, nerds, neckbeards, misogynists, etc. as what it is - a form of suppression. Instead of understanding what they're doing is futile they double down. In an arena where their perspective is challenged by opponents and scrutinized b…
/r/TheRedPill24/08/19 01:36 AM
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I spend most of my time inside 4 walls because of my allergies on spring and during the summer I got a job inside 4 walls so I barely get sun for years on end. Get them checked. Lol go outside and get some natural vitamin D then. I didn't realize laziness and apathy was a symptom of vitamin D deficiency. I feel lazy sometimes too, but I don't blame it on lack of Vitamin D. Show some science behind that.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/19 05:51 PM
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This is some redpill right here. It's also the main reason I will never commit to any one girl. I'd be willing to have many different relationships, but not with one. It's the only solution I can think of. Even when my SMV just keeps going up its STILL never enough.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/19 09:25 PM
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I met a religious girl too. She said she wanted to save herself for marriage. She had sex with me and then my friend in the same night.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/19 09:15 PM
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I agree with the whole post. I came to this same conclusion just a few years ago. I believe that the most success and fulfillment you can have is to make yourself a boss. If there is no position available make one. That's what I did.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/19 03:43 AM
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Yeah but once you get one, it's far easier to get another. Just having one girl in your back pocket gives you a safety net that makes you a little bit more confident and a lot bolder with women.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/19 03:15 AM
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That's why more men need to understand the rules. That way the paradigm CAN shift. The main problem for men right now is that women have waaay too many options while most men will settle. I believe that will soon change. In fact, I know it.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/19 03:09 AM
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Some of you will call me out of being young, well all that means is I've got more time left in my life to fail, so fuck off cucks. Uh, you're only 17 bro. And someone with such a defeatist attitude sounds more like an incel than a redpiller. You haven't hit your peak yet. Matter of fact you're so young you haven't even hit your lowest yet. You need more experience. In 2 years you'll look at your past self like "what an idiot". In 5 years you'll be so much better that the past doesn't matter to y…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/19 05:51 PM
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Sounds like you have accepted a very bitter truth. Sexual strategy is amoral and honestly women understand that. That is why men should not allow women to shame them for trying to employ their own amoral sexual strategy, such as maintaining a small harem or being a pump and dumper. What's good for the goose is good for the gander. Women won't compromise their sexual strategy they'll just try to hide it. It's about understanding the rules of the game and beating your opponent. But you'll fail if …
/r/TheRedPill18/08/19 03:07 AM
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The fact that she has a boyfriend doesn't mean anything. If she mentions him pretend like she never said anything or generally downplay it. She doesn't care. She'll be less likely to cheat on an alpha than a beta, but if it's the right guy at the right time she'll cheat regardless. Boyfriends are not a factor.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/19 01:12 AM
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Hyperdetailed delayed cloaked revenge and payback are a twisted pleasure. Like Law Abiding Citizen and John Wick, "kill everything if you are wronged" is a seductive solution in my fucked up little existence. I feel the same way. I embrace that part of me though.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/19 06:33 PM
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This post reminds me of those silly inspirational quotes I see on social media. I guess I need more than just the knowledge to get girls, I need soul! I need passion! Look buddy, the only thing that matters is knowledge and experience. Then there's the application of it which is wisdom. I agree that you need to apply what you learn, but let's not get carried away with all the touchy-feely soul and passion crap.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/19 09:00 PM
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I can't stand these conservative views towards women. AWALT my friend. Unless you're dealing with a low HB girl she's going to be having sex. Very rarely will you find a girl who isn't overly religious that values a low n-count. I've not seen it, at least not from hot women. Enough with the blueness. If you can find these girls you're talking about let me know, I'll be your wingman.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/19 05:37 PM
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Solid advice. Sometimes it can be hard to naturally understand how much dread or comfort to apply without any sort of feedback from her. LTR's by their very nature are somewhat beta. You're forgoing slaying all other pussy for one. I would lean on a higher percentage of passive dread over comfort for this very reason, while reassuring her every once in awhile. Especially if she knows you're high value. Gotta maintain that high status in her eyes above all else.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/19 04:24 PM
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I wholeheartedly disagree. A lot of guys here are learning but most of us aren't lying. If you believe in redpill and were applying what you're learning you'd understand that it works. Even a basic understanding of redpill would improve yourself with women. It sounds to me that YOU lack the experience to understand that. If anyone is a liar and a virgin it's you. A lot of the guys here (including myself) got force-fed the pill when women proved AWALT in some way. Just look at how many divorcees …
/r/TheRedPill14/08/19 07:55 PM
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Wow what a mess. Her "opinion" piece doesn't tie in the manosphere at all except to say "Stacy" and "Chad". Only insane people oppose feminism? That horse is so high I'm breaking my neck to look up. Feminism isn't a powerful force in our society? Then I guess her claim that all right-minded people support feminism must be bologna. Feminists are presumed to influence all government decisions, even though women are still underrepresented at every level of elected office? I guess you need to be a w…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/19 11:40 PM
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Metoo'd This phrase is hugely problematic, as it steers the conversation from women and their bodies onto men and their feelings. This. They want to control the narrative. But at the end of the day, women want to protect their own sexual strategy at all times. Women want betas to disqualify themselves while simultaneously not discouraging alphas. The problem they've run into is that the whole #Metoo movement may be scaring off betas AND some alphas. I think they realize this problem so they want…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/19 10:42 PM
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I agree that it's all about putting yourself first. That's the most of it. However there are a lot of girls out there that want you to take it a step further than that by not only putting yourself first but doing it in a way that's "savage". Then there are the girls that just want to see you be a douchebag to other people. The type of dgaf attitude that says I don't care if I'm being over-the-top mean or if you'll get offended. Generally I can't stand women like this and try to keep away because…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/19 05:00 PM
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Well, I believe that confidence comes from success. The only way to achieve success is to work, study, fail, and repeat. Eventually you'll refine yourself to the point where you fail much less often. If you're slaying then there's nothing you'll be afraid of. Approaching despite not knowing if she's interested is redpill because it shows confidence if you get rejected. However it's a whole different kind of confidence to expect women to gravitate towards YOU. Because of that I suggest you focus …
/r/TheRedPill11/08/19 09:54 PM
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He was really persistent and somehow, I figured it would be better if I just let him do it and get rid of him quickly. Interesting logic. Give that poor hamster a rest before he dies of exhaustion.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/19 07:05 PM
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I finish my cigarette and sit back on the bed and we're watching the movie again, but I can't focus on the movie. I'm looking at her and her ass and her legs. I look her over for a good 10 seconds and she knew I was looking but she keeps talking about the movie. Something's building up in me, and I'm barely paying attention to what she's saying. I'm answering "Uh huh" and "Yah" to everything she says and finally I just go for it and start rubbing her back. Funny how attraction can kill anxiety h…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/19 06:53 PM
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If you understand your SMV is high enough, then you'll start to get confused as to why you don't see clear IOIs from her. She could be shy, attached, acting indifferent, etc. Be cocky enough to just assume every girl is interested, because they probably are if your SMV is high enough.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/19 05:40 PM
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Lol. EXPOSED!! Smile, you're on Soul Camera.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/19 04:41 PM
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First, it reeks of teenage desperation and frameless lack of control. Who do you see sucking face in bars? College kids and drunks. That tells you something. Yeah I agree it's juvenile. I tend to stay as far away as I can from needy behavior so I'm glad you mentioned this. I'd like to see more posts like this because the first thing I started to do when trying to figure out the game was to eliminate silly mistakes like this. It's easier to gain confidence and experience when you're not shooting …
/r/TheRedPill08/08/19 05:59 PM
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I see your point. However in this current SMP having sex before committment is pretty common. A woman needs to offer more than just sex though to get that commitment. I think it's fair for both sides. Betas struggle to get laid, girls struggle to get committment from high value guys. Besides, this girl in the post is rare. Many young girls don't want committment either.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/19 07:16 AM
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It comes down to personal preference. I've known some guys who didn't like smokers but personally It doesn't matter to me at all really. I honestly can't understand what the big deal is. This post didn't really make a compelling argument for me.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/19 02:04 PM
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I am fairly certain she was about to tell me to come to her place, but didn't finish. Should've playfully pushed on this to try to determine her true feelings ie: whether she was not yet comfortable taking the next step or more likely just putting up resistance like she was the whole night. I turned around and started walking to my car, thinking she would just walk towards me and submit to the frame I thought I still had (which I didn't). Too much pull. She has her own ego to consider. Running b…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/19 06:04 PM
6

I have a hard time believing this one. Even though we've seen plenty of stories like this. But I doubt you'll find too many girls with this much self-awareness about why the are or are not attracted to a guy. Maybe I don't get fireworks when we kiss because he freely kisses me all the time without making me work for it. Maybe my heart doesn't flutter when he texts because I know he'll always text back without making me wait for hours on end. Maybe I don't constantly think about him and crave his…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/19 01:19 PM
5

Stop being reactive and and in "fair" mode -- she won't play fair either, you have to be proactive and cold. That's exactly right. This point reminds me of that Michelle Obama quote: "When they go low we go high". As much as I love her it's the totally wrong approach. The problem with "low people" is that they don't respect people who take the moral high ground. If they did, then they wouldn't be low people in the first place. If you actually want to beat these kinds of people you have to do so …
/r/TheRedPill31/07/19 05:15 PM
6

True but right now the top 20% needs to be around 40%
/r/TheRedPill30/07/19 03:32 PM
2

I thought it was obvious what he was talking about. I tend to not bother with small details as long as the point is understood: Game > Looks. Most of us agree that looks are important which some of us mentioned. You wouldn't be wrong in correcting his use of definitions though.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/19 09:09 PM
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Those are some pretty well known points. However I would be remiss to not acknowledge the effect of "outer game". Overall I agree with you but it should be noted that being very tall (especially being very tall) and/or good looking and muscular gets you most of the way there, even if your game isn't totally on point. I'm not that tall but I tend to take advantage of good looks to get my foot in the door. Women do want alpha men but those behaviors aren't immediately noticeable sometimes. So you …
/r/TheRedPill28/07/19 10:52 PM
1

I agree somewhat. You shouldn't really care, and that resonated with me because when I really think about it, I didn't care at all at the time. I also agree that dread is effective. However what has made me a little more cautious when it comes to committing isn't necessarily my resources but my love and feelings being taken for granted. It's very hard to determine when a woman loves you for you. Without any kind of bond with an LTR the relationship is completely pointless imo. She may as well be…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/19 03:41 PM
1

I need more reflection on some of these. You may be right that men may not know what they want due to a number of external factors such as feminism. However it is far easier to understand what a man DOESN'T want. I think most vetting starts from identifying red flags or other negative behaviors as a baseline. I like #7. It's better not to be a control freak and just sit back and observe. It's far easier to understand what a person wants to do when they do it. Let them show their hand. See if the…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/19 05:00 PM
1

Not a fan of so-called chivalry. Help a person out who truly needs help. Like you said women don't usually need help with stuff like that, and it definitely shouldn't be used as an expression of interest. She won't care, high value or not. If anything she'll look down on you. Fuck that. Also don't be so quick to give away free attention.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/19 10:12 PM
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If you just shut up she'll do all the talking for you. Only talk to "segway" the conversation into different topics or have her elaborate on the same one. If she even bothers shifting the conversation towards you then you can be vague about your response and quickly redirect. Just keep her talking and you really won't have to think about being mysterious. But OP is spot on when you DO need to speak.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/19 10:47 PM
55

What I get out of this story is how women are so impatient. Here you have an ex-wife and OP who are making decent money, but it is never enough for the wife. Women these days are not willing to grow into their marriage/relationship. If she stayed with him she likely would have gotten the things she complained she didn't have. Even then, she probably wouldn't have been satisfied. The point is women are too impatient to grind, go through ups and downs, and build with their partners. Be wary of imp…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/19 06:01 PM
3

This one in particular had me reading over lines a bit. I agree though, I've always felt his concepts need to be a little more concrete rather than so abstract. The solution is to substitute mind-bending verbiage for their definitions, at least for the first time explanations.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/19 02:30 AM
15

Everyone tends to treat you with more respect, both men and women. That's the biggest difference I notice.
/r/askTRP16/07/19 09:08 PM
5

I disagree. I don't get the impression that he's bragging about anything. I do agree that he could have tied in a better reason for spinning plates in the first place. He understands abundance and is trying to keep away from oneitis by continuing to replace his plates. I'm sure a lot if guys here have rejected girls trying to come back. Yeah you could smash again but that's only if the cost/benefit ratio is one that's worth it. Stop pedalizing the pussy bro, it ain't that serious. But, yeah I do…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/19 09:02 PM
6

I guess you're just the man huh? Now, tell me how many guys have fucked your bitch over the years?
/r/TheRedPill12/07/19 10:30 PM
8

Good post. Personally I get so much amusement from the entirely wrong judgments people make about me. I'm constantly trying to hold in my laughter as I'm thinking "if only you knew". I don't try to correct them either. One reason is because it's too much work even if I wanted to. Another reason is when someone finds out a detail about myself that they totally misunderstood, the reaction is far greater than had they known already. This is power.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/19 11:07 PM
6

Eh I've been reading this subreddit for some time and I don't get that impression. Perhaps (and I can't believe I'm saying this) read the sidebar. There is plenty of information there and plenty of posts here that explains the "product" pretty well. Plus you don't have to pay a cent.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/19 03:53 PM
0

OP would probably feel differently if he wasn't thinking about 200 lb. Billy spending all day on his PC. For SOME of us, video games are fun and in my case, a challenge. I need constant intellectual stimulation and I get that playing my games among other things. Now from a redpill perspective I get you. You need social skills, not wasting time etc etc. Find a girl who likes games too. In my experience it's never been an issue with a girl where she said "ew he plays video games?" They're fine wit…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/19 02:39 AM
34

We're working on it. It sucks because it makes me feel some type of way about my mother. Most people go on about how much they love their moms but here I am without those same feelings.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/19 10:38 PM
194

Listen well. Women take pleasure in trying to keep a man down. They do so just because they love the feeling. In my opinion it is the most evil and dangerous aspect of women. For example, my father worked a really laborious job and started going to the chiropractor for his back. I advised him to find another job and he agreed. He told me he was already giving out his resume. There were a few jobs he wanted, including his number one choice which would make him a lot more money. The job offers nev…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/19 05:58 PM
2

Nice. This guy wisely understood something all men should know - pussy ain't shit.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/19 10:48 PM
1

People like Heartiste lack the subtlety and power to get his message across in a way that people other than redpillers can listen to without being attacked by feminists both male and female alike. I have that power, so just wait while I finally take the secret out of secret societies.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/19 11:00 PM
1

Typical right-wing BS. Tucker Carlson? You're joking right?
/r/TheRedPill10/05/19 10:40 PM
2

Nice post. Women will find fault with you on even the tiniest of details. My baby mama rationalizes it as "Women see flaws in men easier." This occurs despite all the good traits that had her into you in the first place. In one meaningless area where she perceives you to be lacking she finds in another guy, she'll momentarily perceive him to be better despite all the other traits he lacks.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/19 11:02 PM
12

I went from family and church brainwashing to atheist to gnostic believer. I still don't see how people can just blindly believe whatever they hear and read, but I have come to understand the truth. Stay on the path.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/19 10:44 PM
8

Underrated comment. In all the situations where I really do well with women I've never had to try too hard. The SMV and swagger is almost always good enough by itself. I feel that game is used to maintain or even improve upon that initial attraction. But SMV is everything.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/19 10:53 PM
2

I agree with you feminism is definitely affecting the SMP. Their imperative is power and control without worry of consequences. Hypergamy is destructive. However, feminists still crave alpha traits no matter how much they squeal. Does the feminist movement really affect YOU personally? How many girls have you missed out on? The feminist movement will lose power when people - particularly strong men - call them out for their deception. As I said it's about power and control, and limiting the amou…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/19 01:51 AM
3

I hate feminist ideology. Feminists values are left-leaning, but please don't try to lump us all in neat little boxes like you conservatives tend to do. Don't confuse feminist ideology with liberalism as an ideology. You fail to understand the basic premise of liberalism. What I hope to achieve is to allow everyone the same opportunity. What you do with that opportunity is up to you. Either use it or squander it. No one should be deprived of basic human rights or anything less than their neighbo…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/19 01:37 AM
24

As a red-pilled man I want to take this opportunity to voice my displeasure about the simple correlation of Liberal = Beta SJW, cuck, etc., and Conservative = Chad, strong etc. While I can't stand the left's constant sense of victimhood, I really can't stand the right-wing supremacy that goes on in this subreddit. Men with alpha traits come all along the spectrum of right and left. In my experience righties tend to be no-nonsense and rigid, but usually not too bright. (No offense). But from a re…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 11:52 PM
6

This doesn't surprise me at all. I have gotten hit on or received IOIs from fat women, super skinny women, cougars, HB2s and 3s, and even old women. And I mean granny old. They all flirt seemingly without any awareness of their own value compared to a high value man. That's what women do and they'll literally believe they actually have a chance because they're a "nice girl"
/r/TheRedPill25/03/18 09:32 PM
1

Absolutely agree. Personally I could give a damn about how women feel about me and will readily point out their hypocrisies. Here's my favorite post from that Twitter post: To all the guys getting overly sensitive about this. Relax. Its just a sentiment as all women have had at least one negative experience with a male. Tho, you could always try to become better people. There is that too. Tho self-reflection doesn’t seem to be a strong suit. 🤷‍♀️ She believes that men struggle with self-reflecti…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/18 09:11 PM
6

Absolutely agree. Personally I could give a damn about how women feel about me and will readily point out their hypocrisies. Here's my favorite post from that Twitter post: To all the guys getting overly sensitive about this. Relax. Its just a sentiment as all women have had at least one negative experience with a male. Tho, you could always try to become better people. There is that too. Tho self-reflection doesn’t seem to be a strong suit. 🤷‍♀️ She believes that men struggle with self-reflecti…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/18 09:10 PM
6

Same here. The insight is strong on this poster
/r/TheRedPill15/02/18 09:02 PM
9

I'm not sure about that. The thing I recognize with so called feminists is their tendency to grab power and hang on to it. What they really want, is to have the freedom to do what they want, and have sex with whoever they want, without giving up anything in return. They want control. If they sense they're losing control in any way, they lash out. That's how you get women in relationships with men who have beta traits, for example.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/18 12:49 AM
2

One day
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