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Pretty spot on except my ex wife accused me of cheating while she was actually cheating and physically assaulted me multiple times even though I never laid a hand on her. I’m the one who finally grew the pair and left the marriage but to this day she fully feels justified because “I cheated”. I never cheated….she was so paranoid of any possible communication between me and another female….said two words to another mom to be polite at the park while our kids were literally playing together and my…
/r/Divorce_Men26/11/25 01:20 AM
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If my STBXW starts dating anytime soon I’m just going to hand the guy a life jacket. Maybe one day he’ll understand.
/r/Divorce_Men31/10/25 08:18 AM
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Forgot to switch to your alt
/r/Divorce_Men30/10/25 08:14 PM
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Get out before you have children because once you have children and want to divorce you’re in for a shared custody for life situation.
/r/Divorce_Men30/10/25 08:05 PM
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I’m struggling with similar feelings however I’m in a domestic violence situation where my wife has absolutely attacked me multiple times including in front of our child. My main concern is that in life after divorce she becomes increasingly angry and impatient with our child when she has custody and I have no way of knowing if my child will be the next victim of her explosive outburst. I know it’s probably unlikely to obtain with the current system but I am going for full custody or at least he…
/r/Divorce_Men30/10/25 04:05 AM
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Damn that’s probably spot on assumption and that’s crazy to think that people like that exist.
/r/Divorce_Men27/10/25 07:10 PM
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I’m thankful that she is so young hopefully I can get out of this abusive marriage and get at least 50/50 and provide her with a safe home and she won’t really ever remember me and her mom “being together”.
/r/Divorce_Men27/10/25 05:22 PM
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Definitely not trying to use her as an excuse to contact STBXW it’s clear in my texts that I’m “minimally” checking in to get some FaceTime calls. Daughter is a toddler so no phone yet but my thought in the future is to buy her an Apple Watch with cellular and let her use that to contact me via calls or talk to text if she needs me until she is if she I want to give her a phone.
/r/Divorce_Men27/10/25 04:48 PM
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The “fun times” disappeared a while ago my friend. There are zero light jokes. Any joke I make is somehow received as an insult that results in a tantrum from her and the only “jokes she makes” are verbal insults calling me a “fat piece of shit etc” in front of my daughter. When I’m gone for work, I can barely FaceTime my daughter without her, somehow flipping it into an argument and berating me on the phone in front of her. Living in my house with her is something I’m only doing to keep my daug…
/r/Divorce_Men27/10/25 03:39 PM
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If you have insurance go find a therapist in person. Mines only $30 a session. Best money I’ve ever spent. I had to go through a few to find one who I feel actually gets what I’m saying and has good things to say to help me work through it. It sucks switching therapist especially after a handful of sessions when you feel like you’ve got to start all over again but trust me having the “wrong therapist” is far worse than taking the time to find the right one. I don’t mean wrong as in doesn’t agree…
/r/Divorce_Men25/10/25 11:38 AM
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Thanks for the reassurance. I think it’s the only way to start out ahead and hit her with a freight train divorce that blows the doors off of anything she sees coming. She literally thinks I’m having an affair with another woman and that’s why I want a divorce…in reality I want to get as far away from any woman entering my life again for a long time. Kinda hilarious to me that she is so delusional she thinks “there’s no way Hees leaving me because I’m a danger to our child’s safety and violently…
/r/Divorce_Men25/10/25 03:09 AM
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I’ll never marry again. I don’t care if I actually do get back on my feet and meet someone worth living with. A legal Marriage is absolutely never happening again. I’ll roll solo and just spend time with my daughter.
/r/Divorce_Men24/10/25 09:32 PM
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Seriously, my wife blew $48,000 on designer clothes and ridiculous furniture without my approval or consent and she thinks I’m the bad guy because I “ask her for minimal money to help pay bills….including the debt consolidation loan I took out to keep us from going bankrupt” $2,000 over two years and he bought something like an air purifier to help keep the house clean included in that purchase is nothing. It’s not like he bought a car and kept it in a storage unit without telling her for weeken…
/r/Divorce_Men24/10/25 04:31 PM
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Wow dude. I’m so glad you fought to no end and got custody. I’m hoping to do the same thing. In the process of filing now. This morning she made a comment about “you’re not allowed to go potty with daddy that’s inappropriate” when we are literally potty training and I’m helping her learn what that is. (I’m in no way showing myself to her or anything). I’m scared she’s going to make false accusations just like you went through as soon as I serve her and begin this battle for my life in court. I’m…
/r/Divorce_Men24/10/25 04:01 PM
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To me she called a therapist ahead and spilled her “story” and when we met he was clearly manipulated into favoring her side thinking she was the victim and he basically told me I needed to cut off my family (parents and siblings) and focus on my marriage and I actually believed that shit would work when in reality my family has been trying to open my eyes and get me to get out and be free and she plotted to cut them out of my life. Wild. Also about the humor the only time she has laughed in the…
/r/Divorce_Men24/10/25 03:56 PM
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My wife spent over $40,000 on ridiculous purchases like $600 faucets (ours were absolutely fine and even if broken you can buy one for $100 or less at Lowe’s) $6,000 in dining room furniture that nobody ever sees, $4,000 on a dresser for a toddler…I could go on. All while claiming I don’t provide enough with my job and that me asking her to even pay $1,000 a month to help pay for our bills and child’s education is “stealing food from her mouth” In her mind every single purchase she made was logi…
/r/Divorce_Men24/10/25 02:13 PM
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I like that last part. I’m learning that together we can keep hope alive and help others…possibly help them get out before it’s too late but a lot of us are indeed absolutely fucked.
/r/Divorce_Men24/10/25 02:08 PM
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Thanks for the input. You’re right it’s absolutely war and that’s why I said “I find it funny now that I even had those thoughts about trying to be civil” I’ve got many many recordings of her hitting me and continuously showering me with spitting in front of my daughter. I’ve got my daughter on recording in a clearly candid conversation without me asking anything…we’re sitting coloring and she says “mommy scary” or “mommy loud”while my wife is upstairs slamming drawers without me even mentioning…
/r/Divorce_Men24/10/25 01:15 PM
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My wife kept saying over and over “I’m tired of doing this I want to quit counseling” she finally quit coming and the therapist basically said “she refuses to change while you continue to work on yourself” I took that as “good luck friend”. I’m in the process of filing now.
/r/Divorce_Men23/10/25 09:23 PM
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Women slowly close us off from anyone they think lets us see healthy relationships. Easier for them to get away with things when we’re isolated from “normal” relationships.
/r/Divorce_Men23/10/25 09:21 PM
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