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I would encourage you to think about how many men you have ever known who changed - really - for a woman. Red pill ideology doesn't comport with respecting women. I was just watching a video today about how women trick themselves into believing they can change men. https://youtu.be/Jn_osJgYnfs?si=J3FKuu54VOnhhBKg I suppose I would ask you: how does he treat you well? Has he ever really sacrificed anything for you? Does he value your opinions or take your advice? How does he usually speak about r…
/r/ExRedPill20/05/26 11:44 PM
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REALLY bad. Please have enough self respect to dump him like immediately. Men do not respond to ultimatums IME, they respond to ACTION. If you give him an ultimatum, he will simply turn to the red pill for answers on how to subvert your efforts. Please research "dread game." You are too good for this bc everyone is too good for this shit.
/r/ExRedPill20/05/26 09:22 PM
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Having your negative worldview validated isn't what you want to do. It's the opposite. I wish there was a program for people trying to disentangle themselves from the red pill bc the truth is, it does significant damage and it's very hard to tackle that negative feedback loop on your own: it's like it wears a rut into your brain. I would highly recommend EMDR therapy.
/r/ExRedPill16/05/26 12:26 PM
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The right mocks people on the left - women and men- and everything from their physical appearance to their children is fair game. Unfortunately, the American populace votes in large part based on "who do I think is less of a pussy harr harr" and I think perhaps AOC is trying to employ their own strategy against one of their worst actors. The "be kind" approach isn't working. If anything, it's kneecapping the left and instead of getting and wielding anything remotely resembling "power" (which is …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/10/25 05:27 PM
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Disagreeing isn't an attempt to "control the narrative." What an utterly ridiculous thing to say. I can sense you have a really big problem with having your ideas challenged. You should spend more time developing your beliefs, using the Socratic method on yourself and crafting better arguments for defending said beliefs as opposed to whatever this was. You replied to a comment I made a month ago, then accuse me of trying to "control the narrative?" Grow up.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/10/25 08:28 AM
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Most MRA's "adore" them bc they just parrot MRA talking points. Is this comment a joke?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/09/25 03:49 PM
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You're talking about women. I'm talking about families bc women do not have children in a vacuum. You're talking abt a world that doesn't even exist anymore. I do health care informatics for the geriatric population in the US, and the fact of the matter is that most children do not care for their elderly parents for a plethora of valid reasons. Statistically, when they do, the burden falls on the women in the family, even when they have a lot of other responsibilities. Your point about farming a…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/09/25 07:42 AM
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this
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/09/25 01:23 PM
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"Society" is having fewer children bc FAMILIES have more children when children ADD to the financial health the family, and few to none when they are a financial drain. This has been true in every society. The US has followed this trajectory, just like developing countries have and are.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/09/25 01:22 PM
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Reason # 999,999,991 I believe AA/NA are complete bullshit & leave most people worse off than they were in the long run.
/r/ExRedPill20/09/25 05:17 PM
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Try to just be friends with some women & don't look at it as being "friendzoned." That term is incredibly toxic. The way to become more attractive to women is to be more natural around them, understand them more, etc., and having real, meaningful friendships with women is a good way to do that. Sometimes, a relationship can form out of a friendship. That should not be the expectation, and you should never, ever fake a friendship with someone just bc you're hoping it will become a romantic relati…
/r/ExRedPill12/09/25 05:39 PM
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I would counter that you have to admit that a person who trolls thru someone's post history and fails to mention that one of their target's most recent comments was going tf off on a woman for emotionally manipulating her bf. This kind of policing, where people try this "guilt by association" nonsense up to the point where they even ban people simply for commenting in a "no-no" sub is censorial gestapo -esque bullshit that further divides people. Thanks for illustrating why people now lock down …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/09/25 04:27 PM
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Nothing you said here negates what I said. If you notice, I didn't say she wasn't a CIA asset but we know the work she did in the CIA and it wasn't feminism. Honestly, I'm a little curious as to what she did regarding feminism in the 1970's that you find objectionable. Typically the argument here is that it's modern, third wave LibFem's you have an issue with unless I'm misreading things. If you're just painting all of feminism with the same broad brush it just looks more and more like your avg …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/09/25 02:23 PM
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Well yeah it's never sold that way bc the public likely wouldn't accept it. It's prioritizing the rich over everyone else via "liberalization" of the economy. I mean Keynesian economics would be considered "far left" to these people in a lot of respects.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/09/25 06:00 PM
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I equate neoliberalism with Milton Friedman, Arthur Harberger, The Chicago School, & the ensuing Chilean coup & eventual economic structuring by the "Chicago Boys."
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/09/25 05:39 PM
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That wouldn't be my definition of neoliberalism at all. Neoliberalism is far more pro-austerity while perhaps prioritizing what few govt programs there are based on identity but the driving force is to eliminate these programs as much as possible.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/09/25 03:35 PM
1

Hillary Clinton isn't really a super great avatar of feminism. A lot of the complaints on this sub stem from the embrace of neoliberalism and how it's infected every facet of society, particularly in the US & that includes feminism. When women like myself who care about men, and men's issues come into this sub we are routinely shouted down, down voted to oblivion, etc. unless we basically prostrate ourselves and that's not a very productive way to do politics, or anything else.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/09/25 02:05 PM
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The Dems are a mostly center-right party
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/09/25 02:02 PM
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No, they didn't. Gloria Steinem's work in the CIA was literally going to other countries to subvert communist movements- I don't agree with it but it wasnt feminism & it wasn't here. What was so objectionable about Steinem's work on the 60-90's? It's one thing to reject the excesses of third wave feminism, but when you reject it all out of hand it just makes this sound like another reactionary men's rights sub.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/09/25 10:59 AM
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The entire "chemical imbalance" idea has been widely debunked. The problem is the content, full stop.
/r/ExRedPill23/08/25 01:17 PM
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You don't suffer from a "chemical imbalance bc of porn addiction." You suffer from porn addiction which absolutely affects the way you view women. It is going to take serious intention from you to break out of this mentality, and possibly even CBT or IMO even better, EMDR. Depending on when you stumbled upon "the red pill" or in other words how young you were when you started listening to this crap + when you started watching porn & what kind of porn, these thought patterns have become like well…
/r/ExRedPill23/08/25 01:15 PM
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It's not propaganda at least not in the US. Young women are outperforming and out-earning young men. Lots of younger men are classified as NEET's now. Unfortunately, a lot of young guys are blaming all the wrong people for this.
/r/ExRedPill23/08/25 12:32 PM
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Men like Shannon Sharpe don't WANT high earning women - they prefer to just have a lot of casual sex with multiple very specific types of women. Most women don't make that much and there are a lot of reasons for that, but women are beginning to make as much and even out earn men- and men hate it.
/r/ExRedPill22/08/25 02:35 PM
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Men usually don't want to date women who make more than them. When I met my now husband he literally made $10/hr when I was making $100k. He makes more now than I did when we met but I'm still the primary breadwinner. You need to log off and go outside
/r/ExRedPill22/08/25 02:22 PM
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Advice I have someone else regarding this last week: https://www.reddit.com/r/exredpill/s/sDOxCDbSLb
/r/ExRedPill09/08/25 05:09 AM
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Hey man I just saw this and I am so happy my comment helped. My husband was really insecure about his flaccid penis all bc some asshole in the locker room said something insulting to him about it (so stupid). He finally came around on it after years of me emphatically explaining to him that women know any basic anatomy and I know deep down he believes me now but...man, I'd love to go back in a time machine and slap that guy lol. I wish you and your girlfriend a lot of love and luck!
/r/ExRedPill09/08/25 01:28 AM
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A ton of the "passport bros" are black men tho.
/r/ExRedPill07/08/25 02:17 PM
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Women don't care abt what your flaccid dick looks like. If we like you we think it looks just kind of adorable - and that's a good thing. Signed, - A woman
/r/ExRedPill05/08/25 11:06 PM
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There are no "good" guys...and Democrats are still the better option olof the two parties. Based on the list you provided here, it seems like you've sorta drunk the kool-aid on a bunch of right wing talking points - and 80% of them are complete fucking bullshit. "States rights" - really, like in Ohio & Missouri where the people voted to make abortion legal and the GOP in both States is working to subvert the wishes of the electorate? "to keep tyranny in check" ...yeah, that's working out great. …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/08/25 08:39 PM
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So then don't advertise that part of yourself. Get to know women, and let them get to know you over time. Join your local community theater, or a film club, take a cooking class, etc. Find hobbies that you're interested in and engage in them and you will find "like minded" women. It may feel awkward at first. It may even be awkward at first but you will refine your social skills.
/r/ExRedPill02/08/25 11:40 PM
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We used to have a "better" economy and no billionaires and there were still people that needed benefits. I didn't insinuate there wasn't more to worry about. There is. I can know that and simultaneously know that the right wing has nothing to really offer regular people, men and women alike.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/08/25 11:06 PM
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I mean....I think it can be both lol. Regardless, we're in full agreement there. Seeing the meltdown over Sydney Sweeney, it's going to be hard until/unless those of us on the left start loudly telling these idiots to fuck off. They despise white men, and a lot of them hate white women only slightly less.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/08/25 09:41 PM
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If anything the red pill has done for men, I believe it has created a doom cycle of loneliness, bitterness and anger. It's really depressing.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/08/25 08:46 PM
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Most of the "women's orgs" are not "conservative" and are generally not fucking with Trump.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/08/25 08:42 PM
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What did she say that negates that fact? I've learned this isn't a popular message here, but there are women who came to this sub because we do care about men. We have men in our lives who we love, but most days this sub is barely distinguishable from any other men's rights or "MGTOW" sub. I want to have open, serious discussion and figure out how best to move forward for all people, men and women. Unfortunately, every time I get into a discussion here it feels like I'm essentially told I need t…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/08/25 08:41 PM
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But they are "better." Objectively. They're better for all the men who will be kicked off Medicaid and SNAP through no fault of their own, just like the men who would've benefited ENORMOUSLY from student loan forgiveness but the GOP swiftly put a stop to that. I get being angry at Democrats, but pretending the two parties are the same is totally ahistorical. Most men, and most people for that matter are drowning economically and the GOP and Trump have and ensured that trajectory will not just co…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/08/25 08:35 PM
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There are loads of unattractive men with partners and wives. Women are human beings. The red pill has completely cooked this generation.
/r/ExRedPill30/07/25 08:06 AM
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This
/r/ExRedPill30/07/25 08:03 AM
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Stop listening to red pill or even red pill adjacent content. Join groups IRL. I don't care if you have to join a church volunteer group but do something - anything - where you are interacting with people IRL.
/r/ExRedPill30/07/25 08:03 AM
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It wasn't first wave feminism bc that wasn't what "first wave" feminism was about. Rockefeller may have funded certain feminist ideas, but that doesn't mean that the feminist thinkers who created those ideas were wrong. Some women want to work and should be able to. Women shouldn't be forced into financial dependent for survival and being threatened by that is weird.
/r/MensRights21/07/25 12:36 AM
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White women aged 18-35 actually shifted left. Millennial women didn't shift right, either.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/07/25 10:59 PM
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Physical therapists still do pretty well with pretty much guaranteed employment
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/07/25 02:28 PM
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That is definitely true. I wish there was more recognition of that all around.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/07/25 05:54 PM
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Idk I see men calling beautiful women "mid" online constantly so I don't think it's really fair to say the beauty standards are really just being enforced by women.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/07/25 04:31 PM
1

Idk I remember a red pill forum like 10 yrs ago where one of the main contributors talked regularly abt how his wife and daughter were literal prisoners/slaves. Even Patrice Williams (as funny as he was) had some incredibly misogynist takes and toxic relationship advice for men. It obviously came from a place of deep hurt but that doesn't justify it.
/r/ExRedPill08/07/25 03:45 PM
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That's not really a fair comparison. The woman in this scenario would have to be complaining about how she doesn't fit into male beauty standards AND talking about how men suck, and they're inferior actually, and should perhaps lose their ability to vote.....and then multiply that across hundreds of thousands of men, all over the world, all across the internet.
/r/ExRedPill05/07/25 03:18 PM
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Which is really, all the sign is nudging men toward doing.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/07/25 09:44 PM
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OK and? Now he has. I can tell you as a woman who is very happily married for over a decade & more madly in love than ever - you will not find a truly "good man" you mesh with until /unless you enforce strict boundaries and having heinous views like the repugnant red pill ass bullshit your bf has indulged in should not be acceptable to you. What good are your left wing principles if you can't even push back on someone in interpersonal relationships? I'm not saying this to be mean or bitchy but s…
/r/ExRedPill04/05/25 01:08 AM
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This
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/04/25 11:09 AM
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🎯
/r/ExRedPill19/04/25 05:58 PM
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Of course not. Who tf wants to be around someone like that?
/r/ExRedPill19/04/25 02:14 PM
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Thank you for this.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/04/25 06:48 PM
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For the same reason a man wouldn't necessarily just leave for a more attractive woman, or a woman who is more ___________________ (fill in the blank with whatever) than their current wife/girlfriend. Maybe you are projecting - maybe YOU know that if you were in a relationship, you'd drop whomever you were with at the first sign of being able to "get" someone "better." The problem is, you're discounting how important intimacy, and love, and feeling like you're with "your person," is. When you rea…
/r/ExRedPill08/04/25 07:26 PM
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Isn't that an argument for working toward a real, cooperative left wing politic aimed at workers? What is the alternative?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/04/25 04:32 PM
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He was never really "ok." He's always been a right winger, he's just totally off the rails now. On top of that, you were younger and probably less adept with media literacy than you are now that you're older and wiser.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/04/25 04:24 PM
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I'm sure a lot more people find you attractive than you realize.
/r/ExRedPill06/04/25 12:32 AM
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Definitely not reading all that but to answer your question both sexes have value because they are human beings. Women give life men have superior physical strength. The problem is when the sexes try to paint themselves as superior or that one needs to lead the other
/r/ExRedPill04/04/25 08:04 PM
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Do you women don't KNOW why men are drawn to TRP? We do & you LITERALLY just restated them. So no, women aren't "popping off" or even assuming internal motivations. A lot of it is obvious but a lot of us have read, listened, and in a lot of cases literally have watched it fucking happen. It seems like you still have some hang ups abt women, and you don't see them as quite as fully, equally human as you aka men.
/r/ExRedPill01/04/25 04:28 PM
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MDMA would prob be a better/safer bet. IMO
/r/ExRedPill01/04/25 04:25 PM
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No. If not losing the relationship becomes more important to you than say, a partner that respects women and sees them as fully and equally human, then you will accept less than you deserve, which will ultimately cause him to respect you less, and treat you worse. Rinse and repeat.
/r/ExRedPill24/03/25 10:50 PM
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I have known several OBESE men who were absolutely hilarious/ had terrific personalities that were able to have a decent amount of sex, and yes, get into relationships with fairly attractive women. I'm not saying it isn't harder, or that it's the norm but it's common enough that I've personally known at least 5-7 off the top of my head.
/r/ExRedPill24/03/25 04:37 PM
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Except it would be connecting to women specifically, but to the specific women you're referring to. I'll use it in a sentence: "It was considered by most people to be the seedy side of town, notorious for men involved in various types of crime, and loose and immoral women." Anyone who reads that sentence and sees an indictment of all women or all men, then they are basically choosing to disregard all our previously held conventions regarding the English language. It's obvious what is meant by it…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/03/25 04:01 PM
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Gross.
/r/ExRedPill24/03/25 03:57 PM
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That goes right back to my original point that I've known tons of fat guys that were able to get women. I know it might be hard to believe, but having your body used as a masturbation device isn't the same as anything resembling intimacy. It's no different than being used for anything else, like for example your wallet. If a beautiful woman "lets" a hideous man spend a bunch of money on her, is she doing something nice for the man? I'd say no. It's no different for a man "letting" a fat woman su…
/r/ExRedPill24/03/25 03:57 PM
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If I had to guess, I'd say it's most likely the latter. I see a lot of guys in this sub, or on askmen, asking flat out if it's hypocritical for them to not want to date an overweight woman when they themselves are fat. Based on what I hear men saying, I think there may be a misconception about what it's really like dating for women. Going on the apps. it's easy to see why women appear to have this crazy advantage but the fact is, just bc a fat chick has a bunch of men swipe right, that doesn't =…
/r/ExRedPill24/03/25 12:53 PM
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It's been sorta life hanging for me, I must admit. Happy to pass along
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/03/25 11:26 PM
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Well that's the complete opposite of my experience. I have known plenty of "cool, funny, fat guys" who were able to get women for both sex and relationships. Conversely, most of the fat women I've known were mostly just passed around for BJ's or got in relationships with men who basically used them until they were able to find "better." I'm sure there were exceptions to the "rule" along the way, but it was a difference distinct enough to me that I def noticed it, and so have lots of people.
/r/ExRedPill23/03/25 11:25 PM
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Paste the link into removepaywall.com
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/03/25 08:25 PM
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I would consider myself a feminist in that I believe in full equality of opportunity for both sexes, including the opportunity to live ones life as they wish (as long as they aren't hurting anyone else, and no, I don't agree with conservatives that men should take on "traditional" gender roles. The idea that male children should be expected to "protect the house" (and that's not just abt protecting women and girls, I'd argue it's mostly about protecting personal property) is fucking sick. I don'…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/03/25 08:21 PM
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Kinda makes the resurgence of the word "Zio" from supposed progressives all the more interesting.
/r/ExRedPill23/03/25 07:59 PM
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That's not remotely comparable. Does the term "immoral women" indicate ALL women are immoral? Nope. Does "overbearing partner" indicate all partners are "overbearing? Nah. People sometimes use the term "toxic femininity" & while I don't think it's a very useful phrase, never in my life have I seen a single person take it to mean that all "feminine" traits = toxic. If I say someone gave you a "backhanded compliment" does that call into question every compliment you've ever received? Or are you fa…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/03/25 07:49 PM
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Interesting that it's only this PHRASE that suffers from this problem where the adjective descriptor is taken to mean that all examples of the thing being described fall under said descriptor.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/03/25 07:08 PM
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I don't think that's necessarily true. I have seen lots of people go to great lengths to try to explain that no, it doesn't mean that masculinity in and of itself is "toxic," but the response was always the same : that putting the word "toxic" in front of it, they were demonizing the entire concept of masculinity. It's circular logic and there's not much you can do to defeat it if you're audience isn't really hearing it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/03/25 02:11 PM
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The white working class in general is a pretty fucked, not least bc so many fucking idiots have a vested interest in a) testing out their asinine "luxury beliefs" on them & b) by lumping them in with what are actually their class oppressors and "otherizing" them. Is it any wonder they're pissed about both?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/03/25 02:09 PM
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This
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/03/25 02:05 PM
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I'm a "career woman." When I met my now-husband, he made $12/hr to my $85-$90k. 15 years later, I am still the breadwinner, although he makes more now than I did then. We are madly in love with each other, and very happy. I know that we will be together until one of dies. I know unequivocally this man would never betray me, cheat on me, etc. and he knows the same about me. Good relationships ARE possible but keep in mind he & I met IRL, and got to know each other (however briefly) as friends fir…
/r/ExRedPill13/03/25 05:08 PM
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It's clear to me from your post that this guy did a number on you. I think you need to start on a journey unlearning some of the conditioning you may not even realize you have. Using terms like "body count," and "angry, bitter woman," etc. are indicative of internalized red pill messaging that is still very much with you, affecting how you view yourself and I imagine inspiring a lot of "negative self-talk." This guy was a misogynist jerk, and being angry about that doesn't make you a "bitter ang…
/r/ExRedPill12/03/25 04:12 PM
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The question is do they want to change? you can't change them, and if they don't want to change my best advice is to cut them off.
/r/ExRedPill11/03/25 02:24 PM
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My point wasn't that men don't enter those professions bc they are seen as "female coded." My point is those professions are valued less and thus, pay less bc they are "female-coded." I don't think individual men are maliciously choosing not to enter these professions bc they don't want to be seen as feminine. I think instead of artificially pushing for "representation," what would make a lot more sense is paying a real, middle class wage for caretaking professions in general, as that would help…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/03/25 06:10 PM
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Maybe look into SST (Social Skills Therapy). Sometimes, it takes a while before you find your people whom you "click" into place with. On top of that, if you have trouble with socializing, it may actually be that people are having a hard time getting to know the "real" you. Believe me, I know how clichê this advice sounds, but if I'm still responding meaning I'm not willing to give up on you, then maybe you shouldn't be ready to give up on yourself?
/r/ExRedPill09/03/25 04:27 PM
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This is gonna sound like I'm being derisive but I swear I'm not, so here goes: Not with that attitude you're not. Women go for unattractive guys with great personalities all the time. Granted this is not gonna happen on dating apps (which are damaging & toxic for everyone), you're going to have to do things to meet people in person. Yes, it's going to likely be painfully awkward at first, but social skills are like any skill: you have to practice.
/r/ExRedPill09/03/25 03:45 PM
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I'm not sure where you're getting that from my comment.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/03/25 03:01 PM
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I don't see a lot of feminist led protests, period. As for female-led startups being "just not as good," I'll grant you the benefit of the doubt that you're saying this purely from the perspective of a venture capitalist: if a woman led start-up does focus more on women, from the venture capitalists POV, would that necessarily be a bad thing since women are often (perhaps rightly) critiqued for rampant consumerism? So, a company geared toward women could very possibly be very profitable simply d…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/03/25 08:46 PM
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So, what is your take on the points the woman on this video makes? https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT2XNE7fG/ Edit: I don't think the choices you gave for how many feminists see men's issues or the idea of "male privilege" is representative of how most real, human women who identify as feminists really see men or men's issues. Certainly, some do but that's not the majority opinion, IRL. At least not in my experience. It's important to remember that people are hyperbolic and shitty on the Internet, and …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/03/25 07:29 PM
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I didn't mean it as an insult. He's right: it is a cultural thing. Of course it is, we are products of our culture/environment. I don't work with patients, but I do informatics and statistically, elderly single men in the US fare very badly. When they do have someone caring for them, it's often an eldest daughter but that is becoming less common and daughters are now more willing to reject the "opportunity" to care for their now dependent father if he was absent, or treated their mother poorly, …
/r/ExRedPill08/03/25 05:50 PM
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I have two sons and even if I didn't, I have men in my life I care deeply about. I care deeply about men falling behind, and feeling alienated and lonely. That's why I joined this sub. At the same time, I have been disappointed bc more often than not, a lot of the posts here blame all these problems on feminism. I think that's a very simple reading of the problem, and just buys into the narrative that is causing so much strife between the sexes. It seems like both sides are talking past each oth…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/03/25 05:24 PM
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You're going to lead a very lonely, bitter life. Even if you find 10,000 women who turn you on. Men like you are always the saddest cases in nursing homes-always the crappiest state-funded ones too.
/r/ExRedPill07/03/25 11:03 AM
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I've been with my husband for almost since 2008. We fall more deeply in love all the time. He's my best friend and the best guy I've ever known.
/r/ExRedPill07/03/25 11:01 AM
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I used to be married to a trade analyst who made high six figures, but after we got married, he turned into a super judgemental jerk who criticized everything. I ended up leaving him and fell in love with a guy who had a shit job as a glorified telemarketer making like $12/hr (this was in 2008). The difference was he had a great sense of humor, he was kind, and we just meshed incredibly well. Things were hard financially for a couple years but a lot of his problem was depression and just lack of…
/r/ExRedPill05/03/25 04:22 PM
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Do you really think that's helpful? Forgive me if I'm mistaken, but isn't this a place for people, predominantly men, to go to divulge their feelings about this, and how it's harmed them? The whole purpose is for other members to listen and possibly offer help to assist in leading them out of this ideology, not berating them. I get that TRP is terrible, hateful, dangerous and crazy making but beating people over the head like this does nothing to help and can often times backfire.
/r/ExRedPill05/03/25 04:15 PM
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I just want to point out that this "white women are the biggest recipients of DEI" I hear all the time doesn't take into account that white women are 30% of the US population. Black men, on the other hand are like 6%. Just going by the numbers, it makes sense that DEI would result in a lot of white women being employed. On top of that, it just smacks of anti-white bias, imo.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/03/25 01:12 PM
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A lot of the solutions put forth by the "party of progress" were often knee capped before they ever really started in earnest thanks to conservatives requiring half measures, or cutting funding, etc. Left wing economic policy works, and it worked here until it was dismantled by Republicans.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/03/25 01:07 PM
2

Novara Media > Ash.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/02/25 11:16 PM
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This is fucking rich coming from her
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/02/25 10:52 PM
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Have you tried signing up for things IRL that are based around your likes and interests? The apps are mostly guys anyway, and the fact is there is soooo much missing from them. Being in the presence of another person is, IMO crucial for attraction. There are definitely guys I would've never given a second look on an app, that I absolutely fell in love with IRL, and I'm sure that is true vice versa as well. I'm not ugly, and I was blessed with a nice figure but I believe the reason a lot of guys …
/r/ExRedPill23/02/25 07:37 PM
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You need to just stay away from this garbage, point blank. It seems like you're obsessed with "respect" from women - a lot of men are. It caused a LOT of issues between my now husband and I at the beginning of our relationship bc he was always talking (and ruminating) on "not being a sucker." Thankfully, after a lot of talks and yes, arguments got over this but our relationship was not all that it could have been for a years because of this. Respect is gained through having enforcing your bounda…
/r/ExRedPill19/02/25 11:49 AM
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TRP is a friend to no one. On it's face. it is quite obvious how detrimental it is to women. I am always shocked when I encounter women who were sucked in by RP thinking, but I suppose if you're young. and trying to figure out "what boys want," it sorta makes sense. One thing I realize is this: with women, once you realize there isn't a "place" for you in trp, at that point you have to make the choice to say "Fuck it," and go live your life, bc what other choice is there? Men, on the other hand,…
/r/ExRedPill18/02/25 07:05 PM
7

IME there are more men in the sub than women. I know a few yrs ago there were a few really active male members who had gone pretty far down the trp rabbit hole but found their way back. I'm not super active on here, but I know for a fact there are a lot of men in this sub.
/r/ExRedPill17/02/25 02:07 PM
13

And who is paying for OF subs?
/r/ExRedPill17/02/25 02:20 AM
5

I'd counter even more men expect their future wife to do the majority of household chores, and child rearing while working full time (as two full time incomes is what is required for most households). Meanwhile, I see posts several times a day on this site alone, and a plethora of examples of couples I know irl, where the wife or girlfriend is the primary breadwinner and overall the more responsible party in the relationship. My own husband was like this before we got married. I'm still the prim…
/r/ExRedPill17/02/25 02:02 AM
8

This entire exchange made me laugh so hard a tear just rolled down my cheek omg
/r/ExRedPill16/02/25 10:00 PM
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I'm going by metrics in education, employment and home ownership, not my personal bias. Specifically, women 18-35.
/r/ExRedPill16/02/25 08:29 PM
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It's just demonstrably untrue. Red pill podcasts use very young, classically superficial "IG model" and "OF model" types and pretend they are representative of all women when the opposite is true. You can look at women's achievement in literally every metric to see that it is women who- as a group- have their shit together. Meanwhile, young men are increasingly bitter, angry NEETS. This phenomenon has increased literally in tandem with the proliferation of TRP content. It's been horrible for men…
/r/ExRedPill16/02/25 03:55 PM
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Most conservative men in your dating pool are going to believe in red pill or at the very least, red pill adjacent ideology. What is it about conservatism that appeals to you? Do you feel one must be conservative to be a good Christian, or are there other reasons?
/r/ExRedPill10/02/25 08:32 AM
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It doesn't seem like you're really listening to what anyone is saying here. Rather than conveying any type of thoughtful consideration of other commenters points, you just keep going back to the same (I would argue faulty) line of reasoning. For one thing, women (and men) aren't a monolith, but you're speaking very much as if they are. I get it, you're shaped by your experiences and growing up with an abusive stepfather, that can really color the way a person sees the world. I think that we lear…
/r/ExRedPill11/01/25 05:38 PM
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Woman here: I don't care if you're a male model, I do not want to be bothered by strange men I dk. Period. I have always fucking hated it, and almost woman I have ever known agrees.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/24 03:09 AM
3

If there is a God, you'll die a virgin.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/24 03:06 AM
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Bc women don't like them. We find them weird, creepy and even borderline threatening. I don't want a stranger bothering me. If you want to meet women, go do activities that interest you, that way you can meet people with common interests. Tbh, I don't care how well it looked like it was going with your friend. I would bet money none of these encounters will amount to anything in the end.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/24 03:02 AM
5

"cold approach." Dude....you're still in way too deep.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/24 03:00 AM
2

The point is there has been a significant, precipitous increase in male loneliness starting around the mid-aughts and steadily increased. As I have pointed out throughout this thread, you can take two line graphs with "rise in male loneliness" and "proliferation of TRP" and lie them on top of each other and they are practically identical. I don't think that's a coincidence. A lot of this "male loneliness epidemic" is self-imposed.
/r/ExRedPill23/12/24 04:20 PM
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So basically what you're saying is that despite you admitting you're "not a big data person" and you're clearly not an expert, you "don't care" what the data say, you don't care why experts who devote their lives to this research say,.your very limited experiences are what? The gold standard? I have a hard time believing you're a woman but if you are, you have a lot.of internalized misogyny you need to work through. And if you aren't a woman? Well,.you have a lot.of.misogyny to work through. TRP…
/r/ExRedPill23/12/24 11:04 AM
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Issues with parents ≠ daddy issues. If I were dating right now (I've been with the same person since 2006), I would absolutely not trust any man for a long time simply due to the proliferation of TRP. It's everywhere and growing. I see and hear stories all the time of previously happy, normal relationships that got totally derailed thanks to trp. It's the #1 thing that's created the male loneliness epidemic. You can take a graph that shows the rise of male loneliness and the popularity of trp an…
/r/ExRedPill23/12/24 10:52 AM
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You have a lot of misogynist hang ups to work through. TRP has made ruts in your thinking you are gonna need to do a lot of work to undo.
/r/ExRedPill23/12/24 10:23 AM
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There are plenty of women DON'T find those traits attractive tho. it all depends on the circles you're in/people you're exposed to.
/r/ExRedPill23/12/24 06:09 AM
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Red Pill guys talk like this bc they are the men that make women "hate" men & have issues trusting them. They "warn" followers of trp against women like this bc they are a lot less likely to fall for RP bullshit. the proliferation of TRP KS what has created the "male loneliness epidemic." Its a hate movement that hates its own followers most of all.
/r/ExRedPill23/12/24 06:03 AM
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This entire trope abt "daddy issues" is stupid, vile, misogynist bullshit.
/r/ExRedPill23/12/24 05:49 AM
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Oh absolutely & what's equal parts funny & sad is how many of these red pill losers are NEETS. Like, be the change dude.
/r/ExRedPill21/10/24 12:25 PM
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This exactly. I see this refrain all the time abt how there are no longer male teachers....but what I don't see is men in any significant #'s going into, or even expressing an interest in education.
/r/ExRedPill20/10/24 08:49 PM
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It depends on a lot of factors. For ex: do you practice the same restraint & sexual morality in your own life, or do you only expect it from your partner? Also, what is a "high "body count? Would you consider 1 partner a year "high?" Less? More? It's all relative. Anyone who has maybe only had one or two LTR's can start to "rack up #'s" depending on their age. If you became sexually active at 16, have sex with an average of one or two people a year then by the time you're 34, it's gonna be in th…
/r/ExRedPill08/01/24 04:13 PM
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It sounds like you dodged a bullet. I think now is a good time to block him (if you're the type to get pulled back in, that is), treat yourself to like a week of indulgent AF self care & really examine what you want out of a partner, tighten up those boundaries & enforce them. Anyone who considers past abuse a "previous sordid sexual past" is a frothing at the mouth misogynist who deserves to be alone.
/r/ExRedPill08/01/24 04:07 PM
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Exactly. It's not even close. Add in children & the majority of female partners have what amounts to a second full-time job.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 11:53 AM
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LVM instinctually hate any situation - even if not overtly "feminine" if there are strong women to contend with. This isn't limited to the workplace: it's any book, any movie, television show or let's face it any media in general, any business, any workplace environment, etc. They cannot stand to be "subjected" to a strong female presence but get more than one woman in the room or shit even in a television show & they can't handle it. All you have to do is look at the IMDB ratings for nearly any…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 05:17 PM
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I know this is hard to hear but if they got pregnant before marriage, and especially if she doesn't even have her own insurance, and he has a shitty job, they aren't the power couple you had them pegged as in your mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 09:57 AM
3

Sunday Riley Good Genes. Yes, it's expensive but it also actually works. It's like $120 for 1.7 ounces so it's not completely insane. I think it's on sale on Nordstrom.com but that may be done. For people on a shoestring budget and for those that want to pad this I say The Ordinary line is pretty great. The lactic acid doesn't compare the Sunday Riley & I hate when people pretend that it does but it's still incredible for how affordable it is. Finally: stay away from the sun. If you're one of th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 09:52 AM
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I believe that move is called "The Newt."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 01:58 AM
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And they're right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 01:56 AM
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And despite all that, just imagine how much happier she would be if she were alone. I'm sure there are plenty of HVM who would be more than happy to be her sexual slave, conversation partner, companion or whatever else she wants AND keep their fucking mouths shut about it. Give me that over her ugly ass husband any fucking day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 01:51 AM
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No definitely not. And trust me, I've been treated terribly by female nurses more times than I can count. When I was pregnant they kept putting me on a magnesium sulfate drip, and when I refused a catheter I had basically every nurse on the maternity ward come and pressure me, told me my kids would be born blind& worse, and if I was a "good mommy" I'd be willing to hang upside from a tree if they told me to. All because they were too lazy to bring me a bedpan. I still refused their fucking cathe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 04:34 AM
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It's the same in the US but I would argue that's more of a product of the fact that most nurses (in hospitals at least) are unionized than because it requires a degree. The problem is that there's a big trade off: Nurses have to work absolute shit hours and I don't know about the UK but here in the US the (male) hospital doctors think they are some kind of golden gods whose shit doesn't stink. They REGULARLY make mistakes, and the nurses have to gently suggest that "Maybe we shouldn't give Mr. S…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 10:40 PM
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Absolutely. Being a SAHM is an open invite for your POS husband to cheat on you with a pick me coworker and then leave your ass high & dry with kids to raise essentially by yourself as they hide assets that even the best forensic accountant - who you will likely not be savvy enough to know about & with near certainty won't have the $$ to pay for anyway - won't be able to find. I've seen it happen a hundred times. A woman without financial independence is a woman without any independence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 09:50 PM
21

It would be fairly easy to make a fake ass FB account and DM her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 09:47 PM
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IF he gets that job (big IF) she should leave his motherfucking ass. What a low-life scumbag. Actually, she should wait a few months until he moves and gets the increased income & THEN she should leave his motherfucking ass, use that alimony money for some good ass daycare & get her the career she would've had if not for him. They say your career won't love you back but it sure as shit PAYS me & for me it's been more reliable than any man ever was except my ex-husband who would reliably criticiz…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 02:53 PM
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There's nothing wrong with you for being shaken awake by men's brutality. The ugly truth is the only reason we ever gave men the benefit of the doubt is thanks to entire a broad societal, cultural, financial & religious structure that conditions women to "seek the good in men," or else. Meanwhile, the only thing they "seek in women" is our vaginas. If/when you find the rare exceptions: great. They do exist except women need to stop assuming their loved ones, their sons, their brothers, etc. are …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 11:20 AM
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Wow that is so incredibly depressing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 03:56 AM
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Check out the book History of the Wife by Marylin Yalom. One of the most eye-opening books I ever read, and I'm glad I read it in College. It's also just a very well researched, well written book. Even if you aren't someone who generally enjoys reading non-fiction I think this book would still be hard to put down. A history of the wife : Yalom, Marilyn : Free Download, Borrow, and Streaming : Internet Archive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 03:54 AM
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Apparently he is referring to you which is sad. His post history is littered with some next level woman hating bullshit. He may not be ready to condone rape and murder, but he is happy to complain about Muslim women wearing yoga pants under their burqa. Yes, I'm serious. Dude, just because some evo psych nerds who are desperately trying to equate their Hobbesian worldview with actual science, that doesn't make it so. I know plenty of women - myself included - who left unhappy relationships with …
/r/ExRedPill24/10/20 02:07 AM
2

As long as you're honest with the women you are having any kind of "relations" with: no. If you're bein deceitful - including leading someone to believe there is a chance when you know there isn't: yes.
/r/ExRedPill24/10/20 02:01 AM
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Gross. ***EDIT Since I can't reply to your bullshit: the thing that is gross, since apparently it wasn't clear the first time, is you. You talk about women like they are basically animals, or worse: "attention is like crack to women." Sure, some women, and the same can be true for some men: aka there are good human beings, and bad human beings and most of us are just average. Maybe you should wander back to your r/evopsych or whatever other "sexual marketplace" echo chamber you came from. There …
/r/ExRedPill22/10/20 05:49 PM
3

Ah yes the...."Feeeeeeemale."
/r/ExRedPill22/10/20 05:47 PM
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At this point just dropping the word "female" is enough for me to get a great big whiff of red pill.
/r/ExRedPill18/10/20 12:13 AM
1

This is the dumbest shit I've seen. Lots of options = no good women. Fewer options "more good women," or "more chances to meet good women." I'd LOVE to hear your assessment of what makes a woman "good," but not before I introduce you to my friend Math.
/r/ExRedPill13/09/20 10:29 PM
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I'm sorry but this is insane. If you'r mother said this to you then she is mentally ill. Here is a newsflash: a lot of PEOPLE are complete assholes. Women, men, shit even some CHILDREN are assholes. Remember? The kind of men who accumulate a bunch of wealth in order to attract women usually attract the kind of gross women who only care about money. Is this the type of person you want to be with? Do you just want a super hot person to bang? A wet hole with a shallow, vapid but super attractive hu…
/r/ExRedPill06/09/20 12:55 AM
1

I don't think women come here to hate on men at all. I certainly don't hate men. For a large portion of my teenage years and early adolescence I was a big "Friends with guys because girls are too much drama" type of chick before I came to realization that was internalized misogyny, and a lot of the absolute torture I experienced at the hands of my peers - young girls - was thanks to that as well. There were guys that were doing it, too and the big catalyst for being harassed for over a year in J…
/r/ExRedPill30/08/20 11:41 AM
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You are clearly a 14 year old child.
/r/ExRedPill25/08/20 08:18 PM
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But it is helpful. If people could accept that their worldview is not grounded in anything resembling fact, that's a GOOD thing. Appeasing this mentality has only served to spread and validate it, and calling it out isn't even in the same universe let alone the same ZIP CODE as "misandry." I'm glad you're reading this sub, but you have a lot of work ahead of you, my dude. Good luck, seriously.
/r/ExRedPill25/08/20 08:17 PM
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That's probably a really good rule to follow. It always kills me how defensive they get about it too. Sometimes, I will just comment "females" under one of these posts and then have to turn off my Twitter notifications for the rest of the day bc they won't quit berating me, harassing me, begging me to tell them just what exactly is wrong with using the word. It would be hilarious if it wasn't so tragic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 02:36 PM
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I know, right? I cringe so hard every time I see this. And these same people NEVER refer to men as "males."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 02:34 PM
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Maybe I should clarify: there are a lot of work from home contact tracing gigs right now due to COVID-19. It sounds like you've got the right idea, and you're right getting your first client is the hardest part. I'm trying to work out the logistics of how to do that myself. Luckily my partner & I are both able to exclusively work from home which is nice since my city is experiencing an outbreak right now. It's just nice to have a steady job - preferably one you can do at home- while you're worki…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 10:01 PM
1

Can you do work from home contact tracing? I dk what your degrees are in but I've found that with the right education you can do all your work exclusively from home. I do. My field is healthcare tech & I'm trying to figure out how to start my own consulting business on the side while not violating all the various NDA's & non-compete's I've signed over the last 5-10yrs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 03:30 PM
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In light of the recent bans you may want to reconsider this comment. It's trash that you have to, but the fact remains.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 08:52 PM
1

Two words; Wig. Cap.
/r/seduction30/04/19 11:27 PM
1

The very start of the video says he gave her a ride to work everyday.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/03/19 12:38 PM
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