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GoDaiKudasai/r/askMRP12/11/21 09:34 PM
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Yea I realized after reading a lot of comments here I was really overthinking. I am working on just doing what I want now and not worrying about the reaction or in my case, her expectations for what she wants to get out of our engagements. I noticed as soon as I focused back on just doing me, I started seeing the cute subby behavior again. I need to stay out of her head and have fun teasing her.
/r/askMRP25/11/21 01:00 AM
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Increasingly, yes. I have been grabbing her and spanking her a few times whenever she gets mouthy lately and it seems to go over quite well. I am focusing more on just doing what I want regardless of her reaction and while sometimes I get an eyeroll or similar, I am worrying about it less overall. I don't plan to go full boar overnight, I think I'd rather like to draw the whole thing out for fun and see what I get, but the comments I got here helped me realize I was just being weak and she could…
/r/askMRP25/11/21 12:57 AM
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I 100% need to be more forward. I already know anything less gets met with instant negative response but there was just so long where she was completely uninterested due to her health issues that now, I feel weird doing it. In reality I am just too worried about how she will respond and so even when I do 'go for it' she knows I am bluffing. I need to stop caring about all that and focus on me and what I want. As for the netflix series, I doubt it, she games and writes in her off-time but I know …
/r/askMRP14/11/21 04:27 AM
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Yea I am new around here and likely should have dug deeper before I posted though the info I got from some of these replies will certainly help me get started so I can't say I regret making the thread. Looks like I have a lot to do.
/r/askMRP14/11/21 04:17 AM
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Thanks for this. I thought I wanted specific suggestions on being dominant but realistically - this is the answer. Might not be the exact form the process takes for me, but the gist is the same. I need to get my life together so she has a reason to follow me. She doesn't just want me to spank her sometimes and tell her to suck my dick, she wants me to be a man who's dick she wants to suck. Of course she laughs at me now when I try to take control, I don't have anything to back it up with so she …
/r/askMRP13/11/21 02:41 AM
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The irony isn't lost on me. The reality is that while her health was shit I got complacent and stopped being the man she thought I was. Now she wants it back but my ass has been too focused on doing nothing in particular to see the signs so instead of saying 'hey fuckhead, you suck now' she is saying 'be more dominant so I can feel like you don't suck'.
/r/askMRP13/11/21 02:31 AM
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I don't really feel like she is a brat at her core. She didn't act like one when we got together but bacame one after I stopped doing things that made her feel submissive which happened after her health issues. I feel like I have allowed her to take on too much of the shit I should be handling myself lately now that she is back feeling good and her acting like this is just the result of her seeing me being weak and not liking it. The more I think about it all I feel like I got lazy while we were…
/r/askMRP13/11/21 02:28 AM
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Punishing her is hard because she wants me to do it and when I spank her, she makes it into a game and doesn't take me seriously and then later tells me it wasn't enough. I have trouble spanking her with any real authority and I think that is what she is waiting for but it feels more like I am just rewarding her and giving her what she wants if I play into it. I overthink these things. I haven't considered my T being a problem since I still have plenty of libido etc but suppose it couldn't hurt …
/r/askMRP12/11/21 11:48 PM
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Punishing her is hard because she wants me to do it and when I spank her she resists, albeit playfully, and then tells me later it wasn't enough. Sometimes I feel like spanking is a reward more than a punishment but witholding sex etc. is more a punishment for me than it is for her and whenever I try and 'reward' her for being a good girl she gets sassy with me almost like it's all a joke. I feel like she is continually challenging me with these things and isn't really submitting as though she i…
/r/askMRP12/11/21 11:42 PM
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Interesting. I do love fantasy so this would probably be easy to accomplish. Granted I have a feeling she is going to try and read them too if I bring them around lol. Thanks for the suggestion. I guess I never imagined submission could be this direct... It really caught me a bit off guard even though she was always happiest when I took the lead. I need to capitalize on this before it gets pulled out from under me.
/r/askMRP12/11/21 11:32 PM
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Thanks for the concrete suggestions. I cant even find TheRedPill subreddit when I search for it tbh, just a bunch of other subs complaining about it lol but I will certainly check out the reading materials you suggested as I think a big portion of my issue is lacking ideas and looking at things from the wrong angle. I want to capitalize on this shift in her but don't have a great foundation to work with.
/r/askMRP12/11/21 11:26 PM
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I don't lift or go to the gym. I do work trades (though less physical than when I started) but I am guessing around here that isn't a valid excuse from what I have seen reading some of the other content. Never thought working out was important as long as I wasn't out of shape but I can openly admit I am not very self-disciplined. I do what needs doing but there is a lot of room to do better.
/r/askMRP12/11/21 10:56 PM
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Thanks for the legit reply. I know I am not a part of this community so I am not too surprised most are just taking the shit but I feel like your suggestions are the sorts of things that will help. I definitely think I ask too much and need to just tell her what to do more, as awkward as it can be outside of the bedroom. I imagine it will get easier the more I do it and even she has talked about me maybe giving her specific rules / expectations etc. so I think she will like it. Being more specif…
/r/askMRP12/11/21 10:49 PM
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No, it doesn't. That's true though I didn't have these fears until we started living together. Suddenly it felt wrong to act the way I did but I think those things are what was attracting her in the first place. I am sure I did this to myself but changing back now while we are talking about having kids just feels wrong.
/r/askMRP12/11/21 10:30 PM
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What do you want to know? I don't lift - though I work in trades and do a lot of lifting so I am in decent shape. I am 33, 5'10'' and weight 210. I don't feel like I am afraid of my wife but I feel like I am treading on thin ice between what she is saying she wants and doing something that could fuck things up royally. I will gladly supply more info if that will help.
/r/askMRP12/11/21 10:26 PM
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Jeez. Fair enough I guess. Though I am certain she'd never go for it... Am I being a bitch for not just going from nothing to total asshole who just does whatever he wants? I obviously don't have the right mindset with this and I feel like I should be elated, not concerned but I still feel like I am being selfish somehow just doing whatever I want, especially when she is sending mixed messages.
/r/askMRP12/11/21 10:12 PM
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Am I being a pussy for not wanting to just go from one end of the spectrum to the other overnight? I honestly do want advice here, it isn't that I am unwilling to try things but the whole approach seems so strange and I just don't know how to get past the 'I am not supposed to do this' mindset.
/r/askMRP12/11/21 10:07 PM
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