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They are exceptions to the rule, which in Adam case holds true. They actually mention him and his relationship in the video. I don't see why he is such an 'exception', rather opposite, lol. We can argue what traits make a man attractive, but we cannot argue that high-value man can date / get commitment from quality and desired girls. As for banging chicks - that's part of his environment, i.e. adult performers are selling their sexuality and getting money out of it. Let's take a look at the woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 08:47 AM
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https://youtu.be/6hIei2VFXtg?t=444 Adam has just married (and have a kid with) an online Only Fans girl (Lena the Plug). They have some porn online - stuff like threesomes, etc. I won't call him High Value Man by any means. I really don't think he can teach you much about how to get quality girl, loool.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 09:58 PM
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Let's skip the morality and ethics of sex work, because it's very subjective. There are some facts: (i) girl is damaging her relationship prospects; (ii) the risk of STDs; (iii) the risk of violence and drugs. All the above make is very bad deal for a few $. However, I am for decriminalising the prostitution. Why you ask? When prostitution is illegal, the sex work fees are very high, sometimes even $500 per hour in US. As such, more girls will be drawn to it - money is money. In countries like U…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 09:50 PM
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Both points are right ^^ Idk about SDs, but I dated one girl unknowingly she's SB. She was a freak in bed and that was the reason why I didn't dump her asap. Once she told me about her side hussle I got interested in the whole lifestyle and met a few of her friends. Generally speaking, those are very naive girls who call themselves 'entrepreneurial', but, imho, it's just glorified escorting / prostitution. At this time I was looking for LTR and there wasn't much for me to do there, and we went s…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 08:05 PM
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Then teach them to take care of themselves the same way you would your sons. Not getting dates sucks but it's not life-ruining whether it's women or men. That's exactly the problem. Taking care of themselves and being a decent human doesn't work anymore. Those girls are usually skipped by guys because there are easier sluts around. Men adapted as they could. Being player and employ pump & dump works much better. Why do you think there is so much PUA-advice now in the Internet?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 10:52 AM
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PUA and Red Pill are positive in that aspect that they motivate men to improve. Either via fake-it (PUA) or via being-high-value. Both converge at confident / well-rounded male with game who goes for that he wants. Black Pill is more towards 'they don't like, fuck them' philosophy. It's reaction to girls slutting around. I am worried about my future daughters because they will have slip pickings among guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 12:12 AM
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Sperm is decreasing in quality, that's a known fact. https://www.gq.com/story/shanna-swan-interview There is a difference quality of genes vs. quality of sperm (i.e. abonormal sperm morphology). People are more stressed and there are more toxic chemicals in our food. The intelligence vs looks comparison is kinda weak but in modern society a woman definitely benefits with being with a smart rich slob . However, if a tall healthy woman goes with a tall healthy man for example, there's a chance tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 07:24 PM
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I agree that the majority of girls do care about looks, extrovertism, etc. Later, when they grow up, they start carying about money and resources. However, there are girls who care about smarts, i.e. to spot intelligence in partner, you need to be intelligent yourself. Assuming that you pass the look treshold, you have a very good shot with those girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 01:00 PM
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There is so much bollocks in that reply that I don't wanna go through it fully. Let's focus on the major ones. I never said that sexy chads necessary have the best genes but a healthy 6 ft tall man with a good body built and a properly developed maxilla growth is going to be genetically superior to the average male. Are you sure? A 6ft imbecile is superior to a shy engineer with smarts in every scenario? if a woman has the option between a "Chad" or an average male, why shouldn't she choose the …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 10:05 PM
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There are several problems with it: humanity progress is not pushed by sexy Chads, but rather by scientists, engineers, etc. best genes =/= best looks this world is built by men. how do you want to motivate us if you tell 80% of us we cannot have offspring? have you seen the latest productivity drop? women had a little evolutionary pressure to be competitive (80% of them procreated vs. 40% of men). why do you think men are generally stronger / faster and risk-takers? right now gov is sponsoring …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 02:36 PM
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I will never understand this level of anxiety about a partner being into you. Can't you tell if you're having decent chemistry or not? Can't you tell if you're both having fun? Women are not that simple, my friend. Women want to have both: (i) exciting and sexy partner and (ii) reliable wealthy provider. It's very rare to have both sides in one man; therefore, women often decide for (ii), because (i) is usually not good for long-term relationship. Also, usually (i) have more options so they are …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 09:17 PM
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I have a question, what about the high n-count makes it discusting? What causes the visceral reaction the turnoff? It's a natural evolutionary-based reaction. In caveman times there weren't DNA tests available and the only way to know for sure the kids are yours was a good dose of jealousy. In other words - if you were letting your woman to be shared, then you were likely not procreating, and your body is letting that known by your emotions. If brief: fucking - yes, failling in love and investme…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 03:40 PM
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Well, no shit. Who’s producing pay stubs quicker than that? LOL Nah, it was even better :) I made it look like I am just a 9-5 office drone, while in fact I run my own business. Also, at the same time I was sub-renting two rooms in my house, so it looked like we are renting together with some flatmates :P A look at her face was awesome when she realised that. But then I was sure she's into me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 03:35 PM
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He has to be broke and homeless for her to be genuinely attracted to her Or to pretend to be ass-broke while silently putting her in fuck-box or wife-box. Make sure she loves you first, before showing monnies. I did that with my girlfriend (we are getting married in the next year). I have six digits income, but she didn't know that for the first half a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 02:19 PM
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THIS. Exactly this ^^
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 01:54 PM
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Thanks for reply. The high-n-count disgust in men is very real, but it can be tampered with. Our psychology is very flexible. In my 20-ies I had very strong emotional reactions to promiscous girls, but after lots of reading and self-improvement work, it went away. In other words, once I understood female sexuality more, my reactions were tampered. My own high-n-count helped as well. However, the above does address my emotional state only. It doesn't change the fact, that (formely) promiscous wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 10:26 AM
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I personally found sex workers (both men and women) to be more humble and understanding than average normies so I'm willing to date them as long as they don't have permanent STDs(I'm woman and have okayish inheritance) My ex was rather on a crazy and entitled side (i.e. far from humble and understanding than average normies), but it's just one experience. I don't know about you, but for me, sugaring is just re-branded prostitution. I am a man and I had to work on my wealth. Most of my money is f…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 09:30 PM
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> I'm 23 years old, have a decent paying job, don't live with my parents, don't smoke, rarely drink, am very monogamous and not interesting in constantly sleeping around, don't use marijuana, am 5' 5", 125 ilbs (healthy normal weight) and am generally considered an 8 or a 9. That's fair, but I also want you to continue to be 23-years old and 8 or 9 forever. Why? Because your greatest value (your looks) will decline, while my stock (as a man) will rise. I.e. once I progress my career and make my …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 09:59 AM
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Hypergamy isn't that much about having money, but rather about having the traits to make money. Drug dealers *seem* like being capable of making money. And they do, but drug selling is offset by risk, therefore risk-adjusted ROI is low. Humans are generally awful at understanding the concept of risk-adjusted returns.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 09:41 AM
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I know people who have done sugaring and it's great money if you can handle it. I don't do it because it's not something I enjoy. More power to them. But why they later came back and are angry because of society stigma? I booted out my ex once I learned about her previous sex work. She still writes bs about me on social media,
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 09:37 AM
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Read this - one of the girls from Girls Do Porn: https://www.vice.com/en/article/k78avm/girls-do-porn-still-fighting-harassment-youtube Her stunt really crashed her financials career. He was kicked out from a high-profile job, etc. Who do you think she blames for it? She says she's a victim, that crimes were commited against her, she was coerced etc. all that bs. In truth, she just went for porn shot because she wanted some cash.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 09:33 AM
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Taller girls are actually easier to date in my experience. Build up your game and confidence, and aim for 24-27 tall and hot girls. If you are any decent, you will have lots of good chances. There aren't just that many men who are confident enough to approach them, and they ones that are confident enough are usually players and bad-boys. You will need iron-strong frame and be funny for it to works, i.e. make fun of your height difference as a display of self-confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 02:53 PM
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most of the Hollywood icons are usually between 12 and 16% Don't believe so. They might go down for a couple of weeks and dehydrate themselves for extra abs, but maintaining 12-16% is very hard. If you spend time at the office (i.e. most decent salaries are office-based) and are stressed out by your job (who is not?), then you are lucky if you have less than 20% bf in your late 30-ies. Average man in the West is in 25-30% bf range. https://rippedbody.com/body-fat-guide/
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 02:43 PM
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A girl past 25 is already on declining curve. If you are planning for family/kids without any fertility issues, then you should not date above 25yo girls (for me personally 27yo is cut-off).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 01:51 PM
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Sorry, but I am confused with your answer. You said 'Men don't care about about the n-count of their partners.'. We do care a lot. 'That's true for other men too' <- what does that mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 09:57 AM
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Men don't care about about the n-count of their partners. They care about the reputation. I man won't care as much how many men you slept with than knowing the men you slept with. This is the biggest misconception on this sub. It's 4m old reply, but it's very very wrong. Of course we care about her body count. I don't personally need to know guys to feel disgust with her double digits body count.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 02:59 PM
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Think of it in this way - someone will fuck her. It might be as well you getting your dick wet. Women have so many advantages in current dating that men need to use every tactics available. If that includes lying - so be it. Fuck empathy and being 'good man' - it doesn't work in modern times. There will be always some simp after you who will gladly wife her up. I saw it so many times.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 02:34 PM
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Men improve themselves because they have to. THIS ^^ It just happened that due to rare co-incidence of many developments, namely feminism, legacy marriage law, online dating and social media, women have upper hand. As with everything, those developments are only temporary before new shiny thing arrives. Saddly, we have to live in those times and hope that our sons have better.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 01:02 PM
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YMMV. As my me my 30ies are the best. In my 20-ies I was a shy nerd who only started building his career. In my early 30-ies, I learned how to cold-appraoch, I build some muscles and made some money. This is also very visible with girls I am getting now. When I see old photos with my exes I am thinking those girls are good for ONS at most. My current girlfriend beats them in pyjama.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 08:43 AM
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Woman are the most attractive in their early-to-mid 20-ies. Same goes for guy in thier mid-to-late 30-ies. Women's peak is much higher, but men have more standing power (even till late 40-ies if man takes care about himself). From a tactical point of view, you should use your peak time to find a quality partner, because this is the time when you have highest chances of doing so. It's also your responsibility to learn what the other gender finds attrative. Having a quality partner is very good in…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 11:50 AM
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Women are waiting too long before getting pregnant. First of all, girl have fun in thier early 20-ies without thinking of serious dating. They are ignoring the responsible dudes and sleep around with fun guys instead. Well, jerks are only for fun and it's rarely ends in anything serious. There is absolutely no explaining to them that this strategy is suboptimal for having a family. They wait till late 20-ies or early 30-ies to look for a serious boyfriend. As you can imagine, men (who were ignor…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 01:02 PM
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Women, do your thing. Enjoy it while you are young I guess and hope like hell you don’t end up the last one standing in the game of musical chairs. There is always some sucker wanting to commit to a girl. The thing is that this dude is not what a woman wants. Then she's un-haaaapy. Men have time to be assholes, women don't have this time. You either catch a good man in your 20-ies or you are stuck with some deadbeats in your 30-ies.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 08:47 AM
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how is it a high reward? is it better than the high reward with promiscuous women? Hot girl is a high-reward, i.e. good genes for my kids. What is different is how likely she will turn our lives into trainwreck. Promiscous girl tend to do that. Plus all that her exes stress me out. if you yourself are promiscuous than why not hold yourself to the same standard that you hold other women to? Because women hold us to different standards, i.e. I need to be confident, charismatic, accomplished at my …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 08:56 AM
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Hot girl but promiscous is high risk / high-reward. Hot girl but chaste is low risk / high-reward.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 09:18 PM
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Top tier men don't have that many options. Start cold-approaching en masse :P
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 09:17 PM
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The issue is that for most men that is a waste of time (if they do that for women ofc) and is expensive. The real issue is that girls overvaluate themselves nowadays. Having boobs and pussy doesn't automatically make you more interesting or a better person, yet the whole social media world makes us believe so, i.e. 'I have sooo many followers' = 'I must be interesting person!'. No you not, guys just like the sight of fresh young vagina. In the last decade pussy's price was artifically increased.…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 01:22 PM
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Perhaps the proper way to say it is that what makes men attractive is either far harder to get and/or impossible or incredibly hard to improve. Even the things that men can change take years fo work to achieve (a good job and/or gym) with the shortcuts being illegal and far more dangerous then women have. Exactly that! Therefore, the less men are attractive (because it requires more determination) and they have their pick. Listen, once you do that work and rise above other trees, the sky is very…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 12:21 PM
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Yh, they can date 2-3+ dates a day, but those won't be attractive men. How many attractive commitment-worthy single men do see you per day? By attractive I mean at least six-digits salary, aound 6ft, fit, well-dressed and able to have a conversation. Listen, I was suprised how fast I was taken from the dating market, once I stopped fucking around and started dating seriously. My gf is telling me horror stories about guys she met.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 11:49 AM
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That leads to the issue of these women trying to have it all creating a ever growing web of lies and excuses that grows until innocent people start getting stuck in the web. They can believe in what they want and do what they want (as long as it's legal). Actually, you will find find that attractive men are even more picky than hot girls. There are just much much less of attractive and successful guys around. I am OK-looking, but I am confident as fuck, well-dressed, fit and I have good money / …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 10:51 AM
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Most women want to do what suits them be is casual sex or not... however, they also want relationships with high-quality men. And those men are very very picky who they gonna commit to. Once I talked with my girlfriend about all those celebrities, influencers, etc. It's their right to use their sexuality for profits, attention or whatever they want. It's also my right to remove them from my dating pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 11:56 PM
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And what about you? What are your standards for yourself My standards are to be fit, well dressed and groomed, have career and money, be charismatic and confident. As you can see being chaste is not among my traits. And it works, because most women don't give a damn about my body count.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 07:09 PM
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yes. 1-2 boyfriends. maybe 3x she was played. 5 body count max. I think that's fair - it tells me she is relationship oriented and just did a few mistakes along the way. Anything above that and she's not for me. We can be friends, we can fuck, but we won't seriously date.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 05:37 PM
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There is a difference between being 'a bit experienced' (1-2 boyfriends) vs. a dozen ONS. The last one is only good for fucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 04:45 PM
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Virgins are a huge pain in the ass in my experience. I agree 100% Much prefer guys and gals that have a bit of experience under their belt that isn't "ohh that thing from 50 shades of twilight sounded hot" A bit of experience means 1-2 boyfriends, not a dozen of fuck-buddies.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 04:44 PM
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Women can have boyfriends and they may break up. Virginity is too much to expect. However, when I met a girl with 10+ bodies (some people say 5+), I am nor considering her as anything other than a slut. We can a good friends, but we won't date.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 04:42 PM
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All I'm saying is, can't men and women find a middle ground in making each other happy and catering to each others needs? Oh, they did. It was lovely setup a few decades ago where both parties married to their first partners. Men tried to be the most productive because that was the way to find a good wife. Then something happened... it was called feminism... then it became sluttism... then divorce went up to 50%. Men became players. Give me a break. The only reason to still marry are kids / fami…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 04:38 PM
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It's because accomplished men had a preference to marriage a few decades ago. Thsoe statistics are invalid in the current generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 09:59 AM
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You can do that without getting married.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 09:57 AM
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The only reason I can think off if the woman is substantially richer (and doesn't want to have a prenup). We are talking millions here. Like seriously - I don't see any reason to get married aside from having kids / family.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 09:56 AM
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I'm well aware women can wreck your life, but so can driving a car. When driving a car you have a control over most of things, also, if to go by car at all on a given day in given conditions. You don't have this control over what your partner does. Also, a relationship is 99% something else than sex. I forget all men aren't me sometimes, and project my perspective onto them. Most men really aren't very good in bed, or like you, just don't care to be, so the guys you all are worrying about are yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 02:16 PM
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Yeah, young guys worry about the past too much, I've been somewhat guilty of this myself, like 10-20yrs ago lol. If you're the one getting her off now, then you're the best rn. But if you're not getting her off... Then it might be time to worry about the past repeating itself. I am almost 40yo and I don't think younger men worry too much. I actually think they don't worry enough. A wrong woman can literally wreck your life. Those jealously mechanisms are the result of thousands of years of evolu…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 01:11 PM
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And men should accept that women are not obligated to sleep with them and we’re going to do what we want, with the men we want to do it with. Problem solved huh? And do you think men haven't accepted that already? We already know women are very selective. I was rejected and flaked on more times than you can count, lol. But I fucked a lot too. Edit: This dude is lecturing me on how terrible sluts are, I click on his profile and low and behold he visits porn star subs. LMAO Lol, so we now starting…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 12:14 PM
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I meant if you're sleeping with other people, you should just assume and except she's at least entertaining the idea too. As for lying to get what they want... Lol, just read the number of posts on Reddit starting with 'I learned about my gf past...' Once women realise men don't like to commit to (formerly) promiscous females, they start lying or ommiting the truth. It's like a plague nowadays. If she wants you, and you want her, sounds like you're the prize; let her have it or not. And this is …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 12:10 PM
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Men could solve this problem by dropping all the slut shaming and double standards. Women should accept that men have those standards. It's the same thing as women refusing to date shorter or poorer guys. Female promiscuity is not attractive to men. The same goes for older women. Period.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 09:18 AM
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If you're honest and fair about it. And that's my major problem with formerly promiscous girls... Let's put jealousy aside, how do you know she's honest? Because people lie to get what they want...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 08:52 AM
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It doesnt matter how fast she gave other guys pussy It matters a lot actualy. Would you risk LTR with a girl who has history of a dozen ONS? I would not, because she might go sleep around after argument just to pump her ego up. History likes to repeat itself. She might have changed (people rarely do), but how do I know that 100%? I am not mind-reader. Relationships are hard even without me stressing about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 08:50 AM
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A person that looks like Henry Carville will most likely be a lot stronger than the average man. Of course if you are stage ready with extremely low body fat and dehydration you will loose a lot of strength temporarily. You can still have visible abs and decent strength at like 12% bodyfat The only information I could find about Henry Carville is this: https://www.muscleandfitness.com/athletes-celebrities/news/man-steel-how-henry-cavill-got-superhero-shredded/ For his weight (185lbs), deadliftin…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 08:28 AM
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A guy with options doesn’t have to settle for tantrums or shit testing. THIS Take away attractiveness advantage from a woman (or neutralise it in the other way, e.g. swagger), and women become much more reasonable and the relationships are much nicer.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 10:56 PM
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Hey if "dad-bods" were really a thing Henry Cavill weight would be like 250 pounds and not 190 of pure muscle. The problem with that 'pure muscle' is that it's only aesthetics, i.e. no real strength. It's explained below: https://www.cinemablend.com/television/2487503/the-witcher-henry-cavill-had-a-miserable-dehydration-diet-to-look-ripped-shirtless I used to wrestle and I quickly figured out that guys with six-pack are easy. Once I grab them they didn't have enough power to stop me. I also quic…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 10:51 PM
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My guess is 30-50% of modern women where I live (big western city). After a few pump & dumps, she either (i) self-rationalises that sex is meaningless (to her) or (ii) completely flips into 'born again virgin' who needs to wait till marriage (good luck with it, lol). The most fall into (i). I have yet to meed well-adjusted girl who is not somehow damaged and likes casual sex. Usually one parent is missing or she was somewhat molested in youth. I also met one crazy girl who was previously pressed…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 01:38 PM
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LOL, it happened to me ONCE in my life. She was a trainwreck and insisted of doing it without any protection (me being stupid, I complied). She divorced her husband like a year afterwards and then got involved in some hardcore bsdm community.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 01:36 PM
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"Gee, I keep getting sport fucked by hot guys but no LTR for me... is there a pattern here maybe? Naw. Guys are just assholes... Oh, Hi Chad!" HAHAHA! Love it!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 01:22 PM
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This is very true. Normally I try hard route and date above my league (I am 7, I date 8+). It's hard and takes lots of time. However, those few times when I just wanted to fuck and slutted down, it was like a breeze. There is absolutely no problem with same day lays with 5-6s girls. I never lied of wanting to have anything serious with then, yet there was crying afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 10:56 AM
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Look, it works for me to consistently get girls who are normally out of my league. Takes some work though. The few times when I slutted down with 6s and 7s and like it was like a breeze. If you want to call it 'beta providership wrapped in PUA / Neomasculinity wrapping' then it's fine ^^
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 08:18 PM
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So hot girls are tired of all those hot good looking boring guys and want a really interesting challenging guy, albeit less hot. The "Lonely 8" theory - tired of all those good looking guys and just wants an entertaining interesting guy to talk to." Okay, sure. And talk he will. The hot guys usually relied on their good looks for the whole life so far. They never really needed to date girls, because for them it was easy to bang another 7. Their dating skills are usually low and very attraction b…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 07:39 PM
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Women can approach, they know they just don't have too. Because, why would anyone approach, if they didn't have to? Well, women don't approach. Some guys do and you should be one of them. I always hear this, what the fuck does this mean? Saying be confident, is so vague and arbitrary. The vast majority of men are not talking to girls with their heads down. A brief answer: can you walk to a girl on the street, stop her, have conversation for 5-10min, make her smile and ask her for number? How man…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 06:21 PM
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It's a mix of 70% alpha and 30% beta game. The most efficient combination you can find. I am not buying any drinks, lol. Chad with go home with 7. I will date and fuck 8 or 9. 8+ are rarely slutty and it's hard to get them via casual sex. The hottest girls get lots of good-looking guys, but only rarely an interesting and challenging guy. Think of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 04:02 PM
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I don't really know how you look. Previously I was scored around 5-6 on HotOrNot. Nowadays, I am getting around 7. I am average height, average face, but I worked out a good chest. If you already looked good you could have "achieved" such a relationship without going through that process which takes years. I agree. If you don't have looks, then you have to work hard. I am not saying it's easy, but it's doable. It took around 5-6 years to sort gym / fashion / confidence / cold-approaches. I had g…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 04:00 PM
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Lol, how about 25yo foreign-born cuttie with body like Alba (but bigger boobs)? That's my current gf. My most important lesson was to skip American / British / Canadian girls. I trained myself on Western sluts, afterwards dating foreign-born girls was like a breeze.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 03:36 PM
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Nah, I agree with blaackbackedjackal. There is tons of things you can do which are not genetic. cold-approach - this is the biggest advantage for men. I can walk to 10 girls per hour and get 5-6 numbers per day. She cannot. be confident - helps with everything. fashion / grooming - same. funny / charming - helps with conversation. gym / toned body - +1 SMV for 3-4 years of weight lifting money / career - for a man that's a biggie. For her it's insignificant. maturity / being cool - it's more imp…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 03:23 PM
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That nailed it. It's not like men hate promiscous females, but surely we don't consider them to be a good relationship option.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 09:36 PM
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That's very far reaching conclusions, lol :D See yaa next time!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 05:49 PM
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Look, you have your beliefs and you will be arguing them indefinitely. I have my experiences. Most of good girls are getting silly fucked and some of them regret it later. It doesn't make them bad people, but let's not pretend that being chaste is common trait among modern women. Now, I don't want to stress myself arguing with a stranger.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 02:29 PM
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And tradition allows them to do so with this. The tradition was turned on its head in the last two decades, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 01:49 PM
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I says that I was able to fuck 2-3% of girls I approached. There could be many factors: thy don't like me, they are not attracted to me, they have boyfriends, they were busy, they were in a bad mood, etc. I don't know. I was able to get a contact (phone number) in about 15% of my approaches, meet around 1/3rd of them on dates (lots of them flake), and fuck around half of them (I have an appartment near entertainment centre). I have not seen any particular pattern of personality or character type…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 12:39 PM
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No one forces women to have sex early. I don't see a reason why a girl won't ask a guy on date and then wait till she's comfortable that this guy is not a player. Oh, wait... I know why. Because initiating and being smooth takes time and energy to learn. Girls cannot be bothered, because they *deserve* price-charming, right? I don't know about otheres, but I definitely would not look down at woman who asked me out.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 11:28 AM
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Same thing in my books.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 11:17 AM
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I'd say that confident and mature people don't have any reasons to get into anxious-ambivalent or avoidant attachment. I don't see any correlation. Being confident and mature doesn't mean you don't want to sport-fuck. Once you crack the code, there is pussy available everywhere. With the current dating environment, there really are little reasons to commit to a one woman. Sorry, but marriages are very risky nowadays. If kids were not in my plans, I would never stop being a player.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 10:57 AM
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You've never met a woman 'it' 'never worked' on? Does literally every woman you approach fuck you? Lol, of course not! At my top I fucked maybe 2-3% of girls I approached, around 1-2 new girls per month. However, I fucked the whole spectrum of girls: slutty ones - usually ONS, maybe short term fling if the sex was good good ones which usually tried to flip me into boyfriend a few married ones - I am not proud of it, they usually fell into 'former slut' category
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 10:54 AM
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The main caveat is that it works on a subset of women. Not on all of them. And you should think twice whether you want to deal with the kind of women who fall for TRP techniques. Keep dreaming... I used those 'horrible TRP techniques' on sluts and good girls too. It works on both. Virtually ALL women like a confident and well-rounded men. Being a Chad / player means having options, but it's up to you how do you utilise them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 07:54 AM
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I get the point about reducing rape and abuse, but we can get the same with the reduction of prostitution. Other listed disadvantages have huge social costs. Imho, it's better to steer people clear from prostitution that to try to shield them afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 07:52 PM
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If you legalise prostitution: you are not reducing traficking at all (e.g. Netherlands and Germany) many girls will chose that as a career in their 20-ies and are later suprised men don't want to date them what do you do with a cohort of older women who have no other skills later in life? there will still be huge black market because paying taxes is not fun and it's difficult to enforce it I think social costs of legalisation of prostitution greatly overweight benefits. Please note I have not me…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 10:57 AM
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Girl with 30 bodies is non-dateable :D She either drops her standards a lot, so dude is happy that he got much better pussy than normally and can soldier on, or she stays single.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 10:33 AM
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I think it’s easier for more attractive women to hold off on sex because they fear less that the man they want will lose interest if she doesn’t put out. That's good point. Unfortunately a lot of women feel like they have to give in and have sex earlier than they want to so they can keep a man around and hopefully lock him down. Most of girls are aiming way to high, i.e. out of their league. They get pumped and dumped a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 08:35 AM
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From my experiences the hottest girls (8-9) are not promiscous at all. I think the guys want those sexy girls for themselves and, therefore, are happily going into LTRs. Plus she's very picky too. As for average (5-6) and cute (ca. 7) girls - they fuck in dozens.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 08:07 PM
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Please stop twisting my words. In my 20-ies I was a nice guy and dated girls with respect, i.e. wine and dine model. It wasn't working and I was friendzoned many times. Later I found out that some of them also dated other guys (sometimes at the same time they were dating me!) and those guys were getting sex quickly. Then I was cheated on and flipped into a player. I started treating girls as sex objects and a miracle happened - the girls I fucked suddenly wanted me to be their boyfriend. But the…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 01:20 PM
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It's not that they 'girls hate nice guys'. It's just they don't reward them and, therefore, being a nice guy is losing strategy. Being the one which she settled with is not a attractive outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 11:56 AM
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Soon after, I compiled all this information and thought it was a bad idea to further the relationship. I told her how I felt about all of this and she immediately told me that she’s not like her friends, that I’m insecure, and that she’s a changed person after a year. Dude, immediately downgrade her to FWB status (at most!). The cheating is a huge red flag, telling you all this 'you are insecure and changed person' nonsense is even bigger red flag. She won't change and you will be hurt. I sugges…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 10:52 AM
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He has something to attract hot women, therefore he's a Chad imho :) It can be either dark/tall/handsome looks, wealth/ambition, charisma/funny/confidence, etc. A quality of those women - it's a completely different can of worms.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 08:32 AM
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For example, for number 1, 1/3-1/2 of dudes can get that. If we define an 8 as an attractive girlfriend and 7 as a attractive lay. The truth is that attractive girls are less likely to engage in casual sex. Also, I dated some of girls who other guys defined as 'hot', but when I look back at the pictures they are 6 or 7. Said that I would estimate as below: Having one attractive gf = 20-30% guys (once per dating life is doable for any good-looking dude) Having multiple attractive lays = 10% of gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 09:51 AM
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LOL. THIS :D In order of importance (the top one is less important): Having one attractive gf = well done bro! But it could be just luck... Having multiple attractive lays = a Chad he is! Let's see if he can keep them for long... Having at least two-three attractive girlfriends in row = a high-value man! She will need a stick to beat competition. Having a hot girlfriend AND multiple attractive lays = Hugh Hefner. Doesn't happen very often among mortals. OK, with lays it's that they are all accro…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 01:32 PM
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Learn how to lie better. I played game fair and lots of girls skipped me. If you are not super-good looking, then the next best thing is the promise of relationship. Look, simping was a working strategy a few decades back. But right now it will get you chubby girlfriend at most. It's better to be a sinner than to regret. Women collectively decided that promiscuity and wasting their prime time on randos is fine. Therefore, the best you can do is to adapt. If you don't fuck them, someone will.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 11:47 PM
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Lol, try to jerk off in her instead :P You will get practice on sluts and nail a nice girl in LTR eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 11:32 PM
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Confidence can be trained.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 10:31 PM
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I am telling you - learn how to be funny and confident at the same time, and your dating will be a breeze. If you also learn how to cold-approach then you will never be without pussy. Street cold-approaches, while hard (lots of flakes!), give exposure to the whole spectrum of girls. Also, you can easily target only hotties (on a busy street).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 10:29 PM
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Tell her you are part-time secret spy (and part-time astronaut) and cannot disclose your details. Then carefully look behind yourself, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 10:11 PM
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Apps are hard to get laid unless you are top 10% looks. It's hard to sell any other traits via photos. Cold-approach all the way!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 09:44 PM
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How about defaulting to this strategy: Fuck her asap (if she wants relationship or not) Decide if this is one-off or to keep her Simple and efficient. It's much easier to upgrade from fuck buddies to girlfriend, than from stranger to girfriend. Sex is bonding exercise after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 08:46 PM
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Wank yourself before date - it works the same way. However, I personally find being horny to be beneficial on dates. Girls want to be fucked by an attractive male. Being horny helps to project that. After fucking, there is enough time to decide if to keep her or this is one-off fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 08:44 PM
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Social circles are good for finding a nice semi-hot girls. It's generally easy route once you have friends. However, to get nice hot girl, you need to learn cold-approaches and keep approaching. This is hard route, but quality is so much higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 08:28 AM
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OK. bye!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 07:17 PM
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Like I said - it's absolutely fine if you want to believe in it. I am not going to argue for the 1000th time. Take care.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 06:49 PM
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Dating for men by and large is like sending out resumes looking for a job. Only the requirements to get hired for the job are fuzzy at best and outright falsehoods at worse. HAHAHA! Very good comparsion. A man has to move fast and broadcast his profile / CV to as many women as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 05:24 PM
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You can believe in whatever you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 05:08 PM
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It's not that much about stigma as it's about the realities of finding a man: 30+ are already on sex appeal decline and it's harder to date for them 35+ are undateable for majority of men 40+ are invisible Feminism played a cruel joke on women telling them they can have it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 08:46 AM
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You are very right. The only reason to marry is to have kids / family.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 08:28 AM
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