Goatshaverightstoo Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	The rise of sexlessness among men is NOT NORMAL, the reasons given for that is major coping by men and female gaslighting to hide the real reason. Women are not having less sex they are just having fewer sexual partners. Yep, women on these subs love to focus on extreme examples, but the reality is you can check every box in your control and still get mostly ignored. It's been multiple years since any of my close single male friends got laid or even went on a date. These are hard-working, reasonably handsome dudes with no noticeable quirks or skeletons. It's absolutely insane.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/21 06:04 PM
–	Instead of theorizing, what is something you genuinely don't understand about women? Wanting someone who is simply taller makes perfect sense to me. It's more-so the individuals who want an extreme difference that I find perplexing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/21 05:32 PM
–	Instead of theorizing, what is something you genuinely don't understand about women? Maybe obsession was the wrong word choice, however, offline there seems to be an extremely clear preference towards men who are noticeably tall.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/21 05:30 PM
–	Instead of theorizing, what is something you genuinely don't understand about women? The obsession with height, especially with guys who are in the top percentiles. In my (admittedly male) view once you get past 6'2 or so, it just looks awkward. I remember growing up thinking that I would never want to be taller than that. Seems like it would be a pain. Intuitively, it would make way more sense to me if more women were into the above average height range (5'10 - 6'2).	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/21 03:35 PM
18	New Data from the Telegraph indicate that levels of sexlessness among young men are still steadily increasing, just 34% of male University students report being sexually active while studying at University and 43% report never having had sex. 50,000 worth of plastic surgery Before anyone calls this an exaggeration, this is literally what I'm in the middle of doing. 20K deep so far and will probably well exceed 50K when it's all said and done. Gave up my dream of having a house just so that I can be "worthy" enough. Growing up, all I ever heard about was "unrealistic beauty standards for women". Such a fucking lie.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/21 07:18 PM
81	"Oh, men think they are oppressed because a woman rejected them" lately i see a lot of this type of sentences from women minimizing the male struggle in the dating scene, you can't expect men to empathise with women's issues without having equal empathy toward men's issues in return! I tried opening up with a close female friend last year about my dating struggles. Tried to be as candid as possible: talking about how difficult it was, how crushingly lonely it makes you feel, how few opportunities there were, how undesirable I felt, and so on. It was a method I was attempting to just better manage these negative feelings, try to get some support for once. I could almost see the wires in her brain get crossed up. On one hand, she probably has no empathy for grown men by defaul…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	12/03/21 09:05 PM
15	What are your personal experiences with a "Chad"? The Chads I'm friends with are all really good guys too, but that tends to happen when you receive overwhelmingly positive reinforcement in all walks of life. I'd be pretty damn upbeat if I was receiving beaming smiles every time I went to the coffee shop or grocery store.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/21 03:39 PM
2	What is the worst dating advice you’ve gotten and why was it so bad? The only exception is when they are telling you something that casts them in a bad light. In that case I would 100% expect them to be telling the truth. Otherwise, yeah, what they say and what they do are usually light years apart.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/21 07:22 PM
16	What is the worst dating advice you’ve gotten and why was it so bad? It's because they're giving men advice on how to be a good boyfriend, not how to be attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/21 07:17 PM
14	What is the worst dating advice you’ve gotten and why was it so bad? Yep, couldn't be more accurate. They honestly think that any decent guy with halfway good pictures can get a LTR in a matter of weeks. There's such a divide between the privileged people who don't need the apps (or the few that succeed on them) and everyone else. And I find it borderline impossible to get through to these people just how bad it is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/21 05:56 PM
23	What is the worst dating advice you’ve gotten and why was it so bad? "You should try dating apps" I used those toxic apps for 5 years. They destroyed my sense of self worth and poisoned my views towards women. It's been over a year since I deleted them, and I am no closer to recovering.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/21 02:52 PM
51	Why are so many young men falling behind on the dating market (and just life in general)? When it comes to dating, I think a lot of it has to do with social media. Because it's primarily visual, the only real way to stand out on those platforms is to be noticeably good looking. This puts a lot of pressure on women to find a partner that they can "display" through pictures. For jobs, I honestly feel like the average woman is just better at interviewing. They know how to present themselves and act in a pleasing manner, which can make the difference in the end. Additionally, I can't hel…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/21 01:08 AM
3	Do you think women's standards for men have become too high and their hypergamy has got out of control? From my view, it's gotten completely out of hand. I've got male friends with n counts of at least 30 (and probably higher, I'm just too jealous to admit it) who now essentially live incel lifestyles. NOTHING about them has changed other than being a tad older. It's sad because I know they're really struggling with it, and I don't doubt that depression has taken hold. It's just crazy to think back to them scoring and dating women who were absolutely gorgeous and now they can't even get someone to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/20 12:21 AM
2	Do you think women's standards for men have become too high and their hypergamy has got out of control? I absolutely hate this attitude. The vast vast majority of people do not end up with a partner in their top tier of attractiveness. Love is something that is built over time through mutual commitment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/20 11:59 PM
2	Do you think women's standards for men have become too high and their hypergamy has got out of control? Gone waaaay down due to the obesity epidemic (not trying to be rude at all to anyone struggling with their weight, it's just the brutally honest truth). The AVERAGE young woman today is overweight, which would have been unthinkable decades ago.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/20 11:43 PM
1	Do you think women's standards for men have become too high and their hypergamy has got out of control? My take: Being overweight for a guy isn't as much of a negative, and some women even prefer that to a reasonable degree (obviously, this does not apply if a guy is obese). Facial characteristics are the biggest key for being attractive as a male. On the other hand, women tend to fall pretty rapidly down the attractiveness scale once they reach the overweight category (in the eyes of most guys, not all). With roughly 60+% of young women in America currently overweight, I don't think it's any coin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/20 11:39 PM
6	Why can't women understand that dating is fucking hard as a guy and that some men want to be pursued too? This issue is what brought me to this sub in the first place. It is astounding how much worse the dynamics have become in just the past 5 years or so. The 80/20 rule has devolved into something more akin to 95/5. And it's ridiculous because all this does is ensure that more women (and thus more men) are single and miserable. If women spent 2 seconds actually trying to date someone within a few miles of their league, they might actually find someone great. But instead it's this race to see who ca…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	09/09/20 06:42 PM
1	How will the dating market change after the pandemic? God, I was totally the opposite. My friends would sit around with beer, cigarettes, and video games all day and still get girls no problem. Meanwhile, I was working out every day, doing skincare, you name it, and got practically nothing. I want to get a dog, but I feel like it would be akin to finally admitting defeat on dating.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/20 11:53 PM
1	Incel, Feminism and FDS megathread I cannot fathom how TRP is under threat of being banned and FDS is in the clear. And that is not a defense of TRP, I can't fucking stand that sub. FDS is little more than a hate group at this point, and most of their posters seem like they need a serious intervention.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/20 07:52 PM
5	How will the dating market change after the pandemic? Yikes, you make a good point. I'm in no way against pets, but they really do seem to be replacing relationships for too many millennials.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/20 07:44 PM
1	Why do some men say that women are complex/ they can’t understand women, yet they also say ‘all girls are the same’? Are all women the same? No, that's a ridiculous. low-effort claim to make. However, when it comes to the demographic of women discussing dating on Reddit, there are some clear similarities that are noticeable: Every woman on here has "high standards" or is "super picky" They all think that "attraction is really important." That is extremely obvious to absolutely anyone, but they still feel the need to reiterate it. They do not respond well to suggestions that require any action on their part or …	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/20 01:25 AM
16	CMV: If most men just took care of themselves/lookmaxxed, they would by physically attractibe to a decent set of women This is so fucking false. Sorry to come across as rude, but this is personal for me. I did everything you listed in spades and much more over the course of a decade. It made ZERO difference. It's not a matter of being unable to get women that I'm actually attracted to, it's seeing no evidence of change in how I am received by women of any level. I wish you were right, and for sure there are men out there who are not fulfilling their potential. But the guys I know that are attractive are the kind…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/20 08:27 PM
1	Redpill-lite youtuber gives dating advice to woman, thoughts? Oh yeah, I scrolled through part of that. Such a joke. I don't agree with everything he says in the video, but he's literally preaching for both genders to make a better effort at trying to understand each other without shaming. The fact that most people on here are refusing to even hear what his opinions are (while still making condescending judgements and assumptions) says it all really.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/20 10:06 PM
2	Redpill-lite youtuber gives dating advice to woman, thoughts? ITT: Women saying his opinion is invalid because he doesn't fit their standard of physical attraction. People who clearly didn't watch a second of the video giving their hot takes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/20 09:52 PM
7	"looks are everything" is false, but when accounting for lives increasingly lived online, it's increasingly true. What I've learned from the brilliant women on this sub is that the problem is actually you. If you had HIGHER standards then you would be successful. How that works, I have no idea, but thats what they'll tell you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/20 02:09 AM
18	Women's toxic expectations and standards for men in dating is fueling misogyny in younger men. And nobody wants to talk about it. Exactly. And funny enough, you have to actually match with someone (ie someone YOU selected as attractive) before they can message you. If you're overwhelmed with messages then maybe... I don't know... stop swiping??	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	14/08/20 01:50 AM
11	Women's toxic expectations and standards for men in dating is fueling misogyny in younger men. And nobody wants to talk about it. God, that 2nd to last paragraph smacked me in the face. Well said. I'm lucky to have a pretty great group of friends, but it definitely feels like I am almost always the one initiating.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	14/08/20 01:43 AM
47	Women's toxic expectations and standards for men in dating is fueling misogyny in younger men. And nobody wants to talk about it. The vast majority of men get essentially ignored on online dating platforms, and then we act surprised when they carry bitter attitudes. Show me one woman on the planet who would experience that same thing and take it in stride. It's an environment where men are told that they are either worthless or in such high demand that their behavior doesn't matter at all.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	13/08/20 10:13 PM