Gobizku Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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0	[Discussion] Some things my an ex-FWB and I discussed... how is this guy supposed to be confident in a relationship with an immature girlfriend Exactly. He clearly feels unwanted, what does he have to be confident about? If she seems uninterested in sex with him, and he forces the issue he's probably going to feel like he's forcing her to do something she doesn't want.	/r/seduction	25/10/15 06:44 PM
3	Relevant comic from xkcd: Thinking Ahead The entire first panel about PUA being "evil" or scummy. PUA basically boils down to a set of tools that help with attraction, being social, and communicating in a way that would naturally create and escalate sexual situations. It could be used in a moral and ethical way, as a means to better yourself and be more outgoing, or it could be used to manipulate, lie, and have completely self-serving goals. It's basically like saying math or science is bad because they were used to revolutionize warfa…	/r/seduction	11/05/15 01:13 AM
4	Small change to Tinder game that makes a HUGE difference. 2nd guy would be pretty normal looking with simple changes. Lose a bit of weight, washing his hair, cutting his hair, shaving, smiling, and most importantly, not being a mugshot picture. Others are deformed and would take a bit more effort. But just because you have something going against you doesn't mean you should just give up.	/r/seduction	28/05/14 02:18 AM
15	BREAK FREE from your Shitty Little Life Yeah not sure why this article was posted or upvoted. If you're on /r/seduction, you probably already know these things. The difficult part is figuring out what you want to do and how to accomplish it without having your life crumble from other obligations. This article offers no suggestions on actually accomplishing those things, just tells you to go do them. It's a pep talk without a game plan. Useless.	/r/seduction	29/10/13 04:57 AM
6	Why have young people in Japan stopped having sex? They really aren't, pretty much no one in Japan uses a computer for gaming. Xboxes don't sell at all over there. That leaves 3ds, Wii U, and PS3. Know any e-sports for those systems? Also LoL is more popular in Korea than SC is at this point.	/r/seduction	20/10/13 08:26 PM
1	Body language changes your hormones and chemicals in your brain. You can literally "fake it" until you become it. "It" being confidence... There were various poses. The legs up, hands behind the head, leaning back in a chair pose for example is easy to do any you don't feel ridiculous. You don't have to do the "victory pose" to get the benefits.	/r/seduction	26/04/13 08:59 AM
2	Billy's Guide to the Freeze Out Very true. I tried to be as basic as possible in defending the OP, but even that was difficult. A lot of it requires more psychology than I am justified to say with confidence.	/r/seduction	12/04/13 09:25 PM
9	Billy's Guide to the Freeze Out The best reaction you could possibly get from completely disengaging from a girl during making-out or whatever is what is he doing now? wait, what's going on? The best reaction you could get is her realizing she would prefer to have sex rather than stop entirely, and if she is horny enough it should work more often than not. Have you honestly never heard of a freeze out? You're sitting here debating whether or not it works. It does, but you don't just use it out of nowhere, it's specifically for…	/r/seduction	12/04/13 07:37 PM
2	Got handed girl on a platter, and still managed to mess it up. Fuck me right? Couldn't agree more. Usually if a girl approaches you, you're already a few steps ahead of where you would start if you were the one approaching. And even then, his attitude probably would have been a failure even had that been the case.	/r/seduction	18/11/12 10:03 AM
1	What are your best kino exercises? Same. I realized the more I started doing it, the more natural it became though. So like a lot of other advice, fake it till you make it works with this too. Force yourself to do it early and it won't feel forced later because you'll want to do it when you see how she responds (almost always positive). That's my experience with it though.	/r/seduction	18/11/12 09:23 AM
15	[FR] First time I've ever approached a girl like an adult, not a great result but learned a good lesson. Might have also been a shit test since she probably gets that a lot as an attractive waitress/hostess.	/r/seduction	14/11/12 05:33 AM
2	[Inner Game] If you want confidence, you need to accept yourself as-is right here and right now. It doesn't seem like it, but it's how you move forward. I think one needs to find a balance between being happy with yourself instead of letting the negatives dominate your thought process, while still recognizing areas you can improve on. If one lets the negatives drag you down, you'll be worse off. Accept yourself for what you are, but work on who you want to be.	/r/seduction	25/10/12 09:29 AM
2	I asked a girl for 3 things she's into, later another guy did the same, she pointed it out and awkwardness ensued. This honestly does little to save face because you've immediately gone on the defensive. It doesn't bring you back into the conversation in a meaningful way and if she was enjoying the conversation with the previous guy, you could easily be frozen out and ignored.	/r/seduction	20/10/12 05:20 AM
5	I asked a girl for 3 things she's into, later another guy did the same, she pointed it out and awkwardness ensued. I was trying to think of something that was short, simple, reassures her value in you while devaluing the new guy. He's not the target, you don't have to be playful or cute with him, so even sarcasm isn't needed here.	/r/seduction	19/10/12 08:04 PM
3	I've heard "building and breaking rapport" a lot lately, can anyone elaborate/explain? It's not always common ground, sometimes it's just finding something SHE is interested in and building on that. It's something they really drill into you in customer support or sales scenarios. Someone who is likable, smiling, and able to build genuine rapport will be far more memorable than someone who just sticks to the facts and leaves it at that.	/r/seduction	19/10/12 07:57 PM
37	I asked a girl for 3 things she's into, later another guy did the same, she pointed it out and awkwardness ensued. "Were you just listening in on our conversation? That's kinda creepy and awkward, just saying."	/r/seduction	19/10/12 07:04 PM
1	An idea for alpha body language study - Presidential Debate After watching that and a few TED talks on body language, it's safe to say people's body language definitely betray lies or things they don't fully believe. It's also true that the same message with two different deliveries will affect the perception of the meaning. 93% seems high to me, but there is definitely a strong case that it comprises a very high amount of how we communicate. I don't know how they came to that exact number. Might be something worth posting in /r/askscience.	/r/seduction	18/10/12 09:46 PM
8	[FR] Walking to work, #close Who would lie about just getting a number? That's an awfully tame thing to lie about.	/r/seduction	17/10/12 08:44 PM
1	OUTER GAME: You're talking to a smart girl, and you want to keep her interested in YOU during conversation. People get into this community for different reasons. I'm much like you. I prefer a close knit group of friends and what I want from an SO is someone I want to be around, having shared interests, and have intimacy with, not just casual sex. We're all here to better ourselves in different ways, so I don't think anyone could possibly have a valid reason for lynching you for that comment. At worst it would be a difference of opinion on the matter and just looking to pick a fight. Definitely go pick…	/r/seduction	17/10/12 08:54 AM
3	OUTER GAME: You're talking to a smart girl, and you want to keep her interested in YOU during conversation. I might suggest reading How to Win Friends and Influence People. Not everything in that corresponds to seduction (in fact some things contradict between that book and seduction), but there are things one can learn from that. In particular there is advice on taking genuine interest in others and how important listening is in those situations. This is one of the things I feel strongly overlaps in seduction, at least in the context of this particular style of approach and rapport. If not for seduct…	/r/seduction	17/10/12 08:03 AM
1	Seduction techniques have worked so well for me, but I've hit a rather annoying snag... There was a video posted a week or so ago where this guy has (I assume) a friend video tape him doing a cold approach on the street, getting a number close, meeting up later, then planning a date. On the date, everything is going fine and there's an awkward pause while she looks around. He literally just says, "hey, look at me" and goes in for it. Nothing about it seemed unnatural from a viewing perspective. Now this guy was definitely a natural or had had really gotten good at conversation thre…	/r/seduction	15/10/12 09:56 AM
3	So.. girl goes hot for a week or two, then she goes cold. More inside. Not that I have a better suggestion, but your text comes off as "whenever you're free I'll drop what I'm doing to hang out," suggesting you have nothing better to do if one were to text you.	/r/seduction	12/10/12 06:51 AM
2	A question of logistics: how to handle extremely busy women? There was a post earlier this week or maybe last week suggesting you instead ask what her schedule is like. Gives you the answer you're looking for without doing the whole "well how about this day? no? okay then this day?" If suddenly she is busy when she said she was free, then you know she's bullshitting.	/r/seduction	07/10/12 07:54 PM
10	Watched a TED Talk on body language today. Thought it was relevant to seddit. They were focusing on non-verbal. I'm sure info about verbal high/low power exists, but you shouldn't have been surprised that wasn't included in this particular video.	/r/seduction	02/10/12 05:33 AM
2	Really like this guys style, he comes off very natural. Noticed this as well. He made suggestions, but they were never questions nor orders. It was more an open-ended statement that she couldn't refuse going along with.	/r/seduction	28/09/12 07:17 PM
2	[FR] Rejected 5 times in one night, terrible first college party experience His post definitely comes off as looking for sex as him prime intent. Hell he gave the Asian girl a percent chance and mentions that he'll have a better chance with the slightly chubby one. And your comments about him taking responsibility, they're correct. But those aren't mutually exclusive to treating women like objects. One can theoretically treat women like objects and take responsibility for failure, but part of the failure is going to be because of his attitude.	/r/seduction	17/09/12 05:26 AM
2	27 year old virgin, finally broke through. here is my story Curious about point 2. I understand what you mean, but I just want to know some of the things you did that got you out there more.	/r/seduction	04/09/12 08:58 AM
1	How do I give a genuine complement. The issue is the way in which you gave the compliment, they are generic and boring. I'm no expert, but if you're trying to use a compliment to open try to compliment that gives her an out to talk about. What is she going to respond to "you're pretty" with? A thanks, maybe. Instead if you compliment her style or maybe a piece of jewelry. I'm not the best at explaining it, but she probably took the time to decide to wear that particular piece of jewelry that day. By complimenting that, you're vali…	/r/seduction	02/09/12 06:44 AM
1	Hey r/seduction, I've created this study on text message response time in young adult women and would like your feedback (details inside) Agreed, this subreddit thoroughly confuses me with a lot of posts. I'm a complete novice at this stuff but even I can get a number, so seeing "field reports" with a number as the end result on the front page gets a "so what" reaction from me. Some people get into this stuff for different reasons. I myself am trying to become a more well rounded individual, boost my confidence, become more outgoing, less thinking and more doing. To better myself and let my normally hidden personality shine throug…	/r/seduction	02/09/12 06:17 AM