GodAce974 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	My wife and I have talked several times about divorce, and I have a custody question for you gentlemen. Yeah... She has been horrid through this entire process. My lawyer has already dismissed what she has threatened me about, so I am not worried. She doesn't know that though, so I am letting her build her case on it so that it just falls apart. Her loss, my gain.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/09/21 10:11 PM
7	My wife and I have talked several times about divorce, and I have a custody question for you gentlemen. Very true. My wife told me she wanted to be amicable and flexible with my concerning my kids. But wouldn't give me custody. Why? She wants child support money. The sickening part is she makes more than me. The moment she thinks she finds something to use against you, she will. My wife tried that. The moment she thought she had something on me, she changed the Final Decree agreement to give her full control. She straight up told me to expect consequences (won't go into details) if I didn't sign h…	/r/Divorce_Men	07/09/21 02:19 PM
7	How do you find the good attorney? I chose my attorney based on three things. 1) a friend's recommendation. 2) during our initial consult, he not only told me he could get me my kids (my only true concern), but he told and wrote out for me how he would do it. 3) he gave me a copy of this plan to show to another attorney if I didn't choose him. 1) reputation 2) confidence/experience 3) integrity	/r/Divorce_Men	03/09/21 07:29 PM
8	Reminder: 50% of all Marriages in Divorce. 90% of all divorces/separation is initiated by the wife, 90% of custody is given to Mothers. Then end game is the destruction of the family and the natural laws God put in place. Destroy the family, destroy the world.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/09/21 12:23 PM
6	Reminder: 50% of all Marriages in Divorce. 90% of all divorces/separation is initiated by the wife, 90% of custody is given to Mothers. Dude, agreed. Prior to my wife cheating and hitting me with divorce papers, it was my RIGHT to wake up every morning and see my kids before going to work. It was my RIGHT to come home to them every evening. Now I have to FIGHT for a fraction of that right. All because I have a penis? Excuse me? That makes sense how?	/r/Divorce_Men	03/09/21 11:52 AM
3	Reminder: 50% of all Marriages in Divorce. 90% of all divorces/separation is initiated by the wife, 90% of custody is given to Mothers. I had to take a mandated divorced parent class as part of my divorce process. It states that 50% of marriages end in divorce, and near 70% of remarriages do as well. Don't know how accurate that is, but that was in the government issued class.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/09/21 11:50 AM
10	The depression is so bad I’m struggling to survive. She probably wasn't always a sociopath. My STBXW is the same. She went from completely adoring me to snapping one day and turning into a stone cold bitch. No idea what happened, other than finding a new guy and cheating on me. That being said, you feel what you feel, but don't give in to these feelings and don't let them control you. You will get through this.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/09/21 12:43 AM
3	father of two divorcing in Texas Get as much as you can on camera. She comea around, pull out your phone. Make it known. You will either get hard evidence against her, or she will chill the chill out. I have to do this with my STBXW, and she has calmed down, stopped harassing and bullying me, and that is better for the kids. Hopefully your chick will respond similarly. And if she doesn't, then you have hard evidence to use against her. Upload any video evidence to a cloud service ASAP .	/r/Divorce_Men	28/08/21 08:15 PM
3	Signed the papers today It gets better. I'm still in the middle of my divorce, nothing finalized. I started a lot like you, amicable, emotionally broken, not sure what to do. In my situation I discovered that she was cheating on me with another man, which caused the divorce, so once I learned that a switch flipped for me and I was 100% done. This escalated my healing process, though I'm nowhere near 100% better. That will still take time. I don't know your details, but it will get better. Take time for yourself, journa…	/r/Divorce_Men	28/08/21 01:44 AM
4	Brand new, need some advice... So, I am a dad living in Texas in the middle of a divorce. I will say, not having a place for your kids and working as a trucker WILL limit your options to gain possession (what most people think of when they say "custody.") However, these should NOT limit your visitation rights (you being allowed to see them, but not necessarily have POSSESSION of them). Living in a different city or state from them is probably also going to hinder your ability to see or gain possession of them. So, the choices…	/r/Divorce_Men	27/08/21 08:35 PM
1	Just Need to Vent In a similar boat. My wife is very emotionaly abusive and does whatever she can to bully and torment me. We are in the middle of a divorce now, and it got so bad I had to move out. We have kids so we have to see each other at swaps, and when kids were out of earshot she would try to start crap. I started bringing my phone out and video recording our conversations so I could send them to my lawyer. She backed off real fast. So, if feasible, I recommend you move out and use your phone camera when …	/r/Divorce_Men	27/08/21 07:41 PM
3	Flat rate attorney Not my personal experience, but a friend of mine has an online, flat rate attorney that is only charging him $500 to handle his divorce problems. Word of advice: if it sounds too good... For my own divorce, I not only opted for an hourly attorney, but I chose a more expensive option because he was more confident he could get me my kids. Final verdict has yet to pass, but I am hopeful he can deliver, especially with what he is being paid.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/08/21 07:31 PM