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I've dated women who are normal or slightly heavier than normal and then they became overweight. I lost my physical attraction and it was awful and heartbreaking. Now I can only confidently date women who are at such an ideal weight and don't struggle with it that there is almost no chance they become overweight later. I hate that the obesity epidemic has brought me to this place but I guess that's where I'm at.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 11:15 AM
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Ok, fair enough. I am just always on a crusade on this topic. My longest relationship was 5 years with an extremely shy woman who wouldn't make a peep. As a result I just didn't go down on her much because I thought she didn't really care for it. I later found out she did, but she sure could have fooled me at the time. Later dated a woman who was the opposite and responded enthusiastically and made it crystal clear that she loved it. She transformed me. I didn't even know what I was capable of b…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 10:51 AM
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But what's your excuse then? Are you from a culture where all men refuse to do it? Do you believe that your own pleasure is not important? Because that sounds like a pivot from what you had just said prior, which is what I was addressing as a cop out / rationalization from just having the courage to effectively communicate with your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 10:33 AM
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I feel this is a cop out. I think women are just in general too timid and afraid to speak up on this issue. Most women are really terrible at oral too... but we give a few pointers and they can get better. Another thing is that most women are different in what they like with oral sex. Even someone who is really experienced with oral can have a learning curve with a new woman. When she just lays there and provides zero feedback, she's only screwing herself over. But suit yourself. It's all you if…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 10:23 AM
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Yeah, it's kind of mindblowing that this obvious truth is somehow made obscure again by society. Close your eyes and picture some stereotypical dude from high school, or college, or whatever, who just got all the ladies and slept with all the hottest women in that environment. He's really good looking, isn't he? That's not a fucking coincidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 02:09 AM
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because David Bowie fucked more women than both Tates combined Well... I mean... Bowie had real actual tangible talent, and commanded stadiums like a living god. That's a bit sexier than bragging about your cars on Twitter and being a douchebro. Still, point taken.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 01:38 AM
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I disagree. Us men always complain about how "women only see the top 20% of men" and every man below that is invisible to women... but while the actual numbers may not be the same, the same concept is happening if you reverse the genders. We can't see our blindspot by definition... that's how blindspots work. 100 years ago, a man who isn't getting laid had to jerk off with his imagination only. You didn't have photos, you didn't have videos. There was practically nothing in terms of visual aids.…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:21 PM
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Women are also not more romantic than men at all. I have to agree with that. I see it as men are the producers of romance, and women are the consumers of it. Since women love receiving it so much, it makes sense that they think of themselves as more romantic in some sense... but I would definitely consider say John Mayer to likely be more musical than even his biggest fans.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 09:16 PM
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I'm all for a good back and forth on this topic, but at least his references at least had something to do with the topic at hand. Seems like you're just throwing out links to check a box that you've provided a citation. Women are better at picking out gifts. Ok. Do they do it often and for no reason other than a purely romantic gesture? Doesn't seem like it from what I see in the world. But they do great giving gifts on Christmas to all of their family, which is more what that study suggests. Wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 09:14 PM
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Right? Duh. Just reverse it and same answer. Why do high status men almost always date conventionally attractive woman? Because they can. Everybody wants to get the best that they can get and there's nothing wrong with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 02:24 PM
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It definitely comes down to this. Every single one of the items listed are the way they are because of supply and demand. Women are in high demand in all of these ways, and men simply aren't... and probably never will be. Best to just face reality and deal with it. You aren't going to change supply and demand by complaining about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 01:05 PM
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I have a good life and am happily in a relationship. Some of the most miserable people that I've ever encountered in my life were married, and their marriage seemed to be a significant causal factor of their misery. Generally speaking throughout my life, the idea of pursuing marriage has been about as appealing to me as buying a boat. In other words, it doesn't even cross my mind as something worth even thinking about. It has no appeal to me personally. Why would I do that? It has no draw. Makes…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 12:01 PM
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“ Most men think marriage means access to sex for the rest of your life”. And this is not problematic for you at all? So men don’t seek companionship and connection with the person with whom they are supposed to share their live I'm so tired of seeing this logical fallacy endlessly in all of these silly conversations, and it will never end. The fallacy is, if person is seeking thing "x" in their partner, then they're ONLY seeking thing x and they don't care about y and z! No. What the hell? Wher…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 11:51 AM
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Yeah, hair is hugely important. Wtf? Nails are pretty insignificant, but bad hair can wreck a woman's looks and good hair can really elevate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 12:18 PM
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But who cares? It's a nonsequitur and irrelevant. It has nothing to do with what we are all talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 04:11 PM
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Viewed through the lens of keeping score and "men have it so much harder and we should feel sorry for all of us men and not for the women", yeah I guess so. That seems to be the only thing people care about on here sometimes. But that was not at all the point of the comparison. The point is only an explanation for what it feels like for each gender to evaluate the state of a potential mate of the opposite gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 02:09 PM
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Dude, it might be hard to believe but I don't even want to date a woman that's in her 20s. 30 is about the youngest I can feasibly see myself going. Yes, women in their 20s look nice but culturally they're total strangers to me. I live in a college town and every time I walk past two college aged women walking by me talking to each other I thank god that I'm not dating them when I hear what's coming out of their mouths. Also I don't know how old you are but your tastes physically do grow a bit w…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 09:20 PM
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That happens too, but I feel there is a very non transactional visceral disgust that women have for a man with zero status and zero ability to provide (me in my 20s). That doesn't mean they need someone with money so that they can take his money. They need someone with money just so that they can feel attraction to them and have respect for them. Same as you needing a woman who isn't a prostitute. Everything about a woman being a prostitute is just kind of a turnoff, just like a sloppy guy with …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 09:13 PM
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Exactly. I'm 39 and dating seems to be better than it ever has for me. I matured slowly and my career didn't even really take off until I was about 30 in the first place. In my 20's I was a bit of a joke compared to myself now. I'm currently dating someone that I feel very grateful to be with. And on the other hand, some men peak in their 20's. Some men never even truly mature at all, actually. Yeah... those guys are fucked. If you're not improving from your 20's to your 30's, you're actually ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 06:58 PM
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😆 I nearly spit out my food reading the tail end of that. Nicely done, whether you're serious or just trying to be funny. Poe's Law is hitting hard in this discussion! I know black pill, red pill, and how hopelessly incelibate some men are. It doesn't mean that they have to pay for OnlyFans content. There is almost literally endless free porn on the internet. More than can be consumed in a lifetime. Pay if you'd like, it is YOUR choice.
/r/AllPillDebate06/07/23 12:12 AM
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All of your logic is so broken that it's not even worth trying to clean up but I'll try. You don't seem to know what words mean. To play the poor little victim card if a man pays for an OnlyFans and say that it is not consentual is beyond belief stupidity. Does she want to sell the OnlyFans? Yes. Does he want to buy the OnlyFans? Yes. There, it is consentual. She didn't deceive him in any way, so there is not even any caveat. He is paying for a fantasy, and she is selling one. They both know exa…
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 10:00 PM
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You are dumb as fuck, but seem to think you're brilliant. The men are being exploited but they are making the conscious decision to participate in it. They don't have to pay for OnlyFans, they can simply choose to not do it. Rape is by definition coerced, and nonconsentual. There couldn't be a bigger difference between the two things that you are comparing as if they are exactly the same thing. The immediately obvious false equivalence of you argument could be spotted by a 12 year old. Now go si…
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 09:11 PM
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Stupid sexy turnips...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 11:26 AM
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And what is your value?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 01:14 PM
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Never used em. OkCupid, Bumble, Tinder, Hinge.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 01:44 PM
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You could be unique, but most women's vaginas would turn into the Sahara Desert if their man didn't turn aggressive towards the sexual harasser in this scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 02:34 PM
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Are you dating women? Or just men? You see it all the time. "I want a man who can take the lead". They want a man who can have the courage to ask them out, plan out the dates, where will we go and what will we do, make most of the decisions, drive the relationship forward, provide most of the resources (make more money). They want the man to physically escalate as the relationship is developing (first kiss, touching, etc), and even when it's fully mature the man is still usually going to be the …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 02:15 PM
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Lots of women out there who put in their online dating profiles that they want a man who can lead. Maybe ask them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 02:03 PM
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If you're out on the town with your man and some other random man grabs your ass, how would like it to play out from there?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 02:03 PM
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Same. I think the first time I was on an airplane was when I was like 16, visiting my sister who was away for college in another state. I paid for the ticket myself and flew alone. Then I hear about people going on family vacations when they're preteens to Europe or Disney or whatever, and I'm like holy shit people have just had different lives from me. I could afford to travel the world now, and I may do that more, but I'm happy to just be extremely financially secure and know that I can eat ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 03:18 PM
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I agree with you, but good fucking luck convincing the world of it. People always want better. I honestly feel bad for people who were born into a family that has some wealth. You get used to the good life at a young age, and then you become and adult and will just want even more. Are you good enough to earn it? Better hope so. I grew up in a bottom 20% percent of income/wealth household. Now as an adult I'm top 10% earner / net worth. I'm a lucky bastard for that. If it was the other way around…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 02:38 PM
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At the point that the robot is passable in the nightclub, dating in any form becomes as obsolete as trading with seashells anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 02:34 AM
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I think this is true. I dated a bisexual woman once and it was awesome. There was literally no downside. She would point out nice asses to me, and me to her, and nobody got mad. I didn't feel insecure about her cheating on me at all, either.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 01:20 AM
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They don't like fat women, they just like pussy. If that pussy belongs to a fat women, they might sometimes look past it. I don't even get what you're saying in the context of this discussion? The topic is why men will fuck but not commit to fat women. The main argument presented by the poster we're responding to is that they'll hit it but not commit to her because they want better. When you are looking for a long term partner, do you not side with the traits that you prefer? If you prefer fit w…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 07:29 PM
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Disagree... you're making vague wish-washy statements and acting as if just because it's possible for an individual man to be attracted to large women, that this is the norm. It is not. Take 1,000 men and 1,000 pictures of women and have every man rate every woman on a scale from 1-10. The results of the survey will be a bloodbath for all of the overweight women. The men want and prefer the fit women, literally almost every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 07:20 PM
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It’s just that overweight women can gather the same amount of raw sexual desire and enthusiasm from men that thin woman can. Yeah as a man, that just does not even slightly resonate with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 07:07 PM
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Eh, I think that number 1 is the far more likely reason statistically. Men would 9 out of 10 times prefer a thin/fit woman to a fat one, unless they have a kink for fat women. Just look at porn videos. Fat women are there, but they're a rare niche category. It's not what men want. (nor do women seek out fat men) It's more like they're just attracted enough to her to get their nut off, but know they'd be unsatisfied and longing for someone else if they were in a relationship with her. Think about…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 06:44 PM
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Exactly. When you exclude those who are undatable past that age, there are very slim pickins. It's like hitting up a going out of business, everything must go sale 2/3rds of the way through the sale. 90% of the good stuff is long gone, and 90% of the trash that nobody wants remains... You also forgot another major undatable category, and that is women with moderate to severe mental health issues. There's quite a few older women who have just consistently failed to lock down a commitment because …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 11:17 AM
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Some of your points are pretty decent and make sense in a vacuum. But it looks like this dude was cheating on his wife for over a year. That's real shit behavior and everyone in the comments is going to be out for blood. He isn't going to get anything close to the benefit of the doubt in that case. It's not a surprise.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 12:41 PM
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If you've read my post, you can see that's what I've been doing. I'm just responding to the twisted assertion that I'm seeing throughout this thread that since men propose, they're the ones that want marriage, as if most marriages don't happen purely to placate a woman's feverish desire for it. And I don't know, it's just generally frustrating that it's so difficult to find women who are on the same page on this topic. To then act like marriage is all about the man is laughable.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 04:20 PM
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these days women marry and pay 50/50 Yeah, sometimes. I can think of many examples of people that I know where that's not even remotely the case. My brother has worked full time and steadily pulled a hefty income since he was in his early 20's (he's 40 now). His wife on the other hand is extremely well educated (licensed architect), but she jumps from job to job and often takes huge breaks in between. She even went over a year without working one time. Meanwhile my brother keeps the lights on. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:33 PM
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Women have no history of controlling men and forcing men to marry them. Uh... you can put it that way but in modern times it's more like most marriages happen only because the man has his arm twisted into proposing by the woman. Most men have little to no desire to get married since there's nothing much in it for him except for shutting her up about "when is he going to propose!?". I bet that literally the majority of marriages happen for that reason, though it's impossible to have direct eviden…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:19 PM
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So what does this mean for you, exactly? It honestly makes it sound like you yourself have a very low self image, self worth, and self esteem. So what is your destiny here then? If you have to find someone that's never been with anyone "better" than you, how tiny is your dating pool?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 12:35 PM
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We just don't place a man's value in his sexual purity like insecure men do to women. Did you not... literally do exactly that in your previous sentence? Which is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 12:12 PM
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The way that I see it, if you put everyone on a scale of 1-10 for their looks, there is a problem because everyone wants to "get the best deal". Meaning that say I'm a 7. That means within reason, the attractiveness range that I'm probably able to score for a mate would be a 6, 7 or 8. One point lower, one point higher, or the same. 5 and below is too unattractive to me to even consider. 9 and above is too far above me and I wouldn't be able to attract them. But especially with online dating whi…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 05:48 PM
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This is actually a surprisingly good post with strong points. Another one that I've taken notice of in recent times: Judgemental. Women hate to be judged in any way (understandable), yet they themselves are highly, highly judgemental. I think that white women especially are the most judgemental creatures on this planet. (Think: Karen)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 12:29 PM
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There has been a small percentage of men completely dominating the dating/mating game since the beginning of time, but dating apps are strongly amplifying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 01:02 PM
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I'm a total nerd about computers and always have been. I thought they were the coolest damned thing ever before I even hit puberty, and I had no shortage of girls interested in me back when I was in middle/high school (so there's no argument that it was any kind of cope). And I still think computers are awesome and they consume a lot of my free time. As for hobbies and interests in a relationship.... I find that it's not that important to have that overlap as you'd intuitively imagine. What real…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 03:06 PM
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Great, now men need a fucking underbite just to get laid? Where does it end?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 05:28 PM
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This was my first time seeing this purge and I thought it was hilarious. Lots of hilarious content imo from both sides of the aisle.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 03:31 PM
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There's a huge difference between having meat on the bones and being obese or morbidly obese. Indeed, even today "thicc" is a hugely popular taste to have in women. This is totally different from out of control obesity, like the woman in the photo. I'm pretty sure that a gargantuan lumpy body of that magnitude was never "in". It is true that society and culture can influence tastes towards some strange preferences... but it's important to consider how much standards for what is fat and what is "…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:03 PM
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I mean you can say the same about women and the things that they're objectified for.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 07:00 PM
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I'm 38 and imo it would be absolutely disgusting to date a 17 year old. I think that early 30's is the youngest that I could date right now without shame. Late 20's possibly, maybe, but they'd have to be especially mature and I would deep down feel like a creep. If someone is around 40 and legit wants to take a 17 year old on dates, they've got issues man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 03:39 PM
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Agreed. I get the impression though that he's just trying to battle the cartoonish perspective that gets rehashed on here that 99% of men are beyond ugly, masturbating in their parents basement, not showering, and playing Call of Duty all day... while 90% of women are gorgeous go-getters with exceptional mental health who have their life fully under control (Women-are-wonderful effect). The dating pool is fairly putrid on both sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 01:35 PM
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Yeah I mean past a certain point, being fat will ruin even the hot face itself (man or woman). Checks out.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 05:13 PM
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Nobody has said that conspiracies don't exist. You've created and are battling a strawman. But it should take a lot of evidence to prove something. The "conspiracy theorists" in this discussion are those people who easily and readily believe in conspiracy theories based on paper-thin flimsy evidence. My cousin's husband is like this. There is being a total sheep who believes anything that the mainstream media tells you. There is being a true skeptic and thinking for yourself and wanting to see r…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 01:29 PM
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Even blind men consider a 0.7 waist-to-hip ratio to be ideal in experiments, based on feel. It seems pretty obvious to me that there is some innate biological wiring in humans to have a strong preference for good/ideal health in their partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 12:19 PM
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that would lead to having inflated Eagles
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 04:23 PM
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Wait until you hear about Pizza Pthursday.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 01:14 AM
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It's not like people who are "honest" or blunt all the time are immune to this either though. They tend to get just as butt-hurt as anyone else when told uncomfortable truths.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 04:55 PM
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Yeah, I am not nearly as rich as you are, but I'm in a way better position than I ever expected to be in and will likely retire early. In my last relationship I did see some similar patterns forming. She had opinions about what I should be doing with my money and we weren't even living together yet, never mind being married. She also had very rich parents and would tell them what to do with their money, too. Yet she could barely make enough money to support herself without them bailing her out a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 02:27 PM
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My attitude on women's orgasms during sex is just make her cum as much as possible before the penetration even starts. You can't guarantee her orgasm during sex, but you can guarantee it beforehand. And that way you don't have to worry about "thinking about baseball" as much or whatever it is, if you feel that you're not lasting as long as you'd like that day. Just make it so that everybody gets the orgasms that they want. I will say this though. I think that women need to think twice about vibr…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 05:57 PM
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No, I'm not asserting that it proves anything about the other groups. I'm just pointing out that it's such a generic observation that it can be applied to virtually any organized group that a person might disagree with. Again just pointing out that it is evidence of nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 04:42 PM
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That doesn't really prove any point at all, though. You can also just as easily take all of that and apply it to modern feminism, MeToo, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 04:31 PM
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Yeah, I'd be cool with that. I've dated someone probably more intelligent than me and significantly better educated, and it was pretty cool being able to have very deep conversations. If she makes a ton of money that's great, too. I actually already have a lot of money and will likely retire early. The only thing that intimidates me about a woman who also has a lot (or more) financial might than me is if there is lifestyle mismatch. I like to be careful with my money, and I don't want to date so…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:10 PM
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Absolutely. I will admit that there is some level where I could be intimidated by a woman's achievements. I would feel weird as hell dating a CEO, politician, powerful lawyer... that's just not the kind of guy that I am that I'd want to live with someone who's firing on all cylinders 24/7. I'm way, way more mellow in life than that. But yeah, given the choice between someone exactly on my career level and only "adequately" attractive, versus below my career level and very hot (all other things e…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 02:31 PM
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Yeah, analogies do not prove anything. Ever. They're just a tool for comparing one thing to another thing that might be similar to it, so that the similarities might make the original concept more clear to see. The key takeaway from the lock and key thing in my view is that yes, it is very difficult for a man to sleep with huge numbers of women, and it is very easy for a woman to do the same. That seems close to an objective fact, I don't see how there can be much debate about that fact. Assigni…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 12:08 PM
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So very true. What's worse is that it's a commonly spread myth that it's "good for you" and "healthy". Yeah, masturbation is perfectly normal... but porn? Jerking off while you watch an endless harem of impossibly gorgeous women getting fucked in any way that you can even conceive of.... no, that's not normal. And it seems pretty obvious to me as an adult that doing that will warp your brain in at least a few ways. But it wasn't obvious whatsoever to teenage me back in the 90's when broadband po…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 06:07 PM
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Porn is like junk food. Think of a kid who eats nothing at all besides straight up candy. He is getting way, way too much sugar, and not enough of everything else. Porn is like that. You're getting way, way too much visual stimulation. And not enough of the other good things about sex (scent, tastes, touch from someone that isn't you, warmth of someone's body, real social connection). Now you can become that kid who doesn't even want to eat anything besides his candy. His fucked up taste buds ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 11:36 AM
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if he didn't do something shitty to deserve being made fun I mean, can you not see how this is just a blanket justification for shitty behavior which you are filtering all of your past experiences through? If a woman is mean to me, does that give me carte blanche to rip on her for how her face looks, how big or small her tits are, has no ass, "flappy meat curtains", whatever other shitty comments that I want to make? Both men and women will do that. Doesn't make it right.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 02:19 PM
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Yikes. It's pretty depressing on multiple levels. These people will never experience love. Their cynical worldview and manipulative tactics will ensure that if anything great ever comes their way, they're all but guaranteed to fuck it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 01:57 AM
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"...But why male models?"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 09:11 PM
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Women on social media want as many likes, views, retweets as possible. It doesn't matter who's doing it. No, they don't want direct attention and messages from undesirable men. That's obvious. Attention of that kind is an insult to a beautiful woman, because it means that a subpar man actually thought that he had a chance with her, which might make her question whether she is as far above him as she thought... Or at the very least it is a waste of her time. But they want to see those numbers cou…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 07:36 PM
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since they don't base their egos on their ability to attract men. Uh... tell that to Instagram.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 03:45 PM
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I agree with a lot of what you're saying. But I feel that there's a lot of nuance and wisdom in many of these little communities, keeping in mind that none of them get it 100% right. Shoot, the idea that men need to just get out there, and actually touch grass, and talk to women, and have some social courage, and not feel victimized by their own looks is a very red pill idea. Blaming it all on your own poor physical looks is a very "black pill" concept. But even in that is some wisdom. Society a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 07:27 PM
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Agreed. But you do see the exact same lack of accountability on just about any feminism forum. They also tend to blame the opposite gender for literally any problem they've ever experienced in life. The literally just fling out the word patriarchy with no further explanation, like a Fox News talking point / buzzword. We should all strive for more nuanced views. The truth is often somewhere in the middle. That's why I come here, or at least that's supposed to be the idea behind purple pill debate…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 11:34 AM
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Every "casual sex" scenario I've ever been in eventually ended up with the woman wanting a relationship. I feel that women seeking casual sex is practically a myth... they're just casting their net large and wide to ultimately obtain a relationship. But people are complicated and different. Anyway, dudes who easily bang absurd numbers of women are no myth. I have no idea why someone would think otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 12:30 PM
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I don't think it's a win/win situation for anyone but a few, because of the whole 80% of women competing for the top 10% Chad men thing. They mathematically cannot win and most will be caught in a loop of being pumped and dumped. But that's a whole different topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 12:16 PM
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Why are you having a conversation with yourself? Forgot to switch accounts?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 01:27 PM
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This is the video that made me realize porn was problematic. Unfortunately this dude has since died, but he did some good work. I'd highly recommend watching. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wSF82AwSDiU In the context of this little conversation in this thread though, yeah I do think that it distorts what someone thinks a partner should look like. I take it you're a young man. I'm in my late 30's. When I was young and in school, you couldn't just hop online and watch dozens of women that are hot…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 09:14 PM
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Yeah, it is poison in more ways that we even understand yet. The social and sexual consequences of modern high-speed porn use are probably comparable to the health and fitness consequences of McDonald's and the standard American diet, and the sad thing is that most people are still telling themselves that it's normal and healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 05:23 PM
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That's definitely all true as well, no disagreement there. And let's not forget porn addiction, which in my opinion can lead to desensitization of general attraction and drive towards the opposite sex and especially people who are "in your own league". If you're not even that crazy about a woman who is your equal, how you gonna work up the nerve to pursue her?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 04:53 PM
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The problem is that most of the men in these communities are getting absolutely nowhere in dating and they're trying to understand why. What the mainstream advice will tell you does not jive whatsoever with reality, as viewed through data. Like these dudes can't even get dates at all. Telling them to "filter for women who are suited to you" is a ridiculous and unhelpful thing to tell them. There is nothing wrong with trying to understand female nature broadly. I don't even really see any indicat…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 02:44 PM
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The fact that you would have to disregard the second sentence means that's not obvious for a start Well the second sentence is the no homo part, it's a clarification of the first sentence that he's not a gay man. Are you sure that "obtuse" isn't a projection because you couldn't comprehend a joke?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 06:30 PM
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Because if you take the first sentence literally without the second sentence, he would be saying that he is a man who has sex with men. Was that really not obvious, or are you trolling?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 01:46 PM
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I like your fancy way of saying "no homo".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 02:23 AM
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Would you say that Valentine's Day is women focused or male focused? Who is likely paying for the meal, buying gifts, and coordinating the whole day? Would you say that getting down on one knee and proposing marriage is a romantic gesture? Who typically does this? Who typically does the pursuing in the initial stages of a relationship, the man or the woman? And we can find all kinds of exceptions to these, but on the whole it's pretty obvious that men are generally the producers of romance and w…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 01:24 PM
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Yeah it's actually insane to think like that, that there's someone for everyone. It's a nice thought, but show me an example in the animal kingdom where the mating game isn't fucking brutal. Shit, for many creatures you're lucky just to survive until birth, and even more lucky not to be killed as a baby either by a competing species or even your own parent. It's pretty clear to me in this universe that an unemployed Cheeto eating anime nerd might not be destined to knock it out of the park in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 09:07 PM
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That's interesting but it also implies that literally nobody can and that bisexual men may be incapable of experiencing satisfying monogamy. I don't really think it's true. As for me (a straight man) I have dated some bisexual women before. I didn't really think of it like that at all. As a matter of fact, I wouldn't feel "threatened" whatsoever by other women hitting on her in the slightest for some reason, whereas I wasn't as cool with other men hitting on her.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 02:43 PM
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I've always heard the exact opposite, that most women are not accepting of bisexual men in dating. I wonder if that only applies to long term relationships, due to a perception that a bisexual man would likely be more promiscuous? Or maybe it is just among certain demographics or even total bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 12:50 PM
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Pack it up boys. All of these surveys and the scientific approach is nonsense. Jasonology says that he is doing fine so this is all invalid. I'm not a betting man either, but I'd put money on you not understanding your own level of attractiveness versus these studies being wrong for some vague reason. And no, I am not a bitter person doing mental gymnastics, I'm a high income decent looking white guy over 6 feet tall and women are generally highly attracted to me. I just have lived life and seen…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 11:10 AM
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You say that as if what I said is ridiculous. Are you still confused about why we think that women care about marriage? The reason is that on average, they overwhelmingly do care. A lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 01:10 PM
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I am happy a lot of these men do not want to get married and I am confused about why they are convinced others want them to. Because in literally every relationship that I've ever been in with a woman except for one, the woman was indignant and outraged that I had no interest in marriage and this tainted the relationship? Seems like a fair enough reason to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 01:00 PM
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Romney?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 12:53 PM
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It isn't normalized, what the heck are you talking about? It's literally illegal in most places and carries a heavy stigma on both sides of the transaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 01:52 PM
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Aw gee, thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 08:10 PM
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I mean.... They will, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 11:31 AM
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That's 6 inches actually, referencing the common 666 thing for men (over 6 foot tall, 6 figures, and at least 6 inch dick... I think there are others too).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 11:11 PM
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I'm fairly pale and have dark hair. I don't like the clean-razor look, it just doesn't work very well on me and I've experimented with it a lot. I shave with an Andis T-Outliner and no guard, so literally as far down as it goes without being smooth, like rough sandpaper. There's still some horseshoe look, it's just the best result that I can do. I'm basically a perfect candidate for a subtle SMP. And yeah, she was very immature. Sweet but crazy girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 06:44 PM
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I simply disagree about the baldness. I honestly was totally fine with it and accepting for almost 10 years... but I actually started to hate it again after I recorded some YouTube videos of me playing guitar. My bald head looked like absolute shit to me on camera. It was like rediscovering my baldness all over again. Playing guitar makes me "feel cool"... but when I saw my bald head with a horseshoe on camera it didn't look cool whatsoever to me, I looked lame as fuck. I was like who the hell i…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 06:33 PM
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Let's see... pros: 6'2" tall and decently good looking Over 6" *ahem* In very good shape and exercise consistently. Not shredded but you can see a 6 pack in generous lighting. High income well into 6 figures, very good stable job. High net worth into 7 figures. I love giving oral/fingering, and giving a woman an orgasm is that thing that is guaranteed to turn me up to 11 on the horny scale, and I try to do it as much as possible. Thoroughly enjoy mutual hedonism, giving/receiving massages for lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:16 PM
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I mean... on the contrary, I'm wondering why you feel personally attacked by his post? He wasn't going after you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 12:59 PM
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I think that you're just overly sensitive/combative or are having reading comprehension problems. Hypergamy is not a bad word. And I didn't ascribe any negative judgement to it, only to those who deny it. I've also made a point to state multiple times that hypergamy is natural and there's nothing to fix. This conversation is very boring. Have a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 07:19 PM
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Aside from that sentence making no sense, I don't even know specifically what you disagree with me on since you haven't made much of a case for any of your beliefs, outside of that you believe that I want more women fucking me out of fear, if I have your bizarre accusation correct. For the record it's not hard for me to get sex. Are you here to deny female hypergamy? What do you believe? Yes, I would like for everyone to agree with me but sometimes people just disagree. And sometimes people are …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 05:55 PM
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Don't we all? What even is your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 05:25 PM
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There are many people here with unique opinions. I'm not the OP of the thread. I never said that I agree with him or even believe that hypergamy and the state of affairs is anything new. It's not. It's literally how women select for the highest quality men and the species gets stronger. If every slackjawed moron throughout history got to have children I really don't think we'd have landed on the moon by now. Not everyone gets to reproduce. It's sexual selection. Most species on the planet don't …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 04:38 PM
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I’m sad that you deprive yourself from feeling something like love by just saying that it doesn’t exist Bro, I didn't even say anything close to that. What the actual hell are you talking about. That was such a stretch and putting words into my mouth in bad faith, you're clearly not worth talking to.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 02:02 PM
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It is hardwired into men's brains to want to fuck smoking hot women, but what percentage are actually pulling it off? People settle for the best that they can get, all things considered. I would say that just about any women wants a man who makes as much money as possible. Men want a woman that's as physically attractive as possible, and couldn't give much of a fuck about her money as long as she isn't broke and dragging him down. This person's anecdote is fine but if you look at real statistics…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 01:38 PM
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Ding ding ding.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 01:02 PM
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Pre internet and pre smart phone even nerdy introverted people forced themselves to go outside and touch grass and socialize with other humans. Yeah, my perspective on what makes this whole thing confusing and interesting is that online dating seems to be the internet providing a solution to a problem that the internet also mostly caused. People are a bit more introverted than they used to be. Everywhere you go you can find people with their face buried in their smartphone, basically ignoring th…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 02:07 PM
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This is a good post. I think it's amazing sometimes how well it works to overlay economic models over the dynamics of the dating market... and would even say that anyone who is analyzing the dating market with zero economic perspective is probably not coming up with practical or useful ways of thinking about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 03:16 PM
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Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 11:45 PM
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Ok. So how about answering the question?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 11:01 PM
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Curious, do you consider yourself to be a misandrist?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 09:17 PM
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Just curious if you are aware how rarely the opposite is true? The amount of women who "genuinely like and appreciate men" is crazy low.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:26 PM
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Yeah but men typically do prefer younger instead of older. It doesn't have to be some massive age gap. And my real point there is what if you yourself are in your 20's. Women in their 20's are going to be a lot less accepting of baldness than those in their 30's, 40's, 50's.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 06:05 PM
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This is a nonsense point, though. Yeah, you can find a few bald men who look great in spite of their baldness. They'd still look far more attractive with hair though, especially to the younger women which is what men are the most after. https://qph.fs.quoracdn.net/main-qimg-f9ae602a3d286e670260686123a058fa-c So what. There are a few handsome bald men in Hollywood. Why do you think it is that the rate of baldness in the general population is like 100x more common than in Hollywood leading men? Be…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 05:23 PM
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Seems like a tricky strategy for a staunch atheist.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 01:45 PM
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No, providing for his children and his psycho ex-wife. He was "nailed" for alimony because she didn't work. Reading comprehension. He had the kids 50% of the time, but still had to pay both child support and alimony to her, while she lived in a paid-for house with her new boyfriend and spent all of the money that's left over after he paid her mortgage spoiling herself. It was a marriage & divorce worst-case scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 07:36 PM
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Paraphrasing your post for you: "Stop being total fucking pussies complaining about how women don't acknowledge and listen to your emotional issues and will use them against you. If you want to be such a pussy, man up and be a pussy and stop bitching about what a pussy you're not allowed to be!"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 03:41 PM
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Both, I guess. He had two children, and his wife wasn't even working. That's why she nailed him for so much. His life was essentially destroyed. I watched him lose a dangerous amount of body weight from the stress.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 03:28 PM
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I hate to say there's truth in what you're saying. I might disagree a bit on the race thing though. At least in my own personal experience. I don't know how to put it lightly... But yes I am personally less likely to swipe right on black women, but the reason for that is the astronomical rate of obesity in the black female community. I don't know what the hell the true reason is for that but that's what I can't help but notice. When I see a black woman who is fit, maybe kinda nerdy, into heavy m…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 09:02 PM
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Me personally, I am high income and net worth. I don't even want kids anyway. Not sure I even want a girlfriend or wife anymore, quite frankly. My point was more that there are two sides to the equation. If men are seeking out women who earn less, you'd have to admit that at least as much and probably much more, women are seeking out men who earn significantly higher incomes than they do themselves. And so, if a man decides that he wants a wife who is his financial equal, good fucking luck to hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 01:49 AM
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Riiiight... all I gotta do is find a non-hypergamous woman lawyer or some shit like that. Any other unicorns that you'd recommend we pursue?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 01:35 AM
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Maybe for a bit, until the next guy comes along. Now she's doing better than ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 01:11 AM
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I don't understand this argument. A woman is going to be financially better off staying married Not true at all. When I was an intern at my first company, I had a friend who was probably 10 years older than me. I watched him get completely fucked in divorce and it's made me never want to get married ever. She took half his shit and had him paying alimony. She was taking like half of his money every single paycheck. That alone was enough to pay the mortgage of her new home that she was living in …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 01:09 AM
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I don't mean to that degree. Obviously she has to keep her weight under control. Becoming obese will ruin anyone's physical attractiveness. But yes... I'm assuming that she probably spends multiple hours daily doing her makeup, taking care of her skin, hair, whatever. Most likely she spends literally thousands of dollars per month on clothes. I'm sure that she could cut that down to just 30 minutes a day, couple hundred bucks a month, and still have 99% of women dying from jealousy at how gorgeo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 06:22 PM
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Meh. It goes both ways in my opinion. Ana de Armas (or insert your preference for sexiest woman) is hot without even trying in a way that most women couldn't accomplish with a billion dollars. Women also care about a man's weight, body count to some degree, masculinity, career success (if that's not within one's control, I don't know what is). Women care about virtually everything, which means they care about both things within and outside of control.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 11:47 AM
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Yup. Halo effect. It's an interesting phenomenon because we all do it, yet are not aware of it. That's why looks are under-reported as the reason that we like people, and many women are fooling themselves that all they really want is a guy who is "funny" and "confident". Ain't no such thing as funny if the guy looks like Quasimodo. That's why you get asked why you like someone and their looks are probably not the first thing to come to mind, but it did influence your liking of them, and even inf…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 11:39 AM
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Some men don't get any pleasure from receiving anal sex. Some women experience extreme and unique orgasms from it. If your argument is that it's ok to put pressure on someone to try a sex act just because it should feel good, you have to apply that to women as well. Personally, I'm more in the camp of not pressuring people into sex acts that they don't want to do, and they don't have to justify it... but you do you, lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 06:18 PM
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Do you think that it's bullshit if a man asserts that all women need to give anal sex a chance? And if the women say that they're being pushed into being violated because they don't want to try anal sex, they're just being little crybabies? This just reeks of that backwards style feminism that we see more and more... rather than encouraging good behavior in men (don't pressure women into anal sex if they aren't interested), you'd rather just engage in the bad behavior yourself and call it even (…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 05:28 PM
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There is no disagreement there, I know that catcalling happens at an early age. My disagreement is with this poster's claim that it peaks at that young age, and starts to decline as you become a woman. That's just insane and feeds her pathetic cynical worldview that all men are frothing at the mouth pedophiles.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 01:26 PM
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I'm assuming you meant to write more than that because that barely makes sense, but I'll answer what I think you're trying to say. I don't see any moral failing in an older man finding a 20 year old woman attractive. What the hell can he even do about that? Should we also scold a 50 year old woman who thinks that Captain America is hot? Wanting to be with someone half of your age for the purpose of having an easier time manipulating them would be immoral though. We both agree on that. You just t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 01:00 PM
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Men start catcalling and leering at girls when we are 10 or 11. Ask any woman and you’ll discover that the catcalling lessened a bit when women get a bit older and start resembling a woman. For one thing, I call bullshit on that. It's not a universal experience that women experience peak catcalling when they're around 10 years old. Where the fuck do you live? That's absolutely absurd. Yes, I understand that men do catcall extremely young women, though... and that's also gross. But it's not even …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 12:43 PM
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It grosses me out that so many women in this thread are saying this. I don't believe it's true, and I feel bad for anyone living with such cripplingly cynical views of their opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 11:42 AM
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The 27% pic is definitely where my excitement falls off hard. But some women can wear a tiny bit of excess weight surprisingly well. For me personally at this point in my life though, I need a buffer. If you date someone and they're attractive but close to the weight where they become unattractive, be extremely cautious. If you date someone today, assume that they will put on a few more pounds over time, and you might find yourself unattracted to them in a few years. It is a case by case basis. …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 12:35 PM
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That's not a men thing. The majority of women that I've slept with were pushing for raw dog real fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 12:18 PM
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Whoa whoa whoa, why does it gotta be Tyrone?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 12:16 PM
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I remember seeing a video a long while back where a woman was explaining quite honestly the dynamics of men and women at a dance club. Teaching dancing to men was the point of the video but she was getting into the social aspects a bit. The way she summed it up was similar to what you're saying, and sticks with me as probably very true. She said the instant that a man walks into the dance club, every woman puts him into one of three categories - yes, no, maybe. If he is a yes, then she will be w…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 02:26 AM
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Agreed so much that women usually can't seem to tell the difference between their sexual market value and relationship market value. Just because you have 100 guys knocking on your door to bang you doesn't mean they want to marry you too. But having those 100 guys knock on the door shoots the ego through the roof. The woman wants to see which of these 100 men is "the best" and shack up with him... But in reality it's probably the bottom 50% of those 100 guys that would actually be willing to com…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 03:23 PM
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I have dated women who became fat, and lost my attraction, and I will never date a fat woman ever again. I'm even scared to date a woman who has just a few extra pounds for the fear that it's a sign she might let herself go and become fat/obese down the line and I'll lose my attraction to her... that's a lose/lose situation. That being said, if you yourself are fat, I don't feel that you can demand that a woman be thin. Money doesn't make up for it. Like, you have to be physically attracted to h…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 06:25 PM
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Well at least you don't have to be alone for long, buddy. Chin up!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 11:31 PM
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slowly takes the banana out of my ass
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 10:07 AM
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Omg. Marry me. .....wait...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 10:36 PM
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Source? In the US if they're signed by both parties and you don't have kids they can protect literally anything you had before marriage. Maybe I've heard wrong, from a quick check it does seem the primary reason that they're thrown out is because of children, which I don't want anyway. Still, it looks like you really have to get it right, and it doesn't cover anything acquired after marriage. Married men are on average happier and healt Will have to look through the study, but I'm always highly,…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 06:30 PM
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Prenuptial agreements often don't hold much water in court. As for me, I would have a very hard time finding a woman on the same financial footing as me. At least I don't want kids. It's amusing to me though that in discussions of marriage I never really see anyone talking about how it will benefit the man to get married. It's always trying to downplay the cons, because the pros are difficult to identify, if they even exist. As far as I can tell, the only true benefit is that "she won't be upset…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 04:52 PM
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Would you not apply to a university with a 59% acceptance rate because it's too hard? Um, yes I would. The difference is that I'd only be risking receiving a disappointing rejection letter in the mail from the university... as opposed to total financial ruination, intense trauma, and years of hell in the divorce process. A 41% chance of that is rather terrifying, if you ask me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 04:38 PM
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Means what he says? He lies more than just about anyone I'm aware of throughout my own life or human history. That's not meaning what you say. And being unapologetic is not a good quality when you are an absolute colossal cunt.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 11:06 AM
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That's a really good point, and it hadn't occurred to me either. It wouldn't even occur to most women in their 20's to look deeper into dating dynamics such as those discussed in /r/purplepilldebate at all, because they're on top of the world, literally the dating demographic which enjoys the most abundance out of both genders / any age group. It's just like how your average white male in the United States probably doesn't go too deep into understanding racism on their own accord. It's practical…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 05:41 PM
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Yup, it's even true for women. Inject a woman with testosterone and she gets horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 05:19 PM
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Yup, nailed it... An analogy to food or water is really the only one that makes sense to me. Men are hungry and thirsty. We treat sex the way that all mammals treat food and water. We need it, we need it NOW, and we need it OFTEN. Women seem in most cases to be more like reptiles in that regard, they're cold blooded. I don't mean that in the sense that they're heartless, I just mean it in the sense that their "sexual metabolism" (made up term) is a lot slower and doesn't need the constant shovel…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 05:18 PM
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This is great, and nails the point that I was going to make. Women think they love a funny man, but they have the cause and effect totally backwards. If a hot man tells a joke, they think it's hilarious even if it isn't. An ugly dude can make the same joke and it's a dud. I'm reminded of a comment that I read either in this subreddit or elsewhere recently, where the same topic was being discussed. Someone was sharing that their entire life, they would crack jokes and often get no response, but t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 12:31 AM
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For example, I don't care about n-count as much as most men here seem to do. Same. My most recent ex-girlfriend had been with a LOT of guys. But it's part of why she was awesome in bed. And it also meant that when she'd tell me I'm the best she had ever had it actually meant a lot. Lmao. Most people have been with lots of other people. I'm not gonna score some virgin in my late 30's, and why the hell would I even want that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 07:36 PM
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I think that people are misinterpreting the point of the thread, in the same way that they often do for many qualities that are discussed in dating. Let's think of it less like men with degrees have a golden ticket to pussytown, and more like men without a degree are fighting a seriously uphill battle. Having the thing doesn't guarantee success, but not having the thing is gonna fuck you up. Dating is all about not filtering yourself out.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 05:20 PM
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This is nice in theory, but the reality is that the dating scene is a great big example of the tragedy of the commons. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tragedy_of_the_commons Basically the interest of the individuals supersedes the interest of the collective, and there isn't really any good answer to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 10:11 PM
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Bro, stop whacking it constantly and giving money to Onlyfans girls. You are wasting your life. You've stated yourself that you're not happy with the situation. I promise you that if you remove the outlet of porn and masturbation from your life, your brain WILL wake the fuck up and push you to get laid for real.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 11:10 PM
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I find it fascinating that you complained that guys are probably selfish and bad in bed, then went on to say that you don't even want sex because it would mean you might have to actually do something and not starfish. Kudos though I guess for seeming to understand that if you put in zero effort, you deserve nothing in return. I'd suggest reevaluating your approach while you're still young, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 11:05 PM
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Well I hope that you're right. My most recent ex had diagnosed BPD. She was a total fucking mess. The sex life we had was pretty unreal, though. She was insatiable, and always down for whatever, and we were both laser focused on each other. It was like we were both giving it 110% all the time. I've never felt even close to that appreciated sexually in my life, which made me give even more. If I can find sex like that again with someone who isn't nuts, I'll be the happiest man alive. Being in tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 11:13 PM
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Well, um... You know that's a really hard question. I mean I've thought about it a lawt. It took me 3 weeks of constant thought to come up with an answer. And I still don't have one. It's like a Cain and Abel situation. Abel thought that he had the upper hand but then just like that, Cain showed him the true reality. It's no joke, apple cider, I'll tell you what.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 05:36 PM
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Right now I see modesty being the new big thing on twitter. That's pretty interesting, I hadn't heard anything about that. This makes me think that there could be a tendency for trends to start out of features that are "in short supply" if modesty is going to get popular, given the way things have been that past decade or two.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 07:27 PM
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and focus on children so that she depends on the man (much less likely to divorce and leave because she can’t support herself) Um.... no. This just means that she is guaranteed an extremely high payout in alimony, which seems like a pretty high incentive to peace the fuck out of a relationship once it gets challenging.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 11:30 AM
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Many if not most men are going to lose by design. It isn’t there fault, it is what it is. Agreed so hard on that. I was listening to a podcast about evolutionary psych and the mating game just yesterday and this clicked for me. It's natural selection. A significant portion of the players are SUPPOSED to lose. That's how the gene pool gets stronger and improves. That is fucking harsh and it sucks, but that's how life works on planet Earth. The notion that there's someone for everyone is just plai…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 05:53 PM
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I've heard it said that anyone struggling in dating will just focus on what they don't have. Like if you're poor, then all women care about is money. If you're a little bit odd looking, all women care about is looks. If you're shy, all women care about is social skills. If you're short, all women care about is height. I don't think those assessments are truly wrong. Honestly, I think that it just comes down to everyone cares about everything. We filter potential mates out based on a long list of…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 05:22 PM
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