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Yeah, honestly OP sounds like a miserable person to be with. This post says more about her than the "average man" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:29 AM
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I hate to sidetrack your post, but if Rollo said that.... That's one of the stupidest things I've ever heard lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 02:12 AM
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I don't disagree, but my sister and both of my SILs have said shit like this and have a roster of Ex's to show for it. Is it every woman? No. But I think a lot of us know multiple women like this, of which I'd tell any of my single buddies to run from.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 05:24 AM
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I have multiple friends who are 5'5 or possibly shorter, and all of them are in seemingly decent relationships. To be fair, all of the women are still shorter than them lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 11:26 PM
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I somewhat agree. But imo even getting to Chad lite should be relatively easier for guys these days. Most people are in horrific shape, less men are going to uni, and it isn't really that hard to get a style that works for you. If you can even remotely be sociable, you can be a "Chad" in your relative SMV level. Sure you can't make up for genetics, but you can improve a shit ton by lifting, eating better, developing a career, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 04:35 AM
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I did get a bit of a laugh there too. My wife and I are the only one of our siblings (she has two sisters and I have one sister) who are married/been together since we were teens. Our sisters are not happy about being single and usually come to us to ask us how our relationship worked/works so well. I'm not saying that women can't be happily single, but I do believe most people in general would rather be with a partner they love/care about lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 04:17 PM
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I mean with this the most respect I can: Unless you are on an ungodly amount of steroids and built like the Rock, you're fat. I used to say the same thing you did when I was 240 (6'2 just for reference). Body isn't everything, but it is the foundation for building your frame. I couldn't internalize the readings, which imo NMMNG is critical for you, until I was confident with my external frame.
/r/askMRP22/02/22 09:46 PM
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Feels like a a massive power play to get you to enter her frame using sex as a weapon in this context. It sounds like a part of the solution here is in your final paragraph: if you didn't do anything wrong, why apologize? And now that I see your 5'9 and almost 300, I think we both know why she's weaponizing the sex.
/r/askMRP22/02/22 09:39 PM
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Trust me, I was there a few years ago, not quite as big but I wouldn't have fucked me either. Man, you'll be so much more confident and able to be outcome independent after getting your body in great shape.
/r/askMRP26/12/21 03:14 AM
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Bro, you're over 300 lbs. You can read, lift, make a million bucks and you'll still not get laid - unless you pay for it. I really can't blame anyone for not wanting to fuck you. Get in shape first and foremost, do the reading and internalize it at the same time.
/r/askMRP26/12/21 02:58 AM
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Get a decoy side chick. Someone your wife sees on social media. I don't know man, this sounds an awful lot like you're in your wife's frame by doing this.
/r/askMRP08/10/21 06:07 PM
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Haha ok I agree on these three for sure
/r/askMRP30/09/21 12:56 AM
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Oneitis is the only thing that explains it
/r/askMRP29/09/21 12:19 PM
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I'll check it out, thanks
/r/MarriedRedPill24/09/21 12:28 PM
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Totally agree, this is good to focus on this week. I have so many goals, but there too esoteric at times. Really appreciate it man.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/21 05:27 PM
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Yeah basically you buy 4 ETFs, QYLD, NUSI, DIVO and JEPI. All 4 pay monthly dividends, the first two are higher dividends at roughly 10% less focused on growth, while the latter two are decent div payers at 5% but are funds holding blue chip growth stocks. In short it marries monthly income with modest capital appreciation in one simple portfolio.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/21 04:30 PM
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Hard to say, early this year it would have been where I'm at now. Definitely need to think more about it if I'm being honest. Frequency was never a problem, quality is better and more adventurous so I need to really think about what I want. I'll try to focus on that a bit when I work on my MAP this week.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/21 04:28 PM
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Oh definitely man, ever since horns shared his post about fucking for you that's what I do far more often. Certainly have my moments where I'll fuck in her frame, but I catch myself much better when I'm doing that now. The sex has been far more fun for me, if it is for her that's great, but not a primary focus of my sexual strategy if that makes sense.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/21 01:58 PM
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OYS#6 Stats: 31M 6’2 184lbs, 33F 5’1 119 lbs, together 13 years, married 5.5 years, 1 child Lifts (all dumbbell) BP 65lbs, Rows 65lbs, OHP 50lbs, DL 65lbs, Squat 65lbs all x 5 sets, 10 reps *Resting this week due to neck strain. Read: SGM, TRM, NMMNG, MMSLP Reading: MAP (going through again) Reading: Admittedly, I did not finish my re-read of MAP this week. I have the time this week, so no more excuses. Fitness: While I continued to originally lift through the neck strain, by Saturday I realized…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/21 11:16 AM
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LOL
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/21 07:06 PM
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Totally agree on the leadership part. My wife did say last Monday that I should be her personal trainer at home haha, so this would be a good idea moving forward. Thanks man, this is why I post here - little things like this help!
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/21 06:18 PM
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True, but I like the way she looks. She's been too thin in the past and I told her that I find her more attractive the way she looks now. But def could have gamed here or even escalated if I wanted too, good call.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/21 05:01 PM
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Seriously man, I've posted a few times that I don't know how some dudes put up with the BS when they've got a whale at home.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/21 04:19 PM
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OYS#5 Stats: 31M 6’2 185lbs, 33F 5’1 117 lbs, together 13 years, married 5.5 years, 1 child Lifts (all dumbbell) BP 65lbs, Rows 65lbs, OHP 50lbs, DL 65lbs, Squat 65lbs all x 5 sets, 10 reps *De-loading at 60lbs this week Read: SGM, TRM, NMMNG, MMSLP Reading: MAP (going through again) Reading: Still going through MAP. I didn’t post in the last two OYS because work was still too crazy to really focus on much outside of lifting/running during the week. Now that it has calmed down I plan on building…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/21 02:58 PM
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Excellent post and for those of us who've seen some success, it is far more valuable to realize you earned it. We talk a lot about frame, but I see a lot of guys (myself included) who are seeking validation from others in their OYS posts. Being your own judge is hard, but when you realize you've earned the good and bad in your life, you can also realize that your the only person who can really fix it. Being here is great because you are around men who really want to be the best, so there is imme…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/21 04:27 AM
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The only time I've really seen guys give other people shit is when they are clearly not doing the readings, lifting, and expecting cheat codes to get their wife to bang them. Honestly, it is kinda refreshing to have someone tell you that that you aren't owning your shit and that you're being a pussy or in someone else's frame, etc.
/r/askMRP07/09/21 05:58 AM
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OYS #4 Stats: 31M 6’2 186lbs, 33F 5’1 117 lbs, together 13 years, married 5.5 years, 1 child Lifts (all dumbbell) BP 65lbs, Rows 65lbs, OHP 50lbs, DL 65lbs, Squat 65lbs all x 5 sets, 10 reps *De-loading at 50lbs this week Read: SGM, TRM, NMMNG, MMSLP Reading: MAP (going through again) Reading: MAP has been great for a new guy like me in this space. Athol’s color-coding system makes it pretty easy to understand what you should (green), shouldn’t (red), or maybe should or shouldn’t (yellow) do bas…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/21 02:52 PM
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Yeah still working on it for sure, saw it in multiple places going back and rereading the post.
/r/askMRP24/08/21 10:05 AM
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Just curious how much you game her daily? I think it is great that your limiting your time moving forward, but here are some things that helped me: -Improve wardrobe and body. -Put some cologne on when you're heading out alone, don't know why but it feels like it lays a little bit of dread based on how my wife reacts. -Have shit to do, don't text her 24/7. -Always be escalating. -Bang her well. -Have a friend group outside of her and make time for them constantly. -Show you don't need her: cook …
/r/askMRP23/08/21 07:16 PM
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Buy 200 lbs of weight and Olympic adjustable dumbbells, throw in a pull up bar, table rows and pushups and you can lift just fine. No gym membership is required to lift.
/r/askMRP20/08/21 05:17 PM
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Excellent post, and I posted about how much Horns post helped me the past week or so: https://old.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/gq2d5d/when_was_the_last_time_you_fucked_your_woman/ The final section of his post aligns really well to what you are covering here. Freeing myself sexually, and by extension fucking for me for the first time in forever, allowed me to just enjoy the moment instead of being a scientist listening to everything she said, every move she made, etc. It was like pulling…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/21 05:36 PM
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Man I've seen way too many dudes in the military get cucked to even remotely entertain marriage after 3 months. Red pill or not, I'd vet this chick hard before even remotely worrying about marriage let alone kids
/r/askMRP18/08/21 02:45 AM
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Oh for sure, I mean it more from actually doing things together - not sex necessarily. One area I've really struggled with in my life is being boring AF since starting my career. I just want to do some more fun stuff on days when I have the time to do so, instead of being a recluse.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/21 03:01 PM
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Good edit my man, 100% agree.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/21 02:58 PM
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OYS#3 Stats: 31M 6’2 186lbs, 33F 5’1 117 lbs, together 13 years, married 5.5 years, 1 child Lifts (all dumbbell) BP 65lbs, Rows 65lbs, OHP 50lbs, DL 65lbs, Squat 65lbs all x 5 sets, 10 reps Read:SGM, TRM, NMMNG, MMSLP, Reading: MAP by Athol Kay u/HornsOfApathy, got to give you a shoutout man. Your comment on my OYS last week (and the link you provided) made me realize I had to stop being a pussy and lay some freaking pipe. Had to channel my inner football coach and remind myself to not be a fag,…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/21 12:29 PM
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Bro, I am 100% like this myself and that's how I found myself here. Luckily, I am not dealing with 99% of the shit people are in these forums, but I could feel myself losing respect for me. It is insidious as fuck to feel like that and I totally believe people can sense it and they start not respecting you either. I forgot who recommends this, but pretend your wife, coworkers, etc. are nonexistent and start doing shit because it needs to get done for you. There was a point earlier this year wher…
/r/askMRP12/08/21 05:39 PM
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Will do, being a lesbian is not a goal of mine hahaha. Thanks again for this post, legit needed to read that.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/21 04:43 PM
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Holy shit man, that post resonates for sure. If I'm being honest, I don't even fucking know when the last time I fucked for me was. Your post nails it: I'm in my own head being some sort of scientist in the bedroom focused on the exact angle/speed, all for her. Gotta change that up ASAP.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/21 04:23 PM
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OYS #2 Stats: 31M 6’2 188lbs, 33F 5’1 117 lbs, together 13 years, married 5.5 years, 1 child Lifts: (all dumbbell): BP 65lbs, Rows 65lbs, OHP 50lbs, DL 65lbs, Squat 65lbs all x 5 sets, 10 reps. Read: SGM, TRM, NMMNG, Reading: MMSLP, Watched: Rian Stone’s side bar series on NMMNG Holy crap, I resonate so much with some of the example men found in Dr. Glover’s book. I had read about covert contracts and felt I understood them before, but I felt his expansion on this topic was critical for trying i…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/21 04:10 PM
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Add yohimbine hcl to this and your balls will literally explode
/r/askMRP09/08/21 03:49 PM
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Yeah, I'm with you, squatting with 130lbs total of dumbbells is a weak move no doubt about it.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/21 08:50 PM
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OYS #1 Stats: 31M 6’2 188lbs, 33F 5’1 117 lbs, together 13 years, married 5.5 years, 1 child Lifts: (all dumbbell): BP 65lbs, Rows 65lbs, OHP 50lbs, DL 65lbs, Squat 65lbs all x 5 sets, 10 reps. Read: SGM and TRM and Reading: NMMNG and MMSLP, Watching: a shit-ton of Rollo and Rian Stone Past/Background: I’m a classic people pleaser, the total yes man at work and in my relationships with friends, family, and my wife. What I think you’ll see in this post is an extreme need for validation in almost …
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/21 01:47 PM
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