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Yo my bad I accidentally hit ignore lol can you send again
/r/seduction19/08/24 12:31 AM
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Can u share ur handle ? Just wanna see what a good setup looks like Or message it to me if u wanna keep private
/r/seduction19/08/24 12:30 AM
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She’s just out of ur league. Straight up. Good thing is u can climb
/r/seduction05/08/24 01:23 AM
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Anytime a woman with a boyfriend spends time with you she’s unspokenly given u an opportunity to show her that ur the better option for her. Obviously she’s not gonna admit this to anyone or even herself but that’s what’s basically happening. Subconsciously
/r/seduction12/06/24 05:41 AM
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Update????
/r/seduction10/06/24 07:59 AM
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I don’t think it’s really over. You sent her a compliment which she doesn’t really have to reply to. What you can do moving forward in my humble opinion is to post some stories when you’re doing cool stuff. Since she was chatting with you in the dm then she’ll very likely see your stories at least a few. And of course you can even check to see if she did or not. This is just to like make time pass between you two and so it’s like you kinda moved on in a way in her perspective so that when u do r…
/r/seduction10/06/24 07:51 AM
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You shouldn’t hold back excitement when you’re passionate. I think the bigger issue overall here is there just wasn’t much fun in the interaction. Like it was a scene in a movie without any stakes or tension
/r/seduction10/06/24 07:42 AM
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Actually the biggest problem here is that you are writing this post, we are in this sub reading it, and that I am commenting on this. All of us need to get off this and get more fulfilling lives
/r/seduction03/06/24 07:04 AM
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Hey bro try looking up YouTube videos on like how to be more fun or make fun conversations
/r/seduction27/05/24 01:50 AM
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I ditto the person who said just work on your social skills in there. For myself I work at a restaurant and I have a strict no dating policy for myself cuz I don’t wanna deal with a mess. That said the more you hang out with them the more calibrated you get. And also sometimes something will come up and they’ll invite you somewhere or you can invite them. That said you have to watch that line between being like a boring nice guy and being gamey around them. Im kinda in the same boat as you btw i…
/r/seduction27/05/24 01:24 AM
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"Yeah I'd like to keep in touch, here's my cell, reach out any time". seems like a pretty clear green light to at least give it a shot. if it doesnt work out, it doesnt work out. if it does, cool. it's all timing... which is out of your control anyways. all you can do is do what you can
/r/seduction19/04/24 10:16 PM
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This is def true and I'm glad you went for it bro. At same time I'm starting to wonder why there's so many posts on this sub that are repeating similar things such as this. Again, not to take away from your post here, just that there are some things repeated often and heavily upvoted too. Ie. "Just go for it and take your shot" or "Who cares what others think" type of posts
/r/seduction11/06/22 11:55 PM
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I see it as an opportunity. If he can be a cool guy and meet them and see what's going on there with them then who knows maybe they would've become really good friends and started inviting him out to all kinds of future things with opportunities to meet new girls. I see that what I said originally was geared toward toward the girl though I've noticed in this sub a lot of people having these types of overreactions. A bunch of us are recovering nice guys some flip out now when we think someone is …
/r/seduction11/06/22 10:36 PM
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She def could've given you a heady up and if it bothered you could lightly bring it up later after the hang out. LIKE hey next time let me know. That said, unless you were seriously in a non social mood for some specific reason, you should have rose to the occasional and made friends with her friends. They would've sold you to her all day long. But yeah this is definitely over since not only does she think you're am asshole, but her friends don't like you either for doing that
/r/seduction11/06/22 10:14 AM
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Yea bro need to approach and talk. You're just a person, they're a person. It's way more simple than we make it out. All the physical attractiveness and display of value like nice cars and clothes mean nothing if u can't go for her
/r/seduction09/06/22 09:09 PM
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Hey bro. So one thing I noticed is that you basically facilitated her to say no every step of the way. Like you said, multiple times, some version of " go ahead and say no". I know ur trying to soften it and make her comfortable by "giving her outs", but if u do this then they'll pretty much always say no. Like when u said, "but no one will find out" notice she laughed really hard which means u sparked her emotions. At that point if u had kept going and being playful and confident u might've got…
/r/seduction09/06/22 10:40 AM
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yes becsuse it means you can travel throughout china taiwan Latin America and spain and a girl can come along those adventures with you. This vs a guy who doesnt know those languages will be more limited traveling those areas. However, you approaching a latin girl doesnt mean shes gonna care or think about any of this while you're trying to talk to her.
/r/seduction17/01/21 08:52 PM
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I disagree with your lesson learned. She said no to your number because she didnt find you attractive. This isnt a judgment on your attractiveness but simply that she wasnt feeling you for any possible reason. If your conversation had genuine sparks and she found you attractive she wouldve said yes at the very least and given you a chance to start showing your intention at some point. If later you kept up the friendly only vibe then you wouldve friendzoned yourself. You showing your intentions j…
/r/seduction14/01/21 09:48 PM
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Ok lenscrafters rep
/r/seduction25/11/20 12:45 AM
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Brooo... Laser tag
/r/seduction17/11/20 11:07 PM
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When women test you, they're providing an opportunity for you to bail
/r/seduction17/10/20 02:52 AM
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Focus not on women but on your skills with women. Then you'll also be focusing on yourself
/r/seduction17/10/20 02:48 AM
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I mean that I have some relationships like this and it's a friendly thing only. So basically she seems really comfortable with you which can be bad if you like her, since she might be too comfortable too fast. Theres no established "attraction" dynamic and so the comfort thing might become friendzone However every situation is different.
/r/seduction11/10/20 12:05 AM
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Sounds like you guys are friends
/r/seduction10/10/20 11:47 PM
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just own it. say it unapologetically
/r/seduction09/10/20 08:27 AM
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" I was scared if she would ditch me in mid-conversation and honestly I couldn't even be able to comeback from it " ​ You focused on yourself rather than the interaction. Just relax and have fun my dude... if you're relaxed and having fun and joking around, then she will too
/r/seduction08/10/20 09:52 PM
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This is a good thing u dont want to tip her directly it comes off as u wanting something in return. Tip the waitress friends big and they'll mention it
/r/seduction06/10/20 11:52 PM
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Go and try to get a different waitress/waiter and tip THEM big, and they'll probably mention it to the girl
/r/seduction05/10/20 06:43 AM
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These 3 words have done wonders for me......... "Hey, what's up?" I shit you not. it is the easiest damn thing to say. Then just say whatever else you want after she responds. I know what you're thinking.. "Well what do i say after?" Trust me all you need to do is break the ice and something will come to you and it will be natural. I'm not kidding it really works (at least for me it's never failed). They say hi back and I've said things like "i'm new here and wanted to introduce myself.." (becau…
/r/seduction20/09/20 10:35 AM
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She's in a relationship so she was just being nice. Also she started being cold when you started flirting so that also points to the fact that she was just being nice.
/r/seduction20/09/20 10:10 AM
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bro that was fucking smooth....
/r/seduction20/09/20 07:48 AM
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Do you chat with customers that roll through your checkout aisle?
/r/seduction20/09/20 07:42 AM
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Never
/r/seduction18/09/20 07:49 AM
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Seems like she was out to destroy
/r/seduction18/09/20 07:39 AM
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WTf? why did she bother saying hello first?
/r/seduction18/09/20 07:29 AM
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The question of success/percentage can lead you down the wrong road. This isn't like a batting average thing where it's all about how good you are at getting numbers. It's about finding a genuine connection/chemistry, and having the guts to simply find out For example, you could cold approach and then decide, while you're talking, that she's not as hot as you thought from far away. Or maybe you find her voice annoying. Well, maybe you don't really want her phone number anymore. So you just chat …
/r/seduction17/09/20 01:34 AM
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post about your next attempt and message me so i can check it out
/r/seduction17/09/20 12:12 AM
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don't take it personally bro.... think about it like this. you don't know ANYTHING about her, and that's what your cold approach was for, to find out. She could have trauma from a past stalker who she met through a cold approach. She might've seen her friend get harrassed through cold approach outside a bar. She might've just gotten out of a longterm relationship and has no emotional space to consider a new guy because she's so hung up on her ex. She could've JUST broken up with the dude that mo…
/r/seduction16/09/20 10:30 PM
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i've already checked it out and it looks great so far
/r/seduction16/09/20 07:18 PM
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Will be watching the playlist soon :) thanks bro!!
/r/seduction16/09/20 06:46 PM
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do things that challenge you
/r/seduction15/09/20 06:43 AM
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three words: HEY WHAT'S UP
/r/seduction15/09/20 06:41 AM
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A comment and a question. Interesting post. It brings the question of how many of us SERIOUSLY "love" ourselves? I mean REALLY. Like maybe we're happy with our lives, what we're doing, etc. But i mean shit do we really LOVE ourselves? Maybe the point is to be real with ourselves and accept who we are / what we're going through, and be honest about it with ourselves and others (with others to a degree). None of us are perfect, most of us are "trying our best" or whatever, but ultimately we're goi…
/r/seduction12/09/20 08:43 AM
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Hey this video was awesome and rings completely true. Just yesterday I went to the grocery store and saw a girl i was interested in. As i was putting things in my cart though i had a question for an employee, and for whatever reason my tendency in the past has been to think "oh i'll figure it out myself" etc. But I noticed this in myself (censoring) and just asked, and then commented too. Later I found the girl in an aisle and walked past and just said hey whatsup. she said hi back and i asked h…
/r/seduction10/09/20 10:03 AM
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her behavior seemed like a 2/10
/r/seduction10/09/20 09:12 AM
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Thanks for the advice. Seems pretty true that people would be a bit wanting some interaction/attention since social distancing has nuked it.
/r/seduction09/09/20 01:27 AM
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>> So a few days ago I saw her again, and suggested we grab a cup of coffe next week. She explained to me that it sounds really nice, but she has alot of work and stuff to see the coming week. I forgot everything about it, so I texted her Monday and asked if she is free on Thursday for a cup of coffee. << ​ You left out the part where you asked for her number. What happened there is important. For example, did she say "i'm really busy, but how about i give you my number and we'll see?" Or what h…
/r/seduction08/09/20 09:28 PM
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yeah im actually familiar with him
/r/seduction06/09/20 10:33 PM
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why do i have a feeling before opening the link that it's a video on your personal dating advice channel?.... :D EDIT: I stand corrected. Thanks for the vid share!
/r/seduction06/09/20 10:23 PM
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I like to say that a girl's looks earns my attention, not my interest. Think about it like this: a girl takes an hour (or more) to get ready to go out. She's put in the effort to get attention from guys. If she does a good enough job, then yes, she'll have earned my attention, but that's it. My attention is simply me taking a second look at her, and deciding to go talk to her. I'm opening the conversation, saying hi, listening to her, and giving her ATTENTION. She has earned about 30 seconds to …
/r/seduction06/09/20 09:31 PM
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Do you approach with the goal of getting a number?
/r/seduction06/09/20 05:37 AM
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