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How can you do that? There aren't any laws that have jurisdiction in all countries in the world
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 05:07 PM
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in the 1990 people could get laid sooner or later, that is why they might have had a time limit. Today things are different
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 07:12 PM
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Incel literally means involuntary celibacy. A person who wants to get laid but can't. Time doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 07:10 PM
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All incels are virgins but not all virgins are incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 06:16 PM
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Don't use words you don't understand
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 10:19 PM
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Sounds more like the pick up artistry that red pill was a reaction against
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 07:33 PM
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Red pill was never an American only thing. What happens in American politics or finances never interested non-American red pillers and still doesn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 07:32 PM
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Last week I went on 4 dates. This week will be a bit slower because I’m really busy. But 2 dates should be doable
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 06:54 PM
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Having had sex chances a lot in us. You can’t fake it. We all send out tons of signals all the time, many of them without knowing it. A person with good social skills who pick up these signals can easily spot a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 10:12 PM
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Depends on the social skills of others. If he says he has experience but is uneasy around women, doesn’t react and clear signals and hints etc. it’s easy to tell he is lying
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 07:24 AM
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Depends on if those men will be willing to take risks or if they will continue expect dating to be easy and done without any effort
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 06:41 AM
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There is no difference between men and women on this point. Lack of intimate experience is very easy to spot for a person with experience and some social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 10:01 PM
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If you believe tradcon women are good women, then yes. Very few men would find any interest in a woman like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:44 PM
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A lie is always a lie. And it takes much more effort to lie in a believable way than not lying. I would not call a man who need to make great effort to get laid a sexually successful man
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:37 PM
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Wow. This is some serious conspiracy theory going on. First of all, have we fallen so low that any man who gets laid once in a while is “sexually successful”? What has always been called an average man with basic social skills Or is a “sexually successful” man a man who has unlimited access to women and sex? If the second option is the truth, then they definitely don’t need to lie. They just are themselves and women will approach them for who they are. They always have options and don’t need to …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:09 PM
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Depends on how they keep themselves. I have dated women in their 30s even 40s who look stunning. I've also seen - not dated - women in their 20s who look like they have been hit by a truck. Overall women will get less attractive with age. And they will always have to compete with the younger better looking ones. Some women handle this great, others don't ​ So it's really up to you
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 06:55 PM
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True. But only simps will let them get away with it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 06:40 PM
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You wouldn’t survive a week
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:33 PM
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You you walk around in some animal hide instead of clothes?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:21 PM
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I agree. The attention span is dropping. So is the effort. But the expectations are still sky high. The belief in success is possible without making any effort is more and more common. The result will be more frustrated and disappointed people. But what is the solution? Blame all kinds of things in the world, or expect that the people with this view should get in touch with reality?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 10:55 PM
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I think it depends on where you live. If you live in a country where it's only acceptable a man approaches a woman, then yes, the man takes a higher initial risk. But when it comes to if a woman accepts his approach, she is taking the risk. When it comes to friendships I don't think there is a big difference
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 10:50 PM
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We can meet people before we create an opinion about them. And we can be open to the reality that the person can be absolutely fantastic, a major asshole or something in between. And we can be patient to let ourselves and the other have time to reach that opinon before we give up.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 10:35 PM
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All people are strangers before you get to know them mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 10:32 PM
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The problem is that so many expect all these feelings to be present at the first date - or even before that, when they see a profile on a dating app.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 09:57 PM
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Getting into a relationship is not like ordering a product online. It's got to start somewhere and usually it starts with dating. So yes, everyone takes risks if they either want friends, sex, or relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 09:36 PM
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If a man is insecure, he should work on his insecurities and get professional help if needed. If a man has ED he should get professional help and get the problem fixed. Today it's very easy and cheap to get help for ED If a man is a virgin he should get laid and get some sexual experience. Sure. Ignorance can be a bliss. Two virgins having sex would definitely be the best sex they have had in their lives, but its still not good. Once one of them has sex with someone else, they will know the trut…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 08:53 PM
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I'm reading this chat now and I sense a massive amount of insecurities.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 08:28 PM
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Women take huge risks because they want a relationship and don't know if the man they are interested wants that until he gets to know her better. They don't want to feel rejected. They don't want to feel they invested in something that didn't work out. You should talk to more women
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 08:27 PM
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Because the idea that one gender should be the provider is horribly outdated. There is no practical reason to believe that one gender should provide. It's not based on logic. It's once made sense and holding on to that is holding on to the past. It's like it makes no sense today to believe you have to have a stash of stamps so you can communicate with people. Or go to a rental place to be able to see a movie. Or use a landline phone. The list is long. Holding on to things that made sense at one …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 08:12 PM
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No. It wouldn't solve anything. Probably just make things mush worse. The main problem with dating today is insecurities and the fear of takings risks. Fear of failure and rejection. It goes for bot men and women. Men for the most part when it comes to getting laid, and for women letting a relationship grow into place. We want it all without taking any risks. Hormones help to push us to take risks. Horniness makes men and women take chances and risks that can lead to sex. Removing or lowering th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 07:28 PM
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Where do you live? If it's close by lets go out and have a drink and see how things are. I'm not bragging. I'm just telling you the reality I experience and that it doesn't fit any of these black pill conspiracy theories
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 06:29 PM
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You proved my point about hormones. Thanks Just because more and more men don't want to take any risks is not "society's" fault. What even is society? Are we not in charge of our own choices and accountable for our actions or the lack of the same? I totally agree that sexlessness has exploded among men. But I still believe the men who don't want to take any risks are the ones accountable for it. Just the same way I believe women who can't "find good men" because they expect a man to want to be i…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 06:21 PM
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They should learn live in the present. Hanging on to the past is a clear sign of insecurities
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 06:00 PM
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Their goal is to make money
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 02:07 PM
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No. I'm a man with a Ph.D, a good job and finance and a very large social network. I've had 3 serious relationships and had sex with well over 100 women in my life. I'm not superhot. Lookswise I'm probably average where I live. When I go out with friends, I'm the least attractive in the group. But it's always me the women approach. It's always me who leave the party with a woman. the reason is pretty obvious. I'm comfortable talking to any woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 01:57 PM
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Hormons make people take risks. That is my very clear point. If there were no hormons involved, there would be no horniness and nobody would have sex. You can ignore the hormones and not take a risk, or you can decide to take your chances. You'll never hear a man who is successful in dating or has good relationships say "the juice ain't worth the squeeze". This is something men who don't even want to try to squeeze say. And yes, there are more and more of men like that. It's not society. It's no…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 01:28 PM
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Nobody "wants to make mistakes." Most young boys do it because they have an overinflated ego which makes them feel invincible. No. It's called hormones. If you want biology like neurodivergence to be a valid point, then you have to accept other biological facts like hormones. Young men are horny because of hormones. Most men act on that and try to be with a girl. That is how nature made us. There is always a risk and the risk is there for everyone. The difference is that some take the risk and s…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 12:20 PM
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I don't know if you have some learning disabilities, autism or just straight out stubborn. Looks matter, but the vibes you send matter more. A 10 looking hot male with no social skills might get some looks from women, but a woman would always prefer a 7 with social skills. For the simple reason she doesn't want to feel uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 10:59 AM
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You don't miss the boat. You chose to not take the boat. Nature makes it natural for men to want to learn from mistakes in a young age. That is why most do it. If you chose to not take the risks in a young age, that is fine. But it has consequences. You will have to learn it later where other men already have learnt it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 10:57 AM
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It's very basic. When you are comfortable talking to anyone, talking to a woman who might be interesting or interested in you in not a problem. It's not awkward, it's not weird. The signals and vibes you send are that you are comfortable and that makes her comfortable. Women don't find men with social skills creepy. Women don't find men who signal they are comfortable as being creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 10:54 AM
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The idea that men should pay comes from a time before women worked as much as men. As time has changed views also change. Some insecure people like to hang on to old outdated views. They feel safe doing what others used to do. It basically comes down to if you want to date insecure men
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 07:46 AM
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Poor shaming is an American thing. It come with the idea that men pay for everything, approach and take all initiative. It has nothing to do with gender dynamics. It has to do with local culture and social development of that geographical area
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 09:01 AM
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Datings has it's ups and downs. When I date I usually have no problem going on 2-3 dates a week and at least one of them a first date. Sex on the first date happens about 80% of the time. The rest happens on the second. But some times I run into a dry spot (no pun intended) and I have to struggle to just get one date. I don't put much thought in it since I usually get back to my mojo after a while. Actually I kind of enjoy the pause :)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 05:52 PM
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Online dating is just a way to find potential dates. You don’t actually date online, you date irl. If you find women on apps, in a bar, at work/school doesn’t matter. What matters is how you handle the actual dating
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 06:31 AM
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Where does RP say that modern women are sluts?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 08:01 AM
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So? If you can't handle rejection, you shouldn't date.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 06:04 PM
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Ratings are subjective. I have traveled a lot in my life and can with total certainty say I have never met or seen an american woman who was higher than a 6. Does that mean all american women cause problem dating
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 06:54 AM
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I’ve never been attracted to an autistic women and don’t know any other man who does
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:46 PM
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Might be a cultural thing. I'm single and date a lot. 2-3 dates every week and at least one of them is a first date. I would say in 80% of the cases sex happens on the first or second date. So that easily makes a couple of new women every month. There are obvious slow months where nothing happens, but also months where things go great and the numbers are higher. 25 in 1 year is really not that much if I'm out there and dating
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:32 AM
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Nothing about what you describe has anything to do with Red Pill. It's like you say "Cars are shit" and then describe a bicycle
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 11:51 AM
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Average is a tricky concept. Sure, three new women a year every year of your life adds up to insane bc number. But 3 in one year for a single man in his prime could be very low. I was in a 20 year long relationship where I was faithful. That is one woman in 20 years. Very low average. In the first 2 years after I got divorced I had sex with about 50 different women. That’s an average of 25 a year. Now I’m 45 and have had sex with more than 100 women in my lifetime. So a all time average just ove…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 11:45 AM
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Old Rollo is great. The rest of the new so called RP is just grifters making money on autistic dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 12:19 PM
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Anything improving your social skills. Dating is, to be honest, a competition. Today people (both men and women) have no or very low social skills. So just getting some basic social skills will set you ahead of 80% of the competitors. Then you can start looking into fine tuning such as looks, status etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 12:18 PM
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Religious source and the research has a religious tint to it. Religious people don't live together before they get married because it's a sin. Same religious people don't get divorced (even when they should) because its a sin or at least looked down upon. So religion is pretty much the answer
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:56 AM
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You shouldn't. There is really no use for marriage other than tradition. If you want to hang on to the past, get married, if not, don't get married
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 01:55 PM
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Body language and initiative are very clear signs of consent. Don't have sex with anyone if there is not mutual genuine desire
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 06:33 PM
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What's up with autists taking over this sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 06:17 PM
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RP or not, I think it should be up to the courts to decide if a person is guilty of a crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 05:25 PM
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I really enjoy having a handful of FWB who don't have time to see me all the time. Variation and peace is a very good combination.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 02:49 PM
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Everyone in the modern world have abolished traditional relationships. For a good reason, modern relationships work better today. Not different than most modern people have abolished land line phones and prefer mobile phones. Of course there will always be some small groups who believe everything was better in the past. We just have to be patient with them and with time, they will catch up.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 08:23 PM
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It’s fucking boring. And the fucking is boring too
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 07:39 PM
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Depends on what I want. And it’s actually possible to become a partner with someone you have had sex with. I think you should drop your trad con fantasies and go out and meet real living women
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 05:00 PM
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Most women like sex and are not going to wait months to have sex with someone who turns them on The thing with men not paying everything is already standard in civilised countries
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:37 PM
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The reason behind RP has always been to become a better man and have high quality of life. If someone says something else, it’s not RP
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 01:45 AM
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Let women sat what they want. Their actions mean more than their words
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 04:48 AM
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Mostly it's about social skills and energy/vibes. Natural confidence makes a massive difference. Combine that with good looks/natural masculinity and some brains, and women will be attracted to you. It usually takes years of hard work to reach this point, but few admit it. It's cooler to say you are a natural. Success with women often is exponential. Success with one woman makes it easier with next and that success makes next one easier. Once you reach a high number, it actually "just happens". …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 01:07 PM
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Yes, but the biggest problem today isn’t appearance (even though both men and women really need to improve). The biggest problem is lack of social skills
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 04:36 AM
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Because people with social skills and options might not always see a long term relationship as the goal of their life. Even if they do, they know they can have fun for some time and still be able to settle down And settling for the first best person who wants you has nothing to do with quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 06:26 AM
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She would be showing some serious lack of judgment and not come off are very smart. Definitely a no go for me
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 05:03 AM
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Simp Sartain shouldn’t be taken too seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 04:06 AM
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I would probably be resentful and disgusted if I was given a written or visual history of my own past sexual experience and I'm a man
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 10:53 AM
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Only incels and trad cons care about a woman’s body count
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 06:13 PM
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Outside the US this has been the norm for a very long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 09:26 AM
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We all chase to make first contact. If it’s approaching or swiping online. Nothing wrong with that. When contact is made and the woman knows the man exists, that’s where men act differently. Some continue to chase her and some are more laid back and let it become a mutual thing. The last group are usually those who say “don’t chase women”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 01:05 AM
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Normally functioning men don't encourage women to be virgins. And there is no reason men should be encouraged to the same
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 01:32 PM
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Since women never has been the focus of TRP, it would't change anything. Continuing becoming a better person until you die. And believing all good options run out when you are in your 30s is naive. Good men have many options decades later than that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 10:47 AM
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I would say this is an extremely american list.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 08:03 AM
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Don’t use words you don’t understand 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 06:18 AM
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Envy doesn’t suit you. Lose some weight, get some social skills. Your life will improve
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 01:21 PM
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When you get older you’ll understand the basics of how humans work
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 01:20 PM
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I would say I’ve reached the point of options an average woman has. I get approached by women on a daily basis. I get lots of matches on dating apps. If I want sex there are always several women I know would want to have sex with me. The average woman is in this situation because she exists. I’m in the situation because I spent 30 years of hard work on my social skills, my looks and my finances.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 09:31 PM
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Fat is used as a word to cover both overweight and obese. A large majority of the American population is fat
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 09:14 PM
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The loops you would jump through to avoid saying most Americans are fat, is impressive
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 08:42 PM
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RP is for average Joe's who want more success in their lives. It requires some life experience, basic social skills and willingness to actually do something about life. All this talk about RP only being "basic information" really shows that many are clueless about what RP is. RP is not about getting information. It's about action. Actually doing something about your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:09 PM
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Red Pill isn't for everybody and has never been for everybody. For most normal functioning men RP works great. For some men who are in situations or have some problems, RP is a really bad idea. Take RP for it is. Don't try to change it so it pleases everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 10:58 AM
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By your own definition hot are the model types. Models are known for being tall. Hollywood actresses are known to be short
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 04:50 AM
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Hot is subjective. But no matter how you define hot, you won’t find many feminists there. If hot is a woman taking care of her body, dresses herself in a way that compliments her and is relaxed and confident, she would be the opposite of very many feminists who at great lengths try to look horrible, just so they can be “anti” and revolutionary. If hot means a woman who is intelligent, educated, well spoken and can reason, you won’t find many feminists there either. Actually the opposite. You wil…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 06:59 PM
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Hot women are not women's movement defenders. So no, these men probably don't get a lot of sex from hot women
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 10:58 AM
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Poor is a man whose pleasure depend on the morals of others. People are so busy worrying about what others do when it comes to sex that they forget to have a good sex life themselves. I don't want to say society is this or that. I don't want to say men are this and women are that. Sex is a personal thing. I hope that people can find a way to be comfortable about their own sexual wants and needs and stop giving a shit about others.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:24 AM
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And many men live with women they are not attracted to. There reason is that in a LTR, there is often no thing as "just leave". Divorce is a huge decision to take.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 06:46 AM
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Sounds like you have never been at a night club
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 01:58 PM
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It’s not personal. The thing written are just so outrageous for a person with some experience with women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 07:38 AM
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There is no checklist stating "what women want". If all women in the world got together and agreed upon a list like that, before an hour has gone every single woman would have changed her mind at least 5 times about that list. You cant use women as the goal post of when you are good enough. There are some things that work better than others. Some things women tend to stick to more than others. Those are the things I have mentioned in my post.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 01:51 PM
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Well if you are not getting laid you are not a good enough person. You still have work to do. I totally agree that money or muscles don't make you a better person. Money can give your more freedom and more time to use on other things than work. Working out gives you better health and a longer better life. But the result doesn't make you a better person. But the path makes you a better person. If your goal is to have a fit body, you know that you have to spend many hours working out, you have to …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 12:52 PM
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That doesn't matter. What he does for himself will not only effect him when he is doing it. If done right, it will effect his personality, natural confidence and general social skills. Taking it he is not planning on isolating himself totally from women the rest of his life, he will meet women in all different situations in life and that is where they will see the different version of him.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 12:37 PM
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I would suggest you turned things around. Don't give a shit about women. Work on yourself because you want to be a better person. And don't prioritize money. Prioritize social skills and handling your own emotions. That work never ends, but you will see and feel the difference. As a bonus, women also will and you'll get laid without making all the effort you are making now.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 11:24 AM
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i don't think status is connected to the job but more in what it has taken to get the job.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 07:17 AM
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Are you improving yourself to become a better person or are you improving yourself to get laid?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 07:00 AM
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Well, enlighten me what your tourist visits in my country thought you that I don't know
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 06:56 AM
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Been living in Scandinavia for the last 25 years. I don't think I really need to ask for "reliable sources" in this case :)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 06:41 AM
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That kind of society already exists several places in the world. You should travel more
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:12 PM
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I've been to both USA and Singapore and I agree that there is a massive difference when it comes to dating. But I disagree that USA has a fitness culture. Americans are not fit. Most are fat as fuck. They might go to the gym, but they are still fat. Being big is a good thing and a part of the culture In Singapore few people are fat. The culture is more about being in good shape. Cardio and rock climbing fits those ideals much better. ​ I don't think the dating culture is effected too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 01:00 PM
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Is it different for men? If you're with a woman and she gives you an amazing blowjob, do you want to know the details of how she learned that skill? She definitely wasn't born with it. Or would you just be happy about getting the best BJ in your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 12:31 PM
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It doesn't matter how much money you make. If you don't have social skills you will struggle with dating. Luckily it's much easier to get social skills than getting money and status.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:30 AM
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Just ignore and reject women who think that way. It's easier for them to blame men than handle their own insecurities. And the only reason they do it is because they get away with him. Ignore and reject.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:48 PM
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My body my choice. If I got a vasectomy it would be because I wanted it, not because a wife wanted it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 09:16 AM
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Doesn't sound like RP to me. Sounds like some sexually frustrated men who want women to change instead of them changing their lives for the better
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 02:09 PM
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I moved out when I was 19. Most RP men I have met are well up in their 30s before the start using it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 01:22 PM
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Maybe. I've only been RP for about a decade and never heard or read any RP say that. Maybe you are more experienced than me
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 01:02 PM
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I'm a man but I will answer and state the obvious. It all comes down to social skills and in some extent cultural/religious limitations. It's really very natural. When interacting at a date, there is an energy or a flow between you. It's a total bombardment of signals being sent from both of you. How you pick up on these signals and handle the flow, means everything. A typical first date for me as a man (this will be a long text, but my point and advice will be clear): We meet and great with a h…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 12:53 PM
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Probably because they don't use the PUA the right way. Both when it comes to PUA and TRP it's hard work. Very hard work. It's not fun, you'll have to sacrifice much of what you think is normal in your life. You will have to face failure and discomfort. My experience is that most men, betas or alphas, are not willing to do that. They just want a average life with an average wife they have gotten without doing a whole lot of effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 12:03 PM
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The Mystery Method is PUA and teaches you a method how to pick up women. It doesn't teach you how to "be" anything. A beta could use The Mystery Method with success, but he will still be a beta. A beta who has learned a system of how to pick up women. PUA is all about what you say and what you do to a woman. TRP is very different and even though it cames from the same crowd as PUA, it's focus is pretty much the opposite. TRP is not about what you do or you say, but who you are. It's much more se…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 10:55 AM
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Of course. But since men never get anything out of playing the victim card, chads keep their annoyance to themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 10:34 AM
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Here a woman's value isn't set in money
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 07:13 AM
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It’s definitely cultural difference. In Europe women have been cheating more than men for decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:53 AM
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I don’t judge people doing sex work. That’s their life and their choice. Jealous of them??? I literally save human lives as a living. OF girls selling pictures of their a-hole for $4 doesn’t really trigger any jealousy in me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:47 AM
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To doesn’t say women are inferior to men and I see nothing in OP’s post saying anything similar. I’m guessing you are totally clueless about what RP is
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:39 AM
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Why do you feel the need to make up own definitions of things?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:19 AM
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Rp is not an american thing. RP hasn't invented anything new, but collected general principles that have been around the whole world for centuries. I live in Europe and few here know about TRP, but it still works. If you meet someone mentioning TRP, they usually aren't talking about TRP but about incels and autists spewing hatred against women online (not much different from the views many have in here). You have to remember that TRP is not some universal rule that applies to all men. For most m…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 10:49 AM
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Nope. It's 100% of the women want to top 20% of men. The 80/20 thing is about 80% of men are not seen as attractive and 20% are.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 10:39 AM
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To be honest most discussions in here are 100% based on US culture. I live in northern Europe and even if it's considered the "west" there are many things I can't relate to. Things like "Men should always approach", "First date should be a dinner and the man always pays" or "Fat women can be attractive" is pure nonsense where I live.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 10:25 AM
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A) I don't do hookups so I don't know B) Attractiveness, good energy from her personality. Great sex C) She has her life in order and I'm in love and all of the above
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 09:27 AM
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Because most people are clueless what traditional clothing signals. Just look at all the men getting married in tuxedos. If their women knew what that signals, they would never marry them. But it's most likely it's the women themselves who wants him to wear a tux. Embarrassing, but people generally are clueless about basic stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 09:20 AM
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Misogyny has become a buzzword and everyone has their own definition of what it means. The correct definition is " hatred of, aversion to, or prejudice against women ". If you hate the women you pay, then sure, you are a misogynist. If you do it with respect you are not
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 09:16 AM
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I wrote "retired fuckboi". A man who is comfortable around women, har experience, great in bed etc. but now only focuses on her. Not rare view at all
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 08:58 AM
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I've been RP for almost 10 years and never felt the need to act. On the opposite acting is based on insecurities and end you up in situations you don't have control over. It's extremely BP and simping. The whole idea with RP is to reach a point where you don't have to act and you will naturally reach success with what you aim for Are you sure you even know what RP is?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 01:10 PM
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Doesn't change that Social Skills is the foundation of the RP
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 12:39 PM
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Your not a RP if you have to act. Then you are a BP playing games
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 12:14 PM
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How can you mention RP and ignore social skills that is the most central and important part of the whole thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 12:00 PM
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Are you blind? Everyday there are posts on Reddit about some women getting pregnant and women stand in line blaming the man for not using a condom. Now he should be the one financially taking care of her for eternity.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 11:56 AM
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I'm sure all men can give you a long list of annoying things women do, that could be considered against basic civilized behavior. The difference is that a mans world isn't destroyed just because his partner lets her bra lay on the sofa or she doesn't fill up gas in the car after she uses it. It's annoying but not enough to make him feel like a victim, not respected and starts hating all women and belittle them. And if he has a big problem with something, my advice to him would be to communicate.…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 11:51 AM
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Because then they can't blame the men for the unwanted pregnancy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 11:44 AM
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Seductiveness is only a problem for those not selected. If you are not getting selected, make yourself one women would select.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 11:18 AM
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It's her job to communicate with her partner. Why are you against communication?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 11:16 AM
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I expect rational women to reject tradcon men so hope they don't respect the simp mindset you are promoting in this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 10:35 AM
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That is a very lazy approach. When I started playing guitar is sounded like shit. I felt bad and wanted to give up. I didn't. Next time sounded like shit and so did the next 100 times I played. But it sounded less and less shit every time. Then i started playing in bands. I toured several countries. Made money on it and playing guitar became second nature and I had success. Maybe I could just have given up playing when it sounded like shit the first many times and say that only psychopaths would…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 10:26 AM
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You should try communication. It works
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 08:06 AM
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There has been talks about giving men more options to condoms and vasectomy as birth control for decades. But nothing happens. The feminist lobby has been very effective in stopping all serious research and financing into this field. I do not see that changing anytime soon. If there were more options for men, I would definitely look into it. I see it as a option for birth control but since it doesn't protect against STI I would not be less careful when it comes to casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 07:30 AM
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Exactly. It makes no sense and the perfect man doesn't exist. But it points out that many women prefer a man with some experience compared to some incel
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 07:26 AM
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Women are insecure who ever they date. I think the difference is that a man with experience and who dates a lot, has a lot easier time to make her feel relaxed and secure compared to other men. Experience does that. And a woman will naturally rather date a guy she is comfortable with. There is a reason many women say that the perfect man is a retired Fuckboi without any issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:04 PM
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That is morbidly obese. The girl in Ops fat is probably just obese
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 06:54 AM
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The 50 year old by far. Even though she is too muscular and not very pretty, she is far more attractive than the fat woman
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 06:53 AM
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I agree. But I’ve reached a point in life where I have pretty much unlimited access to women and sex. And I enjoy it. But it could easily get old and then I could imagine living my life without women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 06:21 PM
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So overworking in your youth and hoping you don’t die of a hearth attack in your 40s sounds like a great life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 06:19 PM
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I have totally respect for that. I was on my way down the MGTOW road after my divorce and could easily see my self end up there one day.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 06:12 PM
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That is the most frustrating thing about the modern view of RP. RP was always about the man. Pro man and even anti man. If you were a man without success you were a weak man. Do something about it. Massive criticism of simps, blue pills and white knight. Focus was always on the man. A central point in RP is to not make women the centre of you life. Not worshiping women. Today people who call themselves RP make women the centre of their life but just in a negative way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 06:00 PM
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And Tate isn’t even RP. Hadn’t you heard about Rollo Tomassi and other RP before Tate went crazy?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 05:55 PM
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Do they do something about that knowledge? Everyone knows that working out us good for you, but not everyone works out
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 05:51 PM
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The main point in RP is not the knowledge. Anyone can get the knowledge and most men probably know much of it already. It’s about turning that knowledge in to actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 05:49 PM
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Red the site? What site? RP is mostly based on books
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 05:47 PM
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Lazy as shit
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 05:45 PM
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The old school red pillers don’t seem to feel the need to tell others the are RP. They live their life and do their thing and most likely measure their success on how they are today compared to yesterday
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 05:43 PM
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For most woman a fuckboi is basically any man who at any point in life has rejected her after they had sex
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:27 PM
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If your goals are to have a high quality life, working a lot will just take you further from the goal
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:25 PM
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Sounds like you've never met a RP
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:08 PM
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More like you are lazy than unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 05:32 AM
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I'll say I'm a world champion heavyweight boxer, a billionaire and I can walk on water. Would you believe me?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 01:11 PM
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RP are not misogynists. You believe RP men hate their mothers, their sisters and all women around them?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 12:26 PM
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Doesn't sound RP at all to me. Sounds more like you met some simple losers The tangible end goal for the red pill is that the man has worked so much with himself that he has reached a high level of success that gives him a good, free and comfortable life with many options. Meaning he has reached financial freedom to do spend his time as he wants, reached a physical level where he is healthy and in good shape and reached a level of social success where he is comfortable among others, has many fri…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 12:23 PM
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You could be right about that. I've always seen MGTOW as men who have been with women and think "been there, done that, not for me"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 10:42 AM
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Like being a workaholic is a good thing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 07:11 AM
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If you combine the worst betas and the biggest simps you get a tradcon
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 08:38 PM
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RP (if we are talking the old school red pill) I would be proud and knowing he will do well in life. Incel. I would feel I had failed as a father. I might consider paying for a prostitute to get it out of his system MGTOW only makes sense for men with experience. If he went MGTOW in a young age, I’d send him to therapy Hanging here all the time would be fine if he is able to cut through all the bs. It’s a good place to see what happens to men when they neglect working on their social skills
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 05:05 PM
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The fuckbois are fucking the traditional women when their husbands are spending 60 hours a week working. The easiest women to score. They are bored and haven’t had good sex for years. It’s so funny to see men actually believing that stay at home moms are busy with housework, baking and wholesome hobbies
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:38 PM
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Actually the opposite. Feminism is just the female counterpart of what you see in this sub. One gender blaming the other instead of getting their own shit together. Remove the blame on others. Be accountable for your own life and success. Then you'll start to getting close to what RP is all about
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 08:39 AM
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To be honest a rarely see men slutshaming women. I do see a lot of women slut shaming other women but it seems more to be a way to cancel the competition. Like when men often say good looking men must be gay. Other than that I agree. For a man to get laid he has to work hard and achive many things. For a woman to get laid she just needs to exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 07:14 AM
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Thanks for the info about the existing RP subs, even though they are invite only (I can see why). Good to know there are still RP around Being an "old school" RP new on this site I thought PPD was the closest thing to RP you could get on Reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 07:06 AM
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Do you even know what RP is? Read The rational male and see if that fits your description
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 06:58 AM
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To be honest there are very few Redpillers in this sub. What you are talking about are socially handicapped frustrated young men who rather blame everyone else than actually be RP
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 06:56 AM
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You don't decide what cards you get on your hand but you decide how you play them. Blaming the dealer won't change a god damn thing
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 06:54 AM
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The autists and incels have highjacked RP and turned it into something very different than it used to be. The only blame RP puts is on the man not getting his shit together. Blaming women, society or anything else goes straight against what RP is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 06:52 AM
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Women say they have higher standards, but when it comes to reality, they take the best they can get. Many men have definitaly failed and down prioritized the important of social skills
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 06:32 AM
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Religion and traditions are a crutch used as a replacement for own opinions. Instead of being yourself you are who others tell you to be. That is the sole definition of being a simp. It reeks insecurity and lack of life experience. And the coming from a good family part? That doesn’t even take any effort. Is it high quality to have something you got for free? It has nothing to do with high standards, it’s the direct opposite. Totally fine if you want to life that life, but proselytising it is wr…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 05:50 AM
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You honestly sound like a very insecure person using religion and tradition as a replacement to actually creating a own personality and own opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 05:25 AM
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Then more people will be limited to bad sex. Infidelity would skyrocket
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 05:19 AM
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Wanting men to be simps is not asking for higher standards. It’s the opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 05:14 AM
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Really? i would say 80-90% of the posts in here are about socially handicapped people stating "how woman are" even if the only experience they have with women are images on their computer screen. Then they call themselves "red pill" and we end up with a bunch of people saying red pill is bad because of these confused incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 12:16 PM
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It's not the red/blue pill ideas that are wrong. It's the autistic and socially handicapped people trying to use these ideas in their life where they lack experience and basic social interaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 08:58 AM
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I would never date a person who lacks social skills
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 08:56 AM
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She isn't even good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 08:54 AM
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The constant female chase of escaping accountability
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 08:54 AM
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I agree, but Red Pill is also very much about social skills and navigating in the society you live in. If you live a place whe it is expected that you as a man pay the woman for everything, you would be an idiot not to. If you live where splitting bills is the normal, you would look like an idito and lower your chances of success with a woman if you insist on paying. So Red Pill is not saying you should pay, Red Pill is saying navigate in the best way possible in the society you live in
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 06:49 AM
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