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How many of these people have you seen in real life vs the ragebait online?
/r/MensRights02/08/24 12:58 AM
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Stares in asexual
/r/MensRights26/07/24 11:28 PM
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Wisecrack and Yugopnik do and no one seems to have a probkem with it.
/r/MensRights24/03/24 11:24 AM
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The study doesn't disprove social constructivism because social constructivists will claim that men and women have been socialised for their entire lives in such a way that is reflected in their brain structures. They might also point to another study thst showed transgender people have brains closer to the gender they identify as.
/r/MensRights26/02/24 02:17 PM
1

Female teachers used to be even more overrepresented and we didn't have such a fatherlessness problem back then.
/r/MensRights10/01/24 05:00 AM
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Two is not a trend.
/r/MensRights26/12/23 12:35 PM
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Even the authors admit that the samples are nearly representative. This also sounds like politically motivated research with the conclusion written in a scientifically lacking tone.
/r/MensRights26/12/23 12:10 PM
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That's a bad study to cite. If your study group and control group make up only 40 people, that's not enough to prove anything. Further, a difference of ~0.30 in the first indicator isn't much. Second, disagreability doesn't represent narcissism. It can also represent higher education. Someone did share a study that is much more appropriate than this one in the comments.
/r/MensRights26/12/23 12:04 PM
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Yes, most people are allosexual, that they experience spontaneous sexual attraction to others will others are asexual, feel no sexual attraction to others and some are demisexual, only feel sexual attraction after a strong usually romantic connection to others. What feminists talk about is that even if you are sexually attracted to women, that shouldn't be the primary way you see them or solely what you attempt to achieve from a relationship. Similarly, media shouldn't try to max out the sexines…
/r/MensRights12/12/23 03:24 PM
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Fine then, meanwhile why am I as a man still expected to conceal and hide my erections? Is literally a natural part of my being as a man, why the silence on this? Is SoMeThinG yoU Can'T cONtroL Bro, calm your penis. We all had to learn how to.
/r/MensRights08/11/23 04:42 PM
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Many things such as neoliberalism have also happened since then. So you can't just say everything that happened did because of feminism.
/r/MensRights01/11/23 11:17 AM
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Most suicide attempts are by women. Most successful suicides are men. Men are better at it it seems. Could also be that men might be more likely to have guns.
/r/MensRights20/10/23 03:27 PM
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Wow it sounds like a whole new level of commodification of dating.
/r/MensRights09/04/23 01:29 AM
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If there really was a whistle blower, wouldn't there be an article about a charity being shut down for domestic terrorism charges? That would be quitethe story.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/04/23 11:05 AM
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How convenient.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/04/23 07:42 PM
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In fact, I spoke to a man just two days ago who turned against a large feminist ‘sexual education’ charity, who were going into schools to ‘educate’ innocent boys that they were rapists in waiting. This man blew the whistle and had the charity closed down, literally under domestic terrorism charges That's a nice argument redditor, but why don't you back it up with a source ? So why do so many blame men and boys for their own undoing?Why is it always their fault? Why do we afford so much agency t…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/04/23 05:08 PM
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This post is the closest to actually understanding what toxic masculinity is that I've seen in a while.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/04/23 05:00 PM
2

Have you considered career paths in science or in engineering?
/r/MensRights28/03/23 10:00 PM
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The real homophobic belief is that a woman cheating with another woman isn't cheating because that implies that a lesbian relationship isn't a real relationship.
/r/MensRights28/03/23 09:58 PM
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If you find them again, let me know. I'll like to learn more about this debate.
/r/MensRights28/03/23 02:04 AM
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If some person did a shooting at a library and you started focusing on that person happening to be say jewish. And said "Seems they were a jew. I'm just pointing out facts. Are we all to avoid speaking the truth now?", it would be very obvious you are just trying to spread antisemitism because what information you decide is important to focus on has consequences and shows an ideology. Especially when its not followed up by anything constructive or that would explain why some part of their idendi…
/r/MensRights28/03/23 01:56 AM
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Tell me you don't know anything about nazis without telling me you don't know anything about nazis.
/r/MensRights28/03/23 01:52 AM
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Do you have anything to read up on a public debate on teaching ethics?
/r/MensRights28/03/23 01:49 AM
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Focusing on them possibly being trans when we don't know if that has to do with what they did is just trying to spread even more hate towards trans people than they already experience.
/r/MensRights28/03/23 01:45 AM
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Do you have any facts to back up your claim that she was a misandrist and that the shooting was backed up by misandrist beliefs? Why assume this is about men?
/r/MensRights28/03/23 01:42 AM
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I should maybe say do you understand science and how do you compare to other people when talking about science if you've talked about sciences.
/r/MensRights27/03/23 09:15 PM
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Are you good in Science?
/r/MensRights27/03/23 10:26 AM
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Do you have any ambitions or dreams?
/r/MensRights26/03/23 11:48 AM
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They choose to identify as incel and make it part of their idendity. They choose to pay so much attention to it.
/r/MensRights19/03/23 01:29 PM
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I literally found an incel in who replied to my comments and started talking around women shouldn't be able to choose not to have sex with men without consequences.
/r/MensRights19/03/23 01:08 PM
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I would be interested to hear what you want to share. Also, if you can see ways of trying to resolve these issues with policies, I would be interested.
/r/MensRights19/03/23 12:40 PM
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Originally a term to mean "involuntarily celibate", the term incel has grown to refer to a community of people who place great importance to and often identify themselves with corresponding to being involuntarily celibate. This community, predominantly made of straight men has been known to create a determinist explanation of the dating process as an excuse for their poor success in it. Through looking up to role models who are very successful in relationships and see an opportunity to profit fr…
/r/MensRights19/03/23 12:37 PM
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Ok, so we see the problem on two sides? Its not a competition, we should work on both.
/r/MensRights19/03/23 12:25 PM
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What is your point? If it applies to women too, it just strenghtens my point.
/r/MensRights19/03/23 12:24 PM
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Incel is a derogatory term: What would you like me to call you then? Women choosing not to have sex with men results in a deprivation for those men and not unsurprisingly for women too who are deprived of a corresponding man to have a relationship with: it's not surprising men and women are unhappy because a social imbalance has been created through personal choice. Men are not owed sex. Do you want to compell sex or something? It's irrational to unbalance society just so women can choose not to…
/r/MensRights19/03/23 12:23 PM
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Could you elaborate? Do you mean making it so women have as much economic power as men so there isn't a financial imbalance that reinforces the bread-provider role?
/r/MensRights19/03/23 12:15 PM
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These analysises to start : https://youtu.be/s1FkO7Tr70A https://youtu.be/upt_ks61_70
/r/MensRights19/03/23 12:12 PM
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What is this "real manosphere"?
/r/MensRights19/03/23 03:13 AM
-8

Where is the discussion of the cause of this and the steps they are planning to take to address it? Its in the article. Read it fully.
/r/MensRights19/03/23 03:12 AM
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Men who go their own way are precisely not incels, because then its voluntary.
/r/MensRights19/03/23 03:10 AM
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That's actually a pretty good point. Curious what it would look like to consult incels and other lonely men? Like a public forum? An AMA on Reddit?
/r/MensRights19/03/23 03:09 AM
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Black people don't express hate towards their fellow man or woman though. And they do not choose the "black" label, its imposed on them. Meanwhile incels choose to identify with the term. And we calls to action to be violent towards women. Its completely different.
/r/MensRights19/03/23 03:07 AM
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So close. They recognised the pressure placed on men through traditional gender roles but instead getting rid of them, they suggest only fixing the economy. How would you get rid of traditional gender roles? Edit: Why is this being downvoted? I'm just asking a question because I'm genuinely interested.
/r/MensRights19/03/23 03:05 AM
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The article links incel culture to a rise in domestic violence. Those men by very definition are not incels. Incel culture can still influence them even if they are not incels themselves. Its more to do with the manosphere which exposes incel ideas with the rest.
/r/MensRights19/03/23 03:04 AM
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If you spend enough time looking into incel communities you find many incels who believe they are owed sex. Wheter is listening to Tate saying a man should just "take" what he wants or state mandated girlfriends. The term itself doesn't imply it, the community does. Kind of like the term "Religious Italian" doesn't have anything to do with catholicism according to definition per say, but a religious Italian is very most likely to be catholic because that community is very catholic. (Not hating o…
/r/MensRights19/03/23 03:01 AM
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At some point she claimed that most women are bisexual... So you see where the hate for men comes from. We have deprived women of their sexual freedom. Your conclusion doesn't follow from your premise. Women are the ones who choose to be in relationships with men, not men themselves. If something deprives women of their sexual freedom, it is monogamy though this too affects men, naturally. I replied my intention was to point out the aversion some lesbians have against heterosexual men which I de…
/r/MensRights18/03/23 05:50 PM
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There is positive masculinity. Basically, its about showing you're a powerful man by helping others instead of making things competitive. By assuming your power instead of trying to prove it and not acting bothered when others don't rise to your standards for masculinity.
/r/MensRights17/03/23 06:05 PM
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There is also the shooter of l'École polytechnique de Montréal.
/r/MensRights13/11/22 03:09 AM
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How is this a mens's right issue?
/r/MensRights01/08/22 08:10 PM
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That's all you found?
/r/MensRights28/07/22 11:57 AM
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I spend more time on here than on Menslib. I see so many posts here about just "woman did bad thing", which are treated as relevant somehow.
/r/MensRights24/06/22 02:49 PM
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Menrights is the sub for meeting incels who reject anything feminists do, menslib is for people who see men's advocacy as building ontop of feminism as its next step.
/r/MensRights24/06/22 11:42 AM
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Let me save me another 2 years of right-wing propaganda. When people talk about "biological differences between men and women", its a dogwhistle to say that inequality is solely because of those differences to avoid conversations about gender discrimination. Avoiding talking about discrimination also avoids talking about men's issues, which doesn't help this movement. So no feminists will say that there are no biological differences between men and women on average (and individual cases, but thi…
/r/MensRights21/06/22 02:32 AM
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If boys have more of those opportunities for that than girls, that doesn't explain less success. Did you miswrite that?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/05/22 07:34 PM
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Step forward?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/05/22 07:22 PM
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Men are oppressed by gender expectations perpetuated by an imposed and expected traditional form of masculinity. If only feminists used a term for this...
/r/MensRights12/05/22 05:52 AM
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This reminds me of whenever I try to explain ehat toxic masculinity actually is and how people here always assume it means men bad, penis=tower of souron. You agree that men live some oppression? Yes. You agree its because of societal expectations? Yes. You agree these expectations come from socialisation? Yes. You agree that men pass more time with other men, so other men and the larger man culture are likely a frequent cause of developping harmful gender expectations? Yes. You decribe these ex…
/r/MensRights11/05/22 04:32 AM
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Why did it get removed btw?
/r/MensRights11/05/22 04:23 AM
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Based and nuancepilled.
/r/MensRights11/05/22 04:21 AM
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Please explain how routinary circumcision is toxic masculinity, I can't wait for the mental gymnastics you'll do. That's a seperste issue. Not everything about men's rights is related to that. You could maybe make a link , but it would be a challenge. Yet harmful ecpectations on men based on their gender is still an issue without we call it toxic masculinity or something else.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/04/22 03:52 AM
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This was me commenting first thing in the morning. But since we're on the topic, if I would have made more effort, would it have mattered?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/04/22 08:09 PM
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How many times does it have to be explained that masculinity, a cultural phenomenon, is not the same as manhood ? Toxic masculinity talks about culture. In fact, its the very culture MRAs complain about where men are encouraged to hide their emotions and whatnot because of cultural standards surrounding what is considered masculine.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/04/22 05:54 AM
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I'm really confused by that slogan because it can't be literal... so I don't get the message.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/04/22 04:48 PM
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What does "doing the misandry stuff" ?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/04/22 04:27 PM
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Funny joke, but I wouldn't take that response to represent all women.
/r/MensRights24/04/22 05:25 AM
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Women often tend to be sexually harassed at mixed gyms through flirting because of their gender. White people don't because of their race.
/r/MensRights16/04/22 03:29 AM
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I'm a man fyi.
/r/MensRights05/04/22 12:35 PM
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Its a self-defense mechanism developped by women that prefer to be safe than...assaulted. After all, without all the PTSD thats involved, if they get pregnant from it, its going to affect their life from a few months to years. Best way to deal with it is to think from their perspective. For example, notice if you have been followibg them for a while on a street. If so, tak3 oit your phone or retie your shoe laces in order to let her gain some distance or take another route.
/r/MensRights04/04/22 12:59 PM
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The UK has a left for one thing.
/r/MensRights24/03/22 12:45 AM
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We will be victims of violent crimes, homelessness, prison etc but if we complain we are shut down with “that’s a problem started by males” Well, no. The left actually cares abput homeless people and the material conditions that lead to crime.
/r/MensRights23/03/22 12:45 PM
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It makes more sense if you look at it through class struggle where gender essentialism is already present.
/r/MensRights23/03/22 12:44 PM
1

But IS that a feminist though?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/03/22 06:58 PM
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Why are fatherless homes on the rise? Because of the pandemic or from before that?
/r/MensRights17/03/22 06:28 PM
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the right wants to turn men back into workhorses to plow thru the fields You could all become socialists. Its what your rethoric suggests, you know, workers being forced to do things out of real consent and treated as disposable? That's what western leftists have been talking about for so long.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/03/22 11:18 PM
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Curious why boys are behind girls in school?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/01/22 01:16 PM
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Is it me or are MRAs closeted marxists? A lof of the rethoric dounds like it; talking about the exploitation of workers, labourers; talking about the lack of freedom and the opression at and outside of the workplace, etc.
/r/MensRights27/12/21 01:04 PM
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Public?
/r/MensRights18/12/21 12:08 PM
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‘The period of woman’s supremacy lasted through many centuries What are you talking about? Women were treated like how slaves that weren't alowed to vote and had to follow their husbands' orders or get beaten up as the law protected their husband when he did so as long as he didn't kill them. Do you know any History?
/r/MensRights30/10/21 01:02 PM
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Ah yes, men's rights.
/r/MensRights02/10/21 04:58 PM
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What you believe about the MRM is a lie. You have been taught a distortion, and we encourage you to come here and talk about things. What's the truth then?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/09/21 12:33 AM
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What are you talking about?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/09/21 04:09 PM
1

Dude, if you feel uncomfortable discussing the argument you made, you could just refrain from replying to me. You literally just said you didn't want to reply to my questions and my points. As it stands you berated incels for focusing on their issues, and now you're trying to say you didn't. I have not. You posed a point, I presented a counterpoint. I obviously can't compel you to defend your argument, so your refusal now means that this whole conversation has been a waste of time, at least to m…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/09/21 02:33 AM
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No, I'm replying to an argument made in defense of incels. I'm not making a new argument myself.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/09/21 12:05 PM
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I never said that. Answer the other questions.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/09/21 11:38 AM
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There isn't at this point. You're treated as part of a "political group" if you participate in incel communities. Whats the difference then? And there you go defaulting to a dismissive attitude. You feel that it's wrong to demand that we stop treating unattractive men unfairly, so you just dismiss the issue. And that's the attitude of most people in society currently - either that or outright hostility. Well all your mentionning is intraclass division. Arguing over who has the leadt taxes in the…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/09/21 11:28 AM
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You demand that they stop worrying about their loneliness because it's not a big deal, Never said that either. They're labeled as terrorists in what, three first world nations now? Which ones and what are the criteria for them? Because there is a difference between your relationship status and actively being part of a political group. They also pay a higher tax rate simply for being unable to marry, which is complete bullshit. I mean the rich are avoiding paying their taxes, but sure thats the b…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/09/21 11:03 AM
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I would disagree. I think they might be saying that looks do matter, but it shouldn't be the most important factor for someone who chooses a partner. But it will always be a subconscious factor unless you're visually impaired.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/09/21 10:49 AM
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the government oppression just stopped. I never said incels should be treated with scrutiny. What is the government doing towards them?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/09/21 10:46 AM
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Incels make up at least a quarter of the entire male population these days. What is that approximation based on? Do they have the slightest concept of how psychologically devastating that thought could be, that you could potentially never achieve the most central goals of humanity? Ok, but you could also worry about any other existential crisis and have devastation, so its why this one over others thats need to be looked at.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/09/21 01:48 AM
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it's expected that people fuck, but considered kind of gauche to flirt, chat up, hang out outside of political meetings, to date etc, so basically anything that might lead to fucking is sort of looked down upon. What are you talking about? You'd think the common cause, close proximity, youthfulness, permissive sexual mores and shared interests would create bonds between comrades as they did in past generations, but that doesn't seem to be the case . So agreeing on politics should make people int…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/09/21 01:42 AM
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or toxic demons we must bully to death. So are you saying incel is used as a slur? That would be interesting. I don't believe I've stopped to think about it before. Overall, some good points. A common myth I see spread among progressive people, including those in r/MensLib, that incels want sex / romance because 'society says so' or 'society judges'. Its not good to dimiss that as a myth either, because there is some truth to that men are pushed to stereotypically want to be viril and always see…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/09/21 01:37 AM
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Its a pilot study, its not a concrete proof. Btw, was this peer-reviewed?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/08/21 02:29 AM
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I'm not sure if the people who answered the questionnaire, which already has a low sample size, certainly not enough for the world, were clearly explained what you mean by he statements because saying "the idea of toxic masculinity" could be understood as "toxic masculinity", unless you're selecting a sample group that is pre-selected to understand the question in a certain way. So the methodology is flawed and the sample size is diaspointing.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/08/21 02:26 AM
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Are you making a wojack reference with image 2 and 3?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/08/21 02:23 AM
0

What did ya'll post on there?
/r/MensRights03/08/21 08:38 PM
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Actually there are some like the different generation ones, sex positive feminists, sex negative feminists, trans exclusionary radical feminists or terfs and Sex worker exclusionary radical feminism (SWERF). There are also postmodernist feminists. And I'm sure there are eveb more. I also think MRAs should be named according to different types.
/r/MensRights01/07/21 09:39 AM
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It sounds like this sub is becoming r/conservative kind of like r/freespeech .
/r/MensRights27/06/21 01:53 PM
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Well, yes, but third person shooters primarily. GTA 5 recently introduced a first person mode, but most people still play it in third person.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/06/21 01:08 PM
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How is this related to men's rights? And what text did you read of CRT?
/r/MensRights27/06/21 12:26 PM
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Btw, how is this related to men's advocacy?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/06/21 04:25 AM
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Did you tell 'em that none of those games are first person shooters?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/06/21 04:24 AM
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“Fragile masculinity” That's not a sexuality thing, that's a gender thing. but movements like feminism can talk shit about men all day and nobody cares because men deserve it for oppressing women. This is not true, there are many political groups who don't mind taking aim at feminists. What most people understand is to look at what they're arguing for in context. Many so called MRAs and/or critics of feminism just complain about feminist policy goals i the abstract without any context. For examp…
/r/MensRights27/06/21 03:48 AM
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Of course there is. He doesn't say otherwise. He only talks about effeminate men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/06/21 12:20 PM
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That sub approves every post I think. You're question isn't really clear, it sounds more like you are trying to dismiss all social justice causes.
/r/MensRights23/06/21 09:38 PM
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And... There's the wholesome award. This is Reddit alright.
/r/MensRights22/06/21 03:11 PM
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He takes two examples of toxic relationship behavior by women and only says "females". This implies that all women or at least a majority, are like this. An example of this method would be putting a snapshot of an article about a black criminal and saying "blacks" or an article about a jewish criminal and saying "jews". Whatever the intention, the lack of a refutal of this interpretation immediately opens it to that interpretation. The lack of context or further comment is key.
/r/MensRights10/05/21 08:58 PM
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I don't see why a post bashing females is supposed to advocate for men's issues. Maybe using the title : "Abusive relationship behavior" or something like that or unintellectual wokeness.
/r/MensRights10/05/21 08:35 PM
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Is there a link to the story?
/r/MensRights09/05/21 09:47 PM
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Really? Why does that freak you out in our capitalist society? It's not fun, but still...
/r/MensRights09/05/21 09:36 PM
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Nice to see a positive post.
/r/MensRights24/04/21 07:47 PM
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What would that look like in a science faculty?
/r/MensRights14/04/21 07:06 PM
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What about all of the other medicine fields? And I just said biology isn't equal between men and women but near.
/r/MensRights14/04/21 02:16 PM
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Nursing is a different faculty, biology department might be the closest to equal.
/r/MensRights14/04/21 02:12 PM
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Source? Btw, every departement in my science faculty has considerably more men than women.
/r/MensRights14/04/21 12:00 PM
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Doesn't that make sense though? As a general rule, its the polite thing to leave them be.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/04/21 06:02 PM
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I'm not sure I understand with "don't approach her"?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/04/21 04:59 PM
1

It doesn"'t help that you are showing an article that talks about male supremacists and acting like MRA is under attack because of it.
/r/MensRights31/03/21 03:51 AM
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You might be confusing biology and gender essentialism if you're comparing it to patriarchy.
/r/MensRights31/03/21 03:32 AM
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Sorry to break it to you, but that's how schools treat most bullying. Its even worse that they are using this dumb excuse. I know what you're going through, minus the gender thing. If I could go back,I wouls try looking at it from a positive (sarcastic) light(just don't tell it to the teachers or the principle ot they might increase it out of spite). For example, three say suspension, no school for three days, not going to be hit for three days. Actually, that last one you could mention sarcasti…
/r/MensRights31/03/21 03:29 AM
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OP is complaining about the media never faulting women for avoiding conscription as men did.
/r/MensRights30/03/21 03:01 PM
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Do you even read basic history : https://www.history.com/news/women-fought-armed-forces-war-service They were discriminated against.
/r/MensRights30/03/21 11:43 AM
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Could you link it?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/03/21 11:27 AM
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What were you expecting? Don't start complaining when you ask a question about lack of empathy. Btw, write down the actual question in this post's title. And don't act like this represents all women. The question here is literally biased to exclude any that supports male advocacy.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/03/21 11:26 AM
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Wow, its rare to see a based post like this that doesn't attack one sex or another.
/r/MensRights29/03/21 12:20 PM
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Can you send me an article please?
/r/MensRights28/03/21 10:10 PM
161

What male curfew?
/r/MensRights28/03/21 09:24 PM
2

I guess I need to elaborate. It is social stigma that draws from an ideal of what manhood is. This ideal says that men must be always ready for sex at anytime, must be stoic and not show emotions. They must be independant, always in control, often in a dominant position in a relationship. They must like sports and physical activity and constantly be looking for relationships and power. They must also show off that power to others to proove themselves. They must remain calm at all times except in…
/r/MensRights27/03/21 10:43 PM
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It's not how men behave, its a stereotype about how men should behave that's forced onto people. I actually would be open to saying that their is also a "toxic femininity", but it would be uncomparable to toxic masculinity because of how different it is.
/r/MensRights27/03/21 10:28 PM
1

And what is the cause of discrimination?
/r/MensRights27/03/21 09:46 PM
-1

Then use what ?
/r/MensRights27/03/21 07:58 PM
-7

Toxic masculinity. Society expects boys to want to have sex all the time, so if its a woman-on-boy sexual assault, its not seen as bad as a man-on-girl sexual assault. Here comes the downvote train.
/r/MensRights27/03/21 12:57 PM
25

It says in your own article that she was arrested.
/r/MensRights26/03/21 04:08 PM
-20

Strawman if I ever saw one. Feminists fight for women's place in the millitary and most are against drafts altogether.
/r/MensRights21/03/21 02:34 PM
-4

It's probably more the reputation of MRAs.
/r/MensRights19/03/21 12:51 PM
1

I don't know ? I think they think I'm attacking the narrative.
/r/MensRights13/03/21 05:08 PM
-10

Don't false accusations come from people you're close with (know them) rather than strangers ?
/r/MensRights13/03/21 12:27 PM
1

Well that is institutional violence which is harder to see, and thus not as memorable. I'm not trying to justify the attitude, just to analyse and explain it.
/r/MensRights27/02/21 10:57 PM
1

It would be interesting to see your list of the top 5 incels who have "made massacres", I suspect the list won't stretch that long. Well, since you ask: https://www.lightuponlight.online/incel-mass-shootings/ https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Incel https://www.thecanadianencyclopedia.ca/en/article/polytechnique-tragedy I'd seriously question your first assumption, you could just as easily say "feminism has connections with socialism/communism which has murdered millions in the last century". This …
/r/MensRights27/02/21 10:55 PM
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That's a good point and a great question ! The bad MRAs interconnect with incels and some incels have made massacres that killed many women. On the other hand, bad apples in feminism haven't made as many memorable violent acts. On top of that, I think there hasn't been many good MRAs that have been prominent leaders for the cause. Also, feminism has a History that shows positive change over time for the liberation of women without attacking men. MRAs, on the other hand, are relatively new compar…
/r/MensRights27/02/21 03:21 PM
4

The MRA movement has a lot of negative stereotypes because there are a lot of people that identify themselves as MRAs that don't want equality and are instead seeking an opportunity to counter feminism without being as easily branded as a conservative or a rectionary. There are, in fact, a lot of people like this in this sub unfortunately. There are plenty of good of good MRAs but the bad ones are very loud.
/r/MensRights27/02/21 01:46 PM
0

I mean, in practice, his comment following rule 2 often applies in this sub. But yeah, in general reddit admins are awful. Wish there were more rules that they had to follow. Hope I won't get banned for saying this.
/r/MensRights25/02/21 01:04 AM
12

Ok so... literally letting men control other womens' bodies... This is supposed to be progress?
/r/MensRights14/02/21 01:50 PM
-3

Historically, women were often banned from joining in armies. Sny kind of socisl oppression will have long lasting effects. Just make the slightest bit of research before posting something like this. https://www.history.com/news/u-s-military-lifts-ban-on-women-in-combat https://www.historynet.com/why-not-send-women-to-war.htm https://www.cnas.org/publications/commentary/women-in-combat-five-year-status-update
/r/MensRights14/02/21 01:29 PM
4

What is the article?
/r/MensRights12/02/21 04:57 PM
3

Where was this on?
/r/MensRights27/01/21 04:57 PM
-10

You're just generalising. I know plenty of women that are very reasonable and polite.
/r/MensRights26/01/21 04:51 AM
0

No, they're not muting anyone who comments on feminism, but people who attack feminism based on the misconception it is equal to misandry or otherwise try to paint wll feminists bad based on this one situation. Anyway, hope I won't get banned for this.
/r/MensRights19/01/21 01:32 PM
1

Could you give an example? Like evidence of what?
/r/MensRights18/01/21 01:12 PM
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violence, rigorous ambition, and competence Violence, I guess agression checks that box. There is still "rigorous ambition and competence" which still does not have proof.
/r/MensRights17/01/21 07:52 PM
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Teach men not to *insert violent crime. This is something that is used in response to when women are told not to do certain behavior like wear certain clothes to avoid harming coming to them from men. It's sometimes taken out of context. Blames the crime is only to men and erases female sexual abusers too. Agree with that too. My reason for it, you'll probably disagree. It's males' biological instincts, and forcing something to remove at its natural state doesn't do good, it will just cause inap…
/r/MensRights17/01/21 04:52 PM
3

The first part is also from the professor?
/r/MensRights14/01/21 04:36 PM
4

Does he ever quote the APA in that argument?
/r/MensRights14/01/21 02:55 PM
-1

It literally says in the title "Radical feminism".
/r/MensRights14/01/21 12:03 PM
1

What do you mean by a bigger victim?
/r/MensRights27/12/20 11:44 PM
1

Who is she?
/r/MensRights20/12/20 12:25 PM
0

You mean this: r/menslib .
/r/MensRights14/12/20 11:59 PM
1

"No that's not a strawman! Look at this sub who makes all of them look bad based on the most ridiculous of them!" Edit: I never said EVERY other sub was left leaning, just the majority and all the big ones. Lol as if the rest of reddit and in general social media isn't a far left echo chamber where anyone who doesn't follow their agenda (which includes hating on men, especially white men) is shamed and villified.
/r/MensRights10/12/20 01:18 PM
1

Believe me, I know there are plenty of left-wing echo-chambers across the Internet and I never said otherwise. A couple reasons for this is that, in general, North America tends to lean more liberal, mostly on social issues (reminder not to confuse liberalism and socialism) and that people who use social media tend to be younger and young people tend to be more left-leaning. But that's ridiculous to say that the rest of Reddit is a far left echo-chamber. There are a lot of right-wing echo-chambe…
/r/MensRights10/12/20 03:11 AM
2

I didn't mean to say that all MRAs are as I described but that a loud group of them are. Men's right activism is very valid. But these more reactionnary factions within the movement hijack the discussion that's meant to go towards progress to use its frustrations as fuel for regress. This sub in particular is much worse when it comes to reactionaries than a sub like r/menslib . Thank you for the respect in your reply.
/r/MensRights10/12/20 02:50 AM
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The reason you feel this way is this sub is an echo-chamber for conservatives and reactionnaries who don't understand feminist philosophies or policies and thus react in fear. A lot of people here assume some kind of gender war like conflict within society where feminists are behind everything bad that happens to men. This is of course nonsense, because a lot of the negative attitudes and discrimination against men comes from the same source as discrimination against women. People who are only f…
/r/MensRights09/12/20 02:03 PM
0

Do you have another source than Dailymail?
/r/MensRights08/12/20 02:45 PM
3

Why would they want to circumcise them?
/r/MensRights10/11/20 08:31 PM
-1

The new york post is a very right-wing source and right-wingers usually don't have equality or equity interests at heart.
/r/MensRights30/10/20 07:47 PM
-3

You might have more luck on r/menslib , but when the first article people see is a new york post one, its not a good first impression, so be careful with that.
/r/MensRights30/10/20 03:59 PM
1

Maybe its a good idea that they don't resort to more intense echo-chambers.
/r/MensRights27/10/20 02:20 AM
-11

What is 2x? A lot of the loudest voices in the men's right movement only use talking points of men's rights as a way to attack anything feminists say. For example, and I know I'm gonna get downvoted for this, if not banned, but this sub often talks about sexists attitudes and double standards that are put onto men. This then creates a kind of toxic culture which is tied to cultural standards of masculinity (not manhood), which isn't a bad concept to have, but that has some bad sides that affect …
/r/MensRights27/10/20 01:46 AM
1

Prison for life is sadistic and a bad idea. If you give them a life sentence, women who make false accusations and get people locked up will have eveything to loose when coming clean about lying. I'm not saying that there should be no punishment, but that it should be efficient.
/r/MensRights14/10/20 11:07 AM
1

Look, that redditor is a dick, but he has a point asking for the source because you should be able to proove your claims.
/r/MensRights27/09/20 12:45 PM
-1

In practice, a lot of self described MRAs hate feminism and believe what that comment has highlighted. An example of this is how a lot of Mens rights activists react when they hear the words toxic masculinity (Reminder: refers to toxic expectations put on men by society because of socially constructed ideas of manhood) because it was invented by feminists even if they believe in the concept themselves I know this will be an unpopular opinion, but I also see a lot of this feeling in this subreddi…
/r/MensRights02/09/20 06:47 PM
1

If you understand what toxic masculinity is, what is the problem with the comment? Edit : And how is this victim blaming? Toxic masculinity is a societal phenomenon men are a victim to. It seems more about seeing men as victims than blaming them as victims.
/r/MensRights11/07/20 01:16 AM
-2

Maybe blue isn't the most appropriate colour to choose.
/r/MensRights24/06/20 01:03 AM
1

What does it matter who I am, aren't you throwing an ad hominem?
/r/MensRights08/06/20 05:03 PM
0

Those are some good points, but I did say most issues not all. -Fathers rights stems from the bad parts of Masculinity? That would probably come from gender roles. -Men dying younger and getting less funding for healthcare stems from the bad parts of masculinity? Could you show me some sources for that? Victim blaming is perfectly alright when the victims are male? No, and I don't see how that links with what we are talking about or what you've just said.
/r/MensRights08/06/20 12:59 PM
0

I'm a French Canadian actually. But I know a social worker in child protection who, while being mostly feminist, does notice discrimination against men in custody decisions.
/r/MensRights08/06/20 12:45 PM
1

More social services for and targeted at men. This sends a pretty strong message that it is normal and even expected that men should and will ask for help. https://youtu.be/UJr5iUhORvc A visible and effective government policy for men, including a 'minister for men'. This sends a strong signal that men are not always self-reliant and sometimes vulnerable. I'm skeptical of a minister of men but I think any governmental body for men should have the same for women but be separate. Men and women bot…
/r/MensRights08/06/20 12:19 PM
1

How about MISANDRY or INTERNALIZED MISANDRY? That refers more to the hatred of men which is not the issue. There's nothing wrong with MASCULINITY, MASCULINITY by definition is the default natural state of any man. As far as hormoned go yes, but a lot of it is social convention. For example, the stereotype for how gay men are seen today is that they have behaviors which are seen as feminine, but in ancient greece, homosexuality in men was seen as the most masculine you could be. Its overall cultu…
/r/MensRights08/06/20 11:59 AM
1

"Could we discuss the concept of harmful expectations placed on men, by using the term 'harmful expectations'?" If people are so offended by the term, I guess you could say something else. But I still think it would be important to use a term that makes the link with masculinity and that is short and that everyone will understand like everyone understands misoginy when it is used . Maybe masculine indoctrination, masculine sexism or sexist masculinity, it would be hard to find one that is perfec…
/r/MensRights08/06/20 02:14 AM
0

I don't see it being used to attack men. I am one and know others who see it as a valid concept. How do you know if most men don't like it? What makes the association unnecessary? You said it yourself "There are pressures and expectations on men that are harmful to men." "Because it is used far, far more than terms that recognise the positive aspects of masculinity" Could that be because there is an important issue with masculinity?
/r/MensRights08/06/20 01:25 AM
1

How does it show a disregard for men?
/r/MensRights08/06/20 12:39 AM
-5

I used it in a metalinguistic sense. Like how talking about the word shit isn't the same as swearing. I'll change it if you want. Why does it bother you so much? Edit: Why don't you think masculinity creates toxic social consequences?
/r/MensRights08/06/20 12:05 AM
-4

I disagree. I think it's easy to confuse masculinity with manhood. Masculinity is a social concept and set of social stereotypes. Most issues men face are because of the bad parts of masculinity, which is where the term comes from. https://www.reddit.com/r/SelfAwarewolves/comments/ggnzpi/men_dont_hide_their_emotions_because_of_toxic/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
/r/MensRights07/06/20 11:54 PM
-7

Why would men feel attacked or hurt by the term toxic masculinity?
/r/MensRights07/06/20 11:37 PM
2

I've never heard of male fragility. Can you tell me more?
/r/MensRights07/06/20 05:36 PM
1

What is your source for the 70 % claim?
/r/MensRights05/06/20 02:24 PM
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