GoingTheDlstance Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	Do Men and Women form a bond with a new person for different reasons?	Discussion	GoingTheDlstance	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/18 03:51 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Would You Like To Play A Game? Oh Captain, My Captain Red team please /u/Littleknownfacts IDK what flair title, someone make up something clever	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/18 02:40 PM
3	Chad is actually incredibly unattractive REDRUM	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/18 04:37 PM
8	Chad is actually incredibly unattractive wtf does alpha have to do with this topic. CHAD not ALPHA and don't come back at me with CHAD = ALPHA I WILL MURDER U	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/18 04:05 PM
5	Chad is actually incredibly unattractive Your Chad is someone who makes you feel safe. Your idea of safe is a guy who is loyal. Girls who fuck Chad find safety in him. you just made this shit up lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/18 03:54 PM
45	Chad is actually incredibly unattractive yes, chad is not relationship material. I'm not sure why we need to know about your twat problems though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/18 02:03 PM
3	Q4All: Are Cops considered "Alpha"? If you leave out the incorrect morality that seems to be attached to alpha, all you have left is a spectrum of traits. If a cop had these traits, then yes the cop would be considered alpha. I'm sure there's a mix with natural alpha being a smaller portion than beta.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/18 01:14 PM
2	Why do married men become pussy whipped? I am. I'm hoping that eventually I'll get friends who will tell me if I get in an abusive relationship. It would better serve you to already have a definition of what you consider abusive or unacceptable behavior. That is your personal responsibility to yourself. Waiting for someone else to tell you is lazy and void of personal responsibility for your own happiness.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/18 06:28 PM
2	Do Men and Women form a bond with a new person for different reasons? women and men bond differently, so what? Well, there's another thread on ppd right now dealing with N count and pair bonding where most men are saying that higher N count women and casual sex having women somehow cannot bond to men and therefor should be avoided. My thoughts on that were that many men were overlooking the fact that men bond to women with sex and women bond to men for reasons other than sex (and sex too). So my 'so what' is this: men who think women can't bond to them in relation…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/18 05:35 PM
2	Do Men and Women form a bond with a new person for different reasons? I can barely even parse what you're saying but thank you for answering anyways :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/18 05:23 PM
1	Do Men and Women form a bond with a new person for different reasons? I guess he disagrees with you on that one but I do understand your point. I think there's types of bonding though, like what happens when you meet someone new and what happens when you stay with someone for a long time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/18 05:12 PM
3	Do Men and Women form a bond with a new person for different reasons? I can respect that for sure. also KITTENS <3	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/18 05:00 PM
1	Do Men and Women form a bond with a new person for different reasons? I'm guessing that means you are male. OK, what caused the oneitis?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/18 04:39 PM
1	Do Men and Women form a bond with a new person for different reasons? lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/18 04:38 PM
2	Do Men and Women form a bond with a new person for different reasons? yes then it's just creepy when they chase you	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/18 04:36 PM
1	Do Men and Women form a bond with a new person for different reasons? thank you :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/18 04:31 PM
1	Do Men and Women form a bond with a new person for different reasons? Would you mind stating what the things are about you that you see "bonding" you to a man? I guess I'm looking for specific details about what makes a woman want to attach to a man in the beginning?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/18 04:17 PM
1	Do Men and Women form a bond with a new person for different reasons? Here's a question, do you consider the word "bond" to be the appropriate word for what you described above? What word would you use instead of bond if not?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/18 04:13 PM
1	Do Men and Women form a bond with a new person for different reasons? I am female, married, mid 40's.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/18 04:00 PM
1	Do you believe that a Woman's N-count has an effect on her ability to pair bond? Why or why not? You might want to edit your post's body to reflect your true questions as most people are not going to wade through 101 comments and comment chains to try to find out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/18 03:05 PM
2	Do you believe that a Woman's N-count has an effect on her ability to pair bond? Why or why not? you didn't even bother to write a post for anyone to be able to address the topic. You literally wrote a title only, used N count and pair bonding, and now are like "eh scratch the words i used, i really meant this".	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/18 02:58 PM
4	Do you believe that a Woman's N-count has an effect on her ability to pair bond? Why or why not? I have already represented what I believe with an excerpt and a link. If I did not believe said excerpt from said link, I would probably have posted something else.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/18 02:27 PM
3	Do you believe that a Woman's N-count has an effect on her ability to pair bond? Why or why not? It is literally describing what pair bonding IS. Do you understand what it is saying? I don't think you do or you would not be stuck on stupid with these replies.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/18 02:24 PM
7	Do you believe that a Woman's N-count has an effect on her ability to pair bond? Why or why not? you don't know what an excerpt from Psychology Today on pair bonding in humans has to do with your thread on pair bonding?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/18 02:11 PM
8	Do you believe that a Woman's N-count has an effect on her ability to pair bond? Why or why not? Humans can experience some or all of the above-mentioned varieties of pair bonds in their lifetime. These bonds can be temporary or last a lifetime, same age or with different age groups. In a biological sense there are two main types of pair bonds exhibited in humans: social pair bonding and sexual pair bonding. The social pair bond is a strong behavioral and psychological relationship between two individuals that is measurably different in physiological and emotional terms from general friends…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/18 02:04 PM
1	Why does toxic masculinity not take sexual dimorphism into account? Then explain the significance of your statement in response to mine please. Women would complain if their daughters were genetically modified to look like men no doubt are you just saying that in order to be equal women must be genetically modified and women won't do that to be equal? If so, yeah i agree	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/18 05:22 PM
1	Why does toxic masculinity not take sexual dimorphism into account? looks dont' make you equal, this is that lookist myth stuff	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/18 05:18 PM
1	Why does toxic masculinity not take sexual dimorphism into account? as if the only thing that needs to change is looks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/18 05:14 PM
1	Why does toxic masculinity not take sexual dimorphism into account? why would you expect men to agree to drop down to a female's level? Why can't women rise to the occasion ?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/18 04:59 PM
1	Comparing two posts on /r/relationships. One where a biological mother refuses to meet her long lost biological daughter and one where a biological father refuses to meet his. Guess how the responses differ? He knew she was pregnant. If he wanders off without one of those options actually being implemented, he has failed to make a proper effort. yeah and he told her to abort and then she never contacted her again. How could he know? She clearly didn't need him as she made no further contact nor did she file for CS. As for the rest of your comment, I don't know what you're talking about. She didn't walk out without a baby, she didn't ask anyone for help or assistance, she dealt with it on her own. Ho…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/18 02:47 PM
1	Comparing two posts on /r/relationships. One where a biological mother refuses to meet her long lost biological daughter and one where a biological father refuses to meet his. Guess how the responses differ? He cannot successfully abort a woman's child, so strike number one. He cannot successfully adopt out a child he has no knowledge of, so strike number two. He cannot successfully take responsibility for a child he had no knowledge of, so strike number three. Too bad your response actually supports OP's claim that there is a deep and unfair bias against males in this situation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/18 01:56 PM
1	Comparing two posts on /r/relationships. One where a biological mother refuses to meet her long lost biological daughter and one where a biological father refuses to meet his. Guess how the responses differ? Giving a child up for adoption does not make you a deadbeat parent. It in fact does the opposite, relinquishes rights and responsibilities in order for some other family to provide. I am not surprised that women are given more sympathy over this topic than men. I don't agree with it but it doesn't surprise me a bit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/18 01:45 PM
1	Dare To Be Domestic: Traditional Living Against Society & Its Myths I just realized that this one post is in two separate subs. I responded to this thread in this sub from the comment history of OP. I apologize that I didn't realize that when you left your comment. Her post on the other sub is where the exchange is.	/r/RedPillWomen	22/06/18 04:02 PM
1	Dare To Be Domestic: Traditional Living Against Society & Its Myths please see the entire thread then because I did do just that.	/r/RedPillWomen	22/06/18 04:00 PM
1	Dare To Be Domestic: Traditional Living Against Society & Its Myths I did just that. As the conversation progressed she herself listed her credentials, which make my problem with her ideas compounded. I have been respectful, I just don't agree.	/r/RedPillWomen	22/06/18 03:49 PM
1	Dare To Be Domestic: Traditional Living Against Society & Its Myths I'm utterly baffled that you felt you could speak to working mothers and wives and the commitments and struggle they face already. You live with your parent, aren't married, no kids. You are not even living with a man as a husband or LTR but you expected these words to be accepted as an insight? I'm sure it's uncomfortable to put this much effort into posts and blogs and have any negative feedback. I don't think you realize how you are judging things you don't have experience with and how those …	/r/RedPillWomen	22/06/18 03:36 PM
1	Dare To Be Domestic So how does working outside the home part time make you different than women who work outside the home?	/r/RedPillWives	22/06/18 02:52 PM
1	Dare To Be Domestic are you a stay at home? That is the luxury i was talking about.	/r/RedPillWives	22/06/18 02:38 PM
1	Dare To Be Domestic I think the comfort of your luxury has detached you from the reality of most working class families.	/r/RedPillWives	22/06/18 02:36 PM
1	Dare To Be Domestic I don't believe that most normal working class families can afford to SAH, and often I hear working moms say they wish they could afford to. I think your post sets a tone that matches the very tone you're speaking out against. It is the most status/virtue signally thing i've read in a long time.	/r/RedPillWives	22/06/18 02:28 PM
1	Dare To Be Domestic It seems to me that in order to combat the negative feedback about the lifestyle of your choice, you must now reverse that negative feedback onto working women. I do not see how this is a solution to anything at all. Most working wives/moms value the above outlined concepts too, they just might not have the luxury or settings to do so. Wouldn't it be more helpful to embrace the differences and give credit to the struggles rather than force a hard opposition?	/r/RedPillWives	22/06/18 02:16 PM
1	June 2018 Survey Results nah, these two aren't losers but really cool people!	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/18 07:05 PM
1	What to do when you can’t go along with the fetish? This isn't /r/relationships yeah no kidding Did you read her post on that sub though? What is the obsession with treating BF's like husbands? So she should trade her comfort level for his? Why should she do that? Fetishes don't change, they don't go away. User name -dreamingofheroin, hider posts about cheating, fetishes that she can't deal with.......can you tell where this is going yet?	/r/RedPillWomen	08/06/18 05:03 AM
1	What to do when you can’t go along with the fetish? It sounds like she did make it clearly already so what good does it do to say it again? Why shoudln't she judge, he's not her husband.	/r/RedPillWomen	08/06/18 04:41 AM