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Those mostly aren't the same types of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 08:20 PM
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It's fine to reject assholes in any context.....
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 03:53 AM
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I only take pleasure if they're an asshole. Otherwise I feel bad because I know it likely took a good bit of courage.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 02:51 AM
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You just can't handle that you don't get to decide what kind of partners people deserve
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 12:09 AM
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No one "deserves" a hot partner. People can date whoever wants to date them. But us more attractive guys don't want a beached whale bothering us any less than the hot chick doesn't want advances from the guy built like Donald Trump. Who talks like this lmao? You are absolutely not an attractive guy and you know it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 12:04 AM
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What??
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 11:42 PM
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okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 07:33 PM
2

Well what race are you if you don't mind me asking?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 07:26 PM
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For me it's when they have ED which tends to be a loooooot of older men. I can get over them being bald. I can get over them being fat even though I'm fit if they're willing to change. ED I can't get past. I like spontaneous sex sometimes and I don't want to wait around for their pills to kick in
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 07:23 PM
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Men also have to factor in that most women don't want men more than about 3 years older than them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 07:11 PM
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I think it's because most men struggle with dating because of either looks personality or both. As you get older you tend to be more financially stable and a lot of the men here think that will solve all their problems so they don't do anything else to work on themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 07:04 PM
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Depends on what they look like lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 06:49 PM
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Bruh what this is like the most vanilla Mardi Gras video I've ever seen lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 05:27 AM
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It can but that doesn't necessarily mean it's the kind of women you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 03:32 AM
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Sounds like ad hominem
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 08:41 PM
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I am a woman and if there's lube it doesn't hurt me
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:27 PM
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*you're
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 06:10 PM
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How is it doing any of this if they never find out? I do agree it is a betrayal but bait and switching your partner into a sexless marriage is also a betrayal in my opinion. It's not particularly arrogant to think you can fully get away with it. You just got to be smart and strategic. mean that the relationship is not fine since you don’t respect your partner? I disagree. The relationship isn't perfect but it's good enough. I feel you can love and respect your partner but still have sex with oth…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 05:42 PM
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Because the relationship is otherwise fine
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 05:36 PM
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But here's the thing, sex takes two people and relationships require constant work. If you go straight to cheating before even attempting to solve the underlying issue preventing sex then there's a bigger problem in the relationship. I completely agree. I feel this should only be taken as a last resort option before divorce. I am not equipped to understand the constant obsession people have with sex and its transactional nature in relationships. A lot of people can't. I may be a unicorn since I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 05:36 PM
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Still can be a better option than divorcing in my opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 05:29 PM
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I know these are real scenarios but it's not the scenario I brought up. I'm talking about forcing your partner to either be celibate for the rest of their lives or uproot their whole lives when everything else in the marriage is fine. Logically wouldn't it make more sense for the partner to just step out every week or so?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 05:24 PM
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I know it's immoral. I just don't feel divorced is necessarily the answer in all cases if your partner doesn't want to open the marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 05:20 PM
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Personally sex hurts me if I don’t want it. Hm okay that's understandable. I wonder if it's like that for most women?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 05:19 PM
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What standard should be applied for when determining whether a wife's sexual performance is satisfactory and determine that his needs are objectively met? Hm this I'm not sure I have an answer to honestly. Sorry if this is tmi but I like my partner to be a bit rough with me but I would not cheat or leave him if he decided he didn't want to. Now with withholding sex completely I don't think that's a reasonable thing to do. May you're setting the bar at sex once a week since that's what you're hap…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 04:40 PM
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Strawman.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 04:26 PM
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Why can't he just use a condom? You could get injured riding a bike so is it a good idea to just never ride bikes?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 04:25 PM
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okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 04:23 PM
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I will say it's not as common as an end but it happens enough to be a valid discussion? I don't know if I'm a unicorn but I feel you can have sex with other people and still love your partner and be happy with everything else in your marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 04:12 PM
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I'm a woman and I don't believe this is always true.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 04:02 PM
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It's not the same though. In this relationship is needs aren't getting met because you can't physically meet them because you're not a man. In the situation I'm discussing they can physically meet these needs but refuse to because they don't care or think they're important
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 04:01 PM
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You’re not allowing them to even see the truth, let alone make a decision about it. The truth that you're cheating or the truth that your needs aren't all being met?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 03:58 PM
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The relationship is not fine if you're lying to your partner. I disagree. It's not perfect your needs aren't being considered but it's good enough. Are you fine with your husband being on grindr sucking dick as long he keeps it on the dl and makes you feel like your relationship is fine? straw man. A better example would be a man doing this exact thing to a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 03:57 PM
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You're taking away their choice to leave over the truth and no better than abusive people that control others by force. But how so if they never find out in the relationship is otherwise fine?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 03:52 PM
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I think in these situations their sex drives were initially compatible but one partner just became disinterested in sex anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 03:45 PM
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If I bait and switched him into a life of celibacy then no.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 03:41 PM
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What if they never find out?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 03:37 PM
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Well if they never find out and you're safe and can live with it mentally I don't feel there's a problem that warrants divorce necessarily.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 03:31 PM
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What does this have to do with anything I just said?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 03:30 PM
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this doesn't look like the best one It's almost like it's not rage bait and doesn't become that just because you don't like it right?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 03:22 PM
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When I say your partner won't work with you on this an open relationship has already been discussed and the partner won't agree to it. Don’t put somebody’s health at risk unknowingly. This part I do understand and agree on. Condom arent 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 03:20 PM
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It doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 10:12 AM
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It absolutely is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 09:36 AM
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Meh. Not healthy but it can still work well enough. things in life aren't perfect. I didn't blame anyone or call anyone a victim. You brought up the topic of selfishness and I just said it's also selfish to bait and switch your partner. I just think it can be a better option than divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 09:26 AM
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I'll admit I never considered this point of view. When you put it in a risk versus reward way I do understand and mostly agree. On one hand if you cheat and get caught that will likely end in divorce but if you divorce to sleep with other people then that will definitely end in divorce. But if you divorce because you want to sleep with other people then at least you can still be on good terms with your partner and your circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 09:18 AM
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not "being miserable and resentful" does not qualify as a need I disagree. Reasonable happiness is a need. Assuming the partner never finds out then problem solved. alternatives ways of achieving it. Yes by having sex with other people. You know this from all the examples of it being true. It's selfish to subject your partner to a life of celibacy if that's not what was agreed upon before marriage. If you can;t achieve those, thats a you problem, not your partners problem. Did I say it was? But …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 09:13 AM
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You don't have a physical need to lie and fuck another person. More bullshit to justify doing whatever you want. Some people do and I just explained how. If you have a non ad hominem argument I'd be glad to discuss it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 08:46 AM
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No, it's not better than divorce, I think it can be especially if the partner never finds out. all you do is excuse your lack of self control and your selfishness. You put yourself first and thus broke a vow. Instead of ad it ting your faults and take accountability, you put the blame on someone else. So stop making excuses and take accountability for your actions. I agree but none of that matters if your partner never finds out and I literally just said it's disgusting. I didn't blame anyone or…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 08:45 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 08:35 AM
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It's a straw man. I'm not discussing double standards or what society thinks nor did I say my opinion was an objective fact. My point is that if you've done all you can to try and fix your dead bedroom and the marriage is otherwise fine then cheating is a better option than divorce. Yes it's disgusting but it's better than divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 08:35 AM
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I downvoted you again lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 08:27 AM
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I don't care what society does. I'm just giving my own opinion on the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 08:24 AM
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No you didn't. You didn't even get my gender right.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 08:22 AM
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Well in my opinion I think it applies to both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 08:21 AM
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So this is definitely not what I was trying to get at at all. I think you mistook me for a red pill ally. You can shove this entire comment up your ass without lube you freak lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 08:20 AM
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Why don't you just not reply if you're not going to actually read the post? It's not even that long.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 08:15 AM
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Hm okay. That's interesting to know
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 08:11 AM
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If your partner genuinely has no sex drive any more and you'd have to put in an unreasonable amount of effort to get their motor running, cheating is fair. The only red pill take I will ever agree with lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 08:10 AM
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But what if they never get caught?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 08:08 AM
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I posted this because I saw a similar post a bit ago. I'm super curious about what the guys here say when they find out men can "cause dead bedrooms" too and get cheated on lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:57 AM
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Masturbation isn't enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:52 AM
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So are you saying, if someone cheats under the pretense of a dead bedroom, and their partner isn’t wanting to change- that it’s ok, especially if divorce isn’t viable. ? It can be. If they don't find out whats it matter? Or are you saying that people should consider ethical non monogamy as an alternative? If you can get your partner to agree to this then sure but usually they won't. Basically I think cheating is wrong but it's a better option than divorcing over a dead bedroom
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:49 AM
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Because it hurts if you’re not aroused? Does it? Even with lube? And you have to wash yourself after. For my husband and I he just hands me a towel to lay on or we use a condom and just wash up when I feel like it. Blowjobs require much less cleaning and effort. lol so no jaw or neck pain?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:46 AM
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A different word to explain it doesn't come to mind right now. I think just cheating in this situation is a better option than divorcing and uprooting your whole life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:43 AM
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Why marry anyone if you're only concerned about your own physical needs and theirs dont matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 06:48 AM
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“Why is she too tired to have sex with me? She’s dead bedrooming me! She did a bait and switch!” Honestly as a woman I don't get this statement. If hes asking for a blowjob I get it but if it's just sex and you're too tired why not just lay there and let him do his thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 06:42 AM
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Women don't always cause dead bedrooms. Cheating if your partner refuses to have sex with you isn't right but understandable.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 06:34 AM
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yes. I always have.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 04:02 PM
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Most men don’t actually marry younger women because they’re already married when they get older. To men in their own age group. Not older men lol and I don't have to dream that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 01:29 AM
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ALL MEN PREFER YOUNGER WOMEN. MOST MEN CANT GET YOUNGER WOMEN SO IT DOESN'T MATTER WHAT THEY PREFER LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 11:19 PM
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I'd probably fuck him and not you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 06:36 PM
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Here we go again. Women bad 🙄 here's a song on the worlds smallest violin 🎻💃
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 12:14 PM
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It doesn't mean much coming from you because it's you. Also keep your heart and teach it to not be jealous of women 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 11:52 PM
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I literally don't think I've ever seen an attractive red pill podcaster lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 11:46 PM
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I'm really sorry you have to skip to ad hominem because the rock in my driveway can make a better point than you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 11:37 PM
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It’s quite possible that the hardships of daily life and the necessity for cooperation within the family unit far outweighed any sense of injustice women felt about their status as second class citizens. Is this why as soon as women had the means to leave their husbands they did and in large numbers?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 11:04 PM
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I've handled over ten thousand felony cases. And I'm a shapeshifter with no eyelids. I don't have any reason to believe that the hundreds of sexual assault and several thousand domestic violence cases I've been assigned over the last two decades are in anyway unusual. You do if you look at Nations where rape isn't considered a (serious)crime. The example you just gave basically never happens so what is the benefit to women pursuing false rape charges? Luckily for men most of the women making fal…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 02:41 AM
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That's because I didn't want to have to reply to two different comments from the same person. It is a false equivalency because like I said women generally don't benefit from lying about being raped. In fact reporting it is a detriment because of people like you. There are tons of benefits to committing crimes that outweigh the possible consequences. You're not going to explain because you can't explain because you have a bad take on this issue. Your rationality is skewed and is based on the ide…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 02:34 AM
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The majority of rape victims are not teenage girls trying to hide the fact they have sex from their parents lol. Either way this is anecdotal.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 02:27 AM
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Yes and he's my husband now lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 02:19 AM
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And I'm an astronaut typing to you from Mars. lmao I'm using this
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 02:11 AM
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How does this prove that a substantial amount of rape claims are false?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 02:06 AM
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I can't even find the words to describe how big of a false equivalency this is lol. There's a risk of jail involved in any crime but do you think high crime areas don't exist? They do it anyway because it benefits them. It generally does not benefit women to lie about being raped in a notable way.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 02:04 AM
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Because rationally what reason do women have to lie about rape that could outweigh the mental and physical labor of pursuing a rape charge?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 01:52 AM
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Maybe not most -- but a very substantial proportion are. How do you know this? I've personally dealt with dozens of false sexual assault allegations How do you know they're false?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 01:45 AM
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I can answer as somebody who has been to jail it's honestly just a big community of women playing games, eating together, and doing eachothers hair. Sure there are fights sometimes but after they happen it's back to business as usual. Granted most of the women were there for drug offenses and not violence. In general I just don't believe women are as prone to violence as men would like to believe. Like I was saying earlier in one of my other replies I think it would be like if you hung out with …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 11:00 PM
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Oh I saw this hentai before lmao! But for real why do they just think all those women are just going to randomly turn into WWZ sex zombies??
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 10:49 PM
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Lolol I think if I stopped cooking and left it up to my husband he would probably give himself food poisoning within a week. Brilliant man but yea heh heh....
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 10:36 PM
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And could you imagine the smell lmao?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 10:31 PM
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lol yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 05:41 PM
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Human behavior you made up in your head does in fact mean nothing lol. And again no they don't. That's redpill bs. Lmao OK, we are finished there. We are because you're clueless about women and your views on them are hilarious lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 05:40 PM
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Because he kinda don't have a choice in the matter, expectations from the women will, he liking it or not, put him a position of authority. Soooo basically you based your assumption on nothing lol. They still need and desire male attention that is now only in such situation provided by a single person. No women do not NEED male attention. It's just men who act like they need female attention. It do not matter, if a woman is picked by this single men it will means that all the other 99 girls will…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 05:24 PM
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The average age Gap is 2 to 3 years. That is a statistical fact. It doesn't change because it hurts your feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 04:32 PM
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They're more attractive to their ACTUAL options. Cool, so if we see an older man dating a younger woman, she's clearly making the decision for herself. I'm glad we agree these jealous older women are simply concerned frolling You're likely never going to see this in your normal daily life. What you will see is a lot of young women creeped out by old men hitting on them but tell yourself what you want lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 04:25 PM
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More often than not if you do not manage them they'll do wathever they want and doing wathever they want and what allow you to survive in such situation goes in opposite directions. But why are you so sure the man will be the one to manage them? Especially considering the women outnumber him. The problem is that humans need cooperation to work well, even in modern times with most of this cooperation being virtualized you still need it. So what you think that happens if the men give attention to …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 04:18 PM
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But what should we do with the "underlying truth"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 04:01 PM
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They're more successful in making themselves attractive to their own age group as that's typically who they're interested in. And if younger women don't date older men, why do women here have to "warn" younger women that older men are "manipulative predators", if they're uninterested anyway? Can't have it both ways They don't usually have to because most young women don't want men outside their own age group. The general age Gap is 2 to 3 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 03:43 PM
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Well when people criticize women for having the audacity to age it does come off as a tad hateful lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 03:24 PM
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vs men who just let it happen and wonder why younger women don't want them?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 03:21 PM
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But why just assume he has to manage them? I feel like in this situation sure some of them may be romantically interested in him but for the most part he would likely just be "one of the girls" lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 03:14 PM
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still, the best thing I learned from the pandemic is that when shit hits the fan women need men and they know it. no they don't lol. If anything it's the other way around or at least men seem to act like it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 02:59 PM
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right: Men should keep up with their hygiene, fitness, and work ethic. wrong: basically everything else lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 02:42 PM
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Cool inappropriate use of a buzzword. Did you practice it in the mirror this morning?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 02:39 PM
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I don't agree that they're extremely different though. Yes status money and lifestyle are great but you've got to at least be somewhat physically attractive first. THEN women( at least the ones you want) look at the other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 02:34 PM
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They still get fat, wrinkled, muscle loss, and ED.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 02:31 PM
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Nice deflection. This is quite literally a deflection lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 10:11 PM
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So if you're open to discussing the actual topic at hand I'm open to it as well but not whatever tf you're on about right now lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 09:42 PM
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Are women men?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 09:36 PM
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Exactly. People in general dont "age like wine" and the wall is real but for everyone. For the most part I've stopped even trying to debate this with the men here lol. If they want to convince themselves attractive young women just sit around fawning over old farts let them. They just gonna have to learn the hard way honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 09:33 PM
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Traits such as assertive, dominant, strong personality and boundaries. For me I generally like nice, kind, caring, and confident men. Assertive and dominant aren't normally adjectives I would use to describe those men. Im seeing it more and more that women today aren’t equipped to deal with typical masculine men Or perhaps they just never like those types of men but now they don't have to stay with them anyway out of necessity.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 07:31 PM
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Or they want exactly what they say they want which is the best for themselves and men should just stop trying to tell women what they think.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 07:23 PM
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It's a joke lol. Idk if you ever saw the full video of this? Basically she lost her raisins and is saying the passengers on the plane aren't real as they stare confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 07:09 PM
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Your husband is NOT real!! <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 07:06 PM
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Exactly. And it's never going to be enough regardless of what you say because the point is you don't deserve to have standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 01:45 PM
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I am the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 01:43 PM
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eyeroll Spoken like somebody who is used to blaming everyone but themselves for their problems. Women do like nice guys. Nice guys just need to stop thinking all they have to do is be nice. You can be confident and nice. Also if you're doing that bad with women you probably aren't actually nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 01:40 PM
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eye roll Nice guys do just fine. They just need to learn to dress and practice personal hygiene. And hygiene doesn't include just bathing. Wear cologne and moisturize your beard and skin .
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 06:39 AM
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Why the knife and not his gender? Would you be just as startled if a woman were doing it? What is "people like you"? You don't know me. Do trans people or women commit 90 percent of assaults?? Like because it’s the same thing. Duh. I know you’d not want to admit it but it literally is It quite literally isn't. If you want to fulfill your oppression fetish that badly go to an underdeveloped country. It's about the area you're in. If it's a dangerous area people in that area are going to be danger…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 08:49 AM
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Okay lol? What should anyone do with this information?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 10:54 PM
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Statistically im more likely to be beat up by a man than a woman is but no im not scared of other men simply based on the being men. I Depending on the situation yes you are and if you're not you're a fool. You should always have a healthy fear of others. That's how you avoid being robbed or killed. And what's with people comparing everything racism?? Like stfu ugh!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 06:55 PM
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Nah. Suspicious men are typically suspicious for a reason. If all men are automatically suspicious thats a different denominator.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 06:44 AM
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You're wrong period. And I think men should stop trying to argue with women about what they think and want.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 06:09 AM
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Most predators are men but most men are not predators. Do you know what the words "often" and "all" mean? And no they have not proven his point lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 05:50 AM
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"I didn't respond because you weren't the effort" proceeds to make almost 6 paragraphs worth of baseless statements and false equivalencies. I've found that when people know they're full of shit they say things like "look in front of you" or "its obvious" when people ask them to elaborate, explain, or, gaspprove their points. They're like trump worshipers and I bet the whole time they think the other person is the one who looks stupid. It's quite funny to watch lol. Men make up more deaths in ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 05:41 AM
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That's quite literally exactly what you just did after I addressed every single one of your made up points lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 04:58 AM
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Okay there's a lot to unpack here lol. Feminism dehumanized men and taught women they are the source of all their qualms No it doesn't. Feminism consistently calls for equality which is why it's so attractive, of course we all want equality. Then bam it doesn't do shit to achieve said equality. We talk about women rights this, women representation there, what about the exact same issues plaguing men? Oh yeah we don't care about that, to figure that out yourself Like what? Why can't men fight for…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 04:41 AM
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Do you think maybe it's because of those situations on court TV where a father spends years raising a child and bonding with them just to find out it isn't his? That honestly sounds like a literal nightmare. Then again why have kids with someone you don't trust?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 04:15 AM
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Nah just do it. She won't know lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 04:12 AM
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Just swab the baby when moms not around. It's that simple lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 04:11 AM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 04:10 AM
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I don't know about all women but my friend group and I definitely do lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 01:11 PM
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No. But on a serious note men normally flirt before they ask women for their numbers so they have to "discern" as well too lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 12:58 PM
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Lol what does this mean? Why wouldn't you be able to just date when you get older?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 06:38 AM
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Then I worked recommend therapy or asking people who know you what they think of your personality.....
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 06:14 AM
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I would recommend "Seeking Arrangements" then. Just watch out for scammers
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 05:34 AM
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Well then how is that objectively not short lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 05:03 AM
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The other guys I know who are similarly rich are paying for sugar babies. Are you looking for that or are you looking for a genuine relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:58 AM
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That shows it's a fake compliment. Oh it's probably not a fake compliment lol. It sounds like it's your personality then. It's hard to give advice because again I don't know you. I would maybe try talking to a therapist or just asking some of your friends or hell even just asking some of the women. Personality flaws would deter average looking women too. Personality flaws deter just about anyone lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:53 AM
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Isn't the height average woman like 5'7 or something? I'm 5'3 and would think a man 3 inches taller than me is still short.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:47 AM
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Same age group, older, in their 20s. hmm okay. It's easy to tell when the other side is or is not interested. Okay I'll take your word on that. I'm not sure how to answer that. Usually small talk and it goes from there. It's really hard to tell since I don't know you. Where are you going to meet women? Have any of the women you want told you you were physically attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:42 AM
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I think part of it is women have more opportunity and more chances to become rich themselves so they aren't as impressed by guys with houses and cars anymore. It's true women tend to more value mens income but it's not to the same extent that men value womens looks if that makes sense. For me financial success is important but none of it really matters if I'm not physically attracted to you lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:35 AM
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A few questions. Are these women you're trying to date in the same age group as you? Also what do you mean by reciprocal interest? When you talk to these women what type of conversations do you have?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:24 AM
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"females" 😒
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 01:24 PM
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Crybaby. They were just trying to help.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 06:25 AM
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Aren't you a woman too lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 04:22 AM
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Could you have sex if you felt ugly but your partner thought you were sexy? probably not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 03:44 AM
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I wonder why the difference between the sexes? Women tend to like nice looking things in general. Have you ever seen a womans apartment versus a mans apartment lol? I decorated our apartment but if it were up to my husband we would just have plain naked walls and he'd be perfectly fine with that lol. For most men as long as it serves its purpose it's good enough. Not saying there's anything wrong with that. Just that we think differently. It's like a man could feel ugly and gross and still want …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 03:32 AM
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According to the men I asked. Some could but it doesn't seem like the general consensus
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 03:07 AM
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You can think this but it's not true. If you think you know womens motivations better than they do this conversation is lost on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 03:06 AM
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I don't feel there is a male equivalent. It never clarifies who it's sexy for. A lot of women try to be sexy for themselves rather than for male validation if that makes sense? While men more try to be sexy for women. It's why its so difficult for men to understand why fit women dress sexy at the gym despite not necessarily wanting male attention. We're just fundamentally different here for the most part.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 01:13 AM
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That's fine if you've seen it but generally women don't want men outside their age groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 01:03 AM
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While men get more attractive as they start dating in their 30s (if their 20s wasn't bright No they don't lmao. Why do people here keep saying this? 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 08:58 PM
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Doesn’t it make you feel kind of pathetic to have to sell yourself so hard to a bunch of Reddit strangers who will never believe a word you say anyways lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 07:43 PM
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Leonardo DiCaprio that....that's who you chose to use for this example?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 07:41 PM
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Good penis and thinking they can change him lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 07:37 PM
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Bruh do what you want. Statistics don't change just because you don't like them lol. Women in their early twenties have shown that they aren't interested in old men. Keep being delusional. Just don't get on here later crying about women calling you a creep lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 07:35 PM
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Sir no no no lol. Even among more well-off men the average age gap is still 2 to 3 years. Young women want their own age group not, bald, low stamina, saggy balled old men lol . There's going to be a few unicorns but generally women in their 20s wouldn't go near men in their 40s. 30s for early 20s women. That example you just gave is anecdotal and doesn't mean anything to this conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 06:46 PM
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lol yep they see their revenge fantasy failing before their eyes and they can't handle it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 06:32 PM
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Doesn't matter what men would rather have. It's about what they can actually get in the average age gap is 2 to 3 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 06:23 PM
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And my wife. She should know our kids aren’t real. lmao I read this in that airplane ladys voice 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 12:36 PM
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I mean I did but that doesn't mean other women do and to be honest I was a bit reckless. She can just block the number afterwards. There's literally no issue here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 12:25 PM
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I've literally had a guy cuss me out and start following me once because I told him I had a husband and wouldn't give him my number. Unfortunately for him I'm an angry asshole and had no issue getting him to leave me alone but this would likely scare tf out of a lot other women. That's not humoring an advance lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 12:04 PM
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lolol then it looks like we're completely on the same page here. Part of me feels like deep down they don't actually believe this. It's more them trying to convince themselves and they get so defensive if you try to tell them otherwise. I guess it's something they'll have to learn the hard way. But regardless hopefully they snap out of it and just work on becoming better people.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 09:51 AM
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What is it with this sub and not understanding nuance? I didn't say they weren't afraid of aging just that they're not as afraid as a lot of men think. We don't just turn inside out and die because we got a gray hair. It sucks but life goes on. Regardless most older women are never going to be in the same position the average man is in as far as dating. I think it's time you men just got over that revenge fantasy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 09:16 AM
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Yes they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 09:07 AM
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I said nothing about strength related tasks. I said a lot of women are stronger than they think when it comes to defending themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 09:05 AM
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I said not as afraid as people think not that we're not afraid of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 08:57 AM
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You don't have a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 08:48 AM
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I won't because I can run it under hot water and not stand there helpless like you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 08:32 AM
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Are you actually going to try to argue that women aren’t more obese now than 100 years ago? People in general in the US are more obese lol. Either way what does this have to do with marriage statistics? Women drink more than men these days. You literally have nothing to base this on lol. Why are you automatically unhappy just because you drink lol? I can’t remember the last time I met someone who wasn’t on at least one prescription med, usually for mental health. People have always had mental he…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 08:29 AM
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What does this have to do with anything I just said?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 08:20 AM
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Honestly if she weren't a celebrity she would blend right in with regular people. I never thought she was that pretty and she's kind of badly built imo lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 08:05 AM
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Yup. It's always been a fear mongering tactic by insecure men because they don't seem to understand that women aren't as afraid of aging as they think we are lol. They seem to think we're going to eventually end up in the same position as them but we never are and deep down they probably know it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 08:02 AM
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So women defending themselves is masculine.....
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 07:42 AM
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I don't feel superior to anyone. I specifically said a lot of women are stronger than they think not all. Why is this not a good thing to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 07:31 AM
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No. Do you since you just want women to lay down, get beat, and hope it ends soon instead of defending themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 07:20 AM
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I mean if you just want to sit there and let a man beat you that's you but generally I feel women should fight back.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 07:12 AM
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lmao now I look like a creep 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 06:36 AM
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Almost all men are stronger than almost all women. thats fine but not what I said. I said a lot of women can put up a bigger fight than they think.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 06:27 AM
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I miss my baaabyyy 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 06:25 AM
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"Tonic immobility is a physiological response that can occur during traumatic events, including sexual assault or attacks. It is often described as a state of involuntary paralysis or temporary loss of muscle control, where the individual is unable to move or resist the threat." Do you think we see it as tramatic because we think there's nothing we can do to stop them in every case? They would be absolutely right in assuming the man is automatically stronger anyway, though. also nope lol...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 06:16 AM
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I think it's because over the years there are less and less women getting with men out of necessity. Women are getting more educated and more able to fend for themselves and men don't like that. It's nice to have a husband but women don't NEED men anymore honestly. Some men realize this and feel like they need to "put women in their place" Physical strength is the last thing insecure men feel they have over women so women being physically strong too triggers them lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 05:53 AM
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I don't care if you care lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 05:42 AM
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I really love that you took the time to actually understand my point here and not assume it means the worst possible thing it can mean. I lift and can pick up my 200 lb husband lol. A lot of men in the US are kinda weak and out of shape. I'm not saying women should go into a fight thinking they are equal with a man but a lot can actually put up a bigger fight than they think they can especially if they train.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 05:40 AM
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Think what you want. I said some women not all. You're mad over nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 05:30 AM
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Yup. I have and fought them off lol. You're getting upset for no reason lol. If you actually understood what I was saying you would likely agree with me. I didn't say every woman was capable of this just that a lot of women are and don't know it or could be with the right training.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 05:23 AM
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You misunderstood what I said. No one lets themselves get gouged in the eye just like no one just lets themselves get punched in a fight. It just happens without them expecting it. Now if you kick him in the balls and THEN gouge his eyes, you probably got it You can do it this way or a different way. I think we're agreeing with each other but you're just taking what I say to mean the worst possible thing it could mean
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 05:17 AM
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No one lets themselves get gouged in the eye lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 05:10 AM
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I can I'm just not going to because if you had the mental capacity to think about what I said instead of being emotional this wouldn't offend you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 05:07 AM
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I'm not but you should be lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 05:04 AM
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Well she's tiny and kind of frail honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 05:02 AM
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And that's just you. I specifically said physically fit women not all women so I don't know what you're even getting upset about. Go ahead and change your thing to Red Pill lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 05:01 AM
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for you maybe lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 04:57 AM
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I'm not trying to victim blame but I'm not going to explain myself because of that "go fuck yourself". So ironically you can go fuck yourself lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 04:56 AM
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You got exactly what I was trying to say here lol. You can be physically stronger but if your eyes are gouged you still can't see regardless of size lol. It's not always about strength you just have to be tactical just like a smaller man fighting a bigger man.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 04:53 AM
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Where are the statistics on literally any of that lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 04:43 AM
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Just giving someone your phone number isn't leading them on.... And even if it is so what? She would probably never even see that guy again. It's not about integrity or respect. It's about safety. I think just about every woman can relate to guys getting aggressive because she refused to give out her phone number
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 10:14 PM
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This is not a super extreme example though. Things like this are what would happen if more women were just traditional wives who solely depended on their husbands. Back when women didn't have basic rights they married out of necessity and as soon as they got equal rights the rate of marriage went down significantly. Being completely dependent on your partner has never been a good thing for women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 10:11 PM
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When careers became popular and accepted for women, they followed the male model of immediately finishing their education and focusing on their career. We have recently passed a threshold where the majority of women are childless at age 30. As they should. This path completely neglects the fact that women are at peak fertility around 20, and fertility is a shorter window in time than they realize. By the time they reach 30, 33% of women are no longer able to conceive. At 35, they are clinically …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 10:01 PM
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if she said no then who knows how the guy would react? This is a legit reason though. I think you need a better example.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 09:52 PM
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okay
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 02:49 PM
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And young women don't want ugly old bald men lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 01:00 PM
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What I've encountered is a few men not wanting to use a condom because they can't stay hard with one on.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 10:36 AM
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Well if you're going to act like women in your own age group don't exist maybe you deserve it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 10:47 PM
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They still care though
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 10:20 PM
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Pretty much lol. Or just date someone in your own age group.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 10:20 PM
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How does men aging and getting less attractive mean that women do not age and get less attractive? It's funny because that's the exact question I have for these "post wall" men. Talk about "mens value" all you want but most young women don't want ugly old bald men and money doesn't change that lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 03:29 PM
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You think ugly men don't cheat???
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 03:09 PM
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Those "post wall" women more than likely just don't want them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 11:02 AM
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I mean there's probably other reasons but that's the main reason. The economy's pretty trash right now and most couldn't imagine bringing a kid into it without being financially stable.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 10:51 AM
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I feel like as long as people just don't let themselves get fat and wear sunscreen they'll be fine honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 10:12 AM
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Bruh I just spit my wine out omg 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 10:09 AM
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Your other replied disappeared for some reason so I'll respond here. The literal first thing you did was insult me for having a different opinion so I think we need to relearn what the word victim means lol. Because you definitely took this personally for no reason
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 10:05 AM
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Nothing to defend. It's my opinion. I don't feel people look that different from 20 to 30 aside from a bit of weight gain. The people who didn't gain weight look the same imo. If they're less attractive it's only slightly. Then again I'm black and we tend to not age as fast. That's nothing to attack someone over.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 09:51 AM
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You seem emotional.....
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 09:25 AM
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Don't apologize! This was really great to know and I had no idea. I used to be a Girl Scout and all I did was sell cookies and go on trips. I didn't know it could go much further than that. and yeah the lady wasn't even trying to profit. She just needed her medical bills paid smh
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 10:55 PM
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Women refusing to date men is not dangerous. Trying to make consent a nuanced topic is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 10:29 PM
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K so you made a baseless statement. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 09:15 PM
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How much do you think people change physically from 20 to 30 lol? I don't think people even start getting wrinkles at that age
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 09:06 PM
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I will say the boys and girl scout thing was a little silly imo but I can't really think of any other examples. As far as Reddit goes how do you know it's women getting certain male spaces shut down?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 09:02 PM
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Boy Scouts accepting girls in the program wasn’t something planned and pushed by men That's a totally different issue. I could totally see men also getting those subreddits shut down because while women only subs can have some bad sexist takes, men only subs tend to have some downright dangerous takes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 08:51 PM
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That's because a lot of the views on those male subs are dangerous views to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 08:38 PM
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How do you know it's women shutting them down?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 08:32 PM
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It's a hyperbole. Move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 04:32 AM
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Just be honest and upfront about it. Don't waste a womans time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 04:27 AM
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Lol literally you would never know anyones body account unless they told you and they could say whatever they want. Honestly I hope you suckers keep falling for this "passport bro" thing. Most of the time those women leave after they get established and get their green cards. Those women get to have better lives at your expense and I love that for them lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 12:06 AM
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That statement right there shows you know exactly what I'm talking about lol. Do what you want just don't harm anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 11:58 PM
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Are men only dating homeless, starving women? A lot of the time they aren't far from it. They are impoverished women. Especially in the Philippines. There are plenty of traditional men in their own country. They get with Americans out of desperation. I suggest you take the initiative to actually learn about the women you're so set on having.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 11:45 PM
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Offering someone a fantastic deal is not exploitation. Is that why most of them leave as soon as they get their green card? 💀 Personally I hope more men become passport bros to help those poor women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 11:20 PM
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When a store decides to price gouge because theyre the only store open after a natural disaster they aren't forcing people to buy from them so everythings okay right? I mean those people could always just starve to death right?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 11:15 PM
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Bahaha burnt him to a crisp! I love it! 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 10:54 PM
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If you think actively seeking out desperate women and bringing them from their home country to a foreign country where they don't even the basics of living there independently is the same as a woman being picky because she's pretty this conversation is lost on you honestly. It's indentured servitude with extra steps
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 02:47 PM
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None of those things make men better than women....
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 01:27 PM
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What does it mean for a man to be better than a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 01:25 PM
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What about a woman "exploiting an extreme power dynamic" to get a man much taller than her? What does this even mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 06:53 AM
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Off topic but you are sooo pretty! 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:18 AM
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Believe whatever you want about yourself but I'm pretty freaking awesome lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 02:06 AM
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okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 01:48 AM
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40% of women from 25-29 have children. that's....what I just said.... Of those, the vast majority are either married or in relationships so they wouldn't be in the dating pool in the first place. So then you agree that your dating pool would be significantly smaller...... age gap is 4-5 years hence men in their late 20s can easily look for early and mid 20s women which less than 20% of them have kids. The average age gap is actually 2.3 my bad lol Just take the L You thinking there are winners a…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 01:22 AM
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Okay so for the rest of the world lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 11:13 PM
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she’ll steal your inheritance and slaughter your young. lmao this part got me 🤣 She's gonna poison his water supply, burn his crops, and deliver a plague on his house!!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 10:59 PM
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okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 09:54 PM
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Its mostly a hyperbole. 40% is still almost half of all women so you are eliminating half of your potential dating prospects. "just date down" lol you know the average age gap is four to five years right? So yeah you still are limiting your dating pool a pretty good amount. Then you have to factor in the amount of woman actually attracted to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 09:54 PM
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I mean....40% is still pretty high......
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 09:26 PM
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lol okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 09:18 PM
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Well the thing is when you get to your late 20s most everyone has kids. Men and women. It's fine if having kids is a deal breaker for you but don't complain about how small your dating pool is. That's my only gripe there
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 09:11 PM
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Well the thing is when you get to your late 20s most everyone has kids. Men and women. It's fine if having kids is a deal breaker for you but don't complain about how small your dating pool is. That's my only gripe there
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 09:10 PM
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I've always thought that women generally are not THAT much physically weaker than men. Its just we're conditioned to think that every single man can automatically beat us to death. The average house cat can fuck you up if it wanted to so why not a grown woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 03:51 AM
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Women being physically weaker does not matter anymore. Women are allowed to own guns and weapons now
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 10:54 PM
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I mean I have a gun....
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 10:50 PM
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I think a lot of men overestimate how desirable older men actually are to young women lol. Most younger women marry men in their own age group regardless of income. Sure financial stability is nice but women now have more opportunities to become financially stable themselves so most don't have to marry out of necessity anymore. They can marry men they're actually physically attracted to now and so they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 05:55 PM
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Probably the way they do in the middle east
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 05:44 PM
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Yes you are. And I bet they weren't even thinking about you. They were probably laughing at something they were talking about and just happened to look your direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 05:22 PM
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Seriously though, why do women taunt and snicker at men who don’t or can’t date and have sex? We taunt the ones who just whine and won't do anything to change. uld you make fun of a paraplegic for the same reason? Being bad with women isn't a disability lol. Why do women want to date men when women are happier childless and single? According to who?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 05:17 PM
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Lol you sound like a younger sibling that's mad their older sibling is allowed to sit in the front seat. Life's not fair but it still goes on. Women and men are different. You were given advice. Take it or just keep doing what you're doing but don't be surprised when no woman wants to fuck or date you lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 09:18 AM
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I thought they all looked gay lmao. Guess she has a type
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 09:04 AM
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Lol I wonder what's with all the anger and the attacks? This just means "chads" can fail in relationships too and less physically attractive men can be more attractive than a "chad". Isn't that a good thing??
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 05:21 AM
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I mean this was years ago and he still randomly tries to contact me but you believe what you want to believe if it makes you feel better lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 05:13 AM
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Nah you absolutely meant that offensively and I'm absolutely unbothered lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 03:50 AM
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I feel like as a woman I should have a better idea of what makes women wanna fuck men but think what you want lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 02:16 AM
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Being honest and direct would be after you get past the surface level conversation like hobbies and work you ask what the woman is looking for. THEN you can say you're interested in sex only. What you just heard here is someone being socially inept lol. To this day he still send me random "hey"s lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 02:00 AM
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My point is why is it if one of the women in this situation say yes a success? What kind of woman do you think would say yes? Not a well-rounded and likely not an attractive one for sure. Why would you want to have sex with that kind of woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 01:53 AM
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Not being willing to even talk about your general interests is not being "honest and direct" lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 01:45 AM
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nah. I'll just keep ghosting people like him lol 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 01:38 AM
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You shouldn't have the mindset that any woman is better than no woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 01:34 AM
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It sounds like you purposely misread what I said so you can skip to "women bad" faster🤣 What were his questions before the sex question?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 01:32 AM
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ehhh....its a win if you're desperate I suppose. I don't feel like the kind of woman who would say yes to this are the kind you want lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 01:15 AM
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The issue isn't that it's a short response. You can go into depth and say some really bizarre shit lol. Clearly whatever he's doing is working for him, or he wouldn't be doing it. Not necessarily. He could just be repeatedly doing this to different women with the hope of getting at least one yes. All I know is it grossed me out You probably are the problem. You're here posting on ppd after all. So by your own logic you should be the problem in every negative interaction you have with women since…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 01:04 AM
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I don't doubt that women hit on him. The first thing most people notice is physical attraction. Now keeping those women around is a different story.... The guy who gets zero interest will send back essays but you don't want to hear from him. Because he's probably not physically attractive or doesnt have things in common. Also just saying ust because it's a long reply doesn't mean it's a good reply. You can be attractive and know how to talk to women at the same time lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 12:44 AM
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lmao I don't know. All I know is I got one of the worst icks of my life. Who tf talks to people like that?!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 12:31 AM
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There's just more to it for women. Most women aren't going to sleep with a man just because he's attractive and this is what a lot of attractive men get wrong and why some don't do well with women. A while back I gave my number to a "chad" I met at the gym. He was tall muscular and very attractive and I had every intention of sleeping with him. However our conversations went something like this: me: what are some of your hobbies? him: I just like to do whatever. me: what kind of foods do you lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 12:12 AM
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Or you give your take and they dismiss you for some asinine reason. I was trying to give a guy here relationship advice since I'm happily married and he basically told me I didn't know what I was talking about because I like anime lol. Can't help people that don't want to be helped🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 11:43 AM
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They are part of what's ruining it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 12:44 AM
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Most wives make their husband's go to the doctor regularly lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 12:44 AM
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Yes but not a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 12:43 AM
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Yep it's all basically the blind leading the blind. And they're so stubborn if you try to tell them anything. There's always some reason your stance is invalid. I literally got called a bad wife for liking anime here once lol. But some angry creep with three failed marriages is perfectly fine to take advice from. I don't get it! A lot of these people need to just get off this sub and go see a therapist. Try actually interacting with women instead of just listening to these podcasters and complai…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 06:58 AM
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Aw don't be modest lol. Pretty much everything you've said is spot on but this kind of conversation is lost on people here. I'm happily married as well but I like to browse this sub because it's entertaining. I've found that a lot of people here look at statistics to back up "facts" but they fail to understand that correlation doesn't always equal causation. I would take the opinions here with less than a grain of salt
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 06:13 AM
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You seem like a very wise person
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 05:56 AM
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Yawn nah. I'll just stick to living it lol. Funnily enough time wasting stuff like this is exactly what women in these situations do. I really just get bored. That "high earning husband " part really hurt you huh lol? Get your coins up sunshine 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 11:26 AM
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Nope gorgeous, fit, nerdy, and happily married to my nerdy high earning husband. You're just throwing things out hoping something sticks at this point. It won't improve anything about your life regardless lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 10:49 AM
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Lmao right? It sounds so slimey
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 09:59 AM
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Nah female icks are men being misogynistic or just not reading the room.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 09:57 AM
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Sorry you're not one of those men so you create pathetic revenge fantasies about women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 09:30 AM
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I hope you're less delusional when you do
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 02:40 AM
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Ok what should I do with this info? Do you think that somehow counters the fact most women prefer their own age group?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 02:30 AM
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No if I was 18 I would think he's old and be creeped out lol . Just got to do with anything anyway? Most older men aren't celebrities. The thing is that the great majority of women's experience with this phenomenon exclusively involves some old weirdo in sweatpants at walmart. Oh that's cute. I've had teachers in school hit on me when I was 16.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 01:49 AM
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When you're 35 most 21 year olds won't want you and the ones that do will likely be crazy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 12:31 AM
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I was talking about this the other day with someone here. I think men in their thirties and up overestimate how desirable they are to most young women lol. When I was 18 I thought men over 28 hitting on me was creepy lol and so did everyone I knew.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 12:03 AM
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Lol to be fair I think red pillers do research. They just misunderstand everything because they generally have the critical thinking skills of a Honey Bun 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 09:24 PM
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Exactly but people here tend to not do that lol. They just get one piece of data that vaguely supports their stance and run with it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 07:50 PM
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Yes but when people quote statistics here they tend to not understand that correlation does not always equal causation. A lot of statistical data can be interpreted in different ways to reach different conclusions. More than one conclusion can be correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 07:34 PM
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I also think part of it is because of more women having the means to make their own income and not having to marry out of necessity.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 12:27 PM
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You can have a type as long as you don't talk shit or make assumptions about people who aren't your type
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 09:04 AM
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Just be honest about your intentions and all is good.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 08:07 PM
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I stick around because a lot of the takes here are so out of touch and dumb it entertaining. She could easily get surgery with her income but she chooses to stay the way she is so yes she's happy lol. And I'm not going to address that last part because it's weird and off topic
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 01:46 PM
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That's my point. You used a false equivalency. Assuming you live in America if you go to your local grocery store or just really out in public anywhere you will see plenty of people over 300 lb or close to it. The fact we have lizzo promoting acceptance is proof of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 06:26 AM
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"Not being able to comprehend" how somebody is 6'6 when you can go to your local supermarket and see people that height everywhere makes no sense so its "literally" not lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 06:15 AM
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Oh hush she's not even that big. Have you seen my 600-lb life or your average Mukbanger?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 05:56 AM
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I only shame men if the preference is rooted in misogyny or insecurity. Like men wanting virgins when they aren't virgins themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 05:34 AM
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