TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

GojosLowerHalf3 Archive

View 0 posts and 515 comments by GojosLowerHalf3 on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Title Category Author Subreddit Date (UTC)
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
12

This tired talking point again? What happens in nature isn't relevant to humans in a civilized society today
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 06:37 AM
15

Everyone has a right to basic human rights. And if you're trying to say there should be a hierarchy based on physical strength a bigger stronger man could and probably would beat you into submission.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 06:10 AM
8

I disagree but it's your body and you should do what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 05:15 AM
0

They can, 100% positive
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 05:57 AM
5

These rich men are paying these women just not in the way you woulda prostitute. It's not always just him handing her a wad of cash at the end of the night. It can be through gifts, trips, clout, lifestyle changes, or keeping him around as a sugar daddy. Women aren't getting wet from looking at pictures of money lol. Money disappears. They disappear.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 03:38 AM
-2

The 35 yo single moms cannot get options they want... Thing is they can and do lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 03:26 AM
0

If he were drowning in pussy he wouldn't be red pill🤓 And I'm not going to bank on a lot of the men in this sub knowing what fucked up sexist behavior is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 11:53 PM
0

Yes they do hur hur hur
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 11:50 PM
3

Why does it seem like basically every man on here who identifies as "purple pill" speaks exclusively in red and black pill talking points? Yeah I noticed that too. 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 11:41 PM
4

Lmao they're in shambles . Shambles I say! 😭 Also goddamn, if that flair there was on the official list I'd change to it in a heartbeat. 🐻 Also thank ya! 🧸🐻
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 11:31 PM
3

Okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:53 PM
3

I’ve literally watched my hardcore red pill friends put on an act infront of women and they end in the bedroom everytime. Yeaaaa no that's a lie lol 🤣🤣 Women can’t tell if you never mention anything like that. You don’t have superpowers, you can’t read minds. Your just a basic animal, like everyone else. This burnt your beans a bit huh? It's called using discernment. The fact you're comparing it to a superpower when the average person uses it just fine is very telling.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:26 PM
11

No one who subscribes to Red Pill philosophy is an awesome guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:14 PM
5

Correction nah women can tell lol. Red pillers just tend to think they're a lot smarter and sneakier than they actually are. They think just because they need things spelled out step by step for them women do too. Women know and avoid those men which is why they're on Reddit complaining about "womens standards" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:12 PM
1

lmao they're in shambles 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:59 PM
24

I appreciate the fact most men outside the internet are actually pretty awesome and don't subscribe to this weird red pill bs
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:56 PM
9

Worth going bankrupt what basically means that you won't get the children anyways? So the woman wouldn't go bankrupt in this case as well? Yeah because your lawyer will say how you should proceed, with a zero chance of win you're not burning your own money in a trashcan. Baseless claim. 10% is not rare. Dying in child birth is rare. Finding money in the couch is rare thing. Something happening 10% of the time is literally the definition of rare.... It's for the women, the child is just as excuse…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:08 PM
6

Let it out, let it flow. Seethe, breathe and come back to center... You do the same but this time without meth. It's making you have emotional delusions about strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:48 PM
10

You got all this from her saying she owns a house with her husband and has her own money? Also your mom sounds like a piece of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:41 PM
10

Statistically no there isn't and they're more than likely creeped out by you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 09:47 AM
2

No you haven't lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 09:44 AM
3

I don't care if they care. I'm simply stating that they are pieces of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 02:46 AM
4

How did you get any of this from what she said lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 08:32 PM
-1

This kinda sounds made up tbh. Like under what context are these conversations coming up? Who just randomly starts talking about feminism and the patriarchy on a date? And then it's multiple women? This sounds like some red pillers really exaggerated take on what he thinks the average woman is like.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:59 PM
1

Average female tone deaf hypocrisy at work bruh 🤦🏽‍♂️ Average red piller perpetually under the Dunning-Kruger effect with an added dose of narcissism bruh 🤓 Please pick a struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:01 PM
4

You just generalized like three different groups of people and my point is you have no point 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:35 PM
2

Its so weird how red pillers seem to think any man who doesnt fit their exact undesirable archetype are automatically these evil sociopaths who treat women badly. Funnily enough most desirable men dont have to lie to get sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:16 PM
3

Does that have anything to do with literally anything discussed at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 01:47 PM
1

And? If you lie about your intentions to get access to someones body you're a piece of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 11:48 AM
2

I stopped at "why do all women think...." . Women aren't a monolith so this is already a bad take.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 11:11 AM
-2

"But other people are doing it...." is such a stupid argument and can be used to justify literally anything. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 10:58 AM
3

Personally I feel like somebody who needs red pill grifter content to understand women instead of using their own discernment probably shouldn't tell me what anything I do indicates lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 09:22 AM
2

I mean if you think people naturally have colored eyelids and anyone not wearing just uniform beige clothes and flats are liars I don't know what to tell you. The rest of that is just grifter content you fell for
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 09:18 AM
1

Yawn. Baseless stance.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 09:06 AM
-4

Because women are not a monolith and they don't all lie. Que the "yuh hu!" or " Not all men lie!" even though I never said they did.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 08:58 AM
6

Bruh forreal! Either they want you or they don't. People overcomplicate the simplest things here.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 04:52 AM
–

It probably is. Maybe it's something in the food or water.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 01:02 AM
21

I think most people would generally agree people who lie to get access to other peoples bodies are "trash" and "pieces of shit".....
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 01:01 AM
5

Sure Okay. That's all I wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 12:57 AM
12

I think you have no idea what's easier for me to do and you should stop infantilizing grown men
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 12:55 AM
–

I think the average age is around 30 but really it mostly comes down to genetics. My brother started losing his at 19 poor dude lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 12:54 AM
18

You really just typed a whole paragraph of nothing. Stop explaining this to me over and over. Everyone understand why it happens. It's still an excuse. These men are still trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 12:52 AM
14

Then men should probably accept being pieces of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 12:43 AM
1

No I wouldn't. A lot aren't but a lot are. There's a time ,a place, and a context.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 11:42 PM
8

I disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 11:35 PM
12

And there's over a million women in the United States alone. Either way where's the part where that justifies lying just to gain access to someone's body?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 11:24 PM
26

Then those men have to accept that they're pieces of shit. You would be surprised by how many women are actually down for casual sex if you're just honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 11:21 PM
10

You are so sweet for thinking those men put actual thought into things they say lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 11:17 PM
70

There's nothing wrong with men wanting casual sex. Just don't lie to get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 11:16 PM
0

LMAO 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 11:14 PM
1

I guess that's fine as long as she's open and honest about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 10:15 PM
3

whereas women do. They don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 07:19 PM
2

Generalizing women as unreliable, fickle, weak, and immature is harmful to women and is a purely emotionally driven take. Especially considering the amount of violent crimes committed by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 06:54 PM
2

As long as they're not abusive or trying to fuck minors I don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 06:32 PM
–

Maybe he could befriend an extrovert and they could be his wingman lol? I've seen relationships start that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 06:10 PM
1

Did I say a size was the only determining factor on whether someone could dominate someone else?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 04:56 PM
4

No what's the point in dating someone you have no intention of marrying?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 04:47 PM
1

Relevance?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 04:46 PM
1

Are a lot of men Tyson?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 04:45 PM
–

I think on some level they know this but don't want to admit it because it would require them to change. Which is understandable because it's hard to determine where exactly you are messing up socially
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 10:50 AM
1

Doing the work' for me would be "losing enough weight to be physically attractive, going to therapy to address my mental health issues, building up my social network so I have at least two close friends, and eventually buying my own place to live." This is what op said. You're the one who started talking about six packs, six figures, and being financially stable when I never mentioned any of that once. I don't think even YOU understand what you're saying. Now that I clarified this (for some reas…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 10:33 PM
1

Each reply you stray farther and farther from what the op actually said because you desperately want something easier to argue. It's a really pathetic attempt at a straw man Hold yourself to a higher standard and stop praising mediocrity.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 10:03 PM
1

And if the people they want or like aren’t pursuing them. If this is the case then yes I would say she should start approaching. I thought you meant women in general. I just wanted to understand the thought process of not liking/wanting whose pursuing you but also not pursuing who you do want/like She's probably getting approached by both.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 09:34 PM
1

I mean that literally IS the bare minimum of being a functional adult for any gender aside from buying a place. Losing weight, addressing your mental health issues, finding two close friends, and renting an apartment are all things you can do in less than a year. If this is a case of you personally having some sort of special circumstance that was stopping you from achieving these things early on then yes I understand you celebrating but for the average person this is the bare minimum lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 09:29 PM
2

This is gonna burn some beans buuuut its because most women really aren't all that put off by men approaching them as long as they're not aggressive, can pick up on social cues, and read the room a bit lol. In fact a lot are approched frequently and sometimes by men theyre interested in so with that being said why would women start being the ones to approach?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 09:13 PM
1

I meant buying a home because that's almost impossible in this economy lol. Renting a place is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 08:47 PM
7

I mean outside of buying your own place that is the bare minimum you should want for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 08:32 PM
3

Nah she has eyeliner and probably concealer. Her face and neck also doesnt really match
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 04:01 PM
2

we’re talking about young, usually poor, men considering spending a small amount of money on a dodgy blowjob. Oookay I know what an escort is.....
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 03:04 PM
4

I would say alone in a chill intimate setting. As you're talking and getting to know each other on a deeper level just progressively get more personal if that makes sense. And don't get to where you talk about your trauma every single time you see her. Dont let it get to the point to where every time you come around her she knows she's going to have to talk about your trauma Also a bit off topic but in getting to know eachother a big thing is to make sure you're not hijacking the entire conversa…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 02:59 PM
10

Can it be both?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 02:38 PM
3

LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 02:32 PM
6

As if women know what they want as per usual. Ah there we go. If you believe this you deserve to be alone and unheard lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 02:07 PM
2

Or the man actually is just emotionally unavailable in the context I just gave you and you have no idea what women want as per usual.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 02:03 PM
-5

So you just ignored the entire context of what I said and revised it to what you wanted to huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 01:46 PM
1

"What so you mean I shouldn't talk about how my mom abandoned me and my brother shot himself when I was three while we're out at Six Flags with our friend group???" "It's almost like there's a time and a place for everything but I don't understand social cues and that's womens fault"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 01:37 PM
18

Women don't approach men or message first because they usually don't have to. It's that simple. When I think of emotionally unavailable men I think of men who refuse to have deep conversations or discuss their feelings with their partner or serious romantic interest
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 01:22 PM
2

A larger man can do all those things to you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 01:13 PM
0

Then you're in luck because not only are you wrong but you're also an annoying idiot lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 12:54 PM
1

And yours is about trying to get a reaction. This is the third post from you saying the same thing and being ignored. It looks pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 12:46 PM
1

Okay then that's that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 11:21 AM
-1

You should try seeking therapy if you haven't already.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 11:18 AM
9

A lot of the people here try to use their logic to solve things which are emotional issues. I think this is more something neurodivergent people do. They have trouble understanding and relating to others so they turn to these dating gurus when really what they needed was a therapist that specializes in neurodivergence.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 11:05 AM
10

but also more intelligent than a lot of the people you'll meet in your day to day life. Oh now that's absolutely not true lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 10:46 AM
6

I'm also of the opinion that men in real life versus men online are completely different. Specifically in this community. Most of the men I meet in real life are actually quite respectful and don't try to explain my nature to me like they do here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 10:41 AM
7

unBEARable lmfao I'm using this 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 09:10 AM
6

Hm is that why one of the main causes of death among men, women, and children is homicide via men lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 08:58 AM
7

Escorts are fine. Cheating is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 06:32 AM
–

Damn anal though 😭 I'm married and barely let my husband do anal
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 05:27 AM
–

I just vibed and felt really comfortable with him
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 04:56 AM
–

Well when I was dating this wasn't something I did often plus I carry. I also make sure I send my friends my location
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 03:18 AM
–

I wouldn't lie because I wouldn't answer because it's irrelevant. I would however likely not continue dating him for asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 12:36 AM
–

Oh? Thought that was supposed to mean I'm for the streets or something here....
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 12:28 AM
–

Yes they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 12:16 AM
–

I slept with my husband on the first date lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 12:11 AM
8

Yeah have you seen the economy lately? People can barely afford care for themselves let alone a kid. As for marriage I've seen lots of people around me getting married. I just recently got wngaged. It may just be there area you're in.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 08:30 PM
3

Why would she not just get a roommate like most normal people lmao??
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 03:38 PM
2

isnt this social media?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 03:31 PM
2

I saw a video of a large cop picking up this irate dude and carrying him away like a crying toddler in church lmao. My husband is a big dude with a touch of pettiness so he would likely do the same. And on the flipside if a woman smacked him her ass would be mine 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 03:20 PM
1

Isn't that......what intimidation is in that context?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 03:02 PM
–

lmao I'm using this 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 02:36 PM
3

Other than the human trafficking allegations I don't care about Tate.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 02:27 PM
–

Lol so noones ever told you they like your shirt or haircut?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 12:45 PM
1

Hm I'm more of a panda girl
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 11:33 AM
1

Aye Ima sick my best bear on you lol 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 11:31 AM
-2

Well personally the only people Ive met who have claimed to have absolutely no social media were either on the run or trying to hide the fact they had a spouse. Like I get having social media and just never using it but I'm always going to be suspicious of people who say they have none at all. So just if you decide to not have social media don't be surprised if it's a red flag to some.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 11:01 AM
-1

I think on some level they dont actually believe a lot of their talking points. They are just looking for things to be outraged at women about because if they just came out and said they're angry women wint fuck them they'd look pathetic but ironically......yea lmao 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 03:13 AM
1

Tbh I think they are just looking for things to be outraged at women about because if they just came out and said they're angry women don't want them they'd look pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 03:08 AM
–

Lmfao I just choked on my drink 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 02:43 AM
–

Never said it wasn't harder just not exponentially harder. Men just looking for sex approach way more than other men and women don’t approach so that situation forms your perspective. You don't know that. I've approached men plenty of times.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 12:31 AM
–

yes it does lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 09:04 PM
–

This. And on another note men really underestimate how much women will do for a man with good dick lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 08:51 PM
–

Most men outside of online dating aren't to the extent red pill wants people to believe
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 08:24 PM
–

Most of these requirements manosphere men think they have to have to get women are self imposed and dating statistics are mostly bs. Even toothless crackheads get women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 08:13 PM
–

I agree with most everything here except the dating part. In your early 20s and below its hard to find men who aren't just trying to fuck. Even the ugly ones were like that when I was younger lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 08:04 PM
2

Okay point is you're still going to get swerved regardless what semantics you wanna use here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 04:27 AM
3

The thing is a lot of redpillers think they're smarter and sneakier than they actually are. Just because red pillers need everything spelled out for them doesn't mean women do. That's why most red pillers complain about women not wanting them despite them having "good personalities" lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 12:56 AM
2

Both lol. If I even here so much as a buzzword.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 12:05 AM
2

Yes it has ironically taught me to stay tf away from red pill men lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 11:49 PM
9

Cats are pretty freaking awesome lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 11:43 PM
1

Ummm I didn't think I needed to say killing children is objectively worse than abusing them lol. That survey doesn't even say what actually constitutes abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 11:29 PM
–

Honestly you probably do have women hitting on you but you just don't realize it lol 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 11:19 PM
–

Bro what?? I'm over here thinking you look like some kind of troll or something. You look just fine lmao! However just from the picture I can tell you probably aren't very confident. I know it's easier said than done but that is something you will have to work on. I can't tell you what will work for you but I would perhaps suggest therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 11:16 PM
–

Hm well there's not really anything here for me to draw a conclusion as far as your personality but if you say you're ugly I'll just take your word for it. I found that most people aren't actually ugly they just don't have the right clothes or hairstyle etc. I would ask a friend or maybe an image consultant.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 11:09 PM
–

Keep trying till one doesn't
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 11:01 PM
–

You probably can but if not date an ugly woman
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 10:59 PM
–

But you know he's going to respond with the same "women only want 20% of men" bs that's been debunked time and time again. Then when it's debunked again he'll start hurling insults lmao 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 07:13 PM
–

Because there's over a million women in the US alone and not even one wants to date you? What else would it be?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 05:45 PM
-2

That's actually still men lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 12:12 PM
3

*reported as violent offenders
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 10:22 AM
1

The thing is you can use statistics but they don't tell the whole story and multiple conclusions can be drawn from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 10:11 AM
–

just you making up lies. It's adorable that you think I care enough to lie you. I don't need to be anything but myself to understand whether I am being ironic Oh now look who's lying lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 09:33 AM
-1

Well according to your logic if you're not omniscient you don't actually know if I'm a liar or how I feel. Oh well 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 09:19 AM
–

That's a dating app online survey. Most women aren't consistently on dating apps. That's why there are so many complaints about them being sausagefests. Also they don't factor in age, race, income, location, or demographic when they make these studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 06:09 AM
–

Imma be 100, a lot of those are standards They're not. Just preferences. A lot of women won’t date a man that’s 5’5 or broke And a lot will or are open to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 06:02 AM
–

They have preferences not standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 05:59 AM
–

I agree womens is shorter but not by much.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 05:57 AM
–

I also think a lot of these posts, polls, and surveys only show what peoples preferences are. This is why honestly I think they just need to stop. You can be attracted to more than one thing. You can have more than one type. Like if you ask me if I prefer abs I'm going to say yes but that doesn't mean I'm not attracted to my husband just because his body is average or that I would even push him to hit the gym. There seems to be this weird idea that you need to either completely love something or…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 05:33 AM
-1

Your entire argument here is just "nu uh" and explaining how the things mentioned don't apply to you. He's talking about a take that a lot of men who struggle dating have and you just ironically hijacked the whole thing and made it about yourself. If he has to be omniscient to understand peoples points of view than so do you and thus you can't tell him he's wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 05:19 AM
13

To force their wives to stay with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 10:53 PM
0

What? Do you think every bear encounter is fatal? You know most bears are afraid of humans right?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 04:11 PM
6

Nah I don't want to hear none of that lol. You already self-reported. I think I'd rather just go to my favorite bear
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 04:08 PM
2

lmao 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 04:02 PM
5

Okay as a man what do I owe women? Unconditional love, adoration and orgasms, a place to feel safe and nurtured. No go away!🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 04:01 PM
2

lmao 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 03:52 PM
1

Doing the Lords work I love it ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:56 PM
2

I mean....at least the Bears seem in touch with their reality
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:53 PM
–

Oh I didn't. I can rattle off more if he continues lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:14 PM
–

Do you even know what HR departments do? And if you really wanna go there hospital staff and school teachers are very essential with keeping society running. Most manual labor can be done with machines.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:06 PM
1

You don't have to believe me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 12:53 PM
–

So does it matter what a man thinks of these topics, whether he considers these things to be gendered societal issues, if at the same time he himself IS fair and reasonable in his personal life? Why/why not? It's a proven fact that women generally do most of the domestic labor and being harassed or creeped on by men in is actually very common. Fair and reasonable people don't base other peoples realities around what they are personally like.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 12:41 PM
6

You know what I never noticed that. Youre so right 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 08:19 AM
5

We are sick and tired of being trapped under a cloud of suspicion when it's not us doing anything to women. That makes it about us. You tar us all with that brush. There's a difference between being under a "cloud of suspicion" and being cautious of men. They're not just sitting around thinking all dudes are out to get them .All most women do is carry a knife or mace and travel in groups. Like I said, you wouldn't want to be treated like this by men, would you? Women have consistently shown that…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 08:05 AM
0

The vast majority of men don't even behave like that. The majority of men don't behave that way but the majority of people who behave that way are men and that's still too many. Most women can give you stories. These sentiments are not coming from polls or studies they are real life experiences. That being said it's not a personal slight against men for women to want to be cautious and protect themselves. The men in the sub just make everything about themselves and are more worried about their h…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 07:41 AM
23

Because making 100k is not a requirement for getting a woman. It's an excuse a lot of men here use to justify not working on themselves. Honestly I think on some level they know it isn't true too lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 04:39 AM
8

Okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 04:15 AM
5

This doesn’t mean women understand men better. Like, being electrocuted doesn’t make you an expert in electric networks. Okay I can see this is what you seem to be stuck on. Let me clarify. Women are not experts on men but they have a better understanding of men than men do of women because they have more experience with men than men do with women. Ironically you're proving my point with this statement. It's more than just not liking the behaviors I talked about. The behaviors are aggressive and…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 03:39 AM
0

Bruh you're not even listening to anything being said you're just here to argue lmao 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 03:22 AM
2

A lot of women get their views on men from first hand experiences and they normally have more first-hand experiences with men than men do with women. The negative experience more often than not doesn't come from the men they actually date or read about online. It can be from the men they rejected, the men they chose not to go on a second date with, the men they broke up with, etc. And I think just about every woman can relate to being creeped on by some older man when they were a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 03:03 AM
16

This is honestly the most grounded and self aware take I've seen here in a while. Yes bad choices in men definitely don't help things at all but a lot of the sentiments women gain is from real world experience. Actually understanding and not just getting angry, gaslighting, or dismissing women as bitter when they talk about these things goes a really long way so thank you 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 02:56 AM
7

Yes men are the ones that do the approaching and courting but in general women go on more dates and have more romantic experiences with men that men do with women. There are books but real world experience is always going to trump what you read in a book.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 02:42 AM
14

I don't feel like a lot of it comes from actual relationship choices. It's just experiences with men in general. The negative experience more often than not doesn't come from the men they actually chose. It can be from the men they rejected, the men they chose not to go on a second date with, the men they broke up with, etc. And I think just about every woman can relate to being creeped on by some older man when they were a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 02:35 AM
14

I think women understand men more than men understand women. Women usually have more encounters with men in a romantic or courting context than men do with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 02:20 AM
–

In the context you provided are these people not getting into stable relationships to eventually marry?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 02:04 AM
11

Well personally I was more angry about dropping my tuna sandwich on the breakroom floor today but okay lol.... Really I'm still kinda pissed about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:06 AM
1

Um okay I thiiink I agree? I will say the guy with the "good personality" does still need to at least be somewhat attractive to the person he wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 10:16 PM
1

I have no idea what you're trying to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 09:56 PM
0

Well I think that was a silly reason to end a relationship but to each his own I guess lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:18 PM
1

Although a little too simplified I mostly agree with everything you said here. Nah height can make it more difficult for you but not impossible. You're just going to have to be okay with being rejected
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:10 PM
1

Yes. Really you don't even have to change your personality or approach. It will just make things much easier for you. I want to know how you think this works since every guy who is social is doing just fine. I’m not asking about me. These men you speak of who are going out and being social in the real world who have no issues. They can simply decide to go outside when they want a relationship and then what happens? Again couldn't tell you. People are different and different things work for them.…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:07 PM
-2

There's a difference between preference and a deal breaker right ? It says 79% of women consider men being under 6 ft a deal breaker then goes on to say 49% of women prefer to date men taller than them. The average woman is under 6 ft tall. This would mean at least 49% of women are open to dating short men. The survey is literally debunking itself lol. No offense, seriously no offense but 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I mean you're the one struggling to date not me. If you think that's funny then I mean I guess there'…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:01 PM
2

This applies if you think all women are the same and if that's the case you deserve to struggle dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:44 PM
2

This is why I think these studies need to stop. They're misleading and they don't benefit anyone. That study only says that women prefer men over 6 ft not that they wouldn't date someone under that height. If you asked me if I preferred a man with six pack washboard abs I'm going to say yes but that doesn't mean I'm not attracted to my average looking husband lol. People can be attracted to different things. It's the same thing with all these looks requirements men think they have to follow. Als…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:42 PM
2

Yes? People get rejected all the time. It's life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:32 PM
0

You're intentionally trying to misunderstand what I said. There are over a million women in the US and every single one will reject you because of your appearance? That's bs and you know it lol. I can't give you a blueprint on what exactly you're doing wrong as I don't know you but it's definitely your personality and or approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:29 PM
–

With paternity fraud you can't choose them entirely at random and get anything close to accurate results lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:20 PM
1

Woah I guess being social does not result in everyone doing just fine. It actually does and if it doesn't it's your personality or approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:16 PM
–

I know a lot of things you can draw statistics from but as far as paternity fraud what specific factors would be used to determine who is part of that sample population?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:11 PM
0

No they're out living their lives and if a date happens it happens. Going out and cold approaching is not going to be the positive experience you’re describing. It's works just fine for the average man. Just understand there's a time, a place, and a way to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:05 PM
–

For the rate at which paternity fraud happens what specific statistical requirements would need to be gathered for the sample to provide a meaningful conclusion?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:58 PM
2

Pursue someone else lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:46 PM
–

The thing is you can't get a representative sample of the population on this issue. Some demographics are more likely to commit paternity fraud than others. There's a lot of factors you have to account for such as location, age, demographic, income, lifestyle, and more. People just aren't homogeneous enough for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:44 PM
4

If some of you guys would work on developing a better personality, let go of the anger and resentment, do some shadow work therapy, you might have better luck in finding a fulfilling relationship. Yup. The average man isn't 6 foot, rich, or fit. I think these studies showing male singleness are mostly polling recluse men who spend 90% of their time on the internet instead of going out and being social. They don't account for the amount of men who aren't on the internet much because they're busy …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:40 PM
1

I mean online dating is completely different though. A man can make a profile and say he's confident useful and intelligent but that doesn't mean he actually is. You wouldn't know for sure from a dating profile . You know for sure the muscular guy is muscular from his pictures and you wouldn't know hes feminine from a dating profile so of course he's going to be chosen first. If you met these two people organically in public things would likely be different.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 04:13 PM
1

Pshh lol 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 12:13 PM
–

I think there's no way to know either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:59 AM
1

Like they're REALLY not making those bears sound too bad lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:51 AM
4

What specifically would be taken by force?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:46 AM
6

Believe it or not but most men are not down to rape anyone under any circumstance....
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:38 AM
–

There are way too many other factors for these studies to be even remotely accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:20 AM
1

No they're not lol. Blue collar men are usually screwing their female co-workers and outside of that going out and having normal social lives and meeting women. A lot of men in Tech are socially awkward from isolating themselves. Nothing to do with feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:17 AM
4

What exactly would happen during an uprising?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:02 AM
8

Seems like it's better to cold approach a bear after all lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 05:53 AM
5

Hm guess we should trust bears afterall lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 05:52 AM
3

That's such a stupid reason to not vote blue lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 05:40 AM
–

Around 1 in 50 fathers are unknowingly raising children that are not theirs How could anyone possibly know this? Y'all fear monger the weirdest things lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 05:36 AM
-1

Thing is how could they possibly mean you individually when it's not possible for you to know every single man in the world? The guys here have serious main character syndrome. And even so why do you care? You don't even know them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 03:29 AM
1

Okay if you want to add onto your post just make a second one. You added like a whole 2 paragraphs onto all your replies after I already responded.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 01:47 AM
2

Right so you just cherrypick the parts you want to believe then. Men are physically stronger and less likely to address their mental health issues so of course they're gonna be more prone to violence and war.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 01:45 AM
6

So you have the urge to kill men and children?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 01:34 AM
-2

Oh wahh some random internet strangers hurt your feelings. Here's a song on the worlds smallest violin 🎻 💃
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 01:16 AM
9

Humans are primates, and our behaviors don’t make sense without the context of evolution Okay then you should also have the urge to kill other men to steal their mates. Then kill any children the mate already has.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 01:13 AM
-3

It’s actually just a fair assessment of the online climate. It’s a popular sentiment with women even here. If you say so. Should I disregard the entirety of TwoXChromosomes? Honestly yes lol. And really anything on places like Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 12:51 AM
-3

That's your algorithm. The majority of women do not think this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 12:33 AM
-2

Bruh I thought this was all satire. Like duh nobody wants to see a fucking bear over a random ass dude in the woods. These guys getting overly upset and going on and on about this are honestly starting to seem suspicious as hell to me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 12:07 AM
1

No a war is almost always expected before a war happens. If its that concerning men can get out and protest about it like women did. Either way men were the ones who made it a law so I don't know how this is getting turned back on women to begin with. "Many other countries" aren't a basis for what the US would do.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 07:55 PM
0

Are you asking me how it's relevant when the laws customs and cultures are completely different lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 06:53 PM
1

Again are we in Ukraine?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 06:52 PM
2

lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 06:45 PM
-1

Do we live in the Ukraine?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 06:45 PM
1

What do you mean by that? Meaning the law about the draft is still there because nobodys really thought to change it since there's no real possibility of there being a war that requires it. If the draft ever did become a real possibility then women would likely be drafted as well. One thing I could see is people without dependents being drafted.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 06:44 PM
0

lmao this response is so random I love it 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 06:31 PM
-1

No its because using that as an example trivializes your whole point. Especially since it would likely be changed if being drafted ever became a real possibility. I'm actually trying to help his argument by asking for better examples. And none of the rest of what you said was my counter argument. You're just assuming because women bad 😠 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 06:28 PM
1

If you're going to debate with me I would greatly appreciate you not going back and significantly editing your responses after I've already replied. It makes it seem like you're less interested in debating and more interested in seeming right to everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 06:19 PM
0

lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 06:15 PM
-4

So the draft is the main thing that's making you feel like your life matters less than that of a womans today lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 05:35 PM
-2

double standards that overwhelmingly benefit women. Your opinion. I disagree. I would say the right to not be forced to die in a war is a basic human right. Men don't have that. Women do. Is there any basic human right that men have but women don't? Really the draft is the best example you can come up with lol? Is there any basic human right that men have but women don't? None that I can think of at the moment because of feminism. And I mean actual feminism not red pills definition
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:34 PM
–

To be fair he's probably making up all those situations lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:18 PM
5

Okay so no examples lol.....
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 01:55 PM
3

Okay but what are some examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 01:48 PM
2

Okay what are some examples of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 01:35 PM
19

I think a lot of people mistake equality with double standards. Men and women are biologically different so there are going to be double standards no matter what. Equality is equality as far as basic human rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 01:16 PM
2

I'd say OLD isn't great in general, most people suck at making themselves interesting enough to talk to, I've noticed that a lot of people aren't necessarily not interesting to talk to but are really just bad at texting. When I was into online dating I used to just straight ask guys to hang out early on that way we can just talk in person. They usually end up being better conversationalists then.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 06:49 AM
2

How do you know their body counts? Are you in the room every time they have sex? Why would they ask when it can't be proven one way or the other?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:33 AM
0

There there little one. Just make sure you stretch before you go for your next Naruto run lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:30 AM
0

Then you hang around a bunch of undesirable men lol. I don't need to convince myself of anything. Youre self-reporting. Desirable men who are sexually experienced don't talk about body counts because it's pointless. Anybody can make up any number they want and you have no way to verify it. This is not something women are sitting around stressed about. They could simply lie lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:28 AM
-1

So angry lol... It was really a joke but that reaction just said everything
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:19 AM
2

no you don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:15 AM
5

You admitted to having sex and that triggered him lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:07 AM
2

This is a hilarious revenge fantasy lol. Desirable men are sexually experienced and people who are sexually experienced don't talk about "body counts".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:06 AM
1

You sure it wasn't because you were Naruto running through the hallways lmao?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 03:08 AM
-5

As much as feminism is talked about on here how do you not know that "Ally" is a feminist term? Look if you're this naive when things aren't carefully spelled out this conversation is lost on you. There's a lot of a certain type of guy here and if you let them talk long enough they tell on themselves. Just like how you inferenced that society thinks men are evil by default you can inference what kind of timing this person is on by their replies.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 01:36 AM
2

lol okay
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 01:14 AM
12

Oh pff! Do you even know what sub you're in lol? And no sane person thinks men in general are evil. Why does he want to be an "ally" when he hasn't even shown a basic understanding of womens issues in any of his replies? Why be an "ally" and not just a normal guy who respects women? If you can't draw anything from this that's you. You go be nice to him if you're that concerned lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 11:54 PM
17

He probably wants sex lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 10:10 PM
2

You can use the word you in a general context..... Since you were speaking in general I didn't think I needed to clarify that I was as well....
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 09:55 PM
1

Why assume I'm talking about you specifically? This is exactly what I mean.....
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 09:51 PM
0

nah you just need to not be an awkward weirdo lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 09:47 PM
1

I have never been asked for a body count by anyone Ive ever dated or went on a date with in my life lol. It seems like something someone with little dating or sexual experience would ask so they probably are unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 09:10 PM
9

I mean...she can literally say shes fucked however many people she wants and you would never know. Only thing asking her how many people shes slept with will do is make it seem like you have some weird hang ups. Really that goes for both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 08:57 PM
2

Oh I don't care about any of that at all lol. I just wonder why from what I've seen they tend to looksmatch with every race they date except white women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 07:26 PM
–

lmao he looks like a naked mole rat
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:32 PM
2

I don't either. I think black men are some of the most attractive men on the planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:48 PM
13

They end up dating these ugly-ass dudes with no character and going on about how they finally found this amazing guy And then you see the guy and I'm just like "THIS is the guy? Wtf" Mf be half bald, 5'6", generic MBA dude, little pudgy, maybe 7 years older, that sort of thing This reminds me of those black guys who insist on dating white women but then it's like they went out of their way to find the ugliest fattest white woman they could find. I mean I'm sure she's got some redeemable qualitie…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:32 PM
4

He's probably just upset the average fat woman has more dating prospects than him lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:12 PM
4

1) attraction is fairly objective as it’s been shaped by sexual selection and evolutionary biology No it isn't. Also the average fat woman does better in dating than the average man. 2) fat women (and men) are objectively unattractive lol no again? 3) people can have whatever standards they want. It’s when they bitch about their lack of success it’s disgusting and entitled They're not though lol? Just eat less and work out more fattie lol are you 12?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:11 PM
10

chads have options though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 03:47 PM
9

If its an emergency and he cant get a toilet in the mens restroom fast enough Im fine with it. Ive had to use the mens restroom for this reason before.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 02:41 PM
3

Are you okay lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 03:52 AM
5

You said 2 to 5 years was a significant age gap anywhere in your twenties. Those were your words. No one was talking about anyone under 20 including yourself. That's you moving goal posts because you didn't like being corrected lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 03:45 AM
8

Way to move the goal post lol. You said people in their twenties. Not underage people so and that's what I'm responding to.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 03:33 AM
-1

No it's not lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 03:27 AM
1

Bruhhh they freaking scare me! Have you seen them videos of them fighting teachers now?? My mom would have freaking honor killed me and Im black 😭 And yes I have a few friends who had kids early on and they rarely have time to hang out with our friend group anymore and just seem miserable. Eventually I do want to have children as well but everything seems to be making it look like a bad idea
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 02:26 AM
1

Nice to know you as a random stranger on the internet knows what I would do better than I do. I feel so heard ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 11:17 PM
–

According to who?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 10:10 PM
–

So if you have a lot of sex with a lot of different people while single you will absolutely automatically cheat on your partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 10:10 PM
–

Pfff! Here I'll play you a song on the worlds smallest violin 🎻💃
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 10:09 PM
–

Well you wouldn't know regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 10:04 PM
–

That's cute lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 09:48 PM
–

Exactly I just really don't get the fixation
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 09:48 PM
–

Okay well whatever the number is how would it be verified?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 09:43 PM
–

I don't agree and nothing will change my opinion. I don't agree and nothing will change my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 09:42 PM
–

Okay then what body count is acceptable and how will you undeniably verify it?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 09:40 PM
5

Oh pff! Girl divorce this man and live your life! Glow up if you have to. Are you financially dependent on him? What's keeping you there?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 07:18 PM
1

guys are trying to figure out how you women think. *woman expresses thought* You don't care because you are a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:50 PM
–

How are you not banned here yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:08 PM
0

Why are you responding to me if you're just not going to listen to anything I say in response? I've agreed with your first statement multiple times yet you keep repeating it. Nobody knows if they can get pregnant unless they try and that goes for any age.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 04:02 PM
3

All this states is that before women move on to other attributes men have they must first find them physically attractive and thats common sense. That doesn't mean that being physically attractive is all that matters. If you're physically attractive and then your personality is trash you're still going to struggle lol. And physical attraction is very much subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 03:59 PM
-1

If you're the type of woman to have trouble conceiving when the vast majority of women in your demographic dont then you are not by all accounts healthy. Not being able to conceive is a medical issue. Again noone knows until they try and that goes for any age.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 03:48 PM
6

What would a citation for this even look like? What would be measured?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 03:39 PM
4

I specifically said if you are in good health. Most people in general don't know until they try
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 03:28 PM
0

Oh oops my bad lol. Well you seem like a pretty dope dude
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 03:04 PM
-2

Lmfao I love the women on this sub!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 02:59 PM
1

No it's not lol. One of them even specifically pointed this out. Men can’t abandon kids, because men have no reproductive choice or power. That’s wholly in the hands of women. Her body, her choice, remember? Sure they can and do. You knew there was a risk of getting someone pregnant when you had sex so face the consequences. That simple. Biology isn't meant to be fair. Women in the west can choose to have more babies or the west can die out and be replaced by, likely, a more traditional society …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 02:27 PM
3

No it doesn't and your data still doesn't account for only live births. These children their accounting for are literally not being born lol. If these aren't live births then nobody's "doomed to a lifetime of suffering". It's a non-issue. Most of the problems of today’s youth are caused by single Motherhood. Or men abandoning their kids. Okay so the solution is to keep having children at younger ages regardless of your situation?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 02:01 PM
3

It shouldn't unless you're a psychopath.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 01:31 PM
4

Most of these statistics are for women over 40 not just women in their early forties. They also only account for pregnancies and not live births. A lot of those pregnancies end in miscarriage so this does not prove your point. Most of the problems of today's youth are from parents having children before they're in a good place to have them. Also Down syndrome is something that can be detected before a child is born so the mother can choose not to go through with the pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 01:29 PM
5

The likelihood of Autism, Down’s Syndrome and almost every condition and disease increases spectacularly with age. Having kids in your early forties does not significantly increase the chances of kids being born with downs syndrome and there's no confirmed link between Autism and the age of a the mother. What negatively affects people everyday is having children when they're not in a good place to have them. But I realize this is really just about you being upset women are having sex when you ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 12:40 PM
4

My theme is that it often takes a lot of work to develop the pattern recognition necessary to search out and identify a person that is compatible for a very long and successful marriage/equivalent.... Hm. I agree on this take. I think you're early twenties are for finding yourself and part of that can be finding what things you're looking for in a partner. I guess I just want people to more put the idea of marriage and kids on the back burner and just focus mostly on being happy healthy people. …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 08:11 AM
8

Yes most of the people needing medical intervention are in their 30s and up but most people in their 30s and early 40s still don't need medical intervention. I think what's much more harmful is people having children before they're ready to just because they think they won't have a chance in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 07:56 AM
15

Why is the alternative to looking for a partner bouncing around from hook up to hook up? You know that's not how the vast majority of women behave right? And "I know several couples" does not mean anything here. I go on statistics and statistically women in their late 30s do just fine carrying pregnancies to term without medical intervention.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 07:48 AM
5

I know that women tend to be very superficial and more relevant here, petty and juvenile lol. Okay so you must know specifically what women go for since you can decide theyre superficial. What specifically do women look for and "look it up" is not an answer. You made the statement so the burden of proof is on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 07:01 AM
3

So then you don't know?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:48 AM
2

So yes its your race looks height or wallet. What specifically do you need as far as these things go?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:46 AM
4

Personally I would probably fuck a guy who made me homemade pasta on a date. He sounds pretty dope lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:40 AM
7

Yes and I just gave you the reason they are lol. Most of those women unless they have preexisting conditions can carry a baby to term without undergoing procedures or treatments.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 05:27 AM
15

All pregnancies over the age of 35 are considered "high risk". Unless they have some sort of pre-existing condition they're likely going to have a healthy pregnancy just there's a slightly greater risk of something going wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 05:21 AM
23

Oh you again?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 04:47 AM
1

Aww nice! Well good luck I'm sure you'll be an excellent mom one day
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 04:42 AM
1

Personal question why do you actually want to have kids? Are you sure it's something you genuinely want or do you want to have kids just because you feel it's expected of you? Do you regularly interact with children? I ask because I was once in the same mindset and did some serious self-reflecting and realized its the latter and I'm just fine with never having children edit: Sorry I just realized you're not OP lol. I am interested in hearing your answer still though
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 04:25 AM
13

If you're in good health you should be fine but if it's something you're really worried about then yeah I would say 35 is a good age.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 03:52 AM
64

It does. Im 30 now and just about everyone I know who married early is already divorced and everyone who has kids is a single parent. I think in your early twenties you should prioritize your happiness and building wealth not stressing about marriage or kids. Most women can safely have children up until around their early forties so the time limit isn't really as delicate as people want you to believe. Also these kids nowadays are bad as shit and everything outside of enabling them is abuse so i…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 03:48 AM
3

People just make their own weird narratives about you. I started a new job a few years ago and during my first week there this grown ass woman tried to fight me because she thought I wanted her husband. I had no idea who she was, who her husband was, and I barely spoke to anyone there lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 12:58 AM
–

Or her experience with that man taught her to have better boundaries? Do you think people don't grow and learn from their experiences?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 07:50 PM
–

He’s handsome, wears nice clothes, talks nicely, is respectful and frankly I’d date him if I was gay or bisexual. according to you...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 03:51 PM
–

lmfao 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 05:53 AM
–

why isn't the slogan I'm happy with the way I look instead of "beautiful at every size"? Most would interpret these two things to mean the same thing. It's just incel men who can't get a women big OR small regardless that are upset over it lol. They're never going to struggle finding partners the same way the men in this sub do and you're just going to have to accept that. let's stop the cap, women want to feel pretty no matter how little work they put into it. As they should. Don't like it? Don…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 04:56 AM
–

If I remember correctly women are only a few percentage points behind men when it comes to loneliness. This isn't true. That's why you don't hear about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 07:20 PM
–

Like I literally don't know what the guys on here are talking about lmao. In my early twenties me as well as most of the women who spoke on it had a hard time finding men who were looking to settle down at that age. In my late twenties is when I started finding marriage minded men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 07:01 PM
–

Oh this revenge fantasy again? Most older women do just fine finding men that want to marry them lol. In fact they have an easier time finding men interested in being married because most of the men they want have outgrown the party stage. Other than that they are just fine staying single. It's men constantly whining about accountability. That's mostly a straw man anyway. I'm talking about as far as male loneliness and mens struggle with dating. What part of this is womens fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 06:57 PM
–

There's a male loneliness epidemic right now not a female one so what "choices" are women making in this that they need to be held accountable for?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 06:44 PM
–

u/mrs_seng replies with a fantasy about how men can't explain themselves. I mean I still have yet to hear what women need to be held accountable for in the dating world that doesn't just boil down to them dating people they don't want lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 06:23 PM
–

You have no idea what I know 🤓
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 05:49 PM
–

okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 05:37 PM
–

Body positivity is about not thinking you're a disgusting, worthless, piece of trash just because you're fat. It was never about getting men lmao. Victoria's Secret started including plus size models because a lot of people are plus sized. From a marketing standpoint why would you have models modeling clothes that can't fit about 60% of the target demographic? It's about money. People are going to like what they like. And you don't need to be a feminist to have any of these views.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 05:36 PM
–

Height, income and education level for starters. What specifically are women generally looking for as far as these things? I care for the same reason you probably care that women care very much that men tend to lust over Victoria secret models; it’s a dysfunctional standard that is not conducive to healthy sexual or romantic relationships. I honestly don't care what men lust over lol. If they prefer a Victoria's Secret model looking woman then that's fine. Now whether they can get someone like t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 05:14 PM
–

warped perceptions of what “average” means for starters? What are womens warped perceptions of average and why do you care?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 05:01 PM
–

Why do you care if they hold themselves accountable for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 04:59 PM
–

And I've noticed all people like you ever say and response to these things is "nuh uh!" or "that's nonsense" and then never even explain what's wrong about it. That's literally the definition of a bad faith argument(on your part) lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 04:24 PM
–

What do women need to be held accountable for in the dating world?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 04:20 PM
1

Well Trump could easily order a hit on him and has the connections to make it look like an accident lol. I don't think Henry Cavill could manage something like that on Trump.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 03:13 AM
7

This is still deceptive because you conveniently wait until after sex to determine this because you know if you said this beforehand you likely wouldn't get sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 03:13 PM
10

Being "intentionally vague" is quite literally not communicating your intentions from the beginning..... What specifically are you being intentionally vague about?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 02:51 PM
8

Then why be vague about it? Why not just communicate your intentions from the beginning?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 02:31 PM
1

so angry lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 02:24 PM
1

Or you could just use common sense....
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 11:19 PM
1

both.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 09:08 PM
1

I know what analogies are. The one you used is stupid though lol.....
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 09:06 PM
1

We're not talking about dishes or chores or whatever. Stay on topic. Peoples sex drives can fluctuate throughout their lives. Sometimes they can want more sex, less sex, or just no sex at all. If you never communicate that the amount of sex you're having with your wife is a problem she's not going to know. She can't read your mind. You asking for sex and her denying you could just mean you prefer sex but are just fine masturbating as well. The cheater is 100% the one in the wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 09:01 PM
0

There's nothing for her to communicate. He's the one with the problem. He never told her the amount of sex they have or lack there of was a problem so as far as she knows everything's just fine. Especially if he never showed interest in knowing why they weren't having sex. None of this justifies cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 08:51 PM
0

Because most red pillers are young men and most young men aren't looking for commitment just sex and people generally date in their own age group. A lot of younger people look at their reality and think that's going to be their reality forever because they don't know any better. When you get to your late 20s and 30s then it's easier to find guys that will commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 05:57 PM
1

It sounds like this was written by a woman and to be fair men being too intimidated to approach her is a fair conclusion in some circumstances. I'm married now but when I was single I would sometimes have to do the approaching or be the one to initiate things. Often times the men I show interest in would be surprised I'm interested in them. Apparently I have a "resting bitch face" and it made men too intimidated to approach me( this is from men). I would say either these women smile more or do t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 05:46 PM
2

yawn....tldr you're mad 😠 anything else?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 02:20 PM
3

You should feel more sad that a post not directed at you got you this upset and emotional. Seems pretty feminine and beta. Not very red or "alpha" at all lol....
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 02:08 PM
3

Yes so I know from first hand experience. Now dont get emotional about it lol.....
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 01:59 PM
2

You would think but it's really not obvious to a lot of the men here. That's why they complain so much about women not giving "good guys" a chance. Being a good guy doesn't automatically make you attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 01:53 PM
–

I'm hearing more black women are starting to be open to dating Asian men but we all know how most of ya'll feel about them. I say it's karma lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 02:33 AM
7

You were being vague with your question lol. I'm asking YOU what it is you expect or want in a relationship. why?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 02:03 AM
8

I do but that's not what you asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 01:58 AM
7

Whatever they want with the understanding that it's not always what they'll get
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 01:55 AM
7

Want whatever you want just understand that doesn't mean it's what you're going to get
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 12:51 AM
4

i’m talking about the passive act of becoming interested in someone ( What does this mean? If you're talking about being friends with them most women are open to that. It's usually the man who decide to cut contact after being rejected
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 12:22 AM
17

I tried this before thinking that since we vibe so well and had so many things in common I would eventually become physically attracted to him. Long story short it never happened and I ended up breaking his heart. Moral of the story is don't date someone you're not at least somewhat physically attracted to from the beginning.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 12:08 AM
7

Isn't this basically the friend zoning men here complain so much about?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 10:54 PM
13

Literally none of this is true lol.... What's wrong with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 12:34 AM
12

To be fair I'm a married woman and I look at redpill content because it's just entertaining to watch lol. I don't feel like it necessarily says anything about how successful you are with the opposite gender
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 02:30 PM
0

Ew....
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 02:13 AM
13

That's......a little specific lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 02:06 PM
–

Only difference is that woman will just move on to the next and you'll be here complaining about how unfair it is that women don't want you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 01:55 PM
–

I don't think men necessarily have to be richer. They just need to be at least somewhat attractive and not make the womans life worse lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 01:48 PM
6

Don't know what you're talking about and I don't care lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 03:14 AM
4

There is only “jiggling the buried portion of the clitoral organ, which is enormous and analogous with the penis”. Yes and that's what your "gspot" is lol. Most people(women at least) understand it's not a literal spot. It's more an area. I think it not being called it's scientific name is throwing you off.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 03:10 AM
6

yawn I don't know why you're even in this conversation like you have sex anyway lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 02:55 AM
3

Aww poor baby lol..
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 02:18 AM
1

I know it's not a "magic button" lol. Just saying for most women that's where their G-spot is so guys really shouldn't be that worried about how long their penis is. You just got to know what to do with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 02:03 AM
15

I know you're never going to believe this since you really can't tell red pillers anything but women are not generally insecure about how tight their vaginas are so trying to compare your small penis to that is never going to be the burn you think it is lolol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 11:57 PM
4

The G-spot was basically designed to measure girth and the A-spot is the same for length. It seems to me most men probably aren't long enough or thick enough for most women. That's...j..just no lol.... For most women the G-Spot is near the vaginal entrance towards the front and unless you have a micro penis you should be able to hit it. It's actually relatively easy to get to from the right angle.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 11:46 PM
6

Good dick is hard to find. Yes and the men here just don't understand this at all lmao!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 11:14 PM
–

Why would you have that many gym memberships?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 05:45 AM
–

Well I've noticed in the red pill community anything that's not women being treated exactly the same as men is misandry. Then suddenly they can understand that men and women are different when it supports something negative about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 05:31 AM
–

I've literally never heard anyone make this statement in my life lmao. I have seen women say they're not into short men and then men take it to mean short men are disgusting abominations before God some reason
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 05:22 AM
4

huh? I never knew people look down on garbage men. Last I heard they made bank
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 10:14 PM
6

Like I'm saying your point is invalid because you're trying to say you don't want a group of men who don't want you in the first place. lol sour grapes. Also most younger women don't want some old fat bald dude with saggy balls and ed that can't even walk up a flight of stairs without getting winded. They want men their own age
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 08:22 PM
4

I'm not understanding the question. Desire to have relationships with ANYONE they can: random strangers, school or work peers, colleagues, anyone/anywhere in a social situation Isn't this basically every person you're not related to? Why is "anyone" emphasized here?Are you just asking what gender wants a romantic relationship more in general in my experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 12:53 PM
11

Probably just sex lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 12:00 PM
4

Women NEED long term relationships with men, again, on a biological level. What?? No they don't... Men WANT relationships with women, but they don’t NEED them. That’s why so many guys are perfectly happy having their fun and many years with zero consequences to themselves - the opposite for women. Why is it just impossible for women to feel the same way? Noone NEEDS a romantic relationship. Also male suicide rates and loneliness begs to differ so really if anything it's the other way around lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 10:58 AM
–

I think if you're over about 30 going for 18 year olds you would likely go after underage girls if you could get away with it. I also feel like a lot of passport Bros purposely go to countries where the age of consent is lower so they can fuck what would legally be considered a minor here. There are way more pedophiles in the world than we think.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 06:16 AM
3

Weird because all I've seen on social media lately are cats, food, twerk videos, and a couple fights lol 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 09:35 PM
4

A fukboi is a guy who lies and says whatever it takes to get sex. Even telling women that they love them, when they know they don't, to get sex then ghosting afterwards. That's not considered a bad personality to you? This is why I'm convinced a lot of the men here are on the spectrum. Why is it so hard to understand that things are not always black or white? He can do all these things but still be charismatic and socially adept. This makes him a bad person but doesn't necessarily mean his entir…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 04:31 PM
2

I was going to say that but I see he's red pill and I don't really want to open that can of worms lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:44 PM
0

Fuckboys often have other redeemable qualities that don't make their personality all around bad. Just because you're nice doesn't mean you have a good personality. These things are not mutually exclusive. This is literally what OP is saying. You can have a bad personality but good looks and slay with women constantly. You can the best personality possible but subpar looks and being a nice guy won't matter at all. How then is it relevant then if the only thing really making a difference is looks.…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:26 PM
0

I disagree. You need to have a good personality but none of that matters if you're not at least somewhat physically attractive first. So basically looks or what draws you to the guy first and after that we look at personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 02:37 PM
–

No. Kids are fucking psychopaths lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 01:28 PM
6

To maximize sexual gains you know you have to be attractive first right lol? You can be attractive and be a good person too. They aren't mutually exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 12:54 PM
14

No the man needs to just be somewhat attractive before women move on to their personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 12:48 PM
3

I think for most it means you're simply not looking for a relationship. Youre still open to a healthy happy relationship but you're perfectly fine staying single.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 12:00 AM
13

I've had people who debated me saying that's not real water, to justify their beliefs. Lol no you haven't.... Just like your trying to justify your belief to easy Google information. You made the assertion so the burden of proof is on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 10:14 PM
8

No one debates whether H2O is water or not. If you truly believed what you're saying is as much a fact as h20 is water you wouldn't be here debating it. And fyi THATS actually what being disingenuous is. If you're going to make it your favorite word you should probably at least know what it means fool lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 10:09 PM
13

Lol so source="I made it tf up."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 09:46 PM
1

So I speak for all women? So Why are you complaining? Do you want them to just die of loneliness? So because I don't date short men every man I've ever rejecteds only option is to date disadvantaged women overseas? This isn't the gotcha moment you think it is lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 05:18 PM
7

Oh yawn 🥱 Y'all act like somebody shot your dog and bathed in its blood just when women here say they're not into short men. You're not fooling anyone lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 01:35 AM
2

lol but literally none of those men are hot 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 01:32 AM
5

I don't know I feel like being called a bald loser versus just a loser hurts a bit more lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 01:25 AM
5

Lol are you suuuure you're red pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 01:15 AM
3

Heeeere we go again lol. There is no power shift because no matter how much you want to convince yourself young women don't want fat old bald guys with saggy balls and ED.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 01:13 AM
1

Probably depends on the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 04:47 PM
–

I think you should get out and get real world experience with women that way you don't have such chronically online takes like this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 02:21 PM
–

I've read a lot of blogs and saw quite some vlogs lol....
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 02:13 PM
0

Below about 5'10
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 01:43 PM
-2

I mean if someone's attracted to you they're attracted to you. If they're not they're not. There's no morals or fairness behind it. I'm only 5 feet tall but would never date a short man. You can't help who you find physically attractive. For those last two points men and women are different so they're going to have different societal norms. You can adapt or eliminate a good portion of your dating prospects. Complaining solves nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 08:59 AM
0

I believe this is the actual problem here. The definition of "attractive" that men and women have appears to be so different that it may be considered near opposites. When I was saying they weren't ugly, I meant they weren't ugly. Why would I also lie about that? Then unless you're going by the red pill definition of attractive this conversation can't really go anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 04:32 AM
1

So this is at least one of three things. You don't notice ugly women. Those men actually aren't attractive. You're just straight lying lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 04:20 AM
1

Like do they really just never see ugly couples in public lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 01:44 AM
2

Not in straight porn. They mostly look like some dude off the street
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 08:01 PM
0

Do you know what "tends to" means?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 07:53 PM
3

lol if you say so...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 04:54 PM
2

Yes I do say so and you're wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 04:50 PM
5

There’s no such thing as a single woman. yes there is? There are men everywhere at all times willing to have sex. That doesn't mean most women are having sex with those men.... Women today date multiple men. Not enough worth talking about. Most women are fine just being celibate
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 04:49 PM
3

ew what?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 04:46 PM
11

I'm a woman and I agree with this. Men need to learn to be more comfortable with their own company and stop thinking they absolutely need a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 04:25 PM
1

This one. I heard it's intentional so they look like the average male
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 11:52 AM
1

Wow talk about a conspiracy theory lol, so in your mind all the stupid shit these women say was FnF paying them to pretend they are this stupidly hypocritical? Bruh stop it lmao. One of them literally just went viral last week for abandoning a woman he got pregnant. They're frauds and you know it lol How about this. Show me an example outside of a manosphere podcast.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 03:28 AM
2

There is no "they". What you're describing isn't a thing. FnF pay those women to help them push a narrative in exchange for promoting their Only Fans. Even most other red pill podcasters don't fuck with them. They are quite literally scammers lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 03:19 AM
1

Thinking you can use a fresh and fit podcast to prove literally anything is wild. So like usual here source: "I made it tf up" lol. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 03:12 AM
2

Show me specific examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 03:07 AM
3

Nobody in the early twenties needs to be focused on getting married. Most people don't even know who they are at that age. They need to be focused on their careers and bettering themselves and that goes for both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 09:35 PM
7

no.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 08:58 PM
9

For me I don't know if it's about the objectification. Or maybe subconsciously it is. The men in straight porn just tend to be unattractive and that just ruins everything for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 04:19 PM
6

so angry lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 04:08 PM
13

Whos encouraging women to start an only fans as soon as they turn 18 and how do you know they are the same people who don't like older men going after freshly 18 year olds? I just think most men over 30 who go for 18 year olds would get with underage girls if it were legal or if they felt they could get away with it. And no one can convince me otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 04:01 PM
10

More sensual and the man would be more attractive. Or gay porn lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 03:43 PM
1

so when you do that want becomes a need But why? Why can't you just stay single?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 09:16 PM
–

You're missing my point. What that person means by women having stronger bonds with the people around them is that women can get their emotional needs met by their friends and family while men tend to only want to have their emotional needs met by their partners. Or they just pretend they don't have emotional needs. This is why so many of the men here think they absolutely need a woman. It's really sad honestly and is what's contributing so much to male suicide.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 09:14 PM
–

Exactly. Men just need to stop thinking that they absolutely NEED to be in a relationship and just learn to be happy in their own company.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 09:03 PM
2

But why do you absolutely NEED to be dating someone
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 09:00 PM
–

To be fair I found that men who know how to make and keep friends don't usually have trouble dating
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 08:39 PM
–

When's the last time you've cried and held your male friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 08:25 PM
–

No. It implies some women don't do that. Some as in enough don't for it to be an issue worth mentioning. And I'm asking how you would know this? I could play your game and say you are implying that ALL women reevaluate their standards but I'd rather not. Unless you actually think all women reevaluate their standards.. That's exactly what youre doing in this statement. I used women in the same context you did but mine means all women while yours doesn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 08:09 PM
–

Saying that men want women to reevaluate their standards implies that women don't already do that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 07:48 PM
–

What they want is for women to reevaluate their standards. Not necessarily change, just reevaluate. And how do you know women don't do this?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 07:24 PM
–

The woman gets to be "wanted" for letting a guy use her body and a man gets to be "wanted" for their money. It's exactly the same. In the end that person still just doesn't give a damn about you and is there only to please themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 07:22 PM
–

Who women are attracted to can change throughout their lives and it has little to do with what options they have available. It's not a static thing. Personally I don't feel like people in their early twenties should even be dating. You barely even know who tf you are at that age.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 07:15 PM
–

ah yes the isolation of being wanted by prostitutes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 07:02 PM
–

I assure you being approached by men who only want you for sex is very much isolating. A lot of men seem to base their entire self worth over what women want them and that's honestly not okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 06:58 PM
–

Lol most women don't expect you to look like Thor or even expect you to give them a luxury life. You just need to be reasonably attractive have a personality that meshes with hers and not be a bum. hell most of you won't date a dude unless he's been to college so you know he's been indoctrinated... I don't even know what you're talking about here. Where did you hear this lol? Most women just want you to be financially stable with career goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 06:55 PM
1

I didn't mean gay relationships. I meant are you talking about heterosexual relationships or friendships?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 06:43 PM
–

What women consider options and what men consider options are usually totally different things. And for the most part women are just fine staying single. I'm never going to understand the men on this subs obsession with trying to convince women to date men they don't like. I thought you didn't like getting "settled for".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 06:34 PM
2

most relationships between men are straight trash. Relationships or friendships with other men?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 06:20 PM
1

Holding this up as an equivalent is laughable but also depressing how you people can't fathom how painful it is to live your life completely undesired... I mean it's about as laughable as "you people" thinking for women any romantic/sexual interest from men is better than nothing at all. I've noticed that with a lot of men with your mindset the longer you talk with them the more you understand why women don't like them lol. women should be less shallow and pick men based on traits that are actua…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 12:21 PM
-3

and those single women still have romantic and sexual experiences from time to time, it's not the same as eternal rejection Men can have romantic and sexual experiences from time to time as well. They just may have to pay for it. Hobbies and platonic love are not enough for everyone, that's normal. I mean it's about as normal low self-esteem. That's not something that should just be accepted. What solution do you think there should be?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 12:07 PM
-1

Literally more drivel. Are you only capable of providing fortune cookie generic advice? I mean ad hominem all you want but that's not going to make it wrong or change anything lol. You shouldn't need another person in order to be happy. What's even the solution you want? Women to start dating people they don't like? No one owes you anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 11:58 AM
-2

If you chose to let your happiness depend on another person that's no one's fault but your own. I do have empathy for it which is why I think it's kinda pathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 08:02 AM
1

It honestly baffles me how men here are so okay with dating someone that doesn't even genuinely like them. Why can't you just stay single and find a hobby or a friend group?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 07:45 AM
5

If there was a push for men to have standards, feminists would cry about it that it's misogyny somehow. Why does this matter? Does this physically stop you from having those standards? Why would women be okay with being expected more of them when it's so easy now? "When you're used to privilege, equality looks likely oppression" I think a lot of them genuinely wouldn't care lol. Most women are fine just staying single and unmarried. It's men that act like they're going to turn inside out and die…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 07:42 AM
4

Feminism didn't do this. Men not having standards did this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 07:31 AM
3

Unfortunately, being alone is worlds worse than having a companion. Why can't you just get a hobby or hang out with friends? It's what single women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 07:25 AM
4

Honest question why would you want to date someone who doesn't like you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 07:23 AM
6

Her response was actually very insightful. You should actually listen to what she's saying instead of being stuck on the fact she can have more sex than you lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 07:16 AM
1

You should always ask unless there's nowhere else to sit. As for approaching it really depends. If she's sitting there doing something and doesn't look like she wants to be bothered then I leave her alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 07:03 AM
8

Lmao people would probably think I'm gay because of how much I love taking care of myself
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 07:24 PM
–

I'm sure it does look like nothing to somebody with nothing in their brain 🤓 Aww you think Im mean to you? Its okay don't cry.....
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 05:12 PM
–

What? I don't understand what you're saying because you're an idiot and I'm not. It's not a "doubtful claim" that's literally what happens. Especially in the Philippines and China. It's a statistical fact and people with great home lives don't just let strange American men essentially buy them and take them away from their friends and family to a foreign country they have no idea how to navigate. I didn't post examples because you didn't ask for any. Literally your only counter is "nuh uh 🤓". Wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 04:43 PM
–

What are you even talking about? Did you reply to the wrong person?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 04:20 PM
–

Poverty in the United States and poverty in less developed Nations looks totally different. You comparing it to the Water Crisis in Flint Michigan is pretty awful
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 11:41 AM
–

People go out of their way to specifically date someone they have a power dynamic over in order to abuse them
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 11:39 AM
3

It's generally a bad thing to specifically seek out partners solely so you can have a power dynamic over them.... Especially when what's on the line is your partners safety.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 04:52 AM
4

Okay glad I could finally get someone to admit it's the power dynamic these guys are after lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:57 AM
3

Oooh okay so you moved to her country. It seems more like you're just interested in her culture and not specifically seeking out someone to have a power dynamic over. THIS kind of relationship seems fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:47 AM
3

So this is what passport bros are doing then?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:29 AM
3

Did you fly to her country specifically to date her or someone like her?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:21 AM
7

sweetie pie. ew... gatekeeping: " to determine the legitimacy of people’s claims to a particular status, by unilaterally imposing criteria for acceptance:" Which I literally didn't do. I simply asked a question lol. Let me walk you through this as carefully as I can since I realize you may be on the slow side. That's okay. Based on what you wrote, "Compatible", as a status the man has with said woman, (in this case a foreigner) must be based on speaking the same language, similar life experience…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:19 AM
4

Well that really just sounds like the average conservative small town white girl. Why go overseas for that when there's plenty of women here that fit this description?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 02:45 AM
0

What a worthless strawman response to a few simple questions lol...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 02:35 AM
-2

You're stupid aren't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 02:26 AM
5

...that's not what gatekeeping is. You shouldn't use words just because you like the way they sound lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 02:21 AM
-3

What specifically are these personality traits, morals, ethics, and thought processes? Give examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 02:16 AM
0

Compatible in what ways?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 02:14 AM
5

How are you more "compatible" with someone who likely doesn't speak the same language as you, didn't grow up in the same culture as you, likely doesn't have a lot of the same life experiences as you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 02:09 AM
4

Not horrible people but definitely not good people. A lot of passport bros intentionally date these women because they are usually impoverished or come from desperate situations and thus aren't likely to have the means to leave. Luckily a lot of these women are smart and end up leaving as soon as they gain citizenship anyway so it works out I suppose lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 02:06 AM
5

Lol I got cursed out last week for telling a guy at the grocery store I was married.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 11:23 PM
3

Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 03:35 PM
3

Ok That's my exact response to this. What would you like me to do with this statement?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 03:34 PM
10

Who's shaming anyone? Noone cares about some men deciding they don't wanna date. There's plenty that do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 03:28 PM
3

anecdotal.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 03:24 PM
15

boy you should really add a /s. I was soooooo ready to pounce lmao. I even did the lil butt wiggle
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 09:19 PM
–

It's really too bad that this got taken down. I thought this was a pretty interesting post.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 03:55 AM
–

You think nerdy black girls were out fucking "bad boys"?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 03:54 AM
–

Some of the Asian women I know said they don't usually date outside their race in general because they tend to attract weebs and its super grating. It's like other races that think they have to be black adjacent in order to date black people. Anf of course some are either racist themselves or have racist parents lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 03:39 AM
–

Lol it's Fresh and Fruity isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 03:27 AM
–

Thank you so much for being a black male nerd who admits this. It's such a breath of fresh air honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 02:21 AM
–

I don't think most women are chasing a "Chad" or really men that are too far out of their league. Unless you just think if a woman chooses one man over another the man they chose is automatically a "chad"?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 02:06 AM
3

Well my mother could boil rice without ruining it” That's not the vibe I got personally
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 02:41 PM
3

People tend to marry people who have a lot of the same traits as their opposite gendered parent in some way. You're laughing but you're the one who's being ridiculous for acting like it's incestuous. Grow up and stop being a creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 01:27 PM
4

I'm still not seeing how this is a bad thing. I cooked for a guy once and he told me noone but his mom has ever cooked for him and I thought it was sweet.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 01:08 PM
–

Not going to lie this is interesting however it has little to do with what I said. I'm talking about in modern times men in their 30s that want 18-year-old girls. I think girls from around 15 to 18 don't look all that different. I feel those same men would just go after the 15-year-old if they could get away with it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 04:58 AM
–

I think men in their thirties who want girls around 18 years old would go much younger if it were legal. This is why I think so many people are grossed out by large age gap relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 04:21 AM
3

Most younger women don't want older men. Just because older men want younger women doesn't mean those younger women are options for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 12:10 AM
4

There is never going to be an age where men have more options than their female counterparts.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 11:57 PM
5

People can divorce for any reason they want
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 11:54 PM
1

Yeah ngl I didn't even read it. I just downvoted it just for how long it was. Like why was all that necessary for such a short simple comment lmao? 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 04:31 PM
1

Clearly our views of empathy etiquette, etc are not the same. We are not going to agree if we fundamentally don't value the same things. Okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 04:28 PM
2

Safe to say, I believe you are so obviously incredibly wrong Okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 04:25 PM
5

I did actually look at her post history and again I don't get that from anything she's said. If anything it honestly comes off as a little pick meish lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 04:17 PM
3

I hope I am a problem for red pilled men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 12:53 PM
8

I mean if she's talking about the Red Pill men here then I agree with her but if you type something out of context you can make it say any way you want. And I have no issue with most of the takes on TwoX. Men just get mad because it's a sub specifically for women and they need something for their oppression kink.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 09:20 AM
1

As soon as I heard that I hated having such an active imagination
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 09:05 AM
1

So why is it not possible to want chivalry while also liking a man for who they are?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 08:20 AM
0

Because you literally have no point now and you didnt have one last time. All you do is whine, throw insults,repeat yourself and ignore my responses instead of actually rebuttaling them. It's like talking to an 8-year-old or a wall. I couldn't care less if you think I'm a bad person. I'm here for a debate and if you're actually interested in a genuine debate we can do that but express your emotions to a therapist not me because I don't care lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 08:00 AM
1

You gotta be careful when you're using your alt account to like and comment on your own posts lol 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 07:52 AM
11

Personally I didn't get any of what you got from her post history. I mean even if any of those things you're saying about her are true does that change anything about your situation? Do you think anything she said becomes less true just because you feel it was said in bad faith?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 06:30 AM
–

I misread it as Toblerone 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 02:23 AM
0

What does a nice looking dick even look like lmao? Are we talking about size/width? Circumcised or uncircumcised??
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 12:09 AM
3

Most women don't see receiving dick pics as validation. Men will fuck anything
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 12:04 AM
5

Lmao 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 06:07 PM
-1

I am special and should be treated as such. If a man truly believed I brought nothing to the table they wouldn't have asked me on a date in the first place. I'm perfectly capable of paying for my own food but I expect men to pay on the first date because chivalry is attractive. You can genuinely care about a man and also want him to be chivalrous. Most men don't mind paying on a date. The only ones I've seen make a funk about it are broke men lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 06:04 PM
3

damaged" people, You just called this person a loser for no reason lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 05:15 PM
1

The only benefit I see is maybe the fourth one
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 05:03 PM
1

If you understand self-awareness then have enough to not ignore societal norms and expect good results. I don't have a problem. I'm happy and you're miserable trying to prove yourself to a stranger or reddit. Thats the real joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 06:08 AM
3

That looks like a virus. I'm not downloading it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 05:58 AM
1

And you would know about being a broke loser. People who aren't broke aren't stressed about $15 lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 05:54 AM
1

yes you do lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 05:42 AM
1

Any goldigger who thinks they won because they got a man to pay for a $15 salad sounds like the most mediocre gold digger ever lmao. I've proven both you and him have no real life experience with golddiggers.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 11:20 PM
1

Bruh like how would going on a date with somebody just for a free meal even work logistics-wise? How do you sit there and enjoy your food sitting across from somebody you don't like lol??
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 08:15 PM
0

You know what I'm going to be nice lol..... This has no meaning and just a way to justify your greed. When you hang out with your friends, do you expect them to pay? That's irrelevant because we're talking about dating not hanging out with friends. You yourself told me what you think. I think you're having trouble understanding nuance. I'm perfectly capable of paying for my own meal but if my date does it it shows that he cares about impressing me and making me feel special. Now if I made him pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 12:17 PM
1

Except it's not. I already told you it's not about the money it's the principal. You think your point is proven because you think you can tell me what I think. That's why so many of you men fail at dating. You don't listen and you think you know what women think better than they do. Use all the strong words you want. It doesn't hurt me. I'm happily married to a man who actually put effort into couring me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 12:02 PM
1

What are you talking about? You don't even want to pay for your own food. Thats beyond low effort, that's just straight up greed and is unattractive, no matter how hot a woman is. I can pay for my own food. It's not about the money. It's the principal. It's great that you find that greedy and unattractive. Now it will hurt less when you don't get a second date. You would actually be doing him a favour. The point of not paying is to weed out the leeches. Okay. There are better ways to weed out le…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 11:51 AM
1

Personally if a man doesn't pay for the first date he won't get a second one. It's not about being superficial. To me that shows low effort and I don't wanna deal with that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 11:32 AM
1

And the funny thing is most older women wouldn't even have much trouble dating younger men if they wanted to. They just typically don't want to. Most older men just couldn't period lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 10:57 AM
1

Because when red pillers tend to have a poor understanding of how statistics work and don't understand that sometimes they can be interpreted in different ways. Another example of this is race statistics on dating apps. The statistics say black women are the least desirable group of women so they assume that means noone wants to date them but they still have more dating options than the average white male who is listed as the most desirable type of man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 10:47 AM
2

I think it's a need for some but not everyone. I'm a woman and for me it's a need.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 10:24 AM
1

What would this conversation sound like?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 10:23 AM
2

The study is "I made it tf up" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 10:22 AM
3

As a man, I find it weird to obsess over a woman’s sexual history, unless it has long term ramifications. And honestly people can just lie about their sexual history and there's no way anyone would know so I don't see the point in worrying about it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 10:21 AM
1

I'm a lizard hybrid from Mars.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 09:57 PM
1

I've seen some pretty bad takes here from men that can tell you enough about their personalities to see why they don't do well with women .
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 09:53 PM
3

Some would argue what really matters is who you casually fuck in your 20s before settling in your 30s Why would that be more important than who you spend your life with? Women get sex on tap in their 20s with no effort. They fuck hot men and settle with less physically attractive (but financially stable) men in their 30s when their looks begin to fade Have you ever thought maybe all the man was was hot and didn't have anything else redeemable about him? You can be less physically attractive but …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 06:30 PM
3

You literally just proved my point. You didnt listen to a word I just said but yes yes feminism is what's making women not want to date men lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 05:36 PM
1

Right, the men they genuinely want don’t want most women either for anything but sex Those are the types of men they want but that doesn't mean that's who they pursue. Most women want Ryan Reynolds but aren't going to try to pursue him lol. Inflation is causing Financial strain on everyone. That doesn't mean people should marry people they don't like just for financial security. The average man is not a chad but more than half of average men are married. It's generally hard for people who refer …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 05:19 PM
2

I mean if that's your takeaway from the Barbie movie I don't think you have to worry about a girlfriend lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 04:54 PM
1

This is why I always chuckle when people try to use preference statistics to decide who and what is "desirable". Who you prefer and who you can get are two totally different things for the average person and this is what the manosphere can't seem to grasp.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 04:45 PM
4

There’s a reason so many women are attracted to tall, dominant, muscular and high status men and that ain’t bluepill explanations lol What percent of the population do you think fits this description? You can be attracted to whoever you want to be attracted to but what really matters is who you actually marry. More than half of all men over 30 are married.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 04:42 PM
4

If women had casual sex with bluepill , the redpill would end overnight lol.. So red pill men are just blue pill men that don't get sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 04:31 PM
1

The same reason there are guides to identify bad non red pill boyfriends
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 04:24 PM
10

I've noticed this weird thing lately of people not understanding nuance and just thinking in absolutes. It's especially prevalent online
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 04:16 PM
2

I think you're misunderstanding what this person is saying. Back then it was easy for men to find a wife because women a lot of the time had to get married out of necessity. So basically depending on the amount of money a man had they could choose virtually "any girl they wanted". Now that women have more rights and can survive on their own fewer women need to get married out of convenience. Now women can marry men they genuinely want or just stay single.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 04:14 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter