| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 4 | I'm the bad guy! And I admit it! But I'm growing. | Need Support | Gokjo_Krorl | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/04/26 05:24 PM |
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| 2 | Warning Signs?I'm glad I wasn't the only one about to offer this advice. There's always a slim chance of rebound, if two mature consenting adults agree to sit down, communicate, & exert effort. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/04/26 12:33 AM |
| 4 | Was the divorce your fault?My STBXW & I have a long history before our marriage of 5 years, but we kind of jumped into it without much dating as adults. I had a lot of repressed trauma & unaccepted AuDHD that led to me being very dysfunctional as an adult; she leans a little too hard into her AuDHD & CPTSD as reasons for her dysfunctionality. She's high-functioning, won't deny that, but a fair bit if that is rooted in trauma rather than healthy habits. All this to say she went 150% into the marriage while I stuffed myself… | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/04/26 02:13 AM |
| 2 | Was the divorce your fault?Hey man, honestly good luck bouncing back. It's possible to deal with emotional-based sexual trauma, I speak from experience. I had CPTSD around sex that I repressed so much it ruined my first marriage before I started dealing with it, but now my sex drive is up & I crave a physi-emotional connection with someone. No one should be stuck in a box like that; lack of sex really is a detriment to health. Wish u the best. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/04/26 02:05 AM |
| 1 | We had our therapy intake session todayCan confirm, mine is constantly talking about my wrongdoings & shortcomings to her best friend, a single mother, & I'm always at fault. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/04/26 09:13 AM |
| 1 | We had our therapy intake session todayThis may be a based opinion, but it's nice to friggin know that there are women out there that are just as bad at communicating/dealing with emotional shit & accountability as men can be. My STBXW is a fkn patron saint if you ask her & I'm just horrible at taking accountability, regulating & communicating. I mean, sometimes she's right on all counts but hey, I'm a man - sometimes I gotta spaz out to get a point across too, & forget to mention this or that event slipped my mind or "Dammit, it was… | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/04/26 09:09 AM |
| 1 | We had our therapy intake session todayLol a "shocked" electric-type Pokemon. Ya got a chuckle for a pun (not?) intended. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/04/26 09:04 AM |
| 1 | I'm the bad guy! And I admit it! But I'm growing.Don't get me wrong, Mama is awesome. But the growth in our relationship wound up being one sided because I was so far behind in emotional maturity | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/04/26 03:15 PM |
| 1 | To the men who visit prostitutes why visit them if you can try hooking up?Yer not wrong, but not everyone can or will stop working X hours to partake in a hobby, or invest in a person. Some people may not have the emotional availability to invest in a person. These things take bandwidth, & time, & other resources. If you're already working death-defying hours because you're so focused on your career, & you have the disposable income to pay her to do her business & leave you to yours.... Then who is there to stop you? A grown-ass man knows what he needs, & a successful… | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/04/26 08:24 PM |
| 1 | I'm the bad guy! And I admit it! But I'm growing.❤️💪 | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/04/26 01:28 PM |
| 1 | Feeling like a loser…and then…Blunt, but solid advice 👍 | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/04/26 03:10 AM |
| 1 | How long did you wait to be intimate again?*with benefits, eh?! 😜 /I jest | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/04/26 05:43 AM |
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