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Should change the entire narrative of “struggling” Having relationships in modern society should not be seen as typical anymore. Yes it will always be popular but given the modern dating pool, there are a lot of edge cases where people are better suited single. Men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 04:59 AM
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Got nothing to do with desperation. Sure some men resort to prostitution due to it but there are many reasons to see an escort even if you have options. Some men get off of the fact they can buy an experience. The fact that they can just use money to skip whatever hurdles traditionally there. Selection. Most men can get women only from their environments and dating apps. You think most of the women that they try to talk to are their first choice in attractiveness ? He’ll even five ? Men shoot a …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 09:57 PM
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Success is not clearly defined here. What if a good looking man is able to attract mates but moves geographically to a new culture where he doesn’t find a woman he sees a long term relationship with ? Is he now ugly ? This is a hypothetical situation to you but a reality similar to a lot of men. There is a percentage of men that are attractive and feel no incentive to commit even if they want that due to a poor market
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 07:46 AM
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You have any support for this egregious claim ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 01:36 AM
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I’m in.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 11:50 PM
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You’re probably vegan. Or have pro nouns in your bio. Or gauges I shouldn’t be able to guess any of these things. Yet, here we are. Another person raised by a woman who downloaded his persona from online.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 07:26 AM
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First half tell OP is stating an opinionated view too objectively. Second half goes on to do the same thing. Lol. People man. Living alone is not unnatural. Nothing truly is unnatural nor natural.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 10:26 PM
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That’s actually sad
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 02:59 AM
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True but tbh this shouldn’t be used to invalidate his claims completely. At this point it is widespread and commonly known issue that men and women don’t find each other attractive as much as they used to. I believe men seem to be louder about this due to the fact that they are usually represented as the pursuers. This whole ignore what you doesn’t pertain to you or your gender played a part in the election IMO. I don’t understand how some people are surprised when the number of men who did not …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 01:19 AM
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What ?!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 01:15 AM
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Very true
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 10:24 PM
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I believe it’s due to any form of extreme deviation of a specified trait. This could be in either positive or negative directions. Let’s see. Height for eg. Extreme low 5’1-5’3 and extreme high 6’7 6,8. May pose challenges. Same with intellect, weight, socialization skills. Some people are too much or too little of something and might struggle to match up. This is because a match is supposed to be between similar people and most people are average.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 10:23 PM
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Women are the ones who push for marriage and kids lmao gatekeepers. This imaginary man you speak of that I get the image of is simply an unattractive man. A 31 year old who can’t get a 25 year old. If you’re handsome, well adjusted and on the right path younger women flock. I literally feel uncomfortable many occasions where a woman who was younger tried to flirt. I’m 28. My girlfriend is 23. Trust me, we good.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 12:24 AM
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The pricetag was because he is CR7 and the mother wanted to milk him. Like I said most gay couples do it for less. Stop ignoring things just to argue. Also I said no woman can make a baby without sperm. You replied talking about a sperm donor lmao. You’re very very intelligent.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 12:10 AM
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Sigh. Any man can also go get a woman to carry a baby with money. (Cristiano Ronaldo). He’s rich argument is incoming, so I’ll also add a lot of gay couples do this. Now that’s out. Lucky blue and Nara are not traditional by any stretch. Sure they showcase a traditional lifestyle on tiktok but it’s for people like you to consume the idea. That’s your dad. I don’t know why you’re protesting me with men preferring younger women when lucky is also 4 years older. Men prefer younger women at large.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 11:58 PM
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Women don’t control family lineage. It’s a common sentiment that women create life and it’s repeated so much people forget biology. I dare any woman to become pregnant with no sperm available. Both sperm and egg is needed to create life. Women just harvest and nurture the baby. I’m only interested in traditional women for marriage or children so that whole 7-9 years seems like your projecting either your views aka western views on sowing a bunch of wild oats before getting serious. Also, with th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 11:14 PM
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You seem adamant to validate your own biases by claiming a whole gender is predatory. I would check on that if I were you. But I’ll bite. Besides looks, it makes sense to vet for marriage. There is a notable population of men who are “late bloomers”. Lost weight, got promoted, got out of depression etc. If a late bloomer wants to get married and he’s 28-35 his best bet is to date younger as it is anticipated that the longer you are in a relationship your chances of a successful marriage increase…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 12:37 AM
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Also, I have the experience of coming to the US to study. I would like to believe I am an attractive man since I take care of myself and have been able to attract women that are objectively beautiful at different times in my life. You said it can only be 2 options. Insecurity or jealousy. Difference in culture. I’m from a smaller place where everyone knew each other. What I grew up conceptualizing as a “woman”through observation and interaction, is what I became attracted to. Women behave differ…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 10:42 PM
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Because it isn’t always retroactive jealousy or insecurity. I’m trying to have a civilized conversation so don’t grab at the opportunity to be offended. Define typical. Until you do then this conversation is null. I shit you not I had a conversation with a woman in real life (a friend) about sexual history. Like most women she defended having a past while I believe people should have preferences for what they want. We literally discussed this for an hour with people even chiming in. Then, I aske…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 10:35 PM
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Speak for yourself OG. There are women with low body counts out there. Especially outside of the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 10:26 PM
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I mean you could visually see if he is attractive or popular. You wouldn’t care about the opinions of men who you personally deem unattractive. For the basis of this argument you should just keep it to someone you’re attracted to since we’re discussing sexual values importance for a relationship. In this case, yes you can tell if a man views sex differently to you even with opportunity accounted for.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 10:18 PM
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Non religious man here. I wouldn’t ask how many men a woman has been with because of potential lies. However, if I find out you have a history of dual mating strategies where one man is for sex and one man is for relationships, I will probably never commit. Plus it’s usually told through behaviors. Attention seeking, insecurities where there is a constant need for assurance from people, bad self identity, your friends and your post on social media. You make assumptions that it’s due to low libid…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 10:10 PM
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High body counts and low body counts are arbitrary. 10 is low for some and high for some. You would never know the average for society. It is reported as 7. All the women I’ve dated after ages 21 had 20 plus partners. I judge based on what I deem normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 03:26 AM
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Has no benefit. Has a lot of detriment. Your subconscious knows that you’re with a man who actually will not be with you if he knew everything about you. Idk, your self esteem needs to be damn low to even be on with a relationship like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 03:20 AM
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Thank god you said this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:57 AM
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Is their any preference a man could have that is not insecure ? Search up cultural relativism. People of different backgrounds date within in groups. Cultures are a set of practices and tradition. If someone grew up around a modest ecosystem they will not be sexually unrestricted as someone else who is liberal. This is not insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:52 AM
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Why would you dump a man because other women like him ? I’ve been on the receiving end of this. Women always flirt when I have a girlfriend and messes shit up. I don’t even recognize other women flirting and I get in trouble. I went out to a sushi date once with my ex girlfriend and she just wouldn’t talk to me for hours upset. Finally she admitted that the waitress put her hand on my shoulder and was checking me out. (I knew the waitress from a class I had but never did anything with her and tb…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 08:27 PM
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I’m agreeing with you. You practicing moderation showcases a non hedonistic individualistic mentality which was an attractive trait you had and have. It wasn’t the actual fact that youth wasn’t wasted as you said. It was the mentality. Like you can draw a lot from peoples decisions. A healthy fit person usually has some sort of discipline. A well studied person is diligent. A man who made him self is a either a smart or hard worker. The action is not the attractive thing but the mentality which …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:31 PM
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No it’s not sweetheart. They are both tragic events.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:46 AM
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What the fuck are you even saying lmao ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 11:45 PM
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Personally, I am not attracted to women who are not calculated for some reason. I think that’s the best way to communicate it. As you know you also cannot force yourself to be attracted to men who you deem ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 11:39 PM
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We lose touch of logic when making generalizations. Who is “young people” ? And why are you claiming that this group shares a perspective. Many YoUnG PeOPle also practice moderation and delayed gratification (unrelated to sex) Some people mature quickly and realize casual sex is not worth it once stripped of the validation factor. Many people work on themselves for future partners ? I mean, I told my mom I would get married and be in love one day and my girl would accept me as is. She said love …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 11:25 PM
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Not physically like the woman. Men take a financial risk. Didn’t think I had to elaborate.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 11:16 PM
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Because the man she is putting her life on the line for is also putting his life on the line for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:46 PM
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FYI, I have a small circle due to pursuing a career in a different state. But I spend most of my time on me and never in any relationship has anyone felt I’m overbearing. Opposite really. They would be the one constantly calling and texting. Logic suggest that a person who actually likes individual activities is not going to care if you reach out or not for a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 12:59 AM
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You just don’t want to answer the question. It does not matter if a hypothetical exist or not. That’s what makes it hypothetical. Also, these men exist. They actually have a term. Introverts. Lol. I think you’re projecting your reality that people need people to get through life as much as you and the thought that there exist a group that doesn’t makes you assume negative traits. Shit be crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 12:57 AM
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I’m creating a hypothetical situation 24 hours in a day. He only spends what you want from him (let’s say 2 hours) The rest he is reading, coding, gym and working on a business. He is not bogging you down. What then ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 12:52 AM
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What if he just does his own thing when he’s not with you though ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 12:49 AM
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Make it more complicated for me then Einstein
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 01:17 AM
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I don’t think I understand your comment or at least why it was used as a reply. I’m saying that it very well is possible to not be attracted to a wide group of women culturally despite interest from said group. If I happen to be lucrative in idk an aborigine group, I could have 100 suiters from said group and not be inclined to pursue and look elsewhere because of disconnects in values, morals, aesthetic etc
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 08:25 PM
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What if they genuinely find women of another culture more attractive though. Even with multiple ethnic/ cultural groups of women pursuing a man he still can have a favourite.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 01:39 AM
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Stop worrying. Why are you so adamant on confronting men for a preference that doesn’t even effect you in present day. You are 22. I understand that you yourself knows of your anxeity. Are you planning to spend the next 10 years living hedonistically and then thinking someone will be happy to start a relationship with you after ? If the answer is no, then you’re good and stop worrying for no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 01:55 PM
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Huh dur, “I believe casual sex is just fun”. “I think I’m very intelligent” Therefore if you believe what I believe then you are intelligent. -you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 01:40 PM
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Ngl that was a funny response
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 04:00 AM
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I think you cut out a critical piece of the puzzle why some women are stigmatized. Personally as well as in my observations (of course not actual data), the issue is women looking to date the “nice guy” at that point of loneliness. You said it yourself. “Why marry someone I’m not attracted to?” I wish people would keep that energy through life. Some women don’t. Some women would do it for finically security or societal pressure which you alluded to. And no this isn’t patriarchy. Women compete an…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 07:58 PM
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I can guarantee you if you think men that are actually worth a damn are going to jump through hoops for you for beauty alone, you’re dead wrong. It’s likely you’re not that attractive to warrant that. The men who did it are probably desperate and/or your actual match relationship market wise. This sub is littered with struggling people, but I can assure you that standards increase for men as well. My criteria for women definitely increased the more I stabilized and accomplished things. Also too,…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 07:49 PM
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Well. Test are administered by those in authority. A relationship to me means equal playing field. Sure we are allowed to test each other in our own ways to determine if the relationship is worth it. One of my test as a man, yes we have standards is maturity. Game playing and you’re a goner. Break up with me to see what I’ll do and even if I was loyal I’ll leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 07:09 PM
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Yes. It’s men’s fault
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 07:06 PM
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Average or above average IQ. Reasonable body count by my own subjective standards. Not obsessed with social media for validation. Attractive to me. Cannot be fat nor obese. Can support herself. Introverted. Can be a good wife and mother and has good family values
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 09:37 PM
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Then use them
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 07:27 PM
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She flirting with you ma boy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 12:49 AM
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Delete this comment
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 12:34 AM
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She had to move to an Ivy League school in a different state. I also did well for myself. You don’t end up happily ever after all the time like Disney.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 04:49 PM
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Kind, smart,interesting are self described. That’s how you view yourself. The amount of women I see saying shit like “I’m probably funnier that you” while relying on juvenile sarcasm as humor. Smart how ? - most people overestimate their smartness. Take an IQ test. There are many forms of intelligence. I don’t automatically respect doctors,engineers,lawyers. Yes there is some intelligent people in STEM but once In STEM you can start to see that some people are just great followers. Kind and loya…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 04:33 PM
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Then all good. Fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 10:22 PM
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What’s your thoughts on a guy who hooked up with 60 women casually though ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 08:56 PM
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Lmao. It’s funny because you just put a price on non escorts. The whole argument was to create an environment where real relationships transcend tangibles especially money. Your comment is proof that everything is transactional anyways and paying an escort is just a skip the bull shit pragmatic way of getting sex and interacting with the opposite sex
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 08:55 PM
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It works a bit different. They know you want to fuck. You know they want to fuck. But you make it a lil unassuming with a few hints until the very end of the date
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 08:13 PM
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And ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 04:49 AM
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You have no context and have inherent biases. No woman can be controlling for reasons beyond their partner ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 11:51 PM
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Good for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 02:49 AM
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That’s the issue with modern dating in a nutshell. A lot of men are preferring to be the casual men if they can. I do. Women always talk about how money is not an incentive to enter a relationship as it once was since entering the work force. It’s the same with sex for men. It’s not as powerful or as much as a determining factor as it once was. Men became adept at feminine roles and Vice versa. Now that we cook and clean and manage household duties. We are more open with emotions. A lot of men (…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 08:44 PM
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What are the criteria to qualify for a FWB or ONS Versus a relationship. You said that the woman gets sex from the fwb or ons. That’s an oversimplification. You can get sex from a relationship as well. There must be a delineation between what makes a man suitable for a relationship or casual set up and it’s not just sex like you are suggesting since sex is usually present in both agreements
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 08:26 PM
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Logic is faulty. She doesn’t just get sex from having ONS or FWB because almost every man can have sex with you. You got validation from fucking someone you thought was out of your league and a privilege to sleep with.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 08:14 PM
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I’ll add that the 80/20 rule is pretty fickle. Yes there are objectively ugly people but factors such as race,personal style,politics etc can shift your position substantially. If a girl has a fetish or type for a certain archetype which is common, that man is able to go toe to toe with just about any conventionally or attractive man on paper.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 08:12 PM
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It creates an environment where sex is a reward and sets the tone for a transactional relationship which is hurtful to many who weren’t seeking that setup. Separation of sex and love is a feature of modern dating. As an immigrant from a more traditional space, sex is a pillar of love. It’s used as a proxy to indicate a woman’s interest is serious. The question “what are you looking for ?” causes me confusion. I won’t fuck anybody I won’t date and I wouldn’t date any body I can’t fuck. Women who …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 08:06 PM
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What ? I said interpreted as manipulation not that it was always manipulation. If I met a girl who I knew was always doing this method then by all means. Rules for me only if rules for thee I had a girl play this trick of waiting and wearing dresses and being feminine. Yet I could tell she was not like this with other men and yes she really liked me. She had a massive back tattoo and a bunch of others. She did yoga and every pose was exposing her ass on insta ( attention seeking) She sent me pic…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 07:07 PM
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Because it can be interpreted as manipulation and people don’t really tend to be fond of that. They might in turn actually try to do harmful things in retaliation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 04:17 AM
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Fit ? Lol i thought these red pill men were dweebs and neckbeards
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:11 AM
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No we understand this. We find this unattractive. Kinda suggest that shawdy is either entitled or thinks short term Women lie about body count 97.6 percent of the time because they know that men are uncomfortable with it. If you’re doing something that you know that you will have to hide later on for a partner then I start questioning things.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 01:40 AM
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You already admitted to having high socio sexuality. I think it’s off putting when said person changes the rules per say. As a man. It really does not matter how long sex is withheld or put upfront. If I don’t like you I’ll leave. If I think your doing this strategy I’ll wait for a bit for sex and then leave too because of misrepresentation. People are not that stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 01:23 AM
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Try not to project insecurities Baba. I’ll send a diet if you behave
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 06:04 PM
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Sigh. Different curriculums vary in difficulty. Some people grasp topics at varying rates (aye look at that you can feel good about yourself) Some people like to be all in than split attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 05:51 PM
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Tbh I said this already but this is slowly changing. Especially after 2018 when there was a big boom in tech. Make 100k right after graduating attracted a wide personality pool. Fast forward today as someone two years in tech right after graduating. The craziest, wildest, most degenerate people I knew were two software engineers. One slept with over 60 people in a year and the other does every drug under the sun in the span of a week
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 05:44 PM
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A stem lord did you dirty huh ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 05:34 PM
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Don’t know why y’all are preoccupied with this generic tv sitcom image of a frat boy and stem lord. I’m in STEM but have been lifting weights for 7 years and practice kick boxing 4 days a week. I also have tattoos in visible areas. There are others like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 05:08 PM
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Fair. Evolutionary biology also supports a lot of criteria’s for weeding out women such as high body count. I have a feeling you may have selective reasoning with that. Also accounts for why men prefer younger and prefer women in shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:06 AM
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I mean I do feel empathy for your situation. I am happy you found love. I just hope that a choice in rejecting previously promiscuous women doesn’t hurt you to lash out and claim misogyny. Just as your situation is nuanced, so is the people not wanting this. Personally, since you were also personal. I’ve been fucked over by promiscuous women. I’ve gotten my life together through hard work and don’t want to share it with a woman who looks for opportunities. The reformed slut is a catch22 since I …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 06:44 PM
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I don’t. I’m saying that stupid people do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 05:23 PM
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I disagree. Men consider beauty very important across the board in selecting partners. My unattractive short friend goes for women who goes for men more attractive than he is. He refuses to lower his standards and I don’t blame him but honestly most men could get a woman. Said woman might not be what they want. Ugly men just aim too high
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 05:22 PM
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This is a reckless comment to assume they don’t feel depressed but I have yet to see someone extremely dumb and ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 05:19 PM
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You’re right. Ugly and dumb is bad. However I don’t have empathy for them as I usually should. It seems like the negative reinforcement or lack of compliments in life usually cause people like that to have a solid self awareness in their position of the societal totem poll. Yes this may breed resentment but I feel like this demographic are blessed with being able to only operate on a surface level making them less prone to serious depression
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 05:18 PM
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Not quite website builder. You’re using the general misconstructed definition of extro/intro I can mask and appear “extroverted” at the drop of a dime. I’m speaking on energy levels in dealing with people. It drains some people (introverted). Taking a measured approach and learning charisma does serve well and recommended but it still doesn’t change the fact that some people prefer(key word) time alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 05:14 PM
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You hate me
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 02:10 PM
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Well, I don’t see them as mistakes ? They were deliberate choices which are regretted. To me it demonstrates poor planning. If you subscribe to a lifestyle your future self would be terrified of explaining, I can’t relate to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 02:04 PM
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I don’t have enough information usually to determine if it’s a lie or truth. Most of the time it’s based on how it’s expressed to me and the preceding conversation. If it’s randomly thrown out casually, I tend to think it’s embellished
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 01:57 PM
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The extensive sexual history and baggage
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 03:12 AM
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Lol no the fuck it’s not
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 04:35 PM
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You’re typing for typing sake
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 12:26 AM
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Same musashi
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 10:19 PM
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Fair. But one more time. Relativity is the key here. You and I are in echo chambers. Normal or average is what we used to describe a number we feel comfortable with. These men who are assuming that women have chads on standby have what they think is an average body count a lot lower than what say you and your friend group has. This has no issues on your personal life. UNLESS You come out of your echo chamber and fall for someone else within another. Add on to my story with the ex model. I was an…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 08:45 PM
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My ex who was a model and literally on Netflix had 30+ by age 23. I broke up with her, not due to this but the effects of it. (Lying and misrepresenting herself). Some people on the outside might say I “fumbled a bag”. Truth be told is her experience shaped her to be someone I cannot be with long term and that’s beyond being turned off that she had partners before. For eg. IME promiscous women tend to have surface level personalities. They connnect with a lot of people shallowly but no one deepl…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 08:36 PM
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The fact that you said 12 different partners in 1 month is extreme suggest that you do believe body count matters to a certain degree. Solipsism. “Extreme” is relative to your anecdotal evidence and experience. Listen. You clearly are intelligent by your comments. Some peoples extreme could be any number between 1-1000000. It’s all valid and allow people to have this view since you also have a number in that range which is extreme to you and not to someone else
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 08:31 PM
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Never said it did. I said stop saying everyone who likes sex is promiscuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 08:14 PM
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Because they usually have knock on beliefs which are pre packaged from their favourite faces on these platforms. Odds of being vegan,blm, kill the rich, defund the police all exponentially increase if you call yourself a feminist. Thinking about it objectively. There shouldn’t be a correlation between your fucking diet and views on gender rights. But usually there is. These people are sponges and become mini characters echoing modern day “prophets” Jesus did the same thing. In life, there was al…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 07:05 PM
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Um. You speak about how women are dehumanized and likened to sex objects. There are feminist backed movements which further allow this. From self proclaimed feminist : don’t date me if you cannot afford me ( indicates a woman has a price) wears revealing or tight clothes in public places or Instagram is seen as body positivity and being confident sexually ( indicates that displaying privates adds value to the person further causing women to be sexualized) sleeping around. Slut walks and it’s “se…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 06:57 PM
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Please don’t present a weak argument so confidently. It’s a misdirection to conflate liking sex to having many partners. I can have sex 10 times a day with the same person versus once a month with 12 different partners. Who then likes sex more ? Having multiple partners is vastly different from “liking sex”. Try and raise your IQ
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 06:38 PM
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Explain how that means the poster is automatically unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 12:45 AM
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Same as me ? I’ve just said I didn’t need to go have sex with randos too much since I was verbally reassured from a young age about my looks. To me I just view people who follow the Sow wild oats>regret>find stable man and lie path unattractive. Not because of a visceral “ew penis on vagina” but more so a weak character. A flip flopper. It’s someone who usually needs validation. Needs to conform to some pre planned path. Can’t own up to their actions which is ironic because if you’re sex positiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 01:05 AM
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So what’s the alternative. Lie to yourself and procreate with someone you genuinely don’t love just to feel “included”. You just literally described forming a union based on scarcity. What he is looking for in a woman is his personal prerequisites for love and without it anything else is a facade.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 09:47 PM
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Men are not a monolith. Please get this through your head. Casual sex can be tied to validation seeking at younger ages. I understand that you may also assume since I’m on Reddit I must be a neckbeard or unattractive but try your best to believe this. As an” attractive man” the only women who could’ve made me feel validated was a small percentage and I didn’t need to go that far to sleep with tens of women since it was reinforced verbally by strangers throughout my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 09:20 PM
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Because you have a price. It’s ok, some people actually don’t. The alternatives are worse. Sex is/was/will always be one of the main pulls for a relationship. Why invest in a woman all this extra shit for what she gives out aimlessly
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 04:01 PM
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You’re statement is very clear and concise. However the word “occasional” is subjective and throws everything into the blender. This is why men ask or desire to know what the body count is. Funny story. Me and this woman that I wasn’t attracted to ,had a conversation about high body counts. When I took the stance that men should be able to have a preference against high n count, she understandably pushed back with the “insecure” and “judgmental” claims. Something told me to specify the number. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 09:51 PM
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An analogy is a comparison between two things, typically for the purpose of explanation or clarification. I’m prepared to hear an emotional rejection of “woman are not cars”. I’m not comparing a woman to a car holistically. I’m comparing the similarities of a bad deal between relationships and a typical consumeristic situation (since it’s relatable) If you sell a lambourginhi for 1 million vs you sell a Honda civic for free. I would consider the Honda civic for free a better deal even if I could…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 09:42 PM
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Wait. We’re creating a hypothetical situation with random variables. It doesn’t make for any productive arguments. No ,I think most men are ok with “ a three hour long sex session” in youth if it was done minimally. We’re discussing high body count which means it was a repeated thing. So try to keep the goalposts where it is. I’ll ascribe numerical values to the situations presented. Perceived Casual sex based on lust Woman gives =1000 man gives =0 The healthy relationship which is “forever” Wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 09:33 PM
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Because the man who is the “from now on until eternity” has to put out way more overtime. A child is worth 20k a year. Then college. Ring and wedding expenses Pay for many dates and trips AND you have to do emotional pulling and deal with relationship conflicts. Yet somehow sex along with a friendship package is worth all this. Successful men will just isolate the two and find separate sources.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 12:37 AM
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It’s a turn off both ways. She uses men as objects and extracts dick out of a complex human being (which is probably fine a few times but a high body count says she does it a lot ) Men which are notorious for being “simple stupid sexual” creatures somehow decided not to commit. Issa turn off
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 12:34 AM
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You want to play this game ? If you value protection over a person hire a security guard If you value security then invest in your 401k If you value emotional comfort then get a cat. I sound ridiculous. Which is the point because you do too. Sexual promiscuity is a turn off objectively across many society’s for many men.I don’t understand whats the point even delving into trying to find the reasons why ( insecurity, social constructs,biological) it’s all irrelevant. I’m fair. I don’t try to give…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 12:31 AM
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Chad picks 1
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 09:44 PM
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You’re operating under an assumption. You think the fact that the woman is holding onto him is a cause for celebration. The body count dilemma arises when the man is ALSO in that tentative state of considering the possibility of undergoing commitment. (He hasn’t fully decided to hold on to the woman). Arguments such as “don’t worry bro, she’s choosing you !” “Why are you mad when I chose to stick with you” Etc are irrelevant when the person isn’t even completely sold on you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 09:43 PM
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Meh.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 08:41 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 08:41 PM
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Lmao probably not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 01:53 AM
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I share this view. Every girl who pursued a relationship with me hides the past, or disassociates from it. That’s usually what’s unattractive to me tbh. Like have some courage. If you wanna live a lifestyle when you’re young and fully believe in it then don’t be fickle and try to attribute it to being young and dumb later on. If I enjoyed something in my life, I will unapologetically tell whoever I did and if they judge me for it then they can leave. Most attractive thing a girl said once to me …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 10:40 AM
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Then they weren’t in a “fine relationship”. They cultivated an idealized dream woman and then found out that the woman simply isn’t that. Most people have an ideal partner in mind and throughout life we usually spend our time looking for who ever closest resembles this character. Most men already feel like they are settling in many areas as they may lack the awareness to see that their partner is actually their level. You compound a high body count with a girl you are only with for having some p…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 10:30 AM
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Shit happened to me too. Girl is rebelling and wants to try out my mixed race goods
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 03:32 AM
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So if a guy is 26, but had 10 in a year then is it a no ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 05:43 PM
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In my experience, no. And these women came from all backgrounds. Some even well off families. AND they were the one who insisted on no condoms.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 10:01 PM
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No, it wasn’t casual intent on my side. I saw her and thought she looked cute. We talked and we seemed to get a long. I took her face value. It happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 01:29 AM
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I did fuck a woman like this. But it wasn’t for validation. I just was inexperienced with reading into these signs or didn’t even see them. Some people didn’t have father figures to teach them to filter out bad women. Worse when society shames men for having standards. I was “insecure,judgemental and even archiac” when I finally broke up.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 10:23 PM
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Legalizing prostitution may help just get that urge out. For me personally i feel my situation is a tad bit unique. Coming from a more traditional country. I am a so called “handsome man” but I can’t form emotional connections to western women even if I tried. I’m atheist so no religious influence here, but I am not comfortable with the whole mindset that sex in your early twenties is a right of passage. I did experience a short lived phase over one summer when I didn’t have engineering work and…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 11:38 AM
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Yea it is. Some people don’t do that’s, so why would they put themselves with someone who did ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 02:44 AM
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Still bad if she used men for sex too. I mean if you personally don’t do that Atlease.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 11:11 PM
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Thank you. I did not agree to 9pm on the phone though. I said I will let you know when I’m coming. Otherwise I would clearly see why she was “that” upset. (Blatantly lying on my part)
/r/seduction06/10/22 02:37 PM
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You missed that I said I was wrong ? I have my own thoughts and decided on this. But my intentions were pure.
/r/seduction06/10/22 03:28 AM
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Yea I know. I rather lose a girl knowing she just didn’t like my ass. Like if she thought I was ugly, or some other guy came. Atlease it’s some shit I can charge to the game. She just liked me more than she initially expected and me not being there caused some pain. Imma have to agree with you though, it’s fucked up she didn’t even let me explain my rationale. She acted like 13. She’s 26 btw.
/r/seduction05/10/22 10:31 PM
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Yea because every man in the world has this urge to sow wild oats right ? I can tell your American by how ignorant this post is. Many cultures and religions across the world literally don’t promote and even go against promiscuity in both men and women. Also, aromantics and demisexuals exist. Also people who are agnostic but believe there is a psychological detriment to hooking up exist. Also some of these people are way more attractive than you and still feel no need to fuck the sub 5s that you …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 08:16 PM
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Lol experienced
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 12:54 AM
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Honestly, if I found any essence of being a bb, I’ll just cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 12:09 AM
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Niether do I. They say sex is just sex outside of a relationship. Yet a relationship starts with verbal agreement. Imagine that. Some words and all of a sudden sex has a deeper meaning to these people
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 11:49 AM
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Anger issues. Had to learn shit the hard way. Most men know which women to avoid instinctively or at a young age through a dads word. Most bitter men didn’t understand the dating strategies of women until later in life. They usually took things as face value and rebel when they realize the nature of women to be different than what they expected. I fell in this category until 26z
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 02:07 AM
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No fantasy. Why would I lie on an anonymous site. For strangers to validate me ? You’d be humbly surprised of which guys care about body count. A lot of us don’t look like incels. We just don’t outright tell women that’s why we don’t take them serious. Ever seen a guy hook up with an attractive woman but never make a relationship with her ? Take a guess why that could be. Usually unattractive incels would take promiscuous women. They have no choice if they want to guarantee sex for a long term. …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 01:53 AM
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You paint this image that men who care are losers and unattractive incels. Swear down I broke two relationships off with women in part due to their past. Both very very pretty btw. they don’t even know this was the reason. One suspects and I feel bad for her. But in general I play along and feign interest for a relationship while I damn well know I’m dipping for the promiscuous lifestyle eventually when I find better.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 01:14 AM
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Damn you ain’t lying
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 11:20 PM
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Simple. Some men wouldn’t want to date her if they find out. Of this group there are low value men and high value men. Women will shame this demographic to believe all are low value and insecure. Which is obviously not true. Trust me in certain cultures and practices across the world some men who are highly sought after wanted less promiscuous women. Also, just for fun. Saying all men who don’t care are high value is a joke as well. My fatass edm festival bro will take anything he can get. It wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 10:29 PM
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What age ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 10:28 PM
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Saw many post where women educated men on attractiveness being important to them As well. Since women are finally able to provide for themselves and are not dependent on men for resources anymore, they value looks a lot more compared to previous generations. Now when some bozo says he values looks, he gets called out as shallow lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 10:11 PM
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I just respectfully disagree. Do I ask women ? No. Do I care ? Yes, if it’s too much for me it’s too much for me. I’m not insecure either. How is it insecure ? I’m literally showing I’m confident in myself to find a woman that I believe aligns with me better. You are way over your head to deem what is acceptable and what is not. Your criteria are YOUR criteria. I will never shame you for the criteria you have for a partner regardless of how absurd it is TO ME. Imagine telling someone that they s…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 08:12 PM
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Yes, it’s futile to argue without semantics. Based on what your saying I don’t even consider a woman with your history promiscuous. I live in a major state in a major city which is known for faster lifestyles. The women I have dealt with compared to the average American woman is skewed. Im talking about 50^ n count .threesomes. Sex after an hour of meeting someone. Public nudity. Sex indiscriminate of the man having a girlfriend or partner. (If your bc is high best believe some men you hooked up…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 08:08 PM
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No it’s not convincing enough. I didn’t live a promiscuous lifestyle. I was busy with school as an international student. My parents told me if I flunked engineering I’m done. I’m also not one of the individuals who lie to themselves and claim it’s because they were busy they couldn’t hook up. Every girl I dated assume my n count to be three times higher than it is. On summers, when I had free time, I was able to get sex from a decent amount of women rather quickly. However, it never appealed to…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 03:16 AM
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Because I don’t have low self esteem ? I believe I’m a catch so what ? People have this preoccupation with n count being equivalent to sexual desirability. It’s not. Even though I’m more sexually reserved, I and she can tell I have potential to sleep with many more women. I mean why else would a girl who gets handsome men to sleep with her chase me ? Obviously she thinks I’m handsome too ? Issue here isn’t convincing me she chose me. I KNOW she’s trying to choose me when she blows my phone up or…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 02:17 AM
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Right now yes, hook ups An LTR with the right woman will make me happy. I haven’t found a woman who I simultaneously respect and desire ,bar one girl who I let slip through. And it’s not a Madonna whore dichotomy I’m speaking on. For eg. I’m dating around right now. One girl is an attractive petite woman of the same age. I sexually desire her but she told me she is starting a job as a stripper on our second date. Nothing wrong with this. I just come from a traditional background and although I a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 01:49 AM
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It does make me happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 07:52 PM
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Lol I’m done today bro it was a good waste of time. Work is slow today. Enjoy your promiscous future wife
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 12:32 AM
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OP I have no issue with a woman who got it wrong 4/5 times. Promiscuous to me is 20 plus.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 12:14 AM
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Lol, women do lie about body counts. Good thing I get the truth elsewhere. I’ve always without fail found out the body count in the ball park area atlease. When you like shallow experiences with a lot of people, you tend not to manage those relationships properly. If you want to know about a girls history, go to one of her “former” friends who is unattractive and will speak if you approach her in a charming way. A former overweight friend would be happy to spill. I literally had 4 former friends…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 12:13 AM
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Make what crap up ? Also, as much as we love our mothers we can never understand the relationship dynamic between her and our father. It’s a whole different ball game. I still love my mom even though she and my dad got divorced. I’m sure his opinion on her is vastly different to mine. Nothing I said is incoherent. We as humans share one finite resource which is time. Low quality people spend it chasing fleeting things. Promiscuous women are usually dependent. They need something. That’s why they…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 11:55 PM
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Double dipping. You claim insecure. I’m more narcissistic than anything tbh. See, every relationship is bound to this : How does this person make me feel. Women like height because they feel protected. Men like beautiful women because they feel like they won something. Every relationship that has broken down has the some song being sung. “I or they didn’t feel the same anymore” Now, with this promiscuous woman. I could never value a relationship with this person. How the fuck are you going to co…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 11:48 PM
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What a cope. A relationship for some people entails different things which are used as pillars. There is a difference from a girl I go to class and help with homework and my girlfriend. Usually sex is a component people use as glue to a relationship. Women who slept with a lot of men do not do this. Sex to them is a transactional thing. Could be to get an itch off or for validation or money or a fun night out. You can have consistent sex a women like this for weeks and she does not feel any type…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 11:30 PM
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What ? Are you ran trough ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 06:37 AM
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I’m a guy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 03:49 AM
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So you’re saying casual sex is immature ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 12:16 AM
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8
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 01:51 AM
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Florida, Tampa Dallas , tx
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 01:49 AM
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Good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:23 AM
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Spot on
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 02:21 AM
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Dating down in terms of maybe intellect or aptitude in varying fields People don’t realize that millionaires rarely become that way by accident. They usually are very competent people. Competent in knowing what skills are needed to make money and how to use them. Most people who are wealthy and became that way are above average in some skill or highly intellectual. Also adept in interpersonal skills to make links (network is net worth) And have a great understanding of personal finance. I’m sayi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 02:17 AM
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With. My bad
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 12:30 AM
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Lol. What ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 12:13 AM
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I would. I’m not 30 but If I wanted kids and a family I need like 3-6 years of space to get to know the girl. You’d be 36 by then. If I was a succesful 30 year old man I’d look at 24-27 so when we’re together 3 years she could have less complications at birth.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 12:11 AM
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Couple but not literally. Let’s say 10
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 12:04 AM
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Yea,no. What about environment ? I travel for work. I’m in stem and I work in isolated areas. On my time off I return to my home city. I definitely get more matches and interest in the city from a lot of women. Also, I went to an all boy high school before stem. Most women look at me and assume I’m a player and have crazy experience on them. If you’re good looking and in a desert you would not get shit
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 04:07 PM
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Hmm. You’re right. Never realized that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 09:28 AM
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What I’m saying is rejection isn’t hating You see : I don’t like you because X What is is : I don’t think you and I are a good match because of X
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 05:38 AM
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Actual constructive advice. You’ve made up your mind you don’t like promiscuous women. The reason for this post seems to come from desiring confirmation on the stance you have taken. Unfortunately, this is not possible. You are literally disqualifying a demographic and expecting a unanimous support. Not going to happen. If a girl says she only dates men 6’2 and over to a group of average men because she sees shorter men as less capable of protecting her, you would expect the short men to retort.…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 07:46 AM
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O nah nah, this mf is his own person. I was just giving my own example with the colours 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:51 AM
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Fuck is an alt
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:47 AM
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I didn’t type this comment at all.Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:47 AM
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Nice Straw, Man ! He didn’t say having sex is gross. He said sex with multiple partners without commitment is gross. Does not lower a woman’s value as a person but as a candidate for a relationship with him. He probably agrees with you that men sleeping around is also degenerate but didn’t type that since he is a straight male and issues regarding dating would revolve around women. Just because I say my favorite colour is purple means I hate yellow and green. I just didn’t say anything about the…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:44 AM
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Das actually a nice word you used. We are bounded by limited vocabulary when expressing analogies. O smart one ,what else can you compare a human to besides another animal or object ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:35 AM
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It’s not misogynistic. If it is then having any preference is
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:22 AM
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Perfectly said. The cheating one was succinctly put. Also, these women are usually not interesting. A lot of time spent on giving energy to people but never on themselves. Don’t have to ask usually about the n count. Usually no 5 year plan. Unstable career/free styling. Coping with medication (partying drugs weed) Are traits you can’t hide. Not saying all high n woman are like this. I’m saying that a girl who has goals worth a shit doesn’t have time to put as much energy in fucking everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 05:24 AM
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Dating life changed at 26. Was never ugly just didn’t had access to women since I was in stem. Also, confidence grew and I was able to read cues and take initiative more.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 08:41 AM
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No you imp. I’m saying that some people can learn that a promiscuous phase doesn’t serve them and skip it. You couldn’t tho. You could only see what’s in-front of you. It’s ok. You’re common.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 10:51 PM
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And you seem like a sweet person. I would like to add a little something. The effects of the high body count is sometimes present for me. I no longer need to ask the number. I can tell a woman who lived a life of pleasure and not one chasing fulfillment. I know this is anonymous and people lie so you can doubt this. I myself find myself having a lot of options recently. I trained my body a lot and I made headway into my career as an engineer. I would not take credit fully as I was educated on se…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 10:00 PM
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Good sex and very hot sex seems to be different. Also super hot person indicates shallow priorities. Stay in denial
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 09:47 PM
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A change in mates doesn’t indicate growing up. I refrain from insults. Take an 18 year old who has the mindset that relationships should be about EQ, communication and value compatibility and not about looks or height. She views men as long term candidates. At 27 she break up with her long time boyfriend and decides to sleep around. Did she go from Mature to immature by your logic ? Is sleeping around with hot guys a reductive perspective ? You see, people like you live life by the book and by t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 09:42 PM
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Yes I’m against lying in general. I don’t like people who “change” perspectives that drastically either. While change can demonstrate growth it can also indicate a flimsy or fickle follower mindset. The whole notion that people grow and evolve through experience is one that I personally take issue with. While it is true, there also exist a demographic that learns through observing and being objective. They don’t participate but analyze the mistakes of their peers. For me it is a reflection of a …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 09:33 PM
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Men don’t hate promiscuous women. Men hate when promiscuous women lie and manipulate them to get a relationship from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 06:18 PM
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Afbb proof
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 06:16 PM
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Ok. Despite his incel rhetoric. He could still be having sex. Which would not make him involuntary celibate.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 02:45 PM
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How is he incel speaking ? He doesn’t like people who lived a different life ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 10:18 PM
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That’s why they struggle. Low value women aren’t ugly. Same as low value men. They just fail to see why the other sex don’t want them and refuse to change. Ego
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 06:48 PM
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Don’t listen to these idiots. It’s how we are made. Two phases to a relationship Phase 1 is pre sex. The woman is in control here. She determines who gets sex and who doesn’t. Women have what men want here and if smart enough will use this as leverage to get what they desire. Phase 2. After sex or consistent sex the man is in control. The woman usually now wants some kind of commitment to ensure she can emotionally depend on you in some degree until she feels comfortable . This is where men are …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 03:31 PM
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Tell him and put this to test. You won’t tho
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 12:57 AM
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I also feel pity. I feel because if they stuck around they would reap benefits that they wanted
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 12:38 AM
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Cool I never said I’ll lock on to you. And women that like bisexual men tend to like me. Could be that I have a nose piercing once idk
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 12:48 AM
1

Or you could be sent to a place with no women for work. Environment is a huge factor for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 12:47 AM
1

You should hit me up then
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 12:44 AM
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To be more clearer. Some men after being exposed to red pill do change the way they see women but are not vocal about it. In fact some women wouldn’t be able to perceive this change. Pre red pill a man would put his woman on his level of priority. She would be his second half. She would come before money and basically everything else. NOW, post red pill, men view woman as a commodity. Like a pet almost. Replaceable and predictable. You sort life out and get a woman and just do what’s necessary t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 05:15 PM
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If I don’t inquire it’s probably because I have no interest in making you my girlfriend. Also, if a girl owns her past and tells me as it is I think I would be more lenient. She is basically communicating she has value otherwise and is ok with me dropping her or not. She is who she is/was and she wants an honest bond. Liars, are a no no. It shows you are not a strong willed person. You wanted commitment to your Prince Charming in the future yet actively did things in your youth which may limit s…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 05:05 PM
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Honestly there are a lot of men who have red pill ideologies that don’t participate in any rp group related setting. Like I watch this male YouTuber who makes videos on books, dieting, nootropics and hobbies. Never any video geared towards bashing women. But you can tell and he even admitted he was exposed to the redpill. Instead of getting bitter and crying in a Reddit group most men just accept women have a propensity to have certain behaviors and then decide they will prioritize other things …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 03:31 PM
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They will deflect that the deflect things even on reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 03:43 PM
2

Yea, people like you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 01:43 PM
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Yes. But there is more context to add. Some men don’t like the options they have and it’s because they can’t get better due to their looks and status as you said. But these girls they want are around them. These girls just don’t want them. Or some people don’t like the options they have because the environment doesn’t even have options they would even want. One is like a guy liking above average women in a university campus but can’t get what he likes. While one is liking white women solely and …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 01:49 AM
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And my friend who’s n count is 21 cares. I care and I’m successful with women. Countless men care who also have high n. You’re also generalizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 01:45 AM
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My point is that it’s not as isolated as you think. I’m not chris hemsworth or on an island. Yet my dating life as well as thousands of people who travel for work and are attractive are sub par. Enough to not make generalizations such as either someone’s unattractive or broke. I understand looks and status are important. People should take into account ENVIRONMENT as well. I went to LA on my week off which is considered a shallow place and my phone had 12 matches a day and I rarely swipe. Beauti…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 06:55 PM
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You can be succesful and attractive and still be dry. Last summer in college I slept with 6 women from a friend group of like 12. And the others were attracted to me but not me to them. I however am an engineer and travel to isolated places for work and that opportunity to be around women is moot.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 03:52 AM
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Yea but the question was “what originally attracted ...” How do we gauge someone’s safety based on appearance ? I’m from a different culture. Half of the issues I see here in the US ( I live here now) seems to stem from dual mating strategies of both genders. Compartmentalizing lovers and providers and “settling down” by a certain age breeds this fuckery. It’s assumed in my country when a girl chooses you, you’re both automatically a lover and provider as sleeping around is associated with lower…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 05:22 AM
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I don’t pay attention to them so I can’t say I respect or admire them. They usually get a few milliseconds of attention by coincidence
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 07:08 PM
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What ? I have had experiences women. More relationship based. But I’ve done almost everything LDR LTR, hookup etc
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 10:18 PM
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Hopefully I can meet a likeminded woman like you then. You gave me hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 03:44 PM
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Lol, I chose numbers over letters for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 10:03 PM
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Let’s see Paul Allen’s comment
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 10:02 PM
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Congrats on balancing both engineering and sports. You’re a hell of a person. Respect
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 09:59 PM
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Well, in my experience which is anecdotal and not being used to make a generalization, an attractive young woman usually is in a mode where she’s presently reaping. She’s flooded by what ever she wants. I have no issues with that. I myself find success as well but I know I got here due to sacrificing things. I left a lot behind me. I personally feel an imbalance with girls I date. For eg. A girl will like my body yet get mad I go to the gym. Get mad I don’t want to drink or eat out every other d…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 09:56 PM
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Actually I have a huge interest In ju jitsu. And through my research those women look like the archetype I like. More self sufficient without the male validation. I’m unable to join groups because of my travel job. I’m sent to sites 3 weeks then 1 week rest at my residence. I will make an effort to join a group nearby. This and salsa classes (I can’t dance) are on my radar. I’m more of the fighting type so I’ll pick the latter. And yes you’re right. Other women dislike women who have their shit …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 09:46 PM
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Because people are fragile. They claim “love yourself”. But don’t love yourself too much because it will make me feel like less and you have NPD
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 05:19 PM
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I would like an ambitious woman. Doesn’t have to make as much as me. Just one that goes outs and tries her best.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 03:15 AM
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Yes. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 03:10 AM
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This commenter is the typical jealous hater. Can’t open up to these people as they feel threatened and accuse you of embellishment. Thank you for defending me. What the fuck is so unbelievable about knowing I’m attractive. I came to that conclusion by the women I attract. They are women who usually have big followings and are fit and usually go for men who they deem high quality. They are women who a sought after universally. They stereotypical attractive woman with thousands of followers guys c…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 01:29 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 01:23 AM
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Because I’ve had three relationships I’ve walked away from in a row. I hold myself accountable or Atlease try too. I’m not going to throw people under the bus and say my ex was xyz. Instead it’s two possibilities. I have attachment issues. Avoidant Or I seek relationships subconsciously I know wouldnt work. I don’t want to do it again. I don’t want to get carried away with a girl I think is beautiful. Get attached because of sex and then feel like shit when I feel like we are too different. We s…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 12:48 AM
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I was searching in the wrong places.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 12:42 AM
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Thank you so much. I’m sorry if my post came as a humble brag. It’s just I’m desperate for help with my situation. Most men seem to complain about attracting women in general. That’s not my issue. When I tell them this they accuse me of being arrogant or having NPD. It’s the truth. It’s true that I’m reclusive and I just wish I can bond better with partners. It’s like I don’t want to settle for less but I don’t know if my standards are high. There was this one girl that got away from me. She tic…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 12:40 AM
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Thank you. Helped a lot. You’re right. I never came to terms with my looks. Growing up I shyed away from people. I can’t even take good attention properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 12:30 AM
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Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 12:24 AM
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I’ve found relationships. I’ve broken up after a few weeks. Repeatedly. And the cycle is what bothers me. I have no issues finding beautiful women. I have issues finding someone with my values ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 12:23 AM
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Also, I want to say that my post was out of frustration. Some comments accuse me of having NPD. It’s very upsetting because communicating my issues in real life to my friends also prompt negative responses as my issues seem minor to them. They believe that I have no right to complain. Also, to those claiming I have NPD, what is so grandiose about a good body and a good career. That’s not uncommon. If it is uncomfortable for me to acknowledge my position [which I use external objective markers to…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 12:21 AM
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Why would I lie about being an engineer. If I was seeking to embellish careers I could think of atlease 12 other better options
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 12:16 AM
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Hello everyone. I didn’t mean to humble brag. I grew up isolated and still to this day I’m stunned when girls come up to me. It’s not something I take credit for as intelligence, physical features are not chosen but given. I do have my faults and handicaps. Not saying to even myself out, but I am detached from reality, disillusioned and sometimes hard to deal with. I’m in my own world and sometimes I don’t give people attention. I’m currently working on myself and being the best I can be. Thank …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 12:14 AM
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Did you find a women you were happy with In the end. I’m in the same boat.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 10:35 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 10:33 PM
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What a victim this comment poster is. BPD people are abusive in their nature. Never again.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 06:22 PM
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This is my type too. I like to think they take more out of me, which I like.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 08:14 AM
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Yea. The women I am attracted to physically usually don’t have the traits I want to settle down with. Rare women do tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 12:09 AM
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The last two words of your whole useless essay. “To me”. There is no understanding of why people have inclinations to appreciate different things. Try to explain why some people’s favorite colour is blue and others is red. They will spew a bunch of useless subjective things. In the end some people appreciate things others don’t. Some people like people with more standards for sex. No insecurity needs to be involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 11:53 PM
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Nah. Lies don’t have sizes. No big or small. In fact if you can lie about a “small thing” which you claim to be irrelevant then obviously you have more incentive to lie about something you view as big and crucial.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 11:41 PM
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Cause basically at that point you outed a liar. You found someone comfortable lying to you and continuing for time. Idk bout you but honesty is like the engine of a relationship. A Ferrari with no engine is worth nothing to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 09:26 PM
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Being honest. We can tell. It’s not because of the high n girls behavior alone but it’s comparing her to a low n count girl. Typically a low n woman would volunteer she’s low n. Also low n might have a lot more barriers to cross before sex. If I meet a girl at the club and in 3 hours my finger is in her cervix I know that she’s not low n.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 11:09 PM
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I’m you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 10:43 PM
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O you’re not with her ? Good. We sound similar. I am adept at influencing just about anyone. I find myself in areas I am not even competent to be in. I’m also an engineer striving to go into sales engineering to put my persuasive skills to use. Yes, women like this are done. People think you can fall in love an infinite amount of times. You can’t. How can someone fall in love deeply with 200 separate men during a lifetime? They can’t. The ‘love’ or special binder we call love diminishes after a …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 04:10 AM
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Women and accountability don’t mix well
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 04:04 AM
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You allowed that tho. You literally selected her as a mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 05:43 PM
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No.
/r/seduction27/04/22 04:24 AM
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Means that I can distinguish your gender on a anonymous site based solely on your emotional and idealistic views. Shame. Wish I could struggle and your species was more multidimensional but you follow the same monolithic thinking as your long haired pals. You probably are an activist and cry for causes like blm which states that you can have a specific experience based solely on skin colour. Yet if we tell you males and females are different and live different lives and have different expectatio…
/r/seduction27/04/22 01:03 AM
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Damn someone got it.
/r/seduction27/04/22 12:47 AM
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Bro. She sounds dirty as fuck. And if she confident doing that with you it’s not the first time she tried to put a strangers d in her. I know this is seduction and y’all like to get women. But this is bottom of barrel women and you might get a gift you can’t get rid of. You do you tho
/r/seduction26/04/22 09:12 PM
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Female spotted
/r/seduction25/04/22 08:12 AM
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Some of these are such generalizations below. I’m a systems engineer. Mechanical graduate and I can talk people to sleep with philosphy and psychology as well. I do have a good position and career path and I also train in the gym. I would love to start some form of combat sport. The notion that warrior type men are less intellectually competent is such bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 12:39 AM
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What age ? I’ve had experience. A lot. My peers I. Engineering didnt. They are good men ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 05:42 PM
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Buddhist ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 04:38 AM
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It’s not attracting women is an issue. That’s easy for me. Attracting women with sound relationships skills and purity who I am attracted to is hard
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 04:35 PM
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Should of said “accept” instead of “prefer”. I agree with you. Men usually prefer lower body counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 06:15 PM
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Not all people value getting laid by randoms
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 04:04 AM
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People prefer partners with counts within range of themselves. It’s with anything. For eg. You might deem someone chubby while I may not. This is due to adjectives always being used relative to what the perceiver deems normal or average. A high body count varies for each individual and a even a low one depending on what information they have in their immediate environment. Preface aside, I think I expect a body count of 1-10 as normal or average. But through my experience I think the women who s…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 03:55 AM
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Because people like relating to partners. Sexual history is no different. A man who views sex as something spiritual or sacred will not bode well with someone who thinks it’s a fun activity.Nice flimsy straw man with the claim people want virgins as a response to not wanting promiscuous partners. There is a whole lot of space between virgin and having a high body count. Also no one is controlling women. Men don’t care that women are having multiple partners.They are free to. However in commitmen…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 06:46 AM
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Date younger ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 01:43 AM
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It’s just a preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 01:40 AM
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Yuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 01:41 AM
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Interesting. I kinda had this happen to me. The woman seemed super interested almost to her own dismay. She word for word said “im better than her”. She was expecting a hookup and I guess I showed her some of my personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 01:39 AM
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Damn. You actually check mated
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 05:18 AM
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Last three relationships body count was She said 25. (Friends told me it was actually around 50/60) includes ons,threesomes and skinny dipping in public pool. 23 year old. 21 year old. 16 partners 27 year old. I didn’t even ask the body count. I never do. She just randomly said she’s a grown woman and obviously she fucks. She’s been single for years and she brought me home from the club and we fooled around so she’s not the most modest. I don’t know where these 6-7 women are, but anecdotal exper…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 01:10 AM
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The thing is promiscuous women live in echo chambers. We all do as humans. But typically if you want to know if your SO is promiscuous just take a look at her closest friends.These people reinforce they “normalcy”.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 04:48 AM
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Good point
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 04:47 AM
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We must be living the same life
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 06:46 PM
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Yea, cause your number is high. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 09:19 PM
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This
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 05:51 AM
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Shit happened to me. She apparently has a boyfriend tho
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 04:13 AM
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This
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 01:51 AM
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I’m with you brother. What’s for everyone is not for me. I’m not a people’s person. I don’t brigade on social issues. I care about me and my immediate circle. I refuse to accept something that has so many extended pieces into my tight knit nest.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 08:27 PM
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You’re linking attractiveness and n count. While neglecting the fact he could be In a relationship long term. He could be shy and grew out of it. He could have spiritual beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 08:12 PM
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8 billion lmao. You sound dense. What country is she in usa ? - 7.8 billion. What state - a few millions. How much are men vs women ? Divide by 2. How much in her age range? Subtract. You get that our options are typically usually only the people around us right ? Which is our places we venture class work and activities and the club. It’s like so little. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 10:19 PM
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You would never get it. You’re not a man. Listen, we cannot control what attract or repels us. I can tell you that love is the most sought after thing in this world for most people. If someone is willing to sacrifice love because of a distaste of someone’s sexual history then you can imagine the feelings of disdain being quite strong. Also it’s logical to assume its biological origin due to its wide spread across many cultures which are separate. The idea of the man being insecure or jelous can …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 10:15 PM
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