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| 2 | Divorce exhibit, strategyI just completed my prenuptial agreement and went back and forth with ChatGPT and GROK, they often give slightly different advice. It takes some time but it worked. My attorney who I hired to rubber stamp the agreement told me the agreement was solid and no different than what a high dollar firm would present. It is true that AI does fumble occasionally with page numbers, section headings and might make changes to the language without you requesting. I spent a lot of time proofreading and feedin… | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/11/25 02:56 AM |
| 4 | Ex suddenly agreed to 50/50 after fighting it for a year — now bringing up “safety concerns” again. Should I be grateful for what I have or push for primary custody?Take the 50/50. If she’s a bad mother, you may end up spending more time with your children anyways, so she can do her thing. Why are you not paying attorney fees? She’s paying because she has all the money? | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/11/25 03:15 AM |
| 1 | Regretting leavingAbandonment means different things, depending on the state you live in. I’m in Florida and abandonment can effect alimony and custody but not property rights, since a no fault state. Others have mentioned this, so I thought I would chime in. We don’t know the full story between you and the wife. I’m thinking the issues go well beyond nagging and other b/s. You’ve been out of the house for 6 days and no outreach from the wife? Maybe this is a case of who blinks first or she’s done with the relati… | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/11/25 03:05 AM |
| 4 | Man I cratered the reboundI’m sure you will have a few more blow-up and I feel that is normal after a divorce. Make some mistakes and make some more then you get your feet under you. Good news is that you recognize your error. Tomorrow is another day and maybe you meet a terrific woman. That was super nice of your ex to share that b/s. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/10/25 12:20 AM |
| 3 | How are you meeting new women now?I was married for 20 years and divorced 3 years ago. Tried all the apps, rather most like Bumble, Tinder, Hinge, FB Dating. There are a few more and I don’t recall the names. The apps were a good distraction at the time and found FB Dating to be better than others. Also, I was faithful in marriage and I was not secure in my old skills with picking up women how I did when I was younger, before apps. I’m now engaged and met her on FB. I’m a throwback to the old days and wish I had met her elsewher… | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/09/25 03:49 PM |
| 1 | Feeling lonelyI was married for 20 years and now divorced for just over 3 years. She filed for divorce and the reason I reason received was that we are incompatible. Her explanation was this, “you do fun activities on the weekends while I (ex-wife) would prefer to sit at home”. She was a stay at home mom and she worshipped my son and vice versa. So, the most difficult part of the process for me is that I don’t have any contact whatsoever with my son, even to this day. He’s an adult now and I keep texting ever… | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/09/25 01:32 AM |
| 1 | Financial prep before divorceWay to lead OP astray! I’m assuming you’re being sarcastic. If you aren’t, then one can only assume you’ve never been through a divorce and if have then there weren’t assets to contest. OP, you can count on there being a thorough review of your assets and if her attorney is worth their salt, it will be completed by a forensic accountant. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/09/25 04:50 AM |
| 6 | Financial prep before divorceI’m sure there is a look-back period in Oregon, so any “protecting” would likely get snuffed out by the forensic accountant she will complete during the financial proctologist exam. I’m sure that everything is on the table, including her retirement benefits you mention. I’d be careful with negotiating with her. Regardless of what she agrees to today, once the attorney gets his hooks in, the gloves come off. Be extremely careful and watch your step now because everything you say and do right now … | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/09/25 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Prenuptial agreements in divorce?My ex-wife had me sign a prenuptial agreement. I was age 24 when we married and we lasted 20 years. My divorce attorney told me that we could push to invalidate the agreement because the attorney who reviewed the document so long ago wasn’t family law but a real estate attorney, meaning that the counsel I received wasn’t adequate. Additionally, I signed the document a couple of days prior to the wedding, leaning on coercion with this signing be close to the wedding. The document didn’t provide f… | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/09/25 03:33 AM |
| 1 | Prenuptial agreements in divorce?My ex-wife had me sign a prenuptial agreement. I was age 24 when we married and we lasted 20 years. My divorce attorney told me that we could push to invalidate the agreement because the attorney who reviewed the document so long ago wasn’t family law but a real estate attorney, meaning that the counsel I received wasn’t adequate. Additionally, I signed the document a couple of days prior to the wedding, leaning on coercion with this signing be close to the wedding. The document didn’t provide f… | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/09/25 03:33 AM |
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