GoldCanvas Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	How many months before giving up 100%. Beautifully said !	/r/Divorce_Men	18/02/26 08:51 AM
1	How many months before giving up Never begged. If you have the urge to, pack your bag, leave and never look back. Hire a lawyer and that’s it. Go where you are appreciated, leave where you are not. Immediately. Hang in there, you got this.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/02/26 08:50 AM
1	Just waiting for it to get bad Get out as fast as you can. Pack your shit and leave tonight. Never look back. Lawyer handles everything. Can’t afford one? Find assistance. Step up and take control of your life. Then move on. Simple as that.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/02/26 03:38 PM
1	How long did it take to stop thinking about/missing your Ex The time I left the house for the last time and slept with a new woman. For me, it was 24 hours. Been much better ever since!	/r/Divorce_Men	07/02/26 03:33 PM
4	How do you attract healed women? By first being healed yourself.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/02/26 03:31 PM
2	In an amicable divorce, how did you cut your emotional ties? Drop it completely. She’s gone, and has been for a long time before the divorce. Start a new emotional connection with someone. That’s it.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/02/26 03:30 PM
1	When did it feel right to start dating & having sex again? Right away.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/02/26 03:27 PM
1	Pro Se Thanks for sharing! Excellent advice, indeed we need to use everything at our disposal to help get through the monumental challenges. Keep strong Gents	/r/Divorce_Men	25/01/26 12:58 PM
1	(47). Not yet divorced. Correct.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/10/25 07:14 AM
1	(47). Not yet divorced. The most important part of what you wrote is the conclusion: don’t put up with it. Yes.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/10/25 07:14 AM
1	Broke and beat down dad Remove the stress off of your shoulders and place it on your lawyer’s. Let him/her take care of it and you focus on your life.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/07/25 06:54 AM
1	For average looking guys out there who successfully started dating again after divorce was finalized, what strategies worked for you? 👉🏻👌🏻	/r/Divorce_Men	18/01/25 08:30 PM
1	When did life get better? Don’t ever let it haunt you anymore. Otherwise it means she wins. Don’t give her that.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/01/25 10:38 PM
1	When did life get better? She won’t stop; have no emotional reaction to her bs and focus on yourself so you can be the best father you can be. That’s all that matters. Dont entertain bad behaviour, only pragmatic behaviour. If you can manage this, then your new better life starts right now ;)	/r/Divorce_Men	11/01/25 10:33 PM
2	Did you ever reconcile after the divorce? Done. Move on. Trust me. Focus on your life’s re-set and make it better than ever before.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/01/25 06:14 PM
7	Advice needed Ouch. Alright, then hire lawyer. File the necessary complaints. Divorce. Move on.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/07/24 11:55 AM
1	spouse manipulating children Thank you for sharing your story. And I think your advice is very relevant. Gents, listen to our buddy here - just divorce and get on with your life. You’ll also be better off for the kids who look for strength and security. Provide them that by being the better person. Ultimately the kids will become adults, you provide them with everything you documented over the years, let them make their mind, and you’re good.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/07/24 11:52 AM
1	The Divorce Template Spot on. Thanks for the meticulous summary. This should be taught in school :)	/r/Divorce_Men	13/07/24 11:42 AM